Quit The Wrong Thing Now

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Quitting isn't necessarily a BAD thing. In fact, the next level of success requires that you start sorting and deleting faster than other people. High performers leave sooner than later, creating white space for the things that really matter. Here's how to quit the wrong thing now:
#1: Identify what makes you bored or miserable, and that which makes you come ALIVE.
#2. Think legacy (and ask yourself this question)
#3. Release those who are not ready (and why this one requires a LOT of courage)
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Brendon Burchard is the world’s leading high performance coach, the most requested motivational speaker of his generation, and one of the most-watched, quoted and followed personal development trainers in history. He is also in the Top 100 Most Followed Public Figures on Facebook, with over 10 million fans across his pages, and the star of the web's most shared non-scripted personal development videos (now over 100 million views).
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@Decorum.n.Decisions 6 жыл бұрын

People are so scared to move on from whats comfortable.

@awakenthegreatnesswithin 4 жыл бұрын

JenJen Teflon 👏 comfort is the enemy of achievement

@alexfayaz2411 3 жыл бұрын

yes. 😂😂😂like you.

@Marketsolo 5 жыл бұрын

I am not proud of my legacy at this time...I allowed others too much negative influence. I've spent nearly 5 years shedding the influences and the last year finding my passions, my truths, my self. Thank you Brendon for helping me along my journey.

@JanelleFraser 6 жыл бұрын

This is really powerful. I tend to drag things out until they get SO SO bad....mentally, emotionally, physically, & financially this makes no sense. When I look back at many of these situations I knew very early on that I needed to quit it & it was the wrong thing. I love this permission giving video!

@angelamartinez4379 4 жыл бұрын

I completely relate to this Janelle. When I think of all the time I wasted, I understand that the choices I made were driven by circumstances outside me, and that I allowed it to happen. All the best!

@akashbanerji5720 3 жыл бұрын

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@RoyMontero 6 жыл бұрын

0:00 - "#1: Identify what makes you bored or miserable, and that which makes you come ALIVE." - Brendon Burchard

@DrBenLynch 6 жыл бұрын

you got me at “think legacy”. Perfect. Makes me realize that some things I’ve been doing need to be stopped. No legacy there. Thank you!

@khaalidelmi517 6 жыл бұрын

In summary, this is priceless gift. Thanks

@son2poetry 5 жыл бұрын

I’m approaching 60 and just starting to look forward. I haven’t been in a position to until now. I hope you don’t think potential is over at sixty forward. 😌

@IngridMClark 5 жыл бұрын

I'm building a new business @ 66 while living in a new State. It only matters what YOU (Debra) think. Your mind moves matter and creates. Age or looks has nothing to do with nothing. :) Every time we learn something new our brain expands. Courage is the opposite of conformity. Make it a remarkable 2019.

@Elizabeth-yg2mg 5 жыл бұрын

I'm 62 and in the same boat. We are likely to live another 40 years so we should keep paddling hard.

@son2poetry 5 жыл бұрын

Ingrid Clark Thank you, Ingrid! I needed that. Best to you and your new life/ business!

@son2poetry 5 жыл бұрын

RH Best of luck to us! Thank you!

@ushiraweerakoon4339 3 жыл бұрын

Hi , Colonel Sanders was a 65 year old poor broken man when he started KFC . Cheers 🎉🎊

@simplenima4060 4 жыл бұрын

Whenever I go through some hard days I watch your videos and it gives a path to way out from problem.You are my Mentor Sir.

@alicegoldenvalley 5 жыл бұрын

I swear to God I’m so happy to hear someone else say this. People said that I am crazy for cutting loose of things that weren’t right for me fast. To the point where I started doubting myself. But I just know when to cut loose of things and of people when they aren’t right for me. So happy that I saw this video. Thank you so much 🙏🏼

@YoursTrulyMaldita 6 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad you quit your job. You saved me so many times. Thank you.

@BrendonBurchard 6 жыл бұрын

Wow. Thank you!

