Re-wire Your Ex's Brain To Make Them Want You Back

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Brad Browning

Brad Browning

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@joeasuquo4469
@joeasuquo4469 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy to have my ex back.
@cwigg7728
@cwigg7728 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all your suggestions. I honestly couldn’t have done it any better than I did. No contact…1 month later she reached out from another relationship very flirty then, cold. I went no contact again, and she began reaching out again. Soon, she was sending me selfies and videos of herself. I responded at my leisure, but our interactions were great. One day she sent me pictures of a camping trip we took 2 years ago, and we had a few laughs about it. This sharing and reminiscing of a fond memory has been the one move she’s made that has me really thinking that I’m getting closer to my goal every day. I honestly believe she wouldn’t be doing this if she didn’t miss me to some extent. Time and patience are my allies. Thanks again Brad. Wish me luck! 👍🏻
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Looks like you're on the right track. Keep it up and good luck!
@Bigtank1012
@Bigtank1012 2 жыл бұрын
Best Part About A BreakUp Is You Get To Know Yourself Better…
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
True. Make changes accordingly for yourself though and become a better version of yourself. :-)
@OcAirsoft
@OcAirsoft 2 жыл бұрын
My ex texted me that she wanted to talk and meet in person… later the day canceled the plans and blocked me and later emailed me saying never to talk to them again.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
That kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a fresh/recent breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9F6ZNyT2qyteHk.html
@davidbradley0477
@davidbradley0477 2 жыл бұрын
Broke up for over six months. 90 days of NC. I figure I have nothing to lose. Taking a trip to a favorite place of ours. Good memories text will be sent.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Good luck!
@johnkoutoulakis8775
@johnkoutoulakis8775 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Brad, great video as always ! So my question is, How often should I text my ex after NC? And when I do, should I expect her to text me first at some point or I have to be the one to text first all the time
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Ideally wait for her to reach out after you've already reached out some days. So be patient and make sure you're keeping busy in your own life. Apply the tips here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/areVYJdykqnUho0.html
@terripedro1075
@terripedro1075 Жыл бұрын
I did sign up for your one on one coaching yesterday.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Hi! Thanks for signing up. Please be reminded of the 48-72 hour time frame when you first signed up. Just make sure you submitted back to me the coaching form please. Talk soon!
@terripedro1075
@terripedro1075 Жыл бұрын
@Alex Jones I do not want to sign up for coaching.
@RT80-ue7it
@RT80-ue7it Жыл бұрын
Hi Brad, Love your videos. Is it ok to post social media updates on how well I am doing with weight loss, new classes and signing up for a charity event, while in the no contact period? Or will this have the reverse effect?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Yes, post some positive self improvement stuff. Generally post stuff you genuinely enjoy doing. Authenticity is attractive!
@VicSaidThat
@VicSaidThat Жыл бұрын
Damn Brad, why did i not get in to your videos earlier. I just broke up with my ex a while ago after she caught me on tinder. I did the typical stuff that you mentioned such as sending her gifts, writing her love letters and begging and pleading... I don't think my chances are ruined, but i started NC two days ago and we shall see how it goes.. Thank you for these vids! Really insighftul and helpful.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
You're welcome! Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: kzfaq.info”
@XxRyanlad96xX
@XxRyanlad96xX Жыл бұрын
How did it go?
@VicSaidThat
@VicSaidThat Жыл бұрын
@@XxRyanlad96xX I broken NC after 30 days and asked if she wanted to grab a beer , but she was busy that day. In two weeks i am moving to the same town as her, litteralt 10 minutes away from her. I am positive we will reconnect because i have put in the work to work on my shadows, and becoming more secure in my self.
@caesardavis376
@caesardavis376 Жыл бұрын
Hey Brad awesome videos man keep em coming, I just wanted to say, my girlfriend of 4 years has broken up with me and with those for years I gave my life up to her, my courier, my everything and I guess all I want to know is, is it worth trying to win someone back who isnt willing to improve our relationship, is it worth giving them time and space, cause as each second goes by, im just hurting myself even more, I really want us to give it a chance and just test the outcome of all of this, and you know she still shows me love and stuff but only when im sad or something, im just really trying to make us 1again and I have no Idea what to do, especially cause this is my first relationship
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Improve your relationship how? This really depends. What changes have you asked of your ex? Basically asking to change their core personality won't work and will only build resentment, which will eventually doom the relationship to failure anyway. No amount of breaking up can resolve that. So try to see if what you're asking your ex is realistic and that you aren't being selfish (I'm not saying you are, but there's a possibility again, depending on what you asked, depending on what change you demand from your partner) or if it's necessary because it's for the betterment of your relationship, you, and for your ex and if your ex is willing to change this time around. This video is for you and should help:
@anmolthakur4986
@anmolthakur4986 2 жыл бұрын
Hey brad love your videos My Ex broke up with me one month ago because she wants to stay single and as she don’t want to face all the dramas and conflicts which happens in every relationship I’ve tried to reach out to her also we’ve met 10 days ago we’ve slept together also When she meets with me she so good in conversations she touches me lot But when our conversation gets start on any social media than her behaviour is totally changes I’ve started the no contact method And it’s my 2nd day What’s your opinion on this do you think she will come back please reply I’m in very bad situation And thank you so much for your tips
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Was your relationship that dramatic though? Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/kNt4iqaIyq2VqKc.html However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html and the golden rules here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9F6ZNyT2qyteHk.html
@Noname-my6pk
@Noname-my6pk 2 жыл бұрын
Hey brad so after 3 weeks of NC I contacted my ex gf who broke up with me and I sent her a Snapchat memories that was pretty funny and she instantly replied and we laughed and talked for a bit via text then I told her that I was going to bed and that it was good to hear from her. She wasn’t cold or anything and she replied fast to my messages too plus laughed with emojis and understood my humor. My question now is that when do I text her back again because we are long distance and I won’t see her until 3 weeks when I get back to college so how can I attract her via text or make her interested. Btw keep up the good work!
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Just keep your cool and take it easy and don't overthink it. You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bbCkoLmTqdHGnKs.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
@jamesrandy3322
@jamesrandy3322 Жыл бұрын
Hey brad, another great video I just started the no contact We’ve been together for 30 yrs and married 28 so we both go to the therapist on the same day my appointment is over and hers starts up when I’m leaving what do I do if I see her walking in Thank you again
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that. While I certainly need more information to know what's going on between you two for sure, I suggest you check out more marriage-saving tips which you may find useful, check out this new channel I've dedicated solely for this purpose. Here's the link: y2u.be/dr2JTi_bCRU
@simonurban01
@simonurban01 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Brad, once again, great video. Your advice is always the best! Also, would you be so kind and help me a little bit?:) After my ex-gf wrote me she thinks she wants to break up. I responded that I if she is sure about it, I will respect it and I won't convice her and immediately started NC. She didn't reach out to me at any way during that time. My 30 NC ended and I went safe with the ,,meme text", on which she reacted with laughing emojis. What do you suggest to do next? How long should I wait before texting her again? Btw, she is avoidant type. Also, don't you wanna make video aimed at short-time relationship and relationship styles? (Avoidan etc.) I think that many people would be happy to see that from expert, like you! Thanks in advance!
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Looks like you're playing your cards correctly. Continue to do so and try to be patient. Watch my other tips for more tips. Also this might help: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jtWjZr1lzZqsfnk.html
@bucadoedmeljohnluisg.9228
@bucadoedmeljohnluisg.9228 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Brad! This video is very informative. Great job! I would like to ask some advice from you because I don't know what to do. Me and my ex broke up almost 3 weeks ago, he said to me that I am not ready to be in a relationship and respect that person, but before we broke up, we had a cool off of like 4 days because I said something bad, but I overtext him during those times. So when he and I broken up, I immediately call him twice then blocked me and unfriended me to other social media, then I started the no contact the day after the break up. Its been almost 3 weeks since I do the no contact and I am still blocked. I wonder if I have a chance to get back together. Btw, our relationship lasts only for almost 3 months (LDR), but the connection was deep like we talked about the future. I hope you'll help me. Thank you!
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that. The distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fbeJZ7FhmdvapHU.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a9SWirV7t9jScac.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@eveorji99
@eveorji99 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Brad, Thanks for all you do here, indeed you are the Best! I appreciate. I have established contact with my ex after 4months of No contact, but my question goes thus; Should I always be the one initiating chat or calls?.. He doesn't do that unless I reaches out. We are in different country currently, he intends to return back from the country towards ending of the year. How do I go about this please..
