You mean the second story? The first were the old parents selling everything to move in with their kids.

OP in the first story is who deserves custody, but he gives his daughter too many excuses for her behavior (imo). her social skills should be a teaching moment

@@madisonh.2992 What do you think he should have done differently? As an autistic girl, I think he handled that beautifully.

@@assertivelottie8753 oh he did, just in the beginning, her screaming reaction, he just spoke about it like it wasn't inappropriate, that's all. other than that he was golden :) I hope he gets custody

@Nintendo Gamer sorry my comment was unclear, i didn't mean the way he handled the situation, in the beginning of the passage, he just seems to make excuses for his daughters behavior (while there is a reason, her autism, it doesn't automatically make it ok, and his annoyance with the other mother, was just a little odd. that's all💛💛

Morgan Kyle Activates “Sansa’s Revenge”, large dogs will attack target until the target is rendered deceased.

I’ve watched a whole lot of cobra Kai and karate kid so I would Krane kick his ass

@Conor Murphy r/iamverybadass

Meet the scout

he used to be an abuser, then he took a bat to the knees

Unfortunately, nature has this charming habit of blinding a new couple to each others' faults for the first year or two (the "honeymoon period"). This, in conjunction with an almost overwhelming desire to be in the bedroom, means that by the time you see your partner's true colors, kids are usually already in the picture. Yes, obviously that's assuming a hetero couple in which he and she are both capable of producing children. Anything else (IVF, adoption/fostering, etc) requires more thought than is typically attributed to new couples!

@@RedT...TheOriginal.NotANumber Not only that but some people actually change their behavioral pattern once married. So sometimes it really is difficult to tell unless you know what to look for. Those are the kind of signs that police and psychiatrists have to be trained to look for.

@@jamesmurphy7828 Truth!

@@jamesmurphy7828 My grandmother, years ago, gave me the following advice: “What you see is what you get.” Maybe some people do change, but assuming *you* can change them is a fool’s errand. This guy knew his wife was an entitled ***** even before they were married, and yet married her anyway. I can understand him being disappointed that she never changed, but not surprised.

Bruh they were likely together for several years. If he wasn’t aware of these, he was either willfully ignorant or terribly stupid.

OP: Imma break your nico nico kneecapa

"Earnie is about to commit a hate crime"

"You just lost kneecap privledge"

you've just lost your kneecap privileges

Lmao

First story: NTA. Anytime your retirement plan centers around living off others... they get the deciding vote. There are lots of campgrounds who want off season live on site park managers. They need to look into that.

*rip and tear, until it's done*

true

And watch his pregnant mother get beaten up?, are you an idiot?

why i feel like these people find pregnant wife beaten funny?

@Anal Kebs I'm just gonna dislike and hope that was a bad joke.

Glad he didn’t. An 11 year old permanently injuring someone or even killing them can be traumatizing that may not ever be overcome no matter how much therapy is given.

How did you get that fancy symbol next to your name?

@@cheemsdrip7478 🌈ImAgInaTiOn🌈

@@cheemsdrip7478 he joined the channel. It's a loyalty badge

If it was a nuclear revenge it would have been traumatic for the kid but I would feel no sympathy for the man

He should've done a 7 page beatdown to that guy

*Why do I hear boss music*

ORAORAORAORAORAORAORAORAORAORAORAORAORAORA

It odly satisfying

The idea of "honoring" your parents by taking care of them when they're older still exists in the States but it's not legally enforced thankfully. It's to the point where stories like this of parents trying to force or guilt trip being taken care of aren't that uncommon. However a lot of people around my age, late 20's to late 30's are pushing back more against the entitlement of the older generation and they are not happy lol.

In most cases you can say this as entitlement but here in India most people do love their parents and willfully take care of their parents so it is true for some cases as entitlement

Idk why people are so offended. These parents spent years and so much money bringing their kids up and later when they get old and sick the kids won't even return the favor? To me it's the kids who are entitled and selfish. If my parents needed me I'd take them in and take care of them if my financial situation lets me, it's the least I can do to give back for all they have done for me.

In alotnof countries taking care of your parents when they got old is normal, but their using it as a vacation is not cool. They need to keep something to take care of themselves since they have the money.

