Psychotherapist with Insatiable Desire for Sex Conspires to Kill | Michelle Theer Case Analysis

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Dr. Todd Grande

Dr. Todd Grande

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@TheSahand68
@TheSahand68 Ай бұрын
After watching this video and after following the horrific story on Ruby Frankie and Judy Hilderbrand I'm becoming increasingly aware that mental health professionals can be dangerously crazy. Having a licence in mental health doesn't automatically mean that the person is mentally healthy.
@allenbanks9034
@allenbanks9034 Ай бұрын
In college, every person I knew who was pursuing a psychology degree was demonstrably nuts, one way or another. The all had one thing in common - whatever you were doing, whatever the size of the group, wherever you were…it was all about THEM. Definitely interesting when with a group of them, but mostly annoying.
@danielkomorowski7966
@danielkomorowski7966 Ай бұрын
Hanable was a doctor of psychiatry
@jenniferfox6300
@jenniferfox6300 Ай бұрын
I just had my therapist end the session cause I had a question. I thought we were supposed to talk in therapy?
@swl9104
@swl9104 Ай бұрын
Hanable
@hydrostatic8048
@hydrostatic8048 Ай бұрын
Has anyone ever stated otherwise?
@counterbalancelife4305
@counterbalancelife4305 Ай бұрын
She was actually dual certified, as both a Psycho and a Therapist.
@jackiegarroutte8970
@jackiegarroutte8970 20 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂 best comment! Thanks for the laugh
@eeyoresgirl55
@eeyoresgirl55 17 күн бұрын
She’s psycho alright
@allenfitzpatrick8485
@allenfitzpatrick8485 9 күн бұрын
Psyco the rapist
@trevorthetherapist4200
@trevorthetherapist4200 8 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@greganderson2239
@greganderson2239 6 күн бұрын
lmao!!! great comment
@dawndraper9371
@dawndraper9371 Ай бұрын
Dr. Grande needs merch that's says: "Mostly because of the murder part"
@dissidentfairy4264
@dissidentfairy4264 Ай бұрын
You deserve a commission. lol
@turqoiseillinois9955
@turqoiseillinois9955 Ай бұрын
Yes he does. ​@dissidentfairy4264
@lisaanderson7322
@lisaanderson7322 Ай бұрын
That made me laugh out loud🤣
@hhp2932
@hhp2932 Ай бұрын
Or "i'm not diagnosing anybody"
@ScareBear75
@ScareBear75 Ай бұрын
This is just a theory. My opinion. 😂
@djt8937
@djt8937 Ай бұрын
Someone asks if they can borrow my firearm, that is registered to me, and it's hell no.
@Catherinzsl
@Catherinzsl Ай бұрын
Practice run: "Hey, are you using your handgun this weekend? Could I borrow it? I need it for.... a thing. I'll bring it back Monday - assuming it hasn't been stolen or anything weird like that."
@BokushingusKendoTV
@BokushingusKendoTV Ай бұрын
Right!!! Isn’t like borrowing a jacket!
@ImNotaRussianBot
@ImNotaRussianBot Ай бұрын
​@@BokushingusKendoTV Borrowing a jacket is even weirder. Who calls up a buddy to borrow a mundane article of clothing?
@JMazzaTaz
@JMazzaTaz Ай бұрын
What about somebody that’s anonymous? Like me. Can I borrow it?
@BokushingusKendoTV
@BokushingusKendoTV Ай бұрын
@@ImNotaRussianBot you really wasting you time on this? Who makes a comment of this?
@gauthamseran
@gauthamseran Ай бұрын
"The only involvement of a birthday was through the deployment of a birthday suit." Stellar writing.
@DAmore143
@DAmore143 Ай бұрын
🥊
@russes088
@russes088 Ай бұрын
This one got me so good!! Stone cold delivery as always- Dr. Grande has a PHD in comedy 😂
@sarahjaye4117
@sarahjaye4117 Ай бұрын
😂
@micnorton9487
@micnorton9487 Ай бұрын
COULDA BEEN BETTER lol,, I know it's warped but there should have been a lot more soldier allusions,, "John tried to be all he could be, assigning himself to duty with a real moving unit who kept his pecker hard and his powder dry, but when an enemy incursion happened he almost lost his little spitfire so he got a gun from Navaronne, but he went a bridge too far and ended up standing tall before the man, trading the sands of Iwo jima for a lifetime deployment in The stockade" lol.......
@aread7
@aread7 Ай бұрын
Awesome 😎
@Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52
@Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52 Ай бұрын
A good amount of people who become therapists choose that career path to try to figure out their own problems.
@24JJ821
@24JJ821 Ай бұрын
And people who don't become therapists don't care to figure out their problems.
@williamrunner6718
@williamrunner6718 Ай бұрын
True
@lamulatonagrande9835
@lamulatonagrande9835 Ай бұрын
Amen !!!! I’ve always suspected that.
@nurse580
@nurse580 Ай бұрын
Absolutely true I am an RN, worked in a psychiatric Hospital with a lot of unstable people Psychiatrists had the highest suicide rate amongst professionals in Australia for a while & Im sure Nurses have a much higher rate as well
@ISTPx5w6
@ISTPx5w6 Ай бұрын
@@nurse580yup I'm a mental health nurse in the UK with bipolar disorder. With that comes my own commitment to my mental health albeit over here we suffer much vicarious trauma & appalling working conditions that's the main reason for our mental ill health; I've been off by far more with work related stress
@naturalroyalflush
@naturalroyalflush Ай бұрын
Buying life insurance can be hazardous to your health.
@briant7265
@briant7265 Ай бұрын
A friend of mine was shopping for a policy, and they told him they wouldn't write a policy over a certain amount. They told him that insureds with policies over that have a disturbingly high rate of being murdered.
