Raising Confident Muslim Girls in the West with Farhat Amin

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The Thinking Muslim

The Thinking Muslim

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This week we explore the issues Farhat Amin raises in her new book ‘Smart Teenage Muslimah, an inspirational guide for Muslim Girls’. Farhat is concerned with Muslim girls' challenges in the West and how society impacts their sense of identity and self.
Farhat Amin addresses the challenges Muslim women and girls face in Western societies through her engagements. Her writings delve into the unfiltered realities, tackling pressing topics such as the shifting dynamics of the Muslim marriage scene, the objectification of hijab, and the unforeseen impact of modern feminism on women's well-being. Her meticulous research and insightful analysis offer a fresh Islamic perspective on these topics, encouraging readers to question long-held assumptions and engage in meaningful dialogue.
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The Thinking Muslim Podcast Episode 96
0:00-1:57 Introduction
1:57-4:57 What problem do you address among teenage Muslimas?
4:57-10:00 Who is accountable for the problems?
10:00-14:37 Books to enhance Muslim women's confidence in faith
14:37-18:14 Teaching experience in institutions with a sizeable Muslim population
18:14-20:48 Impact of feminism on young Muslim girls
20:48-26:10 Te concept of "equality" between men and women
26:10-30:11 Is your approach to young girls conservative?
30:11-32:33 Which type of Muslim woman do you think is ideal?
32:33-37:07 How significant are surroundings to teenagers, and where can one find communities that support them?
37:07-44:42 Does basic sex education expose young girls to early sexualization and rob them of their innocence?
44:42-50:24 When would you introduce a young person to a mobile phone?
50:24-53:41 How much do liberal narratives affect Muslim girls?
53:41-56:17 Are there any resources for young boys with a religious focus?
56:17-1:02:02 What do you think about parents who keep their kids out of society to protect their faith?
1:02:02-1:06:55 What can Muslim communities do to encourage young Muslim women to feel that Islam is not a problem?
1:06:55-1:07:09 Additional information

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@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
I'm grateful to have had the opportunity to speak about this extremely important subject. May Allah bless the podcast and everyone involved. I know there is a lot of work done by sincere sisters and brothers behind the scenes. (shoutout to the camera woman!) May the podcast serve as a means of Islam reaching the hearts and minds of countless individuals for years to come. Ameen.
@Kafkaesque786
@Kafkaesque786 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for an enlightening discussion.
@midnightmoonlight1597
@midnightmoonlight1597 Жыл бұрын
Interesting how you talk about women dumbing themselves down for men... this happens in practicing muslims circles too. Where men are condescending to women and even if she is knowledgeable on Islam she feels she will only be respected by the man if she pretends she doesn't know anything. If, god forbid, you have more knowledge than a man it will offend him and he will give you a dressing down. And they justify this by men are made the leaders in society by Allah.
@sihamhajji2010
@sihamhajji2010 Жыл бұрын
Amen ya Rabb
@aprilcrooks6424
@aprilcrooks6424 Жыл бұрын
Salam alikum sister farhat did u ever come to kuwait ?
@balloony1
@balloony1 Жыл бұрын
So informative, may Allah reward you dear sister
@fauziajasia2548
@fauziajasia2548 Жыл бұрын
This is a very serious issue actually and I haven’t seen enough people to academically discuss in length about this problem
@jioboy2676
@jioboy2676 Жыл бұрын
Some of the problems in today's age and it may increase in future if not Solved today- - acceptance of Feminist Ideology by Many Muslim girls...I mean WHY?? - Many Muslim girls not able to control themselves and falling in Love n then that leads to Zina. Some girls even do zina with Non muslim boys. SELF CONTROL is an Important thing which everyone needs to practice *specially* Muslim girls. - Not knowing abt Islam proprly and neither showing any in Interest to know more abt oue Deen. - Having too much focussed on this Duniya and worldly materials. - some girls r rude n Liars in behavior -Parents also not guiding children there properly These r some of the problems which is against our Muslim girls...against Islam. Its time we ALL should work unitedly stop these
@sidy-mohamedaidara7762
@sidy-mohamedaidara7762 Жыл бұрын
I was waiting for this episode ! May Allah reunites both of you in Jannah together. Ameeen
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@maryamkhan7268
@maryamkhan7268 Жыл бұрын
A significant negative societal shift is happening in relation to young Muslim women, and Farhat Amin provides an excellent analysis of this subject. Alhumdullilah, your podcast topics continue to impress and enlighten me. Keep up the great work!