@AHarewood 6 жыл бұрын

Extremely valid points you are making here in terms of how to quit when things are not working. I agree that if you have given something you're working on a fair chance, and it simply is not working - it's time to move on. Most people know this deep inside, but need little reminders such as these to keep them moving forward.

@homesgui_chrome9186 3 жыл бұрын

I think your are right when it comes to my life.. I have been sticking to this one childhood dream... finding out its not fun and flawed. im done suffering...

@komoru Жыл бұрын

Wish I heard this back in high school or college. If I heard these 30 minutes back then my life would 100% be different today, and these 30 minutes would have saved YEARS going down the wrong path.

@soothingtrax 6 жыл бұрын

This has been my life long struggle, to find the "right" thing, as I have so many different interests and projects I am working on right now. , things that I am so passionate about. When I put one thing aside for a while to focus on something else, I miss the other thing and eventually return to it. I go back and forth, back and forth, uggh, it drives me batty. And because of this back and forth insanity, no one thing ever really takes off and prospers. But as Brandon says, I know the answer. I have to do some serious soul searching, perhaps some deep meditation and prayer and really think about this with an open mind. Thanks Brandon! Great lesson!

@nickalimzhanov7317 5 жыл бұрын

so how is it ?

@ontopurpose4576 6 жыл бұрын

You're so very inspiring Brendon! I'm looking forward to taking positive productive steps towards my entrepreneur goals from your inspiration.

@jameswild1621 6 жыл бұрын

on2purpose cool channel!

@TheMagicCrafter 6 жыл бұрын

@on2purpose I took a look at some of your videos. You're very good at speaking and explaining your topics and points! Are you looking to become a high performance coach like Brendon? Either way... keep going for your goals, I'm cheering for you!

@ontopurpose4576 6 жыл бұрын

The Magic Crafter thank you so much! This was very nice of you.

@mymetastaticlife 5 жыл бұрын

This is my favourite video so far of you, Brendan. You're so crazy here and yet you send the message through powerfully, as always. Thank you for the gift of you, mate!

@daflygabe75 6 жыл бұрын

Powerful stuff. A definite share. Thanks for your blatant honesty and compassion.

@irismckenney551 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Brendon. I've found what makes me come alive and you have affirmed my resolve. Peace and love to you and your family.

@mellieburkette 6 жыл бұрын

WOW!!!! Thank you. Very insightful. Looking at my list now. Ready for the next level!!

@dandatta 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this inspirational message. I've been really struggling with my business and personal life these past couple of months and the message in this video really hit me in a positive way. I feel as if a burden has been lifted. Thank you again and you'll always have my support.

@marianfranks2147 3 жыл бұрын

As always you so good at making me clearly understand my self

@hanenbenrhouma9825 5 жыл бұрын

I watched this a year ago I think, and I'm rewatching this now. You have helped me a lot in my life Mr. Brendon ; I learnt to take decisions that move my life forward. AND whenever I feel lost, I come back to your trainings and advises... Thank you

@MonicaSancio 5 жыл бұрын

Excellent advice, Brendon, thank you! I love the beauty and impeccability of your stage, studio & message! I am figuring out what else to quit... Opening up the white space to focus on my priorities! 💜🙌🏼

@vosgita 6 жыл бұрын

You just keep getting more awesome every time! Thank you!

@daaannggletsBANG188 2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love seeing your silliness @ 10:38! These videos have been helping me so much.... Your message, your enthusiam, and your unrelentingness are motivating me through my current life season. I appreciate your principles and conviction, thank you for your work!

@maureengarry 6 жыл бұрын

PERFECT message for me today. Thank you, Brendon!

@oh72911 6 жыл бұрын

Yes!! love this, no time for wrong things.

@edenhalili6822 4 жыл бұрын

I honestly want to thank you for sharing this video from the bottom of my heart. It is scary and terrifying to be alone but yea your right. Thank you more power to you. ❤️🙌

@lljohnson9249 2 жыл бұрын

As I was listening , I was visualizing the movie Big with Tom Hanks . The end scene where he suddenly walks out of his presentation . He suddenly realized that he doesn't want to stay big . His heart wanted to go back to his real life.

