Gotta be honest, I clicked in about 2 weeks ago because I saw a pretty girl, and now I've watched all your videos, and as a "cradle Catholic" it's really opened my eyes to (1) problems in my life and (2) how they relate back to not living a Catholic life. I never "left" the church, but I was lapsed. Feel like I'm at the beginning of a journey. Anyway, great vid as usual, God bless!

As an atheist, I have a lot of respect for Catholicism. You seem very sweet.

I really thank God for the gift of your life Amber, you are such a treasure of God…it’s impressing the maturity and the courage you show by speaking about these very important topics…I am an Italian priest and I strongly believe that youths must be helped in this world to fight these sins…keep up your mission Amber…I will pray for you and for all youths…may God guide you day by day through his Words to the way of light 🙏🙏🙏 God bless Ps I apologise for my poor english

Yeah, it's crazy how different things got since I started praying for a spouse. I was always kind of a failure at dating apps, but then I started praying and that got me cleaning up my profile and questioning the intentions behind photos and things I wrote. Once I got it right and in line with Catholic values and made it clear I wasn't looking to hook up or anything short term, and I started showing myself with family and improving myself, I got at least one match every time I went on the app. Now, dating apps are still not exactly a great place for faithful Catholics. Many people still believe that sex on the first date is ok as long as it materializes in a relationship, and "long term" is anything more than a month. So I quit the apps. But I started following Jason Evert's advice and imagining who would be the idea man for my ideal wife, and trying to be that man the best I can. It's actually kind of simple. And as Jesus said, always be persistent in prayer! Never give up, but make sure you're not only asking but listening. I always try to say as Jesus did, "please provide for me x, dear Lord, but not according to my will, but yours."

I agree with you hundred percent on everything!

Thanks for sharing these tips. And even though there were a few sensitve questions answered, the answers were still helpful. I relate with some of these struggles, I think many do as seen from the questions, so I'm glad that you still gave advice for not just the women but also the men too. Men need again to learn how to treat women with dignity and respect.

I would say that I am glad that I found this channel today. How you explain the faith is great and your energy is very contagious. Plus you love tradition and the TLM. My only complaint is how you say St. Augustine lol (I am a first year seminarian).

I wear pants,I stopped wearing short or crop tops, I wear it with long knee length tops ,trust me it's comfortable, you don't need to worry about visible underwear while sitting or bending, I am learning modesty.

You and your videos (as well as other awesome catholics defending our beautiful faith on KZfaq nowadays) are so wonderful

I prayed today for a miracle to your father and I will continue to insist on obtaining this grace... Love from Italy, sweet sister! 🙏♥️

This is great!

I love your videos, thank you

Try giving up coffee for lent... I did, first two weeks were tough but then I got used to it. To go without something you really like, draws you closer to Christ. Good video!

I like it let us volt in for the Lord! I am from the Philippines.

You are doing a good job.

I recently found your channel and wanted to thank you for what you're doing. I was raised in an atheist household and for many years never put any thought into religion or any of these concepts about sin or impurity. I spent much of my life being generally unhappy and sinning in every way possible. I used to look down on faith as if I was somehow superior for "understanding the truth" etc. It wasnt until the last few years that I have really opened my eyes to Christianity and started rethinking everything I had believed and been lead to believe by secular society to that point. This followed a general change in myself from being extremely left leaning politically in my teens and early 20s to being conservative and traditional in my late 20s. I have no connections with Catholicism as in no history or family ever being in the church but I feel naturally drawn to it. I have been learning about the history and have been seriously considering joining. I would love to know what your thoughts are on people like me joining? Also do you have any tips on how I can go about it? Is there a good resource I can use to learn more about how to join and what I should be doing to prepare? I have spent 30 years now without faith and a sudden spiritual awakening makes me feel like my soul is starving 😃 all I want to do is get more involved and start a new tradition within my family! With the help of the Lord I pray I can reach my family and save their souls as well!

