Hi MJ, I've been watching you now for about 3 years, so I think I kinda know you a bit (from what little we see and hear from your vlogs). I hope I am giving you advice that is meaningful and helps you think this over, it's a very important decision. Over the years you have changed, becoming more worldly and more elegant in your lifestyle. Of course, this leads to wanting more, to experience more and have more - which often means getting out into the world, which you have been doing. Every time you leave, you miss your fam, your friends and your countryside lifestyle. You said, probably about year ago, that you CHOSE to be the breadwinner for your fam. As a result, they have come to rely on you for a lot, and not just financially - you are a guiding force for your fam. Whenever you leave, it does create some hardship for them, in some ways. This must be considered before you decide if you want to leave and be with Robbie. How will they handle being without you - financially and emotionally? You should discuss it with them, honestly. Do you really think you could live without Scarlet near by? And Mame? Sure, you could come and visit often, but it's not the same when you're not a part of the daily lifestyle they live anymore. I think deep down inside, your heart is in the countryside with your fam. Think about years ago, when you lived in Cebu - were you lonely for your fam a lot? How did you handle living there without them? When you came back to the countryside you put down roots and built a house *twice* and now your fam is building around you too, so you are all close now. I imagine this makes you very happy, to have all your loved ones near by - will you miss this too much if you leave? Last year on your birthday you were out of the country on a beautiful trip, getting lovely gifts and a lovely stay in a fabulous hotel - and you were crying your heart out because you weren't with fam. THINK ABOUT THESE THINGS, SERIOUSLY. I would hate to see you jump the gun, for love, and end up miserable because you didn't want to lose him. Not all romances are meant to last, some are to teach us things in life. Not saying you and Robbie don't have what it takes, but in order to figure that out you will need to do some serious soul searching. Best of luck to you both, this is not an easy decision.

Thanks MJ for guesting Vingle.. A natural beauty with good heart 😊 Her grammar is n diction are excellent..

Choices are.... Breakup with Rob, move to Poland, do nothing, get a LOCAL boyfriend OR move Rob to Cebu and be a sugar momma cougar.

Its in the bible....you will leave your parent and the reality you have your own life....and you gonna have your own family..husband and your children....

First time I've seen Vingle. She is a very smart young lady and her English is excellent!

Wish you all the luck with Robbie and a wonderful life.

Loved this vlog!!

Watching you from afar , makes my day ....keep it up I wish you and Vingle the Best ....keep your Faith and everything will work out with you , Robbie and your family . You should be where your husband is and create your own family . I really enjoyed watching your Q&A

Vingle is so beautiful and funny!

OK Mj❤ that's awesome

Yes! It is a great opportunity to go be with your love. You can always go back and visit family. I did and been married for almost 30 years. Pray about it and ask God for guidance and direction. Pray for His will to be done in your life always. I’m praying for you 🙏🏽💕🤗

Thank You Dai MJ!!! So With Vingle!!! Nice & Informative Vlog!!! Knowing More About You!!!

You’d be a really good Filipino TV host. And also good job on going to the gym!!

I am watching reruns of your previous vlogs..have you thought about putting up a net screen door in the front entrance. I have one and it keeps the flies out and fresh air in when needed and it locks .

Hello MJ and Vingle so happy watching you both together

So proud of you ate MJ🥰 ! I've been watching your vlogs for almost 4 years and you've been through so much, especially mentally, yet you continue to stay strong despite the pressures (harsh comments, judgement, unsolicited advice, etc.) of being a public figure. Some people don't deserve to know so much about your life because they're only here to judge and hate, so don't be afraid to protect your peace and take breaks, and keep certain things private if you want or need to💖

Love when you and Vingle are hanging together❣️ This was a lot fun. MJ you have the best girlfriends and all so beautiful each of them. Much love and continued blessings always. 💞🙏

Love you both guys. Thanks Vingle for doing the Q&A with MJ❤❤❤

Bantayan Island is our favorite. Very relaxing and people were so kind. We really enjoyed our time there. Robbie is great. I can see he really cares for you. He is very handy around the house, which is very rare.

I always enjoy your Q & As with beautiful and vivacious Vingle. Thanks! Fun friends and amiable family❣️ ❤

Given your situation, love will have to come to you because you are more comfortable and secure at home. Don't leave behind all that you have built you will regret it in the end

That was well done ladies! Vingle is such a sweetheart. Also now I want to go eat at Phat Pho. 😂

Very smart mj and beautiful too

We were just in Cebu..We stayed @ the Reef Island Resort Hotel, Mactan Island.. Beautiful, beautiful place ❤ Highly recommended❤

Love listening your Qand A.beautiful cebuana vloggers 😍

Hi Mj and Vingle, much ❤ from Anchorage, Alaska.

