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Recover out loud | Tara Conner | TEDxUniversityofNevada

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Tara Conner, Miss USA 2006, shares her life-long struggle with addiction and what she has learned from 10 years of sobriety. Addicts are not bad people that need to get good, but sick people that need to get well. In this challenging and at times humorous talk, she calls for a different response to the addiction crisis.
Tara Conner is a Television Personality and Recovery Advocate. Through her work, she shares her experience, strength and hope with audiences throughout the United States.
Conner was crowned Miss USA in 2006. During December of that year, she entered the Caron Treatment Center and completed 30 days of treatment for alcohol and drug addiction. She has since celebrated 10 years of sobriety.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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@workinprogress77
@workinprogress77 4 жыл бұрын
Now THAT is Miss USA. You have a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing it.
@joea.6017
@joea.6017 5 жыл бұрын
I personally went to school with Tara. I am glad to see that she overcame these addictions and is able to talk about it. Maybe her speech will help the next 14 year old little girl who is struggling with life. Make KY proud sis.
@SourLimez
@SourLimez 6 жыл бұрын
11 months Friday
@lilipodg2636
@lilipodg2636 5 жыл бұрын
Hi will, how is it going for you?
@NannaandEmi
@NannaandEmi 5 жыл бұрын
2months :)
@healthylivingwithpaul4765
@healthylivingwithpaul4765 5 жыл бұрын
This is something that I can relate to on so many different levels. Congratulations Tara on your sobriety, I am now 22 years sober
@9milasmine
@9milasmine 6 жыл бұрын
Wow..Thank you MISS USA...Not a mess.
@TanyaJo
@TanyaJo 7 жыл бұрын
The best talk I have heard ! Speak your truth even if it is uncomfortable. Congratulations Tara on 11 years
@davidaston5773
@davidaston5773 6 жыл бұрын
She IS absolutely brillant at story telling isn't she Tanya Sales.
@jamiepeterson7876
@jamiepeterson7876 7 жыл бұрын
thank you!!! great talk! i have 32 days clean after 11 years in addiction and i want to be an advocate for girls going through this disease when i am able!
@kayraozbakir9517
@kayraozbakir9517 4 жыл бұрын
So good you can be proud of you! Keep going on and value yourself❤️
@mayrahernandez8607
@mayrahernandez8607 4 жыл бұрын
I’m soo proud of u best decision in your life promise u that
@CariABray
@CariABray 4 жыл бұрын
Jamie Peterson, I know your comment was from 2 yrs ago but I hope & pray that you're still going strong!! 🙏💙💪💙
@gerardjones7881
@gerardjones7881 4 жыл бұрын
@@kayraozbakir9517 Being proud is a recipe for relapse.
@kayraozbakir9517
@kayraozbakir9517 4 жыл бұрын
Gerard Jones why?
@victoriamare4762
@victoriamare4762 5 жыл бұрын
She's so amazing I love that she can laugh about something so painful with such grace and sincerity.
@angiehaas4058
@angiehaas4058 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! I will have 2 years clean tomorrow. You are more than Miss USA to me, you are a WARRIOR!!!
@adrianozampolini5686
@adrianozampolini5686 6 жыл бұрын
Very brilliant and humorous young woman!!
@mvaralakshmidevimvaralaksh5133
@mvaralakshmidevimvaralaksh5133 6 жыл бұрын
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@kymstultz9631
@kymstultz9631 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I'm a person in long term recovery. 11/15/11 is my clean date. I'm blessed to be able to share with addicts on a daily basis because God found me worthy to work in a drug rehab as a peer support. I love that you called out the old-timers to share their recovery. Together we do recover.
@dbloodline
@dbloodline 6 жыл бұрын
Extremely inspiring... i hope she never relapses. blessings!
@ggrr840
@ggrr840 5 жыл бұрын
True development! Love her presentation. Great speaker! This is what the real Miss USA 2006 is in her full potential still making her mark of being relevant in 2019. I will be honest that i wished Tamiko won. You Tara prove mer wrong with this speach!
