A woman must have value in order to be valued. So many women are not worth the chase,
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
Facts, and a man must have value in order to witness value. :-)
@maxespinosa50524 ай бұрын
ONLY A MAN WILL UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU JUST SAID,NOT A FEMALE DATING COACH.
@in.edieudonnesworld31673 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂@@ApolloniaPonti
@cliffthecoolcat4 ай бұрын
I don't need much help. I got old and figurrd it out. I like to watch channels like this and make fun of them but you are spot on and smart, so, I have nothing to make fun of.
@jamesmarchetti32864 ай бұрын
Not having a woman relationship in the 20 years since my divorce is just a normal American and Western Culture thing and next month I will be getting my Passport !!!
@clubadv4 ай бұрын
Spot on Passport Bro. Having to master these crazy things to deal with the western woman isn't worth it.
@clubadv4 ай бұрын
There is very little reason to work so hard to land the crazy volatile emotional neurotic unappreciative western woman. Watch what it's like to come home to Eastern ladies gents. Don't be a river trying to go up the mountain.
@maxespinosa50524 ай бұрын
GREAT IDEA BRO
@Brendan-054 ай бұрын
100% true Apollonia, but it can be hard when I keep trying and only get rejected. I’ve now referred three young colleagues to your channel and they have changed their mindsets from blame to getting out there and are getting dates. So happy for them and I believe there are lots of amazing women. But it’s not yet working for me 😢. Maybe I’m too old, I just want one woman and hopefully start a family ❤.
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
Oh thanks so much for sharing my channel. Appreciate it. Def do and try your best and it will come. :-)
@davidsisson20264 ай бұрын
Always like your input Apalonia, as an older gent that has been very isolated in my last 17 years . Due to my job, I've found the years have quickly gone by. I'm ready to enjoy the golden years and be more confident. Also God willing someone to share more intimacy and fun times
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
Awesome! Let's get out of your comfort zone and get yourself out there! :-)
@johnBlackwolf6914 ай бұрын
You are absolutely right, you got my attention felt like this video was directed to me. Now that I'm older I acknowledge I have passed trauma that affected my relationships when I was younger. Took me a long time to see the flags within myself, and fix them.
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
At least you are here now and able to do it and turn things around. It's still perfect timing. :-)
@brentcastro109874 ай бұрын
It's true. I have a scarcity mindset and other bad habits. I need to examine my life and replace those habits
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
You are the driver of your life. You can do this.
@bigkaliba32204 ай бұрын
Most of her videos, that I have watched. I am saying to myself " how does she know so much about me" I definitely can relate to a lot of these things. This scarcity mind set started with me since I was 10 years old and got my first rejection. I am now in my 40's been married twice ( 4 kids) and slept with a lot of women, but realized they were all trash. 😢. The absent dad syndrome she talk about also touched me and the list goes on and one... Than you Apolonia keep making these videos ❤
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching and for sharing this with us! I'm always fulfilled and happy when my videos are able to speak to you or help you!
@abouthisbiz43303 ай бұрын
"dating brings out unhealed parts of ourselves" I like that. I'm emotionally intelligent but I definitely have a scarcity mindset, for while I'm heeled and healthy and mentally clean, yet the selection of women Ive created usually have medicine cabinets filled with prescription drugs. The easy to discover the ones that tell you early, but many others mask it for as long as they can before the crazy comes out. Without bars or online, I have to find someone who is healthy. What's also interesting, you spoke about emotional intelligence having to do with the types of women. How I heard it, I may be emotionally intelligent with unhealthy women, because I'm healthy, but am I truly emotionally intelligent with healthy women, would I know one if I saw her?? Very interesting. I'll have to accept the challenge
@josecardenas86394 ай бұрын
Thank you Apollonia for your Great advice. On how to pursue women.
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
Thank you appreciate you!
@WilliamVaughn-si7ri4 ай бұрын
I totally feel there is a scarcity of good women.