Even though this video has things I’ve never really considered (i really just came to see what you thought of chivalry - a lot changes in 3 yrs, i know) but it’s just addictive to listen to, still nice to just get some opinions on this if - God forbid - i or someone i know ever runs into these things and i need to have formed my own opinion. Thanks Hippie! 😊

Through my own experiences combatting addiction to sex, masturbation, and pornography in my own past, a few more things that have REALLY helped me that I wanted to add to help viewers: 1. REJECT the world's mentality saying "Other animals do it, so it is normal and healthy" by recognizing that just because it occurs in nature does not make it healthy (other animals kill each other, rape each other, eat their offspring, etc). This particular mentality really served as a stumbling block early on in my recovery. 2. Instead of focusing on whether doing it makes you a bad person or not, focus on consequences. At first, I approached it from a "if I do it, it makes me a bad person" standpoint, which caused me to fall back into it shortly after each relapse. I personally started finding more success once I approached it from a "If I do this, I know it will blow up in my face afterward. If I do this, I know that I will feel groggy and won't be able to think clearly afterward." 3. To go along with #2, educate yourself on the effects of the behavior. Once I started learning about the neuroscience of sex, masturbation, and pornography, and how they impact our brain and other natural human functions, I started having a stronger desire to avoid them (I don't want to avoid sex anymore, I just want to wait until the proper context). 4. Change up who you spend time with. Back in the thick of my own addiction, the people I hung out with were very sexually liberal and active. The way they talked about sex, porn, and masturbation was as though they were simply a hobby. They made it a part of their personality as well. Once I stopped hanging out with these types of people and started spending time with people who actually value chastity, it started feeling socially NORMAL to not act out sexually.

I love your flannel!

Personally i wear only skirts and dresses for modesty and concealing the shape. Pants will usually show the under curve of your butt and cling to your legs, and a skirt that also shows the under curve of your butt is also not the most modest, so i do not wear those. It was really put on my heart to do this a few years ago and i love it!

Thank you for addressing the bra issue. I have fairly substantial b**bs,and dark Sicilian n*****s. So I always wear a bra. I think comfort is a big deal, so everyone should shop around for the most comfy bra possible!

Ive followed you for a long time on tik tok and on twitter

Oh my gosh! The Holy Spirit is with you! May He continue to use you for Jesus Christ's greater glory! Amen!

I only wear dresses not because of the Mary thing but just because that's what I like, and I like being feminine and I feel pants make me feel like a man tbh and I just love dresses, I don't ever wear dresses above the knee either, I actually haven't worn a pants for about 11 years I think, I just believe women should wear dresses and be feminine, that's not to say there is anything wrong with pants, my sister only really wears pants and she always looks lovely and she is feminine too but I just feel the fact that women wear pants more than dresses today is a problem in my opinion, not them wearing the pants lol but that it's just another example of women becoming like men as it wasn't until the 1960s feminism that women started to wear pants more than skirts and now everyone wears pants, and the reason women started wearing pants was to reject femininity standards, and it's around the time women starting "wearing the pants" in society too if you know what I mean. I actually rarely see a girl in a dress in my city. It's been totally normalized to wear pants so obviously women think nothing about wearing it which I totally understand but it's just a shame for femininity in my opinion, dresses were made for the female body and to enhance it and compliment it, women will always look better in a flowing dress in my opinion than pants. The only thing though Christians always say that dressing conservatively and modest is about dressing feminine and simple and even though i dress very conservatively and very feminine, and never show low cleavage or wear skirts above the knee etc. but I don't dress simple, I dress very "out there" and wear vintage dresses that would be considered ball gowns by todays standards on a daily basis and I just feel like people think that takes away from me dressing conservative and I don't understand this personally because I'm dressing like how women did in times where women dressed classy and conservative, I just have always loved how women used to dress in the past decades and centuries and I reject modern female fashion. It's not really a big deal or anything but I just sometimes think of this, that because I wear glamourous clothing that it's not considered modest, I just thought I would mention my thoughts on this since you brought it up and if you have any thoughts on any of this would love to hear.

Okay, all beautiful advice and counsel on vital topics...but that flannel is perfect. Deus te benedicat

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I can run, jump, squat, clean, cook, take care of others all in a maxi or midi dress. Just make sure the maxi dress doesn’t hit the floor, I can even hike, but if you are uncomfortable hiking in a long dress you can wear a midi dress with leggings or pants underneath.