I love vingle natural beauty❤️

Long distance doesn't work. Someone has to move to make it happen!

Vingle is so beautiful and she has a beautiful skin like celebrity ❤

Libra - Leo They are both comfortable to express their childlike nature with each other and encourage expression and creativity, something both signs are highly capable of. They are both very very into appearances and aesthetics, taking pride in how attractive their partner is

I love you both❤

More vlogs ninyo duha ❤️

Hello Ms. Mj im late seeing ur vlog , anyway happy for you ,and u answer very clearly , im proud of you ur so amazing answering a very fluent in english , i like that ,thats why ilove ur every vlog and ur accent learning from u always , i hope if God will i pray that Robie see you soon again , Goodluck ,more subscribers , God Bless you and ur family and ur love life with Robie😍👍👋

We would love to see you getting married and have beautiful kids with Robbie. Maybe you dont have a definite year or a game plan for it, you'll just play it by ear. 😍

We know ldr is hard but stay focus everything will be alright

You're a very smart young lady. i like how you answer your questions, lol

Good job MJ and Vingle. You two are so much fun together. BFFs for sure! BTW, MJs sexiest body parts are her legs!

Have You Thought About Doing A Q&A With Vingle?

Sorry MJ, I won't want to be a vlogger as a career

Hi MJ! I'm your avid subscriber here... Nice to know nga same man d.i ta ug alma mater in college...God bless you always!

You two are having way too much fun on this video! Love from Florida

Great to see you and Vingle! Really looks like you guys had a good time!

Believe me, nobody knows the future.. Everything will be different than you actually wanted.

Vingle is looking good preggy! I suspect she will have a baby girl ..

Mga gwapa oii❤❤❤

Dont do things you will regret!! To find out if that is the right decision, you need to be with the person for much longer time !!!!

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Hi MJ, if you run out of ideas to vlog, just cook something and tell us how to cook something, how to prep, what ingredients to use, how to cook it, and show an expression of how tasty it is. And another idea is to tell us what clothes are good to wear for a woman for a party, beach, church, for everyday casual, etc.

Hello miss Mj . I always watching your vlog ❤ i love your english accent ❤ i want to meet you in person sana mpag bigyan hehe. Soon pupunta po ako ng cebu sana makita po kita .pag uwe. Isa po akong ofw here in kuwait 😊 .im analyn gomez 😊😊 god blessed po always 😊😊😊

This summer coming to Manila hope too see u both but how

My frank observation is that life becomes way better and happier for Filipinos who are married to Western men particularly North American (US and Canada) European, Australian men. Financial and social status get better and options of places (countries) to live is wider. Those are facts.

Hahahha it was me asking in bisaya 😅😅😅

Well here in USA we do all the time but but we may come back sometimes lol 😂😂😂😂 because our family is always there for us as thir children

Me too Italy is my favorite country.

20+15- 6➗2✖️2 = 20 ➕ 15 ➖ 3✖️2 = 20 ➕ 15 ➖ 6 = 35 ➖ 6 = 29 I just miss solving Order of Operations for basic Math. 😁

A very INFORMATIVE vlog, MJ … you calmed my restless mind … just like the rest of us who love ROBBIE! Both you and Vingle are so relaxed in that format. A BIG THANKS! Did you watch Kate Middleton’s speech on TV about her cancer? She wore a SWEATER like yours!

Well great vlog !! Two magandang babaes!!❤❤🎉🎉🎉 Wow thank you

I love how you said " I'm going to park that question "😂😂

Meljean you and Robby are mad for each other soulmate do they want to get married to Robby you look so in love happy 😌

I'm in a LDR right now it very hard communicating is so important I try to make sure I don't post that other women would say how handsome I am I can get that from my Filipina girlfriend 😂😂😂

I had a wild guess that Robbie he's around early to mid 30-year-old. You have the same b-day as my older son (he'll be 29 this year). I'm 5'2 had problem putting on weight during my young adult years and now struggling to even lose 10 lbs. (it's tough getting old). lol Great vlog! Vingle did an awesome job interviewing the questionnaire. Ty Vingle! Best wishes to you and Robbie! ❤

I miss Robbie Mel I love you hunnay you deserve true❤

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Mj I have a quick question, Have you ever met Filipina Pea? I'm not sure that your paths have crossed. I was just wondering.

