The Hard truth..... Don't be in romantic relationship untill you get settle. Otherwise, it will definitely slow you down. Mark my words. Everything has it time. Dont take me otherwise. And thank you so much sir for taking this kind of topic and sharing your perception. Very beautifully said.

A bad relationship at early age can push you to achieve the best version of you...all depends upon where u focus either on the hurt or the lesson ...✨✨

Relationship destroyed me, but somehow i managed to survive and now i became a better version of myself and I'm in love with myself.

Aftr 7 years of being in a relationship ,it failed last year and at the end made me more strong , Now I am happy with myself ,going to gym regularly , focusing on my career and taking care of my parents ❤️

Because of a bad relationship I lost everything, like career, everyone's trust, image. I am constantly in depression for almost 10 years. Now I have regret for wasting my precious time and energy....par mai bhi bahut ziddi hoon. I never quit on myself. I am building my life again. Trying to get the emotional balance. Chetan sir has said everything right in the video. I can relate every word of him. People never value your commitment for them. Don't underestimate the evil power of an undeserving relationship for destroying your emotional health. It is not easy to get the original emotional set-up back after a ruined one. Value your self first. Be selfish in life if you want to be happy. And fu*k Bollywood romantic dramas.....

Can we just take a min to admire how beautiful the view in the background of all his videos are ! 😂❤️

TBH I never connected with your books, but I am connecting so well with your videos. Loving these videos.

It spoiled my 4 golden years 😭 And gave me so many lessons, few guilts & fear of trust/relationships...🙂

I invested 5 year in my relationship and the moral of story is that I lost my optimistic approach towards life.. there was lackness of mutualism... People just want your help.. but no one will be there for you... If it is relationship then WE help each other to fullfill OUR dreams but this is very rare. In case your life is unbalanced no love will be with you .. You have to strangulate your emotion.. and fight with all negativity lonely... So what I found that No love is above your happiness and if that person is really made for you He or She must respect you.. or atleast not will be a selfish one

Relationship distracts us from our goal, our family expect us lots that cost our careers

The most important relationship is our relationship with ourselves.

It destroyed me - took me 2 years to get back to my normal self..wish I had this advice before. Having said that, I didn't let that affect my career so that kept me going!

It's very true no one will remember how many times you helped them but people will always taunt for that one time when u were not able to help them . It has happened to me many times .

2 years ago I got destroyed because of a single relationship sir. Now I cleared IIMB. Thanks to your motivation. :)

Relationships never die a natural death, they are killed by their own actions, by hatred, by ignorance and sometimes by misunderstanding.

Sir soon your KZfaq family will be sky high because your content is top class. 😊

Biggest roadblock to success: getting into relationships at the wrong time

Thank you so much...going through the same thing right now...needed something like this at this moment. "Put yourself first" is actually what we need to do❤️

I put in all my energy and efforts into a relationship which was almost nothing for the person i loved with all my heart.. at last i withdrew, i miss him but i surely know that being alone is much better than being unwanted.. and u r very right chetan sir❤️

Sir, what I learned from this video is "Be the best version of Yourself" #LoveYourself❤️

Relationship destroyed me very badly and took 5 months of mine to become conscious person again but today I felt so good because only pain can give this lesson. This is priceless and everyone should experience once in a life to become more stronger 💪 It's worth it. I lost my time ( which was priceless) and got a lessons ( which is priceless) .... Seriously too much expensive 😬😌

My relationship is going on since 4 years .Many hurdles came but we managed them,and still we are one.

I was suppose to get married to a girl but it was not going well. I gave too many chances but still did not work, hence I quit it and now I and her both are in a much better space 🙂..so yes relationships can destroy u.

''Put Yourself First'' is the bestest part of the video. Thank you sir 😊

this is what i needed. well, people around me have mostly destroyed me, but I guess the time is here to be there for myself first. thankyou sir for this. 😊❤

Moral :- Love yourself first, only then you can make others happy.. Very nice video sir.. 👍🏻 And ofcourse the view is too beautiful 😍

Yes I was destroyed in relationship. Now i am better in my self and focusing on my career. Never trust too much, never make expectations for any girls that she is for me. 🙏

Sir nowadays romantic relationships have no value, infact it has turned down to ZERO. Nowadays what we see is ONLY CHEATING. And also nowadays NEGATIVE amount of value is being shown to TRUE LOVE.. THE ONLY RELATIONSHIP WHICH IS PURE AND IMMORTAL IS THE RELATIONSHIP WE HAVE WITH OUR PARENTS..!!