@grizzlegrowlsem 6 жыл бұрын

Loved the training! You rock BB

@jamesahilliard 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Brendon. Wonderful messaging, great research and resulting insights. Loved training with you organization for The Habits and The Charge. Cranking along now without really knowing what I'm doing but my heart and soul is 100% connected to it! I care less about the great job, I care for the legacy.

@alexabacoanu3869 6 жыл бұрын

oh, wow...that was impactive. Thank you for sharing all these advice and life experience.

@samuelbarnes9243 5 жыл бұрын

Man that was deep. You know I've always done this in my life, but I've never really known why until now. Thank you so much for this video Brendon.

@MsAimm 6 жыл бұрын

OMG! Brendon you're totally AMAZING! I can't thank you enough

@thekbdiary 5 жыл бұрын

Needed this so much. Thanks brendon! :)

@VanessaHidalgo 6 жыл бұрын

This one really hit home for me. Thank you Brendon for sharing!

@maryfernandez2165 6 жыл бұрын

I'm happy to see this! I've quite few jobs that doesn't feel right and people around me thinks I'm just this quitter and crazy. And I actually starts to believe them. Helpful as always. Thank you!

@otamans 6 жыл бұрын

i have been learning from your vidoes for so long and i have found them very helpful.... i am happy to be in among those who you have improved lifes.

@LadyJuly65 6 жыл бұрын

Brendon, you are spot on with your information. I'm loving your online classes.

@JE-md9tm 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you! ❤️ So great knowledge, I can´t belive how much I need to hear this!

@alejandrocarvajal5861 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks brendon ! .You are an amazing person an couch . This video really contributed in one of the most important decisions in my life . God bless you .

@ongsheeling1301 6 жыл бұрын

aaahhhhhhh-!! this has been rolling in my mind so much recently. It was bullseye and brought me to tears.. I have been able to quit whatever I think is wrong and I have come so far to my dream. but i am currently stucked and have been struggling so much because knowing that quitting this what i am hanging on would lose me stg important to me.. I have not been able to step out of it.. this video reminded me of the courage and power I used to had that helped me fought through lots of difficulties..thank you Brendon.

@pitic25 6 жыл бұрын

GOD Bless you Brandon, i needed this right now !!!

@clau7540 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you Brendon... I'm back! I appreciate this video. I lost my dad a few months ago and hadn't seem to get back up on my feet emotionally. This video was instrumental to my state of mind and where I want to go. I'm watching your videos and "I'm taking immediate action" ... TODAY!!! GOD BLESS.

@Papershire 6 жыл бұрын

I feel like a failure because I quit on my nursing degree. :( I wanted to make a difference, and I was passionate about helping people... but I couldn't do it. I am working on bigger things now. Thanks for making me feel even a little bit better.

@222empress 6 жыл бұрын

this is literally perfect timing, as I have the opportunity to leave Corporate America and do meaningful work in the non profit sector. I'm so scared to leave but hearing your message is like speaking directly to my heart, Thank you Brendon

@Wolvofficial 5 жыл бұрын

Dani P yeah this hit me at the right time as well

@enochleffingwell842 3 жыл бұрын

I work in the non-profit world and have been for 8 years full time now... I'm curious to know, how did this decision go for you?

@222empress 3 жыл бұрын

@@enochleffingwell842 I left the non profit sector last summer. There was a lot of group thought in the organization. Again, the wrong thing will always be the wrong thing.. If you are fighting yourself to stay somewhere it's not worth your peace. Take a leap of faith and trust that God got you.

@sonewton1 6 жыл бұрын

Brendon, thank you thank you thank You! I needed this. I needed to hear this so I can take my next step in my career. You have given me the courage and confidence to do so. You truly are a great mentor!

@carolinezina3543 4 жыл бұрын

This is such a good video, I am so appreciative of his positivity and knowledge. I am astonished at how often I listen to him and am able to feel understood and a new level of growth. Thank you for these videos.

