True

Bruh true

Nah, it's a Mexican soap opera

JERRY! JERRY! JERRY!

Seriously! I hope OP has a good support system because her "family" ain't it. :/

You’re a real one for the post update!

GAW! The freaking audacity of OP’s sister!

Well i'm glad that her stepmother have at least the decency to give a small apology.

Good for OP! She's better off without those trash human beings. I hope she sticks to NC and doesn't allow them to slink their way back in.

Good. People like OP's family have a special place in hell for all of them. Especially cheaters like Ben.

Irk? It's such a simple concept. If you're not happy and want to see other people then break up. It's that easy...

Yes!

But.. but.. she had cancer… that means that she should never have to face the consequences of her actions and should be allowed to do whatever she wants/s

fr and shes like what 22-23? like how do you not know this

As someone without much experience being social. Can confirm. it doesn't take social skills to know not to sleep with another person's SO

KIds don't make a good parent soft or weak. Quite the contrary, actually. They make them stronger. There's nothing quite like sacrificing your future and desires for your kin.

@@KiX-K4T13 Agree. I think its very strong to be in touch with one's own feelings and to have empathy. Totally not weak or soft.

no, see, piggy bank isn't accurate. With a piggy bank, you only get the money back that you put in ;-)

The sister in this story must be the one who disliked this video

I think they are just trying to justify it in any way they can so it is 'acceptable' to keep her in the family and have access to the grandchild in question. Which is GROSS behaviour and honestly, OP is way better without this in her life.

She sounds entitled and like a bitch, and OPs parents clearly favor the sister. I will never understand how parents can completely disregard the child who is the victim and side with the child who committed the act

I really don't like the idea of "stealing a partner". He CHOSE to do this. She didn't steal anything, that implies that he had no choice in the matter. A wallet doesn't choose to be stolen. She helped him cheat, which is a scummy thing to do, but she didn't steal anything. If he was loyal, this wouldn't have happened.

I am waiting for the "boyfriend cheated on the sister and fled the state to avoid child support and then they tried to guilt OP into not being supportive of the now betrayed sister" update.

Good point

It doesn't change a thing actually. So it's not important

@@keydino3967 I know, I meant the way the parents are trying to use it as an justification

@Chaterine 😽 you should begone ya perv

@Chaterine 😽 OH MY GOD GO OUTSIDE

Maybe she had wife/mom skills to always know where everything in the house is even if it's not her who put it there and retains that information for when the person who did put it there forgets/loses it Not that it would justify her packing anything

Thank you for posting this. You are wonderful for tracking this down. 💛

Thank goodness she cut them off !

Thank you for the update. I'll gladly be OPs new sister. She's more than welcome to join my family.

