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@meisterdoge98314 жыл бұрын
Can you not call me out for one minute
@hayoritsuzumi61364 жыл бұрын
Hi :)
@miya66554 жыл бұрын
When you’re broke 💀
@echfx92014 жыл бұрын
They’re beautiful!!
@Psych2go4 жыл бұрын
@@echfx9201 Thank you!! :)
@avi32364 жыл бұрын
The problem is, I'm not in love with anyone, but I'm in love with the idea of being in a relationship
@jasmintea88254 жыл бұрын
Yesyesyesyes,finally someone understands. I thought I was weird bc I’ve never been in love in my life but would like to be in a relationship like wth
@jasmintea88254 жыл бұрын
Peri Uluırmak not necessarily. I’ve never been in a relationship bc I see no point in on wir it’s not genuine
@gabrieldossantossanta56564 жыл бұрын
It's same to me
@user-dm3vf8el4j4 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@e.58854 жыл бұрын
Gosh me too
@tajayatomlinson52983 жыл бұрын
Why I am single 1. I don't leave my house, nor talk to anyone of the opposite sex. Thank you for coming to my Ted talk
@moose59963 жыл бұрын
@@babylilylolxd6807 how's that a stereotype?
@nenidetic3 жыл бұрын
@@babylilylolxd6807 sexuality isn’t a choice lmao. usually i’d say this to a homophobe but you’re implying that anyone can just “switch” and go date someone of the same sex, even if they’re straight. you might not be straight but they are, doesn’t mean it’s a stereotype.
@windywendi3 жыл бұрын
Don't blame yourself cuz there's a freaking pandemic out there.
@windywendi3 жыл бұрын
@@babylilylolxd6807 It is his / her choice to be with the opposite sex. Most people are straight, that's a fact.
@windywendi3 жыл бұрын
@@babylilylolxd6807 I know but since they said "opposite sex" I assume they are straight
@peterpisspotty3052 Жыл бұрын
1. Cynical views on love 2. Unrealistic standards 3. You have too many dealbreakers 4. You have unresolved issues 5. You have low self esteem 6. Fear of happiness - push people away 7. Trust issues and jealousy 8. Fear of losing your independence 9. You want someone you can't have 10. You don't learn from your mistakes
@CowToes Жыл бұрын
This looks definitely like a narc checklist for finding the next person to destroy.
@oneoutoftheninety-nine.3314 Жыл бұрын
All to new and familiar. I need more time to work on myself. I am getting better, though.
@m.m.124 Жыл бұрын
Thx you saved me 6 min
@aurokrishnaa617 Жыл бұрын
Sheesh each of these points felt like an arrow to the chest 😵
@michajastrzebski4383 Жыл бұрын
"too many dealbreakers" thats just called "having standards". Its WAY better to be single, than be with someone that doesnt make the cut.
@elgomas64711 ай бұрын
The "scared of happiness" part is so personal for me. I'm so scared whenever I make some progress with people I like because I think they are going to hate me once they see what I really am. I feel more comfortable when they are distant to me, that way, I won't feel the pain of them pushing away when we are close.
@esmeraldaalvarez811410 ай бұрын
I relate so much to this
@KefKedes5 ай бұрын
Goddamm u wrote my situation down. Being scared of happines is soo fu*ked up....
@dethmemed2 ай бұрын
i agree, i'm always stuck with the constant fear that i'll just get too happy and then the most tragic event is just building up on me and will just hit me out of nowhere and affect my mental state.
@sammartinez45634 жыл бұрын
I’ve lived through more pandemics than relationships💖
@mariastreetdance27113 жыл бұрын
Me too
@mariastreetdance27113 жыл бұрын
And I lived only one pandemic
@mariastreetdance27113 жыл бұрын
😭
@johnbarney87483 жыл бұрын
You guys have relationships?
@mariastreetdance27113 жыл бұрын
@@johnbarney8748 I don't
@carltasticdrew96333 жыл бұрын
Reasons i'm single: 1. I rarely leave the house 2. Socially awkward 3. Stuttering 4. Fear of being manipulated/betrayed again
@fnphhhh3 жыл бұрын
same lmk if u find a solution for any of them
@titantrum33523 жыл бұрын
The implication you’ve been in a relationship already e.e
@christinelee47803 жыл бұрын
I completely understand reason number 4. Betrayal is a difficult thing to overcome when it happens more than once.
@john-paulcabral46703 жыл бұрын
im always doing something outside, but alone, 50% of the time im on camps, the other 50% im eating at a food outlet. But staying home with a s/o is really amazing. Ive experienced it, and its great, but im single now, and food is bae 😂😂
@liyahtasliyah47943 жыл бұрын
Exactly me
@bbgnice Жыл бұрын
I'm a 33-year-old male and never had a date or anything. This pain of loneliness throughout time hurt so much I almost made the worst mistake anyone could do. Now, I've realized I believed the false beliefs that I was unworthy of love. Making it to where I wouldn't even give myself a chance. Now Im trying to work on myself and change those beliefs. Hopefully, things will change within time.
@master5248 Жыл бұрын
That depends on your "other", there is little you could ever do to influence that. People suck and will always let you down and prove your cynicism correct.
@podjekannnij Жыл бұрын
I'm hitting 30 year mark soon and I'm lonely too without any romantic relationship experience. Used to think about my misery while being addicted to different drugs past 10 years. But suddenly realised it so much easy to make a new contacts with anybody just being straight honest about yourself, joking about your flaws to make 'em your strenghts. Somehow I find myself really unintirested in finding that special one, because I feel independent and too much confident. Wanna be with someone, who's basically reflection of me. But there are some big fault. I'm introverted, and it seems I'm easy to go, but it takes a lot of energy to make it happen. Also I was scamming people, and find myself manipulative, which makes me weak geniunely. So I rather be single, because I won't harm anybody, who is pure and sincere, on the other hand, I demolish immature and weak people with honestly spoken word, and there were no one smarter than me to kick my ass for this. Maybe it happen sometime, but I can honestly say the devilish truth about myself without any doubt or fear. I'm way too much destructive typo, dunno what to do about this. And this is nasty. I don't feel shame or anger, I feel nothing, when somebody strong and good tries to hit me in weak spot. I'm ready to take the hit and absorb the damage. I'm who I am. Strong and confident of being such a bad human. I just never came over border of intimacy. Never feeling fear, only realizing I'm a dangerous one for someone purehearted.
@soil80 Жыл бұрын
I'm a 33 year old woman and had one relationship which was barely an experiment to experience things. And trust me, if it's not the right person, it's more of a liability than an achievement. The sexual things aren't worth it if you don't like them. You want to receive love but you also want to enjoy the company of the other one. It's no fun if it's one sided.
@random_gamer_guy82 Жыл бұрын
I feel that bro honestly I do. Be you and never change, know that you matter man. 🤛🏼
@Question-Log11 ай бұрын
@@soil80 Ayo, you guys should hook up.
@soijustlistenedto... Жыл бұрын
Aside from the fact that I can never have my crush, it's the fear of losing independence for me. I've been single all my life and I've gotten so used to it. It's so empowering yet scary.