@davidhull7814
@davidhull7814 Ай бұрын
of course when trust goe's away!
@dwoodstwin
@dwoodstwin Ай бұрын
@@briant7265🧢
@ethorii
@ethorii 26 күн бұрын
Having it bought for you is even worse.
@kathleensueoka3599
@kathleensueoka3599 15 күн бұрын
@@ethoriior the day you find out you have Cancer? Your husband hands you a life insurance policy that “just happened to come in the office mail” and told to fill it out asap. Nope!
@ethorii
@ethorii Ай бұрын
I turn heads too. People prefer to look away from me.
@petergianarakos4439
@petergianarakos4439 Ай бұрын
Awww, I bet that you are a fine person inside and outside. It's really the person you are inside that matters. Beauty and "handsome " fade all too soon. Never undervalue or be negative about yourself. ❤
@dissidentfairy4264
@dissidentfairy4264 Ай бұрын
Lol.
@nellybean69
@nellybean69 Ай бұрын
❤ 😂
@russellgoulding4263
@russellgoulding4263 Ай бұрын
Eat your heart out Rodney Dangerfield.
@ethorii
@ethorii Ай бұрын
@@petergianarakos4439 It's just a play on words. I'm a smoke show.
@ea8269
@ea8269 Ай бұрын
Her poor husband was married to the devil.
@motowngirl5891
@motowngirl5891 Ай бұрын
That’s NOT marriage, the man is not even there It’s all stupid and unhealthy It’s been accepted forever, it should not be
@ivannovotny4552
@ivannovotny4552 Ай бұрын
@ea No, to nymphomaniac.
@superxorn
@superxorn Ай бұрын
I think they are refering to the homocidal aspect@@ivannovotny4552
@natas12rm
@natas12rm Ай бұрын
Am I?
@Brando-wc8fz
@Brando-wc8fz Ай бұрын
@@ivannovotny4552That is disgusting. You are giving nymphomaniacs a bad name because of this monster?
@WilberforceWooster-uo2bl
@WilberforceWooster-uo2bl Ай бұрын
I don't know about turning heads, but her photos certainly turn my stomach.
@raspberrykitten6676
@raspberrykitten6676 Ай бұрын
Bertie!! 👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻
@iangallager4091
@iangallager4091 Ай бұрын
she had a very misty mirror in the bathroom and it told as many lies as she did throughout her life
@davidhull7814
@davidhull7814 Ай бұрын
made me turn away too!
@ashleylala4293
@ashleylala4293 Ай бұрын
Lol!
@MisterCaution
@MisterCaution Ай бұрын
Turned heads because it’s not often one sees a human face without lips.
@alukuhito
@alukuhito Ай бұрын
Imagine you join the military and the worst thing that could happen to you is to be killed by an enemy in a different country, only to end up being killed by your own wife in your own country?
@halroxdynasty8683
@halroxdynasty8683 Ай бұрын
I stg, I think about stuff like this all the time. 😢
@StartingOverSingleAgain
@StartingOverSingleAgain Ай бұрын
I'm glad she didn't take the 10 year deal; she's the worst kind of evil betrayer. Her husband went to therapy and dates with her, had a good job, and didn't seem to notice what a POS she was. She never appreciated him. 😒
@iangallager4091
@iangallager4091 Ай бұрын
photos suggested he looked a really nice guy
@jillruben8924
@jillruben8924 Ай бұрын
They offered her only 10 years? Our Justice system at its best. Good to know she’s in for life.
@kylefaber5449
@kylefaber5449 Ай бұрын
Probably thought she wouldn’t get convicted. If she would have taken it she’d have been out 13 years ago
@davidhull7814
@davidhull7814 Ай бұрын
100% indeed!
@drkarats6147
@drkarats6147 6 күн бұрын
@@iangallager4091 Yeah and a PEDO XD
@JT1358
@JT1358 Ай бұрын
I worked in a pathology lab for many years. When phoning lab results to our psych wards we could never be sure who had picked the phone up at the other end. There's often a fine line between the patients and those staff in those places.
@Tryin2Bnice45
@Tryin2Bnice45 28 күн бұрын
Wow! Never knew that
@keard558
@keard558 23 күн бұрын
As a psychiatrist shush! 😂
@Vixxy1000
@Vixxy1000 21 күн бұрын
😂
@poetcomic1
@poetcomic1 Ай бұрын
How can you live with, sleep with, eat with, know a man for years and then MURDER him.
@tomz1daful
@tomz1daful Ай бұрын
Men are ruthless romantics trying to be practical, women are ruthlessly practical, trying to be romantic.
@ryanoneal8480
@ryanoneal8480 Ай бұрын
lol considering how often ppl murder their spouse im really not sure how youre surprised
@istudios225
@istudios225 Ай бұрын
You easily can if you have no soul. It would be like brushing their teeth or deciding what to have for lunch. No conscience is involved because they don't have one.
@spiroclimb2523
@spiroclimb2523 Ай бұрын
Definition of a pyschopath
@gr8-fun162
@gr8-fun162 Ай бұрын
Easy. Just be a typical woman. Women do not love like men do, and are ruled by their emotions. Like children, they are fickle. Once they decide they are unhappy, the switch turns off and they have NO consideration of the man and what he has done for them in the past. It's all about how he makes them feel in the moment. Mix that with female hypergamy, and she will always figure there is a "better option" out there for her. She'll dump the current guy in a heartbeat and have no second thoughts about destroying him in divorce court, or in this case, ending him. Because they don't accept accountability, she will actually find ways to blame the guy and justify her behavior. All that stuff seen in movies and in stories about women being sugar, spice, and everything nice, is just a fairytale. Never forget that.
@p52893
@p52893 Ай бұрын
One look and I realize why I love my stamp collection.
