Hope this video help those who are in the dating field. Do you have other tips that aren't mentioned in the video? [EDITED] There is a typo in the video. Let see if you're paying attention to our video :P. Watch next 6 Green Flags on Dating You Should Know kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pdCqaMxl3q-XqKs.html

"Be careful who you start dating. A lot of people ain't looking for love, they're looking for help" - Johnny Bravo

My biggest advice: Find someone who you don't always feel pressured to entertain. If you're able to just chill in a quiet room with them, are able to do your own thing without the pressure of feeling like you HAVE to talk to them, then you guys are already a fairly good match. The reason I say this is because most people have a "recharge" phase, where you recover from being drained of energy. If you're still able to spend time with them DURING your "recharge" phase, you found a pretty compatible partner.

Step 0: Find a Date

There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

“Just because your date doesn’t like Star Wars as much as you, doesn’t mean they can’t be the perfect match” How many other lies have I been told by the council?

“I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is ending up with people who make you feel all alone.” -Robin Williams

My issue isn't bad dates, it's that I can't get any dates. I don't know how to meet people, and when it seems like I might be able to ask someone out, something happens that makes it not work. I thought I was picking up hints from someone then found out they have a boyfriend already. I asked someone else out and they said yes then got bronchitis then wasn't interested anymore. Things like that. And then some of my friends tease me for my lack of success, and that just hurts.

In the beginning I thought you were gonna say according to statistics only a small percentage of you are actually dating someone

“My grandmother once told me never fall in love with the ones who give you butterflies, because butterflies are a sign of uncertainty and you find your self asking, do they like me? Instead fall in love with someone who makes you feel safe, calm and warm, that’s who you fall in love with.”

A good friend once reminded me: Relationships aren't like movies, like, at all. They'll be many MANY moments where you are awkward, uneasy, embarrassed, or have said the complete wrong thing. Life isn't scripted - its impossible to have the perfect line all the time, and it happens to everyone. If you ever make a mistake in a relationship or do something you thought was stupid, don't worry, it happens to everyone, and to both sides of the relationship. Chances are in a few days you'll feel perfectly normal again. It will be hard to stop thinking about what happened, but with time you will stop caring. (This is coming from someone who just messed up a few days ago - and now I feel fine.) If your partner and you can move on from such occasions with ease, you know you're into the right person.

I'm watching this video in retrospect of my first foray into dating. My first girlfriend, as much as I loved and respect her, was someone who was very stuck in her own past and often refused to help herself. Pretty much every conversation we had eventually became her chance to shittalk her exes and people in her family, and I often had to deal with her complaining about her stalkers and refusing to do anything about them. She dug her own holes and then got upset that she forgot a ladder. We were also MUCH too similar, to the point where a lot of the time she knew way more about my interests than I did. Our conversatioms were fun, yes, but I rarely ended up learning anything new. Because of her past problems, she was very afraid of intimacy. She would always talk about doing things with me, but when we went out together, she shied away from physical contact, which is my love language. I understood why she was like this (I was apparently the first person she dated who wasn't a piece of shit) but I still couldn't help but feel like I was doing something wrong. I have autism, so I struggle with communication, but I tried to make my intentions as clear as possible and yet it never seemed to change much. She would always hold me at arm's reach. I walked her home every other day but even then, she'd leave me at a street corner and never let me come over or even know where she lived. We were together for 6 months. We broke up a couple of months ago. Every time I would mention my issues with her, she would deflect them back onto me and say I simply wasn't trying hard enough. She had a friend in her ear lying about me and trying to convince her that I wasn't worth it, and that, combined with the fact that I get sick and sleep a lot, led to her distrusting me way more than she had any reason to. We both decided that it was our best option to separate but remain friends, and to this day we're still close pals. She claims to still be obsessed with me and wants me to try again because she knows better now, but nothing could repair the fact that I simply just didn't feel that way anymore. I've been talking to another girl, someone who I feel matches the energy that I need to balance out my own. Not someone identical to me, someone who I can still learn more from, but not someone so far detached from my interests. I'm a fairly shy, submissive guy, so in order to balance that out, I'm in need of a more confident woman, and I feel like I've found one this time around. If anyone sees this, please wish me luck, and thank you for reading. Have a great day, whereever you are.

