Women discount all yard work, household maintenance, appliance repair, vehicle maintenance, and ignore the fact you pay the overwhelming majority of the bills... yet they will complain about cooking and cleaning.

My wife does the majority of the housework. I do dishes and laundry from time to time. She works part time I do 50 hrs a week. She wanted to help in the yard. I bought her an electric weedeater. She used it 10 minutes. It sits in front of my car in the garage to piss me off every day

Splitting the household jobs evenly is still not even close to even, because the man still performs all his masculine chores on top of it, as well as providing and protecting.

To the chick that said women notice it first , if you notice it first then do it !!!

11 year couple (not even married w two kids) Here's how this works out so well. I work 40 hours week add a desk job. My husband works independently from home stays home with our kids. I still come home make dinner, do laundry, do the dishes. He still works on the cars, up keeps the home, mowes the lawn. Each task gets delegated where they make sense and neither of us have any complaints.

Isn't it so nice that women have the option to work or not? Men aren't really afforded that luxury

If a couple has to resort to tallying each individual chore that they've completed, that's when you know the relationship is headed for a breakup. Entirely unsustainable over the long run to keep score over something so trivial purely out of pettiness. All it does is fuel bitterness and resentment for both parties.

Most if these chicks demanding 50/50 house chores have no idea how hard the majority of mens work is. Shes thinks working at home and working on an oil rig is the same, if its the same hours 😂

Young MEN are Screwed!

It's interesting to note how the feminist types and 304s get really quiet and respectful when Rachel says basically the same things as Andrew. With him, it's all about "tone" or whatever other excuse comes to mind when they can't own up to their misandry. Those discussions quickly become tedious with all of the SIGN language - it's the automatic pushback/need to be right that make them unwatchable for me. I'd love to see more episodes with Rachel - the conversation seems much more productive and illuminating.

Cleaning the home isn’t demeaning, it’s necessary to prevent bugs from infesting the house. You let the house go to shit and you start getting flies, roaches, mosquitos, spiders, rats, a food chain of potential disease you don’t want near your wife or your children. A man quits maintaining the yard and you’ll get snakes in the grass. Used to be we were so close to the wild we had to fend off bears, wolves, mountain lions, and alligators but we made it so safe we don’t even think about predators when stepping outside. Nature’s a hostile, unrelenting bitch.

Yes the college aged single women telling a stay at home mom she’s wrong about how much work taking care of a home takes

I bet none of these braods have ever done any yardwork. Which is substantially more difficult than house chores.

She said she was "Too hot for housework"? 4's do chores.

If a woman is at home she should do EVERYTHING in the home.

I think being a stay at home MOM is a full time job. I am with my kiddo 9hrs a day. I did like hearing it gets easier with more! 🙌🏻🙏🏻 😅 I do most of the house hold work but my husband helps me reset the house each night before we relax together. He mainly does dishes after dinner and trash while I pick up and wipe things down. It’s a great system for us. He helps me with the house and our son and I help him with miscellaneous work tasks and food throughout the day. We are just constantly tag teaming stuff and it works for us.

In a committed relationship/marriage, there is no such thing as "Free Labor"! There were times when my wife also had to work, then I did much of the cooking, and all the laundry.

I think you should be a team, and help each other wherever it’s needed.

I learned from my Dad. He made more income n had harder work than my mother my entire childhood. Did chores, watched us taught us Every thing!🙌 I made 90% of income with my ex wife , she raised our kids but I still took care of my babies as well cooked , cleaned, fixed things around house even while averaging 11 HR mentally and extremely physically demanding dangerous days in the 🇺🇸military. Constantly in the field days ,weeks at a time. Alllll the time. Still grinded hard at home🍻

They acting like stay at home moms deep clean the entirety home everyday.

This is such a good panel

Even split is such a harmful idea, you start competing

It actually saves a lot of money for the woman to stay home!! " I have to work to pay someone else for help!" Yeah, it costs a lot of money for moms to work!

I have to laugh when women claim cooking and cleaning is work. I'm a single dad. I come home from work and clean up after my kids and then cook. The cleaning up and cooking is not compared to the work I do, not even nearly. It takes all of a couple of hours and I don't even work up a sweat...

I'm perfectly ok with splitting the housework even if she stays at home as long as that means she'll be doing half of the lawn work, change the oil and rotate the tires half the time, patch the roof every other time it needs it and plunge the toilets as well. Every single job around the house has to be split equally. It's only fair.

