I will not hold any knife at its sharpness.. I'm not a rock. I'm a woman but my strongness is not determined by my ability to endure abuse.
@NthabisengLetsatsi3 жыл бұрын
Thank you maam!
@rositaedwards90903 жыл бұрын
J Bio
@Nicole-og6df3 жыл бұрын
Very valid point🙌
@rositaedwards90903 жыл бұрын
[Uuuuuuuuyyyuyooooooo
@thulindhlovu46723 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you. Soze!!!
@katlegomhlauli84233 жыл бұрын
She’s so right about marrying the breadwinner the whole family turns against you
@zinhleceenclairemhlanga43992 жыл бұрын
Her episode of title should have been marrying a breadwinner…
@obonetsemogwe78312 жыл бұрын
Marrying a bread winner make his family hate you. I know & i experienced it as well. You are blamed for everything.
@pendoonyango66762 жыл бұрын
My case right now
@anastasimankesemokgobu17243 жыл бұрын
Let's just pause for a moment to appreciate Relebogile's glow
@toxicteezy83103 жыл бұрын
I did❤️
@eunicenjeru2153 жыл бұрын
Yes🙋♀️
@sorayanasser5583 жыл бұрын
She has such beautiful features and skin.
@makisingo80092 жыл бұрын
She's beautiful..I love how she talks..her patience..a good interviewer of note
@fortuneseema28932 жыл бұрын
Ke make-up wena ao
@annamolibeli81973 жыл бұрын
People should stop staying in abusive relationships/marriages with the hope that their experience will help someone out there!
@lungybhengu18053 жыл бұрын
People should stay in whatever suits them. We are allowed to tolerate what ever we want, let people decide in their lives.
@annamolibeli81973 жыл бұрын
@@lungybhengu1805 Okay, good luck with that 😊
@Singita.S3 жыл бұрын
It makes no sense honesty
@nomsantsoane39843 жыл бұрын
@@lungybhengu1805 are you in an abusive relationship?
@lungybhengu18053 жыл бұрын
@@nomsantsoane3984 No definitely not but I advocate for letting people live their lives on their own terms. We don't owe each explanations for our choices that is my only point
@bongiwesithole21453 жыл бұрын
As uncomfortable as I am with her views, I accept that this is her story, her perspective, her truth.
@hassanatubah35953 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@noncedohope51112 жыл бұрын
Me too especially with some of her reasons of staying. But I had to swallow my opinion and listen to her Journey.
@victorioussisters33073 жыл бұрын
Let’s normalize leaving abusive relationships and toxic relationships. Let’s normalize calling a spade a spade!
@hassanatubah35953 жыл бұрын
I completely agree 👍
@kudzanaishambare93792 жыл бұрын
her children are traumitized as to why she didnt leave the marriage. She calls it bravery and a purpose but her children suffered more bcz o her staying.
@neosjournal_2 жыл бұрын
People need to understand that “ups and downs” in a relationship doesn’t mean what the other person does to you, how they cheat on you and abuse you... It refers to things that the couple have to tackle together e.g financial problems, sickness etc.
@nomuzinhlapo67592 жыл бұрын
Death of parents, kids, car accidents! You know, people are too weak to leave, make excuses and coat them as being "imbokodo" . fuck that!
@pilgrimmaphaha17202 жыл бұрын
I ALWAYS SAY THIS!!!!! GOSH
@KK-pi3ui Жыл бұрын
Exactly. How is abuse and infidelity just "ups and downs" of a relationship, like it's supposed to be normal
@zeemaj68533 жыл бұрын
Thank you ladies for sharing this story. To the wise remember this: 1. This is her story, her life and her choices which she has graciously shared with us. She has made HER choices and is living with their consequences. 2. Hindsight is always 20/20 Relebogile great content! Don’t stop.
@mahlatsemasha23083 жыл бұрын
Love how she is oozing optimism. She has such a positive energy. She definitely came out stronger from everything she went through. Love that for her❤️
@koketsomampe89303 жыл бұрын
She is justifying staying in an abusive relationship. It's really sad .I hope she heals and women understand that leaving also requires strength ,its not a sign of weakness.
@dineomakgahlela69972 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sayi g this because God's plan cant be for us to suffer in marriage. Lets read the whole scripture and not a single verse.