@jioboy2676
@jioboy2676 Жыл бұрын
What rest of the Muslims and Muslim women r doing abt it??
@Into_Must-reads
@Into_Must-reads Жыл бұрын
Seldom do the people of influence consider critiquing such discourses only, unlike M/s. Farhat Amin Ma'am: she comes highly recommended. It's been a learning experience listening to her always. May the two of you rise high; shine bright! Amen!
@moniahmed
@moniahmed Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@khuram72
@khuram72 Жыл бұрын
As ever, an incredibly well put together podcast addressing all the challenges our daughters face in the modern world. It is clear that this husband and wife team are working together to inspire our children to think more and not simply be slaves to societal trends and fashion. May Allah swt bless and reward both these amazing people with good in this life and the next.
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Jazakallahkhair for sharing your thoughts and we are grateful for your duas, your family are always in our duas
@fauziajasia2548
@fauziajasia2548 Жыл бұрын
MashaAllah...may Allah increase His barakah in your lives together
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@mariameraj1231
@mariameraj1231 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Maam, to have been here for the podcast so our interest!
@user-ir5lh4tl8x
@user-ir5lh4tl8x Жыл бұрын
Great podcast ! Love the book too !! "Smart Teenage Muslimah" is a must-read for Muslim parents seeking to nurture their daughters' physical and spiritual well-being with wisdom, sensitivity, and Islamic values.
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Jzk for your positive feedback
@shazia5517
@shazia5517 Жыл бұрын
Really liked this episode, very informative
@obobobobobobobob-ty6ie
@obobobobobobobob-ty6ie Жыл бұрын
Excellent interview! Many men will benefit from understanding the psychological manipulation bombarded on young girls by watching this interview
@itaz6276
@itaz6276 Жыл бұрын
Many men would understand from being taught Muslim women’s rights in Islam which they have denied them fri decades. They need to stop using feminism as a blanket excuse to blame women for their woes and realise that it’s for decades men thag haven’t given women their rights in Islam which has led to them demanding their rights
@sammu
@sammu Жыл бұрын
You married well sir. Sister is very intelligent and well spoken. May Allah bless you both for your work.
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@itaz6276
@itaz6276 Жыл бұрын
I would always teach my daughters to have careers and work and have their own income as well as a family - just like I was taught … that’s not contrary to Islam … it’s what many Muslim sahabas did .. career isn’t a bad word .. I have mashallah lovely children and a career so that I don’t have to be subject to abusive financial control as many Muslim women in society are
@ultrazanark3526
@ultrazanark3526 Ай бұрын
Assalam waleikoum you're right but don't forget to teach them to not give up on their principle and dignity in order to pursue this career. May Allah bless you and your children.
@safooraraja2960
@safooraraja2960 Жыл бұрын
Jazakallah sister for a very in depth analysis, I’ll definitely listen to your podcast with my daughters inshallah
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
That is so good to hear sister
@zohaibkhanniazi6825
@zohaibkhanniazi6825 7 ай бұрын
Both are legends.
@GokuBlack-sn5dr
@GokuBlack-sn5dr Жыл бұрын
great work we need more podcasts like this
@peacenow6618
@peacenow6618 Жыл бұрын
May Allah Accept your works, and make it a means of acceptance and Guidance for the Ummah!
@moniahmed
@moniahmed Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@saadet7226
@saadet7226 Жыл бұрын
Great episode about very relevant topics Muslimahs face in society. 👏🏼
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
alhamdulillah
@binishjamil7945
@binishjamil7945 Жыл бұрын
MashaaAllah such an important topic discussed beautifully, I really appreciate the effort everyone put into it to bring forward such informative podcasts for us parents, jazakallah o khairan kaseerah,really appreciated.
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Jazakallah khair for sharing your thoughts and words of encouragment
@AbuZee1
@AbuZee1 Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah, thank you for this.
