My Partner Deliberately Infected Me With HIV(Part 1) | Unpacked with Relebogile Episode 47 |Season 3

  Рет қаралды 462,314

Relebogile Mabotja

Relebogile Mabotja

2 жыл бұрын

2 Guests share their stories on how their lovers intentionally infected them with HIV.
Studio Guest: Zandile Simelane & Matthew Bongani Lani
#UnpackedWithRelebogile
Connect with us on:
Facebook: / ​
Instagram: / unpackedshow​
Twitter: / unpackedshow​
TikTok: / unpackedshow​
Feel free to suggest the topics that you'd like for us to unpack using our community server in discord: / discord
linktr.ee/Unpackedshow​

Пікірлер: 866
@kgomotsomoruakgomo1059
@kgomotsomoruakgomo1059 8 ай бұрын
Who else came back here after the bogus Dr story...I'm starting to wonder if anything he told us here is true or it was for clout....to think I fell for his story
@mohopaminah7402
@mohopaminah7402 8 ай бұрын
Lol I’m here with you😂😂to even think that I cried a lot that day feeling sorry for him Mxm
@Jane.Sibo1
@Jane.Sibo1 8 ай бұрын
Also here with you 😭😭😭😭
@thatolesolopo
@thatolesolopo 8 ай бұрын
There were also red flags here guys 😖 ,we never paid attention 😢
@retshidisitsweratlalane8755
@retshidisitsweratlalane8755 8 ай бұрын
Me🤣🤣🤣🤣
@DK1MM
@DK1MM 8 ай бұрын
​@@thatolesolopo even on TikTok babe,we just ignored the red flags 😅
@ZuluGirlInNewYork
@ZuluGirlInNewYork 8 ай бұрын
Who’s here after Matthew was exposed for being a bogus doctor 😂😂😂
@langelihlenyuswa5920
@langelihlenyuswa5920 8 ай бұрын
literally analysing the video attempting to find the gaps we missed 🤣
@maekajacob630
@maekajacob630 8 ай бұрын
Lalela ngila👋😅😅
@malikkulatimfama4565
@malikkulatimfama4565 7 ай бұрын
How does he know campus life this one if he was never enrolled with wits 🙄this guy has a degree in audacity 😂 probably had friends in wits, wow look how he narrate this story as if it's true.
@thinamakovere9007
@thinamakovere9007 7 ай бұрын
😂😂,,😂😂😂
@nqobiledladla1691
@nqobiledladla1691 7 ай бұрын
Ngilapha😂😂😂
@Nthabi_m
@Nthabi_m 8 ай бұрын
His sitting there waiting for his turn to lie to to us 🥺😂
@marciagabela1482
@marciagabela1482 8 ай бұрын
Yazi😂 yoooo Mara
@thatomhlanga2553
@thatomhlanga2553 8 ай бұрын
Wena 😂😂😂😂
@happinessdons1378
@happinessdons1378 8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@malikkulatimfama4565
@malikkulatimfama4565 7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂jonga!
@mbalienhlendlovu6486
@mbalienhlendlovu6486 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@juanitamazuba646
@juanitamazuba646 8 ай бұрын
POV you came here after the drama in twitter and tik tok.
@retshidisitsweratlalane8755
@retshidisitsweratlalane8755 8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@musamaluleke6705
@musamaluleke6705 8 ай бұрын
The internet doesnt forget. 🤣
@ziphozikhali3977
@ziphozikhali3977 8 ай бұрын
🤭🤭🤭
@malikkulatimfama4565
@malikkulatimfama4565 7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Mbembetwins
@Mbembetwins 2 жыл бұрын
As a 17 year old watching this show i have learned a lot ❤️❤️😭
@erenceletsufi1172
@erenceletsufi1172 2 жыл бұрын
Watch this more you wil gain lots of wisdom and you be wise and matured
@sherrysimpson9536
@sherrysimpson9536 2 жыл бұрын
@@erenceletsufi1172 All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola
@phetolomokoditoa2332
@phetolomokoditoa2332 2 жыл бұрын
Same. I am 18
@rose_wolf2324
@rose_wolf2324 2 жыл бұрын
Sherry Simpson I'm happy for you I'm still waiting for one who can say they gonna help me I'm two years knowing that I'm positive since that i hate man I don't know what to do with this
@qatatvip5451
@qatatvip5451 2 жыл бұрын
@@kizalin is there anything to laugh🤔😥
@mphomokwena6521
@mphomokwena6521 8 ай бұрын
Am here for Dr Mathew the scammer😂
@ms_zt1st
@ms_zt1st 8 ай бұрын
Like I'm so confused shem. Psychology. Medicine... it's a lot.
@londi88
@londi88 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@lebogangratale5731
@lebogangratale5731 2 жыл бұрын
Lord !! 💔. I was just talking to my boyfriend, about how careless we are as human beings in that we are so trusting of people who we don’t even know, engaging in sex with someone just based off of love. Can have such dire effects and/or consequences! I think we should start normalizing having HIV tests as being part of our first dates these days.
@keishawilliams6415
@keishawilliams6415 2 жыл бұрын
You literally took ever word out of my mouth. And I learned so much in my past, and I'm 2yrs now single and healing myself.
