Sorry I can’t be here for the premiere today, I’m finally taking a day off and going to visit a museum! But I hope you all enjoy chatting with each other, be kind and have fun! 🥰

I’ll never forget my grandma, born in 1932 in poverty on a farm and married with a kid by 19, crying and expressing to me how she’s so happy I have opportunities she didn’t get like getting a degree, holding a job, having my own credit card, and not being forced into marriage. Eva Jo would’ve hated Pearl.

I would just like to put it out there that JustPearlyThings is 26, while being unmarried and childless career woman. Nothing wrong with that, but it does make her a huge hypocrite.

How is cheating high value? That is the main definition of the lowest of the low value. Its a lack of value😂. This woman is lonley and delusional.

You'll never dislike Pearl as much as she dislikes herself.

I hate to be so dark, but I really believe the women they invite on their podcasts who wear revealing clothing they are not just inviting as rage-bait in general, but something more specific. It seems to me they want the viewers to not only be angry at the women, but attracted to them. It really feels like they are trying to create some sort of grotesque experience for the male viewers by putting women on camera who they will be attracted to but who they will also want to “punish” for their lifestyle (and the knowledge the women would never reciprocate the attraction) which only furthers the rage. I really cannot overlook the sexual element of this, it feels so insidious.

She's 27 and talks like a frat bro. She should count her lucky stars that her parents are rich because she'd get NOWHERE in life on her own.

I was definitely a "pick me" girl in highschool. I didn't realize it as I was doing it. In hindsight, I said whatever I thought would make me special, whatever I thought the boys would want to hear because in my mind, I never felt just being me was good enough. I feel bad for Pearl. I can't imagine still feeling this way in my late 20s. She's taken it so far- so publicly- it's going to be hard for her to ever turn it around now.

her constantly looking at the men in the room for approval is soooo telling

It actually makes so much sense that she comes from extreme privilege. When you're sheltered your whole life, you rarely face consequences for the things you say or do.

My favorite thing about pearl is that she’s such a pick me, but no one picked her.

99% sure she has like no real deep friendships in real life. when she said she's made a hobby of beefing on twitter with random strangers. Like I'm imaging she's ultra lonely and this is the only way she gets ANY attention.

Honestly to me, she lives in this privileged rich girl naïve bubble. I'm honestly surprised at how she got so popular. Girly hasn't lived a real day in her life.

The way she argues with people and won’t admit when she’s wrong, she’s going to have a hard time submitting to a husband. 🤣

I was married at 24 and am a stay at home mom and wife to a man who provides financially for me and our children. I spend my days cooking cleaning and wearing old maxi dresses barefoot in the garden. I have the life Pearl claims to want, the life she claims all women should strive for. How did I get here? By doing the literal opposite of what Pearl’s doing: I actually like other women and I don’t bend over backwards to appeal to men. I just do me. No need to put others down. Straight men actually like women-- imagine that-- and it’s not cute or attractive to decent and mentally stable (not incel) straight men to bully people they like.

Its just so funny to me cause pearl brings sex workers to degrade them and tell them their jobs are embarrassing and lacks self respect. But her job is more embarrassing. There is no amount of money or fame I would accept to go and sit there and disrespect myself and my gender and cause that much harm. Like I've never heard of a more embarrassing job.

This is an incredible video Rachel, thank you for making it!

I'm so glad that you talked about these insane podcasts. A bunch of 18-22 year old girls getting told to shut the F up by 45 year old men is WILDLY inappropriate.

You REALLY nailed it with the comment about how Pearl insists that all women need a man in their life because she, personally, can't take care of herself (or refuses to) and projects that onto other women.

She sure has a lot of opinions for someone who thinks women shouldn’t vote 🤦🏼‍♀️

the whole 'women in the past only worked in the home' thing frustrates me so much. It completely ignores so many people. What about immigrant women, who had to work to support themselves and their families? What about codebreakers during WWII? What about scientists like Marie Curie? Victorian women who worked in factories and mills all day?

She calls herself an elightened thinker when her ideas about women are pre enlightement era ideas. What an intellectual.