@RicardoRamalhorr 6 жыл бұрын

This was incredible... and helped me a lot TODAY!! Thanks Brendon!!!!

@KingaGorski 6 жыл бұрын

Brendon, my sir. You are an amazing speaker, truly! Thank you for these videos and sharing your wisdom - I think this way too (thankfully!) but you just articulate it SO well.

@moonchild42 5 жыл бұрын

from the bottom of my heart, thank you.

@jehoaddinmewi9235 5 жыл бұрын

This is amazing, I need this message, so thank you Brendon

@madihaaldakshy2099 6 жыл бұрын

You're so great Brendon, inspiring us to change our life to the best

@caitlinlacy1235 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for putting together this video. I am currently moving into a new stage of my life and wanting to change careers. I have been with my current company since I was 16 (over 7 years) I feel like there’s a wall blocking me from moving on. This video definitely brought clarity into the situation and said a lot of things I couldn’t find words for. THANK YOU!

@suyogkatekar8548 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this video. Came exactly at right time!!

@marcusevans6438 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing Brendon!

@impactfully5714 5 жыл бұрын

A powerful and timely reminder. Thanks, Brendon.

@hoomanseyfi575 6 жыл бұрын

I have left my wrong school and I am still proud of it. that change was a lifetime change for me Thank you brendon.

@CHENHoneyBunny20 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you Brendon this spoke to me a lot. As a college student I am still trying to find new opportunity of seeing things and forgetting the past of quitting. Life has so much to offer! I believe and achieve from the present! More for my future to come!!! THANKS AGAIN!!! Much happiness and good vibes to you!!!! God Bless!

@hellefonager5046 6 жыл бұрын

Just what I needed right now - so true "Quit the wrong thing now" Love it - thanks Brendon

@vinaydasutube 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot Brendon. Really helpful and inspiring.

@corinaweber9014 5 жыл бұрын

I felt the heavyness of this message. I even felt confused at times. I like this message. It gives me a lot to think about.

@zanyarbaez4739 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing Brendan

@milliemarino5172 5 жыл бұрын

Awesome advise! Thank you Brendon!

@phuong28292 6 жыл бұрын

you inspire me everyday Brendon. The first thing i do everyday is open my eyes and then listen to your inspiring speech

@canicekehel7685 6 жыл бұрын

Great vid for my future. Im 15 and this opened my eyes to what i don't necessarily enjoy in comparison to my fav subjects like: English, PE and Film Studies.

@creatingdigitalassets 6 жыл бұрын

Perfect timing ! Thank you Brendon. Accenture Alumni here too.

@waqasahmed6031 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks Brendon for sharing such thoughts, you are really an inspiration to so many people and thousands to come in future.

@fernwatson 6 жыл бұрын

Just listening to you makes me feel like I have achieved something already. Thank you so much.

@ericaussery6724 3 жыл бұрын

This message was for me and I received it!! Thank you Universe!

@chinom.5014 6 жыл бұрын

That Legacy part really struck me hard. Helpful as always. Thank you!

@DrBenLynch 6 жыл бұрын

ditto! Thanks for pointing that out - I almost quit the video till I saw your comment!

@shaydjokes 3 жыл бұрын

Brendon you are such an inspiration!!!

@Doug5614 6 жыл бұрын

This video spoke volumes to me. I'm going through what Brendon's talking about in my own life right now. Deep down, I know what I have to do especially after seeing this video. A lot of wisdom here.

@nadeewicky 6 жыл бұрын

Hi Brandon, you're a great presenter...you are spot on...and got me thinking...!

@siewhis 4 жыл бұрын

Your word save my life, thanks

@zeliazeliazelia 2 жыл бұрын

Omg. Thank you KZfaq and thank you Brendon. I have heard (audibles) high performance habits couple years back and that there started a journey of self discovery, what i want, where am i, whatd next. But this, this hit hard because im very indecisive and you know what, thank you for reminding me i dont need any ones permission, step out of my comfort zone, take that risk and be happy. I love my job, im a caregiver, but i have reached the top and im ready to move on. Go on to my next project. Thanks Brendon. GO GO GO!!!

