HOW TO PROPERLY CHOOSE A MAN by RC Blakes
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@anabautista8071 Жыл бұрын
1. Distinguish between the man you can help and the one you can't. 2. Talk about his life story. Observe how he handles success and loss. 3. Is he healing? (a. He recognises that he's not sovereign so he prays. b. He surrenders to God. c. He's working to sanctify his life. d. He processes anger properly. e. He has an optimistic view of life.) *Anger management; *Transparency in conversations; *How he manages to stay even in good and bad times. *How he treats others in less advantageous positions. *His conversations. *Is he motivated? 4. Is he deep enough to accommodate you? *A man who accommodates (values) you will always make your life better (i.e. will improve your life). *Does he have the emotional intelligence to learn you? *Does he have the consistency to allow you to let down your guard and relax? *Is he secure enough to not be intimidated by your strengths and successes? *Is he wise enough to recognize your contribution if you never made a dime? *Can he teach and intrigue you in conversations? *Does his vision excite you? 5. Does he want you? *He waits for you. *He accepts you. *He needs you. *He treasures you. 6. What is the foundation of his self-esteem? *God's definition of him; *His awareness of his own future and value *His evidence of progression towards his God-ordained destiny.
@oyediabenin5159 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the copious notes. This is a great summary of the video
@Blossom480 Жыл бұрын
❤ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾well put together summary thank you
@lizamarikko Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this note! So helpful.
@donnastotts6816 Жыл бұрын
Wow...that's good
@miahadid4119 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@theodoracarter2515 Жыл бұрын
Wow! A little boy’s mother wakes him up, a young man’s alarm clock wakes him up; But a grown man Is Awaken By Purpose!!! I Love This Bishop , you Better Teach!!!!
@chatsonthematwithedrence3910 Жыл бұрын
Awaken by purpose is huge
@denisemyers733 Жыл бұрын
So on point. I use to wonder why I see so many grown boys that’s in their 40,50, and Beyond that. They lack purpose in their lives.
@darawatkis7084 Жыл бұрын
This message resonates with Me sooo much. Taking notes while I heal ❤️🩹I’m going to be well informed moving forward. Thank you🙏🏽☺️
@dtanner70 Жыл бұрын
Just because he can afford you, doesn’t mean he value you ❤️
@trayshana Жыл бұрын
My God my God... Deep
@striblingy Жыл бұрын
I learned this one the hard way!
@Giftis2sing Жыл бұрын
@@striblingy Me too!! My last relationship!
@Ross_Sandoval Жыл бұрын
I know you gear this towards the female perspective but I've been reverse engineering in order to reflect on who I need to be as a man. Thank you for sharing your wisdom
@simonespencer2244 Жыл бұрын
Praise Yahweh for that sir, may He reward you exceedingly above for your diligence.🙏🏾
@lovelyonedenise7402 Жыл бұрын
That's awesome Ross! Good job!
@sharonroseman5918 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your continued growth
@JennyGaston Жыл бұрын
He was speaking 🗣️ to me. "If he's a broken man he can only 💔 break you", 👈🏾that part
@Giftis2sing Жыл бұрын
That’s the part that hit home for me!! 💔❤️🩹 Broken but healing!
@michellegullette12 Жыл бұрын
I’m not a religious woman but I have gained so much knowledge from your channel. Your firm but non-judgmental approach is what I need sometimes to keep me on track. You remind me of my value and how to continue building myself as a woman so that when my time comes and I meet my husband, I will be bringing my best self. Thank you!
@RCBlakesJr. Жыл бұрын
What a compliment. Thank you 😊
@doreen8855 Жыл бұрын
Very well said mam. I could feel that and I agree pastor Blake's channel and message is a blessing to me and my daughters life he is the bomb.😇🥰👍
@rogers5622 Жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. I have learned so much about how to look at relationships.
@ultimateoptimist5217 Жыл бұрын
Jesus wasn't religious. Please get to know him. He wants a relationship with you. Get in his word ....you will never go astray.