@olebogeng75583 жыл бұрын
I disagree with a lot of her sentiments... no one is destined to contract a life threatening illness... her philosophy seems to be a coping mechanism to help her make peace with the position that her decision to stay has put her in.
@dineohlakole50763 жыл бұрын
That is true
@annamolibeli81973 жыл бұрын
I know right 😤 and she took the scripture out of context saying even if she left the man, she was still gonna get infected anyway. Totally Untrue.
@nonkosi80213 жыл бұрын
The Lord gives us the liberty to make choices, but its us who carry the success and the burden of our choices. Noways God doesnt allow adultery then the STI/STD becomes an innocents destiny. The church cant force you not to leave your marriage. You give too much to individuals. As a christain she needs to be liberated. She needs to understand how much God loves her. God hate divorce not the divorcees. Its what divorce hurt and destroy families not the God's law.
@uladlamini49693 жыл бұрын
True, it is not God but how as Africans we are socialized. Socialization and culture are not static they evolve. In this day and age we teach our children to be assertive and call out any abuse.
@ncisept59003 жыл бұрын
True.
@nthomengmajara85753 жыл бұрын
I don't agree with most of her sentiments but I respect that this is her story and she has every right to tell it her way. She is stronger than I am willing to be.
@kaysocikwa23233 жыл бұрын
Being in an abusive relationship is never in Gods plan! Please please I have to disagree. Leave ASAP !!! People are dying out there. People stay in abusive relationships because of codependency not to teach other women at the expense of their bodies. This excuse needs to stop.
@dineohlakole50763 жыл бұрын
That is so true, it's really sad to hear how people interpret somethings, "it was planned, somehow I was going to get infected" Yhoo as that mosadi othswara thipa kabo gale🙌🙌, this needs to stop, hence that is why so many women are being killed and dying because of staying were u can gore its not working, and I think it all that abuse damages the human somewhere, where she will never be the same again
@Amahle3613 жыл бұрын
My challenge with what she said is that, there is a possibility that she is telling women who ask help from her to do the same thing. This is very dangerous. Those women will stay hoping things will be better and they die while hoping. There are things we should not share with the world but keep them in us and know that it worked personally but doesn't mean it's a standard.
@beaularmurwira87953 жыл бұрын
My pple are destroyed because of lack of God's knowledge...says the WORD
@nompumelelomapeyi82023 жыл бұрын
So true , as much as I am Christian too we jst need to pray more for wisdom and not normalize abuse.That was her choice but she must not advise ppl based on the choice she made.I also feel like she went and took over the show.I am a bit upset bcz my cousin lost her life bcz of an abusive cheating man of God, and I won't carry on and say God knew how her life was gna end I feel like had she used Wisdom and left the turn out would hv been different.
@NthabisengLetsatsi3 жыл бұрын
That was disturbing for me too. Very wrong
@nomsantsoane39843 жыл бұрын
From her story i learned. Leave early . Every abusive situation. First attempt leave. Because unfortunately trauma builds up
@nenesibanda41712 жыл бұрын
I love how this lady expresses herself and her voice sounds so beautiful. She's utterly brave.
@refiloenene90233 жыл бұрын
Your channel is my new addiction
@nomvulairene41773 жыл бұрын
Same here ausi nene 🤣😍😍
@pontsomudau4143 жыл бұрын
Same here hey🤣😅😅🤗
@LethoHali3 жыл бұрын
Same 🙋🏽♀️
@Mbalings3 жыл бұрын
I’m binging right now
@katlegomhlauli84233 жыл бұрын
It breaks my heart that a woman’s strength is measured by how much abuse she can take.. ah nna am ok am weak I will not be a rock bathong
@ezerbia3 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@beatinmotion3 жыл бұрын
Lenna I agree with you Katlego. Yoh ai!
@nkule24933 жыл бұрын
Le nna sesi!
@cantab_cam59953 жыл бұрын
Being someone wife is everything, we shouldn’t teach young girls this !
