Since a couple people asked for it here's the video that played in the intro drive.google.com/drive/folders/1EID6hxFtIPLf7SGp3s7gGFs9aBvXR-5v?usp=sharing Also the links for the art used in the video, please check them out x.com/DragonRoIlZ/status/1757623076764647713 x.com/Drooling_Demon/status/1801400931952771147

thought i was a gay guy until i found out i was bi girl.

guys im gay is that gay☹☹

The perk of being an aromantic is that your focused on furthering your fanfictions as apposed to figuring out who to ask out on a date.

my friend has a dead name and when i accidentally called them by it they were like “hah!- I see you found out my true name heh-! unfortunately i cant let you live! ill finally unleash my true power!” and then they punched me

"Is [BLANK] gay?" should always be followed up with "what, are you a cop?"

currently on the toilet questioning my gender

As a trans person what helped me most is to just be myself and not think about it. Like if I like how E feels Ill be on E, if I want to dress more fem I will, if I want to dress more masc Ill do that too. Ofc passing and safety is a big deal so be carful, people can be so evil :(

I'm agender and go by any/all pronouns. When I stopped identifying as cis, I realized I had no problem with my assigned gender but instead the restrictions and expectations. But then identifying as nonbinary opened up a whole new set of ickiness, more restrictions like no gendered words, and getting misgendered all the time. Now I just identify with my body. Like "yeah, that's what people call bodies like mine" but personality wise, I don't understand gender past fem, masc, and body dysmorphia. One could make the argument I'm bigender, but one identity is a lack of gender and the other I don't actually identify with...

You put the A’s in Gay!

Fun fact: You should call dead names "necronyms"

fellas, is it gay to be gay and queer and gay? cuz i sure am

“Themboy” no no! Femby (pronounced as Fem in femboy, and enby, like Fem-BEE)

the going by gendered terms is so real!! im not sure how to describe because like when i found out i was non-binary i ended up feeling like i had to conform to a different binary in an androgynous way like instead of just not being in the binary i thought i had to be genderless like its a 3rd gender?? now i do what i want. i ate all the gender candy. my greed for gender knows no bounds >:3c

You know someones been watching dungeon meshi when they compare themselves to an omellette

“Costo free-sample” 💀 I fucking love this video :3

Clarification: link is all types of trans at once

That's my queer cat boy champion right there! :D

1:16 it’s not gay to do it, it’s gay to enjoy doing it

I really appreciate this video. It can be a little sketchy to share queer thoughts online because there are always people who are gonna hate, but im glad the comments here are chill, and its all just wholesome

I'm so glad you decided to use my shower for this

im glad im not the only one having gender envy for izutsumi

We're reaching levels of based once thought impossible

5:08 "In a cis way" that is thee most egg thing I have heard in a while

i'm gay

...the images, no -the sensation- you put in my head when you say the word zesty after the word swallow

"this drawing specifically" mood

Dana Terrace is God. Dying on this hill.

>nonbinary >bisexual how daring

IZUTSUMI MENTION

"new trend called themboys" i hate to be the one to break the news that fraxiom music did this 4 years ago

that deadname thing speaks to me so hard. my name irl is collin, and whenever i say it out loud its always like a mouthful for me, it's always made me... maybe uncomfortable is the wrong word, but uncomfortable that that's my identity even though i've used it my entire life. i go by mac or macsour (tag) online though and it's just happenstance that mac happens to be my middle name (mackenzie) and it's always felt so much better to identify with. i've always wanted to drop collin but i just can't because so many people know me by it, and it's my legal name so. easier to just call me by my real name instead of the online one when i'm in social situations. but in the back of my mind it's always felt so weird having to explain to everyone my name is collin. maybe this is a wakeup call lmao, but i'll process that later i guess. all the people i care about in my life call me mac anyways so it kinda works out anyways rant over, great video, idk why it was recommended to me but i'm lowkey kinda happy i clicked on it. if you read comments, what made you decide to go nonbinary? i haven't made that leap yet but i am considering using he/any pronouns bc in my personal view i don't really care about mine (but happily will respect others obviously)