Sometimes we are down. For example when I got cut open to deliver our children and almost died I was off for a bit. So it depends if she's able. When I was down my husband took care of me and our house chores. Right now I'm down, cyst burst so he is carrying that laundry up tte stairs!

The one saying "let's hire Mexicans" wtf.

I, a trad guy fell for an 80's feminist. She soon realized that the real world is a thing. Of course we should have kids (in our 40's) when I explained that she would be in her sixties and trying to chase a teenager around,,,,, the look on her face was priceless. Fast forward, I have nothing to say about how the holidays is run, what happens in the kitchen, but I have dinner on the table and a Swiss watch couldn't get more effective at making this house run than het! Mind you, there was always thee" wait 'till your father gets home" threat. But she definitely ran the home, and she made it a home, despite being oppressed by the patriarchy that forced her to! When this broad realized the power of motherhood there was no stopping her! If these damn "feminist" ever figured out what their real powers have always been we might be in trouble.

I've been a house husband after an illness it's the easiest thing I've ever done! Most women think it's hard because they have never done anything hard

They think life is all about making them happy and having fun 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Men work longer hours which equates to what women do at home. Plus who defends the family? is it 50/50 if someone breaks in?

I hate the "it takes a village" quote..yeah but the "village" were your extended family inlaws and people you grew up around...thats when that makes sense...not this modern world BS letting strangers raise your kids..

A few years ago me and my wife had to swap roles (i had to start using a wheelchair and could no longer do the job i was doing) so she now works im the stay at home husband looking after the kids (4 kids ages from 5 upto 12) and my god what a easy life it is couple hrs to clean up kids in school most of the day i am looking to get back into work due to getting bored during the day

I do, yard each week, laundry 3/4 times a week, dishes kept up after each meal, take kids to school, pick kids up from school, all of the repairs, full time career, kids to the park, swimming, cook them dinner (teach them). I'm working all day every day and I absolutely love it... I don't complain about it because if you want things done right you have to do it yourself.

Her hair parts like the Red Sea and she thinks she’s below house work.

My mantra is … love, servitude. Men are instructed to love … women are instructed to obey. If love is at the core, doing the most for each other is key.

Stay at home dad here 🙋🏻‍♂️ I do all of the chores. All of them, both traditional male and female tasks - I take care of our two boys (1yo and 3yo), I do most of the cooking, I do all the cleaning, I take care of our dogs, I maintain our cars, I fix things around the house, I maintain the landscaping, I keep our house organized, I change smoke detectors and AC filters, I bathe our boys, i do the dishes, I do all the laundry and hang her clothes up the way she likes, I clean the bathrooms, I handle all our boy’s doctors appointment… all of it. Once she gets off work around 3:00, she spends a couple hours with the boys while I spend a couple hours in my garage gym (which is pretty much all of my down time), then we have the night to be together as a family. My situation is very unique in that I was set up, financially, to retire at 30 while we were in the process of adopting our first son (we got pregnant at the same time, ironically). She doesn’t make even a tenth what I was making, but she works from home and her job is extremely flexible, while I was working 70+ hour a week. I didn’t want to be the stereotypical absent father, so I chose to pause my career to spend as much time with them as possible. I share all this to say… it ain’t hard, you just can’t be lazy. You also need to understand the purpose of your role in the household, and that it gets easier over time.

Everyone should pick up after themselves. Stay at home parents does the housework, but they shouldn't have to pick up after the worker, don't be a slob, pull your weight. I do feel like the man should take out the trash, mow the lawn, and wash the dogs till the kids get old enough to do it

Why is this even such a problem? She already needs to do those very same chores living with family, roommates, or alone. If he's paying her bills, keeping the car(s) and house in good working order, and she doesn't even have to work? It's like a petulant child at that point

My ole lady is a diamond I do the outside house work mowing, taking the trash out, we clean the vehicles together because it’s fun and I fix all the inside repairs. Other than that she gets upset if I come home and the house is dirty which is rare and I’ve told her it’s not a big deal but she the love of my life and I’m happy to bust my ass everyday to make sure she and our kids are happy because she make sure I’m happy it’s a 50/50 we’ve been together 12 years and plan on the next 60 lol. Edit: she works 8 hours a day I work 10-12 so I’ve always been impressed and loved her for how hard she works, cares and loves our family.

She says he doesnt do any housework. Yea right! He does all the things she cant like hard labor. .fix anything that breaks...etc!! Even the based girl is still delusional!

I've never understood this argument. *Every grown adult cleans up after themselves.* Really too much for these girls to comprehend?

