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Reacting To Anna Bey "7 Signs You're Dating A Loser" | Courtney Ryan

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Courtney Ryan

Courtney Ryan

Күн бұрын

In this video, I react to Anna Bey's "7 Signs You're Dating A Loser." I saw Barstool Sports talking about this video and decided to do my own reaction. Thank you all for watching, let me know what you thought and comment what you want me to react to next.
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@pranavnnair5
@pranavnnair5 3 жыл бұрын
The reason some of her content is so shallow is because her content is directed towards women who want a particular lifestyle. She doesn't make videos for women who just want to be with a good guy and live a simple life.
@vltruane
@vltruane 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, she only makes videos aimed at the more affluent, which is less than 20% of the population. The problem average women watch that content thinking that nonsense applies to them, and it does not. It’s unrealistic for most people.
@b-0220
@b-0220 3 жыл бұрын
Because there isn't a market of "women who just want to be with a good guy and live a simple life." They are practically non-existent. Almost ALL (99.91%) women want a man to elevate their life.
@Lonstermash
@Lonstermash 3 жыл бұрын
@@vltruane less than 20%???? Probably more like less than 2%. 80K a year (which affords a very moderate lifestyle in a city like LA where I live) puts you in the top 10% of American wage earners.
@Lonstermash
@Lonstermash 3 жыл бұрын
@@b-0220 yes, unless (in my experiences) the woman is not very good looking
@101calmer8
@101calmer8 3 жыл бұрын
@Cmndr Roy Fokker YEP, UR RIGHT ABOUT THAT
@MrCanadiansingh
@MrCanadiansingh 3 жыл бұрын
Dating loser signs: 1.He/she Tells You That they Loves You Far Too Quickly .2. He/she Blows Hot and Cold 3. Your Friends and Family Don’t Like Him 4. His/her Actions Don’t Match there Words 5. He/she Is Self-Obsessed 6. Your Feelings Don’t Matter 7. He/she Asks to Borrow Money
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
👏🏼
@marcuslong9761
@marcuslong9761 3 жыл бұрын
These 7 signs are literally the guy every valuable woman desires. Dudes who can't get desirable women complain of these exact same signs.
@none5193
@none5193 3 жыл бұрын
The best part about what you have said is that you can replace he with she and have the same outcome.
@bluecheeze163
@bluecheeze163 3 жыл бұрын
Takes one to know one?
@bluecheeze163
@bluecheeze163 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly put anyone In a stressful situation and shows their true colours.
@scottleespence752
@scottleespence752 3 жыл бұрын
I like her statement about preferring being single versus being in a relationship that doesn't work. Too many people are so wrapped up in "being in a relationship" that they waste their time.
@inconnu4961
@inconnu4961 2 жыл бұрын
They are NOT wasting their time, they are simply lying about what they want! They are enjoying the benefits of that relationship, even if its not the ideal or does not look like it may work out! People wouldnt stay if there was NO benefit! So obviously the pros of staying outweigh the cons!
@mofospeedracer1131
@mofospeedracer1131 3 жыл бұрын
If a man is responsible, works hard and is kind and compassionate he’ll never truly be a loser even if he is missing desired attributes from female dating suitors.
@sarcodonblue2876
@sarcodonblue2876 2 жыл бұрын
The reality is that they find their life partners in late adolescence and there early twenties.
@zourin8804
@zourin8804 Жыл бұрын
@@sarcodonblue2876 and then divorce them six years down the road.
@FmFpF1992
@FmFpF1992 3 жыл бұрын
After listening to her, I honestly feel both sexes are complaining about the same behavior both sexes display when dating and neither side wants to change......
@artfolly
@artfolly 3 жыл бұрын
Nailed it. It's almost as though if women go after men with the sole intention of getting a luxurious lifestyle out of it, while bringing nothing to the table (except lip fillers, which in fairness can make a difference to fellatio), are going to be scraping the very bottom of the barrel when it comes to finding a partner. Luckily I think a small portion of her followers are seeing her true colours now though 🙏
@akaalisbenjamin2093
@akaalisbenjamin2093 3 жыл бұрын
Except that man are better at being lonely than woman since we have all kinds of hobbies. Women on the otherhand face eventual depression.
@keinkoenich2673
@keinkoenich2673 3 жыл бұрын
@@akaalisbenjamin2093 They can have hobbies too, you know. Also pets. They can manage, once they accept their chances have gotten dim.
@akaalisbenjamin2093
@akaalisbenjamin2093 3 жыл бұрын
@@keinkoenich2673 Of course that's why you hear about old cat ladies 😂
@abdielneris4957
@abdielneris4957 3 жыл бұрын
Women want men to change. Men want women to stay the same.
@thisprojectisretired2810
@thisprojectisretired2810 3 жыл бұрын
No.1 reason He hasn’t beat the Ender Dragon yet
@chitownbob9714
@chitownbob9714 3 жыл бұрын
I haven't beat the Ender dragon yet. I don't know what that is.... Wouldn't it be worse if he beat it 13 times? 🤔
@TheVMbros
@TheVMbros 2 жыл бұрын
@@chitownbob9714 It's a Dragon that lives in the Ender World inside the videogame "Minecraft". It was a joke :)
@Gutch220
@Gutch220 3 жыл бұрын
This woman in the clips seems like she'd dump you as soon as she 'found' a better situation, or somebody whispered the right things in her ear. Then brag about it.
@HiddenAnonymous
@HiddenAnonymous 3 жыл бұрын
I do not think that is the case unless she is a hypocrite. She said multiple things about men who don't commit or follow-through and also mentioned a caveat about females being critical thinking in difficult situations. So, unless she is a a pure hypocrite, I do not believe she would simply pack up and leave if she saw something better.
@bluecheeze163
@bluecheeze163 3 жыл бұрын
Frs and daddy issues to the max
@dotdashdotdash
@dotdashdotdash 3 жыл бұрын
99.9% of women will do this, it's female hypergamy.
@bluecheeze163
@bluecheeze163 3 жыл бұрын
These are the types of women who will give you advice only to fuck up your life
@kramer1372
@kramer1372 3 жыл бұрын
10000000%%%%
@selfconflicteddating6117
@selfconflicteddating6117 3 жыл бұрын
You are dating Anna Bey. Sign number 1. If you are referring to people as losers that is a red flag.
@Larikalful
@Larikalful 3 жыл бұрын
Sign number 2. If you contradict yourself every 4 sentences that means you are manipulative.
@x-man5056
@x-man5056 3 жыл бұрын
@@Larikalful and/or a ditz.
@ameya7723
@ameya7723 3 жыл бұрын
Somebody find out her husband and tell him about her. She recently got married and all that arrogance is coming from the comfort of having a man beside her and strength that the relationship gives her.
@itsmeGeorgina
@itsmeGeorgina 3 жыл бұрын
You got that this channels owner AGREED with most of what Anna said ? 😂😂😂😂
@x-man5056
@x-man5056 3 жыл бұрын
@@itsmeGeorgina Yes, it's disappointing.
@CodingJesus
@CodingJesus 3 жыл бұрын
Anna Bey is the type of woman that says men should pay for everything and a woman should do nothing other than make a man wait 90 days just to kiss her.
@ajrodriguez8601
@ajrodriguez8601 3 жыл бұрын
This video makes it seem like Anna Bey is (kind of) reasonable... which is unusual. Most of her videos she just shows how much of a HUGE gold-digger she is.
@OscarLopez-si2wg
@OscarLopez-si2wg 3 жыл бұрын
True. Women feel the power in them is they vagina..kim kardashians or good example. This is a men's world. It say in the bible. The true hurts. Women in America feel like they to good for evermen. Unless they rich.
@MalaSomarina
@MalaSomarina 3 жыл бұрын
@@OscarLopez-si2wg You have power in your bad english...
@OscarLopez-si2wg
@OscarLopez-si2wg 3 жыл бұрын
@@MalaSomarina thank you so MUCH. MY SPELLING DON'T DEFINED ME WHO I AM. BUT A BEAUTIFULL WOMEN THINKS SHE DESERVES IT ALL CAUSE OF HER BODY.