@littlemissliv100
@littlemissliv100 Ай бұрын
I like it when dr grande says “mostly because of the murder part.”
@lindareboh-king1064
@lindareboh-king1064 Ай бұрын
Proving. That a psychotherapist licence doesnt insure mental health.
@caro.caro.9578
@caro.caro.9578 Ай бұрын
😂👌🏽
@mistrjt9213
@mistrjt9213 Ай бұрын
*ensure
@Cherrypi393
@Cherrypi393 Ай бұрын
Some of the most mentally ill people I know are therapists
@festina_lente7655
@festina_lente7655 Ай бұрын
How many therapists do you know?
@festina_lente7655
@festina_lente7655 Ай бұрын
Ensure
@CB-ke9rs
@CB-ke9rs Ай бұрын
Therapists fall into two categories: those who obtain the education in an attempt to heal themselves or those who have a genuine desire to help others.
@Hithere-dc2qx
@Hithere-dc2qx 27 күн бұрын
That is wise.
@tambourine36
@tambourine36 24 күн бұрын
Yes!
@Dark_AbsoI
@Dark_AbsoI Ай бұрын
Usually with these older cases I grit my teeth cause I know the “she was free on parole after serving 3 years” is coming. I’m pleased to see they are both still rotting in prison where they belong.
@ew4932
@ew4932 Ай бұрын
Not with the sentences she has. Life sentence plus 13 years in North Carolina. I'm sure that we don't have to worry about that. Especially as she is extremely difficult in prison.
@jose2226
@jose2226 Ай бұрын
​@@ew4932wdym she's difficult?
@ashleylala4293
@ashleylala4293 Ай бұрын
You should look into the DuPont pedo case, very disturbing. Corrupt judge Jan Jurden gave that creep zero jail time because she said he “would not fare well in prison”. Unbelievable.
@adamantman3200
@adamantman3200 Ай бұрын
'I turn heads.', YES! But in which direction?
@tambourine36
@tambourine36 24 күн бұрын
Narcissism
@karilynn3535
@karilynn3535 Ай бұрын
The arrogance of thinking you can get away with murder astounds me.
@Jenny-nz8fb
@Jenny-nz8fb Ай бұрын
Yes, it never ceases to amaze me that people think they’ll get away with murder.
@markhillary7402
@markhillary7402 Ай бұрын
And she’s not even an Israeli prime minister!
@michaelterango3074
@michaelterango3074 Ай бұрын
lol
@NathanHigger
@NathanHigger Ай бұрын
@@markhillary7402based
@Zach.3246
@Zach.3246 Ай бұрын
People get away with murder all the time…
@aarondavis8943
@aarondavis8943 Ай бұрын
She could have just left him. There was no way an insurance company was going to pay a claim in a motiveless murder where the payee was having an affair, and the police were always going to discover the affair and therefore the killer. These two never gamed out how these events would transpire; they just engaged in some wishful thinking and then acted. What a pair of absolute knuckleheads.
@mikewood8695
@mikewood8695 Ай бұрын
yeah being a narc doesn't guarantee intelligence or wisdom!
@Bold11x
@Bold11x Ай бұрын
Exactly these people actually really believe they are above, and smarter than everyone else. So smart in fact, that they don’t need to plan too much or over think little details, because we’re all so small and ignorant that we’ll all be fooled. They believe we’re are foolish for following “the rules” because they have gotten away with breaking them every time….until they don’t, and it’s beautiful to watch them squirm and have to face their utter ignorance when they get caught. Jodi Arias comes to mind here
@BadForYourKidneys
@BadForYourKidneys 14 күн бұрын
@@Bold11x very true, a narcissist literally cannot read the room.
@shameronstar7220
@shameronstar7220 Ай бұрын
Poor Marty, he seemed like a stand up and handsome man and this is how he gets repaid for serving his country? SMH
@grbggaming6885
@grbggaming6885 Ай бұрын
Unfortunately it happens a lot to servicemen
@Tyler-vw9bh
@Tyler-vw9bh Ай бұрын
Unfortunately my experience in the military showed me that 90% of military wives don't view their husband's service (or mediocre paycheck lol) as sufficient motivators to stay faithful. The situation is made worse by the fact they live in a town that is 80% physically fit, testosterone-filled, lonely college-aged males. I learned to assume any woman within 20 miles of base was married. Even worse are the 'brothers' who couldn't care either way. I would say 80-90% of my friends' wives got caught cheating. I've never been married, I would like to be but that experience has made me very apprehensive/worried.
@perennialxennial
@perennialxennial Ай бұрын
In the military they call them Jodie's.
@gregevans6044
@gregevans6044 Ай бұрын
And he’s got your Cadillac. So, there ain’t no use in lookin’ back.
@augustek5382
@augustek5382 Ай бұрын
@@Tyler-vw9bh lol so just military wives that cheat but military men do not. Looks like the other cheater in this story was also a military man.
@enjoystraveling
@enjoystraveling Ай бұрын
Is an affair really worth all that prison time? Both of them were fools
@sheilagravely5621
@sheilagravely5621 Ай бұрын
She'll be getting a different kind of sex in prison.😊
@MarlinWilliams-ts5ul
@MarlinWilliams-ts5ul Ай бұрын
She had to have it. Now she's not getting any,
@Thatsinteresting363
@Thatsinteresting363 Ай бұрын
She’s not in prison for having an affair.
@tambourine36
@tambourine36 24 күн бұрын
Not worth it at all. Leave someone alone if you want someone else don't torture them. Let them move on and you take a hike. Should have gotten some treatment for nymphomania if she needed sex that bad and there was no love involved. Sounds like early childhood rape victim acting out with hypersexuality. Go get some therapy. Check your hormone levels. Poor self control. I guess there will be lots of opportunities in jail to counsel inmates or find lots of sexual partners. She's not well enough to help others and is clearly a predator who has shut off emotional and uses sex for her own gratification. See how it goes but hopefully she gets a thorough assessment.