@BerryKind
@BerryKind 2 жыл бұрын
Yes ma'am!!!! It should be a must before having sexual relations! 😔
@MsMufet03
@MsMufet03 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think people are as concerned about HIV/AIDS as they were 20-30 years ago. That could be because we’re so far removed from when it was considered a serious threat and getting infected was seen as a death sentence. Today treatments are simplified and there are drugs like PrEP to prevent infection in the first place. I remember a time when it was common for people newly dating or in new relationships to get tested together before they had sex. That being said even when it was a public health crisis people still had unprotected sex with multiple partners. That has always happened and will continue to happen.
@jorawtalent437
@jorawtalent437 2 жыл бұрын
@@MsMufet03 people definitely worried about it.. they just stupid!
@Mrscarricom
@Mrscarricom 2 жыл бұрын
They worry about it, but after they've had sex or hearing rumors of the person they slept with having it, both are too late for something so important.
@kgomotsomoruakgomo1059
@kgomotsomoruakgomo1059 2 жыл бұрын
If I could advise my younger self or Young people ... I'd tell them to delay dating....when you date without financial and mental capacity, the other partber will use you and leave you worse off. Just focus on your studies
@loccmom4214
@loccmom4214 2 жыл бұрын
Can’t stress this enough!!
@zandilisana6885
@zandilisana6885 2 жыл бұрын
Well said💙
@emeldasenoamadi3969
@emeldasenoamadi3969 2 жыл бұрын
True very true
@bridgetdimphoselaelo6147
@bridgetdimphoselaelo6147 2 жыл бұрын
💞
@Yassmiinn.
@Yassmiinn. 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@mownas_lifestory30
@mownas_lifestory30 7 ай бұрын
“I was 20 and I was doing my 5th year of university” haibo Dr Matthew👀👀
@kutloanomotaung4543
@kutloanomotaung4543 4 ай бұрын
😂😂
@Med-withKarabomasithela
@Med-withKarabomasithela Ай бұрын
😂😂
@hlehlemamba5571
@hlehlemamba5571 2 жыл бұрын
Poverty is the root of all evil. Both these people took advantage of their financial vulnerability 😔
@Naughtorious
@Naughtorious 2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@antonygithu4992
@antonygithu4992 2 жыл бұрын
Well said💯
@sherrysimpson9536
@sherrysimpson9536 2 жыл бұрын
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola
@katleho_m7231
@katleho_m7231 2 жыл бұрын
Seriously 😭😭😭
@ELLIOT8209
@ELLIOT8209 2 жыл бұрын
What about poor women who refuse to date broke men? Are they also vulnerable?
@joanserumola6070
@joanserumola6070 8 ай бұрын
This guy has a serious lying problem.. it has reached a dangerous level…😢
@rhudzi86ramavhoya10
@rhudzi86ramavhoya10 8 ай бұрын
They say he was a psychology student, he knows how to play around with people’s minds 😂😂😂
@caribbeanhleli1985
@caribbeanhleli1985 8 ай бұрын
Haike ziyakhala mntase ziyakhala 🔥🔥🤣
@tongascopetongaisango8691
@tongascopetongaisango8691 8 ай бұрын
I blame us for growing dumb by the day, seating there stuffing ourselves with only the sensational online content, if it not a buzzword it doesn't exist. Now everyone knows what a narcisist is, had we read more books, carry more intellectually uplifting conversation ,I don't know ... wacth more documentaries we could have learned to spot a mithomaniac person let alone kleptomaniac, a bipolar ect... See it all comes back to us, we are loosing.
@kgomotsobetty2163
@kgomotsobetty2163 8 ай бұрын
True even here he's lying 🤥
@nonkosingcaba745
@nonkosingcaba745 8 ай бұрын
We came back here 😂😂😂
@boipelon1220
@boipelon1220 2 жыл бұрын
I AM ABOUT TO WATCH AND KE KWATILE BLIND BY JUST LOOKING AT THE CAPTION!!
@ThePrincess-vb8ql
@ThePrincess-vb8ql 2 жыл бұрын
The moment he said "i was so defeated my heart jus broke into pieces.Cant wait for part 2 .The lady is so real and honest , such a strong young woman.
@brendakhulilenyambo7401
@brendakhulilenyambo7401 2 жыл бұрын
Oh Zandi u reminded of your mum
@KhauheloPhatela-jn5ix
@KhauheloPhatela-jn5ix 8 ай бұрын
Dr Matthew Lani is sitting there in silence cooking up his lies ! Ke sure he was listening to the girls story to see how he is going to make his better
@pamela.mshengu
@pamela.mshengu 8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@prec.ralinala
@prec.ralinala 7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 no man
@like.lisa_
@like.lisa_ 5 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@vonashley
@vonashley 8 ай бұрын
Here for Dr Matthew
@missnobuhle_
@missnobuhle_ 2 жыл бұрын
The hurt in Zandile's voice. I'm sorry sisi
@charmainequma3555
@charmainequma3555 2 жыл бұрын
Ohw yes I can hear that too.
@zandilesimelane4898
@zandilesimelane4898 2 жыл бұрын
Healing is a process...I'm healing everyday..thank you for watching ❤
@thipimotsoare4228
@thipimotsoare4228 2 жыл бұрын
@@zandilesimelane4898 you are a beautiful soul and yes healing does take time and I am glad you are embarking on that journey..