@DinaStrange
@DinaStrange 9 ай бұрын
I like Anna. And Agree w her.
@i9incher
@i9incher 2 жыл бұрын
What Ann says happens: "Men are spoiled and ghost you!" What actually happens: Men go on a date with Ann and realize she's a nightmare so they never call or text her back.
@biswadevmajhi1973
@biswadevmajhi1973 2 жыл бұрын
Ann bey is certified gold digger
@katemiller7874
@katemiller7874 2 жыл бұрын
Then be honest and tell her she’s a nightmare
@billsmith2308
@billsmith2308 2 жыл бұрын
@@katemiller7874 Then hear how you are her nightmare. No, just walk.
@tiac3589
@tiac3589 Жыл бұрын
Well, she is married now.🤷 Men who really like to ghosting women will keep doing that, even after his marriage. There are guys who can't handle relationship and commitment.
@adam.dzwoniarek72
@adam.dzwoniarek72 Жыл бұрын
Amen to that!
@romangoykhman6127
@romangoykhman6127 3 жыл бұрын
She:" Men are spoiled today"! She: "Men need too climb mountains for me!" - CLASSY!
@OV0312
@OV0312 2 жыл бұрын
Words entirely taken out of context..
@inconnu4961
@inconnu4961 2 жыл бұрын
@Taylor Jones they do? when did this start? It used to be but not any more! Rarely can women be inconvenienced by their husbands!
@kingkohli4952
@kingkohli4952 2 жыл бұрын
@@inconnu4961 they don’t they would like to victimize themselves to justify their expectations and stupidity
@Ifslayanct
@Ifslayanct 3 жыл бұрын
The irony of her talking about how the man has to the financial weight and then talk about meeting halfway in commitment. She seems toxic. And sexist
@nelaela647
@nelaela647 3 жыл бұрын
She is super bitter. She wasted her 20s dancing naked in ibiza then escorting in london. She hoped she would bag a millionaire but that fidnt happen
@JohnDoe-gz4cx
@JohnDoe-gz4cx 3 жыл бұрын
If I were a woman that wanted marriage and children I would want a provider male so I could stay home and take care of the children and raise them. This isn’t toxic it’s logical. Now if a woman doesn’t want children and wants a man to provide for her just to exist then you have a point. But the whole just find a man for love regardless of financial situation is kind of stupid and does not benefit women and children. It’s only beneficial to men who haven’t put the work and strategy in to earn more
@cfpzona
@cfpzona 3 жыл бұрын
@@carvedtreeful I'd say I feel sorry for the poor schmuck but then again he's a poor schmuck.
@Larikalful
@Larikalful 3 жыл бұрын
@@JohnDoe-gz4cx That i understand and if women would actually do that then im more than happy to provide. But if she wants your money, while she also earn her money but she never seem to spend any of them on you... then something is wrong since you are only giving amd she is only taking
@JohnDoe-gz4cx
@JohnDoe-gz4cx 3 жыл бұрын
@@Larikalful yeah but that just makes you a fool. Most women want kids tho so this is unlikely. I am just adding some perspective to balance all of the bitter dudes hating in this comment section because they lack the finances to support a woman. If you have money it’s of little inconvenience to get rid of a woman. Honestly unless you are a sugar daddy you should only accept a woman also making high value money and you only start taking care of her if you get her pregnant or you are asking her to serve you and take care of the home. But if she isn’t pregnant you can easily find a woman willing to pay her share if you are also a high value man making money. If you’re not solely looking for beauty. You just gotta pick your pros and cons man. No reason to lament over gold diggers and for all these dudes to get triggered when they really aren’t even a problem necessary to deal with.
@242Assembly
@242Assembly 3 жыл бұрын
Courtney, you're right on point about ladies who don't appreciate a door being opened for them etc. Happened to me a few times despite the fact holding the door open for people in general is politeness itself.
@laturista1000
@laturista1000 3 жыл бұрын
these days when a man opens a door for a young woman or offers to carry her heavy groceries, he is perceived as a "pick up artist" with a hidden agenda. She sees him as a rapist or some creepy dude trying to hit on her. Some men just want to help out. Men would open a door for an old man just the same. But these days women have their guard up in public. Lifetime, True Crime TV shows on Netflix perpetuate this false stereotype that every man is prowling the streets looking for female victims
@Lilly-rl6up
@Lilly-rl6up 3 жыл бұрын
@@laturista1000 the internet isn't real life.. in real life people hold doors and it isn't a big deal.
@ivon8888
@ivon8888 Жыл бұрын
​@@laturista1000idk what you're talking about. I appreaciate men holding the door for me. I do it to. It's just a polite thing to do. I don't see it as them having an agenda
@SteinerSE
@SteinerSE 3 жыл бұрын
One of the things that made me decide to follow your channel, the respect you show and how you don't just give opinions, you motivate them. The fact that you have a soothing and uplifting appearance and voice is just a bonus.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, Thomas! I appreciate you 🥰
@RARochester
@RARochester 3 жыл бұрын
@@CourtneyRyan By agreeing with this poster Anna Bey that a man should provide more; you said “ I thought that's fine “ tells us ( men ) that you're no different than the rest of the women out there. You say you want EQUALITY and everything 50/50 but you want the man to pay more.....do you see the INCONSISTENCY ? That's not equal; that's not a partnership; that's hypocrisy. What's more; the term “ loser “ is not gender specific; I've come across many women that are losers and going nowhere except being future cat/dog ladies. No ambition; no money; no nothing. Women don't understand that THEY are the ones that are replaceable not men. In other words: a 45 year old man can date up or down the age continuum; a woman can't; a 45 year old woman can only date a man older than her. There are always exceptions to the rule but by and large this is true. The 45 year old woman will find a younger man to sleep with her but he's not marrying her; trust me. All women have an expiration date; single mothers’ do not want to be single mothers’ but they are; women need to be humble and when they find a decent guy ( often called beta ) you kick him to the curb and then wonder why they're alone. Every man has it in him to be generous; it's the woman that BRINGS it out of him or not; that's the difference. Feminism is DESTROYING the lives of both men and women and it's extremely unfortunate.....
@OscarLopez-si2wg
@OscarLopez-si2wg 3 жыл бұрын
It looks like you were born whit a silver spoon.. Thas why she likes your comment
@northgirl77
@northgirl77 3 жыл бұрын
@@RARochester “women have expiration date” hahahaha that is just stupid. We are not a product you purchase from your grocery store to have expiration date. That is discussting and no men above 40 never married are viewed as weirdos in USA. Usually my friends think there is something wrong with them if they haven’t married in their 30s. And I know few men that were desperate to get married before 40 and start a family, now in unhappy marriages! I don’t care how good you look or how much money you have. That is a red flag, you have it all right? The looks, the money, ambition, business but no relationship… but then that man turns out to be a woman hater blames all of his exes for everything. No no no. Men need to stop with this bullshit with dogs and cats. Just because women decide to have a pet it doesn’t mean they are worthless and no man will have or want them. It’s such a bullshit. I say do what makes you happy. Marry, dont marry, have kids or not… but if you hate women please please don’t spit your hate for them all over online. I don’t agree with this bullshit 50/50. Men generally make more money than women. It can never be exactly 50/50 in a relationship when it comes to finances! So if that is obvious and discussed in the beginning of the relationship why do you expect women to buy you dinner, or split the bill if you make more you shouldn’t care that you pay it. But no, it’s all about your ego men. When women get pregnant and leave work to take care of your babies they are held back from their career because typically women take care of the needs of the child the first years. There are studies that show how much money women are losing if they pause their careers to take care of their kids. The man can still work and provide for the family, he is not affected at all… ok maybe he will be sleep deprived but he will still go to his job, he can still get his promotions and climb in his career. My question to you is if you split everything in half with your girl friend and later when she is your wife pregnant and after birth has complications and can’t or doesn’t want to go to work because she is pain or wants to bond longer with her child…. How would you split everything 50/50 financially then? Financially how would she able to split and contribute what you were expecting her to do in the beginning? You see where I’m going with this? Men have an issue with this.