@zohbuthelezi26893 жыл бұрын
I'm with u on that one
@nonoechibs27753 жыл бұрын
So much relating to this picking up a lot , as a widow who just lost a husband, being called all names , culture being crude,going thru emotional, physical, psychological, financial pain .God help me not to dwell on the past and focus on my child n future. Achieving my goals
@relebogilemabotja2153 жыл бұрын
Sending love and strength 🙏🏾❤️❤️
@jaystan2333 жыл бұрын
So sorry my sista💔 eish I'm even scared to get married
@zinhleceenclairemhlanga43992 жыл бұрын
Amen sis ❤️🙏
@keitumetsemphulo82733 жыл бұрын
As I listen to this, I Am thankful for the man my inlaws raised, I will forever be thankful to my mom in law. Thank you for the love❤️
@moe_ramz3 жыл бұрын
In all honesty this episode is upsetting. Perpetuating abuse of women argh 😣
@nabuchebimukhwana93782 жыл бұрын
Depends with how you c it.
@vanessahaileka99083 жыл бұрын
But the knife will cut your fingers off? You will not be able to hold anything else...🤔
@nhlanhlamgobhozi10723 жыл бұрын
Kudos to that 9 year old boy for standing up and looking out for his mother, what a wonderful child! May he be blessed and grow up to be a upstanding man.
@madeperfect87723 жыл бұрын
He is such a blessing
@nthomengmajara85753 жыл бұрын
He shouldn't have to do that though. It's sad that he experienced that as a child.
@siraakasimsbradakhi38032 жыл бұрын
She's blessed indeed. Imagine been sat by your own kid. Big up to the young man. May God raise him for thee better
@molatelochokoe18672 жыл бұрын
I have to disagree with her when she say, “ without a woman there’s no kitchen “ . I was raised by a single dad who cooked dinner for us every single night. Packed our school lunches and did our laundry. To this day, when I go visit home, the day I arrive, he prepares a meal. When I leave home to come back to my place, he packs food for me. That time I’m 28. Also she’s saying there is no order in a home that does not have a woman. My home was in order when I was growing up. He took us to church, helped us with homework and took care of us, nursed us when we got sick, all this without a woman in the house. There is a lot of single dads out there trying their level best to raise their own kids by themselves instead of putting the responsibility on other people simply because they are men. Haibo
@lunganikhubone25952 жыл бұрын
She mentioned she hate Culture but still think Tradition.
@nabuchebimukhwana93782 жыл бұрын
I think you got the kitchen thing wrong. It's not the structure and the cooking... It's the homemaker. No father can replace a mother.
@molatelochokoe18672 жыл бұрын
@@nabuchebimukhwana9378 she did say a man can’t take care of kids like a woman would and I completely disagree with that
@saneledube18792 жыл бұрын
@@molatelochokoe1867 you were lucky to fall under the 30% of responsible men.
@yoGirlTshiTshi2 жыл бұрын
Big ups to the 5% 🤷🏾♀️
@mhlox6543 жыл бұрын
I completely hear what she’s saying, she’s in her journey and she wouldn’t be sitting in the unpack chair if she ran away🙌🏻Whew this is powerful
@thandekasibisi43662 жыл бұрын
I agree
@tererayimapfumo13562 жыл бұрын
What this lady said about culture is so true, culture favours man a lot and suppress woman
@zandilevinjwa36593 жыл бұрын
Relebogile is gorgeous, just thought I should say it.
@wanguikamau54282 жыл бұрын
Life is a threat in itself, this lady has seen it all and can still stand up and give her story, quite encouraging
@KayNaude3 жыл бұрын
Why is this lady not on TV doing this show? This has so much substance
@landiwekhanyile3 жыл бұрын
She is on Sabc3 weekdays . I think at 17:00 or 17:30
@Ms.Gideon3 жыл бұрын
She is a very strong woman. And I respect her choices. She is using her experiences to empower other widows and widowers. Such a powerhouse
@nabuchebimukhwana93782 жыл бұрын
In agreement.