@michaeljohnson60194 ай бұрын
You're getting better after your time off 😊
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
Right! I feel that way too. I just feel it more and more passion. I had passion a lot before but now it's another level. WATCH OUT! lol Appreciate you Michael. xoxo- Apollonia
@MagickYoga2 ай бұрын
Abundance is the problem now specifically with the dating apps
@513ChrisHeltzer29 күн бұрын
Yea I lack experience with women not gonna lie u are speaking to me I didn't kno about the scarcity mindset or that I have it but after u broke it down I do have it
@jamesmarchetti32864 ай бұрын
Rejection and non-reciprocation is just a normal woman thing !!!
@taylorbee40104 ай бұрын
Apollonia is just real
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
Love ya!
@maddenmotions13474 ай бұрын
Thanks for this 💯👑🔥
@emmanuelcharles382 ай бұрын
absolutely you're speaking to me.
@CHill-tj4gw4 ай бұрын
My problem is they choose me instead of me choosing them
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
oh yes! I hear this. This is because you haven't put yourself out there sometimes to be the one who pursues.
@CHill-tj4gw4 ай бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti I don’t try women meet me and try to claim me it’s annoying
@Yosef_Maharat4 ай бұрын
Thanks, Apollonia.
@briar359813 ай бұрын
A majority of men dating content creators always say that you don't have to be tall, handsome, with wealth and status to successful with women. I spent 10 years in the marketing event coordination business. I've sat through hours and hours of meet and greet marketing events. I can tell you from front line experience. Height, looks, build, the appearance of wealth and status is the number one thing women look for. At least in the initial attraction phase. I've seen these men dominate events just because they had the physical characteristics that women are attracted to. I've known great men who make great money be completely ignored. The reason being they weren't tall or handsome. Most on the short side, maybe a little overweight, possibly balding. These men dressed well and had a great presence. But it doesn't appeal to women. Hypergamy kicks in and the women go with it naturally. Be nice for just one creator to tell the truth and stop selling false hope.
@MrJazzyj4204 ай бұрын
Apollonia I just saw your image in an advertisement offering Slavic women for long-term companionship
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
That is a scam and it's not me! I have alot of people online posing as me.. This is my only youtube channel and I'm verified on instagram.
@ChristopherHillJr4 ай бұрын
Mindset is key 🔑 🔥
@markdotson74704 ай бұрын
Love the setup. You look awesome ❤
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
OMG! Thanks so so much. I love hearing this from my community. Appreciate you noticing.
@toniirawan38644 ай бұрын
Make the point please
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
I have in all +10 min of this video.
@jamesmarchetti32864 ай бұрын
In the last 12 months I had 3 females that we were attracted to each other tell me friends don't date just deep conversations took place between us !!! Asking for a date is a no win situation that doesn't happen but I do attract many women just no dates and asking means no dates !!!
@jamesmarchetti32864 ай бұрын
There many psychological and actual physical reasons that I don't do pornography !!!
@jamesmarchetti32864 ай бұрын
Rejection and non-reciprocation is just a normal woman thing !!!
@jamillopez61454 ай бұрын
Thank you!!
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
Welcome!
@fryerjason114 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
xo
@luiscalisthenics4 ай бұрын
I am a college student, as you can see i don't have a lot of resources but i have a lot of ambition and i am working towards my goals, so far i am doing a degree in finance and a certificate in hvac and sometimes because of the lack of resources i think i would not find a girlfriend. my ex-girlfriend left me back in 2022 and i been struggling with that mentality
@frankagyekum34924 ай бұрын
Sorry man
@sethsoderman51524 ай бұрын
Thunk u so much
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
Most welcome 😊
@businessboom61434 ай бұрын
Epic thanks 🎯💯
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
So happy you enjoyed. Thanks for your comment.