@stacyejones4122
@stacyejones4122 6 жыл бұрын
That was phenomenal! She is very strong for sharing her story and thoughts.
@dmitritrs4867
@dmitritrs4867 6 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful soul . I'm not american and never heard of her but she blew me away . Thank you
@allspirited22
@allspirited22 3 жыл бұрын
I am viewing this 4 years after you made this tape. Thank you so much for holding a candle up to this darkness. Bless you.
@billwong6077
@billwong6077 7 жыл бұрын
Very personal story. You were very poised! Keep fighting on!
@markg.4246
@markg.4246 5 жыл бұрын
Recovery is NOT about “fighting”.
@amexa1101
@amexa1101 Жыл бұрын
God bless her for recovering and helping others to follow her example
@katrinamareen
@katrinamareen 3 жыл бұрын
People will look down at people with addictions... Being told to be a good mom, just stop drinking, just cut back, you just like to drink, you dont have a problem... Its heart breaking, especially when people will ignore cries for help and say its attention seeking... well yeh it is... they was attention in that they want to be heard, helped... its a cry for help.
@jenromano19
@jenromano19 2 жыл бұрын
That was incredible. She has a gift for speaking and making people feel something. I am a woman in long-term recovery as well, and I loved everything she had to say.
@cairnelisabeth1497
@cairnelisabeth1497 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your work, Tara! You didn't have to make this your life's mission, but you did. Bless your kindness and generosity! I am with you. I have the same disease
@weltschmerz4606
@weltschmerz4606 5 жыл бұрын
What I loved the most was her honesty 💙
@susansimpson72
@susansimpson72 5 жыл бұрын
11/25/18 - ten years clean
@markg.4246
@markg.4246 5 жыл бұрын
See you on the road to happy destiny. : )
@cfdmedicambo68relf7
@cfdmedicambo68relf7 5 жыл бұрын
Congratulations My Recovered Friend And My Recovered Sista I Made 5Years Sober From Alcohol On July 21st Of 2019
@visualmoon2771
@visualmoon2771 4 жыл бұрын
Never recovered.. always in recovery
@brentbonham9427
@brentbonham9427 4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful ted talk. I've been sober since july 27th of 2012 and I too am very vocal about my recovery.
@simplydriven4196
@simplydriven4196 4 жыл бұрын
Best executed speech I have ever heard and fantastic points.
@jamesmactaggart9
@jamesmactaggart9 6 жыл бұрын
She is lovely. Ive been there. Much respect!
@britishteacup22
@britishteacup22 2 жыл бұрын
What an inspiration Tara is! I love how she can express her pain with such grace and dignity! And to throw in humor the way she does, brilliant! Well done Tara and all the recoverers out there
@spoyledbratt
@spoyledbratt 6 жыл бұрын
She is so well-spoken! Great talk.
@jamiepeterson7876
@jamiepeterson7876 7 жыл бұрын
congrats on ten years!!!
@brushstroke3733
@brushstroke3733 3 жыл бұрын
Shame is a huge component of addiction. We addicts use partly to escape the shame we feel from using. Shaming addicts for their behavior to help them is like throwing gasoline on a fire to put it out.
@felaniecastro8722
@felaniecastro8722 7 жыл бұрын
Wonderful call to arms and encouragement to bring this message to government. Much needed. Bravo
@dianecaney
@dianecaney 6 жыл бұрын
Well said, Tara. Thank you for your bravery, intelligence and dedication xx
@user-qn4sj3cu3u
@user-qn4sj3cu3u 6 жыл бұрын
What an incredible, humble presentation. This woman is so brave and resilient.
@gretchennewsom7599
@gretchennewsom7599 5 жыл бұрын
Wow! Love the honesty. Recover on. What an inspiration you are. It's about time for our voices to be heard! I agree completely. God bless you
@rubbersidedown7041
@rubbersidedown7041 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this talk Tara. Great point about helping those in prison with addictions get the recovery they need.