@rrnn6472 Жыл бұрын
@@ultimateoptimist5217 Yes - not religion, but relationship! 🎯👏
@Imperfectlybeautiful8 Жыл бұрын
R.C. Blakes, you’re more of a father to some of us than our own fathers. So grateful for your obedience and all that you continue to pour into our lives. I thank God for you and your ministry. God bless you 🤍 Ever since i’ve started listening to you, my outlook has changed significantly!!
@doreen8855 Жыл бұрын
💯💯🌹🌹🙏🙏😇❣️👍
@RCBlakesJr. Жыл бұрын
Thank you sooo much.🙏🏽♥️😊
@October3074 Жыл бұрын
Yes, he's like a father 2 me and he's only 10 years older than me.
@annetteprince9615 Жыл бұрын
🥰🥰🥰💯❤❤🧡💛
@lakeshiawilliams8649 Жыл бұрын
Well said...I agree.
@patricescott922 Жыл бұрын
At this stage in my life I am grateful for God' s protection in not permitting any of my previous relationships to culminate in a marriage. Not only were those men not the right men for me but I also wasn't ready to be a wife. I am on a journey of actualizing my life's purpose.
@KJ1965Prime Жыл бұрын
This is golden. I needed this checklist before I married my husband. The checklist I was given by my parents was basically trade/education/employment.. no where on the list was emotional health
@keepthechange1 Жыл бұрын
Your parents gave you what they had. In their time, emotional health was not heard of. Fathers barely said I Love you. They felt that keeping the lights on and food on the table was demonstrative of Love. So many people nail their parents to the cross for what they didn’t give or teach. Could you have learned of emotional well being on your own prior to getting married? Why are your marriage wins or fails placed on the shoulders of your parents? You have far more resources available than your parents during their prime. I’m perplexed.
@cfcameron7 Жыл бұрын
@@keepthechange1 I agree with what you said sometimes we don't listen to what parents. Say any way sometimes even when parents give us advice we don't take it. And in the end we are the ones who say I do we can't blame anyone for our choices we make in life
@mealsbymilan1049 Жыл бұрын
Ohhhhh this is good good 🤌🏾 sheeeeshhhh
@Heyu7her3 Жыл бұрын
@@keepthechange1 Ok I was nodding until the middle of your comment. Parents actually aren't "nailed to the cross" enough! SOOOO much of what we deal with as adults are traumas that were developed in childhood from our relationships with caregivers. Many caregivers don't feel accountable either; some are remorseful and want to heal, thankfully. I think if people really really realized how fragile (and how expensive) children are, they would not be as quick to have them. You can have a middle-class, two-parent upbringing and still be traumatized because you weren't nurtured a particular way.
@keepthechange1 Жыл бұрын
@@Heyu7her3 I don’t disagree with you. Trauma is real; I don’t minimize that. I spoke on behalf of the parents who did their best, according to their upbringing. I don’t give a pass to anyone who traumatizes and abuses their children. There is a lot of healing that has to happen. It’s not a black or white issue. This happens in all families. Some parents are horrible because their parents were horrible to them. It’s a vicious cycle.
@shmeikahall4809 Жыл бұрын
“Masculinity is stable and reliable” That statement brings understanding and wisdom to me as one who is the primary custodian & teacher to my son.
@RCBlakesJr. Жыл бұрын
Always demand he be responsible and follow through on his commitments. Tell him why you’re holding him to this standard- MEN are stable and reliable.
@redjewel83 Жыл бұрын
I am so fortunate to have found this page. I'm 39 years old and I wish I had this advice growing up. I've realized I've settled for less... it's time to pick myself up and move forward.
@cfcameron7 Жыл бұрын
Amen thank you Lord for your wisdom thank you Lord. Thank. You pastor
@doreen8855 Жыл бұрын
Girl I'm wit you sis🌹😇🙏🦋💯
@lafemme8 Жыл бұрын
It's never too late. I discovered this channel last year at 39 and 40 now and learned so much between him and Tony Gaskins and Coach Rod and personal therapy. I'm ready to properly date now.
@terrellsams1529 Жыл бұрын
Me and you both frfr!!!
@Jazmincortez_ Жыл бұрын
so grateful for how much you pour into us! I am 21 years old and this has helped me so much!! Thank you!
