Reading soft relatable books that make me cry and finding a new all time favorite 😭✨

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Here's a reading vlog where I read some soft af contemporary-ish books for a week and cry quite a bit. In all seriousness, this is one of the most personal reading vlogs I've ever made; I don't talk much about my asexuality and this book Loveless by Alice Oseman just really meant everything to me.
Huge thanks to my friend Brittany for sending me Heartstopper & The House in The Cerulean Sea! I super appreciate it! :)
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anxious people - fredrik backman
the house in the cerulean sea - t.j. klune
loveless - alice oseman
heartstopper - alice oseman
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@morgan1877 3 жыл бұрын

That response to the character in loveless is why representation in media is so important! That overwhelming feeling of being seen still happens to me whenever I can find it. Thanks for sharing that experience!

@KirstySciberras 3 жыл бұрын

As Hanya Yanagihara quoted in her book ' A Little Life' : "Why wasn’t friendship as good as a relationship? Why wasn’t it even better? It was two people who remained together, day after day, bound not by sex or physical attraction or money or children or property, but only by the shared agreement to keep going, the mutual dedication to a union that could never be codified."

@hollyc4624 3 жыл бұрын

Kirsty I totally agree with this quote. And as a person who is married with children, I would add that if a marriage doesn’t have the elements of genuine friendship then it is unlikely to last through any rough or challenging times. Gabby, you are perfectly mature and seen and valid as you are. From seeing some of your interaction with your family, I have a feeling that they love you 100% and don’t feel that the next step is automatically into a sexual relationship. As a parent, I can say that we will wholeheartedly love our kids, different in their own ways, regardless of what relationships they choose (short of someone being abusive). So don’t you worry. Your family seems to adore you and support you. Take the pressure off and if a relationship happens, great and if it doesn’t, that’s great too. You be you. I’ve also noticed my own kids have delayed relationships much longer in general. Seems to fit the generation. Love to you.

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

One of my favorite quotes + books of all time ❤️❤️❤️

@ipshitajee 3 жыл бұрын

One of my favourites ❤️❤️❤️

@lillie2257 3 жыл бұрын

This quote makes me want to read a little life

@KirstySciberras 3 жыл бұрын

@@lillie2257 it is one of the saddest books I've every read but definitely worth it

@mspinklady74 3 жыл бұрын

Hon I get you I am in my 40s and still never had a sexual relationship or any relationship I'm just not intrested I always thought it was because I had seen older siblings have failed relationships and it's a way of protecting my self. Be you Honey and dont let society pressure youxxxx

@quinniehalee 3 жыл бұрын

You are so valid, Gabby! Not having those experiences - especially because you don’t want them - doesn’t equal being a child or less mature! It makes you, you! And you have so many people behind you! 💜

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

Quinn Hale 🥺💞

@jamiemasters2464 3 жыл бұрын

I really think the conversation you had about being asexual, and sexuality, emotions and coping is going to be extremely helpful to people who are struggling with what you struggled/struggle with... That was a really honest part of this vlog and I really appreciate you sharing ☺️

@andhera 3 жыл бұрын

gabby: *posts* me: *instant serotonin boost*

@jessm2913 3 жыл бұрын

I didn't get into a relationship until I was in my late 20s. Until I met my now husband I just wasn't interested. If it never ends up happening that's ok. So much is expected...go to college, get married, have kids, get a full time job, buy a house ect ect. At the end of the day people need to live their lives the way they want without having to justify their choices.

@annarajala578 2 жыл бұрын

"Grieving the future you thought you would have" is the BEST way to describe me coming to terms with my asexuality and aromanticism. I ordered Loveless while watching this vlog and I can't wait to read it

@aisling_90 3 жыл бұрын

I’m 30 this week and still in your position. I only discovered the wide range of the ace spectrum three n half years ago. I’ve learned that Life isn’t a set of stages or levels we’ve to pass through in order to be a mature adult. Our society lies to us and makes us feel invalid if we don’t follow the “typical” path of life. You are mature You are valid You are loved It took me thirty years to now begin to accept this. Loveless is proof that representation matters. I needed this book 15 years ago Thank you for being you Gabby x