@kellyclark2806
@kellyclark2806 5 жыл бұрын
Love when people share their story to help others. I was bulimic for 10 years and see SO MANY parallels between your story and mine. Recovering out loud makes you feel FREE. Thank you Tara! xo
@lisaj5769
@lisaj5769 6 жыл бұрын
vey witty and inspiring speech!!! thank you!
@misssc3062
@misssc3062 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing, absolutely amazing, this girl is saying exactly what we needed to hear and know. Let's take the stigma away from the people who are already suffering and having a hard time coping. Life can be hard, but with human acceptance and connection, the sky is the limit. God bless xx
@dennisbennett3219
@dennisbennett3219 7 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing keep coming back it works if you work it
@bobbysuncin4368
@bobbysuncin4368 3 жыл бұрын
Chaos around me was how it was in my mind. Bless you for bringing light to the stigma.
@rickcook2798
@rickcook2798 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tara, for opening up and sharing your story. You are a blessing and an inspiration. God Bless you!!
@DeborahSRocha-fo6ti
@DeborahSRocha-fo6ti 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you Tara!! That line… “the chaos in the room was like the chaos in my mind,” describes the struggles those dealing with mental health disorders face daily!
@pleiades.puppets
@pleiades.puppets Жыл бұрын
Congrats Tara! And, I love the concept that the morality isn't in the addiction, but how we respond to the crisis of same.
@WhiskeyTango68
@WhiskeyTango68 Жыл бұрын
10 years of sobriety is very very rare for a Miss USA. Congrats. 🇺🇸
@iseewhatyoudidthere1245
@iseewhatyoudidthere1245 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this presentation. What you shared will help many people be inspired to get well. That being said...addicts should be careful how " loud" we are about our recovery. Did you know that if you are a victim of medical malpractice you will not be able to be a witness? The very fact that a person is in a treatment program, Proves that person is an addict and therefore not a " credible witness". So dont be Too loud because in a legal sense, declaring oneself to be an addict means that anyone can do anything to you and they will never be punished. Trust me on this. When people learn that someone is an addict, they don't care about our recovery. All they hear is that you Had to recover. BUT if you have lots of money, support, etc...you probably CAN be as loud as you want.
@mrelixirgalactic
@mrelixirgalactic 13 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for this Tara. I need it.
@jamesoconnor9452
@jamesoconnor9452 2 жыл бұрын
She’s strong, smart, funny, and then beautiful.
@tinaquinn3464
@tinaquinn3464 5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely beautiful.Congratulations on your 10yrs.
@JesusGodHolySpirit3
@JesusGodHolySpirit3 Жыл бұрын
She is so intelligent. Thank you Tara Conner. What a wonderful strong amazing person.
@gpymama
@gpymama 6 жыл бұрын
Absolutely best one yet. This woman is so engaging.
@lukemitchell1975
@lukemitchell1975 3 жыл бұрын
i hear you load and clear. im 8 years soba. thanks for your words
@jamesgaffney5699
@jamesgaffney5699 5 жыл бұрын
very genuine. I applaud your honesty.
@mariakeegan9711
@mariakeegan9711 Жыл бұрын
That was so articulated. 10 years amazing keep going. Absolutely people need to speak out about addiction. As it there is still a huge stigma.
@flomcgee5812
@flomcgee5812 7 жыл бұрын
Nice job Tara!
@EveningTV
@EveningTV 5 жыл бұрын
The problem is even worse than this because even treatment fails 90% of the time. I believe the reason is that it ignores trauma, and rather than utilizing effective low cost treatments, some such as EMDR is that have been around for at least a decade. 12 step programs have a place, and should be available and encouraged for those who want it, but it is not working as the foundation of most treatment programs because it ignores trauma. I was glad that Tara Conner included her trauma in the story of her addiction,but it ends without telling us what broke the cycle.