@@NM-jd9ck The parents weren't old or sick. They quit working at 50, then sold their house and most of their belongings. Besides, we're not told about OP's monetary situation, so it could've been they couldn't afford to. Also, OP is married and with a kid in the post. Think and read before you type.

... and also the first one. 🙆🏻‍♀️

@@excessivelyfangirlingbookw3339 Well, I mean on the whole beating up with baseball bat thing

Yeah. I was in a similar situation once with my stepdad basically having my mother pinned to the floor and hurting her, but she talked me down from smashing him in the back with the chair I'd picked up and yelled at me to call the police, which I did. Still wonder to this day what might have happened if I had acted on my first instinct. He'd have deserved it for sure. But I was just a scared 10-year-old girl, not exactly strong enough to take out a fully grown man even if I wanted to, so it was probably for the best I went for the phone instead. He fled when he realized the cops were going to be coming for him and he started stalking us after that. She realized a restraining order was a piece of paper and the people around us were helping him, so she packed us up and fled halfway across the state without telling anyone where we were going. Thank god we never ran into him again. We heard from one or two people that he ran off and married the lady my mother had considered to be her best friend because it turned out the two of them had been cheating with each other. We rather cynically wished them much joy of each other.

Harm a mother get thrown in the gutter

@@wordforger dude, I’m sorry to hear that and hope you and your mother are doing much better without that coward.

Self centered doesn't mean selfish, just means what you said, that they tend to have issues understanding others, and often lock themselves inside their own minds (which is also made worse by their difficulty to communicate).

A problem I sometimes face: People sometimes think I'm cold-hearted and mean. My problem is, I simply don't know how to show my feelings. You are crying, I can see that. I want to help, but i don't understand why you are sad and also don't know how to be useful. So i just blank stare at you.

@@ikweetgeennaam8839 Tip: Give the crying person a tissue. Gives you something helpful to do

@@ikweetgeennaam8839 How about you just ask the person why they are crying and sad and ask them, if you can help them in any way? Not understanding something is perfectly fine. But, for fucks sake, communicate!

as a fellow autistic i can agree with you my problem is im to caring. when covid hit i had the last toilet roll bundle and i saw this old gentleman who was about 80 or so i said to him excuse me sir do you want this your more important then me sir and he thanked me

That's so wrong. Your free time is just as important as anyone else's

yea. it also seems like op's daughter gets a get out of jail free card for her autism, when herv parents SHOULD be nurturing her social skills since her autism affects that.

I’m no black belt 😅 but I wouldn’t get into a fight either. Although I do try my hardest to get the funko when I do see it. However I’m not shoving people to the side. I just kinda wait, if someone else gets it then I’m sure I can find it again. But they are definitely fun to collect 😁

@@artsyducky3142 true that and I like to try and find the ones with the best box condition but unfortunately that's not always the case at the moment i think i have like 150 pop figurines. Mainly anime and comic characters

In Ohio at least, the kid could have blown the boyfriend away and it would be justified self-defense. You're allowed to use as much force as it takes to stop the threat, and if they die, it's on their choices, not yours. Further, that extends to intervening to protect someone else.

@@TheAttacker732 I'll keep that in mind

@@TheAttacker732 "if you die that's your fault" is probably the most American take on self defense and I love it

@@Thememester439 lol

thank you good man

You’re a good human

You are a good person

Even if he doesn't make everyone's day better he makes somebody's day better and that's enough

Not all hero’s wear capes

@AYAH ASAD yes, because that's putting the child at risk and the mother. I really hope that women who are pregnant have a husband/ boyfriend who will never hurt them

I absolutely agree! Instant Hulk transformation.

Dude, I beat the crap of mine when he slap my little bro's back with a chain. He had bad grades and dad was drunk. I was 14 at the time, and launched fist first until mine were bloodied, he never dared to hit my brother or mom ever again. I just buried him last year after 6 agonizing months. Thanks colon cancer, you made right on his shitty life.

@@MalekitGJ you deserve an award for defending your little brother, but using a chain more is worse than regular discipline and I hope you and your little brother are doing well

I would've used a sledgehammer myself

*YES*

Agreed. My uncle was confirmed autistic, my niece as well, and I went to school with someone who had it too. All of them are different.