With all disrespect since she has none for anyone else, she seems stunted. She acts like me in my teen years, and she's approaching 30. Also minus points for sharing a name with me.

Also here's just a nice story i want to tell: The best married couple i ever knew were married like 35 years. They were both professors in the theatre program at my college. He taught technical things and she taught acting and was the head of the department. They taught the stage combat class together as partners, and the best pic i ever saw was of them crossing swords in the air while kissing. Their names were Ed and Danette. They met at that same college when they went there, and after they graduated they lived and acted together in NYC. Eventually, they came back to teach. Danette was an ACTUAL girlboss- super talented, so kind but firm, wore stilettos with her jeans. Ed was the sweetest man i ever met and became a surrogate dad for me, they both helped me buy my medication one time when i couldnt afford it. Danette couldnt have children so they took the entire college department and treated them like family. They were in their 50s but were always aware of politics, what was happening in the world, and always strived to treat everyone equally, regardless or race or gender identity, etc. They were ALWAYS learning and always compassionate. I met them in their 50s and they would have been married until they were super old and tiny and grey, but Danette died of cancer 2 years ago. Ed is carrying on and still works at the college, but they were genuinely best friends so he really had a broken heart. Sure, they weren't that traditional. But they were actually happy, had a healthy and fun relationship together even decades after their wedding, and their compassion spread to everyone around them. Amazing people. Everyone deserves a love like they shared. 💜 Sorry its a long story but i want the world to know how amazing they were. The world is a worse place without Danette 100%

Ugh.. I went to her Instagram and really really regret it. A slew of advertising her T-shirts “Women Shouldn’t Vote” and “Repeal the 19th” 🤢 I’m so horrified that she exists and actually has a following

Finding out her mom is a software engineer is wild. I wonder how she feels about her daughter believing she never should of been able to have her education lmao

Maybe it’s just me, but I don’t think you can complain about people taking bad angles of you if you call other women whales just for existing in a heavier body

Nine kids? Parents don’t have time for kids especially when both work. It shows that she hasn’t had a deep relationship with her parents. Not having a deep relationship with her mom leads to internalized misogyny

My question is… if Pearl is everything these guys want, why aren’t they tripping over themselves to pick her?

I don't like that ppl call her a "pick me", she deserves to be called what she really is, a grifter and, more specific, a bad person.

Keep in mind that Pearl, a person who was catfished, is claiming that she can always tell when someone is lying.

What I don’t get is that she’s so about “you need to get pregnant and married asap” meanwhile she’s almost 30 not married no kids. not that it matters but fertility starts to decline around 35. Sooooo girlie is running outa time to be a “high value” woman💀

I think her monotony, lack of preparation, and lack of editing is all because she’s trying really hard to make it seem like she’s not trying too hard. I remember being a bit of a “not like other girls” girl in middle school, and at the time seeming like I was trying too hard was the worst thing in the world to me. It’s all an attempt to show men “look at me, I’m not like other girls, I don’t care about how I present myself and I don’t put any effort into it.” Basically what I’m saying is that Pearl is stuck in the mindset of a middle school girl with a lot of internalized misogyny

I really don't get how she tries to suck up to the alpha male sphere when those creeps prob think she's already 'dried up' because she's older than 18/20

Mysogyny from other women breaks my heart, but especially from the incredibly wealthy and sheltered. She really doesn't see how ignorant she is, how wrong she is, how much harm she's doing. All for profit and online validation. So sad, genuinely. I hope she comes around one day.

I'm only 34 and divorced. I was married to a pastor, I married "well" just like the church and purity culture expects us to do so. It was 10 years of abuse, physical, verbal, emotional, sexual, all kinds of abuse!!! When I left, on top of having to recover from all that, I had to go through all of it with a great amount of GUILT. Because of people like Pearl. This is DANGEROUS!!!!

Pearl says the most unfunny thing in the world then has a laughing fit by herself. Usually I think it’s a charming trait to laugh at your own jokes, but not when the “jokes” are so hateful.

