Sheikh got me so hard with "Ya'ani.. who cares" 🤣

I agree Sheikh! Men just use the excuse "You are the mother, you are responsible for educating & fulfilling all needs of the child/children" now a days even financial needs.

Unfortunately, fathers start to hug kids ( grand children) when they become grand fathers. It's really very sad that most of the fathers treat their own kids very harshly. And till the time they understand the sweetness of father-kid relationship, it's too late and the damage is already done to his relationship with his own Kids. It's really a very bitter truth of life.😞😢😞

SheikhASSIM IS SO RIGHT MAY ALLAH GRANT HIM GOID IN BOTH WORLDS AMIN, yes absent father no quality time love laughter hugs the father is always serious sometimes it’s the father is jealous of the mother and start the problems and jealousy

Dear sister I love you for the sake of Allāh. I understood all what you are going through. Just keep your relationship with Allāh strong by doing all that He commanded and be patient but don't accept any immoral attitude from your step father. You are a precious pearl so preserve your dignity and put your trust in Allāh. This is your own test. With lots of prayers Allāh will ease everything and it will become a story for you to tell one day.

You nailed sheikh Assim MashaAllah shukran Jazakum Allah khair

Very nicely explained, Thank you Sheikh. JAZAK ALLAH.

Thank you fine to hear it children needs 2 parents that love them and lead them to be wise and good Insha Allah ✨🙏✨❤️Alhamdulilah Rabb Alameen ☝️

This lecture is divided in different videos and this clip was taken from the title: Family Conflict Resolution

Interesting!

My father is very very strict..he is someone whom I will fear even after his death..I’m so lonely from my early age..my father used to scold and beat me up from my childhood even if I was her daughter and was very calm and emotional.although his intention was good but his parenting was so bad…even up to this days,he can’t talk softly…if I drop something by mistake,he will curse me..I’m not human and I’ll not be a human anymore..I’m jobless although I’m not graduated.and the financial situation is not good.so I’m d fee facing a lot..but I love my father.I know he is a pure soul but he has anger issues.❤

Not all mothers and fathers or even stepfathers are loving I felt this so so deeply… I grew up with a mother and father divorced then stepfather came along and problems still existed in my house til today I grew up in an abusive household emotionally mentally physically and most importantly SPIRITUALLY where my mom got caught up with doing shirk a lot and tried to kill me I had no love in my teenage years or early adult years I was molested and emotionally abused by my stepfather where they gave everything too my older brother where they thought he was a better child

Sheikh..Thank you for being a genuine Soul. Many wld prefer the children under 12….”easier” to “guide” YOU choose the path of resistance. Teens & young adults are a much harder ppl to guide. Alhamdulillah ❤️

Salaam, please correct the video image. It is flipped left and right and it is showing the sheikh is drinking water with left hand.

Imagine the reward you can gain if you remain at the same spot you prayed your fard prayer for a long time. Imagine the reward if you remain at the same spot you prayed Fajr and recite the adhkar of the morning and remain at the same spot you prayed Asr and recite the adhkar of the evening. Dont miss this out. Make this a habit. When the worshipper has finished praying and he sits in the place where he prayed, the angels pray for forgiveness for him, as is mentioned in the hadith which was narrated by al-Bukhaari (445) and Muslim (649) from Abu Hurayrah, according to which the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The angels pray for one of you so long as he remains in the place where he prayed, so long as he does not commit a sin. They say: ‘O Allah, forgive him; O Allah, have mercy on him.’” According to another report narrated by al-Bukhaari and Muslim: “So long as he does not commit a sin there, so long as he does not cause annoyance to others there.

Where can I find the full lecture

The video is flipped, just to let you know

Did sheikh drink with his left hand during this talk? Correct me if wrong please...

*Solution* Let the maid do the household work and let the mother spend time with husband & children. This also means the mothers should keep the phone & kitty party a bavk seat

Stop music back ground it's annoying

Do t k ow which world is he from Fathers give more attention than mothers Specially to daughters as mothers are unfair to daughters and side with their so s no matter how bad they are to the sister I think I this shaikh has such strict fathers Alhamdulillan in our culture mother is the strict one And daddy is such a darling But we miss mama more when she isn’t well or have travelled somewhere Miss her even though she was the stricter ones

And when the woman has to be both parents because fathers in the US don't care for their kids and they can just walk away without any responsibility. They don't give love, time , they don't take fare of them financially. Not all fathers but most here in the US are like that. It makes it difficult for mothers to raise the kids positively. Women cannot raise boys to be men. We can only teach them how we as women think men should behave but not yow to act, or think. That is a man's job they have to learn by visible example. When they are raised in a home of arguing, fighting, screaming that becomes their nature. That's what is the " normal" behavior for them because that is what they know. When people see the misbehaving children they look atvthe parents. They don't know how the story started. Then when the mom tries to correct the behavior by screaming and yelling it's not teaching nothing. When we respond by hitting it's not teaching them not to hit. Again it's visible example and it's our faults. I'm having a hard time with mine and knowing and acknowledging the issue,it's hard to hold myself together. There are so many of them and one of me. Like I said I have to be mom and dad. I have to work 48 to 62 hours a week to get by. On my days off I wish I could relax but the reality is, I have to be a referee, a maid, a cook, a councilor, a mediator, mom, dad, Dr. , Mechanic, maintenance, tech support, soccer mom, emotional support system, bill payer, tutor, ect..... I have no me time,I have none of the support I get. No family and no friends because don't have time to be a friend at the moment. I wish people could stop judging and start understanding. We as parents are at fault because we didn't realize we were destroying our children by our own personal problem that we displayed infront of them

One word Sibling’s WIFE or HUSBAND Esp wife as she teaches your brother how bad we have been to him when we were toddler or teens or in college together

Sheikh y u drinking with ur left hand 😮 have I seen correctly or am I wrong here?

Sibling rivalry can be for adults severe sibling rivalry. Shiekh doesn't understand this

Solo sex can be a sin that causes a lot of damage, suddenly this type of sinner gets hated by others.

Rasool Allah Sallallahu alaihi wasallam kisses his daughter and his sister He got up for them and spread his cloak for them to sit

I agree with you sheikh but I wish you drank water with your right hand. You disappointed me when you drank with your left hand. This is very serious to me when people talk about imitating our beloved prophet and advice people to do so but they forget themselves. They advise people and forget themselves

People are dying in Gaza ,and this shuyuk telling stories about kids. This is situation of Muslims.