"he didn't want to be a stepfather", MA'AM WHY TF DID YOU MARRY THAT ONE?
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089Ай бұрын
I feel like that’s her way of making excuses for him blaming the daughter for the abuse he knew he was going to inflict.
@elizabethcox5911Ай бұрын
And not to mention that if you don't want to be a stepparent, don't even date someone with kids much less marry them.
@djs2182Ай бұрын
Precisely. And then to have more children with him after abandoning yours? Jesus. That poor daughter
@DavtwanАй бұрын
And the fact her post is so vague too. 😐
@bigjalapeno7061Ай бұрын
People are stupid
@silverflight01Ай бұрын
Story 3: Insulting a grieving person? Yeah, no wonder he was banned from the Easter Dinner. OP IS enabling him. It's not overreacting to ban someone that is literally the opposite of sympathetic and empathetic when you're grieving.
@crystalgemgirl731Ай бұрын
I cry everytime I lose one of my fur babies. The boyfriend is a sociopath.
@angerydestroyerАй бұрын
Human or animal that’s family they lost what the bf did is god damn terrible
@kalifogg6610Ай бұрын
Last week my cat appeared to be on death’s door, I was almost hysterical at times, thankfully she appears to be bouncing back.
@angerydestroyerАй бұрын
@@kalifogg6610genuinely hope for the best for your cat
@richardsonrymАй бұрын
@@kalifogg6610 Sending you the best vibes, that can be so heart wrenching.
@pierrecusmybladdersempty1938Ай бұрын
Story 5: OP being jealous of a 9 year old girl isn't the flex she thinks it is
@bigjalapeno7061Ай бұрын
Yea it's just weird
@azrigal87Ай бұрын
Ngl I was ready to say that yeah THAT level of being all over her brother both physically and emotionally is def really concerning…..until it was announced she was 9 😂🤦🏻♂️ of COURSE she’s gonna be! She’s a CHILD and wants to show love and affection to her damn brother!! OP over here talkin like this was a sweet home Alabama ass sis that was like 18+
@rebeccalahti9468Ай бұрын
Shes jealous of a 9 year old 💀 whats wrong with the op
@abiean222Ай бұрын
i think the worst part of that story is that OP is basically saying that the 9 year old child is having sexual feelings. thats just wrong on so many levels.
@user-hf8yi9fk1mАй бұрын
Even if she was an adult, it would still be weird for the gf to be jealous.
@hiroshi7025Ай бұрын
Hint : "Didn't treat the best" is generally a roundabout way of saying "I let my kid get absed".
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089Ай бұрын
💯
@black-fenrir35Ай бұрын
Raped *
@helslastangelАй бұрын
yup
@nondisclosure3920Ай бұрын
I hate parents like that, you see it a lot
@Eevie361Ай бұрын
I agree with this one hundred percent. I wasn't treated the best by my stepdad and he was definitely abusive. I hate this man and everything he stands for and I am planning on going no contact with my mother when I'm out of the house.
@savagefurryАй бұрын
"The registry is just straight punishment!" Well... yes, yes in fact it is.
@necrosynth4271Ай бұрын
Like you didn't just "come into" that kind of content without digging for it. Much rather someone like him be in prison than walk the streets
@magical_pixie_horse7346Ай бұрын
It's like the death penalty. It's a deterrent, meant to scare anyone from committing the same crime lest they receive the same punishment.
@Wendy_O._KoopaАй бұрын
Also, I'm _pretty_ sure all those other crimes appear on your public record too, even if there isn't a specific registry for each one.
@Tustin2121Ай бұрын
I mean, I kind of agree that the registry is a bit overkill. It’s basically modern-day exiling. But then I can also understand the want to know if there’s someone who has done something in the past living near them. It just kind of goes back to how society has this thing about wanting to punish people forever and not focus on rehabilitation. Also, I like the idea that there should be a DV registry, because that’s probably even more of a predictors for future crimes. It’ll never happen, because half of all police forces in the US would end up on it.
@hollytheanimalcrossingfanАй бұрын
Why does that subreddit even exist? Unless the person who hosts it is trying to keep a tab on them. That's the only logical reason why it exists.
@madambutterfly1997Ай бұрын
I cannot for the life of me tolerate this. “Oh, he has a nice side that only exclusive to me.” If it’s a genuine nice side, everyone should see it
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089Ай бұрын
Exactly. I’m betting he’s not even all that nice to OP but he’s ignoring it.
@Tustin2121Ай бұрын
I guarantee he doesn’t actually have that nice side and OP is just blind to the abuse. I mean, even in the post, she was hedging a whole lot.
@Catherine.Dorian.Ай бұрын
It’s like that stupid thing women say “the hero will sacrifice his love to save the world, the villain will burn the world to save his love”. Like… that’s pretty horrific in reality lol. Why would I want to be with a horrible human being just cause they treat me well?
@kryw10Ай бұрын
Yeah if you’re the only person who sees it, it’s artisanal manipulation.
@emmetlover206Ай бұрын
I use it with my writing, but its a trope. IRL that behavior is very concerning.
@silverflight01Ай бұрын
Story 5: I remember this post from another person covering it, and it's really icky that OP did not mention the sister's age at the start. She pretty much accused Mike of being an incestuous P-word without actually saying that. It makes me wonder if OP is an only child and does not understand sibling bonds, or she is just that jealous and has serious beef with a 9 year old, calling her "competition." That actually reminds me of when a father, was posting some giant-a$$ rant about how his wife isn't giving him 100% attention anymore, because it's being shared with a literal baby, calling the baby competition (I might have some details wrong on that post tho, I only saw it once)
@RisingRevengeanceАй бұрын
fr he's just being good family and then she treats him like that, its not wonder he lashed out. If I had to guess I'd say he's probably like a third parent to the sister given the age gap. I have not been nearly as good to my youngest siblings as Mike tbh. It's admirable that he's that involved.
@Brazilianbabe229Ай бұрын
I saw it on two hot takes. She is crazy
@shanelbryant5638Ай бұрын
As someone who has that kind of age gap with my brother, that kind of behavior at that age is totally normal when your brother doesn’t live at home.
@ivyrosetheroseofdeathАй бұрын
it's even worst because she doesn't think her bf is a pdf file. she thinks her boyfriends 9 YR OLD SISTER is trying to seduce him, all of her blame is on this little kid who's just in the "my older sibling is the coolest person ever" stage of life.
@wingracer1614Ай бұрын
Yep. I'm an only child and I likely would have found this behavior odd as well had I not had about a thousand female younger cousins and nieces. It's kind of amazing how loving and affectionate they can be at that age not only to brothers but uncles, cousins and even just family friends. Totally normal and OP really needs to get over herself.
@NotAFanOfHandlesАй бұрын
Story 3: Let's be real: humans will emotionally bond to a toaster with googly eyes; we will absolutely grieve a cat. My cat Snickers passed in my arms late last year at the age of 16. I couldn't stop crying for an hour straight and kept crying for months afterwards. I was finally ready to pass on his brushes to my mom to use for her cat just last week (her brush was in rough condition but my brushes looked almost new) and I almost started crying when I handed them to her. I'm tearing up right now. All this to say, OP, your bf is an AH; if you stay with him, you'll be seen as an AH too.