@RARochester
@RARochester 3 жыл бұрын
@@northgirl77 as I wrote; women have an expiration date and they are a product; there's a reason you put on all that make up so you can be chosen like a product; men ask women out OR we don't. From 20 - 30 is your sell by date and that's it. Men can date up or down the age bracket; women can only date up. When’s the last time a 45yo women date a 23yo man? Doesn't happen; he’ll sleep with her and have a good time but he’ll dump when he’s finished. Men are self sufficient we don't need women; we want women, there's a difference. There are a lot of cat ladies and dog ladies on the horizon; it's so comical to me that women are bawling that they can't find a good man. The answer is good men don't want you.......women that have a body count over 30 are ratched. And yes, 1 night stands count against your total; no guy wants a tramp for a wife or girl AND he will find out. The truth hurts...women are the ones that want to get married not men. We enjoy our money while routinely replacing the women we have for younger one's because we can....as been said “ men age like wine; women age like milk “ another favourite is “ men age like Sean Connery and women age like Sean Connery “. Enjoy your cats and feeding ducks stale bread down by the lake.
@amateurwizard
@amateurwizard 3 жыл бұрын
"Men are so spoilt today, it's truly a challenge" talk about living in a bubble. No judgement, she is a nobody (just like most people) that marketed herself/body right after getting plastic surgery, which is fine. She married a billionaire and now she thinks herself omniscient. She's tactless and makes generalisations that are half truths.
@HANASANAChannel
@HANASANAChannel 3 жыл бұрын
Yeh a lot of western women are the most spoiled out of any people because social media.
@saskruffriders8234
@saskruffriders8234 3 жыл бұрын
Go talk to the average guy who online dates and see how "spoiled" he is...
@YesPlease1
@YesPlease1 3 жыл бұрын
Women (of child-bearing age, so like a 20-25 year window) overwhelmingly have privilege in the dating + companionship scene. And they usually refuse to acknowledge it.
@rickterrance4981
@rickterrance4981 3 жыл бұрын
Yup. "Living affluent" aka how to be a gold digger 101.. I love how women marry a rich dude then have the damn nerve to act like they married him for ANY other reason. I'd bet every single asset I possess that this woman wouldn't have married a regular blue collar middle class type of dude.
@calebray4168
@calebray4168 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah there’s a slight delusion here for sure
@anthonystike6034
@anthonystike6034 3 жыл бұрын
While I, as a male, can see and understand and agree with what she is saying, her phrasing at times leaves a lot to be desired. Especially with sign 3, there is a point where she comes across like a "gold-digger".
@rickterrance4981
@rickterrance4981 3 жыл бұрын
She IS. "He might not be generous"
@x-man5056
@x-man5056 3 жыл бұрын
That's exactly what she is. And she's trying to train more like herself.
@JohnDoe-gz4cx
@JohnDoe-gz4cx 3 жыл бұрын
Wanting a man to have money to support the children while you take care of them and still live a comfortable life doesn’t make a woman a gold digger. Also a gold digger wouldn’t have these other standards for a relationship. Now if a woman just wants a man to take care of her without performing household duties are having kids then yeah she is a gold digger. But lots of dudes out there demand women be traditional but aren’t providers so it’s just logical for women to do this. Instead of hoping each guy they meet is built different and waisting their time.
@x-man5056
@x-man5056 3 жыл бұрын
@@JohnDoe-gz4cx "traditional woman"? if she's under 50 you can forget it. And you should anyway. Cook for yourself, do your own laundry, clean your crib. You can do all that yourself if you so desire. Ms. Bey, with her cringy voice, rattles of a list of minimum requirements, some very vague, some out of your control. She's teaching other young women how to be the same way. I bet if you qualified $$$ wise, she'd be able to fake "traditional", long enough to get married and then gig you for the most she can. She would also know the laws of her state. She's a GRIFTER.
@paulcharpentier5613
@paulcharpentier5613 3 жыл бұрын
Every time I get the urge to chase my ex, I watch your channel. It's reminds me she was/is a loser.
@davidbigd9047
@davidbigd9047 3 жыл бұрын
It all boils down to the Golden Rule: Treat others as you want to be treated. If we show kindness and respect to each other, everyone will be better off and happy.
@stevec3526
@stevec3526 3 жыл бұрын
Too many women see that as a sign of weakness.
@inconnu4961
@inconnu4961 2 жыл бұрын
David BigM90: Nice! So what's plan B?
@davidbigd9047
@davidbigd9047 2 жыл бұрын
@@inconnu4961 plan B? There is none. You can’t just treat people with disrespect or be rude just because they don’t recognize kindness and respect when it’s in front of them.
@FootFC_Editz
@FootFC_Editz 3 жыл бұрын
We need more women like courtney in the world
@kenrickbautista6141
@kenrickbautista6141 3 жыл бұрын
Yes we do.
@jimlucas8414
@jimlucas8414 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@Mogamishu
@Mogamishu 3 жыл бұрын
@@kenrickbautista6141 no, we do not.
@flyinute
@flyinute 3 жыл бұрын
And fewer like Anna Bey. She’s a clear gold digger.
@josem.sanchez6452
@josem.sanchez6452 3 жыл бұрын
Nope
@DanielEarl
@DanielEarl 3 жыл бұрын
Oh hey! It's that chick _who's totally not_ a manipulative gold digger teaching other women the tricks of the trade.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
I haven’t watched much of her old content but I think her newer videos are much better! I also try to keep cultural differences in mind lol
@davidmtz75
@davidmtz75 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Kal.El1
@Kal.El1 3 жыл бұрын
@@CourtneyRyan give the older stuff a watch. Absolute trash. You’ll be shocked. I would run a mile if a woman like her approached me. Toxic AF & downright greedy. Mahooosive turn off for any guy. I didn’t work my ass off just to splurge it all on a self-entitled woman who only has her looks and brings nothing else to the table. Attitude counts for a LOT with us guys and hers stinks 😷
@inconnu4961
@inconnu4961 2 жыл бұрын
@@CourtneyRyan Cultural differences are definitely relevant!
@msbae
@msbae 3 жыл бұрын
About Anna's 4th point... I don't like beer, football or porn. However, I'm not giving up video games. They offer a lot of stress relief. And if I made the mistake of dating that woman, something tells me that I would have a LOT of stress in my life.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
I love video games! I think it’s fine lol
@valentinli332
@valentinli332 Жыл бұрын
@@CourtneyRyan What Video games do you play?
@rlp4028
@rlp4028 3 жыл бұрын
You should react to Courtney Ryan. She says outlandish stuff like couples should respect each other, everyone needs to bring something to the table and ...wait a minute. What channel am I commenting on? Nevermind.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@FGj-xj7rd
@FGj-xj7rd 3 жыл бұрын
"I never met this man in my life"
@zerodood
@zerodood 3 жыл бұрын
Anna: "Men are so spoiled today." Also Anna: "I demand men to put most of the effort into the relationship, pay for everything, hold her on a pedestal, put her needs before their own needs, and drop everything they're doing to make time for her."
@Anastazka00
@Anastazka00 2 жыл бұрын
Excuse me, when did She Said anything exept He should pay more?? Were u even watching or ar u just assuming And twisting her words?
@ozzycortes
@ozzycortes 3 жыл бұрын
Finding a Women who has similar interest as me is rare.
@tuilenche5301
@tuilenche5301 3 жыл бұрын
ozzy i am sure she exists and hope you will be in a happy relationship
@ozzycortes
@ozzycortes 3 жыл бұрын
@@tuilenche5301 Sadly she doesn’t. I hope the samething but too bad it won’t happen.
@ozzycortes
@ozzycortes 3 жыл бұрын
@nomad crysis Yeah. It just doesn't seem worth caring anymore.
@visaman
@visaman 3 жыл бұрын
Tell me about it! I have been a nudist for 35 of my 57 years, I still don't have a nudist girlfriend.