@RCBlakesJr. Жыл бұрын
I’m just grateful that such a young woman like yourself is hearing me. 🙏🏽😊
@Jazmincortez_ Жыл бұрын
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@bonafydb Жыл бұрын
Amen! If only I had this in-depth insight at your age, I would’ve dogged major bullets. Grateful for Pastor Blakes! 🙌🏽❤️
@donnaw8279 Жыл бұрын
@@bonafydb Same
@donnaw8279 Жыл бұрын
I'm am so glad you found this early in life. 🙏🏽
@curlyisconfident Жыл бұрын
Pastor my husband is coming soon - I can feel it! Thank you for your teachings. I’ve grown so much and I’m excited about the future so much ❤
@lisarichardson8634 Жыл бұрын
My Husband is coming...I Love It!!!!!
@valishaedwards3947 Жыл бұрын
AMAZING!!!!! My 15 yr old daughter got in the car while I was listening; I started to stop video and watch later. It was so good I decided to let her listen. I decided the world is giving her information. Why not let RC Blake give her Godly information. She listened was repeating the W-want you A-accept you N-Need yo T- Treasure you This morning asked on the way to school if I would send her the message. Yea!!! She wants to share with her friends!!!!!!!!!
@asha4189 Жыл бұрын
Love this! We must feed our young girls wisdom to help them maneuver through the world
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
Our young girls are being bombarded with lies straight from the pit. It's horrific. Let her listen to RC!!! Teach her not to give her heart or body to anyone. To remain chaste. To value herself and to serve the Lord.
@Giftis2sing Жыл бұрын
Wonderful!!! 👏🏾👏🏾 I sure wish I had this type of teaching when I was their age!!
@danilaroche1156 Жыл бұрын
@@Giftis2sing Never too late to learn.
@lori6156 2 ай бұрын
You are a blessing to many sharing RC Blakes messages 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@seductruss Жыл бұрын
A grown man is awakened by purpose ❤️
@chakakhan982 Жыл бұрын
Some of us grew up with great father's that are no longer with us on this earth. For some of us, you've filled that void, that father role. When you speak, you reiterate a lot of the life and relationship advice my own father has taught me. You've also taught me many things my own father never got around to. Thank you for doing what you do. You are so valuable to so many.
@tanyadiego6778 Жыл бұрын
This list is solid advice I expected my Dad to teach me and he never did. I’m grateful for your guidance. Thank you Pastor Blakes.
@haggai3.477 Жыл бұрын
Ignorance is simply not knowing. Stupidity is not pursuing who knows.
@marcuswhite5867 Жыл бұрын
I know Pastor this is meant for the queen’s. But as a Man I appreciate this Lesson.
@tysonallen1293 Жыл бұрын
In other words am I capable of being his HELPMATE based on how he's already helping HIMSELF
@nancymuriithi8079 Жыл бұрын
I made that mistake for seven years of my life only to wake up to the reality that he has no interest in me! He said so with his own mouth not once ,when I asked him his mind. After seven years! I wish I had this message before that time but am thankful I got out of it and God is taking me to greater levels by His grace. Thank for your teachings they have changed me by the grace of God
@Berenicear Жыл бұрын
Every morning I watch you Pastor RC Blake’s! ❤️ I am grateful to have learned so much from you at a young age. I am preparing myself now before I’m married/ in a relationship
@RCBlakesJr. Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@LeonaBundy Жыл бұрын
YOU CANNOT GIVE A MAN A GRIND!!! Thank youuuuu!!!!!!!!
@passionsecrets Жыл бұрын
That hit my soul and is super deep. He said " the boss chick çame about when the boss brother stopped showing up for work." Dang that is super true and deep
@sheril.stuart2324 Жыл бұрын
.”…every man is not your size …” That’s a whole sermon.. Thank you, Sir for your teachings.
@sharonoloya Жыл бұрын
A grown man is awakened by PURPOSE!✨🙏🏿 Thank you so much Pastor, God bless you eternally.
@missr7449 Жыл бұрын
I sent this to my daughter and all of my single friends! This word was a blessing and a reminder of what I deserve as a woman. Thank you Pastor 😇
@seductruss Жыл бұрын
You can't give a man a grind ❤️
@ashajeremiahqw8775 Жыл бұрын
Monday’s are the best shows
@CharlotteReneeLocs Жыл бұрын
This was good to me. But the truth is, women can take these same principals and apply them to ensure that what we are looking for we are that thing within ourselves.