@VeldrusaraАй бұрын
Not just *seen as* an AH too.... People who defend AHs like this lady did are AHs themselves usually. The guy is only with her because she defends his bad behavior. People who believe in having empathy for one person at the expense of not having empathy for someone else are more shallow than heartless, but hypocrites are worse than jerks sometimes because they have time to come to the conclusion they're being toads and if they don't after that, they're just people-pleasing scumbuckets. It's a form of self-validation. Patent selfishness. Sorry for your beloved kitty. I'm worried to get another that looks like my favorite boy even though it's been five years and I'd like to. Feels like I'd be comparing them...
@wingracer1614Ай бұрын
People that don't like cats are not people I want to associate with.
@25ErixАй бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss. I had to help my own cat, Tifa, across to the other side this past January. She was 14. Had her since she was 8 weeks old. It took a toll on me big time. I had to deal with a second round of illness right after she left. Fortunately, Mom was there in the room with me and she and Dad let me stay at their house overnight. It was a sad way to end my 35th year because I turned 36 a couple of weeks later. These days, I'm doing better but her absence is still felt. I do take comfort knowing I brought her home after the end. Her ashes are on a memorial table I set up during a week off from work. So yeah...the BF in this story made my fur spike. He's never clearly bonded with an animal before. The grief of losing that companion is next level. It's not "just a cat". They're family. I'm still in the stage of going back and forth on getting another one. But at the moment, I just want my baby back.
@SaiyanSweetheart45Ай бұрын
This. I just lost my cat of nine years last month and I STILL cry for her
@AarbitraaryАй бұрын
Rest in peace to all your passed kitties ;-; my momma lost her cat four years ago to kitty cat breast cancer. My mother is still a happy person, but I can tell a part of her died when her Eowyn passed away. Losing her was absolutely one of her saddest core memories. I dread for the day my 17 year old senior cat leaves this earth. She's been in my life since I was 6. Again, sorry for all yalls losses 💔
@nekoloons4844Ай бұрын
Story 5: There's being jealous (already pretty bad) and then there's "She's nine and in love with her BROTHER" jealous
@bigjalapeno7061Ай бұрын
Yea what the hell
@user-hf8yi9fk1mАй бұрын
If she really thought something was up, why was she still with him? Now, that’s weird. How low is her self esteem?
@etcetera1995Ай бұрын
"Is there a *murder registry?*" Yes. There is. It's called prison.
@bigjalapeno7061Ай бұрын
Lol
@journeehyde9128Ай бұрын
It's called "background checks" and places can deny you left and right for your convictions sooooo
@shadowninja6689Ай бұрын
No there's not. Plenty of murderers serve their time in jail and get released later, not all of them are sentenced to life in prison. And in some countries a "Life" sentence doesn't even mean life, it means whatever the maximum number of years they're legally allowed to send someone to prison for.
@SamaraxMorgan26Ай бұрын
@@shadowninja6689a background check would still tell you that they were convicted of murder, though. That's the point.
@nondisclosure3920Ай бұрын
Also, those court records are public domain, you can attend trials and there's this miraculous thing called the news that OP seems to have forgotten exists
@Mr_Timi1Ай бұрын
The boyfriend isn't awkward with her family he's just a jerk...
@wingracer1614Ай бұрын
He can be both.
@linpittsburgh2375Ай бұрын
Yes. He is socially awkward in that he refuses to stop saying the worst things imaginable to the people around him. I was physically shocked when he said that!
@IHateNicolasCageАй бұрын
She should have just told him "Love is Love"
@bluestreaker9242Ай бұрын
@@linpittsburgh2375 Right? Like, fam, I'M socially awkward 'cause I'm autistic, yet I have the good sense to not speak my mind every single chance I get 'cause I'd be burning relationship bridges left and right like the "Meet the Pyro" vid and be banned...like...everywhere, I'm fairly sure. That doucher had NO excuse! :/
@thelastremnantofevilАй бұрын
When the dude said he's glad he's not a woman. Is it possible to be gay and an incel?
@RaaslenАй бұрын
Story 3: yet another case of people excusing abusive behavior because the abuser was abused.
@crystalgemgirl731Ай бұрын
I believe that's called "continuing a vicious cycle".
@professorsugoiАй бұрын
ohhh you have issues? why didn't you say so? you can be cruel to me now :)
@JewelWildmoonАй бұрын
It would've taken all my energy *_not_* to respond to "at least I'm not a dumb woman like you" with "at least I'm not an abuser like you." Low blow, yes, but OP's using his experience as a justification for him being the same way.
@Ghost_BricksStudiosАй бұрын
I find it funny that Rslash changed his voices tone when he doesn't like the OP
@Dog_in_treeАй бұрын
It's honestly annoying as hell because he often has terrible judgment, and he's trying to get people to hate OP. Last episode he did that to make a father look bad when he was 100% in the right. In story 2 in this one yeah, OP was in the wrong, but it really wasn't that bad, and that story does not belong in this subreddit.
@lapapa9010Ай бұрын
@@Dog_in_treewait lemme recap, was it the father that married a 20-somrthing chick while being 43?
@sentientcardboarddumpster7900Ай бұрын
It's a manipulation tactic.
@hashtagcritical8688Ай бұрын
@@Dog_in_treeI do agree with that. Sure, Story 2’s OP is an asshole who lets different backgrounds excuse him from being a decent person, but I wouldn’t say I’d put him in the same category as, say, Story 6’s OP (CP possessor).
@Dog_in_treeАй бұрын
@lapapa9010 no, it was the father who was constantly being undermined by his ex and her parents. He fought custody in court, he went to all of her events, and did everything he could to be a good father. He'd make rules for the daughter with her mother, but the mother would constantly cave, and the mother's parents spoiled the girl and wouldn't enforce any of his rules. Both parents agreed not to get her an iPhone til she was older, but of course, the mother caved and allowed her parents to buy the girl one. Then the father looks like the bad guy from telling them to return it, so his daughter said she hates him and wishes her step-dad was her real dad, so he gave up and said "fine, keep the phone. I'm not going to force you to spend time with me either." And he accepted a promotion that he previously refused because it would keep him from spending more time with her. He made it clear that he was doing everything he could to be a good father, but his daughters mother and grandparents were spoiling her and manipulating her to hate him just because he was the only one giving her rules, and she was turning into a stereotypical mean girl. Dabney thought he was a PoS for giving up and "abandoning" her, but all he did was give her what she wanted because he can't force her to love him. Seems like most people in the comments agree that he did nothing wrong.
@WaterCraneАй бұрын
Story 5: I initially thought the sister was a teenager or early 20s or otherwise close in age to her brother, and while they were very lovey dovey, I can only smile at siblings who have genuine love and affection for each other (obviously steering clear of actual incest)... what is called companionate love. Then when the revelation came that she was only 9 years old, that made it so much worse when it comes to the girlfriend... and the sibling relationship all the more adorable!
@ScooterBond1970Ай бұрын
She's absolutely gross (the gf, I mean). She's trying to saxualize a sibling dynamic between a guy and his kid sister. Where the Hec Ramsey are they, Sweet Home Alabama? Does she think she's starring in Child Bride or something? 🤮
@NEOmitriXАй бұрын
Story 3: As an autistic person, when OP said that his boyfriend comes off as rude sometimes but doesn’t mean it, I really thought that maybe the boyfriend was autistic and would possibly say things that didn’t match the mood or conversation, focus on himself, etc., things that really aren’t intentional but come off badly sometimes to neurotypical people. But I was so wrong, wtf… The things the boyfriend said are so nasty and mean, meant to hurt, they cannot be excused by any of that. He’s so bold with it because he knows OP will defend him. I also think with his sexist comment he has some deep insecurities that seem to have made him meaner to her to begin with. Insecurity is always a driving factor in that-but with him, I mean specifically in a non-het context where internalized bigotry can also do damage. Also, honestly, 19 is so young. That’s not an excuse and I know OP isn’t that much older-I’m just saying this kid has a lot to figure out and he’s being enabled far too much for him to end up well-adjusted… OP is doing so much wrong by allowing him to be that horrible to people/his own family. The way OP talks about him is kind of alarming, with how soft he makes the problem sound at the beginning. The truth peeks out in the cruel words that dude said.
