“She manages the money. I ignore it. What’s the problem?”

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Ramit Sethi of I Will Teach You To Be Rich talks to Carrie and Taylor. Both 33, they’re unmarried with no kids, earning good incomes in the Nashville area. Their CSP checks out-Carrie does a great job managing their money-but she’s no longer willing to do it alone. Taylor’s upbringing taught him to ignore it. Can he be convinced to change his ways?
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@ramitsethi Жыл бұрын

0:00 Please remember: These are real people who had the courage to come on my podcast and ask for help. Would you be willing to come on this podcast and share every detail of your financial life? Feel free to leave comments based on what you think, but remember that we are here to help in a supportive way, not to demean and criticize. Download the Conscious Spending Plan so you can use your money GUILT-FREE: iwt.com/csp-youtube

@deirdrekiely6187 Жыл бұрын

Add these things up: 1. She applied to the show ALONE 2. She said she's sick of Venmo-ing --> wants to get married and have a much more blended life with him..and he knows that 3. He doesnt care what she does with her money (big red flag) 4. He travels a lot for work 5. To him, finance conversations are about money, to her, money conversations are about their possible future. Girl, 8 years and no ring. It ain't coming. Cut your losses.

@user-tv3dg8yg3h 10 ай бұрын

Agree! When a man wants to get married, he will move mountains.

@milivaro 10 ай бұрын

Exactly! They went in circles and this is deep down the issue.

@megansgrant3737 Жыл бұрын

I am constantly amazed how Ramit gently teaches/demonstrates the balance between being very clear with what we say (he would add on "because" or "why" when I thought it was the end of a sentence and knowing we often edit ourselves when communicating) and stating things without the "fluff." A thought that often comes to mind when watching a variety of shows is how the father-figure plays a role in both parties' reactions and responses.

@annettepaul7129 Жыл бұрын

I'd love to see couples that are doing it right and their strategies. Even if they're not doing it Ramit's way. Would love to see Ramit and his wife in the hot seat with a 3rd party interviewing them too

@MNP208 11 ай бұрын

That would be awesome!! 😂

@Betybobety Жыл бұрын

So many things come into play in relationships that permeate all areas. Women-men dynamics. Societal expectations. That whole "never ask for what should be offered" type of thing. Strong women and the struggle to get what they want, but not slip into the mommy of the duo. It's hard to be on the same level and get what need.

@deirdrekiely6187 Жыл бұрын

Huge Red Flag: Like Carrie said, when they talk in generalities, they're on the same page. But when she tries to get real and drill down to make concrete plans for moving forward *together*, (AFTER 8 LONG YEARS!!), he shuts down. RED FLAG! This is a classic case of someone (her) being perpetually strung along with vague promises of a future together. Carrie is the one pushing the relationship. I wish Carrie would see this. She's wasting her best (fertile) years on this "nice" but fundamentally non-committal dude.

@woboznz 11 ай бұрын

100% agree... sadly the writing is on the wall. He's just not the man she hopes he'll be. He cannot possibly change enough. She needs to walk away

@milivaro 10 ай бұрын

Yup, that’s what happens when you stay solely for “potential”

@jessymadsen2699 2 ай бұрын

I thought the same thing! Like if he wanted to commit he would have and I think that’s part of her frustration/sadness with the situation. She sees he’s just not that into her and doesn’t want to plan and build a future with her. I hope I’m wrong!

@Truthwhethayukikeitornah 26 күн бұрын

Lol guarantee you have skeletons in your closet too my friend. Easy to judge someone you dont know on KZfaq to make yourself feel better. Your not fooling anyone.

@ST-rj8iu Жыл бұрын

My father told me one thing about relationships. "What you see is what you get". Stop trying to make people be someone they are not. Some people never grow up and they don't want to....

@zoraster3749 Жыл бұрын

“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. People know themselves much better than you do. That’s why it’s important to stop expecting them to be something other than who they are.” Maya Angelou “More often than not, things and people are as they appear.” Malcom Forbes

@janaleo1239 11 ай бұрын

But give people a chance to change and grow. There are times when people change because something isn’t working for them. It happens.

