"One day when you are walking down the aisle, looking at the love of your life. You'll be thankful and you'll realize why it did not work with anybody else." ☹❤

sa lahat ng nagmomove-on,sama sama tayo sa pagiging best version ng mga sarili natin.. hnd mn madali, pero walang susuko

How to really move-on? By Real Talk Darbs Here are the key points to remember: 1. Feel the pain and don't be scared 2. Make a decision 3. Focus on yourself 4. Realized your self-worth 5. Give yourself a time to be alone 6. Allow yourself to be selfish in order for you to be selfless 7. Don't find the right one be the right person to someone Thank you so much for this on point advices. I've learnt a lot from this. New subscriber here. More power po.

Di mo ksalanan, ngmahal ka lng. If u are not valued. Walk away, dont look back. Move on...

"do not find the right one, instead focus to be the right person to someone"... 👏👏👏👏

Hindi ko akalain, aabot ako dito. Sana madali lang ang lahat! 😭 bumalik lang siya para iparamdam sakin yung ganitong heartache. 💔😭 walang gabing hindi ako naiyak. Makakamove on din tayo, dahan dahan. 😭

My Girlfriend just broke up with me earlier this day.. I'm so devastated, Just like what other people been thru.. I'm glad I Found this video it made me cry on the earlier part realizing forgiveness and acceptance and the fact she is gone now.. without the assurance of coming back, after finishing this content, I feel lot better now and learned a lot as well, I'll be going to take this lessons to heart , step by step little by little, I'll be the best version of myself for myself and for the people's around me as well, mark this day "February 11 2023" I'm going to back in this comment section when I'm fully healed.

I'm on the process of moving on I hope this will help, thank you Kuya Darbs!!! Yakap sa lahat ng sinusbukang mag move on! 😔

Break up this time of pandemic is so hard😭😭

It really is not easy to move on, and I may be struggling today, but i know i'll be better in time... 😭

Legit yung kapag mag isa ka tapos doon ka aatakihin ng pag iisip . Legit yung akala mo na nakakalimot ka pero mali pala. Legit yung mas pipiliin mong tulog kesa gising para mabantayan lg sarili mo sa pede mong magawa dahil sa lungkot. Legit yung sama ng loob na naiipon sa dibdib mo. Legit yung sakit na ipapaalala ng mga bagay bagay sa paligid mo kahit piliin momg h'wag na umalala pa Legit yung kahit isang minuto di sya nawawala sa pag iisip mo Legit yung mga oportunity na nasayang dahil lang nasa estado kapa na gusto mo kumalimot at Legit yung kumakalimot ka nang taong minsan naging mahalaga sa ala-ala mo.

"stop finding happiness in the same place you lost it" ❤️

If you know what you bring to the table, you will not be afraid to eat alone. 👏🏼

Hindi ko alam kung bakit bigla ko nalang sinearch yung "How to moveon" at pinanuod to. Pero it really helps me, selfworth is the key. ❣️

1. Feel the pain 2. Make a decision 3. Focus on yourself 4. Realize your self-worth 5. Learn to be alone 6. Be selfish to be selfless 7. Do not find the right one. Be the right one.

This is my first time listening to you, sir. We broke up this January. We've been together for 8 years. Thank you so much! I finally have the courage to let go and move forward. Thank you for your words of wisdom and encouragement 🙂

Honestly di ko namalayan na nakamove on na pala ako. I returned to school immidiately after break to make myself busy... slowly I put myself together and become a strong independent woman. Pasalamat pa nga ako kase kase nakawala ako sa toxic relationship.. I can't imagine na madami pala akong pwedeng gawin.. And pwed din palang maging happy kahit wala akong partner. Thanks to RTD and I really enjoy listening to your advices..🌻🌻🌻

sa 16k people na kelangan talaga e search sa youtube kung pano mag move on, WE CAN GET THROUGH THIS 😊😘

Gusto ko un sinabi niya, instead of clinging to your emotions of being hurt, focus on your career or self development and prepare your self for the right one for you. Kasi past is past kahit anung pagiiyak mo jan di kana babalikan , ayusin mo sarili mo para kay the one na darating sa future, definitely pagkakataon na lang ang inaantay!