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah
@wisalanas
@wisalanas Жыл бұрын
JazakAllah khair for this episode..very beneficial alhamdulillah..much love,from dubai
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah
@marykmotherhood
@marykmotherhood Жыл бұрын
Great podcast Episode. Allahumma Barik :) Keep you Farhat in my duas
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Jzk
@yassin5926
@yassin5926 Жыл бұрын
This is good job for Muslims and Deen. Jazaakallah khayr.
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah
@AdamNalg
@AdamNalg Жыл бұрын
May Allah bless this podcast and the work that brother Muhammad and the team invest into this project to keep it prospering . I think all of us here would agree that the distinctive feature of this podcast is that it really makes us think and ponder upon various issues of our Deen rather than just digest the content to fill the time before sleep (after listening to the podcast with brother Hamza, I spent days thinking about the issue of ikhlas and the sincerity of our actions as well as decided to get back to the writings of Ghazali on purification of the heart which I left half-read a while ago). It’s an honor to have such brilliant intellectuals in our Ummah like you and your wife Farhat, which gave an amazing talk on yet another important problem that our communities face today. Thank you and may Allah make it easy for you to work on this beautiful project. Ameen.
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Jzk for your sincere detailed feedback and ameen to your duas
@tashifjilani1732
@tashifjilani1732 Жыл бұрын
Great collabaration. :) one of the best episodes featured on this channel so far. jazakallah khair :)
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Ай бұрын
jzk for your positive comments
@tashifjilani1732
@tashifjilani1732 Ай бұрын
@@farhatamin your welcome Farhat.😄 May allah reward you and your husband in the akhirah';for all the good work you've done, inshallah :) salaam from dubai
@asadullah23200
@asadullah23200 Жыл бұрын
May Allah reward you both for the much needed discussion of this topic!
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Ай бұрын
ameen
@ibiadls192
@ibiadls192 Жыл бұрын
Such a sensitive and vital issue that is so rarely discussed. JazakAllahokhairun to the host and the sister for sharing your views. I pray this is one of many discussions on this topic.
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Ай бұрын
inshallah
@MSeekingKnowledge
@MSeekingKnowledge Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah
@mkansar1
@mkansar1 Жыл бұрын
Very good discussion. I heard the discussion on the Google podcast. We need more people like Farhat. Jazak Allah Sister
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
alhamdulillah
@sofwakhan2871
@sofwakhan2871 Жыл бұрын
MashaAllah what an excellent interview and discussion. May Allah swt reward you abundantly with His mercy, health and barakah InshaAllah ameen. Would love to hear a similar type of interview on the struggles/solutions for single muslimahs in finding a spouse in the west.
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Jzk🤲 for your duas and your suggestion
@sofiagold4255
@sofiagold4255 Жыл бұрын
JazakaAllaahu khair to Farhat for her research and time to write this fascinating book. So long overdue in the community. I think we also need a man to write a similar book for our teenage boys too. We have so much wealth amongst the British Muslims, why can't we establish more successful secondary schools for our kids? I'm glad that Farhat has pointed out the biggest flaw in modern Western societies, the absence of God. This is where all problems stem from. Hence the complete destruction of Western societies unfolding infront of our eyes.
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
I think that's a brilliant idea our boys need a book like this aswell
@Preciousillusions
@Preciousillusions Жыл бұрын
She’s your wife! Been consuming her content and yours but never thought you were related
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah, I pray you have found my content beneficial 🤲
@zamiluddin637
@zamiluddin637 Жыл бұрын
Such a brilliant and engaging discussion.. we should all take heed from the sister on the advice given, mosque 🕌 today are just not enough as they provide little or no facility for understanding Islam, so quran teaching forced upon kids and teenage years abandoned and many parents think they done thier bit, add to that the imams that teach Islam are low paid and cannot connect with the children they teach, but teachers can be inspirational at school and they could be atheists. I would suggest evryone buy the sisters book and implement the advice given inshallah
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Jzk for your support and positive comments
@HumbleServantofAllah642
@HumbleServantofAllah642 9 ай бұрын
thank you for inviting a proper muslim woman with a proper hijab, and her face is not covered with make up. I am fed up with all those so called muslim shows and dawah who invite muslim women with no proper hijab, and eye lashes, make up. I am a muslim woman who doesn't wear a head scarf and I don't want to see in muslim and dawah shows muslim women without a proper headscarf and covered with make up.