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

Ais Ní L thanks so much 💞

@aisling_90 3 жыл бұрын

gabbyreads anytime 💛

@jamieschmitt3076 3 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!!! 👏

@hollyc.7889 3 жыл бұрын

Gabby you broke my heart during this Vlog. I've never read this book but I plan on reading it. The things you were saying we're speaking to my heart I actually started crying with you. I'm 35 and I've never been in any type of romantic or sexual relationship and I have no desire to but I love romance novels I love love stories, and for the longest time when I was in my twenties I didn't even feel like an adult because everyone around me was in a relationship or getting married and even now everyone I know is married and has kids it wasn't until I turned 30 that I realize these things do not validate me as an adult or as a person I love being an aunt and I love having children around me and seeing other people happy in their relationships I just don't want a relationship and I remember when I was 25 feeling the way you feel & when you started crying in this video it broke my heart. That was such a strong and brave thing for you to do, to share your feelings like that and what you're going through please take care Gabby💙

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

Holly C. Thanks so much for your comment! It means a lot to know I’m not alone in how I feel 💞 sending love your way!

@CharSJ90 3 жыл бұрын

Omg. I don't normally comment on KZfaq, but thank you for sharing this. It made me not feel so alone. I am in the same boat. 30 years old without ever having a romantic or sexual relationship. I've just never wanted one, and always felt sick to my stomach whenever I made an attempt. I've been looking into the asexuality spectrum for a couple years now, but reading more books with ace characters made me realize I'm on the aro ace spectrum. And also Tumblr lol. I feel like I can breathe now.

@rafisadia1281 3 жыл бұрын

oh, Gabby! we love you, honey. Seeing you cry literally made my heart ache. I would be lying if I told you I hadn't been there. I can understand. I'm gonna read this one. Just so you know, loving oneself is the greatest achievement. As long as you love yourself, you don't need it from someone else. And books are always there, too, right? Love you.

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

Rafi Sadia thank you 🥺😭💞

@emmreads1039 3 жыл бұрын

That's one of the biggest reasons that I want to read Loveless. I'm asexual, though not aromantic, and it can be a struggle for me and my partner. Love you Gabby and your honesty.

@KatieColson 2 жыл бұрын

You have no idea how many times I’ve watched the Loveless part of this video 😢🥺

@gabbyreads 2 жыл бұрын

Aww 🥺🥺🥺🥰 I love you!!! 💜

@huwomanbeing5492 3 жыл бұрын

" Grieving the future you thought you were gonna have " 🥺🥺🥺❤❤❤

@stephanielemieux5319 3 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love how books can put into words how you've felt for so long but couldn't articulate - seeing yourself and connecting is beautiful, thanks for sharing this 😊

@David050298 3 жыл бұрын

Representation Matters. I’m glad you were able find a novel in which you can see yourself. Your reaction to Loveless was similar to mine with Aristotle & Dante - that realization that you exist. That your struggles were never really just your own. That you were and are silently linked with those you have never met.

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

David Rodriguez that’s very true and beautifully said 💞

@movielover134 3 жыл бұрын

It wasnt until I was 28 that I finally realized that I was gay. Years of feeling less than, seeing all my peers have "typical" teen experiences while romantic relationships personally were cringe worthy, despite love reading and watching the romance genre. But after coming to terms with myself and realising I was gay did I change into a different person that I never expected. Its why we love books, Call me by your name was the first book that truly made me feel that I could be gay, it wasnt even relating to charcaters but the emotional connection to the writing. Your very brave and I really wish I discovered your channel sooner your one of my favorite booktubers, love your reading tastes. You will discover yourself in time, I know it's lonely waiting but it will come ❤❤

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

Chris Kitts thanks so much 🥺💞

@KirstySciberras 3 жыл бұрын

Seeing you cry has to be one of the most heartbreaking thing ever 💔 loved the way you talked about your experience with asexuality. I'm someone who doesn't like putting labels on people thus my unwillingness towards being in a relationship should not be something that needs to be labelled. I'm a firm believer in 'live and let live' and with that goes making life choices that don't put you in anxiety-inducing situations. There's a quote about friendship relationships in 'A Little Life' that pretty much sums it all up. Any relationship doesn't have to involve sexual acts in order to be validated.