@RCBlakesJr. Жыл бұрын
CORRECT! I completely agree
@octavia7141 Жыл бұрын
Bishop I thank you so much for this message 🙏🏽. I never had a father or a uncle in my life to help me understand other men. I thank God for you because your messages and prayers 🙏🏽 have help me heal ❤️ from my brokenness. I've actually adopted you as my father and Bishop Samuel Blakes as my uncle in my mind. God bless you and your family 🙌🏽.
@bethventuresx8283 Жыл бұрын
To the ladies- develop your emotional intelligence to the sky high heavens so you only ever give your equals the time of day and you can actually recognise who can honour your capacity ✨
@FrankiesXpress Жыл бұрын
This message helped me so much! Last week I had a pastor pressuring me to marry him. Grant it I barely know him. I thought about this for weeks. I know crazy, but I was actually considering it. I’m 42 and have been waiting for 6 years. I thought well he is a man of God so why not. Long story short, it was just a business deal for him. He is looking for a church and the churches he is applying to he is turned down because he is not married. Thank you Jesus for Bishop Blake’s messages. Love this content. It is GREATLY needed!!!💜🧡❤️
@FrankiesXpress Жыл бұрын
@@LA-wv7gf I started not to, but I felt I had to! Bishop Blake’s teachings has taught me to pause and examine situations. ❤️
@aj-jt1we Жыл бұрын
RC Blake’s helping me make my standards so high I’m gonna be alone forever 😂 Nah but really thank you I need this❤
@sharriceowens913 Жыл бұрын
That's how I feel
@sharriceowens913 Жыл бұрын
But you gotta trust tmhs will send you someone
@aj-jt1we Жыл бұрын
@@sharriceowens913 totally what is tmhs ?
@sharriceowens913 Жыл бұрын
@@aj-jt1we the most highs
@Only1Nancy Жыл бұрын
I’ve said this a few times, if the beautiful talented Haley Berry can’t keep a man, how can the average woman? Then l am reminded of an elderly couple l once knew. This man only left his girlfriend, not even his wife, to attend church. I was their home health aid on Sundays. He would return from church and have ice cream with his lady and invite me to stay and join them. I knew l was in the presence of pure ❤️. She was disabled in a wheelchair, had hearing aids, could hardly see, no teeth, wore diapers and that man LOVED the ground she wheeled on! That’s why even in my mid fifties, l still have hope for finding that kind of love!
@amerokeewiya1320 Жыл бұрын
Haley Berry is average. Her being a so called “celebrity” doesn’t make her above having issues within herself. It doesn’t matter how beautiful you are.
@divinebeauty10 Жыл бұрын
Bless you, your wife and entire family. Blessings to your ministries. Because it has blessed me without me asking. It's the way of the Holy Spirit guiding me.
@VictoriasDAbomb Жыл бұрын
Yes!!
@CK-solutions Жыл бұрын
1. Discern between a man you can help, and a man you cannot 2. Observe how he handles success and loss - how stable is he with either? 3. Is he healing from life versus in denial? (a) recognises he's not sovereign and needs to pray (b) he's surrendered to God (c) working to sanctify his life (d) processing his anger, without wrath and doubting (e) optimistic view of life, without wrath and doubting (f) transparency in conversation (g) his energy makes you feel good (h) motivated in life 4. Is he deep enough to accommodate you? He will always improve your life. (a) emotional intelligence to learn you (b) consistent character and temperament, which allows you guard down and trust (c) secure enough not to be intimidated by your power and strength (d) is he wise enough to recognise your contribution if you never made a dime (e) can he teach and intrigue you in conversation? (f) does his vision excite you? 5. Does he want YOU? He will wait for you (a) He accepts you as you are (b) He needs you (c) He will treasure you as the prize, not himself 6. What is the foundation of his self-esteem? God's definition, rather than the world's. He recognises his own value.
@Vicki1951 Жыл бұрын
Wisdom would be good. I keep praying for wisdom and haven’t found an appropriate lifetime partner yet. But I’m still praying and I’m patient.