@d.phantomfan1216Ай бұрын
Last story: well the differences between your new neighbors and you is that you don’t know if any of that is true, but we all know what you did and that’s why you are being forced to let people know that you are a threat to all children.
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089Ай бұрын
Right! And he’s lucky he’s not locked up. He makes it sound like he drunk peed near a school at night with no children present because in some states that will get you on the registry for a limited time. But he was IN POSSESSION OF…!? And he’s crying about consequences?? Not one word about how he shouldn’t have had it and feels bad or anything! Yeah he deserves every bit of whatever he gets as a result of this.
@christinacartter9784Ай бұрын
Not to mention, there IS a registry of sorts. Violent crimes are partially public domain. Details aren't shared usually, but you can find if convictions were made through public records searches. I believe driving records are similar. And druggies usually have noticable tells for anyone with eyes.
@artcasual99Ай бұрын
Unfortunately, if that story takes place in The US, then depending on the state, he's not forced to disclose that he's on the list to people. He even said that he chose to tell his potential employers that he was on the list even though they had no way to know. Which I think is weird. Every state should make it mandatory to tell people that fact about yourself if you're a pedo.
@abiean222Ай бұрын
i've been told that pedophilia is a mental illness, meaning its not something that can be resolved with counselling, better financial security, or resources to unlearn harmful behavior like those crimes he listed. a pedo is always going to be a pedo and nothing they can do will change that, or so i've been told. so, having those who can't control themselves being put on a registry that everyone can look at is the only way that we can protect our children from this person who has already proven that they have no control over their baser urges. its a way to help them not be a monster and help us keep our kids safe. i don't know why he's upset, we normally lock up those who are a danger to themselves and others. its called a mental asylum dude.
@AbitopiaАй бұрын
the “so i can keep an eye on her” is actually insane??? does she really think his 9 yr old sister will make advances on him???
@abiean222Ай бұрын
going by what she's saying. yes, yes she does. some people are insane like that.
@MordorProjectАй бұрын
The jealous girlfriend is an absolute nuts. Being that jealous is bad enough, but being jealous to the 9 yo sister of her boyfriend is just bonkers. Her boyfriend sound so sweet and what does she do? . She’s being an a*s. I’m 44 and my brother is 34. We love each other to death!. We hug, we hang out together as much as possible, we are always there for each other. Last weekend we had a barbecue; He was feeling down so I bought him a Bugatti Lego set ‘cause he likes Lego. There’s nothing wrong with being close to your siblings. In fact it’s awesome!.
@breezy3392Ай бұрын
Story 5: A 9 year old. She's jealous of a nine year old. OP, check yourself
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089Ай бұрын
Yeah that was so gross. Then I realized how gross it really was but not in the way OP tried to make it seem.
@tailsofchaosАй бұрын
You never tell a person with the pet just get another one after one had passed away. It won't be the same thing even if you get another pet. And no it is never embarrassing to grieve the loss of your pet.
@sintanan469Ай бұрын
Depends on the person. Some people do cope with the loss of a family pet with another animal in the house, but the way the AH did in story 3 is completely the wrong way.
@tailsofchaosАй бұрын
@@sintanan469 true, some people do cope with another animal but even so it's still not great to say that's for sure. He definitely was the AH there
@rachelryan84Ай бұрын
What you mean pets are not interchangeable? That people bond with the specific pet and not the idea of cat.
@tailsofchaosАй бұрын
@@rachelryan84 This is about when people tell other people of the loss of their pet that they can just get another animal. While the person is grieving.
@rachelryan84Ай бұрын
@@tailsofchaos Sorry, I honestly think it's beyond tone deaf to tell someone to just get a new pet. You can get another pet but it will never replace the one you lost.
@jennessabeckett3949Ай бұрын
Last story reminds me of the monster who hurt me when I was little. As soon as I went into the hospital with a nervous breakdown (I was deemed unfit to testify) he decided to finish his degree... In CHILD phsychology. Then he was seriously pissed off because he couldn't find a job using his degree. I may or may not have talked to a couple people here and there. He finally gave up after he went to jail a second time after his daughter spoke up, more than a decade after I did.
@MifuneShioАй бұрын
The final story, i don't think he realises there is a record for everything, it is called a criminal record.
@callmewolf3910Ай бұрын
I think what they're getting at is you can literally murder someone and still get a job. Look at one picture of CP and you're jobless for life essentially.
@ricochet0928Ай бұрын
Easter dinner story: Oh hell no. One of my cats had to be put down last year because of kidney failure. I had him since I was 7 and he was a kitten. I ended up getting the worst migraine of my LIFE because of how much I was crying, and I _still_ get teary-eyed sometimes when I think about him too much. OP's boyfriend can mind his own business.
@NinjaBoy641Ай бұрын
"The registry is straight punishment." I know, it's almost like there's consequences for your actions or something.
@alexthegr8esttАй бұрын
LITERALLY. Like are you expecting to be rewarded for it??
@DianavanderPluijmАй бұрын
Oh, is that a thing? To be held accountable for my actions? Oh my, what has this world come to? /s
@mzmendyАй бұрын
How can you misconstrue a brother/sister bond as 'romantic' unless you don't understand that love, affection, and quality time DOES NOT have to end in s3x? Family members spend time together enjoying shared interests alone whether they have significant others or not. If you're not interested in those activities why on earth would they force you to join?
@mzmendyАй бұрын
Omfg the sister is 9!?
@MsRose-ix3xqАй бұрын
@@mzmendyfr. I'd get it if the sister was doin romantic stuff and was like 26 like the brother but NINE? Op in that post is legit crazy
@mzmendyАй бұрын
@@MsRose-ix3xq I wouldn't get it then either. They aren't kissing and sleeping together. They are spending quality time together as siblings. What world do we live in when it's only OK to spend quality time with significant others? There are other people in our lives that we grew up with and care about that we should 100% be able to do things with that SHOULDN'T be construed as romantic just because other people never had close relationships.
@abiean222Ай бұрын
i genuinely hope OP never has kids. i fear that she'll see her 2 year old as romantic competition.
@lizzy1876Ай бұрын
No wonder the boyfriend blew yo at OP! She basically accused him of being a pedo@@MsRose-ix3xq
@AntoineADubaiАй бұрын
I feel like the first story is a meta post in reply to another AITA post from the daughter's point of view.
@Drave_Jr.Ай бұрын
Yeah, that sounds about right.
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089Ай бұрын
Yeah it sounded like the one where the girl finally left after her parents blamed her for the abuse and neglected her in favor of their children together.