@bridgetdimphoselaelo6147
@bridgetdimphoselaelo6147 2 жыл бұрын
eish😔
@elizabethletsoso2558
@elizabethletsoso2558 2 жыл бұрын
@@charmainequma3555 That's break's my heart 💔💔
@leungomadisakwane3469
@leungomadisakwane3469 2 жыл бұрын
Dealing with grief is something else. Her voice yoh
@sizakelediya4080
@sizakelediya4080 2 жыл бұрын
I grieved a loss my brother, I can't even imagine loosing your mother as the only child that's trauma 💔
@nomvulairene4177
@nomvulairene4177 2 жыл бұрын
Her voice 💔
@kwetsephetla3597
@kwetsephetla3597 2 жыл бұрын
I blame the family. You can’t disown a child, especially one who is an orphan 💔
@chikarayleigh4534
@chikarayleigh4534 Жыл бұрын
She caused it.
@KimMbingo
@KimMbingo 2 жыл бұрын
One thing about ZanD, HONESTY! I love and respect this girl so much man 🥺🤞🏿
@ThandazaMK
@ThandazaMK 8 ай бұрын
HERE FOR "DR LANI."
@joanserumola6070
@joanserumola6070 8 ай бұрын
DR Lies you mean..😩
@thetalkwithmthakazi2494
@thetalkwithmthakazi2494 2 жыл бұрын
Zandile don't ever feel you could have been more responsible in protecting your self coz you were a teenager and he was an adult so the power dynamics were never in your favour. I'm sorry you had to go through what you went through and no child deserve such betrayal from family. I just wish as black people we would understand grief and mental health better coz what you going through was a cry for help.
@sherrysimpson9536
@sherrysimpson9536 2 жыл бұрын
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola
@hadiyoletsitsi9608
@hadiyoletsitsi9608 2 жыл бұрын
@UCrT8oLdFkTq9NVv18d6xMFQ shut up you are annoying people
@shanicejones8332
@shanicejones8332 2 жыл бұрын
Stop the lies
@sherrysimpson9536
@sherrysimpson9536 2 жыл бұрын
@@shanicejones8332 this is my life story
@micheal2877
@micheal2877 10 ай бұрын
Amazingly Dr Abiola home KZfaq gave me herbal medication and now I am HIV negative #drabiolahome
@ZuluGirlInNewYork
@ZuluGirlInNewYork 8 ай бұрын
And Matthew had the audacity to say that they got the intro mixed up😂😂😂😂
@Pearly60
@Pearly60 8 ай бұрын
GIRL!!!!
@estherdladla3082
@estherdladla3082 8 ай бұрын
xhabanga 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@naledindlovu976
@naledindlovu976 8 ай бұрын
He puts so much effort in lying I wish he would redirect that energy into positivity...he can lie that boy
@amandamgobhoza2882
@amandamgobhoza2882 8 ай бұрын
Im here to check that mix up😂😂
@ZuluGirlInNewYork
@ZuluGirlInNewYork 8 ай бұрын
@@amandamgobhoza2882 can you believe the nerve!!!
@vuyiswamkhwanazi9503
@vuyiswamkhwanazi9503 2 жыл бұрын
It's frankly sickening how all of the adults failed her. She was just a child. She needed them to protect and care for her. They either abandoned her or took advantage of her.
@noxoloradebe7973
@noxoloradebe7973 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly! How do you just give up and abandon a child??? These people aren't family
@zinhleceenclairemhlanga4399
@zinhleceenclairemhlanga4399 2 жыл бұрын
Being a orphan really means you are independent hun !
@thoesibanda7769
@thoesibanda7769 2 жыл бұрын
@@zinhleceenclairemhlanga4399 life s hard
@GK222_
@GK222_ 2 жыл бұрын
Family will abandon you when you need them the most. Most people who live in the streets come from well off families
@Mzorroniza2
@Mzorroniza2 2 жыл бұрын
@@noxoloradebe7973 q
@sibongilemzamo2495
@sibongilemzamo2495 8 ай бұрын
Had to come back and watch because of what's threading on Tiktok and Twitter.
@nothandombhele1994
@nothandombhele1994 2 жыл бұрын
Every time I watched Unpacked I always thought "Zandie would be a great guest here"... Imagine my excitement when I saw this!!!! Proud of you Always cuz :)
@damariszuckschwert9489
@damariszuckschwert9489 2 жыл бұрын
Oh gosh..,this man just took advantage of this beautiful kid back then at 17yrs old.,he should be in jail.