Me watching this even though I've been single for my whole life nd the future doesn't seem good either😂

First, achieve and then demand...your goals and ambitions are supreme, everything else is secondary.

I couldn't balance my relationship. That was my fault. But, now I am good. Doing better in my life.

I have lost my 6 months and to be continued.. being in a heartbroken, jobless makes the situation worst in this corona lockdown.

I think as per my observations some people come into relationship due to loneliness or some come into relationship bcoz surrounding they see..

Sir, 2 years ago I got stucked in 1 sided love and i got depressed. Somehow I managed to get rid of that and your videos are helping me a lot in my daily life like tackling depression and all. You make time for us to make videos so that we can stay motivated. Thank a lot Sir 🙏

Chetan sir, when I comes to know about any of your your video, there is some Goosebumps coming in my heart like waves, expecting that today I will find some precious lesson from your videos. Your videos are true mirror of my ups and downs of my life, I feel connected to me as if your words meants to me. My soul found an inspiration from you. I am blessed to have you in this generation. Love you chetan sir ❤️.

Long story short : Your body, your soul. You came , you'll go. So...... *you matter, you do*

One must learn where to draw the line in every relationship because even close relationship can destroy .

Sir app hamesha hum jashe youngsters ke muh ki bat chin late ho... Sir for us you are the"YOUTH AMBASSADOR OF INDIA". Massive Respect from West Bengal to you sir....

This is we actually need in life!!! Your celebrity sir but phirr bhi aap apne se lagte ho just like our lovely big brother...i can say the best thing happens to all indians is "CHETAN BHAGAT SIR"🙌

I couldn't even name my feelings .....I don't know whether it is anxiety , depression or just laziness.......always carrying a heavy heart

I came here for watch this video again because one of my friend is broken after her breakup.i thought if i send this video it might help her.hopefully she will get over it.thank you sir for making these types of videos.i found this video very helpful thank you so much.

Best thing happened this year. Chetan bhagat sir starting off with a KZfaq channel. We love you sir! And all your wisdom.

Sir zindagi m pahli baar aisha lg rha hai ki kuch achha seekh rha hu apki video ko dekh kr Thank u sir. Love uu♥️♥️♥️

It's true sir but, I learned after so much mistake...... what ever I learned will stay with me till the last breath of my life.... I wish that this video could be uploaded 1year back at least. 🤗

Just found your channel like an hour or so ago and been binge watching ever since. Currently 1 am rn and I have this sudden urge to change my life around lol but thanks for these videos sir, keep em coming in. Your channel is gonna be a hit.

Thank you so much very much for your words I really had an same experience with my past relationship, wherein i was getting controlled by my girlfriend, due to which its killing me inside and couldn't say anything as we both know we love each other alot. However at last enough is enough and i put myself first and ended it up and now no doubt i am pretty much happy and doing amazing things for my self MORAL OF THE STORY- never ever be a part of something which always keep you in boundaries 💯, if your relationship is noy balanced (even after trying so hard to get it in track) then you better need to move on... As chetan sir said - only our parents loves you unconditionally ❤

I am simply amazed after hearing you and knowing about how much knowledge you have. Its superlative.

Relashionships are not easy and can destroy u completely.....What a true video....love your content Chetan Bhagat

Chetan very nice ! You advise without appearing to sermonize ! You have become the friend of many youngsters through this channel

Sabse pehle khud. Uske baad family,Uske baad saari duniya, great sir👍

Sirji - 15 years before I wish I heard you. Where were you dude? Relationship always destroyed my life. Be it my ex-gf, or my family (bro and sisters who took away my money and deserted me). I totally agree with you that the only un-conditional love is from ones parents.

Pure down to earth wisdom and intelligence ❤️

Thanks for making this sunday happy... feels like we are vibing there and getting life advices

This video is the best thing to listen for me now. Especially when a person is in midst of career and love.... It is very difficult to balance both and reach the top.... But the things you said - I am implementing them already sir..... Tough to control emotions but what you said is also important.... Very nice message " keep the relationship and also don't loose yourself "

Totally agree and this applies for all types of relationship,not only romantic...put yourself first....then everything....

yeah I really love you chetan bhagat sir...from childhood i am reading ur books from school library..