@Kk-iw4ck4 ай бұрын
Apollonia looking fit ❤
@maxespinosa50524 ай бұрын
A LITTLE TOO CHUBBY,NEEDS TO LOSE A FEW
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
Thank you! Trying bouncing back from having a baby. Appreciate you for noticing. :-)
@ILLRICARDO4 ай бұрын
a girl i liked broke my heart when i asked her out to join me for a meal, she asked if she could invite her guy friend to the restaurant, and he joined us in the restaurant.... fast forward she invited me to the cinema, and booked a a double couch seat for her and a single seat for me which really hurt, i just wanted to sit next to her, i have never been in appropriate with her, always kind and she hurt me like no other, to make matters worse she started to talk about how cute the cinema waiter was..... women are so mentally draining.
@maxespinosa50524 ай бұрын
DRAINING LIKE YOU WONT BELIEVE BROTHER!
@actionpakanime35624 ай бұрын
She didn’t hurt u u hurt yourself how. Can u go out with a woman that tells u to invite somebody else Much less a man
@jeffdeiparine034 ай бұрын
Dang you hit it on the nail! Will be signing up soon
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
Can't wait. :-)
@JanS-yi1vp4 ай бұрын
I've heard too many times from woman that I am too masculine ( broad shoulders, physically fit, blue eyes, good career.... ) Followed by it is not you I don't trust, it is woman always going to hit on you!! That tells me i cannot trust them because they will think it is ok to flirt with other men... I am not a slut ! All my girl friends have all been head turner's. That does not bother me hecause i can handle that typical invasion... My late wife was constantly being hit on and was able to put those creeps in their place... ,??? I just go through the motions keeping away from the one track mind of women that are insecure with a confident man. Do you have any recommendations?
@Cee_Eff4 ай бұрын
Great...but where does one learn to properly flirt? I find that it's where the bulk of my rejections come from. A gal pal and a few friends wives keep saying that it's an innate quality that you have to be born with. I'm lost.
@LastEarBender4 ай бұрын
I believe that Apalonia has several videos on that topic - as do many others on KZfaq - and if you really want to, there are many programs for sale that teach various techniques - some of them are kinda slimy, so you'll probably have to sift thru a bit
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
Yes. I do.
@Cee_Eff4 ай бұрын
@LastEarBender I've looked at many programs, and I have found them to be very douchey/slimy
@roryt4204 ай бұрын
I live in Sacramento California. Are you sure there's good women here? Sure I can get them. After 100 narcissists. IDK what to do. My one good one died and left me with a 10 month old. He's 6 now. 🤷 I hope I'm the issue and there's a fix. Lol
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
Hi there- I'm so sorry to hear this. I know it's hard but are you screening women? Of course, there are good women out there but it also depends on our energy, our belief system and we will attract just that.
@christopher-yi3rm4 ай бұрын
what do you make of this girl (. I want a meaningful relationship, but I am also being careful. What are your plans for me? I hope that you are going to be patient with me
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
This sounds like she's trying to know what you're intentions are for her and at the same time she's trying to take her time getting to know you.
@clubadv4 ай бұрын
OK ill bite, but you shouldnt normally ask a fish how to catch fish. Agreed on the scarcity mindset issue though so far.
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
If a fish could talk wouldn't you want to know how to catch it!? :-)
@in.edieudonnesworld31673 ай бұрын
@@ApolloniaPontino, I wouldn't.
@amabohenry51534 ай бұрын
❤
@MrOsmanu4 ай бұрын
There is only one way: Never chase a woman.
@maxespinosa50524 ай бұрын
AWESOME COMMENT
@jermainerosser11904 ай бұрын
💎💎💎💎
@bobalexandris2554 ай бұрын
You are just selling the illusion.....OMG you don't have to work hard at all in order to have dates as it's not complicated matter, when there's no complications to begin with in the first place.
@ApolloniaPonti4 ай бұрын
So what's the illusion?
@TomFox14 ай бұрын
I’m good enough, she isn’t.
@maxespinosa50524 ай бұрын
Love that comment
@TomFox14 ай бұрын
@@maxespinosa5052❤
@samidoc21243 ай бұрын
😂😂 you sell a garbage. signal my comment one more time...