It is called the autism spectrum. Not every person with autism has the same diagnosis as one another.

I'm autistic and I am NOT self centered. My parents taught me to be humble and behave myself!

Found out I had ASD 2 weeks ago, I’m 14

@@diamondking1987 found out i had ASD 2 years ago, and i'm 22

They probably did drug when they were younger and also before coming up with this idea.

Nice amount of likes

@BP BP yeah Asian countries especially have multi generational families, I think its mostly a white thing where people try to kick out their kids and parents and stay alone since alot of other cultures kids take car eof them once they can't care for themselves

You’re confusing the types of empathy.

@@wannabehistorian371 no I'm not I'm being purposefully vague in that comment I'm very aware that cognitive empathy and emotional empathy is different and that autistics sometimes tend to lack cognitive empathy. Hell, I do, and I have very heightened emotional empathy, so, trust me, I know!

@@amaeliss7827 So maybe some people are talking about Cognitive empathy when they say that.

@@amaeliss7827 i have autism and this makes me lack ability to socialize with others properly and i just gonna keep talking to others to improve my social skills

@@Nockgun that's different from empathy though! I also lack empathy to socialise, to some degree, and I used to be less good at it, but that doesn't mean I'm not empathetic

You learn a lot more from R slash.

@@vegetasprincess7273 I Learn more from everything besides school

@@Jpt1012 ain't that the damn truth? Haha

Rslash teaches us how the real world works. Schools don't teach us these things. I'm 13 and I have no idea how insurance, deposit, credit cards, mortgage, renting, interest, bank accounts, files, paychecks, court trials, income ect work. I barely know anything about the real world so it's good to have someone explain how to deal with messy situations.

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I absolutely agree with you that autistic people should not be viewed as self-centered. I will, however, also mention that there's an autistic man I know who lives with his mom who never tells him no for anything and basically gives him whatever he wants whenever he wants. I also run a social group for autistic adults, and when we're going someplace for a get together and he can't be there for it, he'll outright cancel the get together just because he can't show up. Now, in some instances, this might seem like he just doesn't understand how to behave in that situation, but I think his mother not telling him no for anything is also the cause of him doing things like this.

I was wondering about that. I'd be more willing to simply consider that autistic individuals may have a confused or misaligned sense of self, and think it was more a poor choice of words than an intentional spreading of misinformation. It's easy to see that in OP's daughter's case though, no thanks to his now ex-wife, it developed into a bloated self-centered aura and a sense of entitlement. I do hope the daughter ends up better with age and without such an awful mother around.

my little brother (6 in 2 days) has severe autism and is non-verbal. and my mom would never just snatch something out of another kids hands for him (unless it's me and my siblings who are the kids). My brother has it worse than many because he also has stage 4 cancer but everyone in my family (except for my almost 8 year old sister) knows how to handle someone who takes something from him. we gently take the toy from the person and explain how it's not theirs. simple. being entitled is never helpful

Yes it does. It’s just less selfishness per se and more not being aware of how you look to others and not being able to read the room.

For real though. I guess some people are too stupid to know what empathy is. (Hint it's not people with ASPD)

@@seabass819 Or just never really cared in the first place.

youre 100% right i have aspd too and ur comment is spot on

So, you are able to basically learn it but not feel it? That’s interesting.

masking is also incredibly common in autism in girls. you adopt traits of those around you to fit in, if I'm remembering correctly

Thanks, i really wanted to read the title story, so this let's me know whatborder they are. But you might want to put a spoiler warning, ya basically put a small summary for each one.

@die die I see this as an absolute win!

Baseball Bat be like: *BOOM* *BAM* *BOP* *BODABOPBOOM* *POW*and the Dad was yelling *OHHHHHHHHH* from the pain

the definition of satisfication

"As The Cat in The Hat saw somebody beating a woman, he grabbed a baseball bat and decided to destroy the man's kneecaps. The man was on the ground rolling around in pain. The Cat in The Hat decided to end his suffering, he grabbed a pistol and put a silencer on it, he then said 'Shhhhhh. It will all be over soon.' He then shot the man.

@@heli2555 ooo that's cute

@@heli2555 I am reading this to my future children

Dang.