🤔 I'm very glad that you updated here. Please excuse me for giving a bit of unasked for advice that I'm gonna pass on to you that's changed my perspective on family, friends, and my own life: "YOU alone are the controller and creator of who YOU allow in your personal circle." I say this from the perspective of one who has been there with family issues. I'm so very glad that you didn't have a shitty childhood. So many people unfortunately did and do, me included. I had to learn early on, first when I met the man that would be my husband and again when we learned that we were going to have a baby, that for my own mental and moral health I had to stand up, stand firm and be the controller of WHO I allowed inside MY personal circle. My husband and I had to deal with family situational, subtle (sometimes unconsciously done) manipulation, pressure, and guilt trips. Immediate family members had called other family members to pressure and manipulate us to bend us to their wants, WITHOUT once considering our point of view or necessarily what, we as individual adults in a relationship, needed. We on our own were able to handle the subtle and sometimes not-so-subtle stressful drama's and manipulations that were put on us. Naturally, that changed when we discovered that I was pregnant, the pressure put on us to do what the family wanted was amped up 100%. Then the manipulations and mind games became a sly thing, that became mentally and physically too exhausting for me, a pregnant woman, to handle. The hurt I was sorting through wasn't helped by the constant drain by the negativity that was like a dark miasma that I had to wade through. My husband saw what was happening and said enough is ENOUGH! We put everyone on NO Contact for a good long while, where we seriously spent that time assessing the people, family and friends in our lives, asking ourselves questions like, "is this person one that we want in our lives?" "does this person make me feel good, give me a happy burst of energy just by being around them or does this person make me feel physically and mentally exhausted after I've had interactions with them?" "does every interaction with this person end up in excessive drama?" Asking ourselves these questions led to realizations about the people in our lives... one of them being that there were a few emotional and spiritual vampires that were around us. An emotional and spiritual vampire is a person that somehow is always surrounded by excessive drama, almost like thy have a cloud of negativity surrounding them. These are the people that when you have interactions with them you go away feeling absolutely positively mentally and physically exhausted, spiritually down and drained. After our assessment of everyone, we then decided to slowly cut those negative family and friends out of our lives. We knew that we couldn't bring a baby into constant negativity. The end result... our lives became much more uncomplicated, our level of stress went way down, our home (which is our sanctuary) became a place of calm. Which ironically was very essential for my family when I was diagnosed, at 31, with Stage 3 Pancreatic Cancer and Non-Hodgkin Lymphoma. Now I'll tell you something I came across quite a bit, from other cancer patients. First, which I'm sure you'll remember, you have to realize exactly how much attention is given to a sick person out of medical necessity... so the question should be "what exactly happens to a person who gets well and then ALL of that attention is taken away?" There is a type of addiction that DOES come from having ALL of that attention on a person. I've seen cancer patients, in a way, go straight into becoming creators of drama to get that attention that was taken away when they got well. As you well know having Cancer or having a family member with Cancer traumatizes the whole family.. NOT just the person with Cancer. There is a mental expectation of young ones who've been diagnosed with Cancer at an impressionable age and beaten it to have a certain level of attention given to them, in how they are, from that point on, dealt with. It's that way because their is ALWAYS the fear by the person who had Cancer and their family members that the Cancer can come back and they could become sick again. Because of that constant fear, family members, family friends then in turn treat that person who had Cancer differently, deal softer and are more lenient with them than with other family members like sisters or brothers. As concerning you're sister the questions IF I was you that I'd ask my self are these: "Exactly, how did the cheating between your sister and your ex start?" "What explanation was given by your sister to your parents for her behavior?" "Exactly when did your sister become codependent and start using her having Cancer as an excuse for the things that she does?" "When did your parents and other family members start to become enablers to your sister's behavior by NOT calling her out on what she does?" IF you've already gone NO Contact, "How much different has your life been with out having to deal with ALL that Drama, Pressure, and Manipulation?" These are things that I would ask myself. Again these are some of the things that I went through, some of the types of questions that I asked myself. Just remember that you are: The Controller of who YOU ALLOW inside your personal circle, who YOU ALLOW inside your sanctuary. Just a little advise. I wish you well. As always, listen, appreciate, and enjoy!! God Bless!!!

@@meganroberts551 hey I think you should write that under the post, this isn't my story, I just look for updates on stories rSlash reads when I want to know how they turn out, I posted the link but the comment was autodeleted but if you search reddit for the username you can write this to OP directly

We get good content and that is why these videos are entertaining

They all deserve to get tossed right onto the trash pile. Disgusting.

Love dad mode rSlash. 😊

@@lisadgingersnaps9843 Can't say I do, the stories tend to turn into "so about my daughter" which gets tiering when it's when it's every 3rd video

Hello there

Her sister ruined her life plain and simple if you ask me the sister shouldn’t have a kid or anything to do with Op

@fireiron369 I wholeheartedly and begrudgingly agree with you on that.

Stay strong! You’ll get through this and be back stronger than before 🌸

good for you, I wish you all the best!

I'm just wondering if Ben cheated on OP's sister yet.

Period. Being I'll in anyway isn't an excuse to be a shitty person. Especially because op helped pay her sister's medical bills and basically gave up her entire social life to be there for her sister

I agree 100 %. Also, kick cancer’s butt for me!

Well they’ll probably be financially supporting golden child and raising her baby for the rest of their lives, especially once the ex goes deadbeat dad after the inevitable cheating-induced breakup. Barring some sort of miraculous change of heart by one of the people involved, entitled, irresponsible people are nothing if not predictable.