She says “its a bit rude” about people commenting on her appearance, while she calls fat people “whales” The hypocrisy is astounding and yes, it IS uncalled for- but you can’t say that and not take your own advice 💀

Love how women like Pearl or Girl Defined or Morgan talk as if they'd still have platform to speak on if it werent for feminism.

My parents had a traditional marriage while I was growing up. They love each other and it worked out for them, but it’s not something I would ever want. My mum was lonely a lot because my dad worked so much, and while she loved raising us she did miss some different stimulation out of the home. The moment we left home, she got a job again and she loves it! They are still happy together and content with their lives and how they organised them, but I see how much it gives my mum to work, do her thing outside the house and just look after her own needs more. And I know she’d love my dad to help more around the house!!

Her "advice": Submit, don't get fat, have sex on command My response: No, too late, make me want it.

It’s always interesting to me when these content creators don’t practice what they preach. Like babe, you’re LITERALLY single, no kids, and working

it really makes me mad when everyone wants to shout “women are supposed to submit to their husband” but they never add that men are supposed to honor their wife

Pearl is literally like “they don’t like evidence” then argues from nothing but anecdotes as a mean to “own the libs” irony isn’t dead. It’s just tired.

And just saying but as a widow, I’m very grateful to be able to support myself instead of the “traditional “ stuff that has happened to widows: forced sex work, unaliving, being handed around the family as a dependent.

"I grew up with Amish people. Well, my family bought furniture from them, so i know what their lives were like" Jesus Christ, i couldn't make up a more blatantly ignorant and privileged sentence if i was trying to write satire

I’ve always felt that it’s a facade and coping mechanism more so than anything. She claims that women should be married by 27, but she herself is 26 unmarried. She complains about women not being thin, but has a gut herself. She states women are responsible for the bulk of the overweight population in the U.S., but that’s statistical false and her ex-partner was overweight. He left her for someone who looks like a more conventionally attractive, traditionally feminine version of her with the red hair and everything. It’s her insecurities projected onto others.

I have read the article saying that 50/50 relationships “don’t work”. The missing context is that they work only if the couple has a discussion and delineates what 50/50 will look like for them. Otherwise they might interpret it differently and leave necessary tasks undone or partners feeling overworked and unappreciated.

A true testament to how you can be the devote your existence to being a pick me and still not get picked

So she gets a little upset about how someone took a picture of her and judged her appearance. Then immediately follows it by saying “does this guy in the picture LOOK masculine?” Cool. I feel like every time someone has a very good statement (like the woman saying her partner is her equal) she has to punch down because she has no other reaction. It’s complete deflection. It’s like being insulted by a high schooler.

Idk if this is just my autistic self taking things literally, but when she said not to have sex with whales my first thought was 'yeah! Beastiality is wrong!'

It was an A+ take that the men actually don’t care for her and if she steps out of line they’ll abandon her. When she’s challenged on her antisemitism and racism, she gets uncomfortable. She can’t bring herself to approve the message, but she can’t denounce it because they’ll turn on her. It’s so see through.

Not her calling her parents the 1% from their dated mansion that doesn't seem to have been renovated or redecorated since 2005 🥴

I think Pearl stands a pretty high risk of ending up in an abusive relationship. She’s already too old to not be married by her own standards, thinks that “high value men” should have a pass to cheat and that there are almost no reasonable justifications for divorce. I think she will likely choose someone out of desperation and have a bad time.

Pearl: "is this crazy marriage advice?" Me, a woman who's been happily married for 12 years: "yes. Yes that is crazy marriage advice"

The way she's even a 26yr old unmarried woman who's had sex before marriage, who's not exactly considered the conventional beauty standard herself, its crazy that she hypocritically spouts views about "whales" "sluts body counts before marriage/sex before marriage" etc

As a black woman this was actually a great video Pearl has been putting down black women and any women for no reason and it’s disgusting

saying “I don’t think women should vote” when you ARE A WOMAN is like telling yourself to stfu because you shouldn’t have an opinion in the first place… like, what?😂

The fact that an absolute black hole of charisma like Pearl can somehow amass a following of over a million people is both incredibly inspiring and depressing to me 😳

At one point I told my husband that I didn’t need him, I chose to be with him, but it wasn’t out of necessity. I thought it was a compliment, but he got pissed. He’s now my ex and I do everything myself.