@Mewse1203Ай бұрын
Story 3: "no one knows him like I do." Do you know how many abuse victims have used that exact line about their abusive partner? He abuses OP, I can almost guarantee it. He just love bombs him when he's about to leave. Edit: proper genderization
@mani-ei5kqАй бұрын
OP is not a she, they're a gay couple
@Mewse1203Ай бұрын
@@mani-ei5kq my comment stands regardless of my mistake on their gender. Thank you for pointing it out.
@shortwave737Ай бұрын
Story 5 - damn I was sitting here like, yeah I get why he might be upset if his GF implied he was going sweet home alabama with his sister... Then the bombshell dropped that the sister is 9. This woman just accused her BF of both incest and pedophilia... That relationship would be over INSTANTLY if that happened to me.
@mothbone_studioАй бұрын
13:43 i was expecting a 19-22 year old woman but A 9 YEAR OLD ?!?!?
@summerdowligАй бұрын
Even then I'm 36 me and my older brothers are affection and we hang out why because it's my brothers people who are jealous of siblings is crazy..
@undrhilАй бұрын
The o p in The Last Story is absolutely correct that there should be Registries for all of those types of criminals
@NiskaraАй бұрын
Yeah, I genuinely agree. Like, I'd like to know if I live near someone who's killed someone else, or has a history of breaking and entering
@Tustin2121Ай бұрын
Agreed. At the very least, there should be a DV registry, so people can avoid dating those types. But that’ll never happen because half of all cops in America would end up on that registry.
@hollytheanimalcrossingfanАй бұрын
The only thing that's agreeable. Doesn't make me want to give an ounce of sympathy to them.
@justaperson4656Ай бұрын
Iirc there is a public list of convictions, pretty much a registry
@undrhilАй бұрын
@@justaperson4656 someone who went to jail for murder doesn't have to tell their neighbors that they did so
@RedDillerАй бұрын
Story 6: Uhhh there IS a registry for everything you mention, OP. It’s called a criminal record. Except that what you did surpasses everything else. “The registry is a cruel punishment!” No shit? Be lucky you didn’t even go to jail. THEN you’d be grateful you’re still even breathing.
@krazycats564Ай бұрын
I was like "cuddling up on the sofa? Okay yeah that might be odd if she's in her 20s or something but it's not THAT weird at all." And then she's only NINE???
@smorphous8928Ай бұрын
Story 4: imagine trying to paint yourself out to be a good person by lying that your there for your kids, and your wife publicly calling you out, wild. 😂
@Miller54KАй бұрын
It's COVID....with all we know about this thing now, why are they quarantining?
@rebellangell7429Ай бұрын
@@Miller54Kso the immuno-compromised premie baby doesnt catch COVID??
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089Ай бұрын
@@Miller54KTHAT’S what you got from that story? And at the beginning of when it started she knew enough to want to keep her most vulnerable family members safe.
@skylaheartbeat2986Ай бұрын
@Miller54K for many , covid isn't over. It can leave long term symptoms. It can literally cause a healthy individual to become permanently disabled. For those who already are disabled, it can be deadly. This mother has a baby that has a weakened immune system. Getting covid could be deadly for that baby or leave the baby permanently disabled. Covid is not like the cold or flu. The possible long term symptoms are more similar to HIV. For some people, it's simply not worth taking unnecessary risks. Try respecting that.
@ajjamsen694Ай бұрын
"She knows he is stand-offish but doesn't mean any harm..." uh...does OP know what "stand-offish" means? Cause her crappy bf is not "stand-offish", he's an ass.
@RisingRevengeanceАй бұрын
Yup there's a difference between standoffish and straight up an evil jerk. Often the first can come across that way especially to new people. But this is a whole other thing, just evil.
@Tustin2121Ай бұрын
Willing to be a month’s salary that the BF isn’t even ‘nice’ to OP, like RSlash assumed. OP is in an abusive relationship and can’t see it yet, guaranteed.
@hollytheanimalcrossingfanАй бұрын
*he op is a he. Though the way the bf acts makes me think he just doesn't like women in general, which is cruel.
@wingracer1614Ай бұрын
I suspect he is stand-offish because he knows what he would say if he did say something would not be kind so most of the time he just keeps his mouth shut and avoids interacting with most people socially. Unfortunately (or fortunately, depending on your viewpoint) he can't keep his mouth shut all the time. What OP fails to realize is that it's not his usual, stand-offish behavior that bothers his sister, it's what he does on the rare occasions when he does interact.
@tawnyacosta9091Ай бұрын
I agree!
@finnpearson6441Ай бұрын
All the things the PDF complained about "is there a list for?!". YES and most of those crimes would also get flagged by the background check!
@bigjalapeno7061Ай бұрын
Damn
@uniraffesaurАй бұрын
Last story: bro’s rant is so good 😂😂😂 “I don’t want people committing all these crimes on me; where’s their registry?” My man, it’s called prison, rehab, and a cemetery.
@lunattgАй бұрын
Story 3: I lost my cat April 2024 after loving him for 13 years... I still cry when I think about my sweet Tazz. He had a large mass on his lungs (later found to be lung cancer) and had suddenly lost so much weight that he only weighed 3 and a half pounds in the end. I'm so thankful that I could atleast hold him as the vet helped ease his pain for the last time.
@unvoicedapollo3318Ай бұрын
That story regarding the guy suffering because he's on a certain list...he's technically right. There should be registries for those as well.
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089Ай бұрын
It’s public information. The courts have a “registry” of convictions.
@bigjalapeno7061Ай бұрын
Yep there probably should be
@Clairski3Ай бұрын
It’s called a criminal record. It’s available to employers and the public upon request. Every crime you have committed, regardless if it is a DUI or murder, comes on a person’s criminal record. In no way is this man a victim.
@bigmemvbАй бұрын
To be fair to the OP of story 2, I would also not offer to foot the whole bill, however, the way he brought his message across was definitly the wrong way to do it.
@mrguccitrump8764Ай бұрын
I didn’t like how rslash described him though, gold digger he’s not the one that is turned off that their party isn’t able to just comfortably offer to pay for a $150 brunch, he did the standard offer to pay for his girlfriend and himself. I do agree that he was a little aggressive with explaining his side.
@LLandS1814 күн бұрын
@@mrguccitrump8764He is a gold digger. He's willing to take take, take, take, take take take from her family, but he's not willing to offer anything. That is the definition of a gold digger. And I guarantee you if the genders were reversed you'd be calling her.
@ABtheButterflyАй бұрын
i'll be honest it's honestly refreshing that a family member has an issue with queer op's significant other that has nothing to do with their sexuality. usually, when an op has a significant other of the same sex and they have issues with a family member it's because that family member is homophobic but in this store op's sister did nothing wrong and was just grieving her cat and his boyfriend decided to be a jerk about it and then decided to be misogynist for grieving over her pets even though men grieve over their dead pets too it's not a gender thing
@rebeccajesse4604Ай бұрын
Seriously, my dad is a tough biker covered in tattoos and lived a hard life. He feels so bad when he trips over his dog. Loving animals isn’t a weakness, nor is it gendered, OP’s boyfriend just sounds like an A-hole. He wasn’t even just not being kind. He could have kept his mouth shut and just let her be but he had to insult her instead.
@mariakhan7986Ай бұрын
Eh some of the most sexist men I've met were gay😂
@user-qf2el3xj9rАй бұрын
I love how in the last story OP “really” feels sorry. I remember when I was 20 and got on a random chatroom (you know, old times, chatting with random people) and just few minutes chatting someone sent me a picture of child P. After the shock passed, I checked more carefully the chatroom and talked to another couple of persons there and then is when I realized that they all were sharing stuff about child P. My reaction? Close the program, delete any pictures they sent me and f* go straight to the police web page to report what was happening in that in that chat. I still remember that f* picture and it haunts me… FUCK YOU, OP, FUCK YOU!