The word "favouritism" doesn't fully describe the extent to which these parents screwed their own daughter over at one of the most devastating points of her life

I’m glad I’m not the only one who saw that

Probably because OP included her in all of her social life , it become an unwritten law that what is for OP for her too. So when OP got something for solo , she just couldnt stand and wanted it. I am around 90% sure they wouldnt last though , because little angle lost interest soon after OP let her have him.

lmao yes, If I was op I would totally want to get disowned by such crap parents. It's like trash taking out itself.

@Chaterine 😽 Get out of here bot

Agreed. Going no contact is 1000% is the way to go.

I woulda cashed in on those medical bills

@Chaterine 😽 Transformers robots in disguise.

Just wait for it, in a year they'll come running wanting her to babysit because her poooor sister needs a break - meanwhile Ben knocked up ten other girls - and when OP refuses, the song of the Karens starts: But we're familyyyyyyyyyyyyyy (Karens have many songs)

@@bladerunner3314 I love the song about the manager 😂

@@MusketeerGweneth Yeah, but it makes it real hard to decide which is the song of their people. I'd say the universal chorus has to be in there, the "Excusssssssse me!"

The Real Irony: In an Update, OP said she decided to take the firsts step and e-mailed them saying she will cut ties with them for their betrayal. How bad was that blow? The stepmother actually tried to apologize, and the father, as a henpecked coward, said nothing.

Can't soft be a perspective though?

Agreed she will be daddy's lil girl:) and of course will be very protective of her

There's a difference between weak and soft. I'm soft. I gush at puppies and babies on the street, I'm emotional and empathic. I am NOT weak. Emotions don't make you weak and soft≠weak

Soft isn't the opposite of strength. Just saying.

Exactly. My daughter made the beast go quiet; but that beast is still very much alive and patiently biding it's time. Gods help the person that makes him wake up.

Your icon looks a little like the protagonist of my new fanfic. She also has a pink pixie cut and blue eyes.

Because the story is fake, that how.

He clearly wanted to stay home and play Fortnite in his spiderman undies while drinking choco milky from his favorite lil sippy cup

@@DoctorDerpman couldn’t have put it better myself!

That's what I was thinking, either he's the most irresponsible person ever, or else there was a reason he didn't want to go and put all the blame on his wife for making him miss his flight. Like rSlash pointed out, you should really show up to the airport at least an hour before your flight, so he should have gotten home from hanging out with his buddies in enough time to pack a bag and then leave for the airport. And then after missing the flight he should have booked another one, if it's that important. I'd rather pay for my own ticket then have to explain to my boss why I didn't go.

Yea he was so rude to her.

He’s already emotionally abusive

@@AmbyJeans Ur so right

He's also looking at future unemployment since most bosses don't accept the "my wife didn't pack my bags while I was out with friends" excuse. Best to get out now while she still can. Soon it will be her working while he's at home still not doing anything around the house.

@𝘿!𝙘𝙠 Riding ǤƗяℓ Layla im glad she stood up for herself and cut off those toxic ass people. i even feel bad for the child bcos they're going to born into such a messy ass household. thanks for the update!

Or let him knock ya up for not 1 but multiple “kids”.?!? It sounds like he doesn’t help at all with raising them if he’s playing his video games and hanging with the dudes. He’s a father and has a family. Sorry. You’re no longer a bachelor.

Apparently, because money.

@@feastguy101 Who knows because this could also just be the dynamic they agreed on. Why assume she only married him for the money?

@@humancreativity8237 because not ditching this asshole a long time ago leaves money as the only consideration?

Well it's very likely that OPS husband wasn't like this while they were dating and he slowly changed his behavior overtime AFTER he had married OP and knocked her up. Lots of man child men don't act like man children until they know they've trapped a woman into being their maid, mother, baby sitter, and sex doll.

Had me at first like what..? XD yeah. The dude is a total jerk. Get rid of him.

And go where ? Did you read that he is the breadwinner and she has no income ?