Saw this for the first time. Broke up with my bf of 3 years. Not actually break up kasi iniwan na lang nya ko bigla. I’m so down and broken. Feeling ko iniwan nya ko sa era. Sobrang sakit kasi feeling ko binigay ko lahat kahit di ako perfect. Making a promise to watch this video everyday until I become better. Thank you so much Kuya Darbs. This video really spoke to me. I know this would help me heal. God bless you! 6.13.22

Thank you Kuya Darbs, I've been watching most of your videos. It helps me a lot in overcoming the pain day by day caused by someone whom I loved for 2 years. Not fully healed pa, I know it's very difficult to move on, I know naga struggle pa ako today, but hoping to reach that point na magiging okay na ako. Sending virtual hugs to all na kagaya kong naga move on. Makakaya natin to 🤗

Experiencing so much pain right now, feeling the pain and loneliness, It's so hard telling oneself that he's gone and I need to live and build myself alone, the trauma of cheating repeated, that causes so much pain in my heart🥺, Thanks for the advice Real Talk Darbs, I do hope everyone who experience being broken will find it's peace and worth someday, We deserve to be love, Everything happens for a reason, maybe God has a plan and put us in this situation because something good is about to come.♥️Amen

umokay ako bigla. panoorin ko nalang ulit to when i get sad.

I hope one day when I come back to this video, I have already apply the words you’ve said. Slowly, I know I will be okay. My love will be gone for 4 years to pursue his dreams, and I will be stuck here in our place, our city, our dreams for each other striving to move on and find courage again to fight. The moment we get the results from the academy I know that there’s nothing I can do anymore but to accept the fact that we both love each other but it won’t last because we both need to grow and learn on our path. I really pray that he’ll get accepted because I know how much he has to sacrifice the things he love the most to pursue his dreams. And i’ll always remember his favorite quote, “ the hardest choice requires the strongest will.” We might have promised each other to not leave each other’s side but I know that God has a better plan for the both of us. I just have to keep reminding myself that if he is the one for me, no matter how far I will travel and venture, our love will always find us both. But if he’s not the one and we’ll just forget each other in the span of his study in the academy, that’s God’s way of telling me that I am not the one he is supposed to end up with, God has prepared a girl so much better than me, and eventually I have to accept it because I, myself always wants whats better for him even though I am not that person. I just really have to let him go, to grow and learn, and while he create his own path and venture on his journey, here in my place, I will focus on myself and on the things that I love. So when the time comes that the person who’s meant for me will come, I am ready to accept him wholeheartedly and I will be able to give all the love that he deserve. P.S my grammar might not be on its best form, but this is how I really feel right now. Hope i’ll be better soon.

I fake moving on in front of people, but once I'm alone the sadness overwhelms me again.

It's been a year but it still hurts. This is what I needed the most, thank you 💙

This message is for me. I'm on a healing process. 🌻🌻 I can't afford again to lose someone just because I'm not that totally healed. We need to go through the process, so that next time we can offer the best version of ourselves to someone that God is appointing us to be with for the rest of our lives.

And I'm into it!! powerfully mindset lift us to be the best version of yourself.

My 5yrs relationship ended because he cheated on me, he got another girl pregnant and when i ask him about it, seems like he's blaming me for everything. 🙃 It's devastating, considering the fact that I did nothing but to love him with my whole heart and accept everything he is. It's so heavy that i found myself crying every night, overthinking. I pity and feel sorry for myself for letting them ruin me, emotionally. I had a lot of questions in my mind for the past months. I'm so happy I came across to this video. It's like all of my questions have answers now. 🙂 I'm still in the healing process and hoping to feel better soon. Thankyou for this. 👍

“Because of pandemic, we broke up" No. Hindi dahil sa pandemic. You broke up with that person not because of pandemic but because hindi talaga kayo ang para sa isat-isa. I mean hindi kayo ganun katatag para lampasan ang pandemic na ito.

I just finished praying and saw this video. Thank you, I needed this.

I really need to hear it now 🙂.. thank you! Its good to know that there is someone who understand what we really feel.

Going through an extreme heartbreak right now that i just had to shut myself off from friends and family. This video helped me a lotttt. Thanks for this RTD! sobrang nakakatulong ka.. 1. Feel the PAIN and go through it. 2. Make a DECISION 3. Focus on YOURSELF 4. Realize your SELF WORTH 5. Learn how to be ALONE 6. Be SELFISH to be SELFLESS 7. Do not find the right one, be the right person for someone Kudos. ~ keep em coming, keep inspiring!