i love the guilty gear references all of them make me happy

Your so basedmaxxing

Hi! Since one of your thoughts involved agender individuals, I thought I'll share my personal experience with it! When it comes to me as an agender individual, and be mindful everyone's experience may be different, I see myself as just a person. I don't have that inner gender feeling people keep talking about, and I don't really care what pronouns people refer to me as either, cause it's just language. I don't really care about people deadnaming me either, just like you! And my other identity/identities, aroace/aromantic and asexual, is straight passing as well, so yayy staying in the closet, am I right? But anyway, I'd say I'm pretty indifferent. Like I have my pet peeves, like boobs cause they're annoying, or people assuming or imposing things about me just because I'm a girl in their eyes, but it's not like I get dysphoria out of them! Overall, I'm just a person, and gender is a social construct that I simply don't get, nor abide by. I think the fact I'm also autistic ties into this, with the whole not getting social constructs and stuff. Also when it comes to thinking in gendered terms, I see it in two meanings of the word. First, the one I was taught, the characteristics that can be perceived and categorized by which people look at me and say: girl. Or by which I look at people and think: probably this or that. Second, the inside feeling of gender, the one which I lack. Sometimes the two meanings align, sometimes they clash. Second takes priority though, cause even though I can see the features, I can see the characteristics, I'm still gonna call them by their preferred pronouns, cause I mean c'mon, that's just basic human decency and they're absolutely valid. But, up and foremost, I see people as people. I'm not gonna assume or inpose something on somebody just because they're this or that when it comes to gender. I just wish more people would act the same.

that intro was peak, no better way to start a video than with a fade in to terraria day theme i can also relate to the deadname dilema. I dont enjoy hearing mine but im kinda numb to it, so it doesnt affect me very much. Also my envy is just A2 from NieR: Automata. I dont even know why shes just cool and i wanna be her.

Gender doesn't automatically lead to pronouns; they don't always correspond 1:1. For example, a non-binary person can go by binary pronouns, and an agender person can go by they/them or anything that person wants!

I’m gay

If I posted a zesty tweet, and my homies at the local liked it, I would be the happiest 0-2 on the planet

Izutsumi thumbnail already hooked

i’m gay

This is so real, like im still figuring myself out and its so wierd when i think about how others think of the me that i present because im a coward and im too scared to talk about myself lol.

"agen-by" OHHH OK. OKAy. this has opened up my eyes

You are so real, love hearing your thoughts.

1:42 spitters are quitters

"themboy" is also known as "femby"

No matter how closeted you are, you can be 100% what you feel at a pride event any everyone will love you for it. The trick is getting to and from the pride event without running into neighbors.

I'm gay

I think you might be the most relatable enby I've found on this platform so far lmao. Only video of yours I've seen, but I'm left wanting to listen to you ramble more

the terraria music in the intro punched me in the face and then continued to distract me for the rest of the video lol

Every time I shower I think of the one Tumblr post that goes something like "If I'm a bi girl and I nail a bi guy that's literally gay sex, pemdas or whatever like it cancels out"

I went from a lesbian to a gay man. Life is weird like that!

i hope all you young people find what you’re looking for. gather ye rosebuds

i love the oakland A's

Is it gay to like when bro bites me? Asking for a friend.

I endorse this video whole wholeheartedly in it's entirety >:3

The railgunner from ror2 is so real 🗣️💯

izutsumi dungeon meshi giving gender envy is so real lmao

I'm subbing for the intro alone.

2:02 i cant tell if he said “i have smash friends who follow me” like he has friends who play smash with him or if he said “i have smashed friends who follow me” 😭

I have vague memories of before becoming trans, where my friend (who’s also trans) sent me an email regarding something, but their email used their deadname. So in a brilliant fucking display of my stupidity, I responded with “okay, ‘DEADNAME’” as a joke without realizing then a year later, I realized I deadnamed them and now it makes me want to throw myself into a pit of angry republicans. we’re cool about it but I still feel really bad.

IZUTSUMIII MY BELOVEEDDDDD (my envy for her is insane)

the fact that you put marcy as gender envy.png and I litterally called myself marceline cause bubbline made me realise Im trans... how dare you attack me

3:35 TESTICLE MENTIONED

I'm not even gonna lie, Testament is what made me realize I was nb yk

I'm nonbinary and I dress femininely so I've come to like the term 'femby' (feminine + enby)