@ST-rj8iu 11 ай бұрын

@@janaleo1239 They change because they want to, not because of some one else. It is one thing when you are 20 years old. This guy is 33. If he is not motivated, he is not motivated. He is who he is. Not everybody is going to like you. She wants him to be more money driven. He simply is not. Accept him for who he is or move on. You are not loving a person, you are hurting them by constantly telling them they are not enough. It is suffocating and hurtful. He doesn't need to keep hearing how he needs to be better. He is happy with himself.

@erasmoestrada4260 11 ай бұрын

😊

@milivaro 10 ай бұрын

Yup! Don’t fall in love with “potential”.

@nickrector1172 Жыл бұрын

My wife and I have pretty similar dynamics. Still growing around this, but one thing that has come up is she really wants me to lead. What that looks like is vision casting for where our family is going. My wife still covers all of the logistics and details, but me bringing up the conversation and having regular cadences, annually and quarterly, and setting a direction for us to put her project management skill set into place is super helpful. If he's like me he'll still struggle executing because of needing to exercise discipline and focus on long term plans, but working on it together is really good! Best of luck and God bless to y'all!

@alexisballard1459 Жыл бұрын

Wow this one hit home! I’m a 22 year old type A “Carrie” and ironically I’m also a project manager! I used to think letting some of the financial control go would hurt me because of a lack of trust i grew up around, but my boyfriend and i worked through it and I know to clearly ask for what I need when I need it, and we have those “free flowing money and future conversations” that Carrie said she ultimately wants. I hope they get there!

@mmp495 8 ай бұрын

This was such a touching session. They both have so much love and compassion for one another.

@workinprogresssince1974 Жыл бұрын

A traditional British dynamic used to be that the men went out to work long, hard hours, came back and gave their wife the paycheck and she would settle all the bills. If he was lucky he got enough for a pint down the pub. That of course is a very old way things used to be when finances used to be hand to mouth and husbands were more likely to slide off down the pub if the money wasn't extracted from them quick. For me growing up Dad did all the money stuff and Mum ran the house. I tried to be the one in control of money in relationships, but I just made a rod for my own back because I always ended up with partners were financially incompetent or just didn't care about money and then I just got frustrated. It's really interesting looking at how other households manage their financial dynamics.

@workinprogresssince1974 Жыл бұрын

@@anon1407 What does my profile photo show?

@laurenstylish Жыл бұрын

I love this couple, and have faith they can keep growing together ❤

@surgtechbae 11 ай бұрын

Don’t ever stop making these videos Ramit!!! You should be a money psychologist!

@darakke 29 күн бұрын

He basically is.

@emilyneumann3329 Жыл бұрын

This situation is so relatable for me. My ex fiancé is very similar to Taylor, and I empathize with Carrie. I tried so hard to get aligned on our goals, plan together, but it was something he couldn’t bring himself to do. I wish this couple the best.

@melissamedina15 Жыл бұрын

Wow, Taylor definitely needs a lot of support 🥺, his vulnerability was everything! He truly cares and wants to change but it’s hard for him due to all the conditioning growing up and you can see that. I wish them both the best.

@JaS.Arc4d14 Жыл бұрын

I love, as an Australian, that you would love an Australian accent. I've just recently started watching both your KZfaq channel and then amazing show on Netflix. I've learned so much, so thankyou.

@lenaonmealways4193 Жыл бұрын

I too am the accountant in our family. Money burns a hole in my husband's pocket. I have to rein him in. But, the good news is we both make the big money decisions.

@alexisballard1459 Жыл бұрын

I was the “assistant” in my family! No one knows how to call a doctor but me😅

@lenaonmealways4193 Жыл бұрын

@@alexisballard1459 🤣👍

@JulsMWK1995 9 ай бұрын

Correction to quote Taylor said. Money is not the root of evil. The actual quote is “the LOVE of money is the root of all kinds of evil”. People get that saying mixed up and it affects how they see money.

@JulsMWK1995 9 ай бұрын

A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children,And the wealth of the sinner is stored up for [the hands of] the righteous. Prov.13.22 That is in his contrast to what he said about “can’t take it with you”. A good man leaves an inheritance for his children. “The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty.” Proverbs 21:5

@nicholemullen263 9 ай бұрын

Wow. Spot on. I love how he brings the couples together and not make it a fight.

