SEVEN KEYS TO A WOMAN TESTING A MAN by RC Blakes

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SEVEN KEYS TO A WOMAN TESTING A MAN by RC Blakes
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@QueenSamiyah 2 жыл бұрын

When a man says " you ask too many questions" I'm out

@royalgimper 2 жыл бұрын

"Marriage is not the death of me, but the birth of we."

@Realness4sho 2 жыл бұрын

Beautifyl!!

@TracyTranquility 2 жыл бұрын

This is beautiful!

@radaka Жыл бұрын

Yes that sounds beautiful and all but in most cases it's not true.

@aidaortiz7219 9 ай бұрын

Yes 🎉✅

@joycewatt800 2 жыл бұрын

“Lust gets bored.” That’s a word of truth right there!

@fizahaque 2 жыл бұрын

I actually needed to pray about my situation rn and I sent this to one of my girls. She JUST texted me and I also JUST read this comment while the video was playing and the pastor said the exact same sentence. If those aren’t signs, than idk what is.

@Realness4sho 2 жыл бұрын

Real Raw Truth Here Buddy!

@cathymcquade2680 2 жыл бұрын

You teach all the things that I wish my father had taught me. I'm 51 years young, from Delaware. Divorced after 3 decades from a narcissist, went right into bad relationships because I felt SO lonely. I was the breadwinner, made the decisions, gave to everyone else, was a people pleaser and just so tired of being the leader. I should have stopped to heal, to learn myself and the results of my childhood trauma. You have helped me to start over again, to listen to my intuition, to make wise decisions to end relationships that aren't evenly yoked. THANKYOU for being an example of a godly man. MAY Adonai bless you and your beautiful wife!

@nnedwards3260 2 жыл бұрын

⚘

@lafemme8 2 жыл бұрын

It's never too late to learn. I know women older than you who still haven't learn. I'm spending time now healing and getting over my childhood trauma. This is best I've ever felt...single and growing.

@victoriavitoroulis3273 2 жыл бұрын

Be gentle w yourself .. we didn’t have this education , information or spot light on these characters . We didn’t realized are behaviors are from our childhood wounds , and theirs predators that feed off childhood wounds .. married 40 yrs w covert narc . We need pastors videos shown in high schools … bc these narcs are the real pandemic . 😵‍💫

@nursemelody45 2 жыл бұрын

Hallelujah!!! My story too

@makebaramsey4121 2 жыл бұрын

God Gotcha 😇

@anabautista8071 2 жыл бұрын

1. Prove his self - control. 2. Prove his servant's heart by expressing your needs and watching his response. 3. Prove his synergy with you by sharing your dreams with him. 4. Prove his authenticity through questions. 5. Test his love by his capacity to rest with you. 6. Is he learning your love language? 7. Can I please him?

@Realness4sho 2 жыл бұрын

Exactly why i'm still totally Celibate, Single Not Lonely and Happy. Amen

@GodSent505 2 жыл бұрын

⁰

@shawtrikajoseph7464 2 жыл бұрын

✨🌸💕

@khloe38 2 жыл бұрын

6:42 13:10 1. 15:14 2. 27:49 3. 34:24 4. 43:30 5. 52:10 6. 55:03 7. 56:04

@vickiepope8428 2 жыл бұрын

I Totally Agree...

@rhondawalker2020 2 жыл бұрын

My niece who is an RN and her boyfriend is an attorney. (They are married now.) They are both very Christian. The would always meet for every date and leave separately and go to their respective residences. They were never alone together and were not tempted. They were both virgins until their wedding night. They were both in their 30s when they got married! It worked! It can be done. They dated for 4 years. Great video as always!

@Kashmir-lt4cx 8 ай бұрын

@rhondawalker amazing!

@heezy888 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this testimony! I hope they are still successful and doing well! Esp with very difficult careers

@JoannA-sweetly Ай бұрын

4 years? Um, way to long for clean, holy young people..

@Medietos 24 күн бұрын

Did they date structuredly, in stages, starting by dating several, platonically?