@ashcam24 3 жыл бұрын

Watching someone feel seen and understood in a way they never have before...so beautiful 😭❤️ sending you love Gabby!

@katelyncollier4979 2 жыл бұрын

The clip of you crying about reading Loveless is so beautiful and real! Such a special and important experience.

@RockMusicIsPerfect 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so so much for having the courage to be vulnerable when you talked about Loveless. I'm 27 and I feel very similar. And now I want to read that book. You're not 'less than', Gabby. You're valid. 💙

@hiddenrainbow12 3 жыл бұрын

I felt the exact same while reading Loveless. I'm 25 and it voiced so many things I have thought about. At some points it literally read my brain. I have thought, maybe I'm too shy and not social and havent met anyone. I still am figuring it out. Lots of love💜💜

@brittanyhinkle524 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing more of you with us 🥺❤️ I’m happy books like Loveless are becoming more prevalent to show people their feelings are valid and ok. I love watching your videos!

@sunkissedbeautyxo 3 жыл бұрын

Omg you’re such a sweet angel 😭 when you started crying about Loveless I felt you so hard. Sometimes you read a book and feel seen and it’s just incredible!

@koritsi2142 3 жыл бұрын

I literally felt the exact same way you did about Loveless. I read it on holiday with my mom and my grandma and it almost made me confide in them, but I just can't seem to do it.. it makes me sick every time my grandma tells me I need to find a boyfriend bc apparently I'm 'lonely' and being single as a 20 year-old university student is unacceptable in my family's opinion :/

@estadoagridulce 3 жыл бұрын

gabby, you are so right, because identity is so HARD, and it's a never-ending experience, much love to you gabby and you and your experience is valid.

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

Loreto Ramírez Ponce ❤️❤️❤️

@stacywinkle8717 3 жыл бұрын

Gabby, thank you for your honesty. You are going to help so many people who are feeling the same way as you. You are young. Give yourself time to figure things out. You are awesome. You are seen. Keep being you.

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

Stacy Winkle thank you 🥺💞

@readerssea 3 жыл бұрын

I’m so happy you have found yourself in a character ❣️ I feel like that is so important and definitely helps people get through the speed of thoughts in there head. Relatability is pretty rare when it’s to a T. You’re absolutely amazing!! Thank you for more recommendations. I’ve been wanted Heartstopped but I also want to read Anxious People and Loveless now. 🥺❣️

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

Readers Sea thanks love 🥰

@paayal649 3 жыл бұрын

Gabby you are such an amazing person, when you started to cry I wanted to just reach into the screen and give you a big hug ❤️thanks for sharing everything that you do. I think when people share what they are going through and feeling it makes the rest of the world feel less alone. Lots of love to you ❤️❤️

@aznickster 3 жыл бұрын

I am so glad you found an incredible book that represents how you feel! Thank you so much for sharing your experience! Your honesty will help others going through the same thing. I love how genuine you are! You are a breath of fresh air.

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

AzNickster thank you 🥺🥰

@abibliophobe2731 3 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you felt like you were represented in loveless. I hope you feel better having expressed yourself. I'm bi and demisexual and boy did that shit confuse me and it scared me. I'm 30 almost 31 and I only really figured it all out 2 or 3 years ago and I only started coming out about it a year ago. Your vlogs always bring me joy. You seem like a genuinely sweet person! This year's been challenging for me in a number of ways and my mental health has relapsed. You are one of the book tubers whose helped.

@Alea_uncharted 3 жыл бұрын

This was EXACTLY how I felt reading Loveless. I’m not sure where I fall on the romantic spectrum, but so much of this hit home for me that I’m having to really think about it now. I knew I was in trouble when I was already being called out 5 pages in, and it just got worse/better. It really put so much into words that I never could, and it WAS so relatable it was painful. I left it feeling both light and heavy in the best possible way 💜

@zs4673 3 жыл бұрын

Gabby, as a mom, I just want to say, your parents must be so proud of you! I know I am.