@hrhsophiathefirst4060 Жыл бұрын

Great video. I am in a similar marriage, I manage the finances, investments etc. but my husband and I do talk about major things like why we invest where and why. He does not get excited like I do calculating compound interest or figuring out tax strategies but I also do not get excited by why the heat pump psi is blah blah blah only that it saves me money!

@deirdrekiely6187 Жыл бұрын

This couple is not married though. Big difference.

@dondinero718 Жыл бұрын

Another great episode!

@szablicka 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for this moving episode❤❤❤❤

@topseekrit Жыл бұрын

I love seeing these patterns play out when the woman earns more than the man. The man is almost always lackadaisical and he feels like he's not enough because he doesn't make as much as her or isn't as financially savvy as her, which forces the woman to be the "mom" and carry the burden of making all the financial decisions by herself. She resents him and he withdraws even more. The cycle just keeps going. It's very fascinating. We as women, have so much power. Gotta give these types of men very specific instructions to follow, you can't just say I want you to be an equal partner or try to get them to care, which is still a lot on the woman's part, but better than being upset.

@TeKnoVKNG23 Жыл бұрын

I'm more curious about why she waited 8 years, it seems she could have easily found a more compatible partner in that time period. I'm thinking that after 2-3 years when it was clear things weren't working out, I would have moved on from the situation and let it become someone else's problem.

@topseekrit Жыл бұрын

It’s probably guilt. He’s lost a lot of people and she probably didn’t want to feel like she’s leaving at a time when he’s most vulnerable. She probably feels guilty for leaving a man who isn’t necessarily treating her bad, but he’s just not what she really wants. So many reasons women stay when they don’t have the confidence to leave.

@deirdrekiely6187 Жыл бұрын

@TeKnoVKNG23 So many women have trouble detaching after they enter a relationship, and they wait for a man to change (dumb). They play down red flags in favor of love.

@dawn6275 Жыл бұрын

@TeKnoVKNG23 I mean love and care might go a long way here. While the money is definitely important we don't see other ways in which he may or may not treat her right. It's very obvious he loves her so much. It's tough when a person can be lacking in one area but more than on top of it in others. He is showing a big desire to get on the financial and communication tip, I really wish the best for them.

@groceriesandbudget7284 Жыл бұрын

I wish me and my partner would be able to come to this show

@terrahillman151 Жыл бұрын

Really great ‘deep dive.’ Makes our current realities and issues with money so much clearer as to why a lot of us struggle w money. And takes the judgement out of it imo. Ty for sharing!

@rebeccarutter6609 2 ай бұрын

I am curious if the correlation between money challenges and ADHD has been explored in Ramit’s financial psychology paradigm?

@dakine4238 Жыл бұрын

Love the honesty

@gigglegagaing5 11 ай бұрын

This is sorta like my husband and i, though i dont mind taking care of the money, the planning, the breakdowns and everything in between. What i dont like is that my husband have an ego issue with money. I come from a richer family and i do coming in to the marriage bringing lots more money in savings than him and this has constantly being at the back of his head. He wanted to change cars because he wanted to show ppl that he can afford me. I’m not complaining about my 10 year old car that my dad bought me, but he just wanted to change it. He always tell me your money is your money, and my money is our money. Now, he brings in more in income than me, but “my wealth” is still significantly higher than his. For vacations, he always want to pay for it, and i feel bad because i dont mind paying for it too. Its just the asian mindset that he cannot let go, that a man needs to provide.

@mattmcfly2165 9 ай бұрын

That's sad.

@Nacole_Lashoun 9 ай бұрын

When someone shows you who they are, believe them! This is 8 FULL years of data and observations. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. Wish them luck and appreciate their honest and transparency!❤❤❤❤

@sylviamurray7467 7 ай бұрын

I totally agree!!!!

@sdgirlCook Жыл бұрын

His dad was so young! I am so sorry! My dad passed away 1.5 years ago at the age of 59😢

@user-tv3dg8yg3h 10 ай бұрын

If you want marriage, do not let a man waste your time. Give him a year, maybe two, tops.

@debbielockhart7762 11 күн бұрын

A year or two is nothing. Yikes. A lifetime for someone to regret jumping in.

@chadlarson6 Жыл бұрын

@ramitsethi, Tell me about that white t-shirt and blue green full-zip sweater!

@morgan5885 Жыл бұрын

Can Ramit be my couples counselor too lol.. he's so good!