@anathimakapela4227
@anathimakapela4227 8 ай бұрын
Here they say he is a psychology student 😢. Hayini
@Naughtorious
@Naughtorious 8 ай бұрын
Girl, haike “Dr Lani”🌚
@anathimakapela4227
@anathimakapela4227 8 ай бұрын
@@Naughtorious this is so weird... how does anyone go through all these lengths just to lie like this. Especially for the future of his pharmaceutical company
@retshidisitsweratlalane8755
@retshidisitsweratlalane8755 8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂is not make sure
@DiKajigi
@DiKajigi 2 жыл бұрын
It’s baffling and sad just what kind of darkness can inhabit the human soul. How do you intentionally infect someone you claim to love? How many people do such people go on to infect? I am broken for these two 💔
@dollyubisi4645
@dollyubisi4645 2 жыл бұрын
8
@raheemmcdonald9903
@raheemmcdonald9903 2 жыл бұрын
the
@494ava
@494ava 2 жыл бұрын
Heartbreaking for a so called human being to be so reckless and evil….. smh and sending prayers hugs and prayers for both of you and those others( I’m sure there are) that didn’t or haven’t come forward. ❤️🤗🙏🏽
@494ava
@494ava 2 жыл бұрын
I meant to add that there are many others….. God has you in his arms and his blood shall cover you all!! Amen hallelujah Blessing’s🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️
@historiqueafricaine1225
@historiqueafricaine1225 2 жыл бұрын
Devilish heart💔 the devil try to bring human down with him because he's condemn there's no redemption for him it's the same behaviour these people are showing they already have one feet in the grave and don't want to go alone
@mmeme5861
@mmeme5861 8 ай бұрын
I felt so sorry for this young man...I think Relo must do a research before she calls people on her show
@sunrise7640
@sunrise7640 2 жыл бұрын
I'm from Swaziland, Manzini and the lady really looks familiar. Strength and light to all the guests. I cannot even imagine how it's like to lose a mother at a young age.
@reanetsemonokoane7504
@reanetsemonokoane7504 2 жыл бұрын
Yet they claim to love you !? This is heartbreaking 💔
@khetimthembu8465
@khetimthembu8465 2 жыл бұрын
We really need help to deal with grieve as black people. My grandmother passed away 3 years ago, I'll never forget how my mom screamed till today when she laughs to hard it sounds like that day😭😢i pause to listen if she's really crying or laughing
@chaneygaweses6215
@chaneygaweses6215 2 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@thoesibanda7769
@thoesibanda7769 2 жыл бұрын
Sending you hugs ❤❤❤💖🤍
@Melony30
@Melony30 2 жыл бұрын
Omg😭😭 That's traumatizing. Sending hugs your way.i pray you heal from this
@sherrysimpson9536
@sherrysimpson9536 2 жыл бұрын
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola
@sherrysimpson9536
@sherrysimpson9536 2 жыл бұрын
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola
@naledindlovu976
@naledindlovu976 8 ай бұрын
Yazin this boy is not well...Dr Lani/Matthew 😢
@botsheloM
@botsheloM 8 ай бұрын
Me looking for the disclaimer Matthew spoke about: Athi you swapped their intro😭🤣🤣💔
@sita6328
@sita6328 2 жыл бұрын
The strength needed to give these stories... I applaud you guys
@rileylehlogonolobopape7330
@rileylehlogonolobopape7330 8 ай бұрын
I’m here again because of Dr Matthew 🤣🤣🤣
@caribbeanhleli1985
@caribbeanhleli1985 8 ай бұрын
Haike Sanna we are within 🤣🤣🤣🔥🙌🏽💔 yifilm ngoku
@DK1MM
@DK1MM 8 ай бұрын
I now don't believe anything the Fake Dr Matthew said in this interview 😢 also i think he needs serious professional help, something is just not right with him😢
@elsiebehavioristhagan2444
@elsiebehavioristhagan2444 2 жыл бұрын
This comes to the fact that as family or friends we need to be there for each other truly. We sure can do better. Thanks for sharing
@nomvulairene4177
@nomvulairene4177 2 жыл бұрын
So very true
@sherrysimpson9536
@sherrysimpson9536 2 жыл бұрын
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola❤️❣️
@refillmolefe1207
@refillmolefe1207 7 ай бұрын
Can we please get Matthew back please
@MabahlakoanaMoketo
@MabahlakoanaMoketo 8 ай бұрын
I had to come back to this episode just to make sense after allegations against Dr.Matt....vele is not make sure
@lebommojapelo9172
@lebommojapelo9172 2 жыл бұрын
The hurt in Zandi's voice💔💔😥thank u for sharing your story with us and may God continue giving you strength🙏
@letsget100kbeforeaugust5
@letsget100kbeforeaugust5 2 жыл бұрын
God hasn't done anything for her so far. I hope she finds strength in herself
@linammaanda7173
@linammaanda7173 8 ай бұрын
Now I don’t trust what the Dr is saying since he is apparently bogus. also he says the partner paid his tuition, clearly there wasn’t any since he is uneducated. I hope he deals with this better though and follow his dreams for medicine
@user-ob5mr1rv7h
@user-ob5mr1rv7h 8 ай бұрын
Matthew himself here he said he is studying psychology
@mahlohonololebuso741
@mahlohonololebuso741 8 ай бұрын
He forgot his own lies😂😂😂😂
@Fufuzwane
@Fufuzwane 2 жыл бұрын
Oh ZanD, your eloquence is so onpoint. We will forever respect and cherish the memories your mom gave us. Thank you for sharing her with us❤️❤️❤️❤️
@phetsileshabangu5782
@phetsileshabangu5782 2 жыл бұрын
Is this Zandi former Mjingo high headmistress child? She looks familiar 🤔
@futhidlamini9003
@futhidlamini9003 2 жыл бұрын
Maa'm Zaba's daughter OMG!!!
@sfisomkhwanazi8705
@sfisomkhwanazi8705 8 ай бұрын
Ey man!
