Oh, man, cool! You can untie all knots and forgive!)

@@doctord9029 Well, I'm at the point of growth where I go back and forth with forgiveness.

That just opened my eyes. Thank you!

Omg i felt that deeply 😭

Omg i felt that deeply 😭

Wow I can relate...!! 🙏😓

Patriarchal family system is the worst- your gender determines your fate. I’m trying to recover from this despite being the first born daughter and a son after me. Growing up my brother was the king in my family and I was his acting mum started my role aged just 1.5 years old. 🤗

You can still do this.

@@blockingtrash3578 Ty. I am giving serious thought to this.

You can do it. Im in school now online. College is different and your classes will still count. I work and have two toddlers. I was going full-time and it got tough so I reduced to part-time and currently thriving. Getting a 4.0 which has always been my dream! You can do it! If its been your dream it can be your reality. Im my opinion school is actually easier now then when I was a kid. Technology helps. Good luck.

Psychotherapy. Self help books/resources on parenting and self care. Support groups.

That's true but if you can hear God He's your source of love and safety and positivity. God bless you.

That's why people suffering from C-PTSD need consistent, long term, trauma focused psychotherapy and support groups.

Hey, find an epic psychotherapist. Most don't heal with the help of parents, dead or alive.

I sometimes think the same thing. I keep on trying because the alternative is despair, and I'm tired of that feeling.

We human before christians

If becoming a mother would be harmful - physically, emotionally, or mentally - to the impregnated mother, then she can do nothing but pass on generational trauma to her child. Ending that devastating situation before it even begins is an act of love in many cases. The Jewish belief, based on scripture that is shared by Jews and Christians, is that the soul joins the body at the moment of the first breath (as God breathed life into clay to make Adam) so the fetus is simply a vessel waiting to be filled. There was no anti-abortion sentiment in Christendom until the mid 1800s, when the newly licenced profession of "doctor" entered the scene. Suddenly these new doctors dislike that women could quietly, safely, and at their own discretion, have an herbal abortion at home. This wasn't because doctors cared about fetuses, it was because they objected to not being able to make any money from the procedure. So they pressured the government to make abortions illegal unless performed by a licenced doctor. This made abortions much more deadly to the impregnated women, since the doctors performed mechanical abortions rather than the safer herbal abortions. It also made abortions unaffordable to many of the people who needed them most. The typical woman who gets an abortion is a married woman who already has children and knows that she and her husband can't afford to have any more. More children would mean that the already-existing children would starve. In Victorian times, having a family of twelve often literally meant that only three or four would make it to adulthood. Fortunately, the God-given herbs that can bring a safe, cheap abortion still exist, and a little research is all that's needed now for a woman or girl to take matters into her own hands. Thank God for nature and the internet!