Did you hit gym and get shreds?

How are you feeling now? I hope you feel better!

try calming things, like tea and/or ashwaghanda

Hoping you've adjusted.

Mee too

Just saw this. It now says a year ago. It will be lovely to know how are things 1 year later. Do share

Thank God we have our phones, no matter where we are. I hope you're feeling better today!

How are you now?

@@grateful1929 Thank you for asking! I am better now, suited into my place, but I think that is natural. We become so familiar with our surroundings, we absorb ourselves in them and then our anxieties decrease. I think once you get a better grasp on the nature of transition and moving forward and keeping a positive mindset, the woes of a new location won't be so overbearing.

@@fluentinsilence I'm so glad you're better. I sincerely mean that. I suffer with anxiety and I have taking medicine for it for 22 years. I'm an older woman (64) and I'm praying about moving by two of my kids. 5 hours away but still in the state of Georgia. I grew up in this small Georgia town. I did leave when I was 11 but I moved back when I was 20. I know so many people and I'm very fearful of leaving what I've known for almost all of my life. All of my children used to live in this town but they've all moved. Although I have friends and I still work I miss my kids. They want me to move up there by them. It is beautiful where they live. North Georgia mountains everywhere. I just cannot imagine waking up and going into town for my coffee and not seeing so many people I know. I am very friendly and I make friends very easily. I am just afraid I will get so homesick and here I have uprooted and moved away. It is only 5 hours away and I could always move back home but that would be a chore. I don't get to see them very much even though it's 5 hours away. I do work Monday through Friday and by the time I drive 5 hours there and 5 hours back home I've spent 10 hours just on the road. Actually it takes me five and a half to 6 hours to get there because I stopped several times. I take my dogs and they have to potty. Also I raised a granddaughter she is now 20 and she goes with me. She has Asperger's and she is a blessing. I did not mean to tell you my whole life story lol!!! 😊🤷

@@grateful1929 I can understand how anxious it can be to be in unfamiliar surroundings around people you don't recognize or know but on the whole, most people are pretty decent. Give them a chance and allow yourself a chance and people are politely welcoming. Keep in touch with those that are close to you as friendships requiring nurturing (on both parts, don't do all the 'work').

Wow well said.

Sorry to hear this. Hang in there, Nina. You will be a pro in no time!

About to move to a smaller city from Oklahoma as well. I hope it gets better for you ♥️

It says 7 months ago. When you wrote this, you may have just moved. And now it is 7 months behind you. Do share how are you now

Grocery shopping has been a trigger for me. I’ve decided to order my groceries through Wal-Mart pickup, helped so much with being overwhelmed by all of the people.

Make it your Dream place. Create the life you live. New is growth. A more you. Post to help others as you learn. Go on line plan special meals. Write on a journal. A Great cook book cook.😊 Love the Life you live. Word now is Happy. Put things out sayings a picture walk through your growth. Enjoy the journey.

You have been blessed with the opportunity of not only living the adventure of experiencing a new country and culture but to add value to the lives of others while teaching a second language . South Korea is a beautiful and interesting country, take full advantage of that adventure. I got the feeling you will be fine and little by little everything will get into place. I wish all the best. God bless you. 🦋

How are you now Brittany?

I moved to S Korea to teach as well. Years ago. I panicked once I arrived but I eventually chose to embrace it. And once I did, fell in love with it. Give yourself time and the opportunity to learn a new place. It’s been a year since your post, so prayerfully you’re better! I lived in traditional Korea my 1st year, Jeongeup, and my second year , Jeonju.

Same here. Sold my appartment and moved to another part of the country all alone. Feeling like I lost my shiny energetic cheerful me. Waves of depression. Sudden feelings of doubts and regrets. Torturing myself that my appartment was perfect in a wanted location in an international city. Now living in a smaller town with much water and green. The profit of the sold appt is now spent on renovation in the new house. Bigger house. Big bedroom. I wake up sad and feeling alone. I know I will be okay bc I went through bigger things like violence in my old appartment. Working from home, I always enjoyed it. I love freedom and being on my own but lately... I lost all of that. I cry and I keep getting thoughts like: the new kitchen would look so great in my appartment kitchen... I could have done this or that. Also I was pretty ok being single but after moving I registered on a dating site bc I don't want to live alone anymore and it started after the change of location.... I try to run, cycle and walk but last month I even didn't want to go outside and I am normally really attached to fresh air and physical exercise. I also coach myself by telling me that there are no wrong choices. It's not the end of the world. Paid off my debts Etc. Negative voice telling me: why did I do this unnecessarily change, what did I do to myself? I have moved enough in my life from childhood till I bought my safe appartment. It feels like my old appartment is a person that I have given away to a stranger, the buyer 😔 The city I lived in has very high prices so its almost impossible to go back. Time will heal but I also tell myself that if I remain feeling unhappy after one full year I will see this house as a project. Life is short and its mine. I do feel encouraged by the words that it makes us stronger. Often formed life long friendships? Not for me, I guess. I live here six months, I've met one lady that I thought could become a friendly connection but she started to harrass me by knocking on my window (she knew my address bc she's a post package deliverer) That's when I again missed my appartment on third floor with privacy.. I try to look at the positive sides to but I do feel more negative emotions than before.

you are not alone! I feel the exact same after moving!