Move-on na guys!!! be yourself!! love yourself first!!

thank you kuya darbs, listening to you really help me to realize that I need to prioritize myself and forget the person who destroy me and take advantage on the time that I am lost and weak. Maybe time will heal me.

Go through all those pain and cry it all until you get tired crying and you will feel better through the process. That number one advice is really how I get over a love ones 🥺.

I'm on the process na. Moving on from 7 years relationship is not easy, but it's not impossible to do so din :) Ang sarap lang makapakinig ng perception ng lalaki. Salamat dito! :)

Acceptance is the real secret of moving on😊💚

Yes exactly very on point 😊😊 let time heal you first 😊

i am crying the whole time watching this video!!! it's worth it to watch! taraaa move on tayo! ❤️

Yes, it's true. It happened to me. It took me a long time to grasp everything. Healing and moving on is a long process. As time goes by you will realize you have finally moved on with the person and with the situation. Matatawa ka na lang kapag maaalala mo... Now following you. See you around. Take care and keep safe.

Yes, accept the FACT that it is FINISHED.

I agree po. Sabi nga, let's love ourselves in such a way that others would know how we should be loved. 😊

Thank you so much real talk darbs I'm agree I'm applying to myself all said.how to moving on.good bless.🙏

Sobrang realtalk. Always kase natin natatanggap yung mga advices na tanggapin mo nalang, hayaan mo nalang. It's like sobrang daling gawin non. We're almost 5 years na before she fell out of love. Nagsawa, hindi na niya kaya maging masaya. I admit naman na may mistakes ako, but I changed and she knows it. It's just that I'm too late I guess. I tried to fix it naman, tinanggap ko padin siya despite of everything she has done to me. But yun nga, I was too late na. So I decided to stop nadin. Pero ngayon sobra kong nahihirapan knowing na may iba nang nagpapasaya sakanya. Mas nananaig padin yung pagmamahal ko, hindi ko kayang magalit. Mas gusto ko padin siyang mahalin, mas gusto ko padin siyang tanggapin. I rely my happiness to her by a large scalee. Like what you said, ginawa ko siyang mundo. But after watching thiss I really think na hindi ko na alam yung self worth ko to the point na sisirain ko yung sarili ko for her. So this is a big helpp as in. I'll try to follow the steps. Thankyou. Goodluck sa healing process ko and to all the pips na nakakaranas ng situation as of this moment. Kaya natin to.

Focus on being the right person. This really made a lot of difference on how I feel right now. Thank you Kuya Darbs ❤

Thank you Kuya Darbs. 💓 I will be back commenting on your videos once I am fully healed.

This is the best advise. I like most the part that once you make a decision it should be final. And make yourself best for yourself not for others. I like that. I always listen to this to remind myself always if I became weak. This make strong

Thats why i always end up broken because i always find the right one without asking myself if i am the right person to someone. Thank you kuya Darbs for the advice🙏

I was in a very bad situation 4yrs ago and im thankful i have moved on for quite a long time now. And watching your video now made me smile because i actually did all what you said and moving on was the best journey i had after the break up💜💜💜

ngayon ko lang nakita tong channel na to. i need this. Thank you. Makakaya mo din to ☺

So true, just what I need to hear and what I need to do. Ty

THANK YOU SA LAHAT NG ADVICE. NGAYON MASASABI KO NASA TAMANG PROSESO LANG AKO ❤️

From the bottom of my healing heart,thank you❤❤

Thank you for your wisdom! Im in the process of healing from a broken engagement 💗

This is the best self talk about MOVING ON....that i ever heard, so far. Very applicable ang points. At panalo ang ending sentence. Suskow pow i need that ,I commend u sir Dab. 💜

Ang hirap mag move on lalo na kung sa umpisa ng relationship nyo nag live in na kayo agad tapos after 2 years nagka anak na kami kasi hiniling nya sakin na sana bigyan ko daw sya ng anak pero nung lumabas na yung baby namin after 1 month nakipag hiwalay na sya dahil lang sa mababaw na away. Siguro naghanap nalang sya ng dahilan para maging malaya. Hirap na hirap ako mag move on kasi ayaw ko lumaki yung anak ko sa broken family dahil ako mismo lumaki ako sa broken fam at sobrang hirap non. Kahit may bago na sya hanggang ngayon umaasa at pinag dadasal ko pa rin na sana balang araw maisip nya na mas masarap umuwi sa mag ina nya na laging nandyan sa hirap at ginhawa para sa kanya kahit pinagtabuyan nya ng paulit ulit.