@nomsantsoane39843 жыл бұрын
As a Christian women my advice to other women is that . The moment you find out your husband is cheating or boyfriend what not. Please leave asap. Bcos in my understanding God is showing you that for a reason . If you don't leave , spiritual warfare will become intense. HIV etc
@samkelongidi-dube95492 жыл бұрын
Wow am speechless cc bcos what u are saying is RARELY spoken n found in churches rather when u go to dem with such news dey rather MANIPULATE u using da word of God and make u to find ways of 'living happily' in da midst of dis toxic relationship. I always say as women we need to learn to CHOOSE ourselves bcos we are on our own honestly. When he cheats he gets praises and when you do the same you will receive insult from the same society that praised him When you go to church all the scriptures will be used against you instead of dealing with him and his UNBIBLICAL behavior as a husband So you can tell that we don't have anyone but us as women. If we don't choose ourselves nobody will. This thing has caused many to think men are better than us as women where else in him we are EQUALLY IMPORTANT including our peace and happiness
@nomsantsoane39842 жыл бұрын
@@samkelongidi-dube9549 I believe God show us things for a reason. It is the same if he is abusive to you. My advice is leave asap, imagine you persevere and you die there and the moment you reach heaven, God tell you that he gave you multiple chances to choose life. Even the Bible says choose life and life in abundance. Nna I don't believe I came here to suffer, not even for another human being.
@sublime10612 жыл бұрын
She is a daughter of grace, you see, the kind that forgives 70 ×7. It is not easy for everyone to accept her kind of lesson. Only those that are of grace can accept her choice and usually they will follow the Lord - die for others. They are selfless to a T!
@nabuchebimukhwana93782 жыл бұрын
@@sublime1061 Well put
@zamakhumalo90033 жыл бұрын
I hope this lady is not telling women to stay in abusive and dangerous situations and marriages all in the name of God’s plan. Yuh no way hey
@senthaditse14583 жыл бұрын
I was thinking that too
@lebogangmauco81503 жыл бұрын
Such a bold woman she is. I applaud her.
@velephinkabinde93513 жыл бұрын
Wow..very very!
@nomuzinhlapo67592 жыл бұрын
For what?
@tshidi1292 жыл бұрын
@@nomuzinhlapo6759 For enduring and celebrating abuse
@wanjirukuria5932 жыл бұрын
@@tshidi129 apparently! Lets stop glamorizing abuse! Lets stop using the word of God to manipulate women into toxicity
@zimkhitha.h3 жыл бұрын
Guest is such a beautiful woman.
@samantha46423 жыл бұрын
The show is awesome!!! Kindly add subtitles when the guests speak vernacular. Please team.
@shaquillezulu3 жыл бұрын
The presenter has grown in media business, she doing very well in this talk show business. I like the way she allows ppl to talk then probe further on issues that matters. Good work Lebo. 👏🏿👏🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
@samukelososibo19793 жыл бұрын
👌
@ezerbia3 жыл бұрын
She is exceptional.
@zinhleceenclairemhlanga43992 жыл бұрын
She’s very articulate 👏🏾🥺♥️ knows when to probe …
@kangula40353 жыл бұрын
Women, wats wrong with us, protecting the church, protecting parents, staying abusive marriages for the sake of kids, who by the way pick up abuse without even telling them and breaking them psychologically as a result, all at the expense of your own safety and health... I really don't understand and I will never understand any justification for women staying in abusive relationships
@moe_ramz3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, this lady could have saved herself all this trauma by not.., 1. Marrying this man 2. Having children with this man She’s endured abuse and now the children will be scarred for life. Imagine if she had left when she saw he was a cheater whilst dating. Ai
@jabulilenkambule41663 жыл бұрын
God gives us wisdom but we want excuses to stay in unhealthy relationships.
@bluebird48153 жыл бұрын
Our society practically turned us into fools. The mentality of " a woman must be the glue and stay at all costs to save face for the sake of marriage" must go. We have been taught to let go of ourselves and put everyone else first in marriage. I swear, i'm 28 and i still refuse to settle for just about any man because i cannot come and die because of relationships. The other thing is, i'm a fighter. U cannot hit me and get away with it. I may not hit u back but u may end up sleeping forever.
@michellemasehla15453 жыл бұрын
My mom stayed in a abusive relationship and am the one dealing with past traumas😔💔
@FourtyFyd3 жыл бұрын
@@bluebird4815 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@redeemablesoul3 жыл бұрын
As a Christian woman you have grounds for divorce their husband if he cheats..it is stated in the book of Matthew..you cannot live a miserable life because of a man.
@pontsomudau4143 жыл бұрын
I can listen to dis lady whole day🙌🙌she is so smart
@nabuchebimukhwana93782 жыл бұрын
I wonder why her in laws couldn't see this.
@xoliswanengudza58772 жыл бұрын
LIFE IS ABOUT CHOICES. You dealt with it the best way you knew how. Thank you for sharing your story.
