She’s being honest, y’all can cry about it or use this to your advantage. 🤷🏽♂️
@ALFfan19 ай бұрын
It’s easier to complain than to look in the mirror for many
@kludgybrains34599 ай бұрын
Any of your homies constantly being a victim would annoy you. It's tenfold for the ladies.
@backyardrailroader9 ай бұрын
All good points, Apollonia. I feel I have many of these qualities. I am still working on being positive, though. Too many things has happened in the past 6 years. It seems that the negative side of me comes out at thexwrong time. Just weary of riding the wild Rollercoaster....just want it to slow down to catch my breath.
@Kk-iw4ck9 ай бұрын
Positive attitude is a must In any part of your life
@ApolloniaPonti9 ай бұрын
I agree, Somedays are hard but always prevailing is key.
@TomFox19 ай бұрын
I like when she crazy in a good way, now she crazy in a bad way 😂😂😂
@sergiowilson57157 ай бұрын
I'll say it again Coach! we should put your face on money! Blessings to all from Cape Town South Africa!
@David1000BC9 ай бұрын
Great information .. thank you!
@ApolloniaPonti9 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@NoName-zb1gm9 ай бұрын
This is why I'd rather ask out the woman I like not caring she may say no and regardless of whether she has a boyfriend. I'd rather be a confident jerk than a likeable loser. I'm concerned if she's using me for attention. That would tick me off more than just saying no or having a boyfriend.
@sepehrui9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much dear Apollonia. I loooooovvvvvvve your content!!!!!!!!
@ApolloniaPonti9 ай бұрын
You're welcome! Sending you so much love back! - Apollonia
@ronelldeadrick92529 ай бұрын
Thank you for your work !
@ApolloniaPonti9 ай бұрын
Thank you for being here with me. :-)
@erchobo9 ай бұрын
so, Money is the key :3
@hlonipenn6155Ай бұрын
Thank you
@trytolaugh23186 ай бұрын
Hey Apollonia.. great content .. great efficient presentation.. wish I knew everything you know 30 years ago.. I’ve been a great rational choice forever.. I have most traits you talk about.. but forgot to make a woman FEEL😊😅
@ApolloniaPonti5 ай бұрын
Thanks for being here and for your comment. Happy you enjoyed the video. - Apollonia
@1lifechoosewisely4839 ай бұрын
She has to be attracted to you first and your kicking it with her and then all of this takes place, not before when she does'nt know you and you hollered at her or she wants you physically because alot of men have these traits but they dont know it unless she is kicking it with you first and she wants to be feminine with you.
@TomFox19 ай бұрын
I got all 7 ap 🙏
@dwisdomwarrior9 ай бұрын
Gratitude cos I find your video channel interesting I love to listen to everyday. Is motivating and inspiring ❤❤❤
@ApolloniaPonti9 ай бұрын
You inspire me to continue, Thank you! - Apollonia
@michaelbogan39409 ай бұрын
Your the greatest 😊😊😊
@ApolloniaPonti9 ай бұрын
xoxo
@tebogontau10949 ай бұрын
hey AP, just a quick one dearest, What would be the signs that power of no contact works. my crush can't even look me in the eyes🤣🤣🤣
@ApolloniaPonti9 ай бұрын
I have a video about no contact and it will answer that and more. Just go to my videos and search no contact. :-)
@tebogontau10949 ай бұрын
🤣🤣....OK AP, but I thought you would just give an answer. Honestly, I watch your content so much that it gets me confused.
@sethtenrec4 ай бұрын
@@tebogontau1094 this creator has 2/3 of 1 million followers, she’s not gonna respond to your personal issues. Get real.
@marguskiis7711Ай бұрын
Seeing how popular are drug/alco addicts in Europe it is hard to believe.
@kosycat19 ай бұрын
can a guy be nearly broke and resonsable at the same time?
@michaelmich009 ай бұрын
doesnt work on broken women, and thats getting more usual than we think
@marguskiis7711Ай бұрын
80% of 40 plus women are damaged
@xFrozenxSnowx9 ай бұрын
Become someone you despise. Pretending is the new game.