@tambourine36
@tambourine36 24 күн бұрын
​@@MarlinWilliams-ts5ulMaybe jail will be her next play spot😢
@pam7500
@pam7500 Ай бұрын
They both threw their lives away because of lust. I feel bad for her husband. He was innocent in all this.
@tripledair
@tripledair Ай бұрын
Turns head…away.
@danielkomorowski7966
@danielkomorowski7966 Ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@GeeBee909
@GeeBee909 Ай бұрын
The Exorcist comes to mind. Also, clearly she didn't have any mirrors in her house. She was "writing checks" that her body couldn't cash🤣🤣🤣
@davidhull7814
@davidhull7814 Ай бұрын
sure turned mine away!
@emmapeel8163
@emmapeel8163 Ай бұрын
15:08 .. by far, the weirdest people i've ever met were psychotherapists, psychiatrists & their children.
@staciacrick3373
@staciacrick3373 Ай бұрын
Psychiatrists earn a medical degree while Psychotherapists can come from a counseling, Family and Marriage therapist with a PHD and clinical Social Worker. All have very different coursework. Psychiatrists aren’t focused on feelings/ emotions as much as the other degree’s.
@staciacrick3373
@staciacrick3373 Ай бұрын
Also, life coaches are not licensed, likely do not hold a degree in the Psychology or other therapy focus nor regulated by any professional board.
@ISTPx5w6
@ISTPx5w6 Ай бұрын
I wouldn't put psychotherapists & psychiatrists in the same bracket; completely different mental health paradigms
@thecorrectoification
@thecorrectoification Ай бұрын
Me too!
@kevinowens6010
@kevinowens6010 Ай бұрын
Extremely bent. Married one and dated three. I don't do that behavior anymore. Many never fix their damage, but will jump in and screw you up with enthusiasm.
@Somegirl811
@Somegirl811 Ай бұрын
How can these people even live with themselves.
@Schnauzerpatrol
@Schnauzerpatrol Ай бұрын
Deployment of bday suit😂. You are a master of language Dr Grande
@ummmm....-sd9eb
@ummmm....-sd9eb Ай бұрын
I burst out laughing ⟵⁠(⁠o⁠_⁠O⁠)
@InspiredGrateful
@InspiredGrateful Ай бұрын
@@ummmm....-sd9ebsame 😂
@Fractal_blip
@Fractal_blip Ай бұрын
Punny!
@cbronsonda13th37
@cbronsonda13th37 Ай бұрын
This guy is a genius 😂😂😂
@charlenecanchola6535
@charlenecanchola6535 2 күн бұрын
Right? Oh I needed that laugh! 😹😹😹
@margonaut
@margonaut Ай бұрын
just break up no need for these shenanigans
@lynnmartz8739
@lynnmartz8739 Ай бұрын
It sounds like she came up with 500,000 reasons when making her decision...
@lilacbazzi493
@lilacbazzi493 Ай бұрын
I hear that theres a good percentage of Psychotherapists that are truly mentally ill themselves that's why they're interested in psychotherapy to begin with. Except of course Dr Grande coz he's the best! His analysis is always spot on!
@PositiveMommaLife
@PositiveMommaLife Ай бұрын
Wounded healer theory
@felixjones9198
@felixjones9198 Ай бұрын
My former girlfriend was a family psychologist, she was good at her job, lovely to behold, but completely insane.
@ISTPx5w6
@ISTPx5w6 Ай бұрын
I think people forget the sheer level of intellectualism it takes to be a psychotherapist & you have to go under continual therapy to practice legally
@geraldfriend256
@geraldfriend256 Ай бұрын
How about a couples counselor with kids and no steady relationship? They’re out there trust me
@reneelibby4885
@reneelibby4885 Ай бұрын
out of 4 - one was harmful and bAtsh*T
@SiganQ
@SiganQ Ай бұрын
Why can't I ever get the therapists that are sexually insatiable? I only ever get the sexually satiable ones and, often I find, they're already sated before I meet them. It's really sad
@banjopete
@banjopete Ай бұрын
All the ones I know are as Randy as Rabbits!
@fairy12324
@fairy12324 Ай бұрын
😂
@adotintheshark4848
@adotintheshark4848 21 күн бұрын
you have to pay the "therapists" for a session!
@ratdad48
@ratdad48 10 күн бұрын
When I think about something that bothers me. I don't try to figure out why. I just stop.
@adotintheshark4848
@adotintheshark4848 10 күн бұрын
or how about an insatiable one who's 80 years old?
@jdd3786
@jdd3786 Ай бұрын
It's crazy how all these stories that involve infidelity are exactly the same. Just the names and places are different.
@robinkuruda5249
@robinkuruda5249 12 күн бұрын
Exactly!! Man I am glad my wife just divorced me …I love her for that …
@theglobalvagabond3074
@theglobalvagabond3074 Ай бұрын
The first problem is purchasing a Pontiac Firebird. The second is his buddy needs to be charged with stupidity. Who loans a deadly weapon to a friend??? SMH.
@ratdad48
@ratdad48 Ай бұрын
So who would one loan a deadly weapon to. An enemy?
@mightymouse1005
@mightymouse1005 Ай бұрын
Anything can be a deadly weapon.
@ISTPx5w6
@ISTPx5w6 Ай бұрын
Firearms in general shouldn't be accessible to the general public. Sure we have knife crime in the UK but thank God we don't have guns to contend with as well
@ratdad48
@ratdad48 Ай бұрын
@Tified96 Criminals don't give a shit about laws. Therefore, they will always possess guns. So your bright idea would be to disarm the law abiding general public and leave them at the mercy of an armed criminal. The authorities are always 20 or more minutes away but will arrive to draw a chalk line around your dead body. Very deep thinking you got going there.