@vaclinciapounds8859 Жыл бұрын
Sams here! 💯
@sunsetstormx Жыл бұрын
I do believe the man is supposed to find the woman and then we're supposed to respond. As God heals our brokenness we will be able to discern the right one who is pursuing us and not pass them by looking for another man who does not know how to treat a woman.
@Vicki1951 Жыл бұрын
@@sunsetstormx I agree. I have had some approach and ask. But after speaking with them as RC suggests we do, I found they were not appropriate. I really appreciate his teachings and the wisdom he receives from the Holy Spirit.
@sunsetstormx Жыл бұрын
@@Vicki1951 it's better to find out right away then later on. We can't walk with blinders on eyes thinking this person is great. The more we know in the beginning then we can move on with our life and not waste our time. Or should I say God's time because if our lives belong to him then our time belongs to him also. 🙏🙏
@maricelg777 Жыл бұрын
@@sunsetstormx 🤍
@carterthegamernoob6128 Жыл бұрын
Bishop today a stranger called my phone because my phone pocket dial him. I prayed God told me to block him. I’m Greatful that I learned about broken Consciousness and desperation through your platform. Thank you 🙏🏼
@dianeoconnor7253 Жыл бұрын
Your theme song is the BOMB! THIS SONG IS A HIT IN MY BOOK! LOVE IT!!! WOW SIMPLY AMAZING!!!
@caramelmami7 Жыл бұрын
It's my new theme song for life, it's 🔥
@Student-hd9tq Жыл бұрын
Hi Bishop RC and family of Queens, and future Queens! I have been listening to RC for the last few years, approximately around 4 years. RC has educated me on the value of woman-hood, particularly, helped me see the value of myself as a woman. I trusted his insight, along with my spiritual beliefs, prayers, and faith, I was literally awakened. I am now Happily Married to a real King of a man, running a business, and working to fulfill all my dreams and purposes! God sends messengers, and I know that he has sent RC for me and to you'all. He can teach and coach, but we are the ones who has to receive and wake up! I did view a man's physical type as utter important, and the "ideal career for a man" but RC cleared that up to help me understand that the most important value of a husband is his willingness to love, protect, provide and honor me is the most important piece to desire of a husband. Although, I am fortunate to have a man I am attracted to, he was not my idral type. It's God send, and I was open to receive God's choice. GOD will provide to your situation, in time, with your attention to him and sacrifice. There has to be sacrifices made from us to receive as well, and sacrificing can start with putting our ego aside for type for honor & respect!
@Victory_365 Жыл бұрын
💡Being equally yoked. 35:24 Every man is not your size... There's nothing worse than paying a great price for something that's too small. 👈🏾👈🏾 That's good right there!
@flippyskyline4794 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr. & Mrs. Pastor Blakes, you bring hope in the world today, saving so many of us from the evils we never knew, unless we encountered it. Thank you so much for the Father Daughter talk you share with us all.
@janelleLee81 Жыл бұрын
This was everything!!!! I will follow every step because I've been on the other side where the trauma is...I'm tired of living like that! It's time to get serious about my own happiness and my peace. I'm ready!!
@tammyolson1332 Жыл бұрын
I love your sermons Reverend. You give me inspiration and guidance that I didn't get growing up as the daughter of an alcoholic who physically abused my mother. At 50 something years old, I understand that I am where I am and that's okay. I do want you to know it's not only the sisters that need you. I believe it's all women can benefit from your fatherly guidance. Thank you.
@RCBlakesJr. Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tammy! This is so encouraging. In my opinion 50 something is a great place. 😊 Also, when I reference “sisters” I am not just thinking black women. I am actually seeing women of all backgrounds, ethnicities, nationalities and so on. The issues are 90% the same across the board. When I say sister, I do see you. 🙏🏽♥️😊
@tammyolson1332 Жыл бұрын
@@RCBlakesJr. Thank you! I live in Minnesota. I lived in Beaumont TX for a short time. I would love to come and see one of your sermons in person.