@Tirpse87 3 жыл бұрын

Loveless has been on my shelf for a few weeks but I am really excited to read it. Even more now after seeing your response. I wanted to fly over there and give you a quick hug. I am glad you found a book that makes you feel seen. Such a treasure to have.

@dnakranda 3 жыл бұрын

Oh Gabby**hug** you’re such an amazing person. You are so loved. Let life unfold naturally and trust that the love of your life(whoever that may be) will enter your life when it’s right.

@annawilson2406 3 жыл бұрын

Seeing you break down over being found in a book broke me 🥺 sending you tons of hugs 💕

@jenniferparker1819 3 жыл бұрын

You’re such an amazing person to be so honest about your feelings.

@Peyton4you 3 жыл бұрын

Loveless is such an emotional book and it’s so beautifully told. And other book that has asexual representation is TJ Klune’s Wolfsong series. The 3rd book is centered around an asexual couple and it is so good!

@uhohxkate 3 жыл бұрын

I’m happy that you found another book that helps you come to terms with who you are. There isn’t anything wrong with being asexual or just currently being in a stage where you don’t want a romantic and/or physical relationship. You gotta make yourself happy and doing something just because it’s perceived as normal isn’t healthy. Live your best life, girl!

@Lena-ks5ni 3 жыл бұрын

Embrace yourself and stay calm, peaceful...You're so open, pure soul, so I enjoy your sharing of each and every emotion. Rare experience!

@OhhGlam18 3 жыл бұрын

This is why I love your channel. You are open and honest and never change! Also, I learn so much from you. I can see why it would be confusing to love the idea of romance but in reality want nothing to do with it. You're heard and your feelings are valid 💗

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

OhhGlam92 thanks so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@itsmattiebeck 3 жыл бұрын

Girl those tears are so honest & it breaks my heart. But it’s amazing how books can make you feel seen & heard. That’s the beauty of them. I see you girl ❤️

@readingkitten 3 жыл бұрын

You are very brave for being so open in this vlog! I felt the exact same reading Loveless. I could have never imagined how much I would relate to Georgia. I never quite understood how a person could be aroace and a hopeless romantic at the same time, but now I know that is exactly what I am lmao, or at the very least I guess I'm demiromantic. It's so difficult to figure out what your romantic orientation is, but Loveless has definitely given me some more insight. Absolutely my all time favorite book💜 I'm also 26 by the way, so you're definitely not alone haha.

@bookspastbedtime 3 жыл бұрын

watching you get emotional over loveless is making me emotional 🥺 i'm in the same boat as you and relate so much to what you were saying & feeling. this one's on my tbr this month, as well, so definitely gonna prepare myself for all the tears.

@DauntlessAFK 3 жыл бұрын

It took me till I was 34, married with a kid to realise I was demisexual. When I read about that term it was like things in my brain started clicking into place. I can say 100% if my husband had not been the one to keep coming back we probably wouldn’t be together because I really had no desire to have a relationship. It’s amazing the things we continue to learn about ourselves throughout our whole lives

@Magicme79 3 жыл бұрын

A man called Ove by Fredrik Backman is one of the best books ever written! You need to read that book!

@shannon5707 3 жыл бұрын

I’m reading this now!!

@kuokenih2155 3 жыл бұрын

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@carriem2655 3 жыл бұрын

Agree 100%!!

@euniecorn 3 жыл бұрын

+1 for this!!! 😍

@taylorlane1298 3 жыл бұрын

I second this!! I also love his book My Grandmother Asked Me To Tell You She's Sorry.

@koribee7743 3 жыл бұрын

Aww Gabby you hurt my heart. You will always be loved, there are so many types of love in the world, i wish more books were written about love that isnt romantic.

@CatarinaP1 3 жыл бұрын

Girl, you never cease to amaze me. You are the best human ❤️ I'll definetely will be reading all those books! I'm super happy you liked heartstopper, it's amazing ❤️

@Tarasreadingnook 3 жыл бұрын

I just wanted to give you a hug. I'm so happy that you are seen in a book.