And she’ll pays the bills, how? She doesn’t work.

Exactly! Go ask "your boy's" to wash your dirty laundry and shit!

That's kinda what I was thinking. Yea I'd pack his bag so I get a couple weeks break that d-bag! And plan the rest of my life without him. But maybe that was the straw that's breaks the wife's back.

Yea but she is the one staying and having kids with him ...begs to question why ?

@@DarkForse Why? Because OP and 'her" "husband" are not real, that's why. I refuse to believe that any of this is real, for reasons rslash touched upon, like the airport thing; and the husbands' friends thing. Christ, I momentarily forgot why I stopped listening to AITA stories, almost none of them are real or even slightly realistic.

Thank you for that update

They definitely deserve a lethal dose of the sister's disease.

Shit that's sad. Hopefully OP finds a support system that's better than her toxic family

I'd say that: OP does well in going no-contact, and wait for the inevitable update of OP's sister finding out Ben cheated on her aswell because I can see a guy like that doing it.

@@H-to-O agree, if I was a relative of theirs I would cut them out. I'd probably refuse to attend any events they were at, even family weddings.

I am glad you have people who genuinely care about you. I hope you find more and find happiness.

Let life treat you better.

Agreed!

pls tell me your bio family's life sucks now.

I hope OP reads this. But even better that you shared this, I’m sure just writing it brought back a lot of emotions. Glad you’re doing well

You said it the best out of anyone here!! Holy shit…

When that kid grows up they’re gonna *hate* their mom.

No, that kid won't be some "dirty little secret" and he won't divide the family. The family has already rallied around his existence and prefers him over OP. They'll spoil him like a golden child just like they spoiled his mom, and the only "family divide" is with OP, who they've already vilified and made the black sheep, outcast. As far as they're concerned, they're totally justified in excluding OP, and her loss won't negatively effect them at all. Honestly, a proper family divide would be preferable, at least then, there would be some justice for OP, and *someone* to support them, instead of having her entire family turn their back on her.

Yeah I feel sorry for the future kid. And I feel sorry for op. I hope they get a better boyfriend that actually treats them well and isn't a cheater. Also how is cancer a good excuse for why the sister did that. Last time I checked, it doesn't turn you into a a-hole

@@RevokFarthis Just to clarify for anyone who is confused, Farthis is NOT justifying the entitled family (who will probably taint the child with their inferior and corrupted morals most likely, which is tragic as hell), they are stating that in the warped delusional minds of the family, they FEEL justified by excluding OP, and that because they decided to wrongfully outcast her, she has next to nobody to support her. The only thing we can hope for is that, once the child grows up, they possibly grow a conscience and seek the truth from OP, opening their mind beyond the brainwashing and seeing reason.

That is the first time I've heard him give out the full five

@@remytate6498 oh man, you should find the first time he did. That one will make your blood boil, it wasn’t to long ago, within the last year

@@killerdiek800 could you post a link if you know the video

@@evanelzinga282 That isn't entirely accurate. He used to give 5/5 to people that were basically Disney Villains. But over time he shifted the meaning to only include the most absolutely awful actions and attitudes known to man. The first instance where he used the change was when a MIL blamed OP for her baby's death (who died of a CONGENITAL condition)...at the baby's funeral.

@@metademetra jeez that women is horrible

Exactly, someone who can't take responsibility for their actions is a liability to the company.

Yeah, I would be like, huh I thought your age was not 3.

Yeah ill allow it

Yes yes yes! Please rant! I love listening to him calling a spade, a 5 out of 5 a holed spade!

"Everyone liked that"

Not me🤷‍♂️ sorry just come here for stories and go on with my day. I mean we're all thinking the same thing so why listen to what I'm already thinking? I dunno, I'm sure people will give me shit but I can't change how I feel about it. Seems like less stories lately and dragging them out further.

@@Stiffybeaver Nah, I understand. Usually, I prefer that he covers more stories instead of ranting for minutes at a time. However, I also appreciate it when he gets passionate about a story. Hopefully, tomorrow's video will be something more lighthearted like r/StoriesaboutKevin, lol.