@cg5648
@cg5648 Ай бұрын
@@ISTPx5w6, your knife crime is unbelievable. At least in America, as a law abiding citizen I have the right to carry a handgun for protection.
@karen-dh8dp
@karen-dh8dp Ай бұрын
As a side note, I loved the video of you with your dog, as you displayed the food. Both of you were looking right at the camera and both of you were smiling.
@Missdoubletrouble541
@Missdoubletrouble541 Ай бұрын
I noticed that too, it was very sweet 😊
@renee1961
@renee1961 Ай бұрын
I remember when this happened. So Heartless. Rest In Peace Marty 🥀🥀🥀🙏🙏🙏💔💔💔🕊️🕊️🕊️
@nhmooytis7058
@nhmooytis7058 Ай бұрын
...”deployment of a birthday suit”...caught me with a mouthful of chicken soup 😮
@festina_lente7655
@festina_lente7655 Ай бұрын
Martin Theer wasn't an enlistee. He graduated from the Air Force Academy and fulfilled his commitment to serve.
@andrews527
@andrews527 Ай бұрын
A noble set of junk.
@swl9104
@swl9104 Ай бұрын
What's your trouble?
@jbinmd
@jbinmd Ай бұрын
Yes, hard to go from enlistee to captain.
@joshuabekel9700
@joshuabekel9700 Ай бұрын
​@@andrews527???
@blainechild9068
@blainechild9068 Ай бұрын
​@@andrews527you've done nothing
@lindawilson4625
@lindawilson4625 Ай бұрын
Your and your dog are so cute together. Yes, I watched the Factor commercial. And John didn't act alone. Michelle is where she should be.
@lizmonard
@lizmonard Ай бұрын
In my experience, many people with mental illness/ psychiatric disorders are attracted to the psychology / psychiatric fields because of their own self obsession! My nursing course decades ago included psychiatric nurses who were doing required extra courses , and boy, there were some VERY strange ppl there! 😂
@notozknows
@notozknows Ай бұрын
Wow, I would be so mad at myself for turning down that 10 years instead of life.
@taydestiny38
@taydestiny38 Ай бұрын
It shouldn’t have been offered in the first place.
@24JJ821
@24JJ821 Ай бұрын
Yes, same. She was actually offered inside 10 years, so she probably would have been out on good behaviour much earlier.
@Seeker0fTruth
@Seeker0fTruth Ай бұрын
I’d be mad at myself for far more than THAT particular error in judgement…🙃
@davidhull7814
@davidhull7814 Ай бұрын
this is good example when your stupid and greedy!!!
@DominicMagrinoMassageTherapist
@DominicMagrinoMassageTherapist Ай бұрын
Hi Dr Grande, don’t know if you read the comments but I wanted to say thank you. Watching your videos has helped me to recognize a lot of significant behavioral and psychiatric issues that are greatly affecting my life in almost every way right now, and if I look back they’ve always been there, its just I couldn’t recognize them. Because of you and your videos I’ve taken the steps to start receiving mental health treatment. I don’t even know how to thank you 🙏
@SpicyMango7
@SpicyMango7 Ай бұрын
From a random internet stranger: I’m proud of you 😊
@tanikajones6213
@tanikajones6213 Ай бұрын
This is amazing. I wish you all the best ❤
@briant7265
@briant7265 Ай бұрын
Best wishes, for sure!
@greatamericandreamrealtyli6583
@greatamericandreamrealtyli6583 Ай бұрын
It takes a strong person to admit that and an even stronger person to correct it. Best of wishes to you!
@tyrone4u559
@tyrone4u559 Ай бұрын
Never ever let someone back into your life or forgive them for betraying you; they will despise you for your weakness and continue to take advantage of you.
@kevinowens6010
@kevinowens6010 Ай бұрын
It's absolutely true.
@Malama_Ki
@Malama_Ki Ай бұрын
FACTS!!!! When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
@armynurseshark
@armynurseshark 26 күн бұрын
That sounds harsh but it’s true- I learned the hard way
@derek04151
@derek04151 Ай бұрын
I drove my therapist crazy. Now she understands me. 😁
@buzzcrushtrendkill
@buzzcrushtrendkill Ай бұрын
Anecdotal, but every person that I've known to study Psychology are ultimately motivated to pursue that to understand something about themselves.
@Catherinzsl
@Catherinzsl Ай бұрын
Yes, but I think there's a spectrum between wanting to understand and better oneself (and others), and being a manipulative, homicidal demon.
@24JJ821
@24JJ821 Ай бұрын
Which is actually very healthy and it's a shame more people don't want to gain insight and self-awareness.
@ISTPx5w6
@ISTPx5w6 Ай бұрын
@@24JJ821exactly. I'm a mental health professional with bipolar. Yes I want to enlighten myself and ultimately to pass that insight on to the young people I work with which I believe I do my best to do. It's shocking in society how surface level & unaware most people are. I had a lot to deal with re childhood trauma & also having bipolar disorder...The onus is on me to deal with those demons before beginning the process of helping others.
@buzzcrushtrendkill
@buzzcrushtrendkill Ай бұрын
@@24JJ821 there are others ways then to pursue degrees.
@24JJ821
@24JJ821 Ай бұрын
@@buzzcrushtrendkill Yes there is, so why rubbish people who have degrees?? It's always people who don't have higher education who do that. Deal with your own insecurities and leave those of us with higher education alone.
@urielflames3799
@urielflames3799 Ай бұрын
Marty was a handsome good man. RIP Marty
@dissidentfairy4264
@dissidentfairy4264 Ай бұрын
I don't understand why people murder instead of divorce. It's unfathomable that they value money over human life.