@mrgalaxy396 Жыл бұрын
You won't know until you try, right? The best way to get over fears is to face them head-on. A healthy relationship is a union of two individuals growing together and sharing their lives. A lover should be an addition to your already established life. You can be independent and be committed to someone at the same time. Communicating with your partner what constitutes your independence will allow you to preserve it and help them respect it, or you'll realize you're incompatible and break it off before both of you get too invested in it. There is some degree compromise to this, if independence for you means I can do what I want whenever I want without any regard towards my partner's thoughts and feelings, then yeah you're gonna have to work on learning how to accomodate and balance your life so there is room for yourself and your desires as well as your partner's. But those compromises are usually pretty small in the grand scale of things. Your life shouldn't look much different from what it was when you were single. Usually, the biggest difference is that you willingly give up the freedom to mess around sexually and emotionally with other people. Those things are reserved for your partner.
@JayGame-fk8gs Жыл бұрын
I've been single all my life too, I just haven't fallen for anyone, nor has anyone fallen for me
@joanaenes895311 ай бұрын
I have been single all my life too. I would like to have someone but I like my life the way it is
@PathfinderMain010 ай бұрын
Ive been single my entire life too, i had a huge crush on this girl for 5-6 years, the split second i even laid eyes on her in 2015 i feel in love, she was my first crush & my first time ever feeling that. I never made any moves on her as i knew i had no chance with her & i knew she would say no anyway. I lost that feeling in 20/21 anytime i see her now i dont feel anything & im like “whatever idc”. I wish i could get rid of that feeling of love toward people its an annoyance, no girl irl has even spoke to me within the last 4 years. I hate being with people i only want to be alone but for some reason i just want a relationship, i get the feeling usually when im super bored which is pretty much every second of the day
@thisguyhd65919 ай бұрын
Your crush isn't ready and will never be too ?
@kronos17943 жыл бұрын
Better to be alone than with someone and feel alone.
@inconnu49613 жыл бұрын
Anyone who has been married knows the pain of this!
@piyushsharma39913 жыл бұрын
I think it was more like "it's better to be lonely by yourselves than being lonely in a relationship"
@bethanienaylor3 жыл бұрын
R.i.p. Robin Williams.
@hinachan563 жыл бұрын
@@piyushsharma3991 true
@kurtdecena86813 жыл бұрын
True
@Szaam4 жыл бұрын
"How's your love life?" It doesn't exist.
@Psych2go4 жыл бұрын
No worries! We have just the right solution for you. Coming to you through app soon ;)
@Watermelon07124 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go what is that app
@somedude55814 жыл бұрын
Same here man
@Caramel_boba-hy3qb3 жыл бұрын
Damn..
@axelnilsson51243 жыл бұрын
I’m avoiding it
@TjarpDex Жыл бұрын
Thanks for confirming that I will truly be forever alone.
@FC-BS Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@tomaskatinas1796 Жыл бұрын
Welcome to the club, want some wine?
@TjarpDex Жыл бұрын
@@tomaskatinas1796 If it's white wine then yes, red wine gives me migraine.
@DawnshieId Жыл бұрын
It's not your imperfections. It's their legalism.
@medicgaming6317 Жыл бұрын
My reasons- -Overthinking -Being deathly afraid of rejection -What his friends might think of me, as I see them every day (suffice to say, I think this might be a reason for everyone with a crush) -Being disorganized and awkward Lots of etcetera afterwards. It really isn't an exhaustive list, unfortunately. I wish everyone the best in their endeavors of confession and whatnot.
@GHOST-vy3cj Жыл бұрын
In the same boat brother
@asleepyyoutuber Жыл бұрын
fr
@SiddhiPatil-1109YT Жыл бұрын
Same
@Lowbudgetproduction1211 ай бұрын
Fr
@carlosandrade55548 ай бұрын
Yep
@ramencat30383 жыл бұрын
Why I'm single: -being cringe and awkward -strict parents -shy
@nomorejoy54123 жыл бұрын
I've never seen anyone else calling themself cringe lol
@goldenkillzz74253 жыл бұрын
Same but without strict parents
@pinkangel48603 жыл бұрын
Same
@yitaowang85473 жыл бұрын
Basically me except for the strict parent
@user-kk8iz8ou1h3 жыл бұрын
Pusheeennnnn
@s_doll22944 жыл бұрын
“you have a low self esteem” well you are goddamn right about that-
@user-mf4ez7vy3u4 жыл бұрын
ayo samee
@JustSayRance4 жыл бұрын
No one likes K-pop stans. Start there.
@blessedandbeautiful31894 жыл бұрын
mood.
@merlokiii4 жыл бұрын
I know people in a relationship who don't have a good self-steem... And they seem pretty sad, even if they have a gf/bf
@armyshope4 жыл бұрын
Love yourself
@taralexii Жыл бұрын
For my entire 19 years of life, I’ve never even had a “crush”, I never even looked at someone in a romantic way until a few months ago. I’ve met someone who really cares about me and makes me laugh, it’s crazy because I’ve never thought id feel this way-there’s always several people out there for you, just let them come to you and try not push relationships.
@gillipoli5898 Жыл бұрын
Thank u so much!! I’m almost 17 and just can’t have a crush on anyone, I was kind of afraid that I would never love someone, but your comment cheered me on! Good luck with your guy😁
@filipesilva7581 Жыл бұрын
im you, but she doesnt like me back, is already in a relationship with someone who is just "enough" and.. she has way too much emotional baggage to deal with, we have chemistry i like her a lot and care more about her than she does for herself, we argue all the time because we're both stubborn
@manosijroy8282 Жыл бұрын
I am a guy who turned 22 just 4 weeks ago and never had a girlfriend before and its kinda bothering me a lot. I use dating apps but rarely get matches by some 18-23 age girls who ends up ghosting or unmatching me for no reason. I had crush on 2 girls in my college few months ago. One was 19(20 now) and another was 20 or 21 and both rejected me. I do chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school and they are all 20-22 year olds. I am having a very good chat with a girl who was 2 years my junior in our school days. Now she is 20 and I had the best chat with her for the past 3 days compared to any other girl who lives in my city. But I also like another girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. Now she is 21 and only 5-6 months younger than me but we hardly chat much on IG as she doesn't reply to my last message for a week or 2.
@taralexii Жыл бұрын
@@filipesilva7581 I’m really sorry, I know what it’s like to have feelings for someone and them not feel the same, but a relationship should be fun and enjoyable! Sure you’ll have arguments but it should be a good balance between the two. Some people aren’t meant for each other and still fall in love. You’ll find someone that’s perfect for you one day, I promise :)
@taralexii Жыл бұрын
@@gillipoli5898 it’s so good it’s talked about! I felt so alone. Sometimes it just takes longer for other people to find their match, if I were you I wouldn’t worry, anyone would be lucky to have you as a partner 💪🏼 keep your head up
@Barbar-barbaro Жыл бұрын
I’ve never been in a relationship before. Now that I’ve entered my mid-20s I’m too afraid to get into a relationship. Everyone’s so experienced from the get go nowadays and it makes me feel like I’d be insufficient as a partner.
@arthurmorgan2906 Жыл бұрын
then you have really low self esteem...
@Barbar-barbaro Жыл бұрын
@@arthurmorgan2906 lol, that much I know for sure, but I have my reasons.