@Sumeya.3 жыл бұрын
the knife thing and mbokodo sentiments can miss me
@mishumoyatshilidzi3 жыл бұрын
Me too mtase, soze klk
@nkule24933 жыл бұрын
#ANDIZI
@siphiwemoyo79193 жыл бұрын
Me too sis I will never
@ueritiakario58012 жыл бұрын
Me tooooo
@aphililenontamo7672 Жыл бұрын
Hayi enkosi andizi
@mantelethiba3593 жыл бұрын
She has so much to share. I wish I can follow her foundation n read her book. I want more out of her
@jacquelinemaliwa74003 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏Wow my sister I salute your strength and boldness. The way you stood for your family you have encouraged me a lot. Keep fighting for the widows and widower
@sallyjambo53163 жыл бұрын
The in-laws always hate in the African society. Women should not feel bad because every woman in the community some wat faces this problems. In-laws call every woman bad even if he marries the best. Yet on the other hand the men cannot marry into their own DNA so for me is careless if in-laws hate me as long as my hubby n I r game. However if my hubby doesn’t love me n he abuses me I think being single never killed a person. This lady is strong! I bow down to her. I know it couldn’t have been me oooo!
@nomsadladla7936 Жыл бұрын
Even though it took me 10 years to mourn my late husband, I would never chose him and his family if I had another chance to chose again. I love my current one so much because we both understand pain.
@Yeye__3 жыл бұрын
Im watching this interview and I found her on Facebook only to read that she passed away on the 1st July, RIP mama
@siyasangamthini85823 жыл бұрын
Am watching now and I loved her so I wanted to follow her and FB. Only to find out she passed away. Am sad. Something doesn’t sit well with me
@zinhleceenclairemhlanga43992 жыл бұрын
You lie 🥺🥺🥺
@futuremmola2489 Жыл бұрын
Ooh no, RIP queen you spoke for the masses, black culture can be cruel and especially black women
@mananammalegae3 жыл бұрын
May God enlargen your territory Relebogile... You were born for this Queen 🏆 Mark your place and secure it. I'm sure Oprah now looks up to you now that we have podcasts... Your making serious history 🔥🔥🔥
@JabulileMathenjwa3 жыл бұрын
Jer 29:11 “ For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord. PLANS TO PROSPER YOU AND NOT TO HARM YOU, PLANS TO GIVE YOU HOPE AND A FUTURE” Im puzzled how from that scripture, she came to the conclusion that Abuse, Infedility, Pain, Disrespect...is God’s plan for her life 🤨 So sad!
@Singita.S3 жыл бұрын
She quoted it in half even, I am as confused.
@dineomakhata12123 жыл бұрын
This woman is still hurting and indenial of the abuse she allowed. I hated this part in the interview.
@sweethingization3 жыл бұрын
*Tradition says, when a widow remarried she must be married off by the in-laws.(magadi) *Its always the woman who kills the man to Africans, I don't know why we as Africans do this to each other. - this is a relevant topic in the African community.
@wpp15863 жыл бұрын
Which doesn't make no damn sense, they are so religious and always emphasize that everything is God's plan but when a relative pass it is the woman or man fault smh. I just don't get it.
@relebogilemabotja2153 жыл бұрын
Yes! So important.
@keketsotsita28953 жыл бұрын
I could listen to her talk for hours ❤️Bless her
@cyliamotsoenengzengele3 жыл бұрын
I so resonate with this woman. She is gorgeous, intelligent and have tolerated so much she did not deserve.
@Zoe-oo3cn2 жыл бұрын
Let's please normalize leaving abusive and toxic relationships please. We've lost so many loved ones due to this.
@TshidiLG2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, you allowed God to use you to establish a Godly and goodly legacy for your kids and a thousands generations to come. That's what I call selfless living. Im sensing your kindness and gentleness. You are a goal oriented woman. May the Lord reward your obedience sister.
@takemorebumhudza1273 жыл бұрын
Relebogile ...this woman is real very real I dont mind having a chat with her
@lesegoyv3 жыл бұрын
When sis said "some of us are curse breakers, so you will have to go through all these pains" As tswana I did not like how she was treated by her in laws, which is almost every married woman's challenges, but we are cool people. For me I am still single because I am not yet ready to hold the knife on its sharp side, maybe one day but for now am good shame.