@Gallop4Me
@Gallop4Me Ай бұрын
I always want to ask the guy in a situation like this, "Well, was she worth it?" 😮
@marlaroberts2087
@marlaroberts2087 Ай бұрын
The guilty always have the same laundry list of evil attributes! Poor Marty!
@Nikki30288
@Nikki30288 Ай бұрын
#Facts
@hrdley911
@hrdley911 Ай бұрын
Tip for a happy marriage: DON'T CHEAT!
@riblets1968
@riblets1968 Ай бұрын
That's easy enough to say, but there are two problems with this advice: 1) it ignores why people cheat in the first place and 2) even if the unsatisfied/marginalized spouse steadfastly refuses to cheat, he can still be quite miserable.
@donna119
@donna119 Ай бұрын
@@riblets1968Tell me you’re a cheat without telling me you’re a cheat 😂
@M.Kabane
@M.Kabane Ай бұрын
A "happy"marriage is based on several factors. Cheating is only the aftermath.
@SinisterScoundrel6562
@SinisterScoundrel6562 Ай бұрын
Or just don't get married. Saves health, money, and resources.
@Ann-sj4pt
@Ann-sj4pt Ай бұрын
@@riblets1968leave then.
@25Soupy
@25Soupy Ай бұрын
After watching video after video I can't believe how many people don't just get a divorce opposed to murder.
@nc1365
@nc1365 Ай бұрын
Money
@patriciaque197
@patriciaque197 Ай бұрын
Sheer Greed and Malice!
@pambennett3390
@pambennett3390 Ай бұрын
Thank God there are no children involved.
@twown
@twown Ай бұрын
Look how gently Doc stabs that Factor box.
@Paul-ou1rx
@Paul-ou1rx Ай бұрын
Once there is infidelity, the offending partner can be trusted to leave the room to make toast. Going out of town for an unknown classmate? Hell no.
@sarahalbers5555
@sarahalbers5555 Ай бұрын
Boy, are you ever right about that(sadly).
@JustineBrownsBookshelf
@JustineBrownsBookshelf Ай бұрын
Our culture’s reduction of sex to recreation hasn’t served us well.
@marcoprolo1488
@marcoprolo1488 13 күн бұрын
Let's not exaggerate. It's fairly rare to end up that badly.
@JustineBrownsBookshelf
@JustineBrownsBookshelf 13 күн бұрын
@@marcoprolo1488 No, what I said was an understatement. The number of ill effects from the Sexual Revolution are in fact staggering.
@marcoprolo1488
@marcoprolo1488 13 күн бұрын
@@JustineBrownsBookshelf Yeah, loads of puritans out there that want to control other people sexuality. I'll never understood why. I could not care less personally.
@thesilversurfer7136
@thesilversurfer7136 Ай бұрын
Dr. Kenneth Pope did a study on psychiatrists and their patients in 1976. He found that a full 55% of psychiatrists emotions were just as skewed as their patients.
@Ironboots123
@Ironboots123 Ай бұрын
I almost spit out the vodka in my mouth when you mentioned birthday suit 🤦🏽‍♂️
@markferguson3745
@markferguson3745 Ай бұрын
Part of the reason that I changed my Psych major was realizing that the majority of my professors were mentally dubious themselves, in a few cases, perhaps dangerously.You often hear that those in the field became interested due to their own challenges and issues, and I've found that to be the case.Even in talking with less acredited counselors, I'd advise circumspection.I know several people who have been given heavily biased and poor advice that ultimately had a negative impact on their lives, and their mental health,- particulaly where medications were involved. Get a second opinion, and avoid those that champion specialized agendas.
@christinelee4780
@christinelee4780 Ай бұрын
I work in the university sector, and I came to know that a lecturer whose area of expertise was the dark triad of personality was also a sexual predator
@jeffrey501green
@jeffrey501green Ай бұрын
The majority of head-shrinkers are alot crazier than their patients....
@ISTPx5w6
@ISTPx5w6 Ай бұрын
Yup I hate the biomedical model of mental ill health sure psychiatry has a role but isn't the be all & and all
@oldrandon
@oldrandon Ай бұрын
I worked in a psych. department over 20 years ago as someone with only a bachelor's degree. The Ph.D. who ran the department was a total narcissist (and bigot). All the psychologists in the department hated him.
@chadx8269
@chadx8269 Ай бұрын
There are several Phd psychologist in Prison, one is in Florida name Touchton-Williams. They are crazy and known it, that why they study Psychology.
@JJ-ui4ph
@JJ-ui4ph Ай бұрын
I’ve never understood In cases like this why they don’t simply get a divorce. Instead of killing the person and potentially going to prison, why not just get a divorce? Another thing is how many men was she having sex with before she got married? It’s as if she didn’t understand what was being asked of her in marriage. She clearly wanted to have more sex with men after she got married. Why get married in the first place?
@Candokettlebells
@Candokettlebells Ай бұрын
The birthday suit reference killed me 😂❤
@MiaQuacko
@MiaQuacko Ай бұрын
I thought maybe there was some sort of birthday cake situation but thankfully there wasn’t
@nickid5210
@nickid5210 Ай бұрын
I am in tears😅 ... lol it was tooo early in the morning for that play on words 😂
@MiaQuacko
@MiaQuacko Ай бұрын
@@nickid5210 the way how he just says it without ANY emotion cracks me the hell up. I would give it away and go on and on and on about it but he just drops the line in there like with ice in his veins lolol
@nickid5210
@nickid5210 Ай бұрын
@@MiaQuacko Dr. Grande is the best, the videos are just long enough with enough information and you have to sometimes listen twice to catch his play on words lol😂.