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Give him the chance to reach out. It's important to be busy so you don't end up always waiting for her messages. Let things happen naturally and apply the tips from my vids as much as you can. In the meantime, always keep these things in mind: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/areVYJdykqnUho0.html
@francespacheco2158
@francespacheco2158 2 жыл бұрын
Cool beans 😎
@terripedro1075
@terripedro1075 Жыл бұрын
I have made all of the mistakes you have said not to do. I discovered you videos to late. We are recently divorced. My husband is with the woman he had an affair with and I want him back, because I love him.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that. A marital affair is a huge marriage/relationship killer. Depending on how long it's been going on and considering the choices he's made, it may be time to get a divorce and set yourself free here. Is he making an effort towards you? Sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program at www.marriageguy.com/coaching
@carolinacaminata6549
@carolinacaminata6549 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Brad! Thanks for another video! I have a question, my ex broke up with me a week ago, and I haven't talked to him since. We lived together, so some of his things are still at my house. In the day of the breakup I kindly asked if he wanted to take his things, he said he didn't want to come upstairs... Neither of us has said anything since. But I was wondering, should I say something about the stuff or should I wait until he says something? I'm kinda dreading that because it does feel so final once his stuff is gone as well.. Thank you!
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! What's the current situation though? How long has it been since the breakup? If he moved out, then just make sure you stop forcing things. Try to have self discipline and remember, love should never be forced. Otherwise it becomes an obsession, so be very careful of going that route. If your ex dumped you and showed you he doesn't want to be in your life at the moment, you ought to respect that, okay? For most dumpees that is the case. It doesn't mean that will be the case forever but at the moment, it surely is, so respect your ex's need for space and have some self discipline. Focus on yourself instead. Okay? This vid is for you: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jbxyY8Kdm5a3oIE.html
@gunchbandit4422
@gunchbandit4422 2 жыл бұрын
My gf of 6 years cheated a year or so ago and I fell into a pit of depression and alcoholism. We tried to make it work but she finally was the one to end things with me yesterday. I acknowledge that I am partly to blame for this. I have mixed feelings on even attempting to get back with her. The trust will never be there the same as it once was.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
That sucks and I understand how you feel. I'm really sorry to hear that. Just know that you're not alone. I do suggest to lessen or avoid alcohol altogether because if anything, that will only make you feel even more crappier than you have to. No relationship is perfect so although it helps to take responsibility for your actions, it's best to take the lessons and not dwell in it for too long. I definitely suggest to give yourself time but my biggest tip is to never chase. Set some strong boundaries. One way of showing that is to stand up for yourself and to cut off contact. Never ever chase and don't take any bs from your ex, yeah? Because if the connection is not genuine or if you got back together out of your ex being rejected by someone else, it will still end again sooner or later if you chase. Watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sN1gdsumvampnas.html Your ex has to learn lessons first but until then, it's pointless to fight for it, so let it go, and move forward until your ex proves themselves to you.
@Mardarosa
@Mardarosa Жыл бұрын
Thank you for all ofthis information, Brad. I have a question. I just started the no contact with my ex. We broke up on the 3rd of August. Some things happened after that, some things were said and right now I am fixcated on myself to better myself for me. Her birthday is on the 2nd of September.. Should I go out of respect as we have known eachother for years before we were together?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
It’s fine to send a quick one-line Happy Birthday text (or meme is maybe even better actually) during No Contact. Stick to NC for another 10 days minimum though, even if your ex replies to your birthday text.
@user-xw6ws5sn9e
@user-xw6ws5sn9e Жыл бұрын
What do you say if they ask you why you haven’t taken off your wedding ring?
@sampritibanerjee7423
@sampritibanerjee7423 Жыл бұрын
Hey Brad 👋 My ex still texts my relatives by himself, talking to them like his own person. Still not in a relationship with anyone. Even his WhatsApp dp, called tune is sad.He still has my posted picture on Facebook and he has not changed any dp on Facebook Instagram. But he still doesn't want to come back. What should I do in this situation?
@DoseOfNick
@DoseOfNick 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Brad, do you think I would be okay with contacting her after 25 days of no contact or should it be a strict 30 days?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Try to make it the full 30 days before trying any type of contact. Good luck!
@scheefgaan
@scheefgaan 2 жыл бұрын
Hey brad, quick question. does asking your ex for your stuff back count as breaking no contact? I've had around 35 days of no contact. I think she's talking to another guy, but i have a feeling she's not ready to commit to the new guy yet. Should i grab my chance?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
If it's important stuff you're trying to talk about like your belongings, no you're not breaking anything. Just keep your conversations short and concise.
@thehighpriestess6656
@thehighpriestess6656 Жыл бұрын
Hi Brad, great videos. My situation was my fault. After several stressful events, I enede a phone call 2ith my ex by asking if it was healthy that we were still in contact, he said itsq a shame as he cares fir me but will respect my wishes. Next day I wanted to apologise as I was emotionally fragile, and he had been talking about his exes during the call and how much he'd loved them in the past, which triggered me. I found I was blocked everywhere, so I sent an apology email. Heard nothing,so sent a WhatsApp message from my work apologising, he said he 'wasn't going to read all that '. I said fair enough and he blocked me there too. 3 days later, he responded via email, saying g he was just doing what I wanted him to do. I again sent an apology and explained that I wasn't myself and had been fragile emotionally. That was around 5 days ago and nothing, still blocked. Before this, he had been brilliant and so supportive of me as I'd been going through some challenging times. He's long distance too, so won't see him out and about. it's all really sad but what can I do if his ego is hurt and he's blocked me?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Stop forcing things. Try to have self discipline and remember, love should never be forced. Otherwise it becomes an obsession, so be very careful of going that route. If your ex dumped you and showed you he/she doesn't want to be in your life at the moment, you ought to respect that, okay? For most dumpees that is the case. It doesn't mean that will be the case forever but at the moment, it surely is, so respect your ex's need for space and have some self discipline. Focus on yourself instead. Okay? This vid is for you: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jbxyY8Kdm5a3oIE.html
@thehighpriestess6656
@thehighpriestess6656 Жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning thank you for your response. I ended the relationship back in February, when I discovered he was having calling his ex girlfriend while staying at my house, acting single. He had a recent health scare, so we reconnected, albeit long distance. He has made lots of effort to be in my life and has been supportive. Until 2 weeks ago, when I said I didn't know if it was healthy for us to stay in touch. He sounded upset and as a result, blocked me everywhere. That's when I emailed to apologise as I regretted how things had escalated. I won't contact him again, I have my self respect and don't want to feel like I'm bothering him. It's all very sad, but I tried to make it right and he refused my apology.
@ssz8687
@ssz8687 2 жыл бұрын
problem is, how can i rewrite my ex's brain, if she blamed me for ruining her rebound relationship? she cheated ans i ruined it, and said that she didnt love me anymore and left. can i still have at least a chance?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Stop chasing her. Ruining her relationship was a bad move considering how she cheated on you. Show her you have enough self respect and self love and let her come to you first. Never the other way around.
@christiancarrington3027
@christiancarrington3027 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Brad! Me and my ex girlfriend were fine for awhile in my eyes and I knew she was fine and she told me like everything she wanted with me in the future and that me and her are good like she hasn’t lost feelings or interest. Then she has to go on a trip for 3 days and her ex was there because she got invited by her friend and her friends family is family friends with the ex boyfriend of hers and then out of nowhere she breaks up with me when she comes back and tells me I did nothing wrong and I’m left confused because we were happy and great and I know that just idk what I should do here any tips? Or do you think I have a chance with her. I also never did anything extremely bad like cheating the things I did bad were small things that could have maybe built up to push her away…
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that. Her actions speak louder than her words, it seems. The bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html and the golden rules here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9F6ZNyT2qyteHk.html
@adrianjazmin5092
@adrianjazmin5092 2 жыл бұрын
hey brad its me again, its been a month since we broke up and i can't employ no contact properly, if i start again would it be okay or it will not going to work because its to late?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Play your cards right and notice the world of difference that this can make. Stick to the "no contact" rule this time for at least 30 days. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ipqDrZl1zr22o4U.html AND the importance of silence after the breakup here: y2u.be/zw0ChuXCEmw and in the meantime, this is the principle you ought to follow: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/e8ySmrho25ayqWg.html A situation with an ex is often fragile, so you'd really want to omit, if not minimize these mistakes. Start with the 30-day straight "no contact rule. It’s one step forward, two steps backward with an ex & there are no unlimited chances with them, so if you can do it right moving forward, then do so. Check out my guide so you won't end up making the same mistakes. Good luck!