8:00 Well explained👍, I was talking with my fellow Catholic friends on which sin is the deadliest, and in general we got to these key points Temptation: Invitation of sin to be spread into the world, by trying to misplace your heart with fleeting satisfaction, that which only God can fill. Understanding that the Capital Sins give cause or give rise to other sins, then the virtues that oppose it will give rise to closeness w/ Christ. Building…. Humility instead of Pride Liberality instead of Covetousness Chastity instead of Lust Meekness instead of Anger Temperance instead of Gluttony Brotherly Love instead of Envy and Diligence instead of Sloth Resolve: Know when to do when these thoughts occur, many say, “In the name of Jesus Christ, I reject the lie that (what you are tempted with)” and frequently pray, fast and go to confession. 🇻🇦

I hope we don’t judge others for dressing in a way that makes themselves feel beautiful ❤️ I show skin cause I like being skinny and feeling breezy lol

Yep, people find their Catholic spouses/boyfriends just randomly! My boyfriend found me at work. Just randomly.

my friends don't understand the whole waiting for s*x til marriage thing so now instead of saying 'im waiting til marriage' i say "i'm only ever going to have s*x with one man, who'll be my husband, and when i'm ready to have children" because it sounds reasonable (cuz it is) and it doesn't make them seem like i look down on them for not agreeing with me. idk just my take on it... anyways God bless! have a great day:)

That's interesting, this is the first of this channel's videos I've actually seen any "Likes" on. Amber, if you can go through the metrics for your videos, that might help expose some of KZfaq's shenanigans. We've seen from "the Twitter files" how social media puts its thumb on the scale to push The Narrative(TM), and it would be great to get some evidence showing how that works on KZfaq.

You and your iced coffee 😂😂😂

Honestly this advice should be listened by all, one doesn't have to be a Christian/Catholic to respect themselves, their bodies and to not abuse the gift of creating life by sleeping around etc, I think no matter what anyone's faith, the world was a better place when everyone had standards set in my opinion, a society without standards falls apart as we are seeing today, the standards for how we threat ourselves and others has degenerated, our culture and humanity has degenerated, I feel like the 1960s make us regress rather than progress. The thing is boys will be boys just like girls will be girls, there is nothing wrong with this, society has made it wrong. As for our bodies, yes they are natural but I fail to see how that is an excuse for stripping naked which is what people today use, going to the toilet is natural too but we're not just going to do that in front of everyone, so it just is a bad excuse, it's like sex, they same people say we shouldn't shame people for having casual sex because it's natural which is funny because these people usually support abortion and the reason sex is natural is to create life so it feels very hypocritical to be saying one without the other, nothing is more natural than a baby in the womb but they don't care about that, but obviously sex is natural but like everything in life it is meant to be moderated and have conditions.

I am currently starting lecture on prince of hell,the sins they make people to do etc.

Amber love our lady so , Much

Does anyone know where she got the information about every family line having at least one demon per generation at 8:47? I've never heard this and would like to know more.

22:11 Watch it 3 times kids!

I'm addicted to coffee. I get nasty headaches if I go too long without it

@8:45 you said each family has at least one demon in their generational line. What do you mean by that? First, I have heard of it. And thanks for the channel and video. 👍🏽

Just wondering, do catholics have a stance on interacting with talking intelligent machines? Not like the ones that currently exist but the ones that will exist in the near future, where they would be indistinguishable from people or that would even think of themselves as people.

God bless you all.modesty in heart. Most womans are lost,their bodies is their everything,if you ask them about marriage in casual talk it is like...I am not that stupid.that is sad product of emancipation maybe.come Lord Jesus!

Can I bring a paper into confession with me? I’m scared I will forget a sin or get too anxious

Did you hear about 'Good News about Sex and Marriage' by Christopher West? There are nice honest questions and good catholic answers. For example this juicy question: My boyfriend and I are very much in love and very attracted to each other. We haven't gone 'all the way', but we find it hard to know where the line is. Is there a line? Answers are in the cited book above. It is really fun to read.

Man... I wish more women (Catholic or not) would see this. May the Holy Spirit ordain it, in Jesus name. Amen.

I dont understand why you perceive sex before marriage is 'sinful'?

I was born Lutheran but Catholic and Lutheran have lot in common

I believe having sex made with love with empathy with fidelity It is a commendable thing without falsehood!

promiscuity prostitution infidelity having sex without emotional involvement addictions of all kinds are serious sins

How old are you

Is recognizing women as physically weaker, is that sexism?