Is erectile dysfunction all in your head?

@carlosgranah 2 жыл бұрын

Performance anxiety is a factor. I was so nervous about performing rather than enjoying the moment.

@rajvo7406 2 жыл бұрын

Imagine how it is when you add SSRIs to the mix.

@g_mason8867 2 жыл бұрын

How did you overcome it?

@terryrose6208 2 жыл бұрын

This can happen even after many years of marriage and successful lovemaking. Marriages can fail and depression can drastically affect sexual relationships.

@dingdong2103 Жыл бұрын

@@terryrose6208 Sure happened to me. I still can't do ONS. I never had a single problem until I divorced.

@dingdong2103 Жыл бұрын

@@rajvo7406 I had a near death experience and had a trauma. Talked to a psychiatrist and she prescribed me those. When I read the side effects of the medicine I threw them immediately away lol. All of the sudden I didn't feel anxious enough to get chronic impotence and death wish (probably resulting from the former).

@betmynamespookedyou4665 Жыл бұрын

Remember boys. *YOU ARE HIM!* Get in there and give her the time of her life!

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

@ibot2157 Жыл бұрын

Nice way to develop performance anxiety

@Andrew54123 3 ай бұрын

Right.. when you’re a 30 year old virgin, and your new/first ever gf has had 10 guys before you.. good luck being the “best”

@Igotstaknowit 2 жыл бұрын

Sleep and proper nutrition are very important. Not just any sleep, but good sleep. Stay away from computers, tablets, and phones hours before you go to bed. You'll experience the difference.

@optimusprimus89 Жыл бұрын

I'll have to start doing this here in the next week.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

@MohdFarzin-yi1fl 2 ай бұрын

Update pls@@optimusprimus89

@Regal23_ 25 күн бұрын

Aww man im addicted to my phone

@keithshivers8299 Жыл бұрын

As always, really solid and helpful information presented in a very clear way. Great job Doc!

@carolinesexplosion 10 ай бұрын

You are amazing Rena, you explain things in a very easy way to understand. Better than any other doctors.

@EmpowermentEdge6476 4 ай бұрын

You are absolutely right. I went through this for a long time, and it repeats itself when during the intercourse my mind recalls my previous low performance. I just want to cease this opportunity by saying that women need to be educated about this as well because word and behaviors can linger in man's mind for a long time. In many cases women tend to be angry and disappointed, thinking that they are not attractive enough. The words and mood will hunt the man for the rest of his live. I have spoken to many men, and this is what they told me: She was rude, she gets up very quick and dress up. Please make a video for us, educating women on how to treat a man who fail to perform. They should support and motivate their men instead of blaming them. I don't care how long it takes but I will watch your vides one by one to share your expertise with the world. Thank you so much.

@scottjackson1332 Жыл бұрын

This is a fact. Not to dismiss that us fellas can take longer to get going many times. But the thoughts or fears of performance are a huge problem. They have been for me. I'm 58 and am just now finding this out. The loss of the basics seems to be a big part. Romance, erotic thought, slowing down and enjoying the moment. A patient and understanding partner is key as well. I could get it up, and keep it up, untll drum roll please. the actual act was about to take place and I was like a popped tire.

@bobbruce4135 2 жыл бұрын

Important topic. Cynicism of love (knowing it's fake or transactional) can lead to the emotional - depressive elements. Dysthymic PTSD due to marital failure may be common. Passion (infatuation) and Intimacy (both wanting same things) are necessary for true romance. Finding the right partner is often a problem. Peace.

@deadandblue 2 жыл бұрын

Of course its always about the darn money and I ain't going to find a partner I prefer to off myself to be non corporeal

@testrabbit 2 жыл бұрын

That's not necessarily true _if_ a marriage is _de_ _facto_ transactional (id est, simply a working business contract) and your interpersonal relationships remain a separate thing. I would know given my above comment, which isn't factually exaggerated except that I wouldn't consider having a sexual relationship with anything but a machine anymore... I'm more than happy to consider something with a person, but my experience has been this is _transactual_ and temporally limited, as well. I think if one examines the human genome and scrutinizes you will find what I am saying is true. Also, you merely need look at the Bible if you doubt all science and treat every word there as factually accurate. I've actually had some decent years long relationships in the past and sometimes people either just change or you jump into something over and over again out of a sense of responsibility hoping things will change. Now, if I did decide to completely forego further human contact and stick with machines... well, you'd have a small point because the machines would want a power cord or tx source thereof, where'd my objective would be the same with my damned fists...