@@peaceofmindofpeace1650 hi hun that’s exactly how I felt I gave away all my furniture in my bedroom bought new stuff then when I got to the new house I didn’t recognise my bedroom anymore it really freeked me out , I felt totally the same that I gave my home away and someone else had it now , but I wasn’t happy there i was sick with ptsd but didn’t care when I moved here I just wanted it back I would cry even throw up . I forgot why I moved I lost sight of it all ...the 50 miles I moved away felt like I moved to the moon. Honestly time does heal the unfortunate side to time is it takes time 🤦🏼‍♀️. Try focus on the reason you moved write a list of all the good things even to the tiniest detail put it on your fridge and play music you love while reading it out loud that will reinforce the negative emotions about the home . Don’t take one crazy lady as all it has you offer you will meet new people , go online and look for local groups see if there a local facebook group etc . I’m in the uk and we are in lockdown so I havnt been able to meet anyone either. I can’t go bank either and my god I pined so much for my old life , it wasn’t even a life but we are humans and humans like familiarity and over time it will be your familiarity! And the pining and comparing negatively will pass , also you could frost your windows half way or one way film to allow you adjust ive just done that to my kitchen as like you I had a apartment now I have a house with windows the world can look in it’s really helped to have that privacy back , I wish you all the best ...drop me a message if your ever struggling and watch this video every day with earphones at night that’s also what I did to reinforce by decision and remember wtf I did it for xx

@@victoriaz3125 hun read my comment below I forgot to tag you xx

@@peaceofmindofpeace1650 how are things two years later? Would love to know ☺️

How are you feeling now?

Thanks!

Aw , you are right

Thank you so much for posting your comment. You’ve reassured me. 🙏🏼

Thank you so much. It’s good to know I’m not alone 🙌

@@damarismartinez8824 how are you doing Damaris?

I recently moved from Seattle area to WI to be closer to family. The feelings I’d loss recently hit me like a truck full of bricks about a week ago. I’m sure changing seasons from summer to fall and slowly going into winter…longer, colder, and darker days haven’t helped. You posted this two months ago. How are you feeling now? I moved from WA in July. Just now started to feel this way.

I am also in it right now. Moved from small mountain town to captial city in US. I go from excited one day to terrified for the whole week after.

Very true! I thought it was just me and I was exaggerating:/

Sending greatings and best wishes from Florida. Don't be discouraged, keep pressing on. I have relocated several times in my life and all what Mrs Foss says is true, it will get better. I will be moving from Florida in the near future to another state so I'm so glad I found this encouraging video. God Bless you and keep looking forward.

I’m going through the same thing. Hope you’re doing okay. ❤️

@@nervouslaugh9301 you will be okay too! ❤️

I’m going through the exact same emotions with a pending move to NZ, it’s awful isn’t it. I wish you all the best with your move.

I’m going to go through the same thing in a few months and I’m terrified

@Michael we are together in this Michael. Where are you moving to if you don't mind me asking. Update: I'm actually dealing with the move a little better - some days. I have found that it is better to think of it as an adventure. Every adventure had twists and turns. This move for you will be exciting, filled with new experiences and people and lots of fun. You'd wonder why you hadn't moved earlier as you take a nervous step closer to who you want to be and the life you want. Wishing you the very best. If you never try, you'll never know.

How are you doing now?

@@june9775 Im grateful, some days are still hard but I wouldn't trade my freedom for it. Ive learned to love my alone time and connect more with myself. Thanks for asking!:)

@@sunjadye3090 thank you for replying and giving me hope.

2 weeks into my new place and had 2 mental breakdowns and cry spells. You’re not alone!

I’m going through the same thing! Be strong eventually we will feel empowered after all the chaos

Dutch? Lisl is South African...

How are you now?

How you doing now…my depression is so bad from selling my home and moving back to my hometown after 32 years and away from my kids

How are you doing now? Just moved cross country and depressed and missing my family

I regret selling my house..I can’t go back. Houses have gone up too much and I can’t afford the are any more..if I only knew then what I know now. I had 15 years left to pay off my house

Hope youre ok now robin

Hope you are doing better ❤️

Have you moved? Are you ok?

It's hard to move away and just leave everything behind but hopefully as time passes it gets better for you.

Houston is a big city. Get out there and socialize. Lots of beauty in Texas too. At least it wasn’t buttfck nowhere Alabama lol

Same I’m from Boston and my family moved to Atlanta, I miss Boston sm☹️but I try to make the best out of it

@@nicolebermudez4855 You must be a Texan. Only a Texan would call Texas pretty. Houston, Beaumont, Port Arthur, Bay City, Brownsville, etc. are some of the ugliest, most "life-demotivating" places in the Western world.

Same here.. I left my peace of mind and basic contentment in my old place. Bless you hope your feeling better already. I declare we will grow out of this phase and rise above with helicopter view!

If you searched anything related to moving in Google... they know.

I went through that when I moved back to Memphis in 2008 and I left in 2016.

Hey how are you now? It sounds relatable and normal to me. My partner is also very practical and resilient and didn’t have any trouble with our move. Which makes it feel harder when you do. But it’s normal! And it’s very tough if you’re there alone when your partner is on a different schedule.

@@MsEvaonAir hi Eva, I'm doing a lot better now. Really settled in and enjoying where I live now. I have a couple of exercise clubs that I go to which I really missed during covid due to the close of everything. My head is finally sorted out thankfully. Hope you are feeling better as well and doing good?

@@sarahstewart4693 Hi Sarah, I have also had anxiety attacks while driving in our new place which has led me to not going out very much. I fear getting lost, can't deal with all the traffic here. It is good to know that you are doing better. Hopefully I will feel that at some point also.

I feel you, I lived in Germany for 2.5 years ,moved there all by myself and had the best experience of my life being completely independent. I decided to go back home to study but ever since I moved back I gradually got more and more depressed and demotivated to the point im second guessing my decision to even stay here and I'm seriously considering moving back to Germany as I feel isolated and out of place in the place I grew up in and once called home

francesco resinelli 💜

Hope you’re doing well

@@tiffanyayseyaseminsungur1600 Laughing? Sick!

Hope you’re doing well Brother