@bigjalapeno7061Ай бұрын
That fact that that even existed is fucked up
@sayadiva123Ай бұрын
Story 1: Wow so OP was basically neglected by all 3 of her parents and then regrets it. Then thinks they’re entitled to try to establish contact again (all because OP is rich now?) Anyone else looking for/forward to an update where OP will cry for sympathy because “my daughter doesn’t’ want a relationship with me because she told me that she doesn’t consider me or my husband or her step-siblings family because we ‘abandoned her’! She’s so cruel for that! I’m her mother~” -_- Story 2: Sooooo OP seemed to basically mooch off his girlfriend’s family since they’re rich. But when he’s suggested to pay for brunch, it’s suddenly an issue??? I mean I’m all for separate checks (if it’s discussed ahead of time) but outright refusing to pay for a 4 person bill (because of financial disparity) is so wrong in some ways. That’s snubbing your future in-laws and definitely a way to ruin your relationship. Story 3: I get being awkward in social situations but the BF was kinda out of line for his comment regarding the cat and insulting OP’s sister. So OP is in the wrong for defending him (as sometimes this kind of behavior isn’t just about being awkward, but also just being a jerk) and should really re-evaluate her relationship. She’s enabling his horrid behavior and it will take losing her family and friends for her to see it. Story 4: I see this more as the wife wanting to keep the family safe from getting infected. I definitely didn’t believe the husband but it’s hilarious how the wife came with receipts as to how her (hopefully ex) husband got covid. This man-child doesn’t deserve pity. I just pity his wife. Story 5: this level of sibling dependency is highly concerning (hopefully not in “Sweet Home Alabama territory). If the boyfriend’s family didn’t have like a father figure around except him, I can see why the sister is so attached (or the fact he’s her only brother so she looks up to him or something). But other than any rational reasonings, OP seems possessively jealous to be so upset at a close sibling bond. Hope the boyfriend eventually got away from OP. (After hearing update: WAIT SHE’S ONLY 9?! OP IS JEALOUS OF A FRIGGIN 9 YEAR OLD!!! OP NEEDS THERAPY!!!) Story 6: Immediately hating this story from the title alone. OF COURSE YOU’D NEVER GET HIRED AFTER A BACKGROUND CHECK AND EXPOSING YOUR REGISTRY STATUS!!! NO ONE WOULD WANT TO WORK WITH SOMEONE LIKE THIS!!! How does OP not see this?! He’s not the victim, he’s the problem!!
@rebeccajesse4604Ай бұрын
lol reading the your response to the sibling story and waiting for you to get to the twist was totally worth it!
@bigjalapeno7061Ай бұрын
The people in this subreddit are dumb lol
@MisterManGavАй бұрын
Ahem: "I (23M)." Male OP
@guardianblackwolableАй бұрын
Story 2: he shouldn't have to be forced to say he'll get the bill. It is really disingenuous to fake wanting to pay the bill. OP knows that it is better to live within your means instead of putting on an act. Definitely not a gold digger.
@KeiVisualАй бұрын
That last story: I wouldn't be opposed to having an animal abuse registry. 🤔
@rachelryan84Ай бұрын
Neither would I, not just for working with animals. It's good to know how people treat those who can't defend themselves.
@KeiVisualАй бұрын
@@rachelryan84 people who abuse animals shouldn't be allowed to adopt them, work with them, own them or be around them unsupervised. The same rule for kids, but too many people say "it's just a dog". I feel like people who say that either: A. Have never owned a dog. Or B. They are the type of person to treat another person with that same attitude.
@remylarrivee2047Ай бұрын
Jealous and Threatened by a 9 year old!!! MAJOR red flag waving there
@hollytheanimalcrossingfanАй бұрын
I completely missed that she was his sister and 9 until the end of the story.
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089Ай бұрын
@@hollytheanimalcrossingfanwe all did. I think it was an edit.
@ceilinh6004Ай бұрын
Wow. The sister being 9 years old was a plot twist for sure. Of course she looks up to, and wants to hang out with her brother. I hope OP's boyfriend recognises her red flags and breaks up with her.
@tawnyacosta9091Ай бұрын
Story 3: OP IS AN ENABLER, plain and simple! OP’s sister just lost her beloved furbaby, and is grieving. I feel so sorry for OP’s sister. She is well within her right to ban OP’s jerk of a boyfriend! He insulted a grieving person, and OP is allowing him to insult her sister! OP, you are a massive enabler! I hope OP’s sister is doing better 😭🙏🏻🐱
@MrCrunchytimeАй бұрын
Story 3 - Okay, OP needs to take off the rose-tinted glasses. His BF is NOT awkward, nor is their family taking things the wrong way. He's an a-hole and the fam's got him pegged and he knows it. I doubt he's even that sweet to OP, OP is just caught in a honeymoon phase and is willfully ignoring the red flags.
@Mr_Timi1Ай бұрын
Wait being on the SA registry is a punishment? can you imagine a criminal getting punished?
@Milo_KyloАй бұрын
I wonder if the daughter in the first story wasnt as successful, would OP still have tried to reconcile with her?
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089Ай бұрын
Not at all. If they don’t want money they want a kidney.
@jackwatt8988Ай бұрын
The bill: don't offer to do something unless you are actually prepared to do it. I'm with OP, he was willing to pay for himself and his partner, and if the dad said yes he would have done that.
@jackmanleblanc2518Ай бұрын
You and I seem to be in the minority, which is crazy to me. rSlash and most comments seem to be calling him a greedy golddigger, but he was prepared to pay for his and his girlfriend's meal! Just not everyone else. Isn't that kind of super fucking normal?
@radhiadeedou8286Ай бұрын
@@jackmanleblanc2518 they took him on a free vacation and he can't pay for brunch as a thank you?
@LLandS18Ай бұрын
@@jackmanleblanc2518He is a gold digger. He took that trip. He took all the free stay, the free airfare, the free meals. And he never reciprocated as a thank you. That's a gold digger. I never do this but I guarantee you if the genders were reversed everybody would be calling her a gold digger.
@overlords2722Ай бұрын
@@jackmanleblanc2518 rSlash and most people are wrong though. Who invited him to brunch? They pay. He also offered to pay for the GF and himself...
@overlords2722Ай бұрын
@@radhiadeedou8286 So if you are taken on a free holiday then suddenly you're expected to pay for a meal without warning FOR 4 PEOPLE that's fine? The OPs GF also admitted that if the roles were reversed she wouldn't do the same. Why is she getting a free pass? Its not different because its 8 people.
@comicog3Ай бұрын
Story 2 is wild. Can you imagine getting your way paid for all the time from meals to vacations (including, at times by your own girlfriend), but straight up laughing at the idea of paying a $150 bill?
@MrCrunchytimeАй бұрын
To be fair, I think $150 for brunch is excessive, but at the same time, OP in that story did not handle the suggestion with any kind of maturity. The idea was to offer as a gesture of gratitude, but his reaction clearly showed he had no respect for his GF and her family sharing the silver spoon with him and embracing him almost as if he was one of their own. Me, personally, I would either offer to pay for dinner, or at least my portion simply because I'm not someone who likes to take advantage of another's generosity.