I just discovered your channel last night, and I can already tell that it will be my new addiction.

I wish we could time travel and out Pearl back where she, as a woman, had absolutely no rights. and leave her there

She doesn't know ANY 30 or 40 yr old married couples who are in happy egalitarian relationships? ANY of them? You know the wrong people.

She will forever hate her life.. she’s a walking and talking contradiction and when she gets what she says she wants she will, like I said… forever hate her life.

As a mother of 2 grown children myself and with my daughter being 32 y/o, all I can think every time I see this Pearl girl is, "WHY DO YOU HATE YOUR MOTHER?"

How crazy is it that this woman thinks a "high value man" is a man more likely to cheat on you!? That is seriously so sad. Anyone with actual self respect would recognize that a high value man (if you wanna call it that) would never do that.

I absolutely love the term "body count". Like people who sleep with others consensually are serial killers. I find this hilarious and would love to write / read a story where two people go on a date and misunderstand each other : one is asking about the "body count" of the other wanting to know how many people they slept with, and the other answers seriously, a bit flabbergasted and pleased that their serial killer activities are so common and normal that this person casually asks them about it, and really glad they share the same interests and hobbies.

Rachel's the one who should be blowing up, not all of these horrid people, who're putting on acts for views

As a man, whenever a woman says she opposes feminism or women's rights, my immediate thought is, "ok, soooooo why should I care what you think or have to say?"

I didn't expect my husband to become disabled and retire by 50. Glad I always out earned him and can support our family or we'd be fucked.

My theory is that she was probably overweight or called ugly while growing up, and never got the male validation she thinks she desperately needed. Now she overcompensates for the lack of attention by becoming a pick me, and adapting the “alpha male mindset”. They’re never going to pick her tho because she’s not conventionally attractive (not insulting her look, but she doesn’t look like the kind of women those kind of men go after), and they only like that she’s basically their spokesperson.

Pearl is desperate to survive in the environment that she grew up in and ultimately rejected her. The next decade is going to be rough on her.

her chomping on her gum with her mouth open… so ladylike. so classically beautiful and wholesome.

As a woman happily married to another woman with no men in the house. I can say we DONT need men and she’s wildly indoctrinated. Very sad.

If I die and then wake up sitting around a table at a stupid misogynistic bro podcast I will know that I am in hell.

Pearl: When does a 50-50 partnership ever work lol Me: *looks at my parents with their 39 years of mariage* *looks at my 13 years of relationship with my partner with whom I have two children* Thanks Pearl, we're good 😊 Also, you can have a partner at home and it be a 50-50 partnership if you communicate well, just saying... She's not wrong when she says being at home is a lot of work too (I mean, hey, a broken clock is right twice in a day), but also, the partner that works doesn't have to sit on their ass when they come home. And it doesn't HAVE to be the mom who stays home, too. My dad was a stay-at-home parent and he was awesome!

It’s so nice to see a video of an intelligent woman addressing these clowns. ❤

Why is she always chewing? This is unbearable

I feel like in her case it is fair to critique her appearance. She's out there telling women how they have to stay thin and be all that for their husbands... while appearning to not do anything to even try to attract the kind of husband she tells every other woman they should want? She's either a complete hypocrite or the most amazing long-term troll account ever created.

I feel like this younger generation, not all, think like this. My youngest sister, about to be 27, thinks like this grown girl. She's is a total hypocrite and will deflect, demean, and just talk down to you and feel like she won the "argument". Then she wonders why we won't associate her and help her.

Living with an incurable disease is so hard, but you just have to live life day by day as it goes by (Cancer sucks)

“They will post the most unflattering photos of me” Ma’am that’s all you’re providing 🫡

Its weird how pearl not fitting any of societies standards for conventionally "attractive" woman has the audacity to tell other womanto stay thin and how to look

Didn't she say that 16 year old look better then 26 year old I wouldn't take advice from someone who never had a long term relationship

God, even her chewing the gums like that seem fake and forced....to look cool ig....how's it even possible to look fake chewing a real gum?

justPearlyThings: the pick-me that no one picked.