Don’t bother. That’s not what happened. We know it. She knows it. HE knows it, too. It’s guilt tripping.

Or packed his bag with all his clothes, kicked him out the door and changed the locks!

or better yet, OP packing her husband's bag with his OLD super smelly clothes. at least OP packed his bag.. then when the husband complains about the smelly clothes.. " well, i chose your best business trip attires "

Wrong. He is going to tell his boss that his wife didn't pack his bag for him even though he was so busy after work that he couldn't manage, and that she was being difficult and disruptive to him all night and all day until he realized he was too late and missed his flight. He is going to spin it in such a way that, to his boss, it literally would be the wife's fault. I've BS'ed my way out of work a few times doing things like that, even put on the a display so convincing that I nearly put myself to tears, and can confidently say that if this guy has any experience being a BS'er, that's what will happen.

A madlad in the making

@@TheColombianSpartan one could say a madlad to be!

You could say, future lad of mad.

If I hadn't know this was about a couple, going by the guy's behavior I'd think it's a mother complaining about her child's carelessness/irresponsibility.

Now that you mention, it, I remember hearing the longer story too. I think I'd have packed his bag with anything he didn't need - unwashed underwear, the shirt that needed buttons sewn on, sex toys, a couple of kiddie books, tampons, and a big teddy bear.

my wife have packed my bag once or twice went it was a "rush" trip but that is diffence study

At first they are both avoiding a simple task. I mean he saw her doing laundry and figured she could just place his clothes in the suitcase instead of the closet or drawers. At that point they are both maybe 0.5/5 buttholes just cause, as R/slash said, its a really basic thing to pack some clothes up. But his attitude the whole fucking time is what makes him special. Especially after he missed the flight and just threw a tantrum. Definitely earned his score. I just have one little quibble. Being a stay at home spouse is not a job. Not taking away from any of the stress and hard work involved in raising children its just very different types of stress because children don't have the power to fire you or lower your pay due to mistakes made. Basically its all semantics but we are all in agreement that guy in the story was just a childish shitlord. Seriously I can hear my parents " You can hang out with your friends AFTER you take care of your responsibilities" lecture playing in my head as I listen to that story.

@@TheWeaponshold Um, what??? The woman isn't a butt-hole for not packing her man-baby husband's bag. She's already busy with household chores. He can pack his own bag.

Yeah, that guy needs to grow the fuck up. Frankly, he had time to check in with his friends AND pack his bags but he decided he couldn't be bothered. And as rslash notes, why the hell didn't he just do it the night before? I'm guessing his wife is gonna get tired of having a child for a husband.

My father travels for work at times, and if he gets a heads up he will be traveling my father will pack it as soon as possible. He even packed his bag once a month in advanced to make sure he wouldn't miss his flight!

@@fishlady7930 I hate travelling. I do as little of it as possible. That said, if I need to fly, my bag is packed at least 36 hours in advance. Because if I leave it till sooner, the stress of the upcoming flight (I hate heights) will make me forget something (usually vital) and then I'll be super fucked when I get where I'm going.

Op said husband was mad that he was gonna be home for 2 weeks that’s a long business trip . A 2 week long business trip I’m keeping my bag parked that almost a second wardrobe..

@@fdm2155 i can pack my shit to completely move out of the house in 20 minutes, as anything i don't use on the regular is in a container. how can this dude not pack 2 or 3 changes of clothes in far less time?

He already is. 😊

Yeah, and what's up with refusing to buy a new ticket and just go on the trip is it's so important to him? No, he'd rather pout and whine and blame his wife for his own immature decision making.

Yeah, he's a total manbaby. But it makes me wonder if there's some reason he didn't want to go on the trip and was just blaming it on his wife as an excuse.

fun fact, you can't actually steal someone's SO. That implies they have the same amount of agency as a wallet.

I get having cancer sucks, but that doesn’t give you a free pass to be a shitty person

@And They Were Roommates I don't think Jeanie meant it actually semantically means "my affair partner" but she assumes he is cheating and that's why he's both so inattentive and so adamant to see them. Which would make this story make more sense... But he could also just be the biggest manchild.

