Putting the pieces back together after divorce

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Just checking in and eating salad! Chit chatting about life after my divorce has been finalized and how I am putting all the pieces of my life back together!
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@michellemartinez2432 3 жыл бұрын

I need you to know that you helped me through my IVF journey. I love your spirit! I admire you and your courage. Sending you peaceful thoughts and love.

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

So glad to hear this! Thank you 💜

@lemoynepaulk8401 3 жыл бұрын

As a recent divorcee I strongly recommend therapy just to help with these new puzzle. There will be many emotions some happy and some sad. Grieving the marriage itself, as you said you didnt get married to get divorced. I've been divorced almost a year after being married for 10yrs. So its definitely a process. Stay strong we are in this together!

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! Yes, therapy has been helping tremendously!!!

@nicholsdvr 3 жыл бұрын

Good to see you again Candace! Seems like it was just yesterday when we were emailing each other before our transfers. We were on our journey together and my daughter turned 2 in February. Unfortunately I got divorced before I gave birth but God is good! Your right He has been showing His love deeply. He provides for us and I haven’t received any help from my ex husband but we’re truly happy and lack nothing. I’m glad your getting through this so strong! God bless you.

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Hi love, I finally understood what it means for God to be your source. I feel you, I am totally happy and lacking nothing. So good to hear from you 💜

@Alondajones8 3 жыл бұрын

I recently got divorced February of this year and i completely know how you feel. I was in my in my 20's when i got married and now im 36 and im enjoying myself and loving myself more and trusting in God and im ready for a new chapter in my life. Im staying away from unhealthy situations and toxic energy. My daughter is my life and im staying focused on positivity and peace in my life.

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

It sounds like our stories are very similar - I am just focusing on my daughter and my healing. Sending prayers and love your way!

@Alondajones8 3 жыл бұрын

@@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney yes very similar. Im glad im not the only one that's been through this. It's good to find someone that understands your story and im happy i found your channel. Thank you again for sharing your story

@chrisandcrys6520 3 жыл бұрын

Even though your life is in a million pieces right now, you’ll have a beautiful picture in the end. The more pieces, the bigger the picture. You’re going to come out stronger than you already are. I’m proud of you. Going through ivf is physically, mentally and financially draining and for you to have to go through a divorce on top of all of that is a lot. Just know that we think you’re awesome

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 💕

@MsBenitaButrell 3 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that you’re in a better space, things will only get better from here! Happy early birthday! I’m a Gemini as well, your divorce was finalized on my birthday 🥳

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you ♊

@disciples725 3 жыл бұрын

I am so proud of you and I encourage you to keep trusting God through every phase of your life. You are not in this alone. He is right there carrying you through, so continue to lean on Jesus. He will never leave you nor forsake you!

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Amen! I know this for sure, he has never left me nor forsaken me 🙏🏽

@TDianeD 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your transparency. Love you Candace!!❣️✨ Sending my love.

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Love you sis! Can't wait to see you soon. Sending my love and prayers always ❤

@sapphirajintiel6987 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your life with us, Candace. Your sharing let’s us know we are not alone. And that challenges happen in this thing called Life., like Prince said. Such a beautiful Phoenix you are...risen and yet rising from the ashes. Stay focused...God is the boatman.

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ❤

@TheQweenVLOGS 3 жыл бұрын

This video was everything for me. I’ve followed your journey since the beginning and I’m so glad that you did this video. I’m right where you are as well and I’m prioritizing my joy and my mental health. I feel free now and I’m at peace. Just like you said, my therapist says the same thing about things that no longer serve you. I’ve intentionally been speaking that. I usually get tattoos to signify important events in my life as well. Victory is in as stable an environment that’s she’s supposed to be in as long as you’re at peace and happy. Be sure to offer yourself the same grace that you offer others. Thank you for always being transparent. My youngest who just turned 3 is a Gemini. 💕

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you love! Yes, you are so right, I need to offer myself grace! So happy to hear you are prioritizing your joy and mental health. It's an amazing feeling ❤

@matildevalle5253 3 жыл бұрын

You are were you should be, take your time to heal. And enjoy finding out who you are.

@dorisn.6640 3 жыл бұрын

I don't know why I just thought about you today!! I'm glad to see you are doing well. Sending you love and light!

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you love! I appreciate your thoughts and support. It means so much to me 💕

@Tammy-Tell-Um 3 жыл бұрын

You are so strong and motivating! Thank you for all that you have shared God knows it must be hard but keep the faith!! 🤗❤️

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! I appreciate your support 💕

@stephanieboseman342 3 жыл бұрын

Girl.... such an adjustment but you’re on the right path. “With Change Comes Growth”. Keep the faith and blessings to you and baby girl whose such a cutie pie ☺️

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

@everyjaee5967 2 жыл бұрын

You are so strong! My husband went through divorce and really went through but it led him to me. You got this sis!

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤

@juliejaques9350 3 жыл бұрын

Gemini here, my birthday is June 18th and I will be 51. Good to see you doing well.

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Gemini ♊ happy early birthday. Thank you, I am so glad to be able to share an update with you guys 💕

@merlande2001 3 жыл бұрын

Praying that GOD continue to guide you through this process. Thanks for sharing!

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. I need all the prayers 🙏🏽💕

@gilkay261 3 жыл бұрын

Just came across your video...I’ve watch your Ivf journey while on my own...just wanted to drop a few lines of love, encouragement, and peace...I can tell you are going through it but I love your strength and your better days are yet to come...it takes a lot of courage to walk away but with faith he’ll give you the strength to get through...take care sis!!

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you love! I really appreciate it!

@a_w_entertainment 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing sis. We are still praying 🙏🏽 that the next FET work in God timing. Have a blessed day.