@maggiebryant3845 Жыл бұрын
Your ministry has an awesome graphic designer and production team!🤗
@opmine1563 Жыл бұрын
The logo is very well designed! ❤
@nknk7905 2 ай бұрын
I love this adage ‘bigger lid can cover smaller lid and not vice versa’. Great words of wisdom that speak volumes! I salute you Bishop RCBlakes!! Thanks for making us special Queens!!!
@Liz11124 Жыл бұрын
Pastor Blakes many men uses God to conquer you so you may think that they have the fear of God in their hearts but they are bad men. Thank you for all you are doing for us👍
@sanjananair1702 Жыл бұрын
1. Discern if he's a man you can help (fundamental character isn't something you can help him with - eg. Grind, values, love for u) 2. Question about his life - how he processes wins and losses (he should be pretty level headed) 3. Is he healing (prays n surrenders to God cuz he knows he isn't in control of life, process anger healthily and is optimistic) -Anger management -Transparency in conversation of losses too -Even headed in good n bad times -Empathy towards others -Energy ; how he makes u feel -Conversation ; move from past, facing present n focus on future - Is he Motivated 4. Deep enough to accommodate n value you - Emotional intelligence to learn u ; wht u like or not, wht triggers u n even make u so safe, u forget this trigger! - Consistent character to allow u to put down your guard n ease ur trust issues - Secure to not get intimidated by ur success - Wise to recognise ur contribution even if u dnt make money -Teach n intrigue u in conversation -Does his vision excite u cuz ur there to help 5. Does he want you -Waits for u, doesn't rush u -Accepts u n loves u as u are -Needs you; where u fit in his life -Treasures n cherishes u as the prize (he needs respect but doesn't view himself as the prize) 6. What is the foundation of his self esteem -God's definition of man -Awareness of his own future n value -Progress toward his destiny; no comparison
@sharron8766 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for recording notes💕
@aaloftsdesign Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@marywilliams3520 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@qesther1241 Жыл бұрын
At a certain age, I expect a man to have at the very least a 401k growing. In his 20s-35, it’s ok if he is still growing and owns nothing. But after that, even if he’s divorced and starting over, I expect him to have his own place (or condo), and be solid in his career and, yeh, that 401k and some kind of health insurance. Because you can’t be 40 and have nothing in savings for the future or have no pension plan.
@amerokeewiya1320 Жыл бұрын
Yes you can. It’s called investing. Money is called currency for a reason to constantly flow, not to be stalled losing value by saving.
@senorasolitaria7908 Жыл бұрын
I'm tired of hearing that women choose men based on superficial qualities, when you see so many women taking whatever they can get or refusing to leave a guy because she's afraid she won't find anyone else. I see a lot of women who just don't want to be alone, so they accept just about anyone. Even at 12 when I started looking at boys, I was judging them based on our compatibility. Still, I've never met a man who has met my basic list of qualities. What qualities? Honest, faithful, respectful at all times, in control of his emotions, well-mannered, reliable, manages his life responsibly, easy for me to get along with, playful, witty and intelligent. Tell a woman this and she will understand, tell a man and he will say I've been looking in the wrong place for 30 years, because heeee is a good man. Hmm.
@catcat9582 Жыл бұрын
I am also tired of hearing that. I do think both genders will stay with someone toxic in the beginning if they are attractive and therefor have the halo effect. I've always heard of and known women to date down because the thought process is that the man will be grateful to be with someone beautiful. The reality is he is resentful. He also starts believing if he gets one 9/10 he can get another.
@barbarabreaux8341 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate the energy, information, I do not care how much advice or information anyone gets from this man! Your life does not go the way you plan, if you do not have the living experience! Your answers will not make sense! to any questions you have! to any unhealthy situation!
@salliehes5053 Жыл бұрын
“No indeed!” 😂 Sorry Bishop, but every woman who is or ever has been a stay at home mom just giggled at your expense! But in all seriousness- thank you for using your voice to share this point - my 10 years as a stay at home mom of three was demeaned and diminished at every turn - it’s nice to have a Godly man give that validation ❤️
@joycewatt8289 Жыл бұрын
Yesssss!!!! An angry man is a dangerous man! I have experienced it first hand. It’s utterly terrifying. But for the grace of God. Ladies, PLEASE do not overlook this point! An ex could have taken my life but….God. The Bible warns of keeping company with an angry person. During premarital counseling with my husband one of the questions our pastor asked us was, “have we seen each other angry?” He said it’s one thing to get angry and maybe raise your voice. It’s another thing to be throwing pots and pans and punching holes in the wall when you get angry. I could not agree more! And to the men, an angry woman will wreck hell on earth in your life so please beware as well. Thank you RC Blakes. Good teaching.