What has happened was mothers stopped making the kids do chores in the home I grew up that way chores were done and they grow up entitled and it doesn't get instilled in the women especially they don't even cook because it has stopped being taught because the women stopped cooking period work or not it doesn't matter sure it's not expected every single day but for the majority yes and some Western people are spoiled and lazy

36 years married today, look everybody's making this more complicated than it needs to be as far as housework, You live in your House monday through Friday be considerate and you both try to clean up after yourself during the week and on the Weekends you both take part in household chores.

Get a cleaning lady. If you are home all day with kids.. you are exhausted. You can't clean anything with 2-3 small toddlers/babies. This is putting SAHM down. Leave your husband alone. He is also exhausted when he comes home.

Its mainly my job but sometimes he helps so we can try to get them to bed earlier!

Taking care of your own home doing your own chores is not a job

They equate sitting talking on the phone 8 hours day, to the man loading trucks breaking his back 12 hours a day.

If you expect the man to do the "masculine" (which really just means hard) chores, then why doesn't she do the "feminine" chores like cooking and cleaning?

12:30 start there and listen really well to see how she places the onus back on the female. LOTS of eye blinks happening after that moment when their feigned struggle gets disintegrated before their eyes.

Taking out the trash is a masculine chore?

I can't believe leonarda? Is being serious when she says she's too hot for housework

Most stay at home moms dont know how to manage their time to make their lives easy .

In general mothers with multiple kids are not working all day around the house. I'm pretty sure she give the kids chores on what to do around the house

Everyone had a 5 minute answer to a 5 second question which merely required a 2 second reply. Women are so incredibly self absorbed, it's really off-putting.

Paying other people to take care of your household chores should be illegal unless you’re handicapped.

When you’re working all day men don’t expect to do chores when they get home on the regular. Now we might have to change a light bold here and there, change the air filter, or do yard work (if there isn’t someone hired to do so). But agree that stay at home wife’s should keep the inside house in order.

My wife and I share chores. In fact I actually really enjoy cleaning and organizing...I find it therapeutic.

So if a guy comes home tired then he’s not going to be involved w the kids??

I’m a single dad full time I work full time it isn’t hard to raise a child…these women are just lazy

Well if the woman's been cleaning and cooking and shopping and paying bills and raising the children and giving baths I can understand being tired. And when the man comes home from working all day and then he has to mow the lawn trim the hedges clean out the gutters take out the trash change the oil in the car clean out the garage etc etc I imagine he's tired too. How about everybody shut the f****** and just do what they're supposed to do it's called life

Feminism has taken so much from us…

I did the stay at home for quite a few summers and there was plenty of down time to do stuff. Not just sit in my phone and waste time. We both work but i end up doing the cooking cleaning. She does her 8 and that's it i have tried every way possible to getchelp but it's just laziness period. I'm also left to do all the yard work and run kid to and from school daily. Im the larger bread winner . where am i going wrong ?

Women don’t understand all we want is a hug or a touch. I remember the last time a girl held my hand and that was 2 years ago

When I was a teenager I didn't want my mom doing my clothes either. Number one I didn't want her touching my underwear. And as far as wash goes two words double downy. And then of course please iron all my clothes. She didn't want to do that so I ironed all my clothes myself. It was the 1980s and I wanted to look sharp.

Be awesome If schools taught actual useful Skills.

It amazes how modern women take the work and provision from men for granted.

Im ok with sharing the burden ... equality is also helping with the yard work now ... the pedestal is now gone ... i do not have an issue with cleaning, laundry , doing dishes , etc Its literally not for me , i dont want our kids living in filth and dont want our children thinking its ok for it to be like that

The house work for couples its 50/50 sometimes u do it,other times they do it and then other times u both do it together

I’ve got four children, and I’m the sole provider for my wife and children. I work a lot, too much one could say. I actually do enjoy helping my wife with the house. Not to a crazy extent, but I like to help my wife. She’s the best wife and mother I could ever ask for, so she deserves the help.

I think it's absurd to expect your woman to do 100 percent of all the house work....to me that is insane. And kind of douchie. Only if I had zero time to do so. But come on to expect your woman to clean up after you 100 percent and do zero for her...kinda not cool. Every once in a while a man has to cook a meal and wash a dish.

I do the disgusting housework, cuz I'm a freaking MAN, sometimes that includes taking out the trash...

One B in this group> which one is the one to avoid at all cost?