@galejordan4570 Жыл бұрын

"Just because a man is a good man, doesn't mean he is a good man for you" AMEN, I am 3 months out of a toxic relationship with a "good man", who was controlling and manipulative, had low self esteem and projected all of his insecurities into our relationship.

@shirleygrenade7732 Жыл бұрын

@zee-aaliyah 6 ай бұрын

Doesn’t sound like a good man then.

@user-rx7uh9mg4f Ай бұрын

Dated a man like that. He was “good” from afar but extremely difficult to deal with up close.

@JoannA-sweetly Ай бұрын

Not good. He displayed goodness but was evil inside, this is called a snake…..

@kendrajones16 2 жыл бұрын

I think it’s so funny when he says “I gotta go I’ve spent too much time talking” and then I immediately go and watch two or three more 50 minute videos 😂 I just love the wisdom that spews from him. 🙌🏾

@user-xc4ky8le5y Жыл бұрын

Lol!! I do the exact same thing! 50 minutes of divine directions! My soul is being nourished & the Holy Spirit is confirming. Thank you RC Blake’s

@kayjaycee75 10 ай бұрын

Me too! Lol

@aidaortiz7219 9 ай бұрын

Same here! 😅

@miolana3777 2 жыл бұрын

I wish.....I wish I had heard this one year ago to save me the pressure of having sex with someone who ended up being the worst monster I had ever met. I pray that God will heal my heart, mind and spirit and that I will be able to forgive myself and move forward.

@greaterishe7197 2 жыл бұрын

He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Psalm 147:3

@pjh3839 2 жыл бұрын

You’re not the only one. I did this too I am a witness GOD will heal you. Forgive yourself and forgive the person.

@KrystleLaughter 2 жыл бұрын

I put up with so much in relationships because I didn't understand my worth. I know better now. Thank you for this teaching.

@nursemelody45 2 жыл бұрын

Amen me too!!!

@beloved1694 2 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!!

@janellamurphy4212 2 жыл бұрын

Amen me too!!!!

@annetteprince9615 2 жыл бұрын

Amen me three!!

@brittanyd872 2 жыл бұрын

I still am searching for my worth. I’m attracted to toxic situations

@miarobinson9893 2 жыл бұрын

as a young woman who’s biological father passed when I was 15…and seeing all of the older women in the comments wishing they would’ve met you sooner or had you in their lives younger…as a 28yr old with no kids and no man. Thanks “Dad” 🙏🏾💕

@janellamurphy4212 2 жыл бұрын

I AM AN OLDER SINGLE WOMAN MYSELF NO BIOLOGICAL CHILDREN EXCEPT SPIRITUAL ONES AND I AM STILL LEARNING!!😇

@never4saken165 2 жыл бұрын

God is blessing you

@mcqueeny-gloriakavari546 2 жыл бұрын

I resonate with this. Lost my dad at 14, now im 26 with no kids and no man. Forever grateful for this wisdom.

@privateperson1461 Жыл бұрын

Dear 28 year old sis. Preserve yourself. These men are AWFUL many narcissist and predators. I am now 53, single, one adult child. I wish I could go back to 28 and stay celibate to truly weed out all the imposters they will waste your life and use your body and no God in them. They will use God and religion to get over on you. Very sad. I am not bitter just FACTS. I am starting Graduate school to get my masters soon and looking forward to dating an equally yoked man who will prove himself. Be smart.

@tamiajackson Жыл бұрын

Blessings sisters 😊 we are all like sisters now 😅

@Nancy22102 2 жыл бұрын

An unproven man is an untrusted man” That message spoke to me...Im taking this as a vow... Thank you Pastor Blakes.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@janellamurphy4212 2 жыл бұрын

YUPPA!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾I AM RE EVALUATING THINGS CONCERNING MY RELATIONSHIPS WITH MEN NOW!!! MAN LOOKS AT THE OUTWARD APPEARANCE, BUT GOD LOOKS AT THE HEART AMEN!!!!