@Wendy_O._KoopaАй бұрын
@@MrCrunchytime Technically, it would only be $75 _if_ that, because the girlfriend was gonna go halfsies with him on the off chance that the dad accepted.
@comicog3Ай бұрын
@@MrCrunchytime $150 for 5 people isn't excessive by any means, it's exceptionally cheap. Plus, his girlfriend offered to reimburse him partway, despite the fact that she and her family had been consistently covering him in full. It would be one thing if he just couldn't manage it financially. But op works full time and didn't say that he couldn't, he said that he didn't want to. It's rude and he's clearly a classless user. I grew up poor, too. I have NEVER been comfortable with people paying for me.
@LLandS18Ай бұрын
@@MrCrunchytime$150 for brunch is not accepted. Especially when somebody has paid for you to go on vacation and covered almost 98% of everything. You should reciprocate that kind of gift at least in some part. It's really gross his attitude
@MrCrunchytimeАй бұрын
@@comicog3 Hm... maybe I eat cheap, then. I sometimes eat breakfast at diners with my brother, mother and aunt and we tend to barely break $60, maybe $70, with tip. Where do you guys eat brunch at where you pay $150? Edit: Totes agree OP is a loser and a user. He enjoys the perks but doesn't feel obligated to contribute.
@seekeroftruth6728Ай бұрын
Story 6 - As somebody who has done a lot of hiring throughout my career, I can assure OP that companies aren't hiring murderers either.
@WinteryNeighborhoodWinterspellАй бұрын
My dad always says, "If someone is mean to everyone but you, then it's just not your turn yet"
@wendy-zarateАй бұрын
He must be a wise man! 💯
@yadiraaguilar2035Ай бұрын
For the last one….. there are actually registries for all of the things listed.
@texnicolorАй бұрын
For the boyfriend-sister story, my first question was “what is the true nature of the relationship between the boyfriend and his sister?” Then I heard that the sister was 9. This girl is jealous, uncaring, and-quite frankly-not ready for a relationship if a much younger sibling will get to her like this.
@Legomaniac-zu3qbАй бұрын
Story 2: My parents usually paid the bill when we ate out. Now since I'm working I've actually handed my parents my card to pay and they have been greatful for it.
@thehigherevolutionaryАй бұрын
Story 2: People like this are sooo disgusting. There's no excuse for such stingy behavior; the way the boyfriend doubled down to refuse to offer to cover brunch even when the girlfriend said she'd pay him back is so awful. I've had the misfortune of knowing several people like this...utter 🗑️
@mariedillingham199Ай бұрын
He's a mooch.
@BVBGirl-3313Ай бұрын
He didn't double down and refuse to cover brunch, he compromised based on what his budget could allow. He said he'd offer to pay for his and her portions, this is probably all he can afford at the moment. Gfs family is in a different financial class than Op so he cannot keep up with her. He was wrong to laugh, yes but he wasn't wrong to compromise offering to pay half. Also the whole thing using her dad as a financial test is low. Op is the guest to the brunch and then at the last minute is asked to foot the whole bill. Is promised it will be covered and if it wasn't he'd get half back, provided she remembers. Hopefully she remembers before any bills are due. Meanwhile Op does essentially just that, offering to cover half knowing he could afford it, not the full amount. Why can't the gf compromise? She still gets what she wants, him offering to pay, and he's still financially secure.
@radhiadeedou8286Ай бұрын
@@BVBGirl-3313 those people took him on a free vacation, paying for a meal is the least he can do to thank them. And the girlfriend said she'd cover half the bill if the dad accepted. He doesn't have any excuse, he's cheap and ungrateful. It's not about the money it's about the gesture, offering to cover half the bill is worse than not offering at all considering how generous her parents were with him
@olly-lb3kcАй бұрын
@@radhiadeedou8286 he agreed to the vocation because it is free. He couldn't afford it otherwise. So now all of a sudden it's not free? So tell him ahead he is expected to pay so he can refuse to come. He can't afford to pay for the meal. (the gf will probably forget to to give him half, for her it's nothing).
@overlords2722Ай бұрын
Whoever does the inviting does the paying though.
@Jackie-McCannАй бұрын
Me while listening to Story 5: Okay that does sound a little weird… maybe OP has a point. rSlash: BTW the boyfriend’s sister is only 9. Me: NEVERMIND, OP IS FREAKING NUTS.
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089Ай бұрын
ALL OF US
@Ashfold_EberescheАй бұрын
Nah, even if she was the same age she's nuts. Siblings have been siblings their entire life - you don't get to come in after, what was it like 5 months? (I cbf checking but it wasn't super long, I know that much) and say that their relationship is wrong. You have no idea what they've gone through together or say what is or isn't acceptable between them. You can make an ultimatum but chances are you're not going to be on the winning side and even if you are you risk seriously alienating your partner. The fact that the sister is nine does move it into the realms of "batshit insane" but she was never anywhere close to in the right.
@lekiscoolАй бұрын
Story 2: she’s asking you to play dad politics.
@TheSecretLoverАй бұрын
Story 5: All I wanted to know was the age of the sister and had my suspicions confirmed. It’s so sad how some people view familia affection as perverted.
@cristicorteАй бұрын
Story 1: Yeah, if unrelated people actually manage to get legal guardianship over a living, "involved" parent, you know that abuse is happening. I hope OP withers with bitterness while warching her daughter's success from faaaar away.
@myopinion69420Ай бұрын
I'm a 35 year old dude, we had to have our cat put down at the beginning of the year and it destroyed me, I balled my eyes out. even a month after, I got up in the middle of the night to get a drink, saw a black cushion on the couch and for a split second I thought it was him, but then reality hit and I remembered that it could not be. safe to say I could not get back to sleep that night. My partner wants to get another cat but I just can't do it.
@wingracer1614Ай бұрын
It's been over 30 years since one of my childhood cats literally died in my lap while we were sleeping. I still think about that cat all the time. I'm comforted by the fact she had a very long (she was 18) and nice life with lots of love and treats
@MemokkeenАй бұрын
I only half-listened to the jealous girlfriend story, wondering why she's the devil because her boyfriend being touchy feely with another girl sounds kinda reasonable to be upset about... Then I focused in and -it's his sister -she's NINE?? Lmao what whiplash 😂
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089Ай бұрын
Same
@rebeccajesse4604Ай бұрын
lol I thought the “cuddling” was a bit odd but some people are more touchy feely than I am so could still easily be innocent between 2 adult siblings. Then she said she was going to follow them to Spain a I thought “ok she’s crazy, of course he’s mad for implying he is involved in incest, that’s why it’s in AITD” then the twist about her being 9 and “yup she’s crazy and belongs in this subreddit” she needs to work on herself.
@itsybitsybosmerАй бұрын
Man, story 3 hit me hard. I'm a 30-something adult, we lost our elderly dog right after the holidays, and I'm still getting emotional over it. Sometimes I think I'll hear her wandering around and then realize it can't be her. We were inseperable, I didn’t realize just how much until I had to look around and couldn't find her in her usual spots 5 feet away from me. My parents have since gotten a new dog, and she's sweet, but she's not my Molly. I also know I'm going to be in shambles whenever the cat that I've had since he was 12 weeks old goes. OP, your boyfriend is a jerk.
@kalifogg6610Ай бұрын
I was in shambles when it appeared that my almost thirteen year old cat was dying. But she appears to be recovering from whatever was making her weak and killing her appetite.