@BREAKING NEWS: Local Newt Found It seems like cheating to me in this context, and I'm a gen z who throws around "it's da boys" like crazy.

An interesting thought... I haven't considered that. Perhaps she should hire a PI and look into that.

I think he wanted to miss his flight and is using his wife as a scapegoat. If it was that important, he should have packed his bag the night before. Or at minimum, packed it before he went to see "his boys". He went out for hours. 10-15 minutes or even 30 minutes should not make much of difference. WTF, seeing your friends for 2 hours instead of 2.5 hours is so important that he risks missing his important business flight? I don't buy it.

the husband is a freaking manboy... pack my bag? playing fortnite? going to miss the boys? what a child. If i was the wife, i'd divorce the looser...

You don't pick favorites between your children. That's not cool at all.

@@darkangel8826 it happens sometimes without control. as long as you treat everyone the same its not an issue.

@@darkangel8826 correction: active and golden child favoritism is bad, but not passive and subconscious favoritism.

@@liamzakhaev true... But it's still unfair

@@darkangel8826 as long as subconscious and passive favoritist parents course correct when made aware, then it's as fair as can be

I hope she moves and changes her phone number and leaves this dumpster fire family completely.

Even grumpy teenagers know Mommy and Daddy aren't going to pack their bags for them. I certainly knew it by age...eight, I guess?

As a Grumpy Teenager i feel disgusted that I'm associated with that man child even in such a minor way

Packing the bag wasn't the issue. He wasn't spending time with his family. If he'd been attentive to his wife and kids, she gladly would have packed it. But he was acting like a selfish teenager. It sounds like he's not happy with adult responsibilities and suffers from Peter pan syndrome.

@the truth it's so much a gain for OP. Fuck those people. I say OP should secretly spread how the sister got pregnant. I'm sure the parents care more about their image then their own kid by the way they act.

I love that the toxic hateful parents think that's a threat. LOL

@the truth I mean there's no turning it around the way they treated her. We all want to see them suffer.

@@AmusementLabs yup. I’m sure they parents would go no contact with ops sister in an instant once the whole town finds out the kid was conceived from adultery.

@@taxevader7777 idk what you mean, they already know their granddaughter was, in fact they doubled down. I don't think these people are in any way dignified or religious in that manner. They probably try and say OP was cheating with her sister's baby daddy in order to turn it around.

unfortunately a very common thing in today's world

He’s not just unprofessional and irresponsible he’s a big baby but he acts like that bc she lets him act like that. I would have just let him go out with the boys and then changed the locks while he was gone and kicked him out. “Go live with the boys” 🤣🤣☺️

I wonder if, once his work trips end, he asks his colleagues to pack his bag for him 😆

Maybe. I couldn’t tell my job, sorry I’m not going……. Or working for weeks apparently.

Good point

Hello verified person!

It's sad but as a disabled I very frequently see people using things like this as an excuse to get away with murder all the time. I frank can't fathom ever doing that myself...

I don’t know of any culture where a cancer patient can be a d*ck.

@@RiveroftheWither as a child I survived a medical condition with a lower survival rate than any category of cancer you can get. The worst being Pancreatic cancer with a 9% survival rate. I spent a combined total of over a year of my childhood admitted in hospital. Not including outpatient visits. Which was nearly one a week until I was 16. I could literally never fathom doing this shit.

There are still some cultures where (grand)children are very important, and not having any is seen as a shame. Sister may or may not have been a "golden child" at first, but deffo became one once she was the first child to get pregnant.

Couldn't have said it better myself 🏆

I the young child, and my parents often take my side for no reason, and now my brother thinks i agree with what they say and don't like me a lot.

@Gerrard Oh, they take it to farr too, like way more seriously then i took it.

I am also the youngest child and my parents never believe me in anything

@UCZzB-EboZqOcxiCeQFl3A6Q weird, didn't work

@@hi_stress most of the time, i don't feel good. I feel absolutely horrible.

@Wolf-dog Cat-dog She doesn't need any, mommy and daddy will fix everything and it'll always be someone else's fault.