The thing is we should take care of our own priorities first,we just have to maintain a balance between saying yes and no to people. 😊

Because people mostly are quite selfish n worldly.... Time has changed..... Difficult to find trustworthy people

Being human is magnificent but wrong habits can destroy you Love yourself and others But don’t bind yourself with everything in this world

The quality of your Life depends on the relationships you have/had No money,no property,no education, nothing just this is what that matters

Much needed. Krypa Jaare rakhna aap videos !

Exactly. Golden words💯❤️

With my UPSC preparation i was in a relationship with a guy who just only want sexual relationship and now I'm free and feel so happy 💕💕 and thinking that was my right decision sometimes you really need to think abou yourself if they think you're #MATLABI 🥰🥰 let them think 🌝

Thank you.. The way you talk, I can connect with what u r saying Sir.

Bahut sahi kaha apne..chetan ji..

As a kid i used to read Bhagat's books and used to think love is bullshit but now i have grown i admire him more now, for his youtube videos

I'm fortunate to share the congruence thought on with you !! .......nd I'll surely follow the same at a certain age of my life ....your videos really help to connect and learn from your experiences ......loads of lovee ! ❤️

Your videos shows us a different version of yourself..Thank you sir for the motivation..i am getting over my breakup..your videos are helping me get over my breakup

You r my inspiration sir.. You tube pe bohot motivational video dekha but sir u are genuinely relatable...thats way u r GOAT sir.. ❤️

Wao, ye completely balanced and extraordinary video on relationship ❤️❤️ thanku sir

Thanks sir ... i ll share with all my friends

Absolutely amazing 🤩

i found this channel 3-4 months ago , now i glad to say one of my mentor is chetan bhagat 😎😎

Be the best version ...just listen the things around you but do what you felt like the u way want ..

Bahot acche sir ji!

Aap ki baatein harwaqt dil ko chhu jati hain❤️❤️❤️❤️...thanks sir🙏🙏🙏🙏

My studies got affected in college due to relationship since college ended I am preparing for CAT hope I will succeed and bounce back.

Sir, this is a wonderful video. Very unique ideas. And I fully agree on all the three parameters you need to be successful. Very true indeed!

So true ! So practical !! If all of us take this simple advice, many of our problems will be solved automatically. Thank you Chetan sir💖

Much needed🙏♥️

Thank you so much!

Thanku so much sir...your advice helped me ..i really needed that .... So the conclusion is "Too much is bad of anything & try to balance everything"

Yes it took a lot of time and energy but also taught me very important life lessons that i will cherish.

Yes! Put yourself first and the rest will follow 🧚‍♀️

Your thoughts are great.. it's very vital for your people 👍👍🙏🙏

True sir...Thank you so much 🙏

Sir - you are absolutely nailed crux. I am digital head based in Canada 🇨🇦 aged 42+ years, but able to correlate each & every advice with personally history...

That right it destroy you completely , Now I became better person . The bottom line is you can't make everyone happy you try to but in reality it's different.

Bitter truth but worth changing one's life ❤️ thanks sir 🙂

Sir just two day ago I complete your book "THE GIRL IN ROOM 105" my first book of yours. yes sir Keshav shows how move on is Nesseceary. Best part is message " curious and open minded wthout any prejudice and never give up "

Sir you said very well , i think these things are correlatble in each and every Life ❣️❣️

Great explanation👌

wasted 3 yrs in relationship..left because of cast and jobless(given 20 mains and 4 po interviews but failed).....but survived and focussing on my self....you said that only our parents love unconditinally..that is really really true...otherwise the person out of family always find a reason to love or to be in relationship.

Amazing talk

Love is unconditinal... Great sayings

Sir you are one of the best for me..for me you are the only one who always taught us the honest and genuine things about life..!! 💜💜

बहुत अच्छे से समझाया सर जी।।

Bilkul sàhi batein kahi h Sir apne Afsoloutely right 👍🙏

Awesome 👌message

Man these videos are really helping pleade keep posting these types of videos even after the lockdown and corona thing is over