@elletinglesASMR 3 жыл бұрын

When you started crying AWWW I LOVE YOUUUU GABBY!!!!!! My lil tay swift

@dariasavu5345 3 жыл бұрын

you are loved and valid! when you cried while talking about loveless and asexuality i cried as well because i’m so proud of you!! i don’t personally identify as asexual but loveless thought me so so much about it and i’m so glad i read it. right after i finished it i thought about how amazing this book would be for asexual people or people who aren’t sure if they are or not asexual to read it because i felt like it would make them feel seen and hit close to home. i absolutely loved this video and the way you opened up, not that you owned anyone an explanation!

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

Daria Savu thanks so much 🥺🥰💞

@hadleybooks96 3 жыл бұрын

First things first thank you Gabby for recommending "Loveless" I am putting it on my reading list for sure! Second thing thank you for opening up about your personal life. I honestly didn't know how many people were in the same boat as me. I am 23 and have never been in a romantic relationship either. I do desire it at times but also very happy on my own at times as well. I have been watching my sisters grow up, fall in love, get married and have children. I dream of that for myself one day. I have had crushes but it was never reciprocated. Right now I am just trying to focus on my career and get myself on the right path professional. Then everything will hopefully figure things out on the relationship end. I am very thankful to not be alone on this

@johenny1870 3 жыл бұрын

Gabby, I’ve never posted a message before on your channel but this really broke my heart because I can relate to the pressures of society’s expectations of what I was supposed to do. And I did follow them: marriage and motherhood and full time corporate job path. And although I have no regrets, now that I am older, I know that the only expectations that you should have for yourself is to do whatever makes you happy, surround yourself with people who love you for who you are, and be kind to others. In the end those are the only things that matter. Don’t put unnecessary pressures on yourself. Life is already hard enough. 💗💗

@riella_reads 3 жыл бұрын

I think its great you were so open about it. Asexuality is not discussed enough, and I hate that having a boyfriend/girlfriend when you are young is such a defining factor. I remember feeling so distraught when I was young for never being kissed or in a relationship when all of my friends were. I ended up just kissing a random person I barely knew when I was 17 just to say I had. My first real relationship wasn't until I was 19. I felt so behind, but It really shouldn't be that way. Self worth and happiness should always be with yourself, and shouldn't determine loneliness if you aren't "with" someone. Anyways, super proud you're able to talk about it, even if you teared up! 💖

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

That’s so true, thank you so much 💞

@amy3667 3 жыл бұрын

I instantly added Loveless to my tbr after you described it, I feel the EXACT same way as the character. Everyone who is asexual is valid ❤ .

@kristinaanderson1394 3 жыл бұрын

The best part of literature is how it can touch our hearts and feel like our own thoughts are on page. I'm so happy you found a book that made you feel seen. *hugs*

@Sad.Purple.unicorn 3 жыл бұрын

the house in the cerulean sea has been on my TBR for so long I really need to read it😩

@samrosequi 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for being vulnerable in this video. I started tearing up watching you express your feelings because I have so many of the same thoughts/feelings . I’m buying Loveless this second because I want to feel the same validation you felt from reading it. 💛

@subhajitbag5592 3 жыл бұрын

"A Room without books is a body without soul"👍👍I never noticed that cushion before!! 💐💐

@bebella9005 3 жыл бұрын

You’re always reading all the books I have my eye on 😂 your vlogs always get me super pumped and in the mood to read! Anxious People seems sooooo good! And seeing your genuine reaction and your comments on Loveless, as well as hearing about your story and experience... thank you for sharing that with us. Great video, Gabby!

@literaturelessons6333 3 жыл бұрын

@gabbyreads power to you girl for being honest.❤️ I am in my late 20's and I still feel the same like that character in ' loveless'.

@kaylarichardson404 3 жыл бұрын

thank you for being so open and honest. it takes a lot of guts to do that

@rissasaki 3 жыл бұрын

I really don't like Alice oseman books. I DNF Radio Silence and hated Solitaire, but after seeing the way that you loved Loveless, I'm definitely thinking about giving her a third chance. So glad that you could see yourself represented in a book! 🥰😭✨

@nikkikerr4626 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being so honest and for teaching me about something that I never really knew about. You are amazing.