Sarap umiyak habang nakikinig.Feels like im talking to my kuya. Thank you po. Nakakagaan ng pakiramdam😊 It is really easy to forgive but to forget? It's the hardest part. It's my first heartbreak and i don't have regrets. Thank you so much po sa lahat ng payo.

Pangalawang basted ko na ngayon taon hahaha pangalawang nood ko na din. Nakaka relieve talaga panoorin to. Salamat sir Darbs

Thank you sobrang need ko marinig ito.. pasko pa naman 🥺

Yes sir darbs napapahanga talaga sa mga wisdom talks mo♥ skl my past relationshp was 5 yrs ago. And instead na maghanap ako ng iba i focus my self pano ba maging worthy, nag focus ako how to finish my studies naging strong independent woman ako to be exact. At madami ang naka appreciate don. Nakita ko na ang worth ko na hindi ako basta bastang babae. Ngayon i have this someone na special sakin and he treated me as a his ideal girl.😇

thank you for advice kuya darbs :( still crying right now, someday he will realized how important i am :'(, nandon nako sa point na obsess napo talaga, diko kaya :( looking forward .

Yes..its very true..feel the pain...me i put limit when i stop everything for us for my self to feel better.

Thank you kuya Darbs sa mga advice mo, mula nung napanood ko mga videos mo natuto ako mag move on at nalaman ko ang halaga ko.

This is the 3rd time that I listened to this video and it really hits me. 1month already since we broke up and I can still feel the pain. This advice of Kuya Darbs, help me a lot to go through the pain that I am feeling and realize my worth. Thank you Kuya Darbs, I pray that more people will be inspired the way you give advices. Mauubos ko na po sa kakapanood ung videos mo dito sa youtube. God bless you!

I'm currently at my lowest point once again. Pero this time, i want to help myself. I want to be better, to heal without doing self harm. I want to move forward pero ido not know my next step. Then i saw this video...THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

napaka real talk mo po... 😊 justified ung name ng channel niyo... the wisdom is so high... salamat po... napakareal talk po... decide whether to realy move on or u still hope to be together after break up... dats the stage most cant get over with... salamat po... its an eye opener...dats the jump start that most dont know... thank you for teaching me... salamat po kuya darbs...

Thank you Kuya Darbs. Nagising ako sa mga advice mo. I guess kaya din hindi pa ko maka-move on ay dahil nandun pa ko sa denial stage. I kept denying myself of the pain that I need to go through. I didn't realize I was only delaying the healing process simply because I'm trying to avoid the pain. In the process I was only hurting myself more.

Ending this year with a pain.... Feel the pain first.

Sobrang helpful po..Thank you so much, he broke up with me during my lowest moment in my life..It was like its crashing to the bones, I always cry speciaally during night..I always stalk his account in dating site if he is online there thats how stupid I am for him! And now im trying to live my life on my own by learning new things and Pray as well but its still painful when I think about our happy times and his good qualities..

Thank you brother, your advice not only save my sanity but also my mind.

solid tlga im on a moving on stage tapos eto mapaapnood mo laking tulong tlga 🤟🏻🤟🏻

It's really hard to move on from someone you gave every part of yourself.

32k lang to nung nagpunta ako dito , NGAYON 99K na haha. Dami pala nag break up ngayong pandemic.😅

This video recommended to me awhile ago by my good friend and this answered all of my questions since the last two years. Wow, just wow. It's been two years but it keeps haunting me because I just realized that I skipped the first and second steps of my healing process. This is an eye opener for me. All this time, I thought I knew everything but no. Indeed, everyday is a learning process. You may not know me but I am really thankful for this, Kuya.

I like the way u advice..and share yaah forgive and forget..

Let me cry one last time 😭

Totally agree with every step. feel the pain and don’t pretend that you’re okay kasi mas mahihirapan ka lang. its okay to be sad and hurt you’re allowed to feel that way because that means you really loved that person and its part of the healing process.