@gcinilemabuza3693
@gcinilemabuza3693 2 жыл бұрын
💔💔this really broke my heart I remember her in High School…she was the life of the party,I remember the bunking etc etc and am so sorry you had to go through so much alone and we just all thought awuva….❤️❤️🇸🇿🇸🇿
@phaswamaloma
@phaswamaloma 8 ай бұрын
POV: Watching this after seeing Dr Matthew Lani trend😂
@andisiwesandla443
@andisiwesandla443 8 ай бұрын
Me too😂😂😂
@LethoHali
@LethoHali 2 жыл бұрын
“This is your punishment for leaving me”??????? 😳😳😳😳😳😳🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😭 people are sickos out here!!!
@nonzuzositeto3725
@nonzuzositeto3725 8 ай бұрын
Hayibo this guy was studying psychology 😢😢😮
@gagoangwemoroka7993
@gagoangwemoroka7993 8 ай бұрын
Allegedly 😅. Also, I've never seen a psychologist walking around in scrubs in real life nor on TV 😂... also...stethoscope ke seo ge 😂
@koketsosatekge
@koketsosatekge 8 ай бұрын
Here he says his mother lost her job. On Tik Tok he said she had to stay home because her son is now a doctor and can afford to take care of her 😂😂😂yah noh 🙌
@tshikaradikotla7850
@tshikaradikotla7850 2 жыл бұрын
This just got to show that there's nothing for nothing. If someone is is too good to be true they're probably are
@sizakelediya4080
@sizakelediya4080 2 жыл бұрын
Even if that the case it doesn't give anyone a right to be abusive and infect someone with HIV, these are kids who crazy men identify and use them so let be kind and compassionate. A 17 year old or even early 20s they still discovering their lives we should protect them than saying they deserve it. It wrong
@ELLIOT8209
@ELLIOT8209 2 жыл бұрын
@@sizakelediya4080 they refuse to date broke men.
@ThandoKING
@ThandoKING 2 жыл бұрын
@@ELLIOT8209 so true 😤💯
@florahangel1718
@florahangel1718 2 жыл бұрын
@@ELLIOT8209 and we will keep refusing dating broke men. You can still get HIV from dating broke men
@ELLIOT8209
@ELLIOT8209 2 жыл бұрын
@@florahangel1718 that much I already know. That's why I don't have sympathy when the rich ones have HIV and access to many of you. It's a rotation system. It's your personal choice after all. Enjoy
@sinovuyonontshiza4384
@sinovuyonontshiza4384 2 жыл бұрын
My heart broke when she said “i did not need to have an abortion anymore and luckily it meant that I was gonna use that money for school”. How sad maan 🥺🥺
@lady-jn3mf
@lady-jn3mf 2 жыл бұрын
Will there ever come a point in life where someone helps another person without looking for sexual favours? this is such a sad situation where a whole entire grown man (or should I say a predator) taking advantage of a young person just because they feel that their lives have come to an end and they choose to end others. It is sickening and disgusting.
@achatwithgoitse
@achatwithgoitse 2 жыл бұрын
It’s extremely sad. They do it all the time. And they’re in our families and our circles. No worries, karma taking care of all of it. Agh!
@lady-jn3mf
@lady-jn3mf Жыл бұрын
@Marry Fatima I don't have sti's mam Fatima
@thecajunphoenix
@thecajunphoenix 10 ай бұрын
@@achatwithgoitseSometimes karma needs a helping hammer, as in sledgehammer.
@fatoulowe1919
@fatoulowe1919 7 ай бұрын
​@@achatwithgoitse😅mmmkmmmkl m
@khetimthembu8465
@khetimthembu8465 2 жыл бұрын
Kelebogile is glowing 🔥😍. The guests are also clean. It's good to see young people being vocal about this
@sibonginkosinyathi7580
@sibonginkosinyathi7580 2 жыл бұрын
Some wounds never heal 💔some people are so broken 💔from inside in such way that breaking other's 💔makes them feel better and bigger
@sizakelediya4080
@sizakelediya4080 2 жыл бұрын
True but It's really a sickness, I someone has done me. Should I atleast be considerate to someone else and say I will not do what was done to me.
@thandiletonisi6065
@thandiletonisi6065 2 жыл бұрын
You can say that again and it’s very sad
@sherrysimpson9536
@sherrysimpson9536 2 жыл бұрын
@@thandiletonisi6065 All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola❤️❣️
@bahumisaungweme9595
@bahumisaungweme9595 2 жыл бұрын
Very true people have unresolved issues and instead of solving them they use other people to feel better by abusing them.
@cmthoughts4803
@cmthoughts4803 2 жыл бұрын
I'm grieving the loss of my Dad who passed away 2 months back, Feeling empty and alone is real.