@_WalexАй бұрын
How funny and ironic is it to check all 7 yet still rejected 🤡
@slackman76419 ай бұрын
Just remember the wall comes for em all boys!😂
@Jumpmaster19909 ай бұрын
I have to agree with many of you here. Confidence for a woman has dollar signs. I appreciate Apollonia's effort, but she is far removed from the everyday life of the average man in America. The men who built this country and maintain its infrastructure. The men who do the dirty jobs so people can have a comfortable life. If you're not Chad, or Tyrone with the appearance of wealth or status, the average man is invisible. Women are born with their value, men have to earn it. I sometimes wonder who these alleged thousands of men are whom she claims to have coached and helped get into successful relationships. She also does matchmaking, which she offers in her Algorithm of Attraction, sounds like a way to groom men for her female clients to be used as pawns.
@ApolloniaPonti9 ай бұрын
Actually, why not do research before accusing. Click the link and see all the proven testimonial's I have. Also, I don't have female clients only men. I don't use men as pawns that is not in my nature. You assumptions in life will hold you back. Its sad to see you think the worse of someone who just wants to help men in dating and relationships. As this is a very hard avenue for many to navigate.
@Jumpmaster19909 ай бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti It's strange that this is the first time I see you respond. I must have struck a nerve. You are able to do your business because there is no avenue for someone to engage you in dialogue to discuss points which they may disagree with, that you make. In this day and age people can be paid to give testimonials on behalf of someone. Do you have data on the ratio of success as compared to the thousands of men that you claim to have worked with. You say my assumptions of life will hold me back. It's my experience that has brought me to believe as I do. I am not held back, quite the opposite, by changing my mindset with regard to women I feel more free and in control than before. You say that you want to help men in dating and relationships, however I disagree with some of the points that you make. You will not even acknowledge the Hypergamy of women. Most women are competing for the top 10% of men. It's due to the over inflated values that women have placed upon themselves. Of course dating and relationships are hard for men, but you are not a man, and you are a married woman. You have not lived as a man to understand what the average male must endure every day just to repeat all over again. As I see your method, you are trying to rewire men from their natural biological mindset. Statistics show that by the year 2030 45-50% of women in America will be single and childless. Modern Feminism has convinced women that men are not necessary and they can be the independent boss babe. However, reality sets in when they are home alone with no one to talk to or to hold them. More and more women are displaying masculine traits because of this epidemic. So in closing, I applaud you and your successful business, it seems to be working for you so far. But I will continue to live in the real world, where men are sometimes imprisoned just because a woman can manipulate the justice system. When you have experienced prison for 6 years because of a false allegation, how do you find the capability to want to be around women. FYI, prison is not fun for sex offenders.
@Sports5909 ай бұрын
That's your Bad Luck, It depends on how much emotionally available the woman is around you, If she is NOT Interested in you or NOT into you, She will find ways to get rid of you 😢 "Always have Consent before Intimacy and bring that consent will your skills and abilities not making false promises"
@Jumpmaster19909 ай бұрын
@@Sports590 I appreciate your comment, but I was directing mine towards Apollonia and her staff. I
@NbaYoungBoyWithABeard7 ай бұрын
@@Jumpmaster1990The fact you use terms like Chad or Tyrone show that you’re already finished
@mdmohid12129 ай бұрын
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@surfreadjumpsleep9 ай бұрын
do women realize that prioritizing confidence is a great way to get involved with a cheater / smooth operator / narcissist. You aren't finding some raw confidence, what you are doing is selecting a man who has PRACTICED his confidence. I'll tell you what gives guys the most confidence: multiple women calling and texting us. by selecting for confidence you send a signal that this is something important. And then how do we get confidence? By being comfortable talking with women, improving small talk, improving seduction skills. You are TRAINING US to leave you. I know it's hard not to be attracted to confidence. It's in a woman's biological programming. Sometimes though this programming is not to your longer term benefit.