@florencepl4343 2 жыл бұрын

I recently heard an author say attraction and chemistry are just the floor and paint (find out what the house is made of, foundation, roof, history before buying). I loved the analogy and thought I'd share.

@Realness4sho 2 жыл бұрын

Amen

@zztdivas8551 2 жыл бұрын

It has taken me 32 years to realize this!

@shevaray Жыл бұрын

Me to sis 💗🙏🏾

@alinacash786 2 жыл бұрын

Truth….my marriage was to an untrustworthy man. He was not a masculine man. He was a “simp”. So tragic. If I had knowledge, it would have saved so much pain. Thank you Pastor.

@alinacash786 2 жыл бұрын

Pastor…would you update the 9 questions?

@victoriavitoroulis3273 2 жыл бұрын

I thought my husband was bi polar .. but just realized he’s a covert narc and I’m w him 40 yrs . Ppl wear a good mask these days 😵‍💫

@houston10 2 жыл бұрын

Masculine men can as well be toxic and abusive. As a woman it’s just the luck of the draw whether u get a men tht truly loves yu. No matter his mannerisms

@roshellfrancisjones 2 жыл бұрын

Yes

@shedlightwholistic5610 2 жыл бұрын

989 you ou ooio88ii ou 0

@angelicadavis1404 2 жыл бұрын

Pastor, the first thing that came to my mind was I wish I had found your teaching years ago, but a thought came to my mind’ it’s never too late!!! Thanks for your growth Jesus ❗

@keepthechange1 2 жыл бұрын

When the student is ready, the Teacher will appear. You are ready my friend. The time is now. God bless you. 🙏🏽🌺❤️

@mariereed916 2 жыл бұрын

I agree 💯

@amenamem 2 жыл бұрын

@@keepthechange1 Ooohhh! That is a word right there.🔥🔥 The Lord bless you as well. 🙏

@janellamurphy4212 2 жыл бұрын

I AM IN FULL AGREEMENT WITH YOU SIS!!!👋🏾👋🏾! IF I KNEW WHAT I KNOW NOW FROM YOUR TEACHINGS BISHOP BLAKES, I WOULD HAVE BYPASSED THE DUMB STUFF, MEN AND SITUATIONS AMEN!!!

@apologeticministry 2 жыл бұрын

That was God.

@l.christinejones8164 2 жыл бұрын

"How can two walk together unless they agree?" One of my favorite Scriptures Pastor Blakes.

@mkalinecpf5206 Жыл бұрын

Amos 3:3 very good one 👍

@joycewatt800 2 жыл бұрын

Abstinence is a test of one’s character or even “fruit of the Spirit” since self control is one of the fruits of the Spirit. I think we forget about this one fruit. The fruit is a reflection of the root.

@blueyellow3621 7 ай бұрын

The greatest gift a woman can give to a man is her FEMININITY, not just her feminine body. Woman’s body is a part of much bigger picture which includes spirit, energy, beauty, passion, and love. A body without a feminine soul means nothing.

@dublingirl1691 2 жыл бұрын

At 30:32 - To me, when a man drops everything when you ask him for some help, this is so romantic & loving, it shows a wonderful connection between the couple.

@never4saken165 2 жыл бұрын

My ex did but let me tell you, he is the worst kind of a narcissticist. He jumped most of the time bc I ran the relationship & it was NOT by my choice.

@NoNakersAllowed 2 жыл бұрын

So true. Acts of service is my love language and the man I was involved with knew this and when opportunities presented themselves to prove his words he failed almost every time! That actually was the last straw recently that caused me to cut him off and block him.

@cityreadings 2 жыл бұрын

“Submit to her Husband, to her husband, to her husband” period!! Amen 🙏💯💯💯

@Christimony222 Жыл бұрын

This channel deserves to be on Oprah Winfrey's channel. It's a genuine match. This is the type of content she and her audience would appreciate. It's beyond valuable. Thank you for being the father that most of us will never have in real life, when it comes to being able to go to him for relationship advice.

@janebraun4482 Жыл бұрын

I don't think he/we need more Oprah at all. We're good.