@Mr_Timi1Ай бұрын
I live alone, when I had covid, I made my own dinner, took care of my cats, luckily my mom ran to the store for me but when she had her surgery I did the same for her. unless you're stuck in your bed, covid still sucks but you can get by. Also put on a mask, go to the kitchen and put your own sandwich together...
@rebeccajesse4604Ай бұрын
I lived alone when I had Covid too. If you are otherwise healthy and able, it sucks but isn’t debilitating for caring for yourself. Would be a totally different case for a preemie, the flu can kill them even after they leave the NICU and the fact he took that risk would honestly have me looking to divorce.
@Floofie_boiАй бұрын
What is a preemie baby? Never mind, I just googled it. I feel terriable for that mom that has to take care of thoes 2 kids while her husband goes on "business trips".
@ne0n564Ай бұрын
Yeah I think the right term for that bf is SOCIOPATH
@crystalgemgirl731Ай бұрын
That's what I said.
@DarkEinherjarАй бұрын
Story 1: tell me you're a gold digger without telling me that you're a gold digger...
@cyberinsecuregaming2890Ай бұрын
The girlfriend getting jealous over his 9 year old sister is insane. Shouldn’t she be calling the police if she thinks something is going on?
@Victoria-uv4ymАй бұрын
i have to disagree a little on the second story. To me he sounds less like a gold digger and more like someone used to being frugal. I too am of a mindset that if someone offers to pay the bill I'm not going to try and insist I pay it. Then the girlfriend trying to push him to prove himself by offering to pay even though she invited him. kind of messed up to invite someone out then insist they offer to pay for everyone just to prove a point rather than just sitting down together and having an adult conversation about the matter and learning to understand each other.
@UmranvuireАй бұрын
Oh, so I'm not the only one. Comment sections had me start to think that I was weird...
@ginabell694Ай бұрын
I feel the same way. @@Umranvuire
@JB-ew6piАй бұрын
It’s because OP is a guy. He’s supposed to be a walking ATM and do whatever the GF says without question. At least that’s the law of Reddit.
@overlords2722Ай бұрын
And dont forget that the GF said she wouldn't pay for his family if the roles were reversed. One rule for him...
@JB-ew6piАй бұрын
@@overlords2722 Yup! And people are defending that point because “8 is more than 4.” 🙄
@kristashafer93098Ай бұрын
I have a core deep loathing for the phrase “it’s just a dog” or “it’s just a cat”. Pets aren’t possessions, they’re beloved family members.
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089Ай бұрын
Like someone else said he’s just a BF, get a different one.
@pyewacketkitty8404Ай бұрын
Lol. Is there a theft registry? Is there a murder registry? Yes. Those are all crimes that he mentioned, and there are records and jail time associated with them. What a doofus.
@imjudgingyou000Ай бұрын
That Easter dinner story. He’s not awkward in social settings, he’s just an asshole.
@chrisleb386Ай бұрын
Kinda feel like this is a very breakup/divorce ep.
@Tustin2121Ай бұрын
It’s AmITheDevil. It’s practically guaranteed to lean that way.
@ShimonotokiАй бұрын
Story 2: Boyfriend definitely reacted like an idiot, but offering to pay the bill, when you fully expect to be rejected is also very crappy.
@itsnikkis23 күн бұрын
Story 5: Regardless of the little sister's age, there isn't an issue here. Siblings can be close and affectionate without it being incestuous. It's not like any male/female relationship has to be romantic. I'm so tired of sibling who are close being treated like they're two seconds away from smashing tongues. That's just not how relationships work. And asking him to change travel plans that have been made months if not years in advance? Nope, it doesn't work that way. OP needs to chill the hell out.
@PoppyCorn144Ай бұрын
The sister obsessed with the brother story reminds me of one of my favourite books from primary school - The Turbulent Term of Tyke Tyler. It really started my love of tales with a twist.
@HereWashThisАй бұрын
Covid mom: I was definitely on OP’s side until I heard she was a SAHM. Seriously? Gentlemen, another cautionary tale: These days, being a SAHM is the hardest job in the world. It doesn’t matter what YOU do - your SAHM wife will always have it harder.
@damienhailey118Ай бұрын
Not downplaying the responsibilities of being a SAHM, but I'm curious as to why you say "these days"?
@HackiePuffsАй бұрын
@@damienhailey118maybe because then there’s most likely only one person getting income and the economy has been getting a lot harder recently?? Just a guess
@WheeledCubeАй бұрын
@damienhailey118 I'm not the original commenter, but I am.moatly a SAHM (I work a few hours a week to help where I can). But things are very different anymore, myself and most parents I know don't have a "village" like there used to be. A lot of grandparents still work, siblings don't live as close to each other, and it's hard to find people who you do trust with your kid(s), who also have the time and ability to help. When I was a kid, my mom was mostly stay at home, and worked an evening or two after we were in school. But she had help from grandparents, neighbors, aunts/uncles, etc. It's just very different, and even talking to my mom, she says it's much harder for a lot of us know because of how different things are. This is just my experience, but I hope it helps show why being a SAHM is kind of harder in modern times. 😊
@damienhailey118Ай бұрын
@@WheeledCube It does, thanks.
@Official_DogeАй бұрын
The comment where OP says “our hometown is 70 miles away, as we can’t visit because it’s so far” in the jealous GF story is crazy. That’s like a 1-hour drive, wtf is she on about? I drive that distance from my current location to my hometown all the time. Europeans really have no concept of how small that distance is lmao
@undrhilАй бұрын
Since they are in europe, it might not be drivable. Or it might be an issue of border crossing
@FairyLadyQuelaagАй бұрын
Covid story: Husband should have been locked into a room and yes he should have had food brought to him specifically to keep him from contaminating anyone else. If he had to make himself food, anything he touched or came near could be contaminated with covid, putting wife and children as risk. Then when released from quarantine, serve him with divorce papers~ I understand she was spread thin, my mom had this problem when my ENTIRE household came down with covid because of my sisters boyfriend. Everyone was locked into their rooms and given lysol, if we had to use the bathroom we were to lysol our way there and back to make sure we didn't contaminate anything. Our food was dropped at our doors.
@NikodymusАй бұрын
Last story. Bruh…he made the conscious decision to possess CP. College educated, motivated, facing homelessness, owning a pet, or not…he directly involved himself into the process of child abuse, and he has the GALL to be upset about it? Here’s a marvelous idea…DON’T OWN CP!
@lordshaxx4693Ай бұрын
I can understand OP's perspective, I woudnt want to risk turning my $40 portion of lunch into $150
@SayanOfRagnarokАй бұрын
Story 4: sounds to me like its that very same job that allows her to be a SAHM in the first place. All the things she mentioned leading up to and following her pregnancy are expensive af. There is alot of context that seems to be missing anout their whole relationship, they equally sound exasperated with each other.
@rebeccajesse4604Ай бұрын
Fair, but to me, traveling for a non-required work trip during covid when you have a preemie infant is divorce territory. Preemies can be incredibly fragile and the common cold can kill them. Especially back when we knew even less about covid than we do now, that is a careless risk to take. Maybe the husband did have some social political pressure making him feel like he had to go, but then when you come back you take your punishment and try to explain yourself when you can. I will say, that I understand whining on the internet and feeling sorry for yourself, and it’s my nightmare to be called out for it 😅. But if I was the mother of that preemie I would be considering divorce.