@mywincears9598
@mywincears9598 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Brad! My ex and I have been on and off for a while, but I always talked her out of it, 2 weeks ago she asked me to breakup then a few days after me being almost no contact she asked to get back together. But then 4 days ago I met her and she said she's lost the attraction and broke up with me with signs of lots of anger but 5 mins before we met we were flirting heavily through text. She sent me a long breakup text msg with no sign of anger, saying "I broke her trust/respect, she feels unsafe about me, and she just wants to end this relationship, she thanks for the journey together". She still watches my Instagram stories. And I still have clothes and stuff worth roughly $300 in her place, she doesn't ask me to get them back yet. I'm doing no contact atm but what other things I could do? Is it still savagable after multiple breakup attempts and this semi-no contact get back?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
With on-and-off relationships, oftentimes this is a sign of underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. It may be time to put things into perspective while it's still early because in 14 years spent as a relationship online coach alone, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sNdxeMxqtcipcXU.html But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot. Good luck!
@sohaahmed9729
@sohaahmed9729 2 жыл бұрын
46 days of no contact. I feel like my long distance ex has forgotten about me. 😓 Until 30 days I was hopeful. He hasn't reached out even once. But thanks brad anyways 🖤
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jtWegNd9q9WUYGQ.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eKeYgNWe3Jm3nac.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html Good luck!
@sohaahmed9729
@sohaahmed9729 2 жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning thanks brad 🖤
@xxxjujuxxx666
@xxxjujuxxx666 Жыл бұрын
@@sohaahmed9729 hi how did it go
@johncaseley2543
@johncaseley2543 11 ай бұрын
I don’t know why these so called experts are obsessed with no contact for a certain amount of days etc , sure your ex needs time and space away from you but if you just ignore your ex it gives her freedom to move on and be with someone else and forget about you , what you need to do is re-attract your ex not by begging or pleading but just by giving her the breakup but still talk to her at times and re engage with her and let her see what she is missing
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 11 ай бұрын
Thanks for your feedback. I actually made a video several years ago about why your ex won't forget about you during No Contact: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/isWHksydy5_cZqs.html The 30 day number is just my default recommendation that tends to be (in my 13 years of experience as a breakup coach) an appropriate average for most breakups... sometimes a shorter period of NC is preferable, sometimes you might need 60+ days of No Contact. But, for the average breakup, 30 days is a decent target that straddles the line between giving your ex enough time/space and allowing your ex to start moving on. The idea of talking to your ex at times so that she "sees what she's missing" makes sense on the surface, but I've rarely seen that approach work as well as a proper period of No Contact (at least when the relationship was serious/committed and the breakup occurred recently)... most of the time, re-engaging with your ex during the first 3-6 weeks after breaking up is just going to either a) ignore them; b) cause you to make a mistake or get drawn into a serious talk / drama; or c) reduce how much they miss you.
@petrianaallen
@petrianaallen Жыл бұрын
Hi brad I have a question and I’m totally lost on what I should do next. My ex broke up with me because he needed time alone and and get hisself together because of personal reasons. It’s been about a month since the break up at first he wasn’t really texting or calling like that he’ll be standoffish but now he text me everyday and call me when he has time. What steps should I take on getting him back
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
That's actually good! Don't you recognize an opportunity when you see one? :-) Your ex is opening the lines of communication which is a perfect opportunity for you to transition into phase two. Since you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, and assuming you've done the "no contact" rule properly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jtWegNd9q9WUYGQ.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html Good luck!
@sarkaprochazkova421
@sarkaprochazkova421 Жыл бұрын
Hey Brad, i have a question. Iťs been 5 days since the breakup. We have already had the ‘serious talk’. I tried to convince him and begged him. My question is, if the no contact is still worth it after this mistake?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Not only is it worth it... it's your only choice at the moment because doing the opposite is guaranteed to push your ex further away. Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/heCGrNCK07eqhJ8.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nJ2qqLucktm6o30.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bLFjq9iXqt2pdps.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
@markapler
@markapler 2 жыл бұрын
Hi brad, my ex and I have had our locations for each other for years, but a few days after we broke up, she removed me from seeing her location (probably because I texted her friend 3am to ask if she was ok cause I seen she was out super late). She still can see my location, so she made the choice to not remove it. What do you make of this? Thank you again.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
If you've already broken up, acceptance is key. So in short, keeping things the way they are may not be helpful. Remember, you both have to process the breakup first and go through all that pain and slowly let go of the bad memories...It is a process, but this is what the "no contact" rule is for, to help both of you move forward from that pain. A reconciliation with an ex means there will be a new (thus the old relationship be considered as over) relationship between you two where the lessons of the past are taken into consideration in order to resolve it to create a better relationship in the future. Does that make sense? Give your ex time to let go of the bad memories, however, this won't happen overnight and for sure takes time, so don't rush. Follow the tips on my other vids, especially this one: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fLKVg5SWt6nPc58.html Good luck!
@vinodk6654
@vinodk6654 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Brad , Our love for 10years relationship for her and I loved for the last 5 years , we have few frequent breakups in last one year , I tried the no contact for 1-2 week but never complete, but some how I was managing and now since one month she is completely away from and she also said those small break ups blocking the reason for going , now she wants to get married to someone, I have little doubt on the distraction she has at her new office .she is busy on phone but not with me . I begged , pleading request fought , spoke to their parents and friends too ..I want her dono want to do pls suggest
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Really sorry to hear that. Stop forcing things. Try to have self discipline and remember, love should never be forced. Otherwise it becomes an obsession, so be very careful of going that route. If your ex dumped you and showed you he/she doesn't want to be in your life at the moment, you ought to respect that, okay? For most dumpees that is the case. It doesn't mean that will be the case forever but at the moment, it surely is, so respect your ex's need for space and have some self discipline. Focus on yourself instead. Okay? This vid is for you: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jbxyY8Kdm5a3oIE.html
@jd8899
@jd8899 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Brad, I finished no contact, me and ex celebrated my birthday recently (she asked me out), we had a great time together. Tried to flirt a little over text but apparently she said to text normally what should i do now?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Take it easy and don't rush it since you see your advances aren't exactly met with positivity. Pace yourself. Apply my other texting tips as well. Good luck!
@tanvixoxoxo
@tanvixoxoxo 2 жыл бұрын
Okay brad here’s an update. It’s been 8 months since the no contact rule is applied he did call me and text me a quote saying “people often come back to you when they find out the people they used to think are better than you but they aren’t * or smtg n he called me I didn’t pick up what does that mean n oh after these both things he blocked me again so I stopped msging him. I’m really confused what does that mean?😂 PS: I don’t know if I still love him or want him back😂I really don’t care anymore
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
It means the grass isn't greener on the other side. Who cheated/broke the relationship to explore somewhere else?
@zawyx
@zawyx 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, brad so my ex decided to break up with me because that she felt guilty and that she wants to stays religious etc. I was like okay i accept that and hope you stay like that and she said that she doesnt want any bf in future and bla bla. And was like okay and good luck in the futuree And blocked me from everywhere and i sent her from a backup account because i kinda missed after only 3 days and we started talking but nothing serious just asking how we doing and talkin about our days for almost a month until i found that she met her ex and they went for a lunch and kinda raged at her and she was so mad and she said that they ain back together and she sweared etc and was like okay good bye then i sent her another message after few hours and asked for apologize and she is allowed to do whatever she wants and she knows what she is doing and i believe her and told her take care of yourself and she said that made me happy thanks you too and we parted away. And i desactivated my backup account but now im blocked from everywhere from her and what do u suggest me to do. We havent been in contact for 3 days now.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a7uEbJV6p5vZl6c.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : kzfaq.info/get/bejne/epd3o7VmsqfUgZ8.html Good luck!