@ishrathasan6130
@ishrathasan6130 Жыл бұрын
MashaAllah such an enlightening conversation! But sister probably thinks faster than she speaks, which is why she starts a sentence and without finishing it, moves to another sentence. Overall, often its appearing she is not sure what she wants to say.
@NiaPgn
@NiaPgn 2 ай бұрын
Ma sha Allah I love that you and your wife did this together!
@Youbettersaysubhanallah
@Youbettersaysubhanallah Жыл бұрын
Subhan Allah
@cssc939
@cssc939 Жыл бұрын
Important discussion! Allah guide us to educate and protect our youth.
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@floragonseth2886
@floragonseth2886 Жыл бұрын
Ma shaa Allah, may Allah reward you for your efforts! Very important and wisely put discussion. I am waiting to read her book and her views on criticizing liberal feminist perspectiv. It is absolutely needed that we have informed critical reading on this political movement borned in the west for white privileged women. Also important to point out there is internal debate and contradiction within this political tradition. Liberal feminism is also well framed by racism and imperialism and used to target browned (and muslim) men. So it is definitely not our answer but as the sister highlight : what is the answer we give to our young (and less young) sister's difficulties? El hamdoulillah discovering the work you are doing give a lot of hopes for the next generation in shaa Allah!
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Jzk for sharing your thoughts and positive feedback
@itaz6276
@itaz6276 Жыл бұрын
This is the issue with Muslims now a days - they see feminism as only one thing/ white liberal feminism. There are many writers including African writers who talk about how there are different forms of feminism and white feminism doesn’t stand or represent them Exactly like that there are also Muslim feminist that demand their god given rights but Muslim men label them as feminist as shame them to giving up their rights as if they are optional
@itaz6276
@itaz6276 Жыл бұрын
The answer is Muslim Men need to be taught to respect Muslim women and let them Have g Eid rights and equity that Islam provides so these women don’t have to look else where
@floragonseth2886
@floragonseth2886 Жыл бұрын
I would not oppose "muslim men" and "muslim women" as two opposite categories and explain the difficulties of the second being imposed by the first category. This is the feminist liberal agenda and it is a racist one. State, imperialism and colonial power are more guilty of muslim women suffering than the men of their community who offently are their best supporters. Further in so many case muslim men are under much violence than muslim women. There is no muslim women in Guantanamo and very few palestinien women in Israeli prison. This because imperialist power target muslim men first. So we need to get red of this liberal opposition men/women and revive our islamic tradition where you are right muslim women's rights should be adress and preserved in shaa Allah.
@lucybarker7959
@lucybarker7959 Жыл бұрын
Jzk, learnt so much alhamdulillah
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
So happy to hear you found it beneficial
@ummemaan123
@ummemaan123 Жыл бұрын
Amazing discussion and such a great asset for our communities to have such women speaking up❤
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Ай бұрын
jzk for taking the time to share your thoughts, Alhamdulillah keeps us motivated to continue working for Allah
@peacenow6618
@peacenow6618 Жыл бұрын
جزاک اللہ خیرا
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah
@cabdijaamac8489
@cabdijaamac8489 Жыл бұрын
What a great discussion. Highly recommended BOOK TO READ. VERY academic topic. Every parent and teachers should listen.
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Ай бұрын
So happy to hear you found the book beneficial
@afnandridi9595
@afnandridi9595 Жыл бұрын
Jazakumullahu khairan for this important topic- it feels sometimes like no one has a Muslim woman’s back. I appreciate the importance of empowering us when it comes to this view that Muslim girls and women need saving from our culture and religion- a view which manufactures consent for western neo-colonial and imperial policies which harm those same girls and women, as well as harming us here domestically. It’s everything to do with western superiority (as if western culture is not “patriarchal”, to us that word, as the guest touches upon. And it’s great the conversation is being had about empowering Muslim girls internally. That being said, I did take issue with the assumption that a man shouldn’t raise their own child and that it’s a woman’s job- they’re their child just as much as the mothers. Perhaps a clearer exploration of what the issue is with a feminist framework would have been appreciated also. I think women should do what they want and appreciate that the definition of women’s liberation in employment is useful to the economy first and foremost perhaps, but you can’t deny the importance for empowering women of having plans outside the marriage in case that doesn’t work out and of ijtihad relating to family issues in Islam to empower Muslim women internally as well. That being said it’s great the conversation is being had.