@testrabbit 2 жыл бұрын

You can't always find "the right" partner, singular, either, so I take a small issue with that assumption. Again, I'll point out the biological record of the human genome as my proof.

@testrabbit 2 жыл бұрын

I do value what you've said... let me make that clear, because there are some people who are made for ideal single life partners. My counterpoint was merely that this is not always what life lays out as possible for us, which could also result in depressive illnesses if that's all you've been taught is normal to expect from the universe.

@deadandblue 2 жыл бұрын

@@testrabbit yes well we all know that it's the 21st century full of debauchery deviancy and its always about the money I don't have long till I decided to end it all about every woman I like never understands me and why I refuse to have kids

@ramu5445 2 жыл бұрын

It should not be last video, you must educate as long as possible. Stay with us, post many videos on health and sexual life. Your videos are so useful. Love you❤

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

@jaydubbyuh2292 2 жыл бұрын

Dr. Malik, we know that u r so honest, & diligent, that u could tellus that the sky is falling & we would still love & appreciate u & those of us with minimal ED would immediately begin to get rock hard.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@donaldmoser212 2 жыл бұрын

You provide such great, real life data and information about anything relating to below-the-belt physiological and/or psychological matters. Being a 50+ male with a host of comorbitities, I sincerely appreciate your videos and its informative content.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

@honeychilerider 5 күн бұрын

Man, it really is nice to see these videos from a Real Doctor. As a physician myself I get so frustrated watching people, many of whom have actual MDs but are really more in the business of peddling brands (products as well as their own), spouting great-sounding nonsense and bs. This sounds like I'm talking to a real, practicing physician, not some TV-doc who's teetering on the edge of pseudoscience to get rich or get by. Nice work, Dr. Malik.

@chris-terrell-liveactive Жыл бұрын

Another very good (and clearly much needed) video, thank you.

@FlavioMarceloSousa35 Жыл бұрын

I battled sexual performance anxiety for almost a decade, back then I didn't even know this was a medical condition. Things changed when I turned 30 because I started to do some reading on this subject. Information is essential: the more you know about sex, the less stressful it will be. Read books, talk to doctors, visit informative websites.

@PC.NickRowan Жыл бұрын

I struggled with it for years too until I experienced something similar to you too. The day I realised that it was all in my head when doing research on it and I gave myself permission to relax, I experienced an erection immediately after the fact, which is something that I hadn’t experienced like that for years. I always felt like I was forcing erections which didn’t help at all, but once I relaxed and let it happen naturally I just could not believe how much pressure that I put on myself for that whole period of time in my life

@FlavioMarceloSousa35 Жыл бұрын

@@PC.NickRowan Absolutely! Information is the #1 ED treatment. Most men suffer in silence and don't seek help because they don't even know this is a medical condition (and easily treatable).

@FlavioMarceloSousa35 Жыл бұрын

@@connormurphy1964 Anything written by Tom F. Lue, a brilliant American urologist.

@darlingtonumezuruike3791 Жыл бұрын

I'm in my twenties but I notice I am experiencing ED. The confusing part is that, I get a very strong early morning erection but during sex I don't get enough erection for penetration. I really need a doc to speak to.

@ChoroTesla Жыл бұрын

@@darlingtonumezuruike3791 people would say because of masterbation. Also i dont have morning erection but when am with my partner i erect so much and having a sex but morning erection to me itsa big trouble i can spend 24hrs and having one erection but not good erection last year i was in depression so bad. using different kind of supplement Omega 3 fatty acid no help,Horny goat weed but i stop using them i just dont like the way it works on me,Jump to Gingko biloba actually it work due to my Cognetive function disorder and increase blood flow to my brain,jump to macca root capsule i take it through a night yeah it works on sexual activity but still no morning erection i think its Physichogenic i dont know.