@tonyghoul3555
@tonyghoul3555 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Brad me and my ex broke up a month ago and I ruined the "no contact" rule It's a shame that I didn't know about you back then.She didn't want to breakup with me but she felt forced to do it because of the lack of contact.I asked her to be friends and she wanted to but she is scared of us making the same mistakes again.The problem is that I kind of got pissed and said really mean stuff and blocked her from everywhere so I can't contact her.I sometimes get too angry which makes things hard for me.One of her friends said that she will talk to her about it because I can't contact her in any way myself even if I wish to.If things work I will apologize to her.Is it a good idea for the "1 month no contact rule" or I should apologize to her these days?By the way 2 weeks have passed since then.If we do become friends I will focus on correcting my mistakes and watching your videos.Right now i want to start over as friends.A really important thing here is that she said that we may get together again one day.I just don't know if I should give her 2 more weeks or text her these days like the quiz told me to.(By the way I got a 68 on the quiz)
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Take time to get ahold of your anger issues first. I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/oM-bipeKvqmdqaM.html and from my other vid here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/hrRdY5qcptqtmqs.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/p9R1ZJxjy7uvqH0.html
@tonyghoul3555
@tonyghoul3555 2 жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning Thanks a lot!
@iasish
@iasish 2 жыл бұрын
I bet if you follow his every tips you'll surely get your ex back 👌🏻😉😉 I have tried it.... It works ❤️❤️ Thnx Brad you've helped me a lot😌.... Love from India ❤️
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: kzfaq.info”
@iasish
@iasish 2 жыл бұрын
Already 🤞
@guapibaby
@guapibaby 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Brad, thanks for amazing video as always! I’m on day25 of NC and my ex reached out to me 4times. He texted me like “can you send me a key of my apartment when you get a chance” a few days ago. I kept NC and planned to send it to him this weekend bc I’ve been busy with work. But he sent me the exact same text on social media again when I posted a random photo, and he seems angry and annoyed by me kept ignoring him. I just sent him what he wanted and still keeping NC. what should I do after 30day NC?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, yikes... your situation is actually one of the exceptions. If you have shared responsibilities with him, it's best to cooperate. It's your apartment together, right? This is something I've discussed here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/m9GPZ9qh0LyaZpc.html make sure you check out my other videos as well so you won't be making other mistakes or better yet, get my Ex Factor Guide for a comprehensive, step-by-step info on how to go about this. Best of luck!
@Kittycatkittycatmoewmoewmoew
@Kittycatkittycatmoewmoewmoew Жыл бұрын
Whats your tips on getting back with someone you co parent with
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
It's an uphill battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fbqaeKR4r724pXU.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mqqKpdF_zZ6wf5s.html
@ppdata9652
@ppdata9652 2 жыл бұрын
Hi brad, my boyfriend broke up with me a couple of days ago due to stress and it being long distance, he’ll be coming back to my state in around a year ,and, he wants to still be friends, what should i do? Is there still a chance?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Not right away. Watch the tips here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ptyPls2rzbyvcY0.html
@aira3082
@aira3082 Жыл бұрын
Hey brad plzzzzz reply if he wish me on my birthday during no contact rule what should i do??? We r still fb frnz
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
A simple thanks will do, then end the conversation first as soon as possible and tell your ex you're busy and have things to tend to. I don't think your ex will ask, but let her/him wonder what you're doing for your birthday. Post pictures where you're having a blast. Good luck!
@shanthelgaray3501
@shanthelgaray3501 2 жыл бұрын
How can I rewire her brain if when she tells me she misses our memories but she doesn't know what to do?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
You probably ought to let her really miss you more. But really, this depends on which phase you're on. Never skip the "no contact" part! Watch this to get an overview on what steps you ought to take in each phase: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bbCkoLmTqdHGnKs.html Best of luck!
@Magpiemike86
@Magpiemike86 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Brad, me and my ex are almost 4month split up now but I’m pretty much living back at hers again. We are acting like a couple but we aren’t together officially. She spends a lot of time texting and I’m paranoid she’s texting other guys. Any advice ? Thanks
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
That's a big red flag to your current situation. Who asks to come over? Is it you? I suggest you back off and let her initiate because right now, it looks like you're being the backup plan? I'm sorry, I could be way off... but there’s lots of missing pieces here for me to deduct anything concrete, so consider signing up for my coaching program instead so I can look into your situation more clearly and figure out what's going on, then guide you on a regular basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@juliangarma3143
@juliangarma3143 Жыл бұрын
Hey Brad, been watching all your videos, thanks for the tip, just wanna ask, my ex broke up with me a month ago, been in no contact since then, until I messaged her and we had a laugh, then I called her and set up a meeting. We went to a bar and caught up, to the point in which she said I was another man, then I kissed her, she reciprocated the kiss but said it was only to caught up, that we were doing a bad thing, I smiled and told her that I wasn't trying to get back into a relationship, just relax, it was just a kiss. But everytime I tried to kissed her she kissed me back. Then I walked her home and qe hugged for a least 20 seconds, she told me she liked my perfume and then we kissed again but she said it was the last time. Then she said that we could still be friends and hang out but with time abd told me to take care and to let her know when I get home ssfely. This happpened last wednesday and I've been in no contact since, now the thing is, I don't feel anxious at all, is this a good thing? Like, if she didn't wanted to kiss me she would've said something or did something. Besides, during our talk she told me about how she has been starting to go to therapy, and that her family is planning a trip but she can't go because of work, and that she'll be in her house all alone. I felt like it was a mixed signal so I said that I could come some day and have some dinner, in which she replied that maybe she would order some delivery, I had a laugh and said something along the lines of 'whatch for that credit card bill'. Anyways we had a laugh and had fun. Also she returned my things. I don't know if she is confused or something, I know I'm not, started to feel like I was in love with the relationship and how it made me feel and no her. But still she is a nice person. Don't know what to do, but for now I'll be in no contact. Been thinking of send her a meme about an internal joke in a couole of weeks maybe. What do you think? Any advice would be welcome, sorry for the long message and thanks for everything!
@felixaka7294
@felixaka7294 Жыл бұрын
News ?
@Fish-nj2sj
@Fish-nj2sj 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Brad I'm about halfway through no contact what should I do after no contact
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jtWegNd9q9WUYGQ.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eKeYgNWe3Jm3nac.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html Good luck!
@johnettakeahbone487
@johnettakeahbone487 4 ай бұрын
It's unfair that we are in no contact but he has access to the security cameras and sometimes watches me 😂 how does that work?😊
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 4 ай бұрын
Do your best to put on a happy face but get busy with work. If you bump into each other, then do limited contact instead and keep any conversation you have strictly work-related. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fbqaeKR4r724pXU.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mqqKpdF_zZ6wf5s.html
@user-ly6ps6hk1k
@user-ly6ps6hk1k 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Brad! We broke two weeks ago. The reason? He was under so much pressure and having family or self-understanding problems so he wasnt sure about being in a relationship in that state as we were starting the six months fase of arguments. He first told me that he was still in love with me but now he thinks he really isnt and that is normal to miss me sometimes just because its recent. I try not to talk to him but he starts the conversation and we always end flirting. He just not want to think about the future and live day by day so he doesnt really know if he is going to regret breaking up. How do you see it? Are there a lot of chances? I promised myself that i was going to go into the no contact time but I wanted to have your opinion.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
That kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a fresh/recent breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9F6ZNyT2qyteHk.html
@jackdaniel3024
@jackdaniel3024 2 жыл бұрын
Hey brad, me and my ex had relationship for one month and half whats are your thoughts of 30- day no contact? Despite of this she said that our relationship isnt healthy just because she lost attraction
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
If she has already lost attraction for you when it's only been a month in, then you may want to consider moving on from this (and especially if you haven't done anything to provoke her)... unless she changes her mind or is making an effort. You have to know how to play the game here, man. Know your worth.
@omermahmud9997
@omermahmud9997 Жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning hey brad, My ex breakup to me because I didn't reach her a one day thats y she breakup withme, But still she wants help me to bring somestuff to my house and she is the one who rent the car 🚗 for the things. Do I have chance to be with her again?