@arthurmorgan2906 Жыл бұрын
@@Barbar-barbaro I also have reasons for having low self esteem and in bad times I really do act like that. But usually I have rather healthy confidence... despite all the sh*t I've been through. What reasons you have btw?
@jokubask5309 Жыл бұрын
You cannot learn without trying
@joss1218 Жыл бұрын
go to a party drink a few beers talk to someone and boom thats if u just want to get the ykyk out the way
@drewdarrington60644 жыл бұрын
This KZfaq algorithm has a funny sense of humor.
@Eroamagorath4 жыл бұрын
this is outrageous, youtube
@jahnavibhargava25724 жыл бұрын
yEs
@gamemaggot24504 жыл бұрын
Indeed...
@dashippo43724 жыл бұрын
They known you better, than you think !
@megdelvalle43114 жыл бұрын
Everytime I need it, it pops up HAHAHAHA
@Apparently_I_am_everywhere3 жыл бұрын
"You set unrealistic standards." My standards: -Has a pulse
@muffingangayye57703 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@skaty15273 жыл бұрын
no puls also works dear Fbi this is a joke
@damnedifidonut3 жыл бұрын
"I mean, they don't even need teeth. We smile from the heart"
@jamesnieto42202 жыл бұрын
My only standard: " loyalty loyalty loyalty"
@NikolajKalashnikov472 жыл бұрын
My standards: 1. Is at least 18, mentally and physically 2. Is human The pulse is overrated.
@willchan9960 Жыл бұрын
24, never dated anyone, I think the more important thing than going out to find a date is to find your own crew, the people you feel super comfy with. Build your confidence and shine, opportunities will be attracted to you.
@glitzygirl2412 Жыл бұрын
It's okay to be single. Just don't be in a relationship just because you feel lonely.
@SquirrelTheater Жыл бұрын
100% agreed. All that does is lead to inevitable failure down the road. You actually end up feeling more alone than you did when you were single.
@king_sombrero8193 Жыл бұрын
>Be lonely >Don't look for a relationship anyway >Stay lonely
@Obi_The_Guard Жыл бұрын
@@king_sombrero8193 you missed the entire point
@Obi_The_Guard Жыл бұрын
@@king_sombrero8193 oh dw
@tomsharpe2251 Жыл бұрын
Then how do you stop being lonely before you get into a relationship?
@sergiomendoza48274 жыл бұрын
What keeps me single: 1. I don't go out of my house even before the quarantine
@lexarabit9174 жыл бұрын
Social distancing ever since. 😎
@kevinburns84734 жыл бұрын
Sounds about right.
@buzz32484 жыл бұрын
Not even after quarantine lmao
@vassiliospavlou85714 жыл бұрын
Go to coffee shops and parks. I’ve been meeting people through this
@sergiomendoza48274 жыл бұрын
@@vassiliospavlou8571 my social skills aren't the greatest, i'll give it a try though
@internetdork19394 жыл бұрын
9. You want someone you can’t or shouldn’t have. *Silently realizing that 90% of my crushes are fictional characters*
@AmazingWolfGirl4 жыл бұрын
Lmao can relate 😂😂
@everydaygeek87154 жыл бұрын
That one was a real kick in the balls for me.
@jahnavibhargava25724 жыл бұрын
or celebrities
@jojocujoh4 жыл бұрын
I want zero two to exist
@maya-hx7xf4 жыл бұрын
100% of my crushes are celebrities two or three times my age 🥴
@sirskittle9093 Жыл бұрын
Someone needs to see this but the fact you clicked on the video to better your relationship is already a good first step 🎉
@MusicMediaShows7 ай бұрын
Reasons: 1. Too shy due to isolation during childhood thanks to overprotective parents who never taught me the essentials about socializing. 2. Overprotective with people due to the first point and also due to past trauma and negative experiences with people. 3. Not feeling connected to most people because I am very different from modt of them 4. Low self esteem 5. Fear of rejection 6. Too uncomfortable around many people due to social anxiety
Love yourself first before loving others, that’s all i can say.
@lucaengemann43752 жыл бұрын
Sad highfive
@indigo55772 жыл бұрын
@@Andrea-wq5xq if only it were that easy
@Lyssa_Stuff3 жыл бұрын
“You have low self esteem.” *guess I’m going to be single forever.*
@Zertemis3 жыл бұрын
Mine died a long time ago and I keep it that way, it's better not caring about it.
@nootsbloops42983 жыл бұрын
I understand you, it’s really hard to let go of that, I’m still going through that process at this moment but one day, no matter how long you will love yourself :)) I know it’s a long process that seems to be not going nowhere but it will you just got to you trust yourself and be patient
@SMO323 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing, even on real life a lot of people thought me that is basically my fault because I have low self-esteem. So basically the reason why i can't get a girlfriend it's because me as a human i have doubts and it's my fault because i need to be 100% confident on every things i do even if it's something that is gonna be dangerous or destroy my social reputation... We're not robots... We make mistakes and sometimes we keep remembering this mistakes and that's ok because we are not gonna make them again... Everytime someone says this to me i get really angry I'm not joking... I understand the point, part of get to know someone that you like is judging but again we are not robots...
@RL-DarkSpark3 жыл бұрын
I have low self esteem because I'm very skinny... Other guys always tell me to eat more and work out. Even tho I literally eat TONS and do as much martial art-training as I can, my body doesn't change. I'ts kinda unfair because I think I don't even look bad but others are ruining everything without even knowing it. And now my parents expect me to ask out a girl? I'm sorry what? If I asked out a girl she'd probably tell me she doesn't like skeletons or some shit 💀 My dad was mad af because I said I can't talk to girls...I'm just thinking even if I had high self esteem, that doesn't make me a bodybuilder. I'm still a skeleton, it is what it is :/ I feel sorry for disappointing my dad
@SMO323 жыл бұрын
@@RL-DarkSpark Keep in mind your health is important so if you are skinny but you are very healthy it doesn't really matter...Keep in mind people are just gonna suggest... don't worry too much what they are gonna say...if someone catches your eyes but everyone else say that you are not worth it for her...well do it anyway prove them wrong , be yourself don't try anything crazy. I suggest if your parents are mad at you because you don't have a girlfriend to simply say the truth, explain yourself...i know it's crazy but maybe one day you're gonna meet someone you like and if your friends are not gonna help...well your parents will absolutely help by suggesting what to do.
@MistaYo92217 ай бұрын
i’m too ugly
@KennysChocolateMilk5 ай бұрын
Nuh uh
@zackxr3 ай бұрын
Real
@James654922 ай бұрын
😢
@gregington.2 ай бұрын
Ong
@jeremycaminero96572 ай бұрын
I’m eating a popsicle right now
@V4nnyVu3 ай бұрын
This video explained things you shouldn’t do IN a relationship, not how to STOP being **single**, I do none of these behaviours listed in this video and still seem to struggle for totally different reasons, people literally always being already taken when I try to make a move, people not even wanting anything with me after I try to break the ice, honestly I thought I’d learn some mistakes I can avoid in this video but this didn’t help at all, it just shows that you have to be really lucky to get a partner in the first place
@shivamnow4 жыл бұрын
I think one biggest issue is that people often believe that being in a relationship can solve all their problems. It won't. It certainly is magical but if you're counting on someone else to change your life, it would become toxic
@Zipperskull_4 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree
@shivamnow4 жыл бұрын
@@Zipperskull_ Thank You
@mirroreduniverse90444 жыл бұрын
That happened to me
@InVinoVeratas4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I feel everyone should try to find happiness within themselves before anyone else. Not saying you have to be completely enlightened within yourself, but at least trying puts a better perspective on how a relationship may be; compared to a dependant relationship that has an unhealthy expectation one may have for their partner, I feel.