@Cgro2767 3 жыл бұрын

I already know it’s going to be a good day when Gabby drops a new video! 🤩

@mariamm9400 3 жыл бұрын

The second you mentioned making this video in your tbr, I immediately jumped into reading heartstopper so I could be prepared in relating and I low-key was fangirling. Watch your reaction about loveless made my heart break. I am so glad to see you be represented. I'm not asexual, I don't really... I don't really know what I am lol, and but seeing you so happy made me so happy.

@minka0818 3 жыл бұрын

Gabby! I am such a fan of you and Ive never seen such a pure wholesome review You are so brave to open up about something that a lot of people can relate to

@lovelight6973 3 жыл бұрын

I think people, especially younger people put SO much energy into love, relationships! I wished I focused on more on my studies than relationships and getting a boyfriend in H.S. I say take your time. I know a girl who's 30. I don't think she's asexual but doesn't really date. Her focus is her parents, her career, her dog, church and singing (she sings professionally). Dating is just not a priority and that's okay. Don't let anyone make you feel you have to be in intimate relationship to feel whole. I think more and more people are actually marrying less and living single. Love your videos!

@noahnunezmoreno1652 3 жыл бұрын

i don’t personally identify as asexual, but i truly believe that you opening up about it and talking about this kind of topics could help those who are struggling to understand who they are or what they are feeling, so thank you for doing that. You are amazing and really strong💛

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

noah n thank you ❤️❤️❤️

@jenreadslottie3367 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being so open! I cried watching you, could see how hard Loveless hit you.

@soniaesquivel9385 3 жыл бұрын

Loved this vlog... and I love how you explored/related to something so personal about yourself. I also love how much you helped others by sharing. You are amazing...

@joseyjogirl 3 жыл бұрын

Today I picked up The House in the Cerulean Sea. I'm 3 chapters in and I don't want to stop. It's such a cute story so far. I love the humor in it. Your recommendations brings me out of my comfort zone & I love it! For years I've always stuck with horror & memoirs. But you've gotten me into contemporary, fantasy & romance & I don't regret it a bit! I also got anxious people this month for my book of the month and I can't wait to get loveless. LOVE your channel Gabby!

@oliviabergin99 3 жыл бұрын

Been busy with moving an starting uni and such, finally taking a minute to sit down and watch!! Love your vids ahh I missed them!!!!

@dripping.sauces 3 жыл бұрын

Seeing you cry just made me tear up🥺🥺 You're so precious gabby❤️ It takes courage to be open about something so personal. Im going to pick up Loveless after this!

@michellelee03 3 жыл бұрын

Oh my god when you’re taking about loveless by Alice oseman... 🥺🥺🥺🥺 Gabby! 🖤🤍💜

@Abigail_97 3 жыл бұрын

I understand perfectly how you feel. It was also difficult for me to identify as asexual and in which part of the umbrella of asexuality I fit in. There are many nonfiction books that talk about it and that helped me

@KristenReads 3 жыл бұрын

It's always so wonderful when you can find a book that really resonates with you and makes you feel connected. This is why representation is so important.

@alittlewriterem 3 жыл бұрын

This video was so honest and I’m so happy that you felt seen by a book in that way!! 💗 I read Radio Silence by Alice Oseman and loved it, so I can’t wait to try some of her others. I also adored Anxious People, and it did move me to tears 😂 you were so right when you said that Fredrik Backman manages to combine such a light hearted tone with heavy topics, it’s so true!!