@trafelder5530
@trafelder5530 Жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning she lost attraction for me
@Scott-zx6pl
@Scott-zx6pl Жыл бұрын
hey Brad. 10 years and 2 kids with my ex and we're still living together currently. I know where I went wrong over the years, hurt her emotionally and financially. I'm currently working on making those important changes. so acknowledges them, but finds it all "odd" I love this woman, and failed to show it over the time. I take full blame. I was working 60+hours a week, and we barely saw each other at home. the job was physically and mentally exhausting. I could only focus on that. Really no excuse, but it effected me big time. I don't know how to show her that I truly care about her and our family, that I love them all and want to be around. wanting to make the proper changes that she's brought to my attention. any help with what I can do and shouldn't do. She broke up with me just under 2 months ago. thanks
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Try to get your work-personal life balance first without your ex. I know it hurts but I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/oM-bipeKvqmdqaM.html and from my other vid here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/hrRdY5qcptqtmqs.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/p9R1ZJxjy7uvqH0.html Be patient and let things play out first. Let time do its job since it's your biggest ally at this point. Good luck!
@Scott-zx6pl
@Scott-zx6pl Жыл бұрын
I've taken full responsibility for the things I've done. I'm currently working a 40 hr week now. Things are slowly getting better, I think.. I got a kiss on the forehead because of personalizes flowers i got her
@ajinkyashinde6151
@ajinkyashinde6151 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Brad! My ex came to visit me yesterday at my home during my no contact period. She told me she missed me, she has attachment with me, she doesn't want to lose me and she wants to be friends with me. I didn't ask her about relationship but I could figure out that she doesn't want to be in relationship with me. Also we are meeting on Sunday for a friend's party. How am I supposed to interact with her at the party and what should I do for her to be in relationship with me once again as I don't want to be friends with her. Please help me. Thanks
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
This should help: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mqqKpdF_zZ6wf5s.html Now as to being friends in general, don't do it, man. She's lost attraction for you and it's a terrible idea to be friends with her. You ought to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sN1gdsumvampnas.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates a rebound in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively at kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ptyPls2rzbyvcY0.html and kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qblkiZd6tMmzl6c.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
@AsPect36
@AsPect36 2 жыл бұрын
I have applied no contact more than 70 daysand she contacted me quite a few times asking about my classes asking about my if they still like her or not what should i do now should i break no contact now and try winning her now what should i do and I'm a bit confused if she's moved on or just checking out or she's still haven't moved on and still cares should i make a move and break no contact
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
There's really no telling for sure what her intentions were to ask you that question. In most cases, however, it's just so they can get an ego boost from you, so I suggest to tread carefully and try to skip the question. Also take note, once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jtWegNd9q9WUYGQ.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eKeYgNWe3Jm3nac.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html Good luck!
@admirablestudy6815
@admirablestudy6815 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Brad, Thanks for your video. Just wondering if you can offer some insight.. My bf and are have been having space for a week now. Originally he suggested a break as he thought things weren't working out and we both decided on some space and time to get some clarity on things.. he said ok "let's see if it changes anything" He said he was super sad but thinks this needs to happen.. he mentioned he wanted me time and to focus on himself as there are some big life changes happening in his life. We have been dating for 1.4 years, never any arguments always a loving relationship. I can be clingy sometimes and maybe he feels suffocated or overwhelmed. I said to him that I'm here for him, love him, and will support him. He replied back with I love you too. I said I was confused and wanted to respect his space.. he replied back with "if I could just give him a bit of space that he would appreciate it" Every day he was messaging me once saying I hope you had a good day babe or well sleep, and I would reply back and match the energy he was giving me. But now I haven't heard anything from him in 4 days.. and don't know what to do. We are still in a relationship I believe as nothing about a breakup has been mentioned yet.. I want to reach out and check in with him but I want to show him that I respect his request for space. He is moving into his new place this weekend and I was thinking of messaging him once his all settled "hope the move went ok" just to check in or whatever.. But is this the right thing to do? I haven't heard anything from him in 4 days.. there was no mention of an official breakup or that we were in no contact. Really need your advice.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Hi! You're welcome. Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/kNt4iqaIyq2VqKc.html However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html and the golden rules here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9F6ZNyT2qyteHk.html
@MM-kf3gq
@MM-kf3gq 2 жыл бұрын
Is sending a motivation meme to my ex during the 31 day of nc consider breaking the nc ule?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, it is. No contact means cutting off unnecessary communication with your ex in any way, shape or form for at least 30 days. It also means ignoring unimportant or random messages from your ex for at least 30 days straight. This also involves NOT looking at any of your ex's online profiles so you won't overthink things. In other words, the "no contact" period is a time where you fully focus on yourself and take time to heal.
@winstonjohnarcilla1522
@winstonjohnarcilla1522 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Brad. It's been 45days since i havent talked with my ex. Everynight she's still in my dreams. Yesterday, i ask god to give me a sign. If she will appear in my dreams again, i will talk with her and guess what, she does. What do you think i should do now? Im also afraid to get hurt because i know she has someone new
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jtWegNd9q9WUYGQ.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eKeYgNWe3Jm3nac.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html Good luck!
@mrd3e406
@mrd3e406 2 жыл бұрын
It's been 5 months since we broke up and 3 months of no contact and I miss her but I don't know if I should reach out she blocked me and unblocked me and blocked me again for no reason I wasn't even talking to her or anything
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jtWegNd9q9WUYGQ.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eKeYgNWe3Jm3nac.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html Good luck!
@Venom-dr9pc
@Venom-dr9pc 2 жыл бұрын
What should I do, if my ex broke up with me, because she felt like I wasn’t doing enough and wasn’t making enough of an effort to see her
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Try to do the opposite of the "no contact" rule and see if your ex is receptive to contact at this point. If your ex isn't, then it's very important to give it time to let whatever anger there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer or shorter depending on the situation. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/p9R1ZJxjy7uvqH0.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nJZ2a9Rjrq_LpHk.html
@wendydarkwa6507
@wendydarkwa6507 Жыл бұрын
I dont know if hell ever come back
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending o n your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz or sign up for my coaching program so I could take a closer look at what your situation and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
@adyamishra7607
@adyamishra7607 2 жыл бұрын
Hey brad...My ex bf randomly started saying "It was my mistake to propose you…we were never compatible" after this I tried to change the topic but then too he further said "Neither I saw our compatibility nor similarity nor flaws".Why did he say all this? (I am on talking terms with my ex)
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
If you're both past the no contact stage, then it's possible he has gained some clarity on your situation. Try to see if there's some truth to it in order to accept it and not try to revive something that may not be worth reviving, yeah? Ask your trusted mutual friends (pick those you'll know for a fact won't divulge your conversation to your ex) about it and get their opinion or if you want something unbiased, consider signing up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@Thegasman-hc3zz
@Thegasman-hc3zz 2 жыл бұрын
Sent a text asking for a restaurant name. She replied quickly and then blocked me completely on fb after being on restricted mode for 9 weeks…
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that. It's not looking good though. You may have to consider moving on from this especially if you have no means to reach out to her as a result of her blocking you.
@Thegasman-hc3zz
@Thegasman-hc3zz 2 жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning only blocked on socials. Not on WhatsApp…
@roojjakathir7326
@roojjakathir7326 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Brad!! Actually I have a different kind of a story here!! I actually met a boy and we connected almost instantly..but it ended so fast and so badly!! I was emotionally very weak and i begged him to come back to me!! But the more I begged ..the more he got detached from me!! Now it has been almost 4 months since I last spoke with him! Please give me any idea on how to reconnect with him!! I called him once today but he did not pick the phone up!! Pls suggest any possible ideas..
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
You know what they say, easy come easy go. Sorry but that was totally the wrong approach, including trying to call him and I've talked about that here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/oNuYlNCHqt3XqIk.html You ought to review this first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/gpaYq7yFqLCWmIk.html and in fact, apply the tips here first instead of taking the shortcut: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9F6ZNyT2qyteHk.html In the future, if you're still not sure about what you're doing, I really suggest you sign up for my coaching program so I can assess your situation properly and guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@355singhashmita2
@355singhashmita2 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Brad I want to ask you .... I had started no contact but broke after 16-17 day because my ex called me.... I talked to him starting was good....... he told me that he miss me but he send me a picture of him with a new girl that he is his new gf and she is more good n mature than me.....will no contact work ??? Second time
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Make sure you stick to the "no contact" rule this time for as long as he's dating someone else. The 30-day "no contact" rule can work for you in the following ways: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sN1gdsumvampnas.html Your ex is diverting his/her attention to someone else, which is the easiest thing to do and is really just his/her way of coping. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bbF1adGTmZPSlHU.html So that's what you ought to be doing too. Here, watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nbtygcdn1aqtfoE.html so try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control whether the rebound ends up working out or not. Watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/iqiklZZlzN-aqqs.html Now lastly, keep in mind that your ex is suffering too, even though they try to cover it up. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA
@psychotaku7563
@psychotaku7563 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Mr Brad I was doing the no contact with my ex to get them back it's been 2 weeks but suddenly I made a stupid move and sent a dm to her and she was talking shit to me and laughing and saying that's her life I Don't want any dms from you again I was too nice to her never made her sad or anything she just broke up with me for no reason at all is there is any chance or should forget abt her.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
If you're the type to take extremes, I suggest for you to move on. However, if you want to give it a shot, make sure you employ the 30-day rule first. Watch my other vids to know what to do next. Best of luck!