@shivamnow4 жыл бұрын
@@InVinoVeratas Yes. Absolutely
@zetai7094 жыл бұрын
*"its easy to fall in love with the wrong people"* *boi that hit.*
@gnarthdarkanen74644 жыл бұрын
It's only slightly more difficult to figure out the difference between actual Love and a lustful crush. ;o)
@yeetthephone23414 жыл бұрын
Oh yea ur an kpop fan So u basically love in wrong ppl
@zetai7094 жыл бұрын
@@yeetthephone2341 well Im not a kpop fan. How can u say that?
@Tuxedo26804 жыл бұрын
@@Jackgritty28 Worse still, they often prevent relationships from even getting off the ground. People meet and end up having such bad impressions of each other they cancel each other out immediately without having ever known who that person really is. Sometimes all it takes its just one small faux-pas and that's it. Game over.
@mariamnajim80754 жыл бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ftqVqNh83MneY2g.html
@TheGreenAzumarill Жыл бұрын
There's something refreshing about knowing I don't have any of these behaviors, but at the same time it's discouraging knowing I don't have any of these behaviors and still am single regardless.
@taralexii Жыл бұрын
That’s really understandable but forcing love to come to you ends you up in a toxic situation, letting love come to you naturally is the best way to go, there’s definitely someone out there for you, there is for everyone! Just live everyday as it is and let things come towards you instead of pushing it to come to you.
@prativagupta26196 ай бұрын
I just got rejected today but i 'm feeling good that i took the courage to confess and let him know that i like him because if i didn't confess to him it will become guilt so now i free from that
@yasemink.84023 жыл бұрын
1. You have cynical views about love 2. Unrealistic standarts 3. You've set too many dealbreakers ( expecting too much ) 4. Unresolved past trauma 5. Low self esteem 6. You have a fear of happiness 7. Trust issues 8. You think you lose your independence when being in a relationship 9. You want someone you can't or shouldn't have 10. You don't learn from your mistakes
@basicbitch76703 жыл бұрын
Thank you 💜
@asbjelasulejmani85853 жыл бұрын
all check! :')
@badunius_code3 жыл бұрын
In short, that's entirely your fault.
@u1tra_p0wer523 жыл бұрын
5 and 9
@xXUltimate_GopnikXx3 жыл бұрын
Past Trauma, Trust issues, Im also kinda socially Dumb ._.
@jiovannitabada88443 жыл бұрын
I’m dating my pillow, we always sleep together. And pillow always comforts me Who can relate? 👇🏻
@goldenkillzz74253 жыл бұрын
Me
@riamdiaw68053 жыл бұрын
Me
@CrispyRisp3 жыл бұрын
"No no hes got a point"
@alfonsocantu99923 жыл бұрын
I am the Cool Side Of The Pillow..yours very truly Alfonso Cantu
@AXL-mx6dz3 жыл бұрын
Me hahaha :(
@wesnohathas1993 Жыл бұрын
The fear of happiness struck a chord for me. It seems like any time a situation started to go too well for me, the self-sabotage circuit would kick in again and find a way to make it backfire.
@after_midnight9592 Жыл бұрын
Im very much used to the 69 curse. Every time something good is happening, Im expecting something bad to happen eventually to even things out. It never fails. Im not meant to have meaningfull life.
@konsyansnou8623 Жыл бұрын
For the longest time I tried understanding why I couldn't find a healthy relationship and was more often than not falling/ attracting toxic ones. For a while I thought the back and forth, chase and constant arguments was part of a passionate dynamic... perhaps passionate for a moment but not substantial for long-term. Now I'm in a healthy relationship and I often reflect on what I have today that I didn't have back then. This video is definitely an eye opener and make me better understand who I was in the past so I don't make those same confusing mistakes again.
@dmanew4 жыл бұрын
<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="37">0:37</a> You have cynical views about love <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="67">1:07</a> You have unrealistically high standards <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="97">1:37</a> You have too many dealbreakers <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="128">2:08</a> You have unresolved past trauma <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="160">2:40</a> You have low self-esteem <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="196">3:16</a> You fear fulfillment <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="236">3:56</a> You have trust issues <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="262">4:22</a> You think a relationship makes you lose independence <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="300">5:00</a> You want someone you can't or shouldn't have <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="325">5:25</a> You don't learn from your mistakes
@nogymforyourface494 жыл бұрын
all of that is cope. Its all about your face
@dmanew4 жыл бұрын
@@nogymforyourface49 There's a lot of both data and examples that disagree with that. Some people are mangled in accidents and still find love. If a bombastically hot guy asked me out but he had the list in the timestamps, I would turn him down.
@kowezze4 жыл бұрын
I think I'm all of that. but I am working on myself
@xJustJadie4 жыл бұрын
A true hero
@realchillydoggs4 жыл бұрын
Thank you brave soldier
@selfable-relyonyourself35044 жыл бұрын
Short summary on Why you were single 1. you had cyinical view on love 2. You set unrealistic standered 3. You've set too many deal breakers 4. you have unresolved past trauma 5. You have low self esteem 6. you have a fear of happiness 7. You have trust issues 8. You think you will lose your independent by being in relationship 9. You want some you can't or shoul'd 10. You don't learn from mistakes
@blackgothgoddess31644 жыл бұрын
Damn. I feel called out with like half of this list...
@annamirindi25774 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@peggz2234 жыл бұрын
Thanks mate
@AT-gc4xd4 жыл бұрын
Damn I’m really relating to 7 points
@VySharieff4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂I do not learn from mistakes at all lmao
@CoffeeTable-pq5kn3 ай бұрын
“Do you have a long list of relationships-” “I’ll have to stop you right there pal.”
@gh_a1593 Жыл бұрын
The trauma gets me. I try not to let it "follow" me or become a part of me, but it is a mess I can't escape. I come from a hard family life and sometimes, it even effects school and my safety. I am fascinated by the idea of someone actually loving me for, me. Not perfect me, not fake me, no strings attached, just me. But for a reason I can't answer, I'm still here with no one. It's not the worst but I'm terribly afraid of being alone after some messed up stuff. I also don't throw out my family trauma all in one spot of everyone, I keep it away, and try to be optimistic. But apparently in high school, no one wants that either lol. I still have a long journey ahead of me, and I hope one day someone can love me the way everyone should be loved. Unconditionally.
@CountessLouLou4 жыл бұрын
We need to stop pressuring people that aren’t mature or ready into being in a relationship. Focus on being happily single.