The problem with me is: I don't get to know many people, because I study Pharmacy, so I have very little time for... getting to know people on a deeper level :( I have lost my confidence and "game", and I honestly don't feel like going through all the trouble to find someone that can be interested in me. I also just feel like no girl notice me. I have honestly started giving up when it comes to love but I really wish I could just accidentally find that one person who will like me back the way I like them :(

The best advice my ma gave me is “don’t take away someone else’s right to choose” meaning if you find flaws in yourself don’t hide those flaws, let the other person decide if they can live with those flaws or not.

I wish people were this transparent when it comes to dating but everyone has games to play

I think you can simultaneously love yourself and feel alone alone. Some of the comments make it seem it's either one or the other; You either love yourself and are content or don't and feel miserable. I love my company but am at an age where I love to share things with someone else, and being alone does not allow me to do that. You can also simultaneously grow and better yourself with somebody else. It is all very individual, really.

My problem doesn't lie with finding the perfect person, I'm just trying to find A person.

This video will only work if you meet someone finally doesn’t ghost you

Best dating advice: Throw away your list of what you're looking for and focus on being who you should be. Yes, I found the love of my life that way, we spent 20 years together before she passed. Now I'm focused on being the right man, should a 2nd right woman ever come along.... and if she doesn't, at least I'll be becoming the best version of myself.

Step 1: get a date

A lot of these tips can also be applied to making normal friendships as well. My tip, not that I feel qualified to give one, is to not overthink it. This can be hard, but feeling loose during social interactions will make things go better. Like stretching before a run.

"Do you just wish you could find your perfect someone without all the complications of dating? Well, good luck with that." *ROLL CREDITS*

Another advice: Don't go in a romantic relationship if you only feel pity, guilt and sympathy to a person. *NEVER*

Don't get your hopes up high, I know I'll die alone. I cannot change what's been written in stone, so I must embrace it.

I love how most of this all of this boils down to just being a good person not being half hearted or also being open to communication.

1. Respect 2. Allow intimacy to progress naturally 3. Don't limit yourself to one type 4. Communication is Key 5. Focus on who you are now 6. Don't alter who you are 7. Don't control the conversation 8. Be with someone for the right reasons

I clicked on this then realized I was getting ahead of myself; this is for people IN the dating world, not sad idiots who have literally never gotten into it even once...

I broke up with my first love a few months ago, and I made almost every mistake in this video. I rushed and didn't let intimacy to progress naturally, I controlled our conversations with all kinds of story without asking about her feelings. I tried to get back with her, and she also tried, but we just can't. I was still a child in love, while she wanted a more "mature" relationship. I has been holding on a tiny hope, but I supposed I have to stop, because she seems giving up. To her : Thank you for being my first love. From the bottom of my heart, I hope you'll find a better man and live happily

I am so stressed about my first daateee, i'm really scred she will not like me even tho I know that it may take time i want to take things slowly but at the same time i just wanna scream how amaizing she is... wish me luck guys and thnk you Psych2Go for the advices💖

"Just because your date doesn't like Star Wars as much as you doesn't mean they cant be the perfect match" *It's treason then*

That one friend who gives S-tier relationship advice and still is single

Why do they always give advice for _after_ you've gotten the date ??? The earlier steps are infinitely harder.

I had a car accident in 2004 and I'm forced to use a wheelchair. I'm normal, I can't just move my legs. Now I'm 21 years old and I've never had a girlfriend or a kiss. I've never cuddled either. It just hurts.

And always remember, my girlfriend taught me this one, you don’t have to be perfect to be perfect for someone.

Me being single since birth be like: * *takes note of this seriously* *

I don't really get the advices in the style of "stop searching, it will happen naturally". Like, how is it supposed to happen naturally? I work from home, I go out to walk the dog in the nearby forest and to do grocery shopping. The only person I see regularly outside of family is my martial arts coach. I will never meet anyone at home or in the woods and girls at a kickboxing gym are rare and interested in training, not flirting (which is perfectly understandable). My point is, unless I make conscious effort in trying to meet somebody new, it will never happen on its own.