@balasubramaniam.96
@balasubramaniam.96 Жыл бұрын
Hello Brad! My GF broke up with me saying she isn't ready for a relationship and that she's fun loving & everything, I'm exactly opposite to her. She told me that she didn't think about these differences at the beginning but now this has become a reason for our breakup. Our relationship was a serious one, I don't know what made her feel this way. She contacted me after 25 days and told me that she respects me that's why she's talking with me. What should I do to get her back and make our relationship work?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that. Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/kNt4iqaIyq2VqKc.html However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html and the golden rules here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9F6ZNyT2qyteHk.html
@balasubramaniam.96
@balasubramaniam.96 Жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning I followed 'No contact' for a month and initiated a conversation by asking her a help. She agreed to help me, then I rekindled a memory of us to her through text. But she didn't respond to it. I don't know what to do, I just want her back. I'm so much in love with her. Please help me Brad!!!!
@Drieana313
@Drieana313 Жыл бұрын
Me and my ex were together for 7 years. Our breakup was kind of mutual, I brought it up and he mentioned a break up and I agreed. But later, I started bugging him about our relationship and pleading. We had too many serious conversations about the relationship. We are still living together until the end of this month. What should I do? Do I still need to do the no contact or should I wait until we move away?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
It's a different set of rules if you live together. Do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!
@mayasinfh8535
@mayasinfh8535 2 жыл бұрын
Hey brad...Why did my ex message me out of the blue asking "thinking about me?" When I asked him what did he mean, he said "nothing forget it, I was just insane". Why did he ask me if I was thinking about him?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
That's what I call the "temptation" text and your ex is somewhat expected to send one or more of these sooner or later and I've got just the vid for that. Discussed that in one of the vids, including how to handle that kind of message, here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jLNxe7l7m9rag4E.html
@adamaiman2875
@adamaiman2875 2 жыл бұрын
Hye Brad, i just recently broke up with my ex and it's my fault and i admit the mistakes i made, i begged, but the way she says is like "ok", what should i do can you help a brother out
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/heCGrNCK07eqhJ8.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nJ2qqLucktm6o30.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bLFjq9iXqt2pdps.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
@habibullahtahiru8764
@habibullahtahiru8764 2 жыл бұрын
My ex parents separated us for no reason n am hoping to get her attention but couldn’t cuz they said they hate me so she just follow what they said with no option what am I gonna do now ???
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
If your ex is in the right age to make her own decisions that’s independent from their parents, then there may still be a chance. Otherwise, it's best to consider moving on from this, okay? I’m not quite sure why parents had to get involved in the first place. It's either you're both too young to date or it has something to do with culture. Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. Good luck!
@voltage1121
@voltage1121 2 жыл бұрын
What if it's almost a month and she did,nt even reaches out to wish me a happy bday....do you think she is still interested?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
She isn't, hence the breakup. But the good news is my program is all about regaining attraction. Look, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html and the golden rules here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9F6ZNyT2qyteHk.html
@zamanshamim9186
@zamanshamim9186 2 жыл бұрын
How i mentain no contact rule? We in same school and i will see him very day then what should i do now? Plzzzz tell mee🙂
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
I get this question a lot so I wouldn't be surprised if you've found your answer before I even get to it -- if you've checked my other videos, that is. In this type of situation, try to limit your contact with your ex. And by that I mean only interact with him/her "only" when absolutely necessary. Watch one of the latest videos I've posted here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mqqKpdF_zZ6wf5s.html Your case is actually one of the few cases where the “no contact” rule is an exception...but DON'T initiate random contact in any way and don’t make any unnecessary chitchats, all right? I've discussed it in these videos, as well as how to handle it: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sLGYgauZqtO9fZs.html but read my Ex Factor Guide because you still ought to go through the basics as well. I've posted an overview on how to get your ex back on an earlier vid, check it out as it's all there, but with the guide, you'll have an in-depth view on how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, etc. since good timing is essential at www.breakupbrad.com Okay? Take care!
@SergMilli
@SergMilli 2 жыл бұрын
Is this kind of brain change even possible if they have reconnected with an ex they dated before? Although we were together longer and we have kids together.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
It's worth a try.
@dn-bw8cu
@dn-bw8cu 2 жыл бұрын
Me and my ex were fine after we brake up, we dated and started again just dating but then she started making excuses, at the time I didn't see what was going on I did the stupid, begging and pleading she lied to me there was already someone else in the picture but he was married, she waited until he left his wife then called it off completely with me, a few weeks ago she said all I can offer is friendship, which I was fine with. I was fine with being amicable.. She then went all angry and said some really nasty stuff. So, I apologised for everything that led to us breaking up, wished them both all the happiness in the world, moving forwards and I haven't spoken to her since. I will always care about her but I don't think she is the same person I once knew and loved, I'm now in a new relationship and happier than ever! I wished I would have seen your videos at the start of the breakup because maybe we would have got back together and really made a go of things, however, I wouldn't be the person I am happy with now so I do believe this has happened for a reason.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Looks like the breakup was a blessing in disguise! It does take two people to make a relationship work but yes, the worst thing you can do once she makes up excuses is to beg and plead. As a general rule, being overly clingy and needy are relationship attraction killers.
@dn-bw8cu
@dn-bw8cu 2 жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning I wouldn't have reacted that way but, with the mixed signals and telling me we could start again on fresh foundations, I got lost and I honestly thought there was a chance for us if we both worked at it when all along there was someone else in the background. I had a feeling in my gut something wasn't right and I asked her if there was someone else serveral times to which she denied it, it would have been so much easier if she'd have just been honest and told me that she was attracted to someone else, it was the not knowing and the mixed signals that made me beg and plead because she made me believe that if changes were made we'd get back together and it would be better than ever. I was blindsided, what I don't get is how people can be so cruel to people they once loved and how they can just switch off their feelings for someone as soon as someone else is in the picture. I've been on several dates but, my feelings for her didn't just vanish in fact even though she has gone this way about things and lied to me I still care about her and I think I always will... We had a really strong connection, one that I've never had with anyone else. Hopefully, I will make a strong connection in the future with someone else.
@awisegirl1479
@awisegirl1479 Жыл бұрын
Hi Brad, I was seeing him for 6 weeks. I broke up cos I thought I was not being prioritised. Two days later I went back and apologised. He said he will think about it so I gave him space. 4 days ago he came back to say he couldn’t get back to the place we were and would rather move on. He said he was blessed to have met me and he would like to keep the door open. I want us back together but I know he is on dating apps. Please help!
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Depending on what really cut the relationship short, it may be time to consider moving on from this. But don't rush. Always take the time to give each other space first, all right? Do a minimum of 3 weeks of "no contact" and see if you still want your ex and if your ex is receptive to contact AFTER that period. Watch this: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sN1gdsumvampnas.html
@joshuamartinez8588
@joshuamartinez8588 Жыл бұрын
Hey Brad so recently me and my ex was starting to get back she was giving me another chance and then September gone dey she told me she just don't see us being together she can't imagine a future with me and she started to date another guy so yesterday we met up and I told her I can't do this anymore being to one to take her everywhere because it's just hurting me whiles you busy having all the fun then she told me she still has feelings and she still love me so I don't know what to do or think do u think she's running away from her feelings or there no other chance they with us for now
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Give her time to work through her feelings. If your ex has the "Grass is Greener" Syndrome, realize and accept that this is outside your control and really the best you can do is becoming the best version of yourself and vibrate higher, which means NOT taking less than what you deserve and not settling to just becoming an option, especially if this used to be a stable relationship between you two. She's likely taken you for granted, so you don't really need that in your life. Use the law of attraction. You deserve love and worth of love, so you can only attract love. If she goes away from it, then you repelled her and will most likely attract her back if she vibrates as high as you. Otherwise, be open to new people that's on your level. Be strong!