@MNP208 11 ай бұрын

He is clearly still very emotional about his dad. hope he continues with counseling.☹️

@IAmJeka 3 ай бұрын

I’m on a similar situation with my partner except I know sometimes she feels like the mom but I’m taking care of all the finances and it’s become a bit of a mess. Our only fights always come from money :(

@cynthiaivers1708 3 ай бұрын

Insurance costs don't seem to jive - probably is higher. Also, grocery costs seem abnormally low.

@mamalovesthebeach437 Жыл бұрын

Seems like a common issue with couples. This was our issue for years. We’re in our mid and late 60’s so it’s critical to have the ability to positively discuss money. I handle all savings and investments now but my husband spends for his business as he sees fit. He spends a lot of money and focuses too much on how much we pay in taxes to a financially destructive level IMO. 20 years and although it’s shifted some he gets very tense in money conversations. 😢

@georget62 Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. Money is symbolic of many things. At the end of the day it's nothing more, or less, than a wealth / financial transfer mechanism. But, having said that, it represents REAL sweat and toilet, effort, sacrifice,etc. Personally, while my wife and I are fairly well off, my spending priorities are definitely NOT always aligned with hers. our charitable giving, while significant, is also along different lines. But, with time, we've come to understand the meanings behind it and why I still need to learn to spend and enjoy our bounty more. spend.

@meishamom7298 9 ай бұрын

I would never want my daughter to live like this! A long term relationship with no commitment. Money is tough enough as married couple, but as non committed couple geez- he or she can walk away at any time. They are roommates. No wonder they are not on the same page about commitment

@ppoppoiop6336 16 күн бұрын

Classic Barbara the Builder story. Girl, run.

@cynthiaivers1708 3 ай бұрын

For that monthly income - doesn't appear enough taxes are being withheld.

@hychannel555 Жыл бұрын

8 years together n she wants a structure plan of their future with his help, if there is ever gonna be a future together? Dude put a ring on that finger already. Stop the talking n just do it. Money is scary but bet her leaving is scarier. But anyway they need couple therapy to get on the same page. She gotta be patient for him to move but he gotta not go at snail pace too. 8 years is far too long though, sorry.

@deirdrekiely6187 Жыл бұрын

Agree. 8 years is way too long. Why does she tolerate it?? He's obviously stalling even though he claims to want to be a better partner.

@milivaro 10 ай бұрын

Exactly! The real issue deep down.

@mzcain1521 9 ай бұрын

How does Trin have $200K in student loan debt and earns $44K???? That math ain’t mathing at all

@treygounder3361 Жыл бұрын

I watch a lot of Ramit. Why is it always the male who does not want to do the finances..in my relatship im the one whose the finance enthusiast... Lol

@ramitsethi Жыл бұрын

Why do you think that is?

@sarahshanahan2222 11 ай бұрын

@@ramitsethiinteresting question. My experiences make me think that collectively the silent generation: men handled financial matters in general but maybe women helped a bit. There were alot more clear and ridgid gender roles and division of labor between men and women. They pulled the sleigh together.... but in very different but agreed upon ways It seemed that in the baby boomer generation there was an incredible massive switch where men and women worked side by side.. women left the kitchen... and for SOME/GROWING number of men they decided to take a back seat or at least a more passive role in the financial management. Less agreement but just figuring it out. Divorce exploded for this generation... for various reasons Xers are a mystery to me... It seems that melinials in general are lost... separate financially even if together and typically unequally yoked. This environment creates 1 person pulling the sleigh and for some reason its the woman many times. I wonder how zoomers are doing I think that pre marital counseling and a mutual agreement on roles and divisions of labor is required for a good shot at marriage

@treygounder3361 11 ай бұрын

Probably because most females prefer a lot control. Also a lot of males are too relaxed. So when both of those types find each other, their gender roles are each amplified.