@claudiamasupha62573 жыл бұрын
To hold a knife on the sharp side, in sesotho, means a woman does everything to protect her children not the husband. Women are heroes when it comes to their children. Sesotho says 'ma ngoana u tsoara thipa ka bohaleng. I don't think this idiom is regarding to men!
@nthomengmajara85753 жыл бұрын
I have dated 2 Tswana men, i experienced the same treatment as this lady. I won't lie it left me jaded with regards to Batswana.
@tebogomokobane80943 жыл бұрын
When a person is abusive run for your life. The best you can do is pray that they will find healing from within and change for the better for themselves. Mosadi o twara tipa ka bogale is what lead to women dieng cause of abuse
@lorrainemadure28373 жыл бұрын
But being infected wasn't from God my lady. I beg to differ. It was your personal choice to stay with husband knowing his cheating ways. Just that God is able to mend our brokenness, to give us power to use the consequence of our mistakes to empower others from preventing the same from happening to them.... We fall because of our mistakes. But God is always there for us. His grace is sufficient....
@ndileka2163 жыл бұрын
How was it her choice?
@lorrainemadure28373 жыл бұрын
@@ndileka216 it was her choice because she chose to stay with her partner even though he was cheating... So she exposed herself to everything that comes with a cheating partner....
@claudiaorgill47853 жыл бұрын
A wise woman, do your thing Queen
@Ms.Gideon3 жыл бұрын
Lebo your studio, just wow. It contributes to me being glued to the show. It is soooo beautiful, calm, sanity, just wow
@yaya198919893 жыл бұрын
Wow Sis Ntutu I appreciate please like you. Also want to write a book about my life as a Divorcee....
@nomsantsoane39843 жыл бұрын
Poor woman went through trauma. I pray for her healing
@ntibatsemogano16622 жыл бұрын
What a beatiful,realistic and flawed human being👏👏👏👏
@stellamooibedi90273 жыл бұрын
God bless your boy!Wow at 9 thinking the way he does wow!
@karabotshegomokoena35163 жыл бұрын
May her soul rest in peace....xe was beautiful
@nephlayahlindo86853 жыл бұрын
I don't think that a lot of you listened attentively to what this lady was saying before commenting because there is a difference between hearing and being attentive. At 14:38 she said that she's not telling you to do as she did but it was her choice. There is a saying "Why leave certainty for uncertainty? Most times Thy Creator uses us to be of testimony to others. If she had left what guarantees she had that she would have met better or she could have met with someone worse than her husband was. She needed to face the music and danced to tune life handed to her. I think that this is a very strong woman and she didn't allowed her situation to shape her destiny.
@nabuchebimukhwana93782 жыл бұрын
My dear you got it so right.
@linkitheledi70152 жыл бұрын
I also wonder if they listened and understood what she was saying 🤔
@zanelendevu24542 жыл бұрын
I love your narrative, I heard her 🙌
@sontomtolo4733 жыл бұрын
We're here!📍Can't wait to watch.🤗Sis Lebo you look gorgeous.
@tebogoletsoalo62373 жыл бұрын
Yoh wena, I can't get enough of her beauty. She's so beautiful
@jabukatshwa3 жыл бұрын
I'm hooked to this channel. Another great interview 😍. Thank you Lebo yet again
@ntombizonkentuli37703 жыл бұрын
I am not understanding the part where She says She stayed because suffering in a marriage was Her portion! So also being infected was Her path that was to come. Ay no that doesn't come from God. He has great plans for us not to hurt us. I feel when we get rebellious or not listen even when God is giving us signs to move, we face consequences for our own decision. Sometimes God allow us to be troubled so we can move get up, He gives us the strength to move. I am not judging though but God tried to save Her from heartache. We are now learning through Her experiences.
@timbawangu30383 жыл бұрын
It's a hard one, I don't get that too
@jaiyaalexandra1443 жыл бұрын
She has issues, God loves us and wants us to be happy, not such nonsense. It makes me angry!
@ntombizonkentuli37703 жыл бұрын
She is misleading women who are in abusive relationships to stay so they can have something to "motivate" about. Her reasoning for staying is soooo not right. She must just state HER insecurities that made Her stay, that made Her not think She can be loved maybe by someone else, not that even if She did leave She was going to get HIV somewhere. What is She telling the world, She never protects Herself! Yohh this interview is wrong wrong. No lesson learnt and it's sad because She really think She can save someone by this talk.