"Cosco free sample" HHHHHHHGEEEELKKPOKGHAAAHAAH

i started using agender after slowly coming to think that i dont experience gender the way most people do. fundamentally cannot grasp the concept. but, since i was raised and interact in such a heavily gendered world, it still is very deeply set in the ways i categorize myself and others and how i experience my gender. in many ways, gender is very deconstructed for me. but i still experience dysphoria (minor and it comes and goes, but i am on hrt) and all pronouns feel a bit uncomfortable to me (inherent associations with gender i think; i will say that she/her always is the most uncomfortable for me due to feeling that people perceive me as a woman as someone who presents very fem, and having any gender tied to me is gross). i also have very strange relationships with various gendered terms. "woman" and "man" are not something i would use or want applied to me, but "girl" or "boy" are fine. the connotations and roles associated with the terms are what it is, i think. im not a woman but i did experience girlhood and still relate to various aspects that are tied with being a girl, and thus "girl" is okay. im not a man but being called "boy" is incredibly funny so its okay. my gender is for the bit and language is strange and convoluted and constantly evolving. loved reading about differing gender experiences in these comments though, really cool :)

Great video, 10/10, hell yeah

3:32 "Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah... Ok that's it, stop being so relatable."

Crush or gender envy for me if Jeffery Combs. Being covered in blood can be a part of gender expression.

No because the Izutsumi gender envy is so real but if I admit that to my friends I will not be beating the cat accusations 💀

Thembois is amazing, I'm using that to describe myself now

Getting rid of the omelette is the best approach I think, but it takes some people a lot of time and life circumstances to align to be able to do that. I'm old as balls and still working on that.

OMG WHY ARE YOU LIKE ME SO MUCH, ARE YOU A DOPPLEGANGER?? I'm also bi, non-binary, like the same characters as you, have the same feelings for my deadname... HOW

im literally in the closet rn i only told one of my friends that i might be trans and then none of my other friends or family despite probably none of them caring if i did and they would be accepting it’s just that i don’t talk about it 🥰🥰🥰🤭🤭🤭

Drooling Demon mentioned. I must now recommend Star Impact the webcomic

some lowkey relatable queer experience

I am very much behind the idea of themboys, up 'till now I'd just been calling myself an enby femboy or sometimes femby but that is so much better

Omg its kbity in the thumbnail

the izutsumi obsession is real, not sure if you called it “obsession” in your video but that’s what i have rn

why you so pretty 😭

i just wanted to say your shower looks freakishly similar to my shower

Railgunner from ror2 is funny af

you seem like a cool person

Izutsumi is awesome

i dont subscribe to a lot of super small creators but I really like this!

This is quite a queer video.

marth shower thoughts

this is great

Please know that your content doesn’t really interest me much, however I will fully watch any video of yours with the kbity in the thumbnail. Please keep doing that.

So real with the pronouns! they/them are fine i dunno… but balancing the different ones is too much - NEO PRONOUNS FOR THE WIN! i just use e/em and I like the nuetral-ness of it without having the mix of things. Same boat with the whole name being weird closet and not closet. I stay being an Emma despite emma like only having girls attached to the name, because its got family history and happy memories but the explaining of identity evrry time gets old! a 🏳️‍⚧️ for me was realising, that I always doodled myself looking more masc “because it was more sympathetic” in my brain 🤪. Local pride things ARE. THE. WAY. to go!!! the ones for your local town, or reccomended by word of mouth do the best for me and my nuerodivergences. ♥️ Keep imagining who YOU want to be, in a seperate tank from how ppl irl treat you like- and I think being nonbinary kinda sorts it’s unique shape out on it’s own. That’s a little vague, but life is a control board of switches and dials to mess around with and customize - for me some hrt and medical surgery kinda things seem appealing, but every person’s goals are different. 😊💕

I’m transfemme and I got my new name from the side character/past lore character closely tied to a main character of a story I write that also happened to be my past fursona and have a name I much preferred over my birth name even before I knew I was trans

3:20 omg yes that is such a mood

clicked because i also have Izutsumi brainworms

Yeah I definitely get that "why even worry about if ... is ..." Probably just me and my strange sexuality and brain but I've always just been with whoever I thought was attractive of both genders, and everything in between. I think it's probably way more stressful to have the "gay panic" or "straight panic" when you're specifically into one thing and find something outside of that norm that's appealing. Although that being said it definitly confuses friends and family when I go from dating bears to twinks to butch women and stereotypical pretty girls, so everyone has their struggles I guess 🤷‍♂️😅

Putting W in weird and winning [when I say ‘weird!’ I mean just fun and strange, I don’t mean it in a bad light]

insightful

Hell yeah.

Poggers video