@johnseromoz7624 Жыл бұрын

Thanks to *Super Long Night 72* I've regained control over my intimate life. No more ED! 💥🎉

@saranyuvi5539 Жыл бұрын

Any pro tips bro

@latinaalma1947 2 жыл бұрын

Self esteem is huge...loss of a job, loss of or drop in income for a man is difficult...that is a major source of depression in men and very common..one I have treated OFTEN..Sybil Francis PhD CLINICAL psychologist /professor

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@chillin916 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you doc. You're amazing. I can relate to this. I wish I could email you with questions I have on the subject or if there's maybe a link you can recommend. This is the best video you've done. 🌹

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

@charlenemack7040 2 жыл бұрын

I believe I’m the only female subscribed to this channel.....not that there’s anything wrong with that!!! Dr. Malik, very informative video! 👍💖😎

@tcb5141 2 жыл бұрын

There's plenty of women who subscribe to the good doctors video's

@juanitadudley4788 2 жыл бұрын

She covers women's urological issues also.

@michaelthorn6215 2 жыл бұрын

Charlene, you are not the only female to subscribe. It is refreshing to know that more women are subscribing to her channel. In truth, Dr. Malik has a way of explaining things without making one feel embarrassed or shameful, no matter if it's men or women. So, I salute you to subscribing to an informative channel. May you learn a lot and dispel any myths you come across.

@daleholte7234 2 жыл бұрын

Lol a female that knows more about a guy’s penis then most guys know lol 😂 by watching Dr. Malik

@ramzanrainudeen6499 2 жыл бұрын

GOOD MORNING CHERIENE .HAVE A NICE DAY MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY I'M FROM SRI LANKA

@williammierop576 2 жыл бұрын

I'm hooked on your talks, very very helpful...thank you

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@rickm8443 2 жыл бұрын

Amazing video. Thank you Dr. !!! This is exactly what I needed. Sooo informative!! The last time my wife and I tried to do the deed… I couldn’t maintain an erection. I have been too apprehensive to try again …. That was 4 yrs ago. From this video I now know that there are a number of factors attributing to this.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

@lunamorris2091 Жыл бұрын

I like your video presentation. It is informative too, at the same time. Thanks a lot for your guidance!

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a

@MrGuitar1458 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent video as always. Thank you!

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a

@vonfields6889 Жыл бұрын

ED, is often a mind-body conflict, complex,profound, often hard to resolve, particularly after age of 40.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

@user-rt3je8kc5d 2 жыл бұрын

I watch your videos, and the contents are really good and helpful. Thanks a lot! 😘😘😘

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a

@davymoose3815 Жыл бұрын

Thanks soo much Rena YOUU COVERED ALOT !

@dmitriuswatley6728 2 жыл бұрын

I wish I could have a doctor like this person.

@testrabbit 2 жыл бұрын

So, true! Hey, there are some really smart ones near me! That's New England, tho, don't know where you are...

@dmitriuswatley6728 2 жыл бұрын

@@testrabbit thanks for that but I’m in Alabama. Pretty limited here.

@testrabbit 2 жыл бұрын

@@dmitriuswatley6728 most of the doctors will have some sort of professional online profile and you could have a meeting with them before deciding if you are going to be able to establish a trusting relationship with them. There should be sites that show physicians in your area taking new patients and what their professional profiles are like.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a

@billhaar2919 2 жыл бұрын

Erectile dysfunction causes my depression.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@Maria_Lucy7726 3 ай бұрын

Just think of trump and u will get hard

@azadulislam7440 2 жыл бұрын

That's great to learn many more things from your sharing and I thank you so much from heart to wish you the great success and great enjoyable life ahead 😊👍🙏💗💗

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@allhavesaidtheirprayers3434 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the work you're doing.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a

@luxykl9902 Жыл бұрын

Wonderful Presentation 💖

@danbride7221 Жыл бұрын

I like how you move things along with your words I don't know another way to describe it but then again I do thanks for your video's and advice

@davidlittlewolf4441 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you doc Rena for all your advice on your videos enjoy your day you've earned it. ps you have a pretty smile I hope your appreciated for it

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@kratos_337 2 жыл бұрын

You think you can do a video explaining how certain anti depressants such as prozac affects one's ability to ejaculate in a reasonable amount of time? Love you your videos. They're very informative.

@tn2mich Жыл бұрын

Yes! A number of years ago I was on either Wellbutrin or Paxil and I would get a terrific hardon and could have sex for hours without having an orgasm. It was the best sex ever. And my wife would have so many orgasms just from riding me. I was a porn star.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

@americanhomeownerwithajob6940 2 жыл бұрын

If your NOT going limp during masturbation and only struggling during sex then you need to step your cardio UP, get on the treadmill for 30 minutes a day because your going limp due to oxygen and blood. Push yourself for 30 minutes minimum a day and enjoy your life properly, I also recommend less meat portions and heavier vegetables. Max blood flow and STAMINA is key, stop buying BS and get healthier dudes

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a

@eddievelasquez6402 2 жыл бұрын

Very informative one of a kind doctor you giving to others on all situations godbless

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@stevensmith5366 2 жыл бұрын

Your Videos are very helpful, great job

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@craigjames6504 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Learned a few things!

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a

@paulburnett3490 2 жыл бұрын

The problem is, it's not in anywhere! Joking apart, thank you for another informative video/download. x

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@samengler539 2 жыл бұрын

Good job Dr love all your videos. Thanks.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a

@budzpuds 2 жыл бұрын

smart doctor. it's a good assumption because generally if a person rises high enough mentally your body will only follow regardless of your physical problems unless your body is damaged beyond repair due to serious injury.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a

@lennonjohnh Жыл бұрын

Could you list the peer reviewed research on changes in the brain that cause psychogenic erectile dysfunction? I would really love to read the peer reviews research on that. Thanks!

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

@vonfields6889 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for all your work.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@JamesJones-ts5fl 2 жыл бұрын

I think the operative problem is it *isn’t* in my head lol But yeah really important information as usual Doc!

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a

@biffpope9750 2 жыл бұрын

Terrific share. Thx very much!

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c

@SalehAhmed-je2dn 2 жыл бұрын

Very good information Its hepl alot Gorgeous personality Beautyfull voice Dr. Malik

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c

@reddragonn1590 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. I've wondered about this for sometime as it has gotten so much worse. Combat PTSD and post Prostate cancer. The cancer treatment doesn't seem to have physically affected, but the severe anxiety especially in these times is greatly affecting my mental health. Unfortunately, the VA is only a band aid option and I've got years for Medicare to kick in. 😑

@ianturner2505 2 жыл бұрын

Renik is Frank and her videos are helpful and good to know.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c

@deanmckee1385 2 жыл бұрын

Happy Doctors day Dr Rena 👍

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c

@mikem6176 2 жыл бұрын

Sensate focus exercises, or physical touch with no expectation of sexual activity to follow. That’s a complicated description of a common issue. We call it “marriage.” And the diminishing frequency often seen in long term relationships has certain effects on the higher-drive individual, particularly men, that are most disturbing.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a

@avinashpoojary7897 11 ай бұрын

Useful information 🙏😊

@adrianhamblinkc3ibu33 Жыл бұрын

Thank y for your wisdom and work!!!

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@rocky8855 2 жыл бұрын

such an important video. This will change someone's life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@ericculpepper9545 10 ай бұрын

You are so very true, I thought it was just me, but I have experienced the partner and performance issues. So I need to find a new woman. I have always thought that I could change her, but she has ruined me. Thanks for confirming that it's not me.

@dashlivingston5975 2 жыл бұрын

This is true, I have been so anxious and nervous a time before that I was able to form an erection. Thank you for your knowledge

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

@XanUpNorth 4 ай бұрын

Please do a video on the PSSD. I have been suffering devastating long-term side effects from taking an SSRI in the late 1990s and no doctor has been able to give me any answers or remedies...

@VTPSTTU 2 жыл бұрын

You always give interesting and important content. Thank you! My social life is so bad that ED doesn't really matter.

@bobbruce4135 2 жыл бұрын

You're not alone. 50% of men get only the bottom 5% of females to compete for. See Wheat Waffles channel which explains everything fast. Or, see Colttaine (gender attraction differential) and many other very thoughtfully presented facts. Peace.

@VTPSTTU 2 жыл бұрын

@@bobbruce4135 I've heard something of that kind from Better Bachelor. Society is failing. I think both men and women need to improve themselves to be more attractive to the opposite sex. All of us need to work to be better. We also need to work to stop being stupid about these things. Men are always going to be drawn to physical beauty. Women are always going to be drawn to self-confidence. We shouldn't be shaming either sex for these natural desires. We should work to make ourselves more appealing to the opposite sex with an understanding of these desires. On the other hand, we need to act wisely regarding how we spend what we have. No one should do things that will ultimately devalue himself or herself in pursuit of someone who just isn't going to be a worthwhile match. A guy who is a 6 should not turn himself into a 4 by spending all of his money and energy on a 9 who is never going to have feelings for him. A woman who is a 6 should not turn herself into a 4 spreading her legs for a guy who is a 9 and will never give her more than casual sex.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a

@VTPSTTU Жыл бұрын

@@Toppgg-ci9er Thanks, but my health has failed. None of that is possible for me. I feel good just taking a short walk every day.

@jemkey6930 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for making easy to understand videos. I'm not going into detail for private reasons but I can turn on one of these videos and leave the room and someone will finally get some answers to questions they aren't willing to ask a doctor. And it helps that you are attractive, (it keeps him interested in the videos). Thank you again.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a

@jsmith3964 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your video sugar levels and cholesterol have a lot to do with Erctions the problem I see is food is 2x the size of years past causing fat and tirednesses the first challenge is health then mental you are helping millions mentally and different life challenges but to me the biggest challenge is Work Stress it can bring you way down and then some.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@mr.roboto8324 2 жыл бұрын

It's not allot but when he doesn't want to work at 100% it's definitely all in my head. Mostly just worrying that he isn't going to work.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c

@georgebanks4339 2 жыл бұрын

Thank You Doctor ! 👍

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@testrabbit 2 жыл бұрын

I've heard about certain possible life events such as miscarriages, toxic relationships or physical diseases such as multiple sclerosis or other neurological and endocrine problems as well as lymphadenopathy causing ED. I also recently read an article showing that medications like Suboxone causing this. What does someone do if they're suffering from an autoimmune condition (exempli gratia, MS & lymphatic damage) do to resolve the problem hypothetically?

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

@testrabbit Жыл бұрын

@@ryu7964 so it's ectogenesis, fertility clinics & genetic engineering that are destined to cure the declining birth rate problem afterall... I my detractors regarding this will be eating their words in the end.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

@@testrabbit the intention of loving physically has liberated me. I share this Text of mine to many people. Hoping it may help others as it has helped me. I wish you all the best.

@testrabbit Жыл бұрын

@@ryu7964 back at you

@mrwickairsoft6345 2 жыл бұрын

Really smart woman she knows everything

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c

@juancarloscienfuegos7450 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you doctor for all the 411 you give us your followers. Congrats on Doctors

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@davec9244 2 жыл бұрын

thank you get me in the ballpark I can remember the plays!

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c

@johnsharkey4006 2 жыл бұрын

I enjoy listening to you Dr so interesting

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c

@alexanderduff6018 Жыл бұрын

I first went to see a doctor when I was 28. That’s just about when I started having numbing toes from bad blood circulation and I was in better health and I’m better shape back then. Now not so much. I’m ok but I do need to lose weight and take care of my body better. But doctors back then kept asking if it was in my mind and that was the first time I’ve ever heard that and I thought that was crazy, but no. Now I don’t even get any more morning woods. And I’m 34 now. Things will change this year

@DavidSmith-fw6uj 2 жыл бұрын

Love from DeKalb Mississippi USA 🇺🇸

@davidsincity2549 Жыл бұрын

Please do a video on PT-141 I would like a doctor's view.

@flyinghero5283 2 жыл бұрын

This is me all over. Been like it 10 years now

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a

@thelevelupcommunity 7 ай бұрын

Same bro it’s so wounding! I’ve been with my partner ten years, have a 4 year old together and it kills me knowing I can’t please her properly when i really want to! N I know it’s all in my head!

@rickpretzsch9430 2 жыл бұрын

Thank You for this video

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and we can love others physically.

@mjayjoseph855 2 жыл бұрын

This is very informative 🤔

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c

@danielsmith-ze3wy 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the video

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and we can love others physically.a

@davidholmes6889 11 ай бұрын

Yohimbine Hydrochloride always helped me but is now unavailable in the US for some reason.

@s0urp0wer5 Ай бұрын

I definitely notice that life stress can cause psychogenic ED for me. I'm 31 and experiencing basically zero libido and ED issues right now cause of life stresses. I don't have a partner of any kind but that's not the point, I'd still like to enjoy having them anyway and not having them be reliable can be a negative feedback loop that can give you anxiety about dating again. Fellas? Am I alone in this?

@justflow1401 23 күн бұрын

Are you getting morning wood or not?

@s0urp0wer5 23 күн бұрын

@@justflow1401 Haha yeah I do and it will be fully functioning in the middle of the night if I happen to wake up, so I definitely think this is all mental.

@justflow1401 23 күн бұрын

@@s0urp0wer5 same with me i get morning wood but as soon as I notice it it goes away.

@neilmaharajh434 2 жыл бұрын

Great advice here, you covered some of the thoughts I had!

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

@dmitriuswatley6728 2 жыл бұрын

I have been diagnosed with severe depression. I haven’t been in a relationship in nearly a decade. I don’t know what is most important. But I do live with MS.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@michaelmassetti4068 2 жыл бұрын

First of all welcome charllene ..... hi doc..... just had my 66th birthday yesterday..... saw a uruologist for ed problem still working on a fix ... perscribed cialis once daily had proctal exam.... he found a node on lft side of prostate and apparently my testosterone level is low and wants a retest of that at a lab. I work odd hours so cant get that at his time table.. before 11am. Need to sleep during the day for work.... question.... are home testosterone kits effective for his needs or do i need to go to a lab. As always excellent video.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and we can love others physically.

@ezraantwi6904 2 жыл бұрын

This is so true

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and we can love others physically.

@johngaudet7363 10 ай бұрын

Circumcision, or childhood circumcision, play any role in ED in your professional opinion?

@jesseskellington9427 Жыл бұрын

6:36 psychology drives biology. biology drives psychology. Understanding what's going on between these is so important to look at the core issue not just the symptomatology...

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@timseymour2835 2 жыл бұрын

Dr Malik, what about issues with orthopedic pain which increases in certain positions?

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a

@cdawg4574 Жыл бұрын

Definitely have it with my position/condition.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c

@jeremiahpace6533 2 жыл бұрын

How rare is priapism and is it considered a ED? I'm asking cause I had to have a 3 inch blood clot removed a few years ago

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@taufiqmohab-ali4083 2 ай бұрын

Thank you very much.

@vincentcortilli4896 2 жыл бұрын

I had two surgeries, after my second surgery I did have a period of Ed. My diabetes and blood pressure is under control.. I stopped psych meds with thepary

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@Bodtec66 2 жыл бұрын

A dear friend of mine was seriously concerned about his inability to become erect within the relationship and questioned what medicinal sources might be effective in helping. In short order, discussing that relationship and its emotional troubles and clearly understanding becoming erect wasn't a problem but for when he was with "her", he finally realized after admitting it was the psychological issues in the relationship and not the physiology, the ED quickly remediated.

@Losaddos 2 жыл бұрын

so did they break up?

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

@MROKJIA 2 жыл бұрын

Might want to look into the static sounds/white noise in the video. Very high pitched

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. JAnd we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and we can love others physically.a

@victorkain3500 2 жыл бұрын

Hey, Rena! Love your videos, but please equalize the audio between the main video and the intro!

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c

@craiglee2711 2 жыл бұрын

Hi 👋🏻 there absolutely beautiful & Intellectual Dr. Rena M. I myself, Personally LUV Having ‘normal’ ERECTIONS but unfortunately I Do suffer from E.D. Frustration and disappointment take OVER!! My E.D. is mainly caused from Bad side effects of a Prescription medication - (BACLOFEN) - a Muscle Relaxant I have to take for My chronic Neuromuscular Condition I was diagnosed with 12 Years Ago! Thanks 🙏 Babe! Luvvin YOU & Your TOP VIDEOS!! Cheers 🥂 Dr. Malik Luv from Craigy L. 😘❣️🚀🇦🇺👍

@BradAaronTaylor 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, it is all in the head. And the shaft.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c

@daver681 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the video Dr. that was very interesting and informative I have a Doctors appt. coming up and plan on talking to her about it even though my Doctor is a woman I think I can talk to her about it, Thanks.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c

@hooskawahya7628 2 жыл бұрын

after a traumatic brain injury ADHD became a huge problem in bed Especially if I’m with a partner that doesn’t communicate or do anything to keep my interest. Sometimes It’s like come on man am I with a woman rn or a pillow 🙄 Then the anxiety about performance happened, and now I’m here. 22 healthy, hormonal and the advertisements on all these pills and tools market to middle aged, and old gray to graying men. It feels really bad. Worst of all is I’m between partners rn, so it’s all just not been going my way for awhile now 😔. I just keep idk. Well I’m off to a good morning cheers boys 😞

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@HyliasChosenOne 2 жыл бұрын

Regarding the 2nd type of erection, you mentioned it going away after urinating, I was told that erection goes away because the muscle in the penis plays a part in "boosting" the bladder from holding in the need urinate overnight, hence why it goes away after urination as there is no longer a need to help the bladder hold in the urge to go. Is that incorrect?

@danielsykes7558 Жыл бұрын

The muscles are indeed interrelated yup

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a

@MG-vk5xv 7 ай бұрын

There are no muscles in the penis. Just three tubes, two of which are sponge like. There are supporting muscles though...

@the_beast_among_sheep Жыл бұрын

When I was 18-23, I was having sex 2-3 times per day. Even at 30-33 years old, I wanted it (and got it) twice per day. Now, I'm 39 and I'm finding it difficult to keep my mind on what I'm doing. (This includes intercourse) Roughly two months ago, I started using 2 to 4 Mg. of Sildenafil before intercourse and I've had no problem since. The weird part is that twice, I only took a very small piece, probably equal to half of a Mg. and I felt the same confidence as if I had taken 4 Mg. I had no problem at all that night. I've always been sometimes overly-anxious before having sex and now I'm certain that my issue stems from anxiety, usually brought on by racing and invasive thoughts. Images that I don't want to see, and have to exude extreme mental effort in order to clear my mind and relax. I'm going to try Cialis this month and see if it works better for me. Another crazy thing is that Viagra makes me more confident even when interacting with women in non-sexual situations, this includes women that I don't even know if I have a chance with, or not. It's exactly the same confidence I feel while making love to my woman. A confidence that I used to have, but had lost before I started Viagra about 2 months ago. I also take a testosterone supplement. Test X-180 Boost is what I use. If I'm working, I use the Test X-180 Ignite. This vid caught my attention because I've always known that I had performance anxiety. It usually takes a week or two before I even start to feel comfortable with being naked around a chick that hasn't seen me naked before. Great vid!

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.a

@Yynniv 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome video. There might be some problem with your mic, there is a whistle very low happening in this video.

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.c

@lucasromerova6150 Жыл бұрын

So I’ve been having penile pain whenever I’m not erect and some when I am but less do but lower down the shaft it hurts to touch. My Urologist says I have a tight pelvic floor but that can’t be the only cause right? Sometimes I can’t pee at all abd sometimes I can’t stop peeing I have to take a lot of Flowmax but I’m stopping it.

@perspicacity89 Жыл бұрын

Can certain medications cause ED? Such as SSRI, antipsychotics, statins, etc.

@dantwister5106 2 жыл бұрын

Does l-arginin + l-citrulin + Pine Bark Extract (pinus massoniana) really help against ED?

@JW-iz6mv Жыл бұрын

No

@ryu7964 Жыл бұрын

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

@PureDWhiteCloud Жыл бұрын

Ha! This is what I mean by "I am a thesis waiting to happen". My wife and I met when we were 17. I am or was 2 months older than her ( She passed in 09). As time is, there were opportunities for "An extra Slice" as it were but very few, mebbe 3 or 4 that went further than looky looky stuff. I was even at the brink.. but this big cotton ball formed just below my rib cage in my belly and it "Deflated Things" long story short. I have not been able to overcome this to this day. 12 years widowed and a girlfriend and I still have real issues with the "Cotton Ball".

@zelojin4195 11 ай бұрын

i love your channel

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