Let’s connect! Filipina born grew up in UK and living in US in and around Yosemite. May motivate me to share what’s it’s like here.

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I want to see u in the future ❤😊with kids ❤😊

I have been a able to travel to all 7 continents. I spent 6 days in Antarctica . I went through the Drake passage. That was a rough ride, but worth it. That trip is impossible to describe even with pictures. I did a polar plunge wow it was a shock to the body. Keep exploring there is wonderful people and everywhere has something beautiful to offer.

CANADA- TORONTO

I love you ❤❤❤

It would take three or four trips to properly vlog the US. I think a tourist visa is for thirty days and our country is so big. Greetings from Orlando Florida. The Filipina Pea came here and barely scratched the surface.

Great answer miss Mj 🌹and Vingle beautiful ladies. But yeah I have noticed that your ex is not sweet unlike Robbie hehehe ❤😅 I like Robbie for you Mj

anytime you need to get away..... we're only a stones throw away in Oz ;-)

what a sad story im a long time subscriber sayang

I watched your former vlog about where you’ve mentioned that you met a Robbie on the bus coming back from Baguio? Marriage and relocation na agad, wait till Robbie propose.

MJ YOU ARE EPIC💫🌿🌷You’re smart, independent, kind, beautiful, loving & thoughtful, you’re going to go far in this world. Greetings from Portland Oregon, the city of 🌹 🌹🌹!!!!!

You are 29 meljean based on the equation you gave. Too young but you are on your marrying stage. I wish you luck on your lovelife. I hope you and Robbie will get married soon.❤❤❤

You are getting older (baby time is ticking), and Robbie looks 10 years older at least. I think it would be wise to think carefully about your goals of settling asap, as not everyone can have children - sometimes it takes years of trying.

1. MJ if you come to US then there is a strong Filipino community in metro-Chicago. We have a Seafood City here, lots of Filipino restos, and a huge varied Asian community as well. But regardless of where you go, I would recommend you consider sending stuff home from here in a Balakbayan box. There are LBC branches around the US and it makes going home easier plus you can send a ton more pasalubong and just stuff you want home that way. When we come visit PH, we actually pre-send our stuff there so we dont have to haul a mountain of luggage through airports. And we have a home there, so we can leave stuff there for future trips. Also, if you do come to US, you need to realize just how huge it is. If you want to see various places it may involve flights in the country just to see different cities. Just note it takes about 6 hours just to Fly from say New York to San Francisco and you havent even left the country. (Just an example) So if you choose to go to one coast you coudl spend days just going up or down that coast. Then basically takes a day to cross the country and spend multiple days to travel the other coast. 2. You need to go back to Europe to spend time with Robbie and so you can spend more time with him to see what it is like to really live there and not just travel there. 3. Please take Scarlet to dentist to protect her health. Bad dental health can lead to seriosu blood and heart trouble. 4. Flip the Q&A and grill Vingle. 5. Could you save up and take Vingle with you to Europe? 6. Be careful about sharing even so much about where you live.

how did you and vingle meet?

Ok pozdrawiam.

Meljean...if you visit the United States, where would be your top 3 places to visit here?

I like vingle than leah😊

Gen Dobry

You met Robby to Baguio diba na mention mo dati eh......

Meljean has stunning morena complexion and beautiful smile 🎉,your friend is cute also

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MJ you look so fricking beautiful in this video :) ❤

I'm subscriber both mj an tom,they are both happy in there relationship.Lay is sweetheart tom is sweeter to her than mj before. Robie is cool an more maruted guy

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You are not living your family,you can come and visit them❤or maybe Robbie can stay with u

Try Ralph Loren Romance

MJ please stop pulling at your hair so much

Good match diay mo libra siya unya leo ka 😅❤

Mj I suggest that u come in Philippines in and out just to be fair lang... that's it.

Great video MJ, very interesting and informative, Vingle did a great job interviewing you as always. Any plans on visiting South Korea?

MJ, YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE YOUR FAMILY BUT NOT ROBBIE IF YOU DECIDE NOT TO DO THINGS OUT OF LOVE. BETTER FOLLOW YOUR HEART. ROBBIE IS A PERFECT PACKAGE FOR YOU OR ANY WOMAN FOR THAT MATTER.

80ish woman on TV show said life is not about winning but chancing on yourself or being brave to do what you wanted but scares you, ad libbing here. I think everybody want a family, live in places they read about, too, but you need to create the opportunities for such to happen while life and people also have their plans.

MJ, when youre in UK..let me know!

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