@joshuamartinez8588
@joshuamartinez8588 Жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning see I've tried giving her time and for some reason we still ends up talking seeing each other ect we agree not to have sex anymore but I'm lost she could have that syndrome 😔
@subhamsahoo92
@subhamsahoo92 2 жыл бұрын
Brad my ex's family warned her coz we r not in a same cast that's y she dumped me after breakup ..I begged her pledded her ..what should I do now so that I can get her back...??
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know a ton about your culture but from what I've gathered, these strict rules of marriage you have and who to marry are unbreakable, right? In this case, I'm sorry but this is beyond a relationship counsellor's reach. We don't make or bend these laws as it's strictly your own. Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. Good luck!
@shrujaniiiii
@shrujaniiiii 2 жыл бұрын
Hi sir I just need you help .. My ex left me one month back as he doubted of me cheating over him but there was no such thing i did nt cheat him bt he did nt confront me and did nt trusted me so he brokeup .. he said a lot of things to me like i was a joke to him and that i am not a good person.. and he don't want to talk to me can you please help me He has his birthday on 4th of October so according to you shall I wish him or not I did msg him with erase message today and was thinking of no contact rule but should i wish him on his birthday?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Try to honor your own feelings first and how this is all making you feel. If he doesn't trust you, there's really no point in trying to make it work. Give him space and try to see if he snaps out of it somehow. Also your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/kNt4iqaIyq2VqKc.html However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html and the golden rules here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9F6ZNyT2qyteHk.html
@knapi1504
@knapi1504 2 жыл бұрын
i need your help m confused (its long distance relationship) : me and my ex-boyfriend were fighting like any normal couple But in this time he said rude things to me and hurted me so much so i told him that m leaving then we didn't talk again (i closed my social accnts but when i reopen them the next day he blocked me) *He never apologize for hurting me* So i feel like i am the one who dumped him It's have been 2 months since the break up should i reache out or no?i feel i made a mistake.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
It's possible his trust issues were triggered. A long distance relationship requires a solid foundation for it to work, not to mention an enormous amount of trust with each other. The former always precedes the latter. Fighting, when you’re already miles away from each other doesn’t help, especially if it happens frequently. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fbeJZ7FhmdvapHU.html and kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a9SWirV7t9jScac.html
@chantalmaharaj434
@chantalmaharaj434 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Brad.. my ex broke up for me after a few great months of dating after i got back from cuba with my family. It was going perfect and as soon as I landed he broke up. He said there is no spark but was perfectly fine before i left...he blocked me on everything.. Its now almost been 1 month and i really want to reach out.. how should i do it?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/a7uEbJV6p5vZl6c.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : kzfaq.info/get/bejne/epd3o7VmsqfUgZ8.html Good luck!
@chantalmaharaj434
@chantalmaharaj434 2 жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning what if he doesn't unblock me... should i call?
@puso_berriezz_9386
@puso_berriezz_9386 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Brad I broke up with my GF 4months ago, she's dumped me, we been together for 4 years before the break up and I still want her I love her I can't move on we are at the same university 💔 and she stays near the road I use every day when I go to attend , when I see her place it keeps on hurting me because we are nolonger together, and I think she sees me everyday when I pass by I don think she will even miss me 😔😭 and the fact that we talk everyday,I send her good morning/night texts everyday and she replies, but when I start about getting back together she refuses.Help me get her back please 😭💔
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Watch this first to help set your expectations: y2u.be/82uUJ7kPXhE and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/b7JzZMiozKjPeYU.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and the golden rules here: y2u.be/1kJ1ybuFIHE Depending on how you handled things all throughout the process, you may have to wait longer, which I’ve discussed here: y2u.be/OzVymYnQFTk
@affanjamil7969
@affanjamil7969 2 жыл бұрын
Hey brad how you doing .? My ex is moved on with another guy but i still want her back I have tried my ex many times from different numbers but now she is just listening to voice and blocking me i tried one number that got block i tried with another one i become block . Now tell me what should i do i just want her back any how at any cost . Plz help me out with something that work fast
@mrd3e406
@mrd3e406 2 жыл бұрын
Tbh you went over the line already man just let it go
@affanjamil7969
@affanjamil7969 2 жыл бұрын
Cant man i just call her to convince her to sorry her but now this happened .. i want her plz help me out. @Brad browning
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Try to get to a point where you want her back as opposed to needing her back. Because right now, you've been acting very needy and that's not a good thing at all and is only pushing your ex further away from you. And desperation is never ever attractive. Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: y2u.be/ZyJRphwDca4 and this should help guide you on what to do for the time being: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jbx2jbmiq6qqhmg.html now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in KZfaq to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!
@ryanbaril3917
@ryanbaril3917 Жыл бұрын
Hey Brad, me my ex broke up a month ago, I begged her to come back, for about 2.5 weeks. A mutal friend jumped me, I did inform her of it, to which we got into a heated argument. I've been NC for a week and a bit now, we were together for 2 years. She left me, after 30-45 days should I reach out or should I wait until she reaches out. I want to marry this woman in the long run what should I do?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
If there's been some begging on your end, then you may have to extend the no contact period. Average time is 30 days but can go anywhere from 4 to 6 weeks in usual cases. If there's been some endless begging and/or refusing to cut off contact on your end, however, I usually suggest to give it more time, around 2 months or even more. Cheating instances are different if you've cheated, could be longer or shorter depending on how your ex reacts. Do take note that in some instances where the dumpee just couldn't take the hint and continually bugs their ex for months, there comes a time where the ex reaches a "breaking point" and confirms it's the right decision to break up and becomes hellbent in moving on from you. So the bottom line is the "no contact" rule is best applied when the breakup is still fresh. Discussed the importance of silence here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sN1gdsumvampnas.html Also don't forget to watch my other vids so you'll know what to do after the "no contact" phase, especially if you're not getting my Ex Factor Guide. Generally you can reach out when you feel ready but never before the recommended time mentioned above. Good luck!
@ryanbaril3917
@ryanbaril3917 Жыл бұрын
Hey, so we ended up meeting yesterday and there was a ton of flirting from both sides, were meeting again this week, do I ask if she wants to go on a proper date? Or should that come from her?
@michaelpolichshuk7447
@michaelpolichshuk7447 2 жыл бұрын
I started the no contact period for two days now after a week of contact with my ex after breakup, I can also see what she texts me my phone blows from her messages asking if I'm ok or why I'm not replying, also calls whenever she gets a chance to do so, she texts on anything she can contact me I keep ignoring her is this a right thing to do?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
That's what I call the "check-in" text and your ex is somewhat expected to send one or more of these sooner or later and I've got just the vid for that. Discussed that in one of the vids, including how to handle that kind of message, here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jLNxe7l7m9rag4E.html
@michaelpolichshuk7447
@michaelpolichshuk7447 2 жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning thank you!
@emilyslife8010
@emilyslife8010 2 жыл бұрын
My ex broke up with me because the last 4 months was baseball season with my kids...and I didn't make the time to spend alone time together. Aka.. I neglected him. Can I fix that?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Try to do the opposite of the "no contact" rule and see if your ex is receptive to contact at this point. If your ex isn't, then it's very important to give it time to let whatever anger there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer or shorter depending on the situation. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/p9R1ZJxjy7uvqH0.html AND kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nJZ2a9Rjrq_LpHk.html and this time, try not to make the same mistake/s again.
@emilyslife8010
@emilyslife8010 2 жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning except I just found out today that he's "talking/dating a stripper"! How am I supposed to handle that?
@rexitapatricia.9341
@rexitapatricia.9341 Жыл бұрын
Brad.. i just did a week of no contact and he called for coffee time with him. But he is saying he s friendly with me coz he can understand how the breakup is too hard. He wants me to move on and go out meet people. But at the same time he is flirting with me, taking me out on weekend to spend time. He even took me out on a Wednesday saying his relatives are coming and i wont have time to spend with you on this weekend. Im confused whether he wants me or not...
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 5 ай бұрын
Hey how are you? If he's open to seeing other people, chances are he's not ready to commit, so assess the risks first if it's all worth it. Remember, meeting up when you're both not ready will only alienate your ex further, and that's best case scenario. Worst case scenario will land you a spot in the dreaded friendzone. Watch this first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/gOCSZJubnMCxgHk.html but if you're both ready, watch this video on how to tell as well as how tips for you on tipping the odds to your favor: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/m7CAetWc2rfSnWQ.html Best of luck!