@dineohlakole50763 жыл бұрын
There's alot of things that she spoke, that honestly don't make sense, and she also quotes the scriptures, but I don't think she can comprehend
@SimplyNoxoloSangweni3 жыл бұрын
She made me so uncomfortable I wished someone with a different view on marriage.
@daphneyramano29313 жыл бұрын
I truly understand what people like this guest go through in life. I'm one of them 🔥🔥🔥💃💃💃🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@mathabomohwaduba77353 жыл бұрын
But please don't stay in an abusive relationship Ma.
@nabuchebimukhwana93782 жыл бұрын
May God fight your battles
@raesetjemuroa37673 жыл бұрын
Am glad u came out alive..some people are dead because of abuse..
@sublime10612 жыл бұрын
God does not give you challenges you cannot manage! But this lady was built for her challenges! She is indeed the epitome of a strong woman, and may the Lord help he conquer even HIV, because she has such strong faith! And her children will praise her...
@princessnozi43813 жыл бұрын
I've never not agreed to something like right now. Don't bekezela!! Most women stay for the sake of their children, so they grow up in a normal family. However, I would rather have both my parents separated and happy than to live in a home where it is quite evident that my mother is not happy, where she's being severely abused and trying to put up a happy facade in front of me just for my "happiness". Children notice a lot of things so if at all you're doing it for the children?? You gotta leave, if you're happy and positive, so will your children.
@pulanepriscilla68593 жыл бұрын
Yaah very difficult to be married to a breadwinner I know dat thing ,they always say ngwanana wa Lesotho otlole tjheleteng and my hubby found me educated my parents spend on me too much ,I thank them
@jaystan2333 жыл бұрын
Note:If married women were wise they would attend the Widows meetings
@lungilemabuza10343 жыл бұрын
Yah I agree with you to gain that strength because inlaws they something else 🤞🤞🤞🤞
@LetsTalk91023 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. I'm married and I don't talk to my mom or anyone in my family simply because they don't respect my marriage. I got married very young and my wife was there for me even when I lost my job. I will never take it lightly when my wife gets disrespected. Marriage is not fun and roses all the time but unmarried people just want to get married so that they can prove a point to their friends and take photos for the gram. The woman in this show is simply telling her story and it's sad how people are quick to judge her choices. It's her choices.
@lungilemabuza10343 жыл бұрын
@@LetsTalk9102 aaaaaag no man sorry there will be a way one day pray for them they will come around ❤ because I don't know whats wrong with us to not accepting others loved ones decisions and support it
@masiyamothwanga3 жыл бұрын
The only Background that I believe to be behind " A woman hold the knife at it's sharpness" is that of how a mother will go all out to make sure her CHILDREN are fed, taken care of and get all the love & comfort they need . The one that Miss here is talking about is clearly using it to justify abuse... Sad
@londziwekhoza66512 жыл бұрын
You are right!....In fact seane se goes 'Mmangwana o tshwara thipa ka ga bogaleng'....NOT Mosadi.
@masiyamothwanga2 жыл бұрын
@@londziwekhoza6651 Dankoo🤝🏼
@faithjames6012 жыл бұрын
This NEEDS A PART 2. PLEASE
@kgabomolapo99333 жыл бұрын
What s powerful woman very forgiving
@mjza73373 жыл бұрын
I'm against oppresion of women at all costs. This woman chose to stick to a cheater, and got infected. Going around and literally telling women to withstand something like that and using the Bible to ochestrate women to live a painful life sounds off. She still feels unworthy of a pain free life and happiness. Know your worth. Life has many options, no need to hold on to pain to prove your womanity. You don't have to!!!! WALK AWAY FROM BAD SITUATIONS!!!!!