@SavoryBaby4 жыл бұрын
@Mr Man probably because it's biologically necessary for our race and society to survive and have families which build sense of community. You are programmed to have something to fight for build for etc..if most of us were single it would be a very selfish society but I could be wrong
@freefalling42714 жыл бұрын
SavoryBaby No. It’s not necessary for humans to have families. It can be as simple as communities, but no *need* to be any more intimate. Yes, we are programmed to have something to fight for, it’s ourselves. We, *instinctively*, fight for our own selves. Ironically, overpopulation has become a global problem now. Too many people in this world wants to have a family and what does that lead to? Competition for limited resources. Don’t you think it’s selfish that one family’s happiness can be ruined (poverty) by another’s family in search of their own happiness? No?
@karadiberlino4 жыл бұрын
SavoryBaby You are wrong. 😂😂😂 Humans aren‘t „programmed“, we have feelings, desires...we are INDIVIDUALS first of all! ☝🏼
@SilverShadow024 жыл бұрын
The point of the video is that we need to improve ourselves before we can be successful in relationships...I hope you understand that.
@pammyb13164 жыл бұрын
It has nothing to do with maturity. It has to do with allowing people to live their lives. Period.. it's their choice if they want to be in a relationship or not.
@trainboy004 жыл бұрын
Why I'm single: I'm awkward, weird, quiet, have a kind of dark humor etc
@ileana29014 жыл бұрын
Let's talk
@kw2674 жыл бұрын
Dammit Ileana, you beat me to it
@ileana29014 жыл бұрын
@@kw267 🤷
@strawberrydaurto33664 жыл бұрын
Yeahh me too. I’m also shy a lot of the time. I wonder what people think of shy people. Like I feel like they think we are just there sitting in the corner when in reality My brain is going at it and I’m just constantly thinking about stuff. I want to be more social and talk to people other then my little friends I have. Ahhh antisocial problems🤷♀️😔🤜🤛
@Folkhen894 жыл бұрын
Same bro, same!
@quinnjohnson9750 Жыл бұрын
I needed this, I was stuck in both hurt and resentment from a past failed crush confession back in high school and I have from the longest time used that as an excuse for not seeking a new relationship due to the fear of rejection and making myself emotionally vulnerable.
@ohboje.10 ай бұрын
nah man I'm just shy 💀
@SshwitzerR3 жыл бұрын
Reasons to being single 1. Social media ruins relationships 2. Havent met anyone who cant take a break from their phone 3. Now a days people would rather find someone new than fix a problem in a relationship
@herredward92773 жыл бұрын
My guy, you should probably speak in english because people rarely understand the language of facts.
@OpulusLP3 жыл бұрын
4. Being able to see the problems in society only makes one unattractive to all those 99% of people unable to accept reality
@littlelotrfan99633 жыл бұрын
The last one is so true! My classmate had already 6 or 7 boyfriends (and she wasn't that affected)
@LTGDSP3 жыл бұрын
5. dating apps like tinder and bumble ruined the dating scene as women are always looking to job hop relationship once something better comes along.
@nikieag863 жыл бұрын
Same
@xeneth9114 жыл бұрын
"Relationships take more then one person" There's my issue.
@amandawiseman2754 жыл бұрын
Same tbh
@misamissa37024 жыл бұрын
Truth!
@donottouch91804 жыл бұрын
Preach
@sapir65154 жыл бұрын
So true ❤️ what if I'm single because low self esteem isn't mine... It's also relevant to the other side...
@davidnyro194 жыл бұрын
Mine too. I'm an accepting, secure, unconditional, non-measuring, non-judging and non-proving partner, but I keep picking partners who aren't. So, obviously, I still need to work on MY secure, self-love, self-valuing side. I'm a fixer, or enabler. I thought (and know) I was the right person, and I essentially am, though not perfect, but I kept picking partners who were not accepting; who were/are judging, blaming, shaming, emotional blackmailing, etc. Here's the catch-22 part: I was willing to accept all that in them, and work on that, together, and individually, but they weren't willing to do that with me. I did trust, and my ideal partner is independent, secure, empathetic, accepting, etc. I was never clingy or needy or jealous. Not in my nature. I had a relatively secure childhood. I am a committed partner. My partners would all agree with this, and even verbally acknowledged this to my face, but I picked partners for whom few measure up. For them, the grass is always greener. It doesn't matter how conscious, evolved, self-loving and self-valuing you are, with purpose and sense of self, if you pick the wrong partner...As Psych to Go says "Relationships take more than one person..." They also take an X-factor, otherwise known as luck. After 40 years in the trenches, I'm here to say that luck is HUGE. There are days when I am convinced it's 95% of whether or not we find/end up with the right partner. But that shouldn't keep us from waking up, being smarter, watching for red flags, asking the right questions, paying attention to their family and family history... I always love the quote from the movie "Good Will Hunting," that Robin Williams' character says: "You're not perfect, sport, and let me save you the suspense: this girl you've met, she's not perfect either. But the question is whether or not you're perfect for each other."
@dollofshadows17037 ай бұрын
With the exception of unrealistic high standards, not learning from mistakes, and not trusting my partners, I hate to say this list really summed me up. Ever heard that expression, "You are your own worst enemy"? Self-sabotage is what I do best!
@DanielDuhon10 ай бұрын
From someone who had the problem of too low standards, do not settle. It’s significantly better to be single than be with someone who does not meet your standards. There’s a balance between having too high standards vs. not enough.
@xHikaruIzumi3 жыл бұрын
I love how this video assumes that there are queues of people wanting to date me that I keep rejecting for some reason. I'm single because literally no one is into me.
@jonathanwilliams3653 жыл бұрын
Same
@denisewoodell75433 жыл бұрын
Yup .it sucks being ugly
@salilsingh24493 жыл бұрын
True
@dianastillwell34563 жыл бұрын
Same lmfao
@DaBiggestBird2453 жыл бұрын
same
@GChezlynD4 жыл бұрын
If a dog gets constantly kicked, thrown rocks at or rejected by humans for seeking companionship, that dog learns that he is unwanted & all alone... & avoids humans altogether.
@AriAzHandle4 жыл бұрын
Not true.. Faith can be restored dog/human omeba (wuteva..)!! ✌
@somesandman83284 жыл бұрын
Don’t say that man. You have to be better than that!
@faeshenmi84634 жыл бұрын
@Humble Warrior My name is faith and i dont know how am i gonna react with that
@luisabuenahora27034 жыл бұрын
Wow the truth in this
@akt30374 жыл бұрын
I am the dog
@martinax22352 ай бұрын
Her voice is making me want to listen and learn from these videos. I love this channel. Thanks for being there for us all ❤❤.
@joeyshofner639 Жыл бұрын
finding someone to date is the biggest hurdle. Just can't find any single women my age.
@maximsuris4 жыл бұрын
Comments: “bold of you to assume I had a love life” Me: “bold of you to assume I have a life”
@dudemans73344 жыл бұрын
Wow that’s kinda deep
@yiayfanaphmaufanpopularmmo50354 жыл бұрын
*the more you know thing plays*
@ayalalevi64704 жыл бұрын
חחח חנקת😂😂
@InVinoVeratas3 жыл бұрын
So.. are you a ghost then?