@sarahshanahan2222 11 ай бұрын

@@treygounder3361 I find your statement to be true... but why.. u wonder are men so relaxed? As a woman I personally understand why women are not. There is so much to always be done... and not always much help which makes it hard for us to relax...and leads us to seem controlling because... well... it's alot

@ecclairmayo4153 10 ай бұрын

@@treygounder3361- I notice women are always wanting control only when a man has shown he can't do soemthing or doesn't take initiative. So, somebody's gotta do it

@nrivera567 9 ай бұрын

Can someone explain to me how their gross monthly income is $17700 and they net $14500? I have a similar income and pay $2000 In taxes in 1 biweekly paycheck …

@deborahmeek6529 6 ай бұрын

If it is between two peoples paychecks they get taxed less. If that big income is on one paycheck it gets taxed more

@euenfheiejrj 21 күн бұрын

I don’t think they have state income tax.

@cathy3546 8 ай бұрын

Money is not the root of all evil. This Bible verse is often misquoted. It is that the LOVE of money is the root of all evil. It has to do with priorities.

@FalafelWafflewtiz 6 ай бұрын

Is it just me or is he wearing a “FUCKBOY” t-shirt in the follow up clip? Is he trolling?

@micosstar Жыл бұрын

ooh!

@jtowensbyiii6018 2 ай бұрын

Dream planning is NOT planning, why the hell is it such a common thing for people to do

@acilirp Жыл бұрын

I am a bit lost with this one. They're having too many financial issues for not being married. I hope that he starts being more active with the finances.

@georget62 Жыл бұрын

unless he puts a ring on it, they will continue to suffer, in my humble opinion, a mediocre relationship at worst, and at best, a relationship that I'd NOT truely a truely RICH life.

@deirdrekiely6187 Жыл бұрын

I think his "financial issues" are a cover for his inability to fully commit to her.

@Capycorg 9 ай бұрын

They're also having way too many issues for a couple who is in very good shape financially!

@faqu529 Жыл бұрын

Wow Taylor’s vulnerability is 🔥🔥🔥

@user-ze7ls7ef5s Жыл бұрын

Id move on from him, hes never going to marry her, Find a man who wants to commit to you.

@jeromehenry4484 Жыл бұрын

Suggestion for future episode: love these videos but they lean towards "offence" and ignore "defense". What I mean is lots of talk about investments/retirement accounts; really need an episode of defense measures like Life Insurance, Short & Long Term Disability Insurances, 3 - 6 months Emergency Funds, Sinking Funds for particular goals. All offense plans can come to a screeching halt & potentially never recover if there is no decent financial defense already set up.

@georget62 Жыл бұрын

Brave brave couple for sure. Now....I have to ask them: Together for 8 years and NOT MARRIED??? Of course you have money issues! Look, I'm not trying to get all religious and Dave Ramseyish on this couple but....in your words, Ramit, " What The Fuck?!!" I TRUELY believe that until they (and all the unmarried couples on your podcast) have a LEGAL UNION, where there is a legal onus on BOTH partners, this couple is going to suffer a mediocre relationship, at best, or worse, Carrie is gonna get tired Venmo requests and of Taylor and kick him to the curb! In my words, Ramit, to paraphrase / add on to a common proverb; "A rising tide lifts all boats....unless the ANCHOR won't budge". I wish the best for this couple, and the others who've dared to bare their financial souls on the air.

@tf4606 Жыл бұрын

Value chain...😂

@Rashaadthegr8 Жыл бұрын

Why in these calls they never in the same room?

@BingingInPeace-ev3bp Жыл бұрын

Makes for terrible feedback Production wise. Plus if they are on separate screen makes it easier to pull out separate images and audio.

@verybadminimalist8446 Жыл бұрын

For audio purposes

@rhealisa9268 Жыл бұрын

Other than audio purposes, I think it also helps people be a little more honest and less hesitant

@Rashaadthegr8 Жыл бұрын

ty. I just was like if you married you can't even be in the same room to talk about this? But now I see.

@Mr_NB628 9 ай бұрын

Why doesn’t she like almost give him homework? like they could go on KZfaq and find a video from like the money guy or some other well informed financial KZfaqr and basically have him watch it and then talk about it

@_savedwretch 19 күн бұрын

For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs. -1 Timothy 6:10

@DevanConrad Жыл бұрын

Lots of dudes on this show are somewhere between weaponized incompetence and unaddressed anxiety disorders. This guy at least trying to mature. Ramit seems to judge the women's behavior harsher than the avoidant men who would play chicken with utilities getting cut off. Kinda painful when it seems thee men need another man to repeat what their wife has been saying all along.