The most frustrating things are (to me) is the women that that I am NOT interested in are the ones that will want me and they make it very clear and the women that I do want, I don't make an effort because of uncertainty. Those women will not let it been known that they are interested so unfortunately it is a lose lose situation

This video is way too advanced for me. Can we start this course with “Talking to the opposite sex for idiots” please.

Just remember to not be addicted to having a bf/gf. You also have to be comfortable being with yourself Edit: who said any of you had to be in a relationship one day or another?

Me who hasn't been in a relationship yet: "why am I even watching this if I haven't been on a singular date..💀💀💀"

There was a lot in this video that I needed covering, and I even did some personal peptalk. Finding the one is very special and is a lifelong experience with another person, which makes it all the more special to have two viewpoints through your journey. Very great videos I subscribed.

I'm not interested in being in a relationship but I'm still watching this.

"I'm worried you don't like my food." "Yea, ur food taste like shit, just being honest." Hey guys now I'm single.

I've been working really hard on my school work and other responsibilities so that I can be able to have enough time for some soul searching, so as soon as I'm done catching up with all this work and internship stuff I'm going to try to find the one. Thank you very much for this video and I hope you have a good day.

I've been single for 12 years before I met my partner - for all these years I just never met a man who showed interest in anything other then a physical relationship. Or that's what it seemed to me. At some point I noticed that my conversational skills were kind of one sided. So I started reading books about small talk, actively listening to people and leading a conversation. I met my partner a few months later in a discotheque when he invited me for a drink. At that point I had already spent several months training talking to complete strangers so I started talking even though he fell through several of my partner-criteria including age difference and educational background. However I agreed to a date - and another and another and another being immensely impressed by his patience and determination. We’ve been a couple for a long time now and I only found out very recently that prior to our first meeting he also read advice books on dating and women. Long story short: look for advice, read books, improve yourself. And most of all: show real interest in other people.

“Just because your date doesn’t like Star Wars as much as you, doesn’t mean they’re not the perfect match” YOU WERE LIKE A BROTHER TO ME, PHYCH2GO, I LOVED YOU

"While some of us think our perfect partner will meet our criteria..." My criteria: -Be a woman -Be human (Optional) -Have the capacity of thinking -Dont want to kill me(Optional)

I'll never meet someone

How am i supposed to do any of these steps without first having found someone. Misleading title and thumbnail. Dislike

One thing I always tell myself is: "I wanna be in a relationship to share my happiness, not to gain my happiness." And I think it's an good healthy way of wanting to go into a relationship. (When I meet someone atleast, haha) Just thought maybe someone needed to hear this sentence.

Although it’s true that the advice of “Be Yourself” is a bit overused, it’s true. Although a person CAN get into a relationship by pretending to be someone they’re not, any relationship formed this way is likely to be unhealthy. On the other side, it’s okay to want to impress someone, but it’s best to do it by being the best version of yourself, instead of someone else. Thanks for reading, and please take care of yourself. ❤️

I've been a fan of your channel for a while now, and I always appreciate the quality of your content. You do a great job of explaining complex psychological concepts in a way that is both engaging and informative.

I’m in 8th grade, it’s around the end of the year and this boy that I started to like, liked me back. I’m so scared of the dating realm since I’m so young, but I’ve always wanted this and I’m really happy KZfaq is such a reliable source.

"Just because your date doesn't like Star wars as much as you, doesn't mean that you can't be the perfect match" *Sorry, but you can't UNconvince me that "hello there" is a pick up line*

What I don't like is that these KZfaq channels say "hey you don't have a girlfriend because you need to change yourself, work hard, being charismatic etc". But I don't understand why women don't need to work hard to have a boyfriend, they don't need to become slim, go to the gym, being charismatic, have long or short hair, being smart, dress on a certain way etc. They just have to be what they are, without radical changes. That's injustice!!!