Wait, I mow the grass after work, if I'm not at my second job.... WAIT, Im happy and single with tons of money in the bank and have zero stress! Nevermind.... Ill mow the grass!

Something u are not taking into consideration is personality. For example I'm a male and I'm very clean and organized. I can't live messy. My wife is more relaxed. That's just how we we're raised. I knew that before marriage. I do most of the cleaning in the home because I enjoy doing it and because if I don't, my wife won't do it and she doesn't do it correctly. I have a full time job and she's a stay at home mom. She only washes the dishes cooks and laundry sometimes. I do everything else

Imagine being married to "let's dance" feminist...

Tell me why if someone asks you a simple question you have to talk about it for 10 minutes

Somebody please find me the girl in the blue in the middle, I'm trynna see something 😂

Two income households change the division of labor and so housework has to be split.

Yes house work is below you. (Lady comedian in black) I love you!!! You're my great white Buffalo. My special unicorn

Who's the second girl on the right?

Here's an idea for the next episode. Instead of body count. Let's count brain cells.

When women realize that their work in the home is magnitudes more important than any job, they will stop working and treat marriage seriously. God commands that Marriage is for life without condition.

My wife does the housework. I do the laundry for the house. She does everything else and I help her. I work 60 hours a week. My wife is a homemaker and mother to our kids. We love our roles

As a husband, I get the sentiment and it is amazing when my wife takes care of everything around the house. But I see part of being a Christian husband is self sacrifice for my wife and demonstrating Christ to her and our family and that includes self sacrifice, doing things when you’re tired and don’t want to just because you love your wife.

What’s wrong with saying it’s women’s place to stay home, take care of the kids, and do the housework, regardless of what her man does?

Yeah, it is awful here in the Midwest... you don't want to come here.

We just need their help because sometimes the kids need both parents to discipline and help with the kids, I work part time and me and the kids do most of the house work, but sometimes I need him to help talk to the kids or get them to bed!

8:38 Hate to break it to you, Rachel, but if your man has to take his car somewhere and have someone else change his oil for him, he isn't much of a man... 😂

I wish all men on earth find a good wife as Rachel.

LMAO 🤣😂🤣 if women left the work force in masses we are going to run into problems lol no we wouldn't, the adjustment would be way to easy. They don't occupy useful jobs 😂😆😂

I've typically seen Husbands do the "heavy lifting" at home. Such things as Mowing Lawns, putting up fences, repairing plumbing, fixing the Roof, landscaping, Home Repairs, car work (if so inclined and with the tools to do so), etc. Generally speaking. Generally speaking, Wives deal with home care (cleaning & upkeep), child care when the Husband is away/working, Cooking, in the real sense, meaning researching and UNDERSTANDING the nutritional NEEDS of the family and working on that, instead of the modern age bullshit of slap shit together on a plate Big Food and Supermarkets instruct you to buy. Cooking, the real deal not the modern bullshit people have been indoctrinated into, isn't demeaning. It's a damn professional career (Nutritionist/Biology/Health) for the most important people in your life. Overlap: Of course. There's going to be overlap, and that should organically work itself out. Painting rooms together. Husband taking the garbage out. Dad needing to change diapers once in a while. But . . . generally . . . the historical model makes sense and all of us are here today because of it. Both parties step up. Because I guarantee you, having to do objectionable stuff you find "demeaning" or don't agree with or feel is beneath you happens at Work . . . all . . . the . . . damn . . . time.

Usually agree with Rachel but Canada/Japan euthanizing the elderly is laughable.

If only these woman had some thinking meat.. none of them caught the fact that Rachel was divorced and didnt question it. Me personally, if someone was trying to give me advice on how not to get struck by lightning. But than after giving me advice, they tell me they got struck on 5 separate occasions. I'd be questioning how solid the advice was...

Feminists caused women to have to join the workforce. Then there was a supply and demand issue where there are all of a sudden a gluttony of potential employees and wages were stagnated due to this over supply. Now women have to work. Doesn’t seem like good progress to me. Seems like the only ones to benefit were greedy corporate America. Wouldn’t be better if the household had the same income with only one spouse working outside the home? Think about it.

Your husband being an active participant in your family and household is unrealistic expectations?

We *NEED* more Rachel Wilsons!!!

What's up with woman on right? Why did she come on the show? She looks like it's absolute torture for her to be sitting there.

Never do housework / woman's work. 20 anniversary thus year, 5 kids

If it’s the case that he’s not good in bed then YOU NEED TO COMMUNICATE IT!! Men aren’t mind readers!!