@kennid6743 11 ай бұрын

This!!! Ramit is ALOT sterner with the women, and they are the ones who usually do the applying. I don’t get it. He gently schools the men instead

@bd6786 7 ай бұрын

It fills me with so much rage and, really, despair when I see this happen over and over again, not because anyone who does it has bad intentions or that men don’t deserve compassion and room to grow, but because seeing men as babies is still so deeply ingrained even when we can acknowledge it.

@chriso6042 6 ай бұрын

@@kennid6743because they typically play the I'm right and my spouse needs to improve card.. and their attitude towards money and their spouse often leads to further resentment and having the opposite effect. It takes 2 to have a healthy relationship, and it usually takes 2 to create a financially stable future. The incompetent spouse usually knows they need to improve and be more helpful.

@CherylWickham 5 ай бұрын

Thank you! I've been watching video after video of women who are "in the game" and men who are totally checked out and he just let's the men slide. It's maddening.

@Arggggggggg 5 ай бұрын

I have an NPC husband. Frustrating.

@CherylWickham 5 ай бұрын

I LOL'd at this description.

@jrod6236 Жыл бұрын

56:56 Remember it is actually "For the love of money is the root of all evil" 1 Timothy Chapter 6 Verse 10

@Nerdificationing Жыл бұрын

Great pod and people once again - but the ads are like full-on informercials. Prefer either a funny skit ad or a readout of the company lines rather than an attempt at native advertising. Just advice if holding onto viewership becomes a problem.

@Arggggggggg 5 ай бұрын

Oof. I had to take over paying bills when i found out we had fun money because he would pay half a bill at a time.

@shortykel27 Жыл бұрын

I enjoy watching your podcast and reading your book. But I would like to ask “why don’t you invite single people on your podcast?

@ramitsethi Жыл бұрын

All of my lessons can be applied to single people. But on my podcast, I work with couples because there can be a lot of different challenges when it comes to combining money and love.

@TJrules299 10 ай бұрын

@@ramitsethiwould be nice to see some singles though. There are more and more singles these days and functioning without joint income is challenging.

@jacobside2656 9 ай бұрын

Grow up bro. You do not want to get to bear retirement age and realize that I have saved nothing & am going to outlive the money I do have.

@sarahvilmain3770 7 ай бұрын

Oh boy. “Money is the root of all evil…” 😮 This is not Biblical. The LOVE of money is the root of all evil. Don’t worship money. Use money as a tool to invest in yourself, your family and the kingdom! If Taylor took the same approach with food - thinking that food is evil, he would starve. Food is necessary. Money is necessary. Both can be used in a sinful way or a Godly way. Money is a good thing! Biblical economics: 1) Give/tithe first 2) Save/invest 3) Pay necessary taxes 4) household/necessary expenses 5) Lifestyle/enjoyment I am personally working on implementing the above priorities with our funds. My husband is on board. I wish I would have started living this way decades earlier…

@td4611 Жыл бұрын

I’ve been married 25 years and I make every single decision in my household. My husband is great, but he doesn’t want to make any decisions about anything. He doesn’t know if we have $10 in the bank or $10 million. I’m a serial remodeler and he has never even asked how much things costs. It’s a bit crazy. I recently spent $65,000 on our bathroom remodel - he has no clue what it costs and didn’t ask. I hire and manage all the contractors.

@deirdrekiely6187 Жыл бұрын

$65k for a bathroom?? Do you have gold toilets?

@LismoreLady 11 ай бұрын

Yikes 😳 what kind of bathroom costs $65k? Even in the US? In Ireland it’d be way OTT!

@Afrinaturality 11 ай бұрын

$65K for a bathroom?! The toilet must poop on your behalf!

@hundly 7 ай бұрын

Is his source of income legit? How you know? It looks like a great situation for you until you find yourself gaslit into a lifestyle you cant really afford on stating on the right side of the law

@Arggggggggg 5 ай бұрын

Same except I only have 50k/yr to work with. NPC husband.

@sussie9895 Жыл бұрын

Notice that Carrie says “communicate with my partnerS” at the end… Maybe she’s thinking Taylor will keep on being all talk and no action. I’ve worked with a lot of creatives and I’m afraid I’m not super optimistic for Taylor changing his stripes. Many creatives are “free thinkers”, “optimists”, “dreamers”…. But when it comes down to getting the work done its often us project manager types and worker-bees who end up picking up the slack. Fear of losing one’s job isn’t even a big enough motivator to get dreamer types to become proactive do-er’s. I truly hope I’m wrong.

