That's a word right there 👀

Lord this was a word. It’s sooooo true. Smh it just doesn’t make sense to me

Amen!!!

Well said

This is deep.

Soo true 👍! I get that a lot! Then I exit, stage left ⬅️🚫❌⁉️

When you say never choose man that disturbs your spirit what do you mean

Monroe B cause to feel anxious, unsettled, mixed up and or confused. It is thee opposite of peace.

Amen

@@daughteroftheking721 much appreciated x

True

Absolutely!!!

Got that right!!!@

Amen- Your mom is wise.

My dad used to tell us also, let the man call you, he would say you can return his call but never initiate the call.

So true

So VERY true!

That is true!

Physical beauty's skin deep right?

So true. I want love not sex . I love myself first must heal and than my king will find me. I am so sad but happy I am going no contact . He is going to never be happy he said I wouldn't. Projection . Thank Jesus

TRUTH!!!

No lies told

My sentiments exactly. ..

Amen

But even if he wants you, that doesn’t mean he deserves you ;) let alone a man that doesn’t even want us.

This is it. He never allows me to be able to unsee the reality. So I can make an informed decision. Thank God for that

Discernment. You know these men by there fruits. The soil. The leaves. Look at the tree.

Awesome wish I heard this 40 years ago

@@lindaphillips6111 its never too late. Wisdom always arrives at the appointed time that we will receive it

Linda Phillips you and me both! We have it now amen

Wow that's deep

I divorce ex husband. After five years.

I was thinking about chasing a man last week! Good thing I didn't! Pastor put me in check! Wait! Hold up! It would have been a disaster!

Sometimes we learn the hard way but God is in control

I am . He is so kind.

This speaks to my heart so much.

My current situation..... he disappoints and always has an excuse for his shortcomings.

@@KimK_AllDay my child's father..But that's what Narcissist do! They lie so much just like their Father Satan! We move on! Tho I'm use to his excuses..doesn't phase me

That's a powerful statement! Thanks Sis! And I've been no contact for 4 days. I ghosted him when at the last minute he canceled our date! This is the third time I can remember in 2 months. BYE BOY!!!

@@eerynessential It's tiresome trying to weed through the lies and gaslighting!

Facts!!!

@@scorpionkingggodson5507 even more of a reason not to chase #bestill he will come to you!

Wow

True!!!

Now you're saying something!!!!

So true,some men don't even like women, and are not gay,but sleep with women cause they just want to satisfy their sexual lust. Sad.........

@@rhode4917 they will suffer. Hollow soul.

Truth!! Recently had a guy tell me he's never been in love before! Women have been in love with him, he's been married and has kids!! But hooowwwwwww? So now im the one u choose to give ur heart to? I wasn't sure how I felt about that ! We've stopped talking since then! Seemed unavailable emotionally! I want someone who k ows how to be vulnerable and has experienced a heartbreak! He would then know how it feels and possibly be open for real to giving and receiving love!

Coz men can separate sex and emotions perfectly.

💯💯💯💯💯💯

Thank u

I'm right here as well.

Same here dear

Rita Asare Yes God!!!

Thank you for summing that up! Got it!

Love this!!

YES! Girl, I had to play it back! A word!

Very deep

This was excellent

Wow. Powerful

So glad your Mom taught you right! 💚

I couldn't agree more. A man waiting on me to call has already had his last conversation with me!

@@tavilibra7101 that's spot on. Hahaha. Preach!

Gosh! Queens must choose men that heal them

Thank you

All this is true and I experienced all this. Thanks Pastor Blakes for your biblical lectures and personal opinion! All praise is due to Allah.

Wonderful saying !!!

HA!!...

Wow, a powerful message to adhere to. Save yourself a lot of pain.

One deranged dude tried that with me, now he is pissed and devalues me that there are more beautiful woman out there anywy. What a CLOWN.

For coffee, even. 😔

As us women get older the dating pool gets tougher and tougher out here. Not lot options for us older women. You deal with alot damage men especially if there divorced. You meet men with all kind of crazy baggage.

I agree. Just was talking to my sister about that. You're right Queen

Human emotion has no age limits.

I agree.

Facts!

Yes that is my problem there are sexually interested/excited. It really isn't flattering anymore

😂 yep. Women need to know some men put women in categories . Is that simple.