@dontmindmeimjustspectating2871
@dontmindmeimjustspectating2871 3 жыл бұрын
"If he manipulates leave him sis" *sounds reasonable* "In my next video, how to manipulate somebody!"
@nohamotaweh7982
@nohamotaweh7982 3 жыл бұрын
Most of people who are judging Anna haven’t watched any of her videos maybe one or two videos and haven’t watched till the end, she never said to any woman to leave her man to get a better one, she have always support any woman that she is happy with the way she lives, her content is for women who are want a specific lifestyle that are more luxuries and how to be more elegant lady and she has always clarified that the word “elegant” doesn’t mean being boring, stiff or shallow. She is teaching women how to have an elegant mindset obviously if a woman want to, she does stand for women rights and want people to stop shaming a woman if she want to elevate herself, to be more feminine and to have the courage to refuse the 50/50 society.
@inconnu4961
@inconnu4961 2 жыл бұрын
It doesnt matter what she says! she could read the phone book for all we care. we read between the lines for what people KNOW they shouldnt/cant say! We've heard ALL this stuff before from countless women! Remember: when you lie to a man for whatever reason you lie, this maybe your first time (LOL) but any man who has been around women have heard all this before! its almost as if women get issued a play book at puberty and most of you read it out loud word-for-word! This maybe new to you but old to us!
@kingkohli4952
@kingkohli4952 2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately I had to watch her videos. Your comment is the most super coated way of describing her.In reality it’s all about rich dude with lots of money and belittling and trashing on men who spend money responsibly like not giving her allowance, not spoiling her and all that gold diggers low life bs.” She is standing for women rights who want a rich life” lmao all she was doing is telling women how to sell herself and prioritize his finances over everything . It’s heartbreaking to see so many women in comments who share that they literally dumped their partner in a healthy relationship only to hook up with someone rich and get dumped or not spent a dime on her like she expected.
@mindella7812
@mindella7812 2 жыл бұрын
@@kingkohli4952 and ? Men prioritize women’s looks and women prioritize a mans finacial status. It’s all in our biological make up.
@kingkohli4952
@kingkohli4952 2 жыл бұрын
@@mindella7812 I agree when a man selects and marry a woman only based on her and not by looking for qualities of a healthy partner, and women only on his riches ignoring all the necessary qualities of a decent partner are going to fail and are miserable. Biologically men to youth, women to resources is an important aspect in seeking a partner but it shouldn't be only factor. Men often say they want a pretty, young woman to commit but end of the day before commitment they do look for women who are peaceful, fun to be around with , atleast decent men who wants a long term relationship.
@MalaSomarina
@MalaSomarina 3 жыл бұрын
I love Anna Bey and I hate when someone just calls her gold digger when what she does is other things and much more. I am glad that you talked about her objectively and rice some good points. I also do not agree with everything she says but it doesn't make her bad person.
@hollyberrie305
@hollyberrie305 3 жыл бұрын
@@paulosilva8200 take your own advice ♥️
@hollyberrie305
@hollyberrie305 3 жыл бұрын
@@paulosilva8200 male or female, the way you talk to people is very telling of you.
@MalaSomarina
@MalaSomarina 3 жыл бұрын
@@paulosilva8200 I am not sad. How do you know what I do?
@belkiscardona-rivera6258
@belkiscardona-rivera6258 3 жыл бұрын
I love Anna Bey! She teaches women about elegance and how to value yourself to a higher standard.
@MalaSomarina
@MalaSomarina 3 жыл бұрын
@@belkiscardona-rivera6258 I agree
@T1MB05L1C3
@T1MB05L1C3 3 жыл бұрын
18:05 My freshman year of college, everyone held the door for others in our building. Men for women, women for men, men for men, etc. I miss those days. This was 2013-14 I believe
@inconnu4961
@inconnu4961 2 жыл бұрын
where I come form(not at university) men still do this. Once in awhile, women might do it, but not as common.
@amateurwizard
@amateurwizard 3 жыл бұрын
Okay fair enough, Anna might need to make a video of '7 Signs You're the Loser Someone's Dating'. Kind of unfair, when a girl's a loser no problem, 'I'll take care of the both of us', guy's a loser -> problem.
@GEORGIOARCADE
@GEORGIOARCADE 3 жыл бұрын
I do appreciate her honesty and clarifying the real reason she is making that video. I will say that a woman has make the man feel comfortable and has to put in just as much effort if she wants a provider and leader etc. I like that she says things that apply to both genders. I believe communication and compromise is the most important things these days in terms of compatibility. The person has to have the same beliefs. Yes Anna exaggerates some things but i think she meant well. I like her 😄 Have a lovely day Courtney 🌺
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed! You get it 👏🏼 thanks Georgio. Happy Sunday 🥳
@BuzzGrave
@BuzzGrave 3 жыл бұрын
Although a lot of the stuff she said made sense but her tone was a bit abrasive and it felt kind of hostile towards men. Specifically compared to Courtney who has the charisma to get her point across with more positive tone, I always feel like she is trying to help and not judge. Plus I feel like women don’t always get that if a guy says all the right things, has great body language and is a great kisser. It usually means he’s had a lot of practice, probably with a lot of girl’s. So you got to watch out for those guys that seem to perfect right off the bat. Thanks for the content Courtney. It’s much appreciated.
@OV0312
@OV0312 2 жыл бұрын
Anna Bey is a woman talking to women, Courtney is a woman talking to men. If Courtney wants men to listen to her she needs to be mindful of her tone and words she uses. A woman talking to a woman needs to be more playful and with a lot of personality, like girlfriends.
@Una2Cold
@Una2Cold 3 жыл бұрын
I love how no matter which angle she comes from, she tries to be fair, neutral or open minded. To me that gives her a lot of credibility in this field. I’ll subscribe
@raheesom
@raheesom 3 жыл бұрын
She said something like "men have it all"... So her perspective of men is the top 10%... Surprise, surprise...
@CodingJesus
@CodingJesus 3 жыл бұрын
You cannot both expect the man to be the provider, and meet half way with him. If he's to provide, you get on his program, end of story.
@rickterrance4981
@rickterrance4981 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly... they want a man to basically just give them money. They want to get married not be married.
@samandrew8158
@samandrew8158 3 жыл бұрын
Preach! Gold Diggers get the boot back out to the streets that owns them!
@mgw4205
@mgw4205 3 жыл бұрын
Modern women are lost and wonder why there's problems.
@Lilly-rl6up
@Lilly-rl6up 3 жыл бұрын
Actually compromise is important in relationships. Just because a man is a provider it doesn't mean he calls the shots. That's not love. A good man doesn't WANT to do that anyway. Some men ENJOY providing and view their woman as an equal who he wants to be happy, not an object who must do as he says.
@laurenj432
@laurenj432 3 жыл бұрын
Yikes...I hope you’re not serious. If he’s providing solely to make you do what he wants, then he’s certainly not someone worth dating. Just like if a woman is submissive for the sole purpose of getting him to give her money that’s manipulative as well.
@user-id7mx6fh3n
@user-id7mx6fh3n 3 жыл бұрын
I hate when people say you have to have common interests to have a good relationship because it gets misinterpreted all the time. You don’t need to have common interests, you need to have common values and goals, and the same habits in the way you spend your leisure time *as a couple*. Your interests in music, hobbies or what you do with your friends and your spare time are all the things that do not matter in your relationship, and thus can be completely different from your partner’s.
@CamJMitchell
@CamJMitchell 3 жыл бұрын
FINALLY a woman saying that these behaviours are unacceptable for both Men AND Women! It's so frustrating to hear women say there are no good men anymore, yet they are unreliable, ghost, don't tell the truth or want a true committed relationship. Both men and women need to change and finding a good woman these days is just as hard as finding a good man! Thankyou Courtney :)
@comedytv2832
@comedytv2832 2 жыл бұрын
I'd argue it is much, much harder to find a good woman.
@josephstevens9888
@josephstevens9888 3 жыл бұрын
"It is okay to have different opinions on things and still respect someone"... well said Courtney!