@purplepads4814 Жыл бұрын
Tuning in from Nigeria 🇳🇬.. Your ministry has blessed me. I know I am the prize 🏆 and I am doing relationship well like a pro
@alexandreachislum216 Ай бұрын
Before arriving he should have already had the things job vision and purpose if he doesn't keep it moving i needed that
@michelleshaw4969 Жыл бұрын
This message was so ON POINT. Family tell me I am too picky, but you confirmed it. And my son is on the right path. He is accomplishing those things you mentioned a man should have and I am going to share this with him. Thank you for ALL you do.
@breeze6103 Жыл бұрын
This conversation was absolute gold 🥇👑and absolute 🔥🔥🔥 “A broken man who does not know he is broken can only serve to break you!” ‘woman who don’t approach dating from a cerebral process, end up with men who cannot accommodate their greatness.’ ‘Adam realised that Eve was the fit for the void in his soul’ Thank you 🙏🏾 Bishop ❤ so appreciate you
@uzzysrealityhomes5311 Жыл бұрын
I’m currently doing my masters in Rcblakes Queens Academy now
@ranaehawkins4536 Жыл бұрын
Man of God I thank you and your Lovely Queen, Lisa for this word and for your willingness in preparing our young Queens.!!! I am 65 years old and became a Widow at 44. I never remarried, but God is now preparing me for his best for the rest of my life. I needed this word at 27 when I first got married and I need it now. It will propel me to the place of being satisfied in the wait and for me that is God's best for me in this season and the next . ✋ Praise God for he has been my husband for all these years and he is preparing me for the next chapter. If it is a new husband. I will be ready. God bless ❤ 🙏
@nellymiller7669 11 ай бұрын
That's so wise- my former husband was always low and depressed because things didn't work out the way he wanted them to.... and he couldn't control his emotions at all. It was a mess... I tried to balance him for years like a child and I finally quit ....
@MsDawn2dusk Жыл бұрын
You are an absolute God-Send. I feel like I got all the way dressed, got in my car, & drove to church at 8 o'clock at night. Bless you for your gracious leadership. God bless you infinitely 🙌🏾😇🙏🏽💟🏆🎯🏆😇😇😇
@anjizignstudios500 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Pastor Blakes and Lady Blakes for your ministry. I thank God for your gifts❤️
@cindytroyer7205 Жыл бұрын
Pilot's are good like that...maintaining a cool, calm demeanor making you feel safe.
@imanijx Жыл бұрын
Thank you Bishop RC! I'm 26 now, been watching since age 20 back in uni. Very grateful for you
@imanijx Жыл бұрын
"Is he healing" - so powerful!!! Important to be with a man who is doing the work!
@lisabrown2965 Жыл бұрын
Learn to be content and not happy. That really Spoke to my heart As I patently wait for God to send me a mate.I want to be in a healthy relationship and not just a situation!!
@dr.deloreshenderson2458 Жыл бұрын
This Teaching Was Profound! Excellent Sir.
@mariagrady2924 Жыл бұрын
My mother taught me that all of us have different characters an personalities. I see what You mean about helping a man. Thank You Pastor Blakes.
@BlessedNatural Жыл бұрын
He has empathy for everyone but me
@evaphillips2102 Жыл бұрын
I found you right out of my first utter heartbreak. I was 21 and had zero support from my family who I was living with, zero idea of how to pick up the broken pieces of my identity and move on. At 22 I met a boy who loves me and now at 23 he’s told me that he wants to marry me and I’m watching this just to confirm I found the right one ❤
@bethventuresx8283 Жыл бұрын
Very happy for you! The same thing happened to me as well. 21 was my first and only extreme heartbreak, ages 21-23 I went through what felt like hell and dating was not working out..now at 24, through learning and finding worth, I found him. I’m so happy for you, I know exactly what you’re talking about.