@adama9032
@adama9032 Жыл бұрын
So many young Muslim women wear thr hajab but believe in feminist theory..both can not co exist
@rnm1643
@rnm1643 10 ай бұрын
I'm a young Muslim girl living in the West and I absolutely enjoyed this episode!!! Thanks so much! I hope you can make many more youth-related episodes if possible! I relate to so much of it - the books we are taught in school and how mainstream feminist ideas/atheist views are kind of pushed onto students, islamophobia due to hijab etc.
@momlife1123
@momlife1123 8 ай бұрын
You can move to a Muslim country and you won’t have to complain about the west
@rnm1643
@rnm1643 8 ай бұрын
@@momlife1123 I'd love to move to a Muslim country like my own country but the West ruined it and colonized it in the past and I unfortunately have no hopes of realizing my dreams there (because Western intervention has wrecked those countries).
@momlife1123
@momlife1123 8 ай бұрын
@@rnm1643 thats interesting; how can you claim Western intervention ruined those countries? Muslim majority countries have Sharia law, first class infrastructure, healthcare, education etc. Look at Saudi Arabia and Qatar. These countries have very little to no western influence. They are fully governed by Muslims. Pakistan, Afghanistan, Egypt, Jordan, all great places to live and all Muslim governments. Why wouldnt you want to live in these places? Whats wrong with them? There is zero western interference and hasn't been for many decades.
@alishaaaax
@alishaaaax 7 ай бұрын
@@momlife1123that’s a lie there’s a lot of western influence. Right now in Gaza people are dying and Muslim leaders don’t care and are having a CONCERT? Which is clearly forbidden in Islam. There’s a lot of impact that u don’t know of. Though regardless I wanna feel confident in wearing hijab and not being so judged while also having hate crimes imposed on me by westerners. I was born here because my parents moved here. Inshallah I’ll be able to go to a Muslim country ameen. I’ve visited a lot of them and that’s where I feel most comfortable thought it is extremely expensive. Country like Pakistan and Afghanistan are clearly undeveloped and by no means I wanna live there for the rest of my life but some of my family relocate from there.
@momlife1123
@momlife1123 7 ай бұрын
@@alishaaaax well you cant have it all. I suggest you move to Saudi Arabia. Anyplace where the Hijab is mandatory should make you feel most comfortable. Western countries are not friendly to Muslims, nor should they be. The values of Western Democracies are in direct conflict with the values of Islam. Islam is not only a religion; it is also a political and justice system. Sharia law and western laws are in direct conflict. You and any family you make should definitely leave the West. Just get an arranged marriage to a nice guy in Saudi, Egypt, UAE, Qatar, etc.
@nazeerkhan9638
@nazeerkhan9638 Жыл бұрын
Thanks you
@nazeerkhan9638
@nazeerkhan9638 Жыл бұрын
Germany
@nazeerkhan9638
@nazeerkhan9638 Жыл бұрын
Nice you can
@rabt_islamic_app
@rabt_islamic_app Жыл бұрын
Masha’Allah
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
JZK
@sjokomo3
@sjokomo3 Жыл бұрын
Mashallah May Allah bless your marriage🙏🏾
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@zohaibkhanniazi6825
@zohaibkhanniazi6825 7 ай бұрын
Wonderful 👍
@Youbettersaysubhanallah
@Youbettersaysubhanallah Жыл бұрын
استغفر الله الحمد لله سبحان الله وبحمده عدد خلقه ورضا نفسه وزنة عرشه ومداد كلماته
@shabirmohammed
@shabirmohammed 11 ай бұрын
Great viewing with much to digest
@InfiniteCuriosity1210
@InfiniteCuriosity1210 Жыл бұрын
These movies are not an accident there are very sinister intentions behind it. This is classic Ideological Subversion,
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
True
@user-je1bu6wh5o
@user-je1bu6wh5o 9 ай бұрын
When one focusses on the concept of "happiness", one will never reach such a moving target. You hit the target right in the middle. When children are trained to not like the way they are, then business can sell the "right" solution for ever.