@QarthCEO
@QarthCEO 3 жыл бұрын
That Anna chick sounds like a woman who will die alone, tbh.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
She’s married ☺️
@QarthCEO
@QarthCEO 3 жыл бұрын
@@CourtneyRyan Are you taking odds on that actually lasting forever? I'll put a bill against it.
@jilly8372
@jilly8372 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, no she won’t.
@QarthCEO
@QarthCEO 3 жыл бұрын
@@jilly8372 The statistics say otherwise.
@rimlandrealist7679
@rimlandrealist7679 3 жыл бұрын
So if he doesn't bring in more than 50% of the finances...he's a loser... We are talking about a society where women work too, right? Because if she was discussing Saudi Arabia that might make sense...
@danielmejia8530
@danielmejia8530 3 жыл бұрын
You're right, my life does not revolve around financially supporting any woman, holy shit!
@MalaSomarina
@MalaSomarina 3 жыл бұрын
I live in Europe country and the wages are not the same for woman as for man. We do not have to go far to look for not equality.
@rimlandrealist7679
@rimlandrealist7679 3 жыл бұрын
@@MalaSomarina european countries have strict laws and it is illegal to discriminate. Unless you are talking about different jobs, in which case your argument is void. The same european countries also have more scholarships, ngos and overall opportunities for women than for men, btw
@MalaSomarina
@MalaSomarina 3 жыл бұрын
@@rimlandrealist7679 And who is going to fight the big company? Have you ever been asked on your interview if you are single and if you are planning children? Kicked out for being pregnant? Told that you don't belong somewhere even you have the capacity to be at the place? Told that you should wear this and that in order to look more attractive? There is no equality in many working spaces and not even on collage or high school so...
@rimlandrealist7679
@rimlandrealist7679 3 жыл бұрын
@@MalaSomarina have you ever been turned away because you don't fill a quota? Have you ever been passed over because you don't look cute in a dress? Save me your moralism because most homeless are men and most work accident victims are men
@danlynch6517
@danlynch6517 Жыл бұрын
I liked this video because Courtney took these 7 observations and applied them to women as well. Neither party gets to exempt themselves from the behaviors Anna outlined in the video.👏
@tastybrownie7448
@tastybrownie7448 2 жыл бұрын
She described the types of guys that I’ve always seen get a lot of women. This video proves that women always say the opposite of the truth. She is demanding, shallow, and a gold digger. She needs to explain to us why she only dates tall guys with money. Those guys do not want her. That is her real reason for complaining. Average guy does not match any of what she described. Average is busy at work, then does errands/chores, then is too tired to party or do anything fun. How about some representation for the real 80% of men that these women pretend don’t exist?
@kurts6741
@kurts6741 3 жыл бұрын
Her voice grates on me.
@jleano609
@jleano609 3 жыл бұрын
Critical point. WHENEVER women give "advice" for men, it's important to understand it's FOR MEN THEY ARE ALREADY ATTRACTED TO. Why is this? Because unattractive men are basically invisible to women. They can't even frame those guys in their mind. This is why women tell men things like they should be more "emotionally available". What that actually translates to is "I'm attracted to you, please let me know how attracted you are to me by opening up". Look at any advice and you'll see it's ultimately framed to optimize 6-10 rated guys, 1-5 guys? Bon Chance! You are not going to significantly increase your chance by listening to advice from women, it's just not aimed at you. Take your advice solely from men. You CAN increase your SMV, but you will make mistakes if you listen to women who give you advice like "just be your authentic self" or "buy her flowers and tell her how much you love her". Nope, that's simply not going to work, you are going to have to do some heavy lifting. Women also make a mistake conflating attraction and validation. Being more emotionally available to a woman won't increase her attraction. It will increase her validation; her confidence that that she has made a good choice in her man. But too much validation, at least directly from him? It will turn her off as it's a chasing behavior. 3rd party validation is MUCH more valuable. If her friends and family like him, great! If another attractive woman likes you, pure liquid gold! That will actually make her tingle in all the right places because it actually makes her slightly uncomfortable (less confident/validated) and she now feels competition anxiety. This is when she'll start CHASING YOU.
@user-ww8mz4xz5l
@user-ww8mz4xz5l 3 жыл бұрын
100% true
@zombieslayer7759
@zombieslayer7759 3 жыл бұрын
For the past week, I've been binge-watching a lot of your vids since I'm stuck in bed all day for the most part because I tore my muscles when I was lifting weights. Thanks for always making helpful, insightful, quality content Courtney. 🙌🏻
@wardandrew23412
@wardandrew23412 3 жыл бұрын
Any time you hear a woman say she's looking for a "generous" man, run in the other direction as fast as your legs will carry you. What "generous" means in women's vocabulary is: "I want a man willing to spend all his money on me". "Chivalrous" is another red flag. Ask yourself, what is the female version of chivalry? Men are expected to pay for dinners, pay for entertainment, open doors, pull out chairs, etc., all under the rubric of "chivalry", while women by way of reciprocity do... what, exactly?
@wardandrew23412
@wardandrew23412 3 жыл бұрын
@Taylor Jones What delusional world do you live in? What you describe here sounds more like women of my mother's and grandmother's generation, not the selfish, narcissistic, and entitled women of today. Furthermore, you assume the women you describe are our wives, when in fact even women we're only causally dating think they're entitled to special treatment -- treatment they have no intention of reciprocating.
@wardandrew23412
@wardandrew23412 3 жыл бұрын
@Taylor Jones Women of this generation don't give birth simply because you've dated them, bro. You seem to be of the absurd opinion that men owe women a portion of their income, and should make personal sacrifices for them just because they're women. I don't.
@paulchakola7372
@paulchakola7372 2 жыл бұрын
@Taylor Jones "do everything around the house"? Yikes, chauvinist much?
@katemiller7874
@katemiller7874 2 жыл бұрын
These are old fashioned qualities. If that’s the kind of woman you want then she will want these qualities. Being a gentleman (chivalrous) and being a provider. Now if you are looking for a more modern woman she will have the high powered job and not expect you to be a gentleman because she will have masculine energy and won’t expect that stuff. You can’t have it both ways.
@ecaesar614
@ecaesar614 3 жыл бұрын
She seems pretty reasonable and I can understand where she is coming from. She says a lot of things about men taking responsibility and I agree with what she says from the most part. That being said, something about her delivery leaves me with the feeling of her somewhat condesending, maybe because this video focus on scrunitizing men. I'd give her benefit of the doubt since it's my first time seeing her content. Maybe some women of her target audience loves classy women of her behaviour. Courtney's reaction give it balance viewpoint on this matter. Thank you for posting this video. It gives men another viewpoints and gives us reality check.
@IbrahimHassan-by8tr
@IbrahimHassan-by8tr 3 жыл бұрын
Ooh courtney,you have become the ultimate guide for alot of men, your criticism is so much valuble.
@salromano8871
@salromano8871 Жыл бұрын
Worst type of loser: a male with an uncontrolled temper. Ladies: These guys never change. RUN. RUN FAST.
@johnnyblue42
@johnnyblue42 2 жыл бұрын
What “offends” me is the blatant hypocrisy of her beginning with men should assume they’ll pay more and should pay more for the woman’s time. Then saying men are spoiled. That’s the line that is so completely out of touch with the real world.
@Straitsfan
@Straitsfan 3 жыл бұрын
Wait for him to finish clubbing? Excuse me? It's the modern, contemporary woman who's doing that.
@ItIsMeJamesE
@ItIsMeJamesE 3 жыл бұрын
Riding that CC
@k.b.6331
@k.b.6331 3 жыл бұрын
I like your balanced, down to earth approach. There's too much "us against them" in a lot of content.
@sloebone7399
@sloebone7399 3 жыл бұрын
Women need to stop demanding that men change and instead become the change they want to see. The quality man she talks about doesn’t want a quality women, he wants a quality wife and mother for his kids.
@johngonzalez4298
@johngonzalez4298 3 жыл бұрын
"What's going on?" ©️ - Courtney Ryan 👁👁🙃 Happy Sunday Courtney!