I work in a supermarket and at the beginning of the pandemic I thought it was funny no one wanted to buy corona.

Lmao

I love this

@@andrewvalentine6977 Didn't bother me though, I just grabbed as much of it as I could since noone else wanted it and I like the stuff. XD

He was probably referring about pregnancy cravings, it must be bad if it causes him health problems.

If someone is used to eating one thing, a quick change in the diet can cause a bit of stomach issues

@@themediocremen1128 Or the mom was trying to get the son out of the house because step-dad was escalating, since before this step-dad only hit son. Or Mima gave mom an ultimatum since it seems like she been collecting evidence. Just my thoughts on what really happened, but they didn't tell an 11y/o to not scare him.

@@amylynneforsyth843 that is quite possible too

She kinda changed his diet along with the diet that she had. So whatever she ate, he had to eat as well.

many kids can still struggle even when being raised properly and taught what's right from wrong, especially on bad days or in an overstimulating setting like a grocery store. it's a spectrum for a reason, the father could be doing everything right. it's a set of circumstances we don't quite know.

@@picklethedragon4889 I totally agree. I’m just saying that a lot of parents with kids on the spectrum don’t discipline the same way as usual kids, and I understand why, but some don’t discipline their spectrum kids at all. Like the mother in this situation should have looked to see if there were more before berating the other parent for not giving the funko pop to her child. She didn’t even consider the fact the other child has a disability as well.

Hey kudos to you. Seriously, I would be so proud of myself and my child to be or see loving parent be able to effectively take care of a child with autism. I realize that this can for some people come off as offensive because from a stranger it can seem like im meaning this in a sarcastic kind of tone when I genuinely dont. So many people treat spectrum kids as if they are a burden but they are people too. They have quirks but hey, what's not to love in your own child? I hope that the child grows up to be an amazing person and always knows they have an amazing parent.

@@perfectlyflawed3061 - yeah. And i see your point there now. Sorry for the confusion.

Given Rslash misread the bit about them staying with the sister as being with no issues when the OP wrote “not without issues” which means there *were* issues I suspect the sister will grow tired of them

"Bonk!" - Scout from the game TF2

“Pop quiz! How long does it take to beat a moron to death? BZZT! Sorry, time’s up, you’re dead!”

Grass grows and brother, I hurt people.

@@Nik-ny9ue "Grass grows - birds fly - sun shines, and brother, I HURT PEOPLE" -Scout from the game TF2

@@kaevek8937 Yeah.. that's the one

I lose some iq reading this

@@arandomraccoon8565 you're literally just providing my point. You clearly don't take invisible disabilities seriously if that's how you respond to what I wrote.

You make a great point about invisible disabilities! I think more people need to know this. Sending virtual hugs 🤗

Nobody “has it worse,” they both have their respective hardships. While you are correct that accommodations are made for physically disabled people, that does *not* mean that ableism directed at physically disabled people is “less” or “eradicated ” (I put these in quotes to make a statement, not to mock). The two types of ableism shouldn’t be compared/pinned against each other, we can acknowledge the differences between ableism directed at autistic/neurodivergent(ND) folks without watering down ableism directed at physically disabled folk. TLDR: The world definitely is farther behind with autistic and other accommodations compared to physically disabled people, but that doesn’t mean one has it better/worse compared to the other and people need to stop with the oppression olympics. Note: This is coming from a neurodivergent person who isn’t classified as disabled Note 2: I couldn’t digest all the words you said (it’s hard for me to intake large chunks of text), so I’m sorry if I repeat anything’s you say.

also, invisible disabilities *definitely* need to be talked about more! Just because someone doesn’t “look disabled” doesn’t mean they don’t deserve equity in accessibility and equality as a human being. I felt like your stance with disabilities having accommodations came off as “because they look disabled, it doesn’t count as much as invisible disabilities.” Please correct me if I got the wrong idea and I truly don’t mean malice, I just want to have discussions and learn/educate

Hello

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Helko

Also first lol

Hello.

I’m good how bout u

Mine is going good too

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@@midnightthedruid9946 thanks

Happens every day!