@aidaortiz7219 9 ай бұрын

It should be it’s own show. Pastor Blakes and his beautiful bride Lisa are amazing.

@shantastewart1814 7 ай бұрын

I agree this valuable information. 🙏🏽

@esthernichols4451 29 күн бұрын

No not Oprah. That woman is about self promotion and not a woman after God's heart. She is apart of the elite and has an agenda to introduce people to New Age teachings instead of Christ's teaching. Blake's is doing just what he needs to do at this time

@MHiL7 2 жыл бұрын

Hello from New Jersey. I can’t get enough of your teaching & extremely grateful that I found your channel!! I’m 52 & lost my Dad to cancer when I was 4, your wisdom has changed my life because I was a silly woman who attracted my childhood trauma in every relationship I found myself in & a narc magnet but thanks to you, those days are over!! Thank you 🙏

@janicerockwell8417 2 жыл бұрын

Some entertainers are good pretenders...

@janicerockwell8417 2 жыл бұрын

My ex-husband was a good provider and father. I settled. He was a workaholic. Where was the love ?

@rebeccamcfadden2241 2 жыл бұрын

@@janicerockwell8417 pppp0pppppppppp lol ppppppppppplplplllp

@MHiL7 2 жыл бұрын

These clowns are great actors…….UNTIL you know what you’re looking at!!! Biggest lesson of my life.

@marytaylor9504 2 жыл бұрын

@@janicerockwell8417 yes they are Really Good at this!!!True Fakers!!!!

@melissaj.corbin7675 2 жыл бұрын

When your “standard is broken”…it’s time to pray, look inward, ask the Father to help you heal and draw closer. Thank you for your teachings. God bless you!

@dempress3549 2 жыл бұрын

I love this msg, POWERFUL, I call my husband my king bcuz of the man he is to me and in general, I often times tell him that he is a man of many men, this msg showed me truly that he is a king. I give Yahweh praise and thanks for blessing me with a really good husband 🙏

@lilianahuekwe 2 жыл бұрын

Dear God,i want this to be my testimony Bless me with a good man ,Amen

@BlessStyles 2 жыл бұрын

Yes! I want this to be my testimony too

@BlessStyles 2 жыл бұрын

Yes! I want this to be my testimony too

@mikafishet8043 2 жыл бұрын

I'm happy for you!

@1986chevon 2 жыл бұрын

Yes I want this to be my testimony too! Amen 🙏🏾

@alinacash786 2 жыл бұрын

I listen every night as I go to sleep.

@stephiestenquist2477 2 жыл бұрын

That’s funny- I do the same!!

@angievol09 2 жыл бұрын

Lol same!!

@justJamiePS 2 жыл бұрын

When a woman questions and interrogates a man, she's working to a place where she can trust him in order to be In her role and allow him to lead 🥳🥳🥳🔥

@nightswan1234 Жыл бұрын

This part sums up the whole message! Everything is locked solid within this simple context! If he can’t / won’t answer questions, red flag flying all over the place!! Let the whole thing go, he’s not the one for you.

@atlantasbarberstylist8658 2 жыл бұрын

Queens ask questions only a king can answer!!

@janiceparkerson4727 2 жыл бұрын

I know that's right 👍.

@deborahhaynes9350 2 жыл бұрын

Some men get very angry and shout when you ask them certain questions like about their marital status!

@atlantasbarberstylist8658 2 жыл бұрын

@Deborah you are right... that's that red sign... runnnnnn lol

@piscesbby9464 2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly the issues in my relationship. Every single one of these is lacking and my husband has been trying to convince me that Im asking for too much. Its all my fault, he never wouldve passed the tests if I wouldve known before. I found all of these things to be necessary on my own. You put them into words beautifully.

@sexygreem 2 жыл бұрын

Thats right abstinence it won't take long before they show you who they are lol 😆 😂 🤣 SELF CONTROL IN SINGLENESS HE WILL STRUGGLE IN MARRIAGE...BIG OLE FACTS...late night calls never wanna take u out always wanna come over are Red 