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
😂👏🏼 happy Sunday John!
@johngonzalez4298
@johngonzalez4298 3 жыл бұрын
@@CourtneyRyan The thumbnail gave me a "What's going on?" vibe so I had to put that out there for humor 🤣
@Larikalful
@Larikalful 3 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna admit - if women would say to me that she expect me to bring most of the finances and pay for everything (bills, cars, repairs, her shoppings etc) then i would tell her to drop the job and go to the kitchen. And that's despite the fact that im always for equality. Im the first one to cheer you to be the best version of yourself (the best version for yourself, not for me), or to pursue whatever you dream about. But you have to make a choice. And if you say that you want traditional roles in relationship, then you also have to take consequences, both up and downsides. Thats how adult world works. What makes me really sad is that its the same situation that was with slaves. They shouted for freedom, but when they were freed most of them wouldnt even try to walk away. And same here - you yell for equality and then you came up with "i expect men to pay for everything". And also the "if he dont bring 80% of finances then he's not generous" is just delusional. Im happy to pay for exclusive holiday you always wanted, even if i had to not buy anything for myself for few years. But its on MY terms, its MY goodwill, and its MY decision. If you try to force it then i won't even discuss because you're just a gold digger, and that kind of "relationship" never end up well for a guy. EDIT:// Btw, its funny how many videos out there you will find that tells you what you should demand from the other person... but not even one asking what could you give.
@AndreHype424
@AndreHype424 3 жыл бұрын
She said she doesn’t have the time to wait around on a man to b done clubbing after 10 yrs… that’s literally what women do to men… club until their 30s then finally give regular guys a chance once they can barely have babies
@beautifulspirit7420
@beautifulspirit7420 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I wonder where you guys live and who you hang out with, I am around women from 19-25 constantly and very few are like that. My 20 yr old daughter just went for a hike in the mountains with her girlfriends on Saturday after working all week (she is in college on summer break). Even my 18 yr is working 2pm-10pm every day.
@juliejay5436
@juliejay5436 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Generalisations are a double sword!
@Lilly-rl6up
@Lilly-rl6up 3 жыл бұрын
I just don't see this... I'm twenty eight and I don't know any women my age who are as you describe. Go outside into the real world and look around.
@beautifulspirit7420
@beautifulspirit7420 3 жыл бұрын
@@Lilly-rl6up I actually think the guys making these comments never take time off from gaming to leave their room and meet women in the real world. They all complain to each other on-line and end up creating stereotypes of women and storyline such as "Chads" and "beta males" so that they don't have to take any personal responsibility for doing anything to attract real flesh and blood women.
@AndreHype424
@AndreHype424 3 жыл бұрын
@@Lilly-rl6up I live in Los Angeles, Hollywood to b exact, this is all I see maam
@danpeterson8040
@danpeterson8040 25 күн бұрын
Thank you Courtney for this review!!! I think you are BOTH, TOP NOTCH COUNSELORS!!! THIS IS JUST TO LET YOU KNOW YOU ARE APPRECIATED!!
@Diego-Designs
@Diego-Designs 3 жыл бұрын
The problem with 16:21 basic manners is feminism.... A lot of women would get offended if you open the door for her or something else like that and say something like "I'm capable of doing that myself". So it honestly leaves guys confused about what to do ...
@PaintballShyguy
@PaintballShyguy 3 жыл бұрын
I can't tell you how many times I've opened the door or done some little polite thing for them and they don't even acknowledge my existance. Mainly the ones in their 20's and 30's. Usually kids and even teens will say thank you and the older women but the one's in the middle..sheesh they have a grudge or something.
@none5193
@none5193 3 жыл бұрын
That and if you want a gentleman you have to be a lady in return. There are protocols form being both one must follow and you are not willing to be one you should not expect to get the other.
@ryanbarker3978
@ryanbarker3978 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed though she acknowledged that right after she made the point by saying people like this are insane.
@CuriousGeorge13
@CuriousGeorge13 3 жыл бұрын
I would say just do it anyways. If anything, it's a good way to identify which girls are worth your time from the ones to avoid. If a girl gets upset because I held the door for her, I have all the knowledge I need to determine that I want to avoid her in the future (i.e., she is insane).
@Diego-Designs
@Diego-Designs 3 жыл бұрын
@@CuriousGeorge13 I totally agree with you. I still do it as well and I'm not making excuses for rude guys. 🤣
@drockafella132
@drockafella132 3 жыл бұрын
Anna Bey: “Men are so spoiled today” How are men spoiled? I would love to know that.
@nathanmorgan3647
@nathanmorgan3647 3 жыл бұрын
Well, the woman graciously allowed you to be born instead of aborting. See? Spoiled. You could have been one of the tens of millions murdered by their moms.
@drockafella132
@drockafella132 3 жыл бұрын
@@nathanmorgan3647 I guess when you put it that way, LOL.
@DonWei13
@DonWei13 3 жыл бұрын
@@nathanmorgan3647 uhh that applies to every person that has EVER lived, also to the women that decide to abort or not abort the baby, so by that logic every human is already spoiled by default (Oh wait nevermind, you're being sarcastic right ?)
@user-sy2jy1si8f
@user-sy2jy1si8f 3 жыл бұрын
Saying "Men are spoiled", women mean - "Top-20% men are spoiled". Other 80% are invisible. In Anna's case, it's probably closer to top-10%.
@misn100
@misn100 3 жыл бұрын
13:45 just had to love how you said brunette! to yourself... lol
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@drip369
@drip369 3 жыл бұрын
Especially when the woman being reviewed died her hair blonde whilest also being a brunette lmao but yeah, Courtney's prerogative to show a slight bit of pride in intelligence was cute and funny
@dryver8
@dryver8 3 жыл бұрын
Or really a reflection on Anna, but I’ve been watching a lot of videos to see what it’s like out there for my teenage daughter. It scares the hell out of me, 😂. Also, I’m so relieved i didn’t grow up during the time of some of these mindsets. Courtney is much more like the people i grew up with. You’re an old soul, but in a good way. Keep it up Courtney, think the guys need you out there. 😂
@katemiller7874
@katemiller7874 2 жыл бұрын
Same. Dating was not crazy in the 80’s
@largolagrande
@largolagrande 3 жыл бұрын
At the end of the vvideo I realized Anna has a Russian accent As a European myself... I know Russians well enough to know their ladies are pretty.. special. And materialistic most of the time. So her "7 Signs" for dating a "loser" is pretty telling. Their are reasonable points but... you.. what bring you to the table to demand this?!
@juliankorb2848
@juliankorb2848 3 жыл бұрын
She's materialistic.
@mr.chipwhitley8770
@mr.chipwhitley8770 3 жыл бұрын
She’s actually Swedish. She definitely doesn’t have a Slavic accent; different intonations and stresses on the vowels.
@simonyu8838
@simonyu8838 3 жыл бұрын
A many that just watches sports, drinks, plays video games, etc. . . . I believe the phrase is "he's basic." If you don't want to be with a boring/basic person, you have to avoid being so yourself no matter the gender. I've swiped left/no on a great number of pretty woman that think that liking x show, tacos, wine/craft beer, and traveling are a personality.
@mrcalista722
@mrcalista722 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, #4 definitely hits home for me: I dated a women whose only interests were working out, vegan meals & salsa dancing. The relationship didn't even last a season.
@katemiller7874
@katemiller7874 2 жыл бұрын
How many interests do you think she should have. I’m sure she worked also
@stevew4079
@stevew4079 3 жыл бұрын
Feminine women, emphasising values, honesty, understanding, maturity etc. Masculine men, being gentleman. A mutual maturity being promoted. This gives me hope for the world ❤️
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
This made me smile. Thank you, Steve 🥰
@1_chilled_guy595
@1_chilled_guy595 3 жыл бұрын
Dude, what the hell are you smoking LOL
@katemiller7874
@katemiller7874 2 жыл бұрын
1_chilledguy- that gentleman will find a lady. You may not
@henrywest7217
@henrywest7217 3 жыл бұрын
Her tone of voice sounds to my ear to drip with contemp for men in general. I like the way that you extracted and massaged her snarling points and made them more palatable and relevant.