Ang galing.. hindi ko namamalayan andun na ko sa 7th step.. ung be the right person for someone.. 😊

Ang galing niyo po magadvise sobra, dami kong natutunan. Thank you po sa mga advise niyo, it made me realize and learn the process of moving on.

Thanks for helping me move on tito darbs. Lablab! Your words are my guide to self-love and hopefully in time I can be full of love again that I have no room for it but to share it out to the world.

Kuya Darbs Thank you for this advice. Reality hits me, its easy to say the word acceptance but I carry this for almost 8 months and I'm still stalking her on social media. (nagmahal kami ng walang label then bumalik siya, naiwan ako sa ere :)) But now I'm ready little by little, ayoko ng biglaang pagbitaw. 1. The only way to get out, is to feel and go through it. 2. Make a Decision. 3. Focus on yourself and find yourself worth. 4. Learn to be alone 5. Be selfish in order to be selfless. 6. Do not find the right one, be the right person for someone 7. Be the right person for someone.

Looking forward door the new journey of moving on..Sna meron ng the One at YoLO..

Watching Kuya darbs videos over and over again everyday is actually a big part of my moving on process.Thanks for your words of encouragement it help's me a lot😌

Watched this video for almost 10x😂 This is very helpful kuya darbs I swear🙌🏻 Thank you🤍

I really need this kind of thinking right now. My kids needs their mom now more than ever. It is really not that easy going through this process. Thank you so much for this Kuya darbz 👍👍

Crying while listening and watching to this vid. I hope the next time I get to re-watch this vid, I'm already fully healed as I deserve to be... 💔

Worth it napanuod koto♥️ that's true in the first place you make a decision na bumalik sa taong yun either nagsinungaling man siya, you say na napatawad mona siya pero bat binabalik balikan mopa kahit nakikita monaman na tina try niya yung best niya para lang bumalik loob mo skanya, sana in the first place di mo na binalikan diba but end up na iniwan parin hahaha toxic. Pinipilit niya pa bumalik para ano? Pagsawaan niya haahaha paka imma.

need this now 😢😢😢

I'd lost a man, a friend, and a partner, but not myself. So I set out on a journey to recover myself, to use this breakup as an opportunity for development and self-discovery rather than an excuse to dwell in self-pity. I find it difficult, especially because I don't know where to begin, but I know it's a worthwhile process.❤️

thank you kuya darbs, now alam ko na di ko deserve yun tao na di ako pinahalagahan kagaya ng pagpapahalaga ko sa kanya. mali ko lang masyado kong pinaikot mundo ko sa kanya at ayan na ang di ko uulitin.

Ang galing, andito ko sa point na to eh pero mostly nagagawa ko lahat ng advise felt the pain now, I am thinking this was a blessing in disguise thanks na napadaan ako dito I know that I am doing good and what happened was right.

Feel the pain and go through it. Solid kuya Darbs. Sampal pero magheheal parin. Salute you for advise.

Thanks for this! im going thru pain myself now, ended an almost 2yr relationship because i became selfish and decided to fix myself alone.. now i regret it :( it really hurts that she pick to be alone rather than building herself back with me but i cant blame her because ive been toxic for a long time now im healing and hopefully one day ill be back in my comment here and just laught off everything :) and i promise to be a right person to the next person i will love

Thanks po kuya..d po tlg mdali..pro as i listened to you mdami ko n realized and you are right po..hbang in pain iniisip ko yes lonely but not alone..God bless po . Salamat po

Sheeeyyt shakkkeet Gusto ko mgtambay lage dito parang Ang sarap sa pakiramdam,natauhan agad thank you kuya darbs sa advice sa mga broken vow este heart like us ,pag bumabalik sa isip ko ung mga nangyari pinapanood ko ulit to 😅para ipamukha sa self ko 😅apaka outch tlaga

Kapag iniwan tayo ok lang masaktan wag mo lang tambayan 😂

Thank you for this kuya darbs.. i broke up with him cause he dont see my worth. 😊

Thank you kuya.. words really amazing.. tagos.. bagay niyu po maging adviser

Thank you sir 😔 handa na ako kalimutan sya kahit sobrang sakit.