@theundone777Ай бұрын
I have a co-worker who is a woman who cannot travel for her job because her husband is medically fragile. It would benefit her greatly to be able to travel for the job that she does, but she has to figure out a way around it TO KEEP HER HUSBAND SAFE. She is also the breadwinner. This guy was going on "fun" trips for work, which adds more unnecessary risk.
@sanctuary_polarisАй бұрын
Story 3: dude sounds like my uncle. About 2yrs ago lost 2 cats within a week of each other. One expected(20yr old kitty died of old age) and one extremely unexpected (vet said it was some heart issue). The unexpected one was basically my little sister's cat. That cat loved her more than anyone, they were very close. And when my lil sis and parents were hanging out with my aunt one weekend(I had work) my uncle was all "the only thing a cat is good for is being eaten" and went on and on about how useless and awful cats are. My family left pretty quickly cause it was only like 2wks later..and my lil sister was very distraught, tbh her and I(she's 24 now and I'm 26 almost 27) still cry over both those cats cause we loved them and treated them like family. Telling someone grieving over a pet to just get over it, is cruel. Just because you may not love or care about animals the way the grieving person does, doesn't mean you gotta be a dick simple as.
@user-mw7bb7vu3e28 күн бұрын
Story 3: OP is enabling his boyfriend's disgusting behaviour. Also telling someone to get another pet is insane, most people don't want replace their beloved pet. My cat of 12 years passed away on 16th February, I am still heartbroken.
@JerziTBossАй бұрын
Second story op is using his upbringing as excuse. You don't have to be from well off family to offer paying for brunch when the family paid for his vacation
@bonemar66Ай бұрын
Worst case: OP is out $150. Let's end the relationship over $75 instead.
@rebeccajesse4604Ай бұрын
I grew up with some times of very low income, but when I am able to, I love being able to return some of the generosity people show me! If you don’t want to be generous to others, don’t accept it from others.
@urgon6321Ай бұрын
Last story: he could always start a new career as catholic priest. They won't mind...
@alec5803Ай бұрын
The last story is a unhinged rant. Wanna bet that he hasn't tried to apply to retail, food service, or even delivering apps.
@EeeeeeebbbbbeeeeeАй бұрын
Story 5: one time my current boyfriend thanked me for not being jealous….of his biological little sister. Because his exes were jealous of her. I was convinced women like this didn’t exist until now.
@THEDubbleHelixxАй бұрын
I have no sympathy for parents who care more about their new partners than the well-being of their children.
@d.phantomfan1216Ай бұрын
Story 2: well her family only paid for your vacation and all the other times you went out to eat with them, how could she possibly think you should ever try to make an effort by paying for four people? I bet you don’t even got that much money to take care of, and never mind you wouldn’t even be paying for anything because your GF would still going to pay for it. It’s the principle of the thing. When she dumped you because she realize she could do better don’t you dare come back here crying about it.
@funnybunnniesАй бұрын
Exactly this. In high school, in a group of friends. There was a girl, let's call her Apple. We all knew Apple had an iffy relationship with her parents We would all including our parents go above and beyond to be there for her. From like always driving and covering her meals etc. Her parents had the money considering at least one of them were a pharmacist but they just have a tense relationship. We noticed that overtime when we would pick her up and drop her off, not even once did she even say thank you. One time I asked Apple if she could ask her parent to either do one round of the drop off or pick up and my parents do the other round. She instantly said "My parents are tired and have work" I'm like ..... all our other friends and my parents also have work and is tired too. They still did it for you countless of times and you turn around without asking and say that? Clearly you don't want to talk to your parents but can you at least fake it? Like say "let me ask them" as a pretend and then say oh apparently it crashes with their work hours so they can't this time? But awhile later, all of us kind of gave up on her, by that time she assumed we were her personal uber drivers where she doesn't need to pay. So we didn't offer to see if she would ask us to drive. She calls us and demanded where we were. Her dad clearly cared and could drive cause I heard her dad say "Apple, I can drive you and your friends" After that most of us just dropped her for being an inconsiderate smooch Edit: the reason we got mad was that she didn't even have the decency to even play the game of offering . Our parents didn't complain but like as the kids we heard her response and how much we all did for her got us feeling the ick from her
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089Ай бұрын
It sounds like maybe a test. A chance she gave him because he needed a nudge to think of it himself. I can see paying for yourself and GF but offer THAT first at least. It would show he’s willing to chip in sometimes. But he shouldn’t have to be asked.
@jackwatt8988Ай бұрын
Jealous GF: at first I was against OP, but snuggling up to him on the couch? Isn't that kind of strange? I've never met siblings who do that unless they are like 6 years old. *edit* the sister is 9, this is completely normal. I thought both siblings were adults.
@kamiyatomomi1475Ай бұрын
Story 5: Maybe you shouldn't have kids. If you're jealous that your boyfriend is spending time with his NINE-year-old sister, I dread what will happen if he becomes your husband and it's not about you anymore when you have a child.
@dorian_deloreanАй бұрын
The “no comments in 8 or less seconds, bro fell off” crew fell off
@Dragonmaster0118Ай бұрын
I wish they would that “joke” is so stupid.
@fluffythejesterАй бұрын
one reply in 28 minutes? bro fell off
@hollytheanimalcrossingfanАй бұрын
@@Dragonmaster0118I'm glad I'm not the only one. A lot of memes seem to overstay their welcome, and it becomes annoying. Like can't you try something new?
@Tustin2121Ай бұрын
Lol, seeing this comment when the comment preview from when I opened this video on mobile is still “No views in 9 seconds bro fell off”. 😂
@dorian_deloreanАй бұрын
@@Tustin2121 I’m happy someone saw what I did there
@GnarlyNewEnglandАй бұрын
In the second story when she said sometimes her boyfriend says things that come off as rude I was thinking "Oh, maybe he's autistic or something, I know I sometimes say something that unintentionally comes off as rude" but no, he comes off as rude because HE'S BEING RUDE.
@cardinalenergy21Ай бұрын
2nd story reminds me of saying I heard, "being poor is more than a financial situation, it's a mindset"
@fishlady7930Ай бұрын
Story 5: girlfriend is nuts My brother is 16 years older then me and I was obsessed with him for years. Of course he woukd do brother things like tease me, pull small pranks, scary stories. However he was also really nice and would spend as much time as he could with me. Every Halloween for years we did matching Halloween Pokemon costumes. He did get a few girlfriends who would act weird when he would babysit me and just hang out, one was mad he said no to Halloween plans because it was our thing, even offered to have her join. I don't remember the whole argument but she said it was childish to keep doing it, and I started to cry. My brother saw red and told her they were done for what she did. Even now in my 30s he still calls me his pokemon team partner no matter what. Girlfriend is off her rocker if she thinks that anything is going on between the siblings and should really reflect why she made that conclusion. Would she do the same if they had a daughter?
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089Ай бұрын
Now that’s cute! And good on him for getting rid of that girl for making you cry.
@cyberinsecuregaming2890Ай бұрын
“Our next Reddit post comes from r/sexoffendersupport” I’m sorry what? Sadly, it’s not the worst subreddit name I’ve heard of. There were some really messed up ones back in the early days of Reddit.
@ZacharyOstermanАй бұрын
Story 2: while the BF may not have handled it the best. Being invited out and the being prodded to pay for it all. I can see how that may rub someone wrong. Especially if it's a expensive place you didn't get a decision in choosing.