@Numbll
@Numbll 3 жыл бұрын
I watch her since I was 18 glad youtube recommended me and help me elevate myself to the woman I want to be. Love your channel too!
@rajpatel8988
@rajpatel8988 Жыл бұрын
How old are you now? What did it help you with?
@kingkobrajoe7
@kingkobrajoe7 3 жыл бұрын
I love how real you are Courtney keep up the awesome content ❤️❤️
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you my friend!!
@mbrinkmann1881
@mbrinkmann1881 3 жыл бұрын
similar values are way more important than similar interests.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@kevinbrown4420
@kevinbrown4420 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for another open-minded, honest video. It's nice to find advice that's not focused on just raising your "body count" Hope for humanity comes from places like these.
@db2ez
@db2ez 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t disagree with any of the stuff she said but she definitely put it in an lil bit of an arrogant way. At the end of the day all you have to do is be a motivated and kind person and find someone who appreciates you and vice versa. Sometimes its not as complicated as it seems
@angelexi
@angelexi 3 жыл бұрын
I've never heard of Anna Bey. I might check her out. I agree with both of you, a lot of these traits apply to everyone. I don't know why some women get offended by chivalry. I appreciate chivalrous behaviour. Some women are making it harder for some of us ladies who are in search for a gentlemen. May I make a request for a reaction to a Kevin Samuels or Stephan Speaks video. I watch both and I find their content to be very interesting.
@crh300
@crh300 3 жыл бұрын
Glad at least somebody still likes that behavior.
@thearcher_kd7937
@thearcher_kd7937 3 жыл бұрын
Look up Cynthia G’s take on Kevin Samuels
@user-qy6tu9ip9v
@user-qy6tu9ip9v 3 жыл бұрын
@@thearcher_kd7937 cynthia is useless
@inconnu4961
@inconnu4961 2 жыл бұрын
You can thank Feminism for trying to emancipate you from the Patriarchy! it just made your dating lives THAT much more difficult!
@ryanbales8116
@ryanbales8116 3 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy this channel. Great video. I like how Courtney explains that these things can be applied to women too. So no guys should be freaking out over this reaction video or even the original video. The part about drinking not being a personality trait really spoke to me. I turned 30 a few months ago and have struggled with drinking for a very long time. I'm trying to get away from drinking and it is a struggle. Dating a girl who drinks heavily is not good for me and what I am trying to do with my life. But that's just me.
@desotoadventurer6175
@desotoadventurer6175 3 жыл бұрын
the way she treats men like they are puppies that need to be housebroken
@antonboludo8886
@antonboludo8886 3 жыл бұрын
The woman at the beginning sounds Eastern European. Meeting her halfway means that she must also pay 50% of the costs, not that the man must assume most of the financial burden. She cannot have it both ways. Eastern Europe is still not the same as the Western World, at least not yet. Marriage and having children is not an obligation anymore. This thinking ended 2 generations ago in the West.
@paulosilva8200
@paulosilva8200 3 жыл бұрын
Russian woman think like that. They all taking selfies in big boats when they 20 and when they 50 they homeless or waiting for their daughters to support them
@Anastazka00
@Anastazka00 2 жыл бұрын
Anton Boludo: She Is Swedish And full equality isn't reality anywhere, even in the West. The truth Is some female duties like child breeding (Wich Is Also connected to bunch of other things like periods, higher risk of STD's, differently builded body etc.) cannot by shared by men. Western society tends to forget that. Women have natural desire to be with a man that Is capable of Taking care of them And her kids. She Is putting herself in a vulnerable position by just being with a man (who Is physically stronger And can Hurt her anytime). It Is Also natural for a man to try to impress, protect And care for a female, it doesn't have to be to the extend Anna Is saying, but every man has this in him. It makes them happy to be gentleman (if it's appreciated by women of course).
@shaunfirebird
@shaunfirebird 3 жыл бұрын
I mean just saying playing video games or watching sports is a hell of alot more interesting than interacting with people.
@visaman
@visaman 3 жыл бұрын
Ok. Then you shouldn't date.
@shaunfirebird
@shaunfirebird 3 жыл бұрын
@@visaman Lol good I don't intend to.
@80HD8
@80HD8 Жыл бұрын
Compromise = doing what she wants. And no, you can't do crazy things like climb a mountain or swim the seas for her because that makes you look like a crazy stalker.
@TonganJedi
@TonganJedi 2 жыл бұрын
I get the feeling Anna's version of "high quality man" involves a lot more money than Courtney's.
@bennero446
@bennero446 3 жыл бұрын
Hi, Courtney, and thank you for your routinely good advice. One thing I disagree with both Anna and you about is that the man should be expected to pull the greater financial load... even a "little bit." Individual circumstances tend to trump societal expectations based on gender, tradition be damned. For instance, what if the man has a skill set that is not lucrative? He works hard at what he does and what he is suited for doing, but it's just not likely he is going to be a big earner, let alone a "provider," with the skill set that he has. This is the case with many men I know, and I also know many women who are earning in the six figures because they happen to have a skill set that leads to lucrative work. Also, capitalism leads to unpredictable outcomes regardless of gender that are often based on luck and chance, e.g., being in the right place at the right time, knowing just the right people, being born in the "right" family, etc., that add to the factor I mentioned above. This does not mean that the woman in a relationship should be expected to foot the majority of the financial load simply because she makes more money. I am simply saying that this should not always be on the man in the relationship regardless of all of the individual factors he must contend with. This is why it is a necessity for some men and women to opt out of "traditional" expectations, and oftentimes it's simply a matter of choice.
@travisnmary3559
@travisnmary3559 3 жыл бұрын
Did she really say that "men" are spoiled? Men are the ones that are spoiled.... This whole video is complaining about stuff that women do to men on are regular basis.... Women are pretty freaking spoiled themselves, far more than any man I know
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with that haha I think men and women are guilty of all of these things
@travisnmary3559
@travisnmary3559 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I Guess I just never been in a situation where I felt spoiled. I work two jobs and go to school for Game Design. But I keep ending up with women who are controlling... (Deleting all my female friends on social media, deleting all female contacts on phone, picks up my phone and reads my messages before I even get a chance to look at it) and meanwhile they phish for comments on Facebook by posting provocative photos so that they can get hundreds of likes for validation. And the whole time we are in a relationship commenting about how she wants specific guys to direct message her and never put "in a relationship" on fb with me. Than has the audacity to call me a cheater a liar and every other thing just because I wanted to break up. So therefore hundreds of guys who had never even knew I existed or who I actually am are talking mad shit about me on Facebook because "this girl said her boyfriend is a jerk" and they have white knight syndrome.... Sorry it's just fresh and I don't understand how people treat people the way these girls do sometimes
@BasedHawaiian
@BasedHawaiian 3 жыл бұрын
If she wants a traditional man, she needs to be a traditional woman. From her expertise in “loser” men, she is not traditional. The very fact she is an expert, shows what she was attracted to, until she realized she in her thirties and single, and now she is looking for the “traditional” nice guy who can be her paycheck - because she’s entitled to it. This woman is the epitome of the RP example.
@brewer921
@brewer921 Жыл бұрын
One sign of a loser is calling people losers.
@alyxfaust5663
@alyxfaust5663 3 жыл бұрын
Wants someone to move mountains for you, then you fall out of attraction because they appease you. Women don’t know what they want. Why are women such fickle two-faced people sometimes😂🤣? Jesus! I know emotions dictate thinking processes for all of them, but damn. I think saying someone is materialistic is an observation, not a defamation of character.
@rickterrance4981
@rickterrance4981 3 жыл бұрын
You can't win with them dude it's ridiculous. Then they wonder why so many dudes "string them along"
@x-man5056
@x-man5056 3 жыл бұрын
Materialistic IS A CHARACTER DEFECT. Stay away or you'll observe her taking all she can from you.