@@kirk1007 then they put on a role

I have had that happened to me once , the relation lasted for 3 months . I was curious to wrapped my mind around it yet the guy saw our dates and memories as just excitement

07.14.2023 Rite ... & it may have been a while since he had sex. I asked my live-in b/f, (I was under the impression that we would get married) (thank God it never happened). Anyway, he kept putting me down for my weight. I finally responded; I was overweight when we got together, so why did you get with me?? His response was that he needed someone to help pay the bills & he wanted sex. .... There ya go. I went tnrough alot of heartache with him. Never physical, but much emotional, etc. Also had a man once that said we could get married, but if I gained weight, he would divorce me. Much heartache from him. Thank God we never married. 😐

Absolutely!!

Truth

Amen to that!

Not even if that man is your father or brother, mine love drama and want me to behave as their mother to spoil them.

We do Jesus on this channel not the Most High. 😒

Sis thats powerful statement pastor said!!!

I am sorry about the passing of your father. "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his faithful servant. Psalm 116:15

Thank you for the information 🙏

Praise GOD

I know that's right 😊

AIN'T HE THO.

It was told to me, as a child, that, I should not be married, or, have children. My godmother, wanted me to, go through school, get a college education. I went through school, then, college, but, it was the wrong choice of college, which, in turn, made my life, a living hell. Listen to the elders, even if, their not the one, you were, born from. They have, insight, the likes of which, you will never know!! I miss her, so very much!!

Amen ..Love his teaching..Thank you God I prayed asking for guide for I ever date or give by body to a another man

I know that’s right!! He is right on time!! 😃

I believe that when you said, "a man knows."

And a man acts on it gets his queen with love and respect Amen

What if my current so says he knows I'm the one...but hes still a man Child?!🤔 I feel like I'm putting too much work into telling him how to get his life together before we can get married

@@SunnySummer777 if he's a man child, i.e., grown boy, he is just telling you what you want to hear to keep you around. Your intuition is telling you he's not the one for you.....listen. A king will be ready or will get ready on his own for his queen.

@@SunnySummer777 Girl I think u know what u need to. Trust your instincts.

Just saw a couple in their late 70s get married.

Sorry to hear this. My husband of 3r years pass away 3 years ago. I was 55 at the time. God told me not date without His permission So I haven't dated since. What you said is a little shocking to me because I've always felt that older women don't get played because they know the game and don't fall for but a woman at any age van be played because of need for love. So thanks for saying this so that I can be on the watch for the older players!

@ Taffy... May the Lord keep you and abide in you. May He alone feel you up and give you all the love, confidence and comfort you need. Your emotional health and healing is there and certainly the Holy Spirit will comfort and shower you with reassurance....it is well and will get better... Day by day!

@@genevawebster6696 a narcissist is very good at what they do and they are everywhere. God is protecting you...continue to wait on His direction

So true

So true 23 to 38 waisted and caused so much pain healing is hard from this. I wish I could have those years back. Spend them with a good man that never would have betrayed or left me and the children. Never would have abused us. Hope young ppl will see our comments.

@@buzzingbee9499 sorry you went through what you went through. Work on your healing. It takes time, but do it for yourself and your children. You deserve to be at peace and they deserve a happy mom. You're wiser now and it's never too late to meet a decent man. ❤🙏

Same. I'm 37. Was too broken to recognize true love. Pushed him away to chase men who played games with me. Now I'm old and wrinkled up and MUCH too old to hope for a husband and babies apparently. I get depressed from time to time because i see pregnant people and wish that i had been smarter when i was young. Now I'll surely die alone...

@@VeeDizzle83 you're 37 years old now? Not to dismiss what you wrote at all, but if you're 37 years old now, I just want you to know that you're not old at all. I'm sorry that you too have made poor choices in your past, but you're still alive and I feel it's never too late. You can still have kids at 37. My mom had her first child at 38. Don't beat yourself up. You know better today. I wish you continued healing.

@@VeeDizzle83 you cant be wrinkly yet at 37. Screw these men we need to get out and do things we enjoy and he will come along💞 atleast I hope so. So depressing

Swag never impressed me. Never! 🙄

What is a swag in dating?