I've always thougth that any relationship, doesn't matter if it is romantic or friendship, needs mutual respect

Perfect dating advice: DON'T try to look for a relationship on purpose. Edit: Pay attention to the wording, people. I typed "relationship", not "love". There is just that notion that you must get a gf/bf and that it's a catastrophy if you haven't, even if you don't love them. In fact if you do that - you WILL miss your love. That's what I meant by not looking for a relationship on purpose. Instead of this, you should be on a mild lookout: pay attention to your acquaintances, there might be someone special among them, someone you'd spend your whole life around. If you found that person, start hanging out with them, you will grow closer, and this is when and how you become a pair. And even if there is no such person yet, they will appear as you meet new people. You just have to uphold your standards. That or... you can just keep rolling the dice in the dating apps and hope for the best.

Only Dating Advice You’ll Ever Need: 1. The most important thing? Respect 0:41 2. Allow intimacy to progress naturally 1:08 3. Don’t limit yourself to one type 1:42 4. Communication is key 2:15 5. Focus on who you are now 2:46 6. Don’t alter who you are 3:11 7. Don’t control the conversation 3:43 8. Be with someone for the right reasons 4:08 I hope that I, a time traveler, could help! ❤️

Thanks for not giving obvious answers these actually really help thanks :)

I feel the hardest thing is to find the dates in the first place. Can't really work out if the chance is already 0 %

Something i have learned from a friend's relationship and watching it unfold: You cannot fix a problem a person has with themselves,they have to do it. You can help along the way, but they need to do the work themselves. You are not their therapist, you can be there for them in good and bad times, but sometimes professional help is needed and it's fine for you to say that you can't really help with the actual solution.

Part of me wants to offer my heart to someone wholeheartedly but there's also a part of me who doesn't want to trust people and has no confidence when it comes to dating

i already know all this shit, seems obvious to me, the hardest thing for me so far is getting someone to give me a chance in the first place

Not limiting to one type could be risky. i put my standards quite high because of how many times i ended up with someone i wasn't compatible with.

I need to say this: DO NOT, and I repeat DO NOT accept to be in a relationship with someone that doesn't really interests you just because you felt it was cute for someone to ask you. It might work, but at least ask them to try knowing each other more. I can not tell you the amount of times a girl asked me out and I felt it was so cute i said yes, just for me to realize I'm not invested in this relation and I now have to break it to them

1. The most important thing? Respect 0:47 2. Allow intimacy to progress naturally 1:11 3. Don't limit yourself to one type 1:41 4. Communication is key 2:16 5. Focus on who you are now 2:48 6. Don't alter who you are 3:12 7. Don't control the conversation 3:46 8. Be with someone for the right reasons 4:09

Im naturally chaotic introvert with ADHD and depression so its kinda impossible to find a mate that can accept me as i am, at the beginning everything goes fine but after awhile,their expectations are too much for me even when i have told already what kind of person i am

I really like the advice regarding letting intimacy grow naturally and not revealing too much early on

"Are you lost in the dating world?" Me with extreme social anxiety: *How the hell do I get in the first place.*

0:01 Note: asking someone to subscribe in the beginning isn't the best dating strategy.

Alright, so what's the advice for someone who can't even *get* a date? No matches, no approaches, just rejection after rejection.

This is all excellent advice, but how do you get that first date in the first place?

"Just because your partner doesn't like star wars as much as you do, doesn't mean you can't connect." BLASPHEMEY

I fell in love with my partner starting off as friends. I think when you are close with someone before becoming romantic it makes things even more special as they begin to evolve. I have felt my gaze shift from one that was friendly and happy to be with someone i could have fun with, to seeing how beautiful the person was in front of me. Every day I was shown how beautiful their soul was and they helped me to improve myself as well as others. Find someone that will help build you up along with them, someone who will grow with you, intertwined like vines on a tree

I just lost my special someone and we have a kid. I failed by being toxic and not being there for them. Now that she’s left I’m left in shambles for not always being the best person. Don’t take your person for granted. I did

I’m a little bit of a young person trying to get into mental and physical health and self improvement early before it starts to matter, and I wanted some training before I enter the battlefield. Of course I’m not there yet, but your videos are plenty helpful, so I’m sure this one will make me a lot of a better partner when the time comes.