@sophiaandre139
@sophiaandre139 Ай бұрын
Your dog is awfully cute!
@dallynutkat3252
@dallynutkat3252 Ай бұрын
I came here to say this. He / she is adorable 🥰
@drewintampa
@drewintampa Ай бұрын
Given the amount of adjectives Dr. Grande used to describe Michelle, I believe it would be safe to say that he is not her number one fan. =)
@thelocalmaladroit8873
@thelocalmaladroit8873 Ай бұрын
For having a PhD, Michelle fortunately didn’t know how to avoid prosecution. (I love the Factor ads Doc cause I get to see the puppies 😊)
@renee1961
@renee1961 Ай бұрын
I love your sense of humor, Dr. Grande!🤣😂🤣😂
@pearlsbeforeswine60
@pearlsbeforeswine60 Ай бұрын
Yikes, Dr Grande! That Factor PR photo of you scared the living bejesus out of me..I have never seen you smile and was not even sure you had teeth. I'm settling down now. And hello there, small white dog.
@virginialangford6257
@virginialangford6257 Ай бұрын
I quite admire your wife’s Easter rabbit salt and pepper shakers…she has a wonderful eye for home decor.
@totti.
@totti. Ай бұрын
He made it himself
@sBaum
@sBaum Ай бұрын
The good old birthday suit bit got a good chuckle out of me
@blondefro
@blondefro Ай бұрын
Spoiler alert: does *not* turn heads
@jade20027
@jade20027 Ай бұрын
lol!
@GellaHumbug59
@GellaHumbug59 Ай бұрын
Stomachs, maybe?
@davidhull7814
@davidhull7814 Ай бұрын
100%
@gabe_2544
@gabe_2544 Ай бұрын
I bet there was an uptick in online sales of men’s hairpieces. Those who couldn’t afford it or didn’t want to wait bought the spray.
@Decgyrrl
@Decgyrrl Ай бұрын
A story as old as time, almost. Same crime, just different faces. Evil is always busy. I feel bad for her husband. Poor guy.🕊
@ninehundreddollarluxuryyac5958
@ninehundreddollarluxuryyac5958 Ай бұрын
I knew the intro was an April fools joke because you rolled your eyes to your right instead of your left when you say "a situation like this". Your dog in the Factor commercial is adorable.
@megret1808
@megret1808 Ай бұрын
Proves my belief that many go into psychotherapy as a profession because they feel uneasy about themselves and want to know why
@ISTPx5w6
@ISTPx5w6 Ай бұрын
Whilst this is true we have to understand that psychotherapy is a postgraduate masters degree incorporating a lot of philosophy, psychology etc; it's an extremely demanding course both academically & mentally plus you have to undergo consistent therapy yourself to practice. The vast majority of the population have trauma in some form indeed it's a mark of resilience- we need some trauma as a prerequisite for healthy development. At least they're willing to explore & face that trauma whereas a high percentage of the population walk around completely unaware & with little self introspection. This lady is indeed an exception to the norm in psychotherapy.
@tomnohmy1273
@tomnohmy1273 Ай бұрын
I would consider patreon but Dr Grandes voice causes me to fall asleep so I always forget.
@cobracommander8133
@cobracommander8133 Ай бұрын
I'm curious about the schools she got her doctrate and undergrad eduction from??
@LadyBabaji
@LadyBabaji Ай бұрын
That picture at the end of the factor ad of you and your white puppy, absolutely made my day! A picture of joy 🤩
@coryskizm
@coryskizm Ай бұрын
Yoooo 😂😂😂the flip from the microwave meal to the timeline of the crime with that picture of Dr Grande smiling ,,,fucking took me out..😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭
@nataliapolova2850
@nataliapolova2850 Ай бұрын
Your videos are so peaceful! I wish they were a little longer but I'll just listen to them back to back before bed! Your voice is so soothing and the lack of background noise and music and sound fx make for an easy slumber!
@sandrabaker1312
@sandrabaker1312 Ай бұрын
Dr Grande makes me laugh with his quirky comments 🤣.
@Swansong321
@Swansong321 Ай бұрын
SO .. become therapists bc they've got serious issues themselves...mental health professional with mental issues are shockingly commonplace!😜
@crabofchaos7881
@crabofchaos7881 Ай бұрын
It's not shocking if you consider how many people experience issues with mental health. 1 in 8 people in the world live with a mental disorder, according to WHO. 12.5%, man.
@terrorists-are-among-us
@terrorists-are-among-us Ай бұрын
Very. You want to see sick? Meet social workers and therapists 🤯
@24JJ821
@24JJ821 Ай бұрын
So it's common for therapists to be narcissistic murderers? Lol.
@ISTPx5w6
@ISTPx5w6 Ай бұрын
Yup when you work in the appalling conditions we work in & are overworked & the vicarious trauma we suffer it's hardly surprising
@yankeecitygirl
@yankeecitygirl Ай бұрын
@@ISTPx5w6 the pay is barely livable. It’s the heartless psychos who move up the chain that pull the big bucks. There are good people in social work and the mental health field, though. When you encounter them they are a treasure
@MrJacktown5
@MrJacktown5 Ай бұрын
“The Deployment of a bday suit” doc, I wasn’t ready for that one 😂😂😂💀💀💀💀
@tplummer217
@tplummer217 Ай бұрын
You couldn’t make up a better name for a home wrecker than John Diamond.
@opium77757
@opium77757 Ай бұрын
Dr. Grande: Your channel is very entertaining & I look forward to "daily visitation."🎉
@janetrogers4738
@janetrogers4738 Ай бұрын
Divorce never enters these peoples minds.
@ayomidel
@ayomidel Ай бұрын
There's no life insurance policy attached to that.
@janetrogers4738
@janetrogers4738 Ай бұрын
@@ayomidel But there's no prison time attached to divorce Ty for the explanation.