@ashleyisrael5345 5 жыл бұрын

thank you soo much Brandon by giving me exactly what I needed to here today

@zofiamazur8828 6 жыл бұрын

Love it! Thank you Brendon! This is awesome!.. Can you do a video on how to stop people pleasing?

@ananastea 4 жыл бұрын

That is an awesome video! "You know who's not succeeding? Bored people"

@AmrddH 6 жыл бұрын

I was with ya through the whole thing, but the burrito part hit home for me XD. Feeling the inspiration!

@anntruongcpambaea7693 Жыл бұрын

I love your analogy of broom pushing.

@Wolvofficial 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks brendon’ i love your support hope to meet you one day

@MiguelExhale 6 жыл бұрын

😂 I had to watch this a few times. It’s really enlightening.

@KrystenJanzen 6 жыл бұрын

Awe wow Brendon! Really loved this video ❤️

@tiffanysmith7419 6 жыл бұрын

I really needed this. Thank you!

@mohamedajab7402 6 жыл бұрын

Brendon. you do great job and you are very inspiring. I think big change will happen to my life. Thank you so much.

@norahn505 6 жыл бұрын

your videos are amazing and I find answers for all my questions ,

@jiafujang 6 жыл бұрын

perfect video thanks for this! it gave me confidence in what I did! I left 2 secure jobs in 3 years and I always told myself "I'm not where I should be" first time, I left good people I was good with .. but that job would have put me in a simple life I didn't want to have or at least I didn't feel I belonged to! The second job was horrible I left it in 1 year and 5 months even though I didn't know what I'll do I quit it with no job or ideas behind but I felt it was killing me little by little ! and everyone was like "you left that well paid job for nothing are you sure ?!" I was sure it wasn't good for me, that's the only thing I knew! I took time to think about things I wanted to do like travelling, working in Japan or US.. but I felt it was also not for me at least right now, I finally had the chance to find a new job , I hope it will be where I can improve my skills and learn more about me ! I'm less afraid now to test things and quit if it's not for me and your video gave me the strength and confidence in my way of thinking! Thank you!

@fabulousbear8543 6 жыл бұрын

Man every word u say is a like a diamond! Thank you very very much!!!!

@JeanetWolf 6 жыл бұрын

This video is the right thing at the perfect time. Thanks Brendon

@prayunceasingly2029 6 жыл бұрын

I have a success block i need to break through. This video was a great help as were many other videos from this guy.

@maryammuzaffar4767 6 жыл бұрын

You are amazing sir, thank you for the video

@hogchief 2 жыл бұрын

My current job is most definitely a “sacred cow”. My challenge is I’m very close to retirement and I have a responsibility to my family. I am doing the wrong thing for fulfilling my dream to be a writer and photographer. I want to double my income and work less hours. I need more personal freedom since the kids left home. It’s tricky.

@glockgrandma2517 5 жыл бұрын

I did that 2 yrs ago and now it’s time to do it again! I’m single and money is an issue however I’m moving forward towards my passion which I’m confident I’ll be successful in bc I was before in another state. My goal is to triple my income over the next 12 months! I’m highly motivated, willing and able to go the extra mile. I’m signing up to get my RE lic in my new state and kick some tail! Woot! Woot!!

@travisguide4516 6 жыл бұрын

good job brendon very good stuff

@mirgery 4 жыл бұрын

Excellent! Your videos helped me realized that I am naturally a High Performance person. I noticed I have been quitting of things that doesn't let me move towards my dreams, every time faster and faster. I have just decided that soon I'm going to quit my corporate job to start something of my own. I'm grateful for the opportunity but I have this feeling that it's not aligned with my life purpose anymore. It feels wrong to stay in there for me. I need to reclaim my time and energy back to develop the skills that matters. It feels good to feel supported! Thank you!