@Shoe263 жыл бұрын
Yes it’s true
@JellyBlobs3 жыл бұрын
Why I’m a single pringle: 1. My standards are high 2. I rarely leave my house or speak to other humans 3. I’m mentally dating an anime boy
@sarvarmohammadi70993 жыл бұрын
Same 😭
@lazsubbz3 жыл бұрын
I am wishing you and your anime boy a happy life together 🤣🤣🤣
@jenniferzufferey38903 жыл бұрын
I’m in this comment and I don’t like it
@indulekha6193 жыл бұрын
Ihu ! Lol
@mihaelagroza54363 жыл бұрын
I felt this deeply 😭
@aznstylepn0y Жыл бұрын
As a 38 that been single since high school. The older you get the more you know. I would tell the reason why I’m single but I’d rather tell the person that would be interested in me lol .
@Lonelyeco Жыл бұрын
I know my issue when I happened to get to the point of talking for month with a guy was I lost myself in them. I strayed from things that normally would make me happy or that I would do. Obsessing. I've gotten better thankfully. But usually the guys would ghost me. I wouldn't talk about myself non-stop, I'd actually ask them about their self. But now, I'm single still, because of a lack of confidence and self-esteem. I've been growing in my self-esteem though.
@secreteverleiy41654 жыл бұрын
Why am I single: 1. *Strict Parents*
@hnyg1ld0753 жыл бұрын
SAME 😢
@zackxr3 жыл бұрын
If u have strict parents , it means you are young to live with your parents .... And that means that u r not old enough to get in a relationship which will matter
@jellybean58143 жыл бұрын
Same
@danielh36773 жыл бұрын
X-PLAYER 59 true but I still think it’s possible for a kid/teen to find love. I mean I started developing strong feelings for people when I was 13. I felt like I was the only person in my class that actually understood people’s emotions and feelings. Most kids/teens aren’t ready for the responsibility though
@zackxr3 жыл бұрын
@@danielh3677 yeah I know it is ... But not a long lasting one
@sollyz834 жыл бұрын
Being single isn't all that bad it just really sucks not having anyone to hug, kiss, talk to, care about, be cute with, and make each other happy. :( *EDIT* HOLY HELL!! Thanks for all the likes I've never gotten so many :)
@ozarkscath4 жыл бұрын
:* here a kiss for you
@stretopovermind96804 жыл бұрын
Pfff... Get yourself a pet ball python. You will have all the hugs you can handle.
@deltaradiance90344 жыл бұрын
Children can offer that as well
@stretopovermind96804 жыл бұрын
@@deltaradiance9034 There is nearly nothing more irresponsible than to bring an intelligent being into existence just for the need of a hug -_-
@deltaradiance90344 жыл бұрын
@@stretopovermind9680 who said it's just for the Need of a Hug??? Check yourself in the mirror. He/She mentioned, to kiss, talk to, CARE ABOUT, be cute with... SMH
@ChakLong Жыл бұрын
I was with someone amazing for 5 years, married for 3.5. We're getting divorced now. I think I did every single thing wrong, so much so that I'm pretty sure all 10 behaviors here were things that I constantly did. I don't know how I messed up so bad and how I never learned from my mistakes for the past 5 years (#10 in the video). Everything seems so obvious now when everything is too late. Hindsight really is 20/20 and it's the worst feeling ever to know you had so much time to come to a realization and to fix things, only to never end up doing it and procrastinating until it's unfixable and undeniably over. And knowing I did it all to myself and to my wife. It doesn't make it any better when everyone just keeps telling you to learn from your mistakes now and move on.
@ashmonkey2572 Жыл бұрын
You rarely see this openness to own failures. Mostly it's ppl blaming their exes. You're doing great, maybe you don't know it yet. Just keep reflecting yourself. Wish you all the best luck.
@HaliaXailaH11 ай бұрын
Gosh, that hit hard. Bro, you describe pretty much exactly what I'm going through, too. You realise all you mistakes. But it's over and everything done is unfixable. As you said, you learn for your future, but this doesn't really help here. You destroyed not only your own happiness but also the life of one person you love(d). Is there anything you would tell your 7 months younger self now?
@sigurdtheblue10 ай бұрын
Either your spouse was a keeper, or you were suffering in ways that you were still not willing to admit because you thought too highly of them.
@danielmiddleton8001 Жыл бұрын
I have most of these, and I don't know how to fix that, and it's not like I can go to therapy or anything because it's too EXPENSIVE! lol
@DawnshieId Жыл бұрын
You really are doing everything right. Just be kind and authentic, and anyone who is real and good, will come. And if no one comes, you are officially better than everyone else.
@wubslicer90213 жыл бұрын
Reasons I'm single (quite a long list): - I'm shy around women who I find attractive. - I have drastic mood changes from feeling like the coolest dude alive to self loathing and insecurity (wether its about my personality, looks or habits). - Fear of making the same mistakes I did in my past relationships. - *Overthinking* (wether its about the future, fear of possible arguments etc.). - My crushes tend to ignore me in social situations and I struggle trying to fit in sometimes. - My crushes talk to almost everyone but me and like the paragraph above, I have trouble approaching them.
@hey-yi9ev3 жыл бұрын
first, second (mood wise), fourth, and the last one i can relate too a lot
@roxassora27063 жыл бұрын
I am the same way with guys I am romantically or sexually attracted to, shy, I just try to remember that guys aren't objects or beings to fear. I do have my issues too but even the guy next door does too.
@superstar643 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the club.
@hazmatt32503 жыл бұрын
I’m in this comment and I don’t like it
@Eric-vf5dw3 жыл бұрын
I’m literally the same bro😭
@user-ul2jg6oy5i3 жыл бұрын
“They say humans are social animals, they can't live alone. But you can live pretty well by yourself. I tell ya...instead of feeling alone in a group, it's better to have real solitude all by yourself.” - Faye Valentine
@iupeposol36223 жыл бұрын
Cowboy Beebop i believe
@natekeidrose54833 жыл бұрын
Thank you. That is very true. _/\_
@fillerbunnyninjashark2713 жыл бұрын
No, we cannot live alone. We need social interactions to retain our sanity.... Mine is long gone
@MetalSStar1963 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I find myself saner when alone in my thoughts than around Laura Bennie, my current girlfriend.
@Shockwave999993 жыл бұрын
My favorite anime
@Eduardo-Lau Жыл бұрын
Well, she told me that she was the one keeping the relationship up, since the very beginning she was the one not afraid of showing herself and interest. I found that so comfortable, that I forgot she expected the same. In the end she told me that I was not putting in the same amount of effort, I guess she was right.
@tealnoise11 ай бұрын
I never wanted to be in a relationship, but now I do. 😭
@miaxoxo33754 жыл бұрын
the fact that i LITERALLY just asked myself why I've never had a boyfriend and this shows up....
@Psych2go4 жыл бұрын
How many behaviors did you relate to?
@anfnxc4 жыл бұрын
Psych2go knows our problems
@miaxoxo33754 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go 4 maybe 5 😬
@funplayer05.14 жыл бұрын
@Psych2Go Ehm 3 or 4.... enough to stay single probably :P
@vivianyifan72734 жыл бұрын
Same
@thatbich16024 жыл бұрын
Getting attached is scary, because so many times in the past I've gotten attached to someone and they ended up hurting me. It's so, so hard for me to let my guard down.