@thepriestess5969
@thepriestess5969 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss, I so much relate to you I lost my Mom 4 months ago. It's not easy but we keep going and pushing every day. Stay strong, love & light 💐💖
@ahviwe
@ahviwe 2 жыл бұрын
Lost mine 4 months ago
@cmthoughts4803
@cmthoughts4803 2 жыл бұрын
@@thepriestess5969 thank you
@thepriestess5969
@thepriestess5969 2 жыл бұрын
We're not alone,
@florahangel1718
@florahangel1718 2 жыл бұрын
You are not alone. God is with you. Sending you warm hugs and kisses
@SAMusic936
@SAMusic936 7 ай бұрын
Relebogile can see through his lies🤣🤣🤣🤣 she’s just continuing with the interview because it has already started😭SAD times
@thembelihlethabethe8321
@thembelihlethabethe8321 7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@nobahlemjongozi1127
@nobahlemjongozi1127 6 ай бұрын
He was 20 years old doing 4th year in varsity 😭
@nthabisengsithole3309
@nthabisengsithole3309 5 ай бұрын
Uyambona nawe the way ambeke ngakhona😂😂
@MissPriscy777
@MissPriscy777 8 ай бұрын
Just watchiing this , I realise that someone's head was cooking up stories and emotions. 😥😥
@nonhlanhlaxaba6687
@nonhlanhlaxaba6687 8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@nobahlemjongozi1127
@nobahlemjongozi1127 6 ай бұрын
“On campus” 🙄 he’s a good lier 😫😂
@BongyGod
@BongyGod 8 ай бұрын
Dr Matthew starts at <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="952">15:52</a>
@vanessapatrick8644
@vanessapatrick8644 8 ай бұрын
😂🤣😭😂
@amarumascolo244
@amarumascolo244 8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@missjones9737
@missjones9737 8 ай бұрын
Ah you mean the lies start at 15:52!!
@mandisancube5265
@mandisancube5265 7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@thembelihlethabethe8321
@thembelihlethabethe8321 7 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 we never forget
@amogelangskosana2732
@amogelangskosana2732 2 жыл бұрын
Loved every minute, cannot wait for part two.
@jasmineharrington5133
@jasmineharrington5133 2 жыл бұрын
ZanD is sooo intelligent and I admire her courage to tell her story and keep it together at the same time
@magugayonela8978
@magugayonela8978 2 жыл бұрын
If you want to know the reality of the systems in this universe come to this show, you will learn the animosity and the be opened about societal issues. The Bible says be wise as serpents and be gentle as doves
@bryanoaitse1547
@bryanoaitse1547 2 жыл бұрын
Nnete fela
@nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369
@nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369 2 жыл бұрын
So Nela
@magugayonela8978
@magugayonela8978 2 жыл бұрын
@@nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369 what do you mean
@olerilemathanyela7791
@olerilemathanyela7791 2 жыл бұрын
This takes us back to the era where our mothers, aunts, and grandmothers stayed in abusive relationships because their partners were their providers hence giving them the liberty to abuse or treat them anyhow. these relationships got them killed, died of heart attacks, and infected with all STIs. I just hope my generation learns a lot from this session . #UnpackedWithRelebogile
@ntuthukombhamali7029
@ntuthukombhamali7029 8 ай бұрын
Apparently that guy has been lying of being a Dr there by tik-tok 😭😭😭
@tinaye8638
@tinaye8638 8 ай бұрын
Wena😭 this situation is dusting me yoh, I even followed him on tiktok. I'm shocked
@andisiwesandla443
@andisiwesandla443 8 ай бұрын
That story is what brought me here😂
@bonkekhuzwayo4679
@bonkekhuzwayo4679 8 ай бұрын
bro was doing his fifth year at the age of 20 💀
@thatolesolopo
@thatolesolopo 8 ай бұрын
Yet he began varsity ka 17. 😅
@Lifemotivationalquotes235
@Lifemotivationalquotes235 8 ай бұрын
He said fith😂😂😂
@kingSimba440
@kingSimba440 8 ай бұрын
The story is manufactured 😂😂😂😂
@phumuzilepatience649
@phumuzilepatience649 8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@morongoakarabolekgathe2387
@morongoakarabolekgathe2387 8 ай бұрын
Dr Matthew are you telling the truth about your status?
@natashaalcock4023
@natashaalcock4023 7 ай бұрын
Relebogile must interview him again man😂
@siyamthanda_nkibii
@siyamthanda_nkibii 7 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I agree
@95luyanda
@95luyanda 8 ай бұрын
Am here for the mixed up intro
@kopangletaoa7008
@kopangletaoa7008 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been waiting for this topic forever.Because I know people who are HIV positive but still hv unprotected sex with others.It’s both criminal n evil.
@sherrysimpson9536
@sherrysimpson9536 2 жыл бұрын
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola
@ELLIOT8209
@ELLIOT8209 2 жыл бұрын
Isn't it the responsibility of the other to insist on protection?
@kopangletaoa7008
@kopangletaoa7008 2 жыл бұрын
It is both yours.Infecting someone KNOWINGLY is a crime.And inhuman
@oaksofgreatness3611
@oaksofgreatness3611 2 жыл бұрын
@@sherrysimpson9536 tsek
@kinara5365
@kinara5365 2 жыл бұрын
@@kopangletaoa7008 protect YOURSELF. that's it.
@paulmosweu8442
@paulmosweu8442 2 жыл бұрын
An eye opening interview ❤️
@sibonginkosinyathi7580
@sibonginkosinyathi7580 2 жыл бұрын
Trust no one
@zaneletriumph8228
@zaneletriumph8228 2 жыл бұрын
I relate so much to this lady.. I was told we need to stop using condom. I was 20 and a virgin and he was 35. I knew nothing about sex and relationships. I was very naive at the time. Then I felt pregnant and he left to his wife which I didn't know existed. I still hate him to this day 😭
@sherrysimpson9536
@sherrysimpson9536 2 жыл бұрын
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola
@khumbuzileshabangu3500
@khumbuzileshabangu3500 2 жыл бұрын
Please do forgive him and pray God heals your broken heart.