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Sending prayers your way 💕🙏🏽

@swiley9844 3 жыл бұрын

Happy Birthday hun. Glad you're doing great. It's good to hear from you. Can't wait to see Victory.

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

@reneedraine3372 3 жыл бұрын

I completely understand. I went through that about 6 years ago. It’s definitely a process but your next chapter will be amazing

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Sending love! Thank you 💜

@yoshi_godsgift 3 жыл бұрын

Happy birthday Candace. I hope I will also find the courage to get rid of things that does not serve me and find my happiness. May god continue to bless and keep you. 🙏🏾

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! The courage is already inside of you, you just have to tap into it. You can do hard things 💕

@toshabryant6965 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy you are doing well. I love your tattoos and I can't wait to hear about them. God bless

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you love 😊

@ebonywilliams2639 3 жыл бұрын

May God continue to bless you and your family during this new season. Your videos have really been very helpful and an inspiration to so many. Always remember to keep the faith and know that God is in control!

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Amen! Thank you for your support 💕

@ebonywilliams2639 3 жыл бұрын

Your welcome ❤️

@tcclarke7271 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing such a beautiful video of your lovely Victory!! She is growing up so nicely. You are doing an amazing job with her. Keep up the wonderful work Candace. She reminds me of my 20 month old son. The main difference is he and food are at war. I love to see little kids eating. Greetings from Ajax, ON 🇨🇦 👋🏿👋🏿

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your support! She loves to eat!

@joyfulkeys3348 3 жыл бұрын

Sooo nice to hear this update!!!

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your support 😊

@patl.williams7552 3 жыл бұрын

Praying for healing. Continue to seek comfort in the Lord. Thank you for sharing your story...this will def help others.

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you ☺

@AXD1987 3 жыл бұрын

Yo Avery here... Congratulations...I'm so glad that you don't have to look at the Cosby shoes anymore in your closets 😂. It sounds like me and you are on the same page on. Im 34 and my little one is 2yrs 4months now. Who seriously take her job of terrible 2 to serious. I only stop posting because of her safety. Hopefully I will start posting again someday because ppl love watching her grow. Side question I'm in Az and looking to get more ink maybe I could connect with your artist. If you're willing to share the information.

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Haha the Cosby shoes cracked me up, can't believe you remembered that 😂 Yes, two year olds take their job very seriously, I thought the newborn phase was hard. Toddlers are savages 🤣 For my ink I went to Golden Rule Tattoo in downtown Phoenix. Evan and Weston are both amazing artists! Best of luck!

@diaraanderson9519 2 жыл бұрын

God Bless you! You’re latter shall be greater than the former💪🏾🙌🏾🙏🏽💙

@farrahjarahjara9112 3 жыл бұрын

Yes please tell us more of Elijah and your tattoos. Kisses to your baby. Happiest of birthday 🥳

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Ok!! I will share more. Thank you 💓

@ThelifeofMyticca 3 жыл бұрын

Love you !!! 💕 We need to catch up!! Whew!

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Hey boo! Yes, you've missed alot 😅

@sandyhill1227 3 жыл бұрын

Putting the pieces back together ❤

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Yes sister, little by little 💜

@christinehoffman1825 3 жыл бұрын

Glad to see you 😀

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

I missed you guys 🤗

@themommi3inm3 2 жыл бұрын

Gratitude ♥️✨

@nikkim6156 3 жыл бұрын

May God's grace be with you and may He grant you peace of mind and direction as you begin this new Journey . (Psalm 115:14-15 May the Lord cause you to flourish , both you and your child, May you be blessed by the Lord the maker of the heaven and the earth.)

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏽 thank you so much!!

@dastanysmith9117 3 жыл бұрын

We’re you happy when you went through the ivf process?

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

It was a very difficult process, but it worth it in the end 💕

@dastanysmith9117 3 жыл бұрын

@@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney I just went through my second cycle and it ended before my two week wait but now I’m second guessing whether or not I even want to be with my spouse or if it’s meant to happen. I’m not sure what the next step should be I’m having a lot of doubt

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

@@dastanysmith9117 I understand. God will always guide you 🙏🏽❤

@OWNReview 3 жыл бұрын

Love the tattoo. What's the tattoo on your right arm?

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! There's so many lol

@selenecarter9804 3 жыл бұрын

Team ♊️ my born day in 6/20

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Happy early birthday!

@rubybrown3803 2 жыл бұрын

Did the court permit you to move? Did your ex-husband agree for you to move? I am thinking about your child.

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, the court

@LexdominiQue 3 жыл бұрын

try day in the life of a dicorced mom/ single mom. what i feed my toddler.. clean with me. self care videos.

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, I think I'll record a DITL video so you guys can see how amazing Victory is at this age!

@ThelifeofMyticca 3 жыл бұрын

Can you send me the devotion please

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

I DMed it to you on IG!

@islandgirllove9114 3 жыл бұрын

Continue to follow God's word. You are an AMAZING mom and your fans love you.. Happy Birthday in advance my Birthday twin. 💐28/5💐 🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you love! Happy birthday to you 💕

@islandgirllove9114 3 жыл бұрын

@@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney Thanks love. Sending you a big hug today. xxx

@lifewithdeedee3392 3 жыл бұрын

What are you going to do with you all frozen embryos? Im not getting a divorce but I know this baby is our last baby🥵🥵🥵 my clinic allowed me to bring ours home. I couldn't destroy them, and I was definitely not donating them to others. So I'm curious to know what you are going to do with the others?????

@FruitfulMyFertilityJourney 3 жыл бұрын

It is a very difficult decision. I am planning on doing a video about it soon!