@SomeHobo9 ай бұрын
Your theory has one flaw, I'm a man that has gained confidence through the means you described (and then some) and now I'm looking for the right woman to settle down with. And I know a handful of other friends who took the same journey and some of them are now looking for the same thing.
@surfreadjumpsleep9 ай бұрын
@@SomeHobo yeah but wouldn't it have been nice if a woman didn't jave this kind of bogus confidence requirement. Here's an extreme example imagine you're a woman in silicon valley in 1995. Surrounded by unconfident men in their twenties. All of those guys became millionaires and are living great lives. Meanwhile the confident guys well maybe they're working at the gas station.
@Dj.D259 ай бұрын
I’ve known a few women who were attracted to a man because of his confidence or drive and they paid some serious consequences. These women it seemed just HAD to be with him right from the start. They never questioned his beliefs or values. They wanted to be in a relationship or sleep with him right away. Even when me, friends and family warned her he’s bad news, they made all kinds of excuses.
@TomFox19 ай бұрын
Some woman want intimacy then the entire actual relationship or marriage.
@SomeHobo9 ай бұрын
@@surfreadjumpsleep Why is the confidence requirement bogus though? Women are biologically wired to be attracted to this "recipe" because it benefited them evolutionarily. A man's genuine confidence is an honest signal to a woman that he's a good sexual partner for her because the only way a man can genuinely cultivate confidence is by building it on a solid foundation of strength, stability, intellect, resources, power, knowledge etc., etc. Even your particular example of multiple women calling you being a confidence boost is an honest signal to the woman that you are a good sexual partner because it means you were pre-selected by other women. (He was chosen by other hot women = He is obviously a high-demand good catch for me). Yes, men can learn what the recipe looks like on the outside and then emulate it, which doesn't always work too well (god knows we've all been there, I certainly have) and it's something that Apollonia refers to as "he immediately came off as playing a script" in a bunch of her other videos. Let me ask you, is our requirement as men to be attracted to a woman's beauty, bogus? Or is it because millions of years of evolution has wired our brains that way? And yes, just like a woman can be very unhappy later in life with a man who she fell for for his confidence just like a man can be very unhappy with a woman that he fell for for her beauty. I am not saying men and women following their evolutionary drives is going to always land them in happy places, I am saying it's natural, not at all bogus, and both men and women need to be smart about the decisions we make.
@liamodonovan66109 ай бұрын
I want ro stay single relationships arw so not worth it
@kc2703529 ай бұрын
nobody cares for your complaining 🙄
@TomFox19 ай бұрын
Then why you watching this?
@sethtenrec4 ай бұрын
@@TomFox1lol, exactly!
@ronelldeadrick92529 ай бұрын
First
@269adventures9 ай бұрын
This is useless lol. Either your good looking and attractive or your not. A guy 5’6” 250 pounds that’s unattractive isn’t going to get a hot woman no matter what and how many steps and advice you give. It comes down to chemistry, you can’t make, force manipulate or create.
@Music-yq8qc9 ай бұрын
Then go and lose the weight. This is the attitude women are NOT attracted too.
@Jimmy911ism9 ай бұрын
Relatively good looking and attractive guy here. I'm a bit older, 46, losing my looks, not doing well and am unsatisfied with myself. I lack confidence and real belief, as I'm not pursuing my main goal with any grit... I lost a woman to a 51yo chubby guy who works in produce at the local supermarket. Sure, she's a married 32yo Filipina secretly (she thinks) planning to dupe her 67yo sponsor who she lives with to go back with her 51yo husband. Phew! So why am I upset to lose this immoral grave robber who is clearly using men? Because she's now using 'Porky Pig from fruit&veg' instead of me for her sexual outlet until her visa application fails/succeeds... and it's because Pork is more confident and comfortable in his own skin. He's better off, but lacks potential; this doesn't matter, as I'm not looking like fulfilling my own (or I'm full of it, just a wannabe writer).
@dontmakemedoit51317 ай бұрын
Wrong. All you need to be is smooth know how to talk and treat a women you will see that aura shows