@BlueVO224 жыл бұрын
Same :( it’s really lonely
@Mysikrysa4 жыл бұрын
Don´t let your guard down. It´s not worth the risk. People can´t be trusted, you can´t read minds, so the only person you can really 100% trust is you. Relationships are not like in these retarded romantic movies. These movies have as much in common with reality as action movies have in common with real work of soldiers or policemen.
@namjoonslittleuniverse.57764 жыл бұрын
Yeah.. This is true..!! It just happens with me everytime I get attached to someone.. I am just scared of getting hurt again..
@stereoraediova3 жыл бұрын
Letting your guard down isn't always a bad thing. People come in a slew of different varieties, and not all of them are inherently bad people. There are those bad apples who end up hurting you, but you'll always be able to find that person who's actually there for you, and not just themselves. Don't shut people out based on negative experiences in the past, you'll only hurt yourself and others more. Trust me, I've been there. Try and get to know someone for a while, and get to understand them. Open up little by little, not all at once. Just be yourself and try to place a little more faith in people. Hope this helped anyone reading. Take care of yourselves, and stay hydrated.
@thatbich16023 жыл бұрын
@@stereoraediova Thank you! That really helped
@Danny_Fantasy4 ай бұрын
1. Trust issues 2. Rejected by all of my crushes 3. Deep belief that I'm not good enough 4. Anger 5. Social anxiety disorder and depression as well as ADHD 6. Self loathing
@oliviajayward4 жыл бұрын
“you’re in love with unavailable people” I WAS ATTACKED
@DracoMagnius3 жыл бұрын
Why I'm single: 1. I'm an Introvert 2. I don't go out of my way to talk to new people. 3. I can't seem to identify if someone is flirting with me and I always assume they're just being nice. 4. I'm scared of getting my heart broken. I've been in relationships where I thought I was in love and they eventual broke up with me. I don't remember how being in love feels, but I remember the pain of heart break. 5. I have pretty low self esteem. 6. I think love is only true in fairy tales, good enough for some, but not for me.
@liyahtasliyah47943 жыл бұрын
Same here
@JustOneGirl813 жыл бұрын
Ohh, same in here... 😔
@windowsVD3 жыл бұрын
I relate to all except 4 and 6 as I've never even been in a relationship. I never go out of my way to meet new people unless circumstances force me to. I have no ability to flirt and am terrible at identifying if someone is flirting with me unless they're REALLY obvious about it, and even then, it can still take me a while to catch on.
@sikorsky75973 жыл бұрын
As a 17 year old shy schoolboy, I haven't experienced having in relationship but I feel you and yes we are same situation right now
@The54321to3 жыл бұрын
#6 🥺🥺🥺
@Thelift20138 ай бұрын
the reason i watched this video is to keep doing some of those reasons so i can stay focused on my career and life!
@josiahgeorge7975 Жыл бұрын
I'm shy insecure, have low self esteem and I want someone that I can never have 😭
@paolaelizabethmorales87414 жыл бұрын
“What mistakes have you made in your past relationships?” Wouldn’t know, haven’t had any past relationships yet. :/
@afielsch4 жыл бұрын
Keep it that way. Not worth the hassle. If u get horny - use prostitutes. For everything else there is money too. So focus on what is Important to u.
@paolaelizabethmorales87414 жыл бұрын
afielsch Damn who hurt u??
@cockaroach14584 жыл бұрын
Paola Elizabeth Morales he’s right my dude. Love, love is a myth.
@afielsch4 жыл бұрын
@@paolaelizabethmorales8741 well, yes I got burnt more times than I care to admit. But it is a general problem imo. Ppl tend to fuck u over.
@Mysikrysa4 жыл бұрын
I had one and the mistake was I ever tried to date. It´s not worth the effort, it´s draining, time-consuming, complicated and potentialy dangerous.
@rorymcelroy18874 жыл бұрын
"How's your love life?" Nonexistent, thanks for asking
@erikserban59033 жыл бұрын
Gone,reduced to atoms
@sansibit47063 жыл бұрын
@Sultan Sahimbaev Chile man look at ur self ur also watching the video
@ranusmagnus656 Жыл бұрын
How I'm doing? Bad. Or probably worse. Everything you listed assumes at least a single past relationship. And I've never been even close to something like that. I seem to can't get dates at all.
@childkillers_shouldve_NoState5 ай бұрын
I am forever single 😂
@kms19553 жыл бұрын
Why I’m single: 1. I’m ugly 2. I never leave my house 3. I hate everyone 4. I have a crush on a fictional character 5. I have no friends
@kms19553 жыл бұрын
Bonus: And I liked my own comment
@NISHA-hv1ej3 жыл бұрын
You are not alone
@am_23953 жыл бұрын
Same.
@thegimlichannel3 жыл бұрын
First of all, many people seem to think or feel they're ugly - whether they are or not. That feeling's there, but it doesn't necessarily speak truth. (and in before something in you says "But I'm really ugly, you don't understand" - yes that's what the feels say in everyone who feels ugly - you're not alone in that :) ). Also, it's my experience that how other people view you is more determined by your attitude and way of expressing than simple physical looks anyway =). "I hate everyone" . Don't know what that is based on, but if you start looking for it, most people have at least something positive about them and that includes yourself. Regardless of what you may feel. If you practice looking for it, you'll start to see it more and more, which makes it easier to make friends, too. Doesn't mean you need to trust strangers or acquaintances blindly with everything, but you can start to gradually grow in trust. Good luck finding happiness - everyone deserves that!
@cherilynsarts88453 жыл бұрын
Beauty is subjective so you're not ugly
@zzz41684 жыл бұрын
"you set unrealistic standards" me who's only attracted to fictional characters: 👁️👄👁️
@okcook37244 жыл бұрын
No. You may be demisexual. Thats a sign. But demisexuals only fall in love or get attracted once they have a close bond or a emotional bond with someone. Meaning your really close to them and care about them before you start getting romantic feelings for them or wanting to go on a date.
@shawnasantos42984 жыл бұрын
@@okcook3724 sounds like you've never heard of a Weeb.
@darkn4s4 жыл бұрын
seek help
@shawnasantos42984 жыл бұрын
@@darkn4s weak sauce.
@strawberrybee28814 жыл бұрын
Little voice well crap I might be demisexual then
@BalefulStr1x Жыл бұрын
One is the big one for me - even reaching the point where a relationship is unrealistic to me, as a “I rather not” kind of deal. I’m introverted and honestly, prefer the certainty of my own company to the potential idea of “the one”
@DawnshieId Жыл бұрын
Just be yourself all the way, and then you can have both authenticity and friendship.
@steamedbun372211 ай бұрын
I'm afraid of being happy. every time I'm happy in life, met someone, everything starts to go wrong.
@madao78654 жыл бұрын
Why am I still single: 1. I can't get off my butt and do something about it.
@SourRobo83644 жыл бұрын
Given the state of the world, that's suppose to be the best thing we all do. Doesn't help any of our lonely asses.
@nasenbein69244 жыл бұрын
i too was cursed with a too comfy butt..
@SourRobo83644 жыл бұрын
@brown power ranger I'm sorry, but I can't take someone seriously when they forget to capitalize the first letter on their words after a period. Also, no reason to be rude like that.
@madao78654 жыл бұрын
@brown power ranger Has someone with a cartoon picture been mean to you on the internet?
@brianhanes54135 ай бұрын
I stopped trying because people are too complicated these days.