@s3youtubevids156
@s3youtubevids156 Жыл бұрын
It feels like to understand the problems with our liberal environment from a Muslim perspective you have to go back to the enlightenment and earlier, which lay muslims and kids who have bought into the 'progressive' liberal world view find it difficult to grasp
@shanaziqbal6917
@shanaziqbal6917 5 ай бұрын
The segment about mobile phones is very interesting. I am a lecturer and when discussing social media and mobile phones, the younger students wished they were never given a mobile phone. They talk about how it makes them anti-social and gives them access to things they should not see. I personally think that smartphones should not be given to children under the age of 16. Before 16 they have too much going on both physically and emotionally and then they have access to all the wrong things on their phone. This is a very interesting discussion. I feel that Masjids and parents need to step up.
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Ай бұрын
I agree with you 100%
@fatimaja7136
@fatimaja7136 10 ай бұрын
Did anyone find the books she mentioned after the 11th minute?
@savashzaynal6502
@savashzaynal6502 11 ай бұрын
May Allah give me and my family neighbours knowledable and consciousnes muslims like both in this life and in Jannah.
@hurataimad136
@hurataimad136 Жыл бұрын
Read the Quran, let it guide you, and become more Quran centered. Hearing Allah SWT you will come to realize very easily that Islam isn't misogynist or misandrist. To counter misogyny isn't best to become a misandrist like feminists preach. If a man is a misogynist then remind him it is against Allah SWT. Men and women aren't the same, that is just an undeniable reality, so to force equality means that one group is undermined unfairly and another group is obliged on things they just unable to deal with physically and mentally. Equality is just oppression and unfairness.
@sparklemotion8377
@sparklemotion8377 11 ай бұрын
Thank you mr Obvious, when your home is invaded and you are overpowered with force, just remind them that home invasion is illegal while they're crushing your scull.....
@hurataimad136
@hurataimad136 11 ай бұрын
@@sparklemotion8377 I haven't got a clue what you are on about. My guess is you got triggered by "If a man is a misogynist then remind him it is against Allah SWT". If so, then talk about taking someone out of context. Misogyny isn't male violence. Who knows??? Maybe that guy is a misandrist doing violence to that woman.
@amannasar
@amannasar 9 ай бұрын
iman ki roshni our sister
@deepsareen1
@deepsareen1 Жыл бұрын
If there is truly no movie presenting positive aspects of traditional Muslim Women Way of Life; that may well be because of the generally prevailing real-life situation in society. After all Muslim women do face violence and discrimination in the form of Honor Killings, Half inheritance and Half credibility (as witness), Misogyny, Polygamy, Triple Talaq, Muttah, Dowry and Domestic Violence etc. that is prescribed in the religious texts and social mores in Islamic (and to a considerable extent even non-Muslim) societies in South Asia. So there is greater need to salvage the females in Muslim societies than in West by good souls like Farhat.
@h.burhan8762
@h.burhan8762 11 ай бұрын
Ma shaa Allah this was very informative and great advices. Jazakum Allah khairan for sharing your thoughts in the book. I hold gatherings at a community for girls and will be reading you book in shaa Allah. I know of a book for our smart teenage boys which is called ‘ Futuwwah’ by Imam Dauwd Walid. Please check it out. May Allah bless you all for your hard work!
@itaz6276
@itaz6276 Жыл бұрын
I have always been confident in my religion and from a young age chose myself to wear a hijab as a feminist move to not be judged by my looks and be judged by how I speak:behave. But I still identify as a feminist not a white feminist but a feminist The problem is muslimmwomen are being taught as well as men that feminism is a slur word now Feminism is a fight for women’s rights - not necessarily blind equality as white feminism demands but women’s rights that Islam even grants
@sparklemotion8377
@sparklemotion8377 11 ай бұрын
It shouldn't be about feminism. The problem is misogyny. Muslims act like it's one of the 5 pillars of Islam.
@theletterw3875
@theletterw3875 5 ай бұрын
Here in the states, the biggest problem in making the masjid a destination for youth, is undoubtedly the elderly generation of men who spend all their time jn the masjid. The expectation that they can cause trouble and get into other people's business because something doesn't make sense to them is absurd. As a convert of 16 years i have to honestly report that reapect for elders has gone too far, they are largely unchallenged even when forcing jahil on the community. We need to stand up for ourselves and our youth.