@evaphillips2102 Жыл бұрын
@@bethventuresx8283 it feels great doesn’t it?😊
@razbliss3367 Жыл бұрын
Thank you the word was very hopeful.
@monaedawson4523 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for everything you put out. I've been single for a while. Most times I'm content while still desiring my husband. This year was crucial to have strong males in my life as I almost allowed someone TOXIC into my life. God bless you 🙏🏾🥰🤗
@caridadacosta3393 10 ай бұрын
I am so blessed to have found your Chanel, my girlfriend send me a link when I need it the must, GOD answer my prayer 🙏 Hallelujah, glory to GOD that have give you so much knowledge 🙏❤️
@mhenderson3407 6 ай бұрын
Solid advice! Thank you so much! And thanks also for acknowledging the contribution women make to a home…outside of bringing home a paycheck.
@edytadelfel249 Жыл бұрын
Nothing more beautiful and healthy then listing to those nourishing conversations! Bless
@lindsay3043 Жыл бұрын
This video shows me that if you find a man Centred in Christ you win. The last point is pure gold. God Bless Bishop and this message 🕊️🙏🕊️
@faithwhite73 Жыл бұрын
This is so good. Greatly appreciated
@MTortillaKitt Жыл бұрын
Powerful, thank you! ❤
@VCurtis7 Жыл бұрын
Awesome Live! Great information! Thanks Bishop Blakes!
@MegaMarquette Жыл бұрын
Such a blessed message! Thank you!
@ukchill8 9 ай бұрын
I heard once that on dating apps you find so many men who are just looking for help. Because they are lost in life. True, and so sad, do not fall for it, it will be hurtful for you, you can not and you should not build him. Red flags are there from the beginning. 😢 Your videos are on replay, RC, thank you ever so much. 🙏🏽
@revivaltime3373 8 ай бұрын
Our duty is to serve with a servant heart making sure its guarded as we are told by our Leader Jesus. The end is near and the more men we can minister to especially on dating apps, the seeds are sown..and these men are revealed the truth and interceeded in Prayer by us soldiers in Christ. They shd be lead by us to make Jesus the Lord of their lives.. We need to take action in every opportunity we can.
@darcybenson4108 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your wisdom!❤
@nikkih9424 Жыл бұрын
Looking forward to watch and listen to tonight’s episode. It would be nice if I could stream live so I can comment as he talks.
@marthalopez6662 Жыл бұрын
Thank you RC Blakes Jr. for all you and Lisa do 🙏🏼
@itzaliadenizard1933 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your words of wisdom 🙏 Many Blessings 🙏
@kellylittles3799 Жыл бұрын
That was good. Thank you 🙏🏽
@shimmeringlight8929 Жыл бұрын
You’re Amazing!!! So BleSsed to have found your work.
@aramesh5557 Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for sharing these valuable messages.
@RaeBaeLove Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the word ❤
@bee67371 Жыл бұрын
Powerful! Thank you sir.
@Bishopbutterscotch Жыл бұрын
Thank you SO MUCH for thissss!!! ❤🎉
@antonia5997 Жыл бұрын
God bless you Pastor Blakes.
@pd9116 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. This was very meaningful.
@jessicabaker1069 Жыл бұрын
This was so good!! Thank you
@zabrinatheteacher Жыл бұрын
Great teaching. Thank you 🙏🏼
@preciousdavis1553 Жыл бұрын
This is good stuff. Powerful!🙏🏾
@ayannalewis8470 Жыл бұрын
Blessing pastor RC drakes
@jamillahroberson8979 Жыл бұрын
This was EXCELLENT information, thank you 🙏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@patrinaedwards6786 Жыл бұрын
Supernatural touch of wisdom with relational decisions Amen ‼️
@roshellfrancisjones Жыл бұрын
This was so good I listened 3 times to make sure my notes were accurate. Thank you!🙏🏾
@brendadavis9365 Жыл бұрын
That's good teaching Bishop!
@tanishiaharris1436 Жыл бұрын
You truly are a blessing to a lot of women out here 🙏🏽
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