A woman must have value in order to be valued. So many women are not worth the chase,

I don't need much help. I got old and figurrd it out. I like to watch channels like this and make fun of them but you are spot on and smart, so, I have nothing to make fun of.

Not having a woman relationship in the 20 years since my divorce is just a normal American and Western Culture thing and next month I will be getting my Passport !!!

100% true Apollonia, but it can be hard when I keep trying and only get rejected. I’ve now referred three young colleagues to your channel and they have changed their mindsets from blame to getting out there and are getting dates. So happy for them and I believe there are lots of amazing women. But it’s not yet working for me 😢. Maybe I’m too old, I just want one woman and hopefully start a family ❤.

Always like your input Apalonia, as an older gent that has been very isolated in my last 17 years . Due to my job, I've found the years have quickly gone by. I'm ready to enjoy the golden years and be more confident. Also God willing someone to share more intimacy and fun times

You are absolutely right, you got my attention felt like this video was directed to me. Now that I'm older I acknowledge I have passed trauma that affected my relationships when I was younger. Took me a long time to see the flags within myself, and fix them.

It's true. I have a scarcity mindset and other bad habits. I need to examine my life and replace those habits

Most of her videos, that I have watched. I am saying to myself " how does she know so much about me" I definitely can relate to a lot of these things. This scarcity mind set started with me since I was 10 years old and got my first rejection. I am now in my 40's been married twice ( 4 kids) and slept with a lot of women, but realized they were all trash. 😢. The absent dad syndrome she talk about also touched me and the list goes on and one... Than you Apolonia keep making these videos ❤

"dating brings out unhealed parts of ourselves" I like that. I'm emotionally intelligent but I definitely have a scarcity mindset, for while I'm heeled and healthy and mentally clean, yet the selection of women Ive created usually have medicine cabinets filled with prescription drugs. The easy to discover the ones that tell you early, but many others mask it for as long as they can before the crazy comes out. Without bars or online, I have to find someone who is healthy. What's also interesting, you spoke about emotional intelligence having to do with the types of women. How I heard it, I may be emotionally intelligent with unhealthy women, because I'm healthy, but am I truly emotionally intelligent with healthy women, would I know one if I saw her?? Very interesting. I'll have to accept the challenge

Thank you Apollonia for your Great advice. On how to pursue women.

I totally feel there is a scarcity of good women.

You're getting better after your time off 😊

Abundance is the problem now specifically with the dating apps

Yea I lack experience with women not gonna lie u are speaking to me I didn't kno about the scarcity mindset or that I have it but after u broke it down I do have it

Rejection and non-reciprocation is just a normal woman thing !!!

Apollonia is just real

Thanks for this 💯👑🔥

absolutely you're speaking to me.

My problem is they choose me instead of me choosing them

Thanks, Apollonia.

A majority of men dating content creators always say that you don't have to be tall, handsome, with wealth and status to successful with women. I spent 10 years in the marketing event coordination business. I've sat through hours and hours of meet and greet marketing events. I can tell you from front line experience. Height, looks, build, the appearance of wealth and status is the number one thing women look for. At least in the initial attraction phase. I've seen these men dominate events just because they had the physical characteristics that women are attracted to. I've known great men who make great money be completely ignored. The reason being they weren't tall or handsome. Most on the short side, maybe a little overweight, possibly balding. These men dressed well and had a great presence. But it doesn't appeal to women. Hypergamy kicks in and the women go with it naturally. Be nice for just one creator to tell the truth and stop selling false hope.

Apollonia I just saw your image in an advertisement offering Slavic women for long-term companionship

Mindset is key 🔑 🔥

Love the setup. You look awesome ❤

Make the point please

In the last 12 months I had 3 females that we were attracted to each other tell me friends don't date just deep conversations took place between us !!! Asking for a date is a no win situation that doesn't happen but I do attract many women just no dates and asking means no dates !!!

Thank you!!

Thanks!

I am a college student, as you can see i don't have a lot of resources but i have a lot of ambition and i am working towards my goals, so far i am doing a degree in finance and a certificate in hvac and sometimes because of the lack of resources i think i would not find a girlfriend. my ex-girlfriend left me back in 2022 and i been struggling with that mentality

Thunk u so much

Epic thanks 🎯💯

Apollonia looking fit ❤

a girl i liked broke my heart when i asked her out to join me for a meal, she asked if she could invite her guy friend to the restaurant, and he joined us in the restaurant.... fast forward she invited me to the cinema, and booked a a double couch seat for her and a single seat for me which really hurt, i just wanted to sit next to her, i have never been in appropriate with her, always kind and she hurt me like no other, to make matters worse she started to talk about how cute the cinema waiter was..... women are so mentally draining.

Dang you hit it on the nail! Will be signing up soon

I've heard too many times from woman that I am too masculine ( broad shoulders, physically fit, blue eyes, good career.... ) Followed by it is not you I don't trust, it is woman always going to hit on you!! That tells me i cannot trust them because they will think it is ok to flirt with other men... I am not a slut ! All my girl friends have all been head turner's. That does not bother me hecause i can handle that typical invasion... My late wife was constantly being hit on and was able to put those creeps in their place... ,??? I just go through the motions keeping away from the one track mind of women that are insecure with a confident man. Do you have any recommendations?

Great...but where does one learn to properly flirt? I find that it's where the bulk of my rejections come from. A gal pal and a few friends wives keep saying that it's an innate quality that you have to be born with. I'm lost.

I live in Sacramento California. Are you sure there's good women here? Sure I can get them. After 100 narcissists. IDK what to do. My one good one died and left me with a 10 month old. He's 6 now. 🤷 I hope I'm the issue and there's a fix. Lol

what do you make of this girl (. I want a meaningful relationship, but I am also being careful. What are your plans for me? I hope that you are going to be patient with me

OK ill bite, but you shouldnt normally ask a fish how to catch fish. Agreed on the scarcity mindset issue though so far.

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There is only one way: Never chase a woman.

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You are just selling the illusion.....OMG you don't have to work hard at all in order to have dates as it's not complicated matter, when there's no complications to begin with in the first place.

I’m good enough, she isn’t.

😂😂 you sell a garbage. signal my comment one more time...