If you want a relationship, don't rush it. It takes time to grow and develop our feelings and relationships. Goodluck ✨

the only dating advice you’ll ever need: don’t.

Im 55 and blissfully single. I still look, but was married too long. Since she passed 4 years ago, I've done a pretty good job of getting myself back together and i don't need any help messing things up.😂

Even tho I know I got no chance and that no one would want someone like me, I do enjoy watching these videos, plus your voice is super comforting.

As I get older I only find myself getting more jaded by life. Still quite young at 25, but I never expected to hate most things this much growing up. The soft voice of the video felt like it grounded me for once, in a while.

I wonder if my future girlfriend is also watching this preparing for the day when she finally meets me.

I've been alone for almost 5 years now, i know how good it is to have someone at your side, but i'm so used to being alone that if someone i like shows some kind of interest for me, i immediately start to think that we're already in a serious relationship because we like each other.... I don't know how to "take it easy" and i can't understand how other people are more open minded than me (example, if we're still knowing each other there are no boundaries in knowing other people in the meantime because there's nothing serious already) but i'm not able to do it and i lose my mind when the other person tells me that i'm talking it too personally... I need help but idk how to change this thing and become more calm on that side

I usually just go to my local cafe with a sign that says “Single”! So far no one’s approached me, but I’m hopeful and excited for when someone does!

I’ve tried dating. But as soon as someone says “I just can’t see this going anywhere sure hope you do fine someone though” makes my confidence go POP!

Best dating advice I ever received was to live like it’s just going to be you from here on out. The chances of finding someone you want to be with who wants to be with you is so phenomenally small as to be non-existent. If someone does come into your life, treat it like the miracle it is, not the expectation. And if they don’t stick around, well it was never in the plan anyway, so you can’t get too upset about it.

The most frustrating part about dating is the one-way conversations. Where you are asking stuff and keeping the conversation up while your date just answers you without really asking something back. Its like you are the only one that is interested. Don't misunderstand me and think i am annoying af, i am an introvert and not talkative at all. However when i am in a extrovert mood its most likely this scenario.

I enjoy the content of your videos! I enjoy the whole Aesthetic of the video and it has helped me navigate, think, and reevaluate how I approach the dating scene. So thank you!

I feel like “myself” doesn’t work for relationships. That I’m not “relationship material”. That I /have/ to be someone completely different to actually have success. But that’s not possible, so… My therapist says that I’m not giving myself a chance and that I can be too hard on myself. And so I have been thinking about trying casual dating. Thanks for the tips!

Best advice I could get based on my experience; stop searching. You'll know the right people (same applies for friends) naturally. If you are so lonely that you feel some sort of "need" for a partner, searching for one is not the right approach, focus on being happy by yourself first or maybe try to make some friends first.. trying to find someone to "make you happy" is a pretty unhealthy way of living.

i love the animation in theses videos

This will be useful if I ever get a date.. in the afterlife probably thanks.

Impprtant advice: steer away from emotionally or psychologically troubled folks. You can be friends and support them but dating someone that has serious unsolved issues and no intention of seeking therapy is literally the worst. To be more specific, this kind of relationship puts you in the position of becoming the only responsible for their well-beind and mental health, making you feel pressured to make immense sacrifice that almost never gets back in any form... and it forms also codepence and a bunch of other problems. In short, someone who's drowning can and will pull you down with them unless you are a certified professional.

"Be honest about who you are and how you feel." Very sound advice, but a lot of people can't even be honest with themselves..

Your content is both informative and entertaining. Perfect combo! 🌟

I saved this video a long time ago but only watched it today. And I think it was for the best because, if I heard this before, I probably wouldn't have listened to any of it. But now that I have learned everything the hard way, I appreciate this video a lot more.

I think the more you learn about dating, especially by experience, the less you care about dating itself and you will only put effort on it when it feels right, like basically everything seems favourable, more driven by excitement than fear of being single and rejected. Dating for the sake of dating can be self-destructable.

“Like that’s ever gonna happen” *Closes book*

Video: “ Maybe you should lower your standarts" My Standards: -Be alive -Be a human (both are optional)

The one I’m with made me laugh more than anyone else has. She’s also extremely blunt which I value above all