@MaryLopez-kb7xp
@MaryLopez-kb7xp 5 жыл бұрын
Totally agree. Trauma is the real reason behind alcoholism and there are many ways to heal trauma that do not involve a treatment center. I think we mostly need more of an awareness.
@Harsh-pd6td
@Harsh-pd6td 4 жыл бұрын
She's amazing brilliant young lady.
@cathyecooper4376
@cathyecooper4376 4 жыл бұрын
Good 4u ~ you go girl... now that is the face of "real" courage 🙌🏽🙌🏽💯👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@mariannenowottny1732
@mariannenowottny1732 3 жыл бұрын
Geez, she is SO GOOD!!! Really kept my attention with her story. Better than most TED talks on the subject
@Hannah-sg1wy
@Hannah-sg1wy Жыл бұрын
made me cry. beautiful talk
@ben3eagles831
@ben3eagles831 7 жыл бұрын
I am so proud of you,,
@rachelstreeter4264
@rachelstreeter4264 2 жыл бұрын
I’d LOVE to talk to her one on one. How deeply this resonates with me is unreal. Thanks love
@elijahgarcia5504
@elijahgarcia5504 4 жыл бұрын
How brave and accepting of herself i dig that! Good for you !
@dionevanrooyen9769
@dionevanrooyen9769 6 жыл бұрын
Great talk by a very courageous woman. I salute you.
@arlinegeorge6967
@arlinegeorge6967 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful impressive amazing brave soul. Inspiring. Thank you.bless you. All your dreams come true.
@carennawillmont3706
@carennawillmont3706 5 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your vulnerability!
@peteanddrake4242
@peteanddrake4242 5 жыл бұрын
Let's not forget that Donald Trump lost his only brother to alcohol when his brother was 43. I've seen him talk about it many times. No, we addicts are not treated right or with compassion. But take a moment to give that man just a tiny amount of compassion. He's lost one too. He may not know how to respond to it correctly which is why this woman's talk is so valuable.
@dionel8
@dionel8 4 жыл бұрын
You're so brave for sharing. I'm sure you mean a lot to young people on the edges of addiction.
@tjkohler7795
@tjkohler7795 Жыл бұрын
I play this for my clients Tara's awesome
@craycee1488
@craycee1488 6 жыл бұрын
How incredible!!!! You are an inspiration!!!!
@Exploretravelwolf
@Exploretravelwolf 6 жыл бұрын
great talk. so important her message
@runebauer68
@runebauer68 7 жыл бұрын
Good speech 👍👍👍👍
@saresare798
@saresare798 3 жыл бұрын
Okay what?! You are insanely incredible. This is my Ms. USA for life.
@samanthaneal1931
@samanthaneal1931 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story.
@aboutdawntoday
@aboutdawntoday 6 жыл бұрын
If you told me a beauty queen associated at one time with cheeto would open my mind and have me crying at the end of her talk, I would not believe it. Thank you, Tara Conner.
@shesnutts3469
@shesnutts3469 3 жыл бұрын
Love her comment at 8:15 tho... "We dont need to lock people up or build a wall " That was sweet ! I bet she pukes at the thought of being close to him...
@skypiev4438
@skypiev4438 3 жыл бұрын
@@shesnutts3469 Shes making a joke, she knows we need a wall not just for drugs but for child trafficking.
@skypiev4438
@skypiev4438 3 жыл бұрын
Yea and he cared enough about her to get her help. Many other bosses would just fire them.
@shesnutts3469
@shesnutts3469 3 жыл бұрын
@@skypiev4438 And where was it she implies or states that? ? I must have mssed that part
@skypiev4438
@skypiev4438 3 жыл бұрын
@@shesnutts3469 After she said she was caught doing coke.
@dinakindred
@dinakindred Жыл бұрын
God is good! He will deliver you, if you ask 🙏🏾❤💪🏾
@simplydriven4196
@simplydriven4196 4 жыл бұрын
Best ted talk I have heard
@FloridaIsOneHellOfADrug
@FloridaIsOneHellOfADrug 5 жыл бұрын
She’s awesome and very courageous!!!!