@ahviwe
@ahviwe 2 жыл бұрын
I hate him too!!!!! I don’t even know him
@phumelelekunju5563
@phumelelekunju5563 2 жыл бұрын
Nxese cc❤️ is he maintaining his child ?
@zaneletriumph8228
@zaneletriumph8228 2 жыл бұрын
@@phumelelekunju5563 No he doesn't.. And worse the child always asks about him 😭
@malebo
@malebo 2 жыл бұрын
Yooohhhhh!! I can't wait for part 2.... Oh these guests just know how to articulate themselves shem..they made the job easier for Relebogile
@malebomokgethi3233
@malebomokgethi3233 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Bitso❤️
@thulani13
@thulani13 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Zand... We need people like you in this world.
@sherrysimpson9536
@sherrysimpson9536 2 жыл бұрын
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola❤️❣️
@mmalekgoa1989
@mmalekgoa1989 Жыл бұрын
Its always so scary when i think about my past.. Its all Luck that im hov negative. Was honestly reckless
@paulelago9453
@paulelago9453 2 жыл бұрын
The unfortunate thing is that this is still happening today.
@debramills740
@debramills740 2 жыл бұрын
🤮
@rickiericktv3320
@rickiericktv3320 2 жыл бұрын
😩😩😩 poor girl. He took advantage of her because she was young & needed help.
@emmahobiero4724
@emmahobiero4724 2 жыл бұрын
This is a crime that should be punishable 😪
@relebogilemabotja215
@relebogilemabotja215 2 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@thuliendlovu719
@thuliendlovu719 2 жыл бұрын
It actually is. Deliberate transmission of HIV is punishable under criminal law. If I am correct, it is sentenced like the crime of rape.
@ELLIOT8209
@ELLIOT8209 2 жыл бұрын
Stealthing, yes. Being mutually reckless can't be a crime. It is incumbent on each to protect themselves
@BlueButterfly83
@BlueButterfly83 2 жыл бұрын
@@ELLIOT8209 maybe the HIV negative one is reckless whilst the one who knows they are HIV positive but insists on Sex without protection is malicious and dangerous!!!
@ELLIOT8209
@ELLIOT8209 2 жыл бұрын
@@BlueButterfly83 can the same thing be said about women who trap men with babies? The men are reckless but the other party is malicious and dangerous, right? Forcing someone to be a father
@melodysoundz9885
@melodysoundz9885 2 жыл бұрын
Zandi is so beautiful and strong. Thank you both for sharing ❤️
@spokazitshungu9093
@spokazitshungu9093 8 ай бұрын
Sana I had to come back and watch lo mfana qha!
@pontshomatlala4670
@pontshomatlala4670 2 жыл бұрын
Matthew articulated himself beautifully ❤
@khanyisiledube7163
@khanyisiledube7163 2 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@rickiericktv3320
@rickiericktv3320 2 жыл бұрын
Both of them
@sfisomkhwanazi8705
@sfisomkhwanazi8705 8 ай бұрын
Kanti yisgebengu! 😂
@asiveangel4940
@asiveangel4940 8 ай бұрын
@@sfisomkhwanazi8705tshini😭😭😭
@ZuluGirlInNewYork
@ZuluGirlInNewYork 8 ай бұрын
@@sfisomkhwanazi8705🤣🤣🤣🤣yazini 😂😂😂
@loidejonas
@loidejonas 2 жыл бұрын
Can we please get Nozibele Qamngana on the show bc of her story
@nurathmbelwa6597
@nurathmbelwa6597 2 жыл бұрын
Yess, i love that lady
@motshidisimadito9077
@motshidisimadito9077 2 жыл бұрын
I watch this show everyday, and today I was blessed with a story from someone from my home town-Christiana 🙌😊 So proud of you Lani for sharing you story🌻It is really eye opening and beneficial to a lot out there.
@sherrysimpson9536
@sherrysimpson9536 2 жыл бұрын
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola
@kgomorachoene4132
@kgomorachoene4132 2 жыл бұрын
We are within this show is an eye opener
@TheSouthAfricanPost
@TheSouthAfricanPost 8 ай бұрын
This Lani whole story of going to shop and meeting a guy on the queen and dating is a lie as well.😅😅 None of it happened, at least now in hindsight, we can see hell nooo
@sfisomkhwanazi8705
@sfisomkhwanazi8705 8 ай бұрын
Ai, you can hear Dr Lani's story is manufactured!
@Catch_UpChannel
@Catch_UpChannel 2 жыл бұрын
Watching this is soo heartbreaking 💔💔. Let's ALL teach our kids, even neighbors' kids Financial independence. Let dating either financially benefiting or not be the last thing on our kids' minds.
