Relationships; How to Assess Patterns and Resonance

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Internal Tai Chi

Internal Tai Chi

3 ай бұрын

How to assess resonance and patterns in relationships. Do the relationships, friendships, jobs, and environments in your life create resonance or dissonance? In this thought-provoking episode of the Effortless Living podcast on life mindfulness, hosts Susan Thompson and guest Blake, discuss the critical practice of evaluating whether the people and situations you engage with harmonize with your core patterns and values or clash against them in discord.
The central concept is becoming self-aware of your unconscious patterns - the ingrained habits, beliefs, and behaviors forged from your childhood upbringing and life experiences. These patterns shape how you naturally move through the world. Then, make it a practice to actively judge if new potential relationships (romantic, family, friends, colleagues) or environments (jobs, groups, living spaces) resonate in synergy with your authentic patterns, amplifying your flourishing. Or, if they create dissonance - draining your energy as you resist against misaligned forces.
Using rich analogies of musical harmony, our hosts illustrate how surrounding yourself with resonant people and environments allows you to vibrate at your natural frequency with more flow and ease. While dissonant relationships and situations require constant resistance and struggle, creating stress and disruption in your life. Much like trying to force mismatched puzzle pieces together.
They emphasize curating the elements of your life with conscious choice rather than automatically accepting the path of least resistance or endlessly battling uphill against ill-fitting circumstances. Regularly assess whether a relationship or environment is nourishing and supportive of your growth, uplifting you and creating fertile soil for your gifts to thrive. Or if it is a dissonant, toxic source of friction that tears you down and inhibits your flourishing.
Build habits of deeper self-awareness and radical self-responsibility to make empowered decisions about what relationships, jobs, living situations, and communities you wish to participate in and cultivate. Create више resonance and harmony by pruning commitments causing dissonance. Seek enriching alignments with people, places, and circumstances that resonate with your healthy patterns and values, allowing you to thrive as your most vibrant self.
The path is a personal spiritual journey of mindfulness to open yourself to life's fertile resonance everywhere it blossoms for you.
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@lorrainedaugherty3451
@lorrainedaugherty3451 3 ай бұрын
This was such a wonderful lesson for me. I was indeed pouring energy where it was not creating resonance. I can't throw the plant away, but I can spend a lot less time pushing against it. It can grow ini ts own environment. I'm at peace knowing I can receive without pushing back. A ton of weight has been lifted and I can create resonance with my violin and the wonderful people who love me.
@InternalTaiChi
@InternalTaiChi 3 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful assimilation and description of the process imparted in our podcast! Thank you for listening, for being open to the ideas presented, and gently folding it into your way of moving through relationships and life. Resonate and let your violin and relationships sing, my friend! 🎶
@samm4870
@samm4870 3 ай бұрын
Amazing!!! I did miss you two! This episode was terrific! Thank you so much for all the lessons!
@InternalTaiChi
@InternalTaiChi 3 ай бұрын
Thank you! We plan on producing more. Thank you for the encouragement and for listening.
@Jan-bj4pi
@Jan-bj4pi 3 ай бұрын
Love your podcasts you two. I always love what wayne dyer said (when you change the way you look at things the things you look at change). From life I've learnt to love myself more than the conflict around me in my environment and when I did my environment changed. It's always interesting to listen to a different perspective. Thanks guys. Jan.😊
@InternalTaiChi
@InternalTaiChi 3 ай бұрын
Thank you! Good insights, you have. Thank you for sharing and for being a loyal listener. 🤗
@dianebatt1668
@dianebatt1668 3 ай бұрын
Really enjoyed this podcast and it really got me thinking! Love you 2 together it really resonates with me!! Di
@InternalTaiChi
@InternalTaiChi 3 ай бұрын
LOL...Love the pun! :-). Thank you for watching and leaving the positive comments. Blake and I have a lot of fun doing these. Best part is it is spontaneous and not rehearsed. We resonate well! "See" you next podcast!
@samm4870
@samm4870 3 ай бұрын
So why do we feel sorry for the weaker plants and dissonant relationships/people? And why we can't let go? My opinion is that maybe we have been thru situations in the past where we were rejected by bigger/more powerful figures, not always by the right means. Like parents favoring sons, professors favoring some students, Boss favoring workers. Not using resonance criteria, but personal/aesthetic ones. We get traumatized by the choice enviroment. So when the choice lay on us, maybe we get scary of traumatizing/rejecting/other people too using wrong criteria. There's another thing: In biology there is R and K strategy. R strategy Animals use all their energy producing high amounts of gametes, hoping that some of them will find a match and survive thru life. There is not parent caring. On the other hand, birds and mammals evolued using the K strategy, investing huge amounts of energy taking Care of their offspring. There are so much less offspring born, but they have more chance to survive. Maybe the K strategy have some impact too in our difficult in letting things go.
@InternalTaiChi
@InternalTaiChi 3 ай бұрын
What wonderful insight! I found the R and K strategy very interesting. As you mentioned, our past experiences can drive these choices as you mentioned as well. I also wonder if seeing the weaker plant (as a metaphor) somehow represents our own weakness, or our own fear of death, so therefore, we go to extremes to revive it. And in some way, rejection is a representation of "death." In relationships, we may try to resuscitate and revive a relationship that is not healthy for us, or is not resonating well with who we are, because in some way we are trying to address that fear. Does this make sense? Thank you for the thought provoking comments, for listening, for your encouragement and support!
@samm4870
@samm4870 3 ай бұрын
@@InternalTaiChi wooow, It does make sense!!! So much to think and reflect! Awesome! Thank you!
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