@vuyanintshingila54612 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you hle
@sizakelezondo25812 жыл бұрын
Forget MacG's show, these are real conversations
@kamo87392 жыл бұрын
Lol for someone im assuming is about “realness” this is rather funny… it doesnt get realer than podcast and chill!!! Just like it doesnt get realer than unpacked… allow people to do what they do how they know how… and choose the one that works for you without bashing the other… Wish you healing and light ntwana…
@elizabethgilbert30113 жыл бұрын
I like your way of thinking 🤔 May you remain Blessed
@busihlongwane87062 жыл бұрын
Life is a gift that build and shape your character and life is a school that prepares your destiny, you are bold and strong , you also carry so much wisdom my sister, May the Lord grant you more strength going forward……💚👏
@AriseBeHealed3 жыл бұрын
There is a ground for divorce and its biblical - Infidelity and its is a sin. Ultimately, to stay is the decision of both parties but condoning and accepting cheating in a marriage is sadly slow death. Infidelity with its spiritual and physical consequences such as STD's is nothing to contend with. Its one strike and a single affair can take a life. There is more taking life than taking pain like this all in the name of staying married.
@erpadministrator Жыл бұрын
Tswanas and Pedis have that tendency of calling the Nguni people matebele even in workplaces. They make us feel inferior and think they are above everything.
@leahphiri83853 жыл бұрын
I disagree with a lot of what she is saying. She even used the scripture from Jeremiah in the wrong context. Haai man. Staying with an abuser is never God's plan for anyone.
@kudzanaishambare93792 жыл бұрын
her psychology was/has been destroyed. Wondering why she mentions self realization yet she never did justice to herself
@Singita.S3 жыл бұрын
🤮 in laws can be so disgusting man... strong lady ❤️
@nenesibanda41712 жыл бұрын
In essence we go through pain to someday heal others.
@poonampradhan94643 жыл бұрын
Lady u are uttering my story…..same pains☝🏼🤔But no worries Lord is good all the time.😇
@nabuchebimukhwana93782 жыл бұрын
You shall overcome in Jesus Mighty name.
@mphihlengmagoro29573 жыл бұрын
Wa e bona kereke sometimes ke nyoso man. Staying in such a toxic family environment for years because the Bible says a, b and c is not on. And then there is our culture which is all about "putting a woman in her place" especially there by the in laws. A lot of woman are suffering because of those two doctrines.
@Singita.S3 жыл бұрын
The Bible allows divorce in such circumstances. People stay for whatever reasons they stay for and hide behind the church but forget what the Bible says
@boipelomaseko24393 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry I can’t watch till the end😱...
@gugunompumelelo10232 жыл бұрын
Yoooh wow 🙌🙌🙌 powerful being a curse breaker is not easy... God give us strength 🙌🙌🙌
@gracedinga7475 Жыл бұрын
I will not stay in an abusive relationship because I want to learn and teach others. You are just fortunate to still be alive. Please don't advise your kids to ever stay in an abusive relationship. That is crazy.
@jeromelubabalojacobs88723 жыл бұрын
My aunt married into a Tswana family and was called le tebele. She couldn't bear children and adopted. Husband left to be with a woman who lied and said she was pregnant with his child. On discovering she lied he left his shack in Orange Farm in my aunt's name and their adopted kids even after he'd abandoned them for a liar. After he died his mother understood that my aunt was always on her husband's side and that the challenge of infertility was with her son. This marriage thing is not just about two people in the African sense but a whole clan. No person needs disease and abuse to learn a lesson or be a martyr of breaking generational curses. Find a way to leave. People who want their kid's money don't deserve their kids in their lives period.
@PowerHouseTalk2 жыл бұрын
I almost stopped watching at that Jeremiah part!
@kudzanaishambare93792 жыл бұрын
if i can get help on the make-up products used by Relebongile on the show. So so perfect..especially the lipstick/matte so on point
@tuelopatriciapholoba3213 жыл бұрын
I learned alot here hle bathong Thank you sister for your advice ...
@idawairimu70933 жыл бұрын
Very sobering talk.. I've learned a lot.. Thanks for sharing
@kamo87392 жыл бұрын
What have you learned?
@Muchechemera3 жыл бұрын
Culture is an African woman's worst enemy. I am a Zimbabwean....
@malebogogaeepe86533 жыл бұрын
Relebogile ke bosso...Notification gang
@relebogilemabotja2153 жыл бұрын
Yayyy!
@asiphileni89493 жыл бұрын
May Nontutuzela rest in peace.
@relebogilemabotja2153 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾
@motlhatlhedi882 жыл бұрын
This marriage survived because of many biblical principles I'm thinking of right now. There are many things she said that should not be adopted or have a different meaning in today's times. I'm glad she came out stronger and bolder on the other side. I am inspired.