Wishing Blessings To You As Well Sister❤

Don’t regret a single thing that has happened to you because it makes you who you are today. You’ve endured the pain, you’ve learned the lesson, heal and move forward. God bless you along your journey

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I’ve spent roughly the same timeframe trying to please him on all fronts. We simply had no knowledge about this back then. It’s imperative not to blame ourselves for what we didn’t know; that he was the problem and they didn’t know either and to my understanding they cannot be healed. They think it’s every one else who is flawed. FREEDOM FROM THIS HAS COST A LOT OF US TOOOOOOO MUCH ANGUISH. I pray for you and you pray for me and let us watch God change things! Amen

Be kind to yourself and accepting and look at the future with infinite possibilities. ❤️🙏

Narcissist have many faces, your not stupid, your just a human with a heart! I was married to a Narcissist too and man I was taken on a demonic diabolic ride with a evil clown. It’s hard but with Jesus Christ you can overcome.

God Will Continue To Bless You More Pastor You Open My Eyes.

On point

So true, I regret not listening my intuition and my gut feeling.

Often times i have ignored the feeling and a year later wished I had taken to the hills.

Ditto....Amazing teaching ,why oh why did I not know this when I was in my youth or joined the church sooner........exchange your body for dinner 🍽 is dinner equivalent to your body

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That’s part of what landed me here. My father is a misogynist. He thinks even as I sit here pregnant I should be minding my weight and that I only exist to look nice for men and have to make a certain amount of money and own the right things…. He used to abuse my mother. I ended up in an entanglement with a narcissistic pimp oddly enough. I had to go through some hell before I went to therapy and saw my childhood for what it was. The root of my pain and the root of never feeling good enough. He told me I wasn’t from the time I was a little girl.

Dear sister, in response to your statement I am, full of joy, and expectation to hear that you are in a new journey in your life. The beginning and releasing of tears of hurt, disappointments, abandonment, and not having or knowing the gifts of a father to his daughter. "The Father Daughter Talk." Is from the Father of the Most High. The servant man of God hearing the voice of the Lord... We are blessed when we walk in our purpose.

Me too

Real Talk Sis💕 I Agree👀👌💯

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Yes sir

The truthhhhhh

❤️

My point exactly

And we need to run the other way when approached by them

I blame music industry on that

Definitely!!!!

Everyone used to tell me that my standards were too high, but here I am, with the man of my dreams getting treated the way I knew I deserved, happier than I ever dreamed possible. Yes, I met him late in life, but it was all in God's timing!

God is So Good!!! 💕

That part just came on and I hollered 😂😂😂😂

😂

Why is it so hard to listen to that inner voice?

When a king conquers a woman isn't a woman giving up her self worth standards and values when we give in to a persistent bnb of a man .

@Dominique e I think I have to do that

God has so much more and better to give you💕

Pole..

What are you doing with him.. you date for future if he doesnt look well packaged for the future RUN... 20yrs ,, pls focus in building yourself first

Girl... You can do ALL things through God who strengthens you. Believe that u can and u will. Chase after God...and not chasing after all manner of "men of God"... Chase after knowing the word of God.... Jesus Christ is the way, truth and life...and we know Jesus Christ is the word...so The Word = The truth!!!!! You are a blessed woman. BELIEVE IT!!! If u need to talk...hit me up.

Agree

Or i do things that makes me fall more in love with myself

Is very true dear. He has made me go back to my king n trash d clown.

May Allah guide you on the right path.Inshallah

As I see it, a man’s heart is equivalent to a woman’s body. For a man’s treasure is in his heart!! To me, a man should offer his heart with a wedding ring that alone is equivalent to woman’s body.

B6KGD

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RC Blakes Every word that u speak is the total truth ..💯 🙌 ..U are the best 👌...

Thank for helping my doughter Love you.

God bless you may the Lord keep on 🙏 you, you're great.God is very happy,with you .

Amen sis!

Same!!!! Men & women. Folks are sleeping on Pastor Blakes.

Oh

I’ve been hooked since last yr

@@lisae3357 I am too. I even bought his Queenology book just to be supportive.

Glad your spreading the message to others. God bless you! Womens and Mens need to see these videos.