@Capycorg 9 ай бұрын

I noticed that too! I wonder if she's ready to move on. His update was super upbeat but short on concrete details.

@jwise7777 6 ай бұрын

You're not a man (or an adult) if you don't take an active role in your family's finances. Not to be mean to this guy, he seems like a nice person, but this is the truth.

@katrinaholman650 11 ай бұрын

Carrie deserves better! She needs to leave Taylor! He’s wasted years of her life!

@ddavis8988 10 ай бұрын

Carrie has said this is literally the only thing he gets wrong, and you think sje should leave him?

@dental257 Жыл бұрын

...Not the first time i've mentioned this.. but just curious.. is this site run by a bot, or..? like.. what's the deal? This channel alone, has 293k subs and this vid has 6.7k views at the time of this writing.. and ONLY 36 comments?! I still haven't received a single newsletter since signing up, and i've signed up twice, just to make sure... Anyone else?

@margieodonoghue1632 Жыл бұрын

I had a battle to get the newsletter -I contacted them directly as, similar to you, I had registered and re-registered on the site but still received nothing. Now it is working. The only catch is you also get all the marketing emails which is a downside -my inbox is flooding!

@dental257 Жыл бұрын

@@margieodonoghue1632 yeah.. I’m good with out the newsletter but what about the comments..still wondering about the 294k subscribers and yet only 49 comments 10 hours later…

@arh1234 Жыл бұрын

@@margieodonoghue1632That's terribly disappointing.

@ramitsethi Жыл бұрын

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@margieodonoghue1632 Жыл бұрын

@@arh1234 it is a bit frustrating but not the end of the world 😊

@Joce123 10 ай бұрын

I think that she is so lucky to have him as a husband I don't think that she gives him enough credit for his value.

@ecclairmayo4153 10 ай бұрын

That's the thing, it's been 8 years and he hadn't proposed marriage.

@fcorrine 9 ай бұрын

He is passionate about his job. All that matters. She grew up with a lawyer daddy, and is stuckup. Either choose love, or both of you need to move on. She is not a good person. Its 2023, he doesn't need to be the highest earner.

@ML-wb7jn 11 ай бұрын

There’s no kids involved, not marriage so you can make the move you want my dear lady. It will get harder if you decide to have children with him . Similar situation here but we have kids so I just accepted my L and I’m keeping moving maybe until the kids are grown , he’s loving and he’s try but it’s hard for him as well. I guess some people can’t have it all 🥹

@chriso6042 6 ай бұрын

She seems kinda miserable and he's upbeat and happy. To me they're almost opposites, and honestly opposites do attract, but only work out when they're working together not against each other. I think counseling might do wonders.

@Arggggggggg 5 ай бұрын

I'm in your sitch but ended up with a disabled child (now adult needing 100% care). So I'm taking the L for life. 😅

@user-zv4jl4ov3u 10 ай бұрын

You know wat i understand about ramit or whoever is they claim to helping people but get to the point wat they need,or do they have to pay for your course that's bullshit 1000. Percent

@travelnurseadventures3225 Жыл бұрын

Marriage is a business, it's a legal commitment, not just based on love, it's a business--you never see wealthy people living out of wedlock--Ramit is married, Warren Buffett, Dave Ramsey, Alex Hormozi, Jordan Peterson, Rothchild lol etc--just a thought. Playing house is not financially sound. It's hard work being an individual and it's hard work being in a marriage, but the in-between of playing house is lazy, stagnant and delusional in this throw away culture..imo 🥸

@jdp486 Жыл бұрын

There are plenty of wealthy people who aren't married to their partners.

@ST-rj8iu Жыл бұрын

If you want kids or make a lot of money, marriage is makes sense. You do get good tax benefits as a married person. I don't think it is a problem to not get married if both don't want to get married. But if one person wants marriage and kids, and the other person 8 years later does not, something is not going to work in the long run.

@ddavis8988 10 ай бұрын

@@jdp486 If we go by the data, the majority if wealthy people are married and trying to get married. Not even close. Data also shows a married couple in general is further along and more stable than single people.