@josezighe8631
@josezighe8631 Ай бұрын
A GIRL FROM MOGADISHU IS A GOOD MUSLIM MOVIE.
@sarahjoines9343
@sarahjoines9343 Ай бұрын
The show she was talking about was written and made by a Muslim women
@kbrnsr
@kbrnsr Ай бұрын
The theory of evolution is wrong according to salafi-wahabi scholars since the 1970s... but muslim scholars have been discussing the subject for the last 1100 years... I have faith that there's probably a lot of thought and reflection put into her statements, but it doesn't seem that apparent based on the podcast, will probably need to get her book from the local library and check it out, my daughter isn't even one yet, but no harm in being prepared
@user-je1bu6wh5o
@user-je1bu6wh5o 9 ай бұрын
It's "crazy" that teenage children rely on other teenage children to navigate the adult life. How could this be logical?
@axesha444
@axesha444 11 ай бұрын
13:10
@mufunyiibrahim3655
@mufunyiibrahim3655 Жыл бұрын
At the end no society, religion or community will escape from feminism. We better learn to live with it
@itaz6276
@itaz6276 Жыл бұрын
This is the issue with Muslims now a days - they see feminism as only one thing/ white liberal feminism. There are many writers including African writers who talk about how there are different forms of feminism and white feminism doesn’t stand or represent them Exactly like that there are also Muslim feminist that demand their god given rights but Muslim men label them as feminist as shame them to giving up their rights as if they are optional
@itaz6276
@itaz6276 Жыл бұрын
It’s stupid to claim feminism is the problem when the problem for decades has been toxic masculinity in Islamic cultures
@itaz6276
@itaz6276 Жыл бұрын
What’s needed is men in Islam to be taught to give women their god given rights in Islam .. and not treat those rights as optional that women should be shamed to give up such as a right to her own income, a right to divorce and not accept a co wife And accept that there is a thing as Islamic feminism - fighting fir god given rights for muslim women and their equity Then you wouldn’t have the issue of Muslim girls looking elsewhere Muslim men need to learn to respect Muslim women
@itaz6276
@itaz6276 Жыл бұрын
It’s easy for men to act victim not and pretend feminism is the problem cos they can no longer treat women as household slaves
@TheBhumbak
@TheBhumbak 11 ай бұрын
Try to raise the Confident Muslim Girls in the soudi arebia.
@HaleyChain-vw8rr
@HaleyChain-vw8rr Жыл бұрын
It must be difficult raising those Muslims girls, you knowing and they knowing, everything they achieved academically is down to a secular , Liberal and predominantly Christian country.
@dhoyongjeong5006
@dhoyongjeong5006 Жыл бұрын
It is really important justice is more important than equality, The western ideology has conflated the two when it comes to the men and women, as if justice cannot be achieved between the two sexes without equality. The western ideologues have contended erroneously that differences between sexes means inequality between them, and the inequality between them is injustice. It is based on this propositions that the feminism, and now also transgenderism (gender fluidity and endless number of genders), has now reached far the ridiculous point of denying fundamental differences between men and women created by Allah swt. Yet, such western ideologies, however much they try to brainwash people, can never escape the core differences between the two sexes from the beginning, and the related differences in the roles and responsibilities between the two assigned by Allah swt. It is those evitable differences that renders it impossible for men and women to be equal in all areas of human life and society. Therefore, the western ideological attempt to equalize men and women in every aspect of society, which was, is, and will be impossible. Hence, the liberal indoctrination has failed, is failing, and will fail. This is why western liberals despise Islam, as Islam clearly states the truth about the gender differences that those ideologues can never defeat, no matter how often they lie. But, instead of honestly confronting and recognizing the fundamental flaws in their ideology, those western bigots sinfully blame Islam. Those nonbelievers do not understand or cannot accept the truth that no human society, in spite of all its material wealth, military prowess, ideological prejudice and bigotry, ultimately can ever change the intentions and creations of Allah swt. Islam is straight in teaching that since men and Women are different in many areas, they are not and cannot be equal in every role and responsibility. Thus, we humans are ordained by Allah swt to acknowledge, respect, and embrace those differences and reject the chase for the fantasy of "equality" in every field. Total equality between men and women is impossible, so it is not and cannot be a moral goal. A goal for humanity is something that is ordained and approved by Allah, and Allah has never commanded us to go for an impossible and thus wrong goal like complete equality between men and women. What Allah the goal that we humans should strive for is what is right - justice.