@Anastazka00
@Anastazka00 2 жыл бұрын
Women I know ar not like that, So If these ar the types u ar dating, Maybe u should ask yourself Why u attract only these types of women who use u. What Is it that u have to offer? Do u respect women to be respected by them? Emotions dictate the thinking process of all humans btw. I don't want to hate, I know that bitter experiences can make u think this way, but it's not the reality.
@alyxfaust5663
@alyxfaust5663 2 жыл бұрын
@@Anastazka00 Thanks for your input.
@jayfxdx
@jayfxdx 3 жыл бұрын
These 7 signs apply to both sexes in general. I think a lot of boys are offended by what Anna is saying because of her appearance and accent.
@visaman
@visaman 3 жыл бұрын
She reminds me of Eva Gabor on Green Acres. Yes I am that old.
@underclassh3r058
@underclassh3r058 3 жыл бұрын
What's scary is that a man can do all these things and the woman could still re-evaluate the relationship and still leave you. I'm not trying to be negative but sometimes people just don't understand it until they've lived through it. Women make these videos. Men make red pill videos. There's such a huge disconnect anymore that there's nothing left but games and instant gratification. Nobody truly wants to work at things and grow. It's now come down to, here's a sign, dump them🙄
@flightforlight157
@flightforlight157 3 жыл бұрын
The way you talk is calming thank you
@chrisfisher4503
@chrisfisher4503 3 жыл бұрын
Let's make a correction for honesty and reality, "It's really hard to meet high quality women today because women are so spoiled." 90% of men are not spoiled. She's talking about the Chads that every woman is after. He's spoiled because you ladies ignore the other 90% of men. We have to work just as hard as we always have. Harder, even, because women are so spoiled. Only a woman could ever think men have it easy. lmao!!
@timebandit.
@timebandit. 3 жыл бұрын
truth and facts 💯💯💯
@sugarpansies
@sugarpansies 2 жыл бұрын
Oh ur one of those
@williamlevy6964
@williamlevy6964 2 жыл бұрын
@@sugarpansies One of what? An honest man with real life experience?
@NateEll
@NateEll 3 жыл бұрын
I thought Anna’s video was dripping with irony, double standards and entitlement.
@inconnu4961
@inconnu4961 2 жыл бұрын
And those were the good points!
@anthonyw5261
@anthonyw5261 Жыл бұрын
Parallel things so important. Many women and men speak to cater. Video is very confirming. Bravo on the both of you 👏
@ajs9603
@ajs9603 3 жыл бұрын
I've taken the single route for a couple years and so far I have changed myself in many area's and it has helped and pushed me to do what needs to be done.
@Lonstermash
@Lonstermash 3 жыл бұрын
I am finding a lot of women who are actually intimidated by a guy who is very good looking, in great shape, and has his shit together financially, and they sabotage the relationship. This leads me to think that such women who are dating "losers" want the challenge of having someone they can improve, which of course never works
@brayaesthetic3450
@brayaesthetic3450 3 жыл бұрын
Facts bro!!
@Lonstermash
@Lonstermash 3 жыл бұрын
@@brayaesthetic3450 glad it's not just me
@Rick_Cleland
@Rick_Cleland 3 жыл бұрын
I enjoy eating copious amounts of expensive cheeses, do girls like that?
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
I love cheese 😂
@drip369
@drip369 3 жыл бұрын
I've spent many many years of my life in relationships where I had to do EVERYTHING, especially when it came to the emotional intelligence side because I was the only one that wanted to talk, or at least that was able to in the moment not needing days to process and formulate
@philray47
@philray47 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for introducing us to Anna. I like her. She is independent and focused. Not right for everyone but much more interesting to hang out with than most I would bet.
@peachmelba1000
@peachmelba1000 2 жыл бұрын
Phillip, I'd bet $100 you'd leap out a window in less than 30 minutes. She's a nightmare. Pretty, but yuck!
@praetorian1877
@praetorian1877 3 жыл бұрын
I think the dating scene would be a lot easier and less stressful if we as a culture were at a place where Men were taught to be a Gentleman and Women were taught to be a Lady again!
@scottmcgahey6820
@scottmcgahey6820 3 жыл бұрын
Ladies ignore Anna Listen to Courtney Your dating life will improve drastically
@LEVIAHAN
@LEVIAHAN 3 жыл бұрын
What I love about your videos is that you verbally express your disclaimer about reacting to other people`s vids.
@Matthiass721
@Matthiass721 2 жыл бұрын
My instinct is and has always been to walk behind my partner when I can’t be right beside her. I’ve been told that’s a bad trait because I’m “supposed to lead”, but personally I see myself as a protector when we’re in public spaces. I can’t defend what I can’t see. Easy to step ahead if there is an obstacle or door. Is that really such a bad thing?
@monvici
@monvici 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this. Very rare from modern society men. Yes your job is to lead, but you can do it with style.
@rohitrnaidu
@rohitrnaidu 3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly why I love Courtney. She's fair and tells it like it is. There are so many women hating men out there who love to only bash men. I get it, you dated a low quality man but not all men are your idea of a loser. You dated the bad boy and got hurt but not all men are bad. What about all the toxic, damaging and narcissistic women out there who try to destroy high value men on a daily basis? What about all the childish and immature games some women play when dating, for example to not call him back until after 3 days etc.? What about all the fake friends who are talking behind the backs of their girlfriends who are trying to sabotage the relationship because they cannot stand that their girlfriend is finally happy with a good man? Alot of women place the blame on men that they are loosers or low value without realizing how many negative traits that they have themselves. Courtney doesn't do that. She stands up for men who are getting treated badly by women as well in such relationships, to open their eyes, remind them of their value and realize to leave if they are not being treated with respect and appreciation in return. It's just sad to see that more women aren't like Courtney. Most of them are quick to critize men who try because they themselves have their own unhealed traumas that they are constantly projecting upon anyone trying to come close to them. Most women bash men because it's easier than taking accountability and responsibility to admit that you also have some flaws that should be worked on as well. P.S. a relationship should be 50/50 which is fair. If one person is stuck paying for everything than you are only looking for a provider not a partner which is what a relationship is truly about. Thank you Miss Ryan for being you 💐🙏🏽
@ryanbarker3978
@ryanbarker3978 3 жыл бұрын
As a guy I think all of these things are completely fair and that it is reasonable for a girl to be looking for any of these things if they align with her lifestyle. If you want to be successful dating, I think the ultimate question to ask is "Are my actions and expectations honest, intentional, and congruent with my lifestyle?" Anything that cannot pass that check is a double standard. For example, take the biological clock point. There's a lot of truth to this, but there are also a ton of women out there complaining about men living the bachelor lifestyle when they themselves are dating a new person every week and are partying with their girlfriends every weekend. Their problem isn't that men won't commit to them, it's that their actions are signaling to men that they aren't long term relationship material. If you truly want to settle down and have kids, why are you resistive to putting the time and effort in that it takes to build a life with someone else? "Someone else hurt me" is a bad answer to this question. I don't see anything wrong with casual or committed lifestyles, but I think it's important to be honest with yourself and the people around you about where are at. You have to own that decision including its consequences.
@charliedallachie3539
@charliedallachie3539 3 жыл бұрын
A lot of it really does comes down to compatibility. I’m a type B guy, sometimes I enjoy spending a day being lazy and watching sports/movies especially if it’s raining. Not everyday but sometimes. I have goals and interests but I’m not super “on the ball” every day about them either. I don’t think I could date a type A girl. Some people really are more simple and just want to live a simple comfortable life. It’s important to discern that compatibility the first couple of dates. You want to help each other grow but not always have to be too pushy either.
@thethesaxman23
@thethesaxman23 3 жыл бұрын
The only point I don't quite agree with is point one. Chivalry is important and gentlemanly, but when the woman acts entitled to it, it makes it not special and it makes the man think "what's the point if she doesn't even appreciate it." To the women out there who say "chivalry is dead," the best thing you can do to keep it alive is to show appreciation for it and treat it like something special! Nothing kills chivalry like acting entitled to it!
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed ❤️
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