Not likely, I wouldn't diagnose people online to be honest. Entitled people can sometimes just be that- entitled, unfortunately :/

As someone on the spectrum, I was taught to not be horrible to anyone (but still stick up for myself), whether it IS the case or not it will never fully justify verbally assaulting someone. Though sometimes I may do or say something and not realise that it was wrong, once told I will feel incredibly guilty and apologise to anyone I upset right away. Still no excuse to being horrible to anyone.

I thought the same because autism can be undiagnosed until later in life especially in woman but there is still no excuse for her behaving like this even if she was... She is an entitled Karen and even after loosing all respect in her husbands eyes she still thinks she is right... I doubt she will ever change...

It doesn't justify it, but I think it's something she can be made to recognize was wrong. I think she's a salvageable human being still and just needs intensive work to recognize when she's being entitled. Although if the husband doesn't feel up to doing so/standing by her through the process that's understandable and not his responsibility. I do think calling her vile is a bit much though.

@@amysomething3370 diagnosing wasn't my intention, I was just trying to make it make sense in my mind, but then I remembered what subreddit this was.

IKR!?

@@EvilKermZ hope the baby is alright

@@gracegorman6844 You just earned your first subscriber :3

@@gracegorman6844 post some videos and will be sure to let meh family and friends know about your awesome videos :>

@@gracegorman6844 I recommend reddit reader a gamer or a blogger but the decision is yours it's your channel your rules.

Don't ask. Really shitty.

les go im not alone

No

@@RedTex225 why not

@@dyltube6395 I’ve never really listened to Eminem

@@RedTex225 well it doesn’t apply to you then

@@dyltube6395 well hey now, I was just answering your question

Not all single mothers are like that like me if I especially know well in advanced that I'll need to take a couple days off which is few and far between I put my days off request ASAP

@@strudel_reviews No, not all...only the entitled ones.

Possibly "Karens"

"You hit the kid. I hit you."

I'm so sorry your classmates were so horrible. =( I am on the spectrum - discovered in my 30's, but my cousin is not - she was tested both as a child and in her late 20's. She had a few phases I remember well... the first was when she was about 4 or 5, and decided she was a seafull. She'd flap, and proudly tell everyone she was a seagull, and all she did was eat, poop, and fly. Then, a few years later, she decided she was a horse. She literally trotted and cantered EVERYWHERE. She'd neigh and do that mouth thing that sounds kinda like bphlbbbb, toss her "mane", etc. I remembered being a bit envious of this... every time I acted in ANY way different from others, I was disciplined... smacked, spanked, etc. I just could not understand why she was allowed, and I wasn't, even when playing in my own room with no one (non-family) around? When my son went through one of these phasrs, I let him. What harm was it? He acted like a cat, claimed he was a cat, and was completely obsessed with cats. He'd meow and purr. The line drawn was eating on the floor with just his mouth. Lol. More for safety than anything, and also, mealtimes were a brief window for family interaction. Snacks were also at the table or in a chair. Once he hit around the middle of 1st grade, he was over "being" a cat, but his love for cats carries to this day, nearly 20 years later. And while he was tested as a child for autism and was found to have a few indicators, they decided that ultimately, he was just very imaginative - same result with the second assessment as a young teen. As he is an adult now, I did ask him to get rechecked (other things do concern me), but because he is an adult, only he can choose to go through with it, or he can decide not to. So far, he's decided against it, and that's ok with me, but I know what when I was finally diagnosed, it was a huge light-bulb moment for me. If my son does have it, its a pretty "mild" situation, and he seems to have learned much like I did... lots of observing, memorization of rules that are unwritten/ invisible, adapting as much as possible, and learning how to pull away from uncomfortable situations before the point of no return. Its a strange thing to think of how many adults and even children there are who likely have gone undiagnosed or even misdiagnosed. In my case my psychiatrist clearly stated it was due to gender bias, (especially when I was a child). Back then, there really were no, or few, guidelines on how biology affects the expression of neurodiversity. It was only thanks to an article I read that I printed out, circled what criteria I fit, and took it in that even got me on the road to being diagnosed to be begin with! And hey... If you wanna roar like a dino... roar like a dino. Personally, I think it'd be pretty awesome!

@TheWerapter92 I hope that you're doing better now and that you can finally be free of the harassment and that the jerks that called you the r-word have gotten punished