@aminathomson774
@aminathomson774 6 ай бұрын
Salams Sister Farhat, please see the link I sent you.
@aminah761
@aminah761 Жыл бұрын
Is this ur husband ? Masha Allah . Great reminders for our young daughters . Shaytan is busy deceiving us 😢😢😢
@farhatamin
@farhatamin Жыл бұрын
yes, alhamdulillah
@taminaaslam6603
@taminaaslam6603 4 ай бұрын
Is it just me or anyone else find the guest aggressive! Her thoughts r all over the place & she’s missing the end point of where she’s starts off 🤦🏻‍♀️ Iv watched many of the programmes on this channel & this is the first time I’m not understanding the guest
@asmodeuskingofdemons
@asmodeuskingofdemons Жыл бұрын
26:40 ms amin did you unironically just say that being open-minded is bad
@wolf9331
@wolf9331 9 ай бұрын
Sister you can't convince people living in denials. We Muslims live for Akhira simple as that. Of course ours predecessors worked hard to give civilization to the world.. Donya hassana and Akhira hassna, like you said Balance. Imagine the wisdom of Allah Compassion and Mercy nothing comparing. House without trust is the devil kingdom. Surah Rum 30/21 "And one of His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves so that you may find comfort in them. And He has placed between you compassion and mercy. Surely in this are signs for people who reflect..
@ismangil
@ismangil 11 ай бұрын
59:43 Evolution doesn't say we evolved from apes.
@Starzig123
@Starzig123 6 ай бұрын
20:30 you could say that why don't muslim men choose not to be visibly muslim.
@user-ix5qd1bp4q
@user-ix5qd1bp4q Ай бұрын
Translation Transformer in Masjids , to help Halal Legal credit Unions ?To help To 🔍 Life , s Partner?
@feliciathal4144
@feliciathal4144 5 ай бұрын
This is not a new issue.... I have been Muslim for 30 years and this has been the undercurrent attitude since I can remember
@mugeesa_bint_hamid
@mugeesa_bint_hamid Жыл бұрын
Invite Daniel haqiqatjou someday
@nemrutbaba
@nemrutbaba 10 ай бұрын
Equality. Great idea like communism. Why should there be rich or poor? Give the guy (or gal) who wants to build and manage a business (like automobile or aircraft manufacturing) the same as the man who wants to watch football all day.
@ahmetbalamir7136
@ahmetbalamir7136 11 ай бұрын
Why the men rewarded with Virgine in Paradise for being a good Muslim, what is reward for the female believers
@khadijabenassou8996
@khadijabenassou8996 9 ай бұрын
STOP burdening the women in Name of Allaah ❤❤❤The Almighty The Most Just The Most Loving The Most Merciful The Creator The Providor... This is from your pagan ahadith books written by arrogant people with a disease in their heart. Covering the women is also sexualize the women. What do you not understand??? Teach your men to STOP harras women. Simple.
@FaisalAzad
@FaisalAzad 10 ай бұрын
On my way back from work, i see men going to work and i see women going to work. We can generally know why the men are going to spend the next 8 or 9 hours of the day in the office. I want to know why the women need to do the same. If they have children, they prioritize their own goal over the taking care of their children. The women who have no children are worst off: because they wait until very late to get married. Don't don't even get married. Some have dogs to replace their loneliness. If women realizes the amount of injustice feminism has done to them, they would flee immediately.
@itaz6276
@itaz6276 Жыл бұрын
Men are not automatically the head of the family - they have to be the head of their family by their mannerisms and provisions… just cos ur born with male reproductive organs doesn’t mean you can be the head of the family in Islam if you neglect your Islamic and family responsibilities Vague statements on feminism etc and male heads of family are not useful unless u go into it You state there’s different types of feminism but then only talk about one type- white feminism - not mention of women’s rights and feminism in Islam
@Javed6129
@Javed6129 Жыл бұрын
Neither does this farhat offer any solution other than blabbin on about brand Islam 😂
@Youbettersaysubhanallah
@Youbettersaysubhanallah Жыл бұрын
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