@EB-wl9st
@EB-wl9st Ай бұрын
My favorite part of today's sponsor and Dr Grande's videos is that I get to see the doggies and I get to see the bunny salt and pepper shakers every time. It's somehow familiar and comforting❤❤❤
@TheKatyPB
@TheKatyPB Ай бұрын
Your pup is adorable❤
@chelseaavalos3402
@chelseaavalos3402 Ай бұрын
His smile in the factory ads always gets me coming back for another video
@rachaelb.
@rachaelb. Ай бұрын
I always laugh when Dr. Grande says, "...mostly because of the murder part."
@alukuhito
@alukuhito Ай бұрын
Dr. Grande, can you analyze the case of Robert Pickton, the Canadian serial killer? Lynn Ellingsen was my elementary school classmate, but when she became an adult, she befriended him and became the key witness against him.
@ceilconstante640
@ceilconstante640 Ай бұрын
Just another important reason to know the traits of a Narscissts and pay attention to red flags! And take your time to get to know someone. People with Michelle's traits will never make a good partner.
@hallowedmeadow4636
@hallowedmeadow4636 Ай бұрын
This comment is an important reason to learn grammar.
@JeannetteShoreland
@JeannetteShoreland Ай бұрын
Michael Dippolito would agree 5000%
@Hilz28
@Hilz28 Ай бұрын
​@@hallowedmeadow4636I've seen worse.
@glendasully
@glendasully Ай бұрын
Marty was a handsome & successful man & was too good for the harlot. It's so sad he couldn't see that
@KaraLey98
@KaraLey98 Ай бұрын
I have to wonder what kind of “heads” she turned..
@thedarknessunderneathpodca6366
@thedarknessunderneathpodca6366 24 күн бұрын
desperate ones, since she was mediocre looking and I wouldn't have noticed.
@rayross997
@rayross997 Ай бұрын
Hope you can cover the Sam & Marilyn Sheppard case. Thanks for all your work, Dr.Grande.
@nhmooytis7058
@nhmooytis7058 Ай бұрын
I second that I’m from Bay Village where it happened, born 2 years before . We lived 4 blocks away! Who do you think did it?
@rayross997
@rayross997 Ай бұрын
@@nhmooytis7058 I am inclined to think Sam killed Marilyn and staged the crime scene. I watched a video where a former FBI agent said that F. Lee Bailey, while speaking to a group of law students had admitted that Sam was guilty. Bailey said he argued the case on the grounds that Sam did not get quote, "a fair trial". Maybe Dr. Grande can give his speculation on the case. Who do you think did it?
@nhmooytis7058
@nhmooytis7058 Ай бұрын
@@rayross997 well my dad who was best friends with the BV cop on the scene and saw photos said it was the then Mayor of BV Spencer Houk because he was having an affair with Marilyn. (The cop thought she was beaten by someone wearing brass knuckles). My mom’s hairdresser said it was Sam’s mother because she had bushy hair! I’m honestly not sure myself, but I don’t think it was the window washer which was Sam’s son’s theory. My dad felt Sam got railroaded by Louis Seltzer of the Cleveland Press. When I was in HS my guidance counselor lived in the former Sheppard house which I found creepy. It was torn down some years ago...early 2000s I think.
@raspberrykitten6676
@raspberrykitten6676 Ай бұрын
Definitely would like to hear about what might be happening in a case like this 👀
@nhmooytis7058
@nhmooytis7058 Ай бұрын
@@raspberrykitten6676 but only speculating 🤔
@herewegokids7
@herewegokids7 Ай бұрын
"Mostly bc of the murder part" gets me every time 😅😅
@gracie1598
@gracie1598 Ай бұрын
Self-esteem obviously does not come with a PhD.
@dmr4450
@dmr4450 Ай бұрын
Those puns are pure gold, Dr. Grande. 😂 Makes me smile first thing on my timeline.
@debbiec4530
@debbiec4530 Ай бұрын
Awww gimme those bunny salt and pepper shakers! 🤠💕🐰
@thevaleyard69
@thevaleyard69 Ай бұрын
Over 6 feet tall and not balding. God i hope she falls for Danny DeVito
@ktkt9982
@ktkt9982 Ай бұрын
😅
@saraprva4172
@saraprva4172 Ай бұрын
Only if he identifies as Danielle DeVito & gets sent to female prison. Thankfully she won't be getting any "D" where she is serving her time
@pannamal5182
@pannamal5182 Ай бұрын
In prison
@Brendawallingbear
@Brendawallingbear Ай бұрын
Danny DeVito is not in prison and he has a really cute fun wife and they love each other.
@pannamal5182
@pannamal5182 Ай бұрын
@@Brendawallingbear if Danny should identify as female she’s in luck I suppose
@DeejayRobert
@DeejayRobert Ай бұрын
"Deployment of birthday suit".... really dude?😀😀😀
@shakespeareswingman
@shakespeareswingman Ай бұрын
💋.....Dr Grande, could you please examine the case of the British solicitor, Sally Clark, who, in 1998 was incorrectly arrested for murdering hrr adopted children....👠
@d.f.9064
@d.f.9064 14 күн бұрын
Having studied to be a therapist I can tell you MANY people get into the profession because they themselves need help. I confess I was no exception. Because mental health treatment is usually long and expensive, trying to cure yourself through self help shows motivation and initiative. I found, being emotionally damaged myself, I didn't like working with others with similar problems.
@sonnyca
@sonnyca Ай бұрын
Just when a guy thinks he’s about to make the cut, he fails the 6’+ height requirement 😂
@reginaldrichmond9485
@reginaldrichmond9485 Ай бұрын
Don’t forget if you’re not 6 inches or better you don’t make the cut too.
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