She’s like “rich people don’t actually flex” proceeds to flex her parents house

I think it’s funny that I actually happen to have the kind of marriage Pearl would suggest for all women. I stay home and do everything for the kids, and my husband works a lot and makes the money, and makes the big decisions about money. The reason is because I was in a domestic violence relationship, which resulted in a prolonged custody battle, and stalking. I met my husband because he had to walk me to my car every day because my ex was always waiting for me. I’m still afraid of my ex, and the court has been no help either not caring or not believing me, and thus I have come to value the safety provided by my body guard of a husband. At this point, I love to be called “Mrs Husband’s Name”, because all I want to do now is be safe and keep my babies safe and nurtured. I actually do need a man-because of other men. I’m convinced that’s why in the past it was always better to hide behind your body guard-I mean husband-because other men could stalk or rape you and probably effectively blame it on you even more often than they do now. Even when Pearl is anecdotally right she’s wrong. She’s a clock that’s not even right twice a day.

40:38 - I just really liked this bit right here! Like you said, it's a couple thing, not a compulsory heterosexual (comp-het) marriage thing. You know who's financially better-off than a married couple? 3 or 4 adults sharing a condo or a house. The more incomes chipping in on bills, the less each of you has to pay. This isn't sociology - it's just math. "A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle."

4:45 "what is a hoe statistically? More than 5 partners". I'm glad she clarified that piece of crucial data for us. I wonder what statistical model she used to come to that determination. Curious what the p-value was to determine the statistical significance... 🤦‍♂️

Rachel, these people with lazy podcasts and videos with tech issues get views because the bar is on the ground for people seeking to have their biases confirmed. They just want to hear “it’s all women’s fault” and it doesn’t matter who says it or how poorly they say it.

My gramma was born in 1910. She was a nurse. She worked graveyard so she could be home during the day while my granpa worked. So he got to sleep but she didnt. She worked her whole life. She would laugh at the pearl person.

Two major annoyances that Pearl and other misogynists spread are the "Never take dating advice from women cause women lie about what they want" and the "women will lose interest in men who have less experience with women than said women do with men" women don't lie about what they like, men are just terrible at taking and executing women's advice, and they aren't losing interest in men just cause he got rejected by other women, women arent a hivemind, everybody gets rejected, and most women I know in person and on social media have said multiple times that men who respect women enough to take no for an answer are massive green flags, another woman not liking me wont turn off my girlfriend and cause her to dump me lmao, but if I was treating women horribly and not respecting their choices, then of course women wont like me, no one wants to be a puppet for someone else to control

Didnt she say that her dad AND MOM worked in tech? Sooo... She didnt even grow up in a "traditional house hold"

Pearl has spoken openly about how toxic her home life was, with her mom pretty much telling her women are w****s and her brothers calling her ugly constantly growing up. I almost feel bad for her that she’s working through her trauma in possibly the worst way possible. Then I hear her talk shit about women and that goes away.

So many things about pearls clips make me want to scream but her talking about a masculine man made me think about her father. I’ve seen old videos of her parents and her dad is not what I would consider a masculine man. And her mom is a career woman. This is her rebelling against her parents, plain and simple. What Pearl needs therapy and she needs someone to take the Internet away for a while.

My misophonia hates the sound of Pearl chewing gum in videos

This lady is insane. She keeps loudly arguing about a life experience she's never had. Something tells me her entire account is a megacope for some ex-boyfriend who cheated on her.

She’s already aged out of the manoshpere (The say 25 is the cut off age for women). And 30 yrs old is elderly. So, what’s her endgame??? She didn’t think this through at all. She’s spewed out so much hatred & her latest unhinged takes on abuse, giving out false information & stats, is straight up demon territory. Her karma is going to be wicked.

for someone who doesnt want women to vote, she sure is opinionated and outspoken