@mickyeverton
@mickyeverton 6 жыл бұрын
Great Delivery, Peace From London. ❤️❤️
@lgkirsch1
@lgkirsch1 3 жыл бұрын
Wow she is just so great and truthful💞
@coquis408
@coquis408 4 жыл бұрын
She’s Amazingly unique. I want to read her book.
@cryptidtimes7426
@cryptidtimes7426 5 жыл бұрын
I loved this. Now, go talk to your ex boss and get him to begin government funding in assistance for this nationwide, I bet he would listen.
@gerardjones7881
@gerardjones7881 4 жыл бұрын
Gvmnt is not the answer. God requires no funding.
@reidaemily
@reidaemily 3 жыл бұрын
@@gerardjones7881 As many amazing things there are that God can help you through, He alone is not going to prevent someone dying from severe withdrawal or coming dangerously close to it...would you tell someone with cancer they don’t need treatment?
@shesnutts3469
@shesnutts3469 3 жыл бұрын
@@gerardjones7881 And unicorns can lead the parade
@iseewhatyoudidthere1245
@iseewhatyoudidthere1245 2 жыл бұрын
He wont listen. She's a beautiful, blonde, female and all trump cares about where women are concerned ( he's Told us) is where they should be grabbed and how young they can be grabbed. Even if he were still president he listens to his wallet and his fame. Perhaps if we coupd somehow have a Helpful treatment program that paid people like him, they'd do it. Its ALL about the money ladies and gentlemen.
@iseewhatyoudidthere1245
@iseewhatyoudidthere1245 2 жыл бұрын
@@gerardjones7881 if religion were the answer the problem would have been solved or perhaps have never started to begin with.✌
@MissUnderstoodasAlways
@MissUnderstoodasAlways 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you’re amongst the Miss Americas ❤️
@shelleytheman2215
@shelleytheman2215 5 жыл бұрын
Very brave and wonderful talk!
@seboisemanager2201
@seboisemanager2201 6 жыл бұрын
You go girl!
@matieurod752
@matieurod752 Жыл бұрын
Dear lord she’s so incredibly beautiful, glad she is where she is right now in life lol
@aarondawes740
@aarondawes740 6 жыл бұрын
Amazing presentation!
@jaysonwyner9577
@jaysonwyner9577 Жыл бұрын
great speech
@JBJB-uk7xu
@JBJB-uk7xu 5 жыл бұрын
She is so beautiful!!!
@JimmyJaxJellyStax
@JimmyJaxJellyStax 2 жыл бұрын
No question she is beautiful and it's definitely no immunity to real life addiction struggles.
@debbiehahn5622
@debbiehahn5622 6 жыл бұрын
Time to care for those in need! Inspirational!!!!
@rarejourneys
@rarejourneys 2 жыл бұрын
I can identify with her story a lot 🙏🏽❤️
@DanielAlvarez-sl6yh
@DanielAlvarez-sl6yh 4 жыл бұрын
Dang i Love her Voice
@jesb7464
@jesb7464 5 жыл бұрын
Great talk! Loved the vulnerability, the courage & the message! You rock!!
@illconductor
@illconductor 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tara.
@Angell_Lee
@Angell_Lee Жыл бұрын
Wow, bravo and thank you! xo
@dianeatwood3990
@dianeatwood3990 4 жыл бұрын
This was a great story everyone can learn from her. Great job
@dianeatwood3990
@dianeatwood3990 4 жыл бұрын
Great story thanks so very much Diane Atwood
@TheBlazad
@TheBlazad 4 жыл бұрын
Power to you lass!! Much love from scotland
@shegone6162
@shegone6162 6 жыл бұрын
I love you for doing this...you're awesome..and relatable..thanks.
@melaniestarkey7868
@melaniestarkey7868 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you I needed to hear what you have to share
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