@FinalVegeto4 жыл бұрын
Why am I still single: 1. I am ugly as hell That's it.
@xxmeme5terxx7063 жыл бұрын
Same here
@zedium32803 жыл бұрын
Not a reason, I am sure you arent ugly and love doesn't come from the outside, it's the inside which matters
@xxmeme5terxx7063 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying that
@Life-Sky3 жыл бұрын
Not true, there are many things other than subjective beauty...you are probably poor, dumb and boring too! :D
@foiletta19873 жыл бұрын
U cute owo
@SunSaiko Жыл бұрын
Someone said "I've lived through more pandemics than relationships" and I can't agree more 😂😂😂
@Maphics. Жыл бұрын
I think I understand what my issue(s) is now: 1. I'm in love with in the idea of having a partner. 2. I live (semi) rurally and don't have a drivers license and thus normally stay at home. 3. I've had bad messaging in the past on relationships, giving me the impression of being locked in and trapped like it's "too much time and effort."
@shubhamkale11634 жыл бұрын
"Roses are red, Violets are blue, Vodka costs less Than dinner for two."
@ITIsFunnyDamnIT4 жыл бұрын
I'd rather have weed. It still cost less than dinner for two
@missshannonsunshine4 жыл бұрын
ItIsFunnyDamnIt luckily, I can afford both
@heraturcoaz51314 жыл бұрын
LoL 😅
@karadiberlino4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂👌🏼
@victoriasmith28134 жыл бұрын
Ayyy 😂😂
@unfairartms4 жыл бұрын
Them: "you can't love someone else if you don't learn to love yourself first" Me: IM FOREVER SINGLEEEEE
@vicdjsus92994 жыл бұрын
They said that if someone loved you(friends or family),you will love yourself more Remember there is someone who will always love you
@gamemaggot24504 жыл бұрын
don't Thinklike that
@sakuraitaurus4 жыл бұрын
neonappl3_ honestly that quote is bullshit bc that basically says that all bc you have low self esteem or hate yourself or have a mental illness that makes you hate yourself you don’t deserve to be in a relationship unless you get rid of that which is hard to get rid off. That quote does more harm than good
@TitanJonkler4 жыл бұрын
You can't love someone ekze if you don't love yourself first Me: Self Loathing Intesfies
@markuchiha77374 жыл бұрын
Money will not leave you forever
@emjizone6 ай бұрын
This video made me feel much worse.
@pepepepe86546 ай бұрын
I have streak of 15 years being single. At 15 years old now still haven't been told ''I love you'' and I won't be told for a long time
@Not_Soundwave3 жыл бұрын
Reasons why I'm single: 1. No one's asked. 2. See 1.
@totall33713 жыл бұрын
I felt that on a spiritual level 😔
@BigbeanGamerz3 жыл бұрын
Same
@xXUltimate_GopnikXx3 жыл бұрын
Honestly
@RideAcrossTheRiver3 жыл бұрын
When women say "nobody asks me out," I look at who's asked them out and why they're labelled 'nobody'
@itsnotmeitsyou7173 жыл бұрын
@@RideAcrossTheRiver 😂🤭
@iicurrentlyjacky41573 жыл бұрын
"What mistakes have you made in your past relationships" *Bold of you to assume I've had past relationships*
@JellyBlobs3 жыл бұрын
Lol same! Unless my manga/anime crushes count-
@jonathanwilliams3653 жыл бұрын
Lol
@ThaSeptVirgo504 Жыл бұрын
I've been single all of my life so I don't know about being in a relationship or being in love at all. It sucks so much, I want someone special but I don't know what to look for.
@privatecanook11 ай бұрын
A small reminder to people that if only 0.1 percent of the world population was interested in you. That is still 800,000 people ☺️
@bluegloop80233 жыл бұрын
Video: "What's your love life? Are you single?" Me: are you asking me out? Or...?
@ramonita2123 жыл бұрын
Ha!😄 you're funny
@bluegloop80233 жыл бұрын
@@ramonita212 thank you!
@joevquezon81643 жыл бұрын
Underrated comment 😅😅
@HighPriestess-mq5hc3 жыл бұрын
Messy breakup ✔ Toxic relationship ✔ Childhood trauma ✔ Trust issues ✔ Low self esteem ✔ Love someone I cant have ✔
@ottovonbasedmark3 жыл бұрын
except for no. 2 and the last one, i completely agree. I've been in one relationship 5 years ago and that is the reason I have massive trust issues. And my capability to show emotions to anyone is crippled, so even if I do find somebody, they'll have a hard time to feel my love because I cant express it. Big yikes, my love future is looking great....
@baek16693 жыл бұрын
It's the toxic realashinship for me oo
@basicbitch76703 жыл бұрын
Same
@baek16693 жыл бұрын
@@basicbitch7670 your profile is just...beautiful
@prasujyahazarika2373 жыл бұрын
Except for 2 everything is relatable :-!
@taoprosperitycounselingpll57796 ай бұрын
Tao Prosperity Counseling -- "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud."
@B-503_Yukikaze Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately I relate to a few of these behaviors, and really hope I can work on improving them.
@madblood64933 жыл бұрын
Why I'm single: •Still dealing with the passing of my lover •Regaining my confidence •The desire for romance comes and goes •Can feel wrong for having feelings with someone different.
@Snezzleify3 жыл бұрын
Hugs….
@archangelbilladodeyla20893 жыл бұрын
Keep fighting man!
@userm1802 жыл бұрын
are u ok? :((
@jaykay63212 жыл бұрын
Reasons for me: 1. Too shy 2. Too many fears/insecurities about relationships 3. Way too busy with hobbies 4. No idea where to meet new people (and even if I knew, straight back to point 1) I came to the conclusion it's better to stay single and remain who I am...today relationships are all about drama, mistrust and ending up in hurting each other...I can really go without those things
@stefanialorusso69002 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. I am shy, myself.
@yungtouch225th2 жыл бұрын
Wait a minute….there’s a perfect couple right here! Two shy people…(plot twist) they’re expecting a shy baby because I’m late w my jokes…nah bless u guys
@mainmain2822 жыл бұрын
nahh broo im just like you but now i feel like i just need to face my fears and try to find someone :)
@HJ00072 жыл бұрын
Ye, I have the same problems as you. But one day, I said to myself that I have to stop focusing on things I can’t control, and from then on I started working on myself a lot. Worked hard at school, studied a lot, workout, work at nights. It patched a big hole in my life, and in the future, it’s gonna be very rewarding
@PaperBagMan8842 жыл бұрын
Reason for me: Ugly
@lacycalhoun7773 Жыл бұрын
For the whole 2 years that this video has been up, I have been single
@TomoMomoDomo6 ай бұрын
I was bullied a lot growing up so... I've definitely put up a lot of walls over the years. I've definitely developed an unhealthy level of cynicism (not just towards love but just towards other people in general), low self-esteem, a lot of trust issues, and probably plenty of fear towards not just happiness and attachment or the loss of potential independence, but also the fear of something *something* going wrong. It's a terrible bubble tbh.
@MorganAFunches5 ай бұрын
Aww I'm sorry and I can relate to being bullied. I got bullied at school and it's one of the reasons I have suicidal thoughts.