@dishareemitra4127
@dishareemitra4127 2 жыл бұрын
Me & my ex boyfriend r in a no contact zone now. 16th August is his dad's death anniversary. He told me randomly one day. He has no idea i remember the date. So i've decided to text him up on that day. Do u think it's gonna make him feel special that i remember such small details about him? Do u think it can rekindle in him to get back together? It's been two months since the breakup btw.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, it will and that was thoughtful of you. However, do give him space. Remember to employ the 30-day "no contact" rule first. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ipqDrZl1zr22o4U.html Though make sure you follow the tips here as well: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/rs2CY5aDyLucnas.html AND some recent tips here: y2u.be/FLeP1eRCkCk Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eKeYgNWe3Jm3nac.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw
@dishareemitra4127
@dishareemitra4127 Жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning i texted him today, he said it was sweet of me to remember the date & text with concern but after that his texts seems to be very straight looks like he emotionally convinced himself to move on. What do i do now?
@cheetahcat3940
@cheetahcat3940 Жыл бұрын
If my ex was on dates immediately after a break up I'd assume they never loved me. OR they were probably dating that person the whole time. If infidelity was the reason your ex broke up with you....I don't think making them think you're with someone else is a good idea.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Cheating does tend to break any chances to rekindle a relationship due to trust issues. However, there are some couples who work past that, granted it's a one-off thing.
@snowflakes7268
@snowflakes7268 Жыл бұрын
My problem is that we’re from the same friend circle. We suddenly broke up and nothing bad happened. But we’re in the same friend circle. What can I do?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
You can add more hobbies and not be totally dependent on your friends especially if you know your ex is there. You both need time away from each other right now and doing the opposite is only going to be harder for you, so try to restructure your life, okay? Apply the tips here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/areVYJdykqnUho0.html
@snowflakes7268
@snowflakes7268 Жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning thank you so much! So we broke up about 5 days ago and haven’t really spoken about it since I’m in another country right now. We all live somewhat in the same building so we end up meeting a lot, I’m heading back tomorrow. Would you say I talk to him about it once in person as well since we haven’t gotten the chance and explain him my side or shall I not? He says “we’re just different people”
@chelseaeberhardt
@chelseaeberhardt 2 жыл бұрын
Lol he talks to me and wanted to be friends. Therefore I’m okay with that.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Make sure you check this out first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ptyPls2rzbyvcY0.html
@chelseaeberhardt
@chelseaeberhardt 2 жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning currently watching the video but I’m honestly okay with us not working things out. I’ve voiced my feelings and my wants. But if a man don’t want to be a part of my life, it doesn’t mean I’m gonna be hard on myself about it. The false hope bugs me but at the same time I’m not waiting for a man who doesn’t want me. He didn’t choose me, that’s his loss. If he doesn’t wanna work on things, his loss. But I agree with what your saying :-) I’m not gonna chase a man though, never again. I’m just working on myself and doing me and being his friend. Seems like right now I’m taking the breakup better then him anyway. I’ve grieved his loss in that way and due to my past and destroying myself over a man, what is meant to be will be and happen with time. That’s what I’m living by. When we do talk, he reaches out and actually makes a conversation with me. I’m following my heart. Thank you for the advice!
@George-nr4gt
@George-nr4gt Жыл бұрын
My ex broke up with me because I cheated on her which I have apologised for and said I’ve never do it again and that I regret doing everything we are meeting in 2 weeks which we have a good reason to and she has said she does want to give me a chance if I can show I’ve changed we’ve been on and off but all that happens is we break up take a break and get back together again but I don’t know what to do in between now and meeting her because i know she’s speaking to another guy but she still calls me when she goes sleep and can’t sleep without my hoodie because it was long distance has been 3 days since the breakup last time we broke up and As soon as she seen me she was completely back to normal and started kissing me and everything
@George-nr4gt
@George-nr4gt Жыл бұрын
I’ve also said if she decides to move on I’ll always be there for her if she ever needs me
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Sorry, this is a bit too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@sanaemobiersack5943
@sanaemobiersack5943 2 жыл бұрын
Kindly tell me how to get your Ex back after 6 years of breakup.. 🥺 I am waiting for him since the breakup..
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Watch this first to help set your expectations: y2u.be/82uUJ7kPXhE and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/b7JzZMiozKjPeYU.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and the golden rules here: y2u.be/1kJ1ybuFIHE
@sanaemobiersack5943
@sanaemobiersack5943 2 жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning Thank you so Much.. 🙏🏻😇
@daggerick454
@daggerick454 Жыл бұрын
Me and my ex talked for 3 years we broke up about 2 months ago and she been acting cold to me than out of nowhere she talking to a new guy already I was stunned by how fast she lost feelings until she told me that she was losing feelings almost 6 months ago she told me that she hates me and won’t give me closure and I don’t know why she just changed and honestly she feels like my soulmate yes I messed up by calling and texting a lot. But she have been acting like a asshole and it hurts so much her birthday is in 3 months in December I wanted to wait to talk to her than but I feel like she really hates me and I will never know why.
@daggerick454
@daggerick454 Жыл бұрын
Like I didn’t stand up for myself a lot throughout the relationship because I put her feelings before anything because she was going through mental health situations but I promised myself that I won’t do that anymore and I been going to counseling as well me and her parents are cool and her family they are actually upset by how she has been acting to me after the breakup but I been still defending her and she thinks that I am trying to play victim still when I never have it’s like she a different person now.
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that. Look, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html and the golden rules here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/Z9F6ZNyT2qyteHk.html
@CindyWalters-iv4yh
@CindyWalters-iv4yh 6 ай бұрын
Is it advisable to date so I can get him back even though I cheated but I won’t be dating the person I cheated on him with I will date someone else?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 6 ай бұрын
Since the issue was infidelity, it's best to stop dating altogether if you're trying to win your ex back. This vid should help: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nrOSrbqjmLfXmnk.html
@CindyWalters-iv4yh
@CindyWalters-iv4yh 6 ай бұрын
@@BradBrowning alright thanks❤️
@mr.k3609
@mr.k3609 2 жыл бұрын
My ex and I still talks very often. She said she’s comfortable talking to me… is it her just being friendly?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah but that's not a good thing for you. A key component is to avoid small talk as much as possible, especially during the most critical stage: 30-day "no contact" rule because there's a huge chance your ex may be slowly easing herself away from you. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA The thing with exes, especially the one whose idea is to break the relationship, is they also struggle with the breakup and finding all means to cope...including talking to someone they're used to talking to, a.k.a you. What that leaves you, however, is unknowingly becoming their emotional sponge. So if you want this ex back, you ought to let her feel what it's like not to have you in her life first, so employ the 30-day "no contact" rule, okay? Here's how it can help you: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sN1gdsumvampnas.html An exception is if your ex is trying to contact you about something really important or is sincerely asking you to get back together. Understand that you risk too much by staying in touch and you best not respond unless it’s about something important. Watch this, too: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nbtygcdn1aqtfoE.html
@johnbeeler25
@johnbeeler25 10 ай бұрын
What about a third chance?
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning 9 ай бұрын
With on-and-off relationships, oftentimes this is a sign of underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. It may be time to put things into perspective while it's still early because in 14 years spent as a relationship online coach alone, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/sNdxeMxqtcipcXU.html But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot. Good luck!
@trafelder5530
@trafelder5530 Жыл бұрын
18 days no contact so far
@BradBrowning
@BradBrowning Жыл бұрын
Good. Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jtWegNd9q9WUYGQ.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/eKeYgNWe3Jm3nac.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/l8t3gbNzydbSo30.html Good luck!
@trafelder5530
@trafelder5530 Жыл бұрын
@@BradBrowning why should I text 1st, she was disloyal
@owaniedmond8914
@owaniedmond8914 Жыл бұрын
Great video Broke up with my girlfriend two months ago, did the no contact principle Just over the weekend I invited her best friend to a church service I was coordinating She came with my ex girlfriend, but she kept staring at me with smiles Personally I didn't like it but it sent a lot of message to me, I didn't even bother to reach out to her, just chose to keep myself busy through out Could it be a time to launch again?? But I don't even like her anymore
@mayasinfh8535
@mayasinfh8535 2 жыл бұрын
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