@sunnyntsanwisi6513
@sunnyntsanwisi6513 7 ай бұрын
I'm here for Dr Matthew's story
@estherdladla3082
@estherdladla3082 8 ай бұрын
wait did you say Kimberly born and psychology student ? this guy mara yesterday he was saying that the lady she was interviewed with is a psychology student they actually mixed the intro's and i thought he is from mafikeng yooooh hai at this point ke sharp ka mateu 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@gagoangwemoroka7993
@gagoangwemoroka7993 8 ай бұрын
Pathological liar: the compulsive urge to lie about matters big and small. A pathological liar is unable to control their lying due to the underlying mental health issues. Ha se nna, ke Google but he fits the discription. This guy, however, has mentioned that he had suffered some mental health issues in an interview I saw on IG. I shan't say anymore
@estherdladla3082
@estherdladla3082 8 ай бұрын
@@gagoangwemoroka7993 oh yes you are right this guy has mental issues
@sizakelediya4080
@sizakelediya4080 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you both of you to be so brave to share your story. There something called Karma, what you project to someone else it's comes back to multiple so definitely they will get what is suitable for them. They were suppose to protect but they just nasty human beings. I'm so sorry for the loss of your mom I can't imagine how you would have felt. I always think South African we so good on attending funeral but after the funeral every is gone you just left with the deep pain that you have to deal grieve, no one bother to even ask how are you feel instead we have so much expectations that you should bounce and be yourself again. We really need to look into this, I rather have a family in the funeral and have check ups more often for a family serious. We as human we lack to support a person after losses including myself but I pray to do more when I see the need.
@mello4392
@mello4392 2 жыл бұрын
Cant wait for part 2
@evolveustherapy1748
@evolveustherapy1748 2 жыл бұрын
Beautifully open and honest reflection . So relatable for many vulnerable young people .
@mercedesmalele2576
@mercedesmalele2576 2 жыл бұрын
This happened to a close friend of mine last month October 2021, she is only 23 and found out that her bf infected her with hiv and she is also pregnant. I find it disgusting
@kwetsephetla3597
@kwetsephetla3597 2 жыл бұрын
💔💔🥺
@memorynelson7441
@memorynelson7441 2 жыл бұрын
Has she reported him
@roseperez4450
@roseperez4450 2 жыл бұрын
That is attempt murder knowingly doing this… I would definitely report him…
@PHlophe
@PHlophe 2 жыл бұрын
i'd actually TAKE HIM OUT
@michellejackson1096
@michellejackson1096 Жыл бұрын
😭😭😭 How is your friend doing ?
@nokonwabamadyongolo5907
@nokonwabamadyongolo5907 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Sis for your eye opening and educational stories.
@hlehlemamba5571
@hlehlemamba5571 2 жыл бұрын
So proud of you Zandy for sharing your story ❤️
@ferozapage7937
@ferozapage7937 2 жыл бұрын
Respect to the youngsters..until it's on yr doorstep u cannot comprehend..as for caregiver ..witnessing the deterioration...a journey I'll never forget...never...I live with WHAT IF😭😭
@thandiwenkhosingiphiledlam5368
@thandiwenkhosingiphiledlam5368 2 жыл бұрын
Iam an orphan....i have mixed feelings bwt this...i lost parents when 2...learn to to cook at 5...Been responsible for my life ever since...i was told that orphan i can not cause problems . You cant be a nuisance to yo helper..so i was neva a problem child to my relatives yet i got kicked out because " i was eating too much" kan i dont buy the food...im currently in college, i dont have a home, when semester break i stay in my 1 room house, Christmas and new year im always here...i starve sometimes, i take allergex in order to fall asleep...sugar daddies popping everywhere but im not falling for the trap...ppl take responsibility for yo life...some of us have no to blame...no 1 is responsible for me but myself.
@kenyakalex
@kenyakalex 2 жыл бұрын
So proud of you Thandi
@longlivegotticurtis4983
@longlivegotticurtis4983 2 жыл бұрын
Just broke my heart 😔💔
@gu2755
@gu2755 2 жыл бұрын
Yho 🙏🏾 may God continue to bless you. Hold on and keep pushing 💕
@sherrysimpson9536
@sherrysimpson9536 Жыл бұрын
All thanks to Dr Abiola for curing me permanently from HIV #drabiola
@senzenishinda7554
@senzenishinda7554 2 жыл бұрын
I feel she wascso lucky to find an auntie that took her to a boarding school it's unfortunately she was still grieving. I lost my mum at 7 did not get all this privilege she got but it made me to be a strong woman. 💪 I think she fell in the hands of naughty children and got under peer pressure. I don't think people should blame those who tried to help her.
@aginghappilywithhilda6625
@aginghappilywithhilda6625 2 жыл бұрын
OMG sound scary. You really brave. I appreciate you sharing your story. Quite inspiring. Here to supporting dear 100%. Keep more coming
@Lifemotivationalquotes235
@Lifemotivationalquotes235 8 ай бұрын
He should have studied journalism and work for daily sun coz wow😂😂
@benoit.b9337
@benoit.b9337 7 ай бұрын
Underrated comment.
@shirleymadzivhandila5337
@shirleymadzivhandila5337 2 жыл бұрын
This is heart breaking
Sigma Girl Past #funny #sigma #viral
00:20
CRAZY GREAPA
Рет қаралды 21 МЛН
Just try to use a cool gadget 😍
00:33
123 GO! SHORTS
Рет қаралды 85 МЛН
1❤️#thankyou #shorts
00:21
あみか部
Рет қаралды 88 МЛН
Raped by my Father | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 26 | Season 2
36:30
Lira on Upside of Failure with Relebogile Mabotja
40:41
Radio 702
Рет қаралды 353 М.
Transracial Identity  | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 1 | Season 1
1:08:02
Mysterious Deaths | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 29 | Season 2
39:50