@loobylucyloo 3 жыл бұрын

Gabby, you are such an incredible person. I adore your videos and have been watching them for just short of a year. I always look forward to watching your new videos and you inspire me to read more. Not only that but I adore how real and honest you are. I’m a teacher from England and I think you are such a great role model to children and young adults. Thank you for your amazingness!! Lucy xx

@sarahyoung160 3 жыл бұрын

Gabby! You made me cry, such a magical feeling to be seen a book and to feel understood. Thank you for talking more about your experience! 💜

@GllobalCitizen 3 жыл бұрын

Loved this vlog so much!!!!!♥️ Your reaction while reading Loveless was so touching.♥️

@sarahs2951 3 жыл бұрын

The coolest thing about Backman’ s writing is that it’s translated ! I know a lot of people didn’t vibe with Anxious People but I loved it ! Also you are such a beautiful person and I am also on the asexual spectrum and you make me feel very seen. 💜💜💜 I’m 38 and I’m okay with myself, society isn’t,family isn’t. People are always like you’re going to die alone. I’m just like everyone dies alone. It’s very frustrating. Sending you support and love...💜

@likhitha2350 3 жыл бұрын

You are the most relatable booktuber to me.and you relating yourself to that character and crying made my eyes teary and feeling relatable that people like me exist somewhere in this world that it's okay to not be in a relationship and enjoy yourself❤💯

@mynameischrista 3 жыл бұрын

This vlog felt so real and raw, and I just wanted to hug you. Finding anything that makes you feel seen is just like a warm hug.

@chanelletime 3 жыл бұрын

Gabby this made me cry. A lot. The part where you talk about loveless.

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

😭😭🥰❤️🥺

@jessicacampbell1038 3 жыл бұрын

I’m ordering loveless because I want to feel seen also ❤️

@sarahw5693 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for talking about your asexuality Gabby 💖 like the other comment said, representation in media is important and you talking about your own experience on your platform is part of that now too

@nilulal545 3 жыл бұрын

You are so right on everything about Anxious people.. i just finished wow it is thought provoking. ❤ and sending you a big hug your emotions your feelings got me all teary eyes. I havent read loveless but looking forward to it.

@ReeceChambers99 3 жыл бұрын

Watching this video has encouraged me to start asking myself quite a few questions... I hope to read this book at some point and I think that we might be quite similar. You're right, it is something that needs to be discussed more.

@kashish5737 3 жыл бұрын

some of these have been on my tbr for so long! thanks for making this lol

@Sassy_boots 3 жыл бұрын

Omg seeing you cry made me want to cry! Thank you for being so honest❤️❤️

@BooksWithRay 3 жыл бұрын

💕💕💕 love how vulnerable you were in this

@mishasplannerlifestyle7330 3 жыл бұрын

I was so excited that this video was up because I was feeling like shit! Annnnnd then seeing you cry I was like oh hell NO!! I was hurting even more for you. Gabby take your time the time will come when you may experience whatever the universe has planned for you. You're my inspiration and motivation just the way you are!! I love ya girl!!

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

Misha Bennett aww thanks so much I really appreciate it 🥺🥰

@sarahdavies3789 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing yourself with us! Everyone deserves to feel seen, understood, and respected for who they are 💕

@rebeckajohansson97 3 жыл бұрын

So happy you found a book that you could relate to 💕 you are amazing!!!

@isbaileyreading 3 жыл бұрын

Gabby!! Asexuality is so underrepresented and misunderstood. You made me NEED to read Loveless. I don't publicly talk about my sexuality or how I identify, but I can relate to people who assuming that you are wanting a relationship or wanting something that you.. don't actually desire. However you feel is valid & you also don't have to announce it or explain it to anyone you don't want to!

@hadia9 3 жыл бұрын

Your reaction to Loveless genuinely made my day. It's so good to see real reactions of readers, I missed this about BookTube

@AmandaBrown-ht1gl 3 жыл бұрын

I seriously cannot wait for a cloudy raining day to stay in bed and read all day. *sigh* I live in cali 🤦‍♀️ Getting Anxious People today in the mail and I cannot wait. Omg seeing you cry 😭😭😭😭 Love you Gabby ❤

@Achick25 3 жыл бұрын

Love you, Gabby ❤️ thankful for you and your heart! I love when you are able to truly be touched by the words in a book. That’s how I felt reading Beautiful Boy by David Sheff. When I was 17, I lost my brother to addiction, who was only 23, and that book (and movie) hits me in the heart every time. You are always seen and loved, and always know that you are not alone ❤️

@gabbyreads 3 жыл бұрын

Treat Your Shelf I’m so sorry for your loss 😭😣 and thank you so much ❤️