Glad you got out hope you doing alright

I was never much into marriage, but kept meeting guys who were. Met one who wanted to get married after only a few months...big red flags, right?! I thought so too, after all , my intuition was telling me no ( i never was in love with him), but then had a dream, which i thought was God telling me that this was my husband... and i thought that he seemed like a decent guy that i could learn to love and have a deep friendship with....little did i know, it was the devil's advisory, coming for my soul...like you, i realized i made a mistake, but because i married in the church and gave my word to God, i thought i had to stay. Spent most of my married life crying, depressed and eventually angry. This man told me from the beginning, that is, after we got married, that he was most important person, what he did, said, had, was more than anything i was doing, saying or had. This man had no empathy, sympathy, love, didnt listen to any advice from me, expected sex on demand, never said 'thank you', 'im sorry', 'i was wrong'...the blame i put on myself for allowing this behavior , i certainly was intelligent enough to have ended it years ago...so, why do we allow it? I would say, i didnt know the bible well enough to have known my self worth. It was after getting a divorce (after 34 yrs of that misery) and having gone thru a following failed relationship that brought me to this site. Pastor Blakes has been a true God send when making me face my reality. I hope to someday have a Godly relationship with a man, but first need to be ok with myself. Hope you can find the happiness you need and deserve also! 🙌

@@latoyajones2733 Just wanted to say thank u for hoping I’m doing well👍🏻 I am now going to b three years into being free of that Monster😊 It’s been a very tumultuous journey but well worth it. I’ve been with my daughter n her kind husband who took me in and endured this process with me. Im laughing and socializing once again and recapturing who I was before that nightmare situation began 40 yrs ago. I’ve lost 25 lbs, changed my hairstyle and remade myself over from the inside out! I feel confident and very happy with the REAL ME😊 Most of all I give credit to my God for being there 24/7 holding my hand and guiding me through the storm. I didn’t do it on my own, nor by myself, but with faith in God and the information that Pastor Blake’s and others on KZfaq 🙏🏼 Never give up on yourself. I’d you can endure all the abuse a toxic man handed out to oneself... one can certainly love oneself and recover because there’s no harm in a healthy relationship with oneself👊🏻😍 I hope u too are well and free if you were in a toxic relationship or marriage?🙏🏼

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Thank GOD you got out! May God continue to heal and restore you! 🙏💕🙌

Ladies we to need to wake up

Amen to that

Praying for you

@@latoyajones2733 You are going to be ok

I prayer God send you someone to rescue you from this self destructive cycle. Keep prayering.🙏

Therapy, you have to purge the psychological trauma from childhood.

Charoletta77, you will come out of this stronger and will continue to grow in your journey. Keep connected with your spiritual sisters, keep striving to grow and your king will find you. Praying for your complete wholeness.

Simps are simple

Appreciate your wisdom

Substance = Integrity

Same here! 8 months because I rushed. Was just getting a out of a relationship and I allowed this man to convince me that we should date. We started off great and now I barely see him.

Because women are more emotional. Men knows what they want outrightly and will never compromise their self-worth. Never desperate nor gullible like women, so men advice might not be much. Women need to be thaught, learn and unlearn those desperate moves.

I agree!! He could teach a lot boys how to become men and should definitely do videos for males.

I remember Pastor Blakes once stating that men are the givers of pain and women are the receivers of that pain. I believe that God is using Pastor b l a k e s to help a lot of women heal from the relationship pain and mistrust that is given to them by men. However I do believe that many men may not listen to another man if videos are presented because men's ego like to get in the way of listening to good sound wisdom that corrects them and help them 2 grow. I'm not saying men won't listen to Pastor Blake's videos but it may take some time for them to adjust and listen, only those men with hearts that are open to change will probably really listen. Don't @ me because it's just an opinion that I'm giving. Have a great day!

TAILOR TEE very well said

@@tailortee4732 you have men who need this too. Sometimes they really don't know how to treat a woman...they need it

Thank you God for pastor Blake

Do the kings you describe really exist in society?

Yes

So true...blessings to you sister.

@@debraafriday from. Just back in to say I found the Godly one. Welp, he found me.🤭. We got a connection without Sex. Not that until marriage. We going out to eat tomorrow. So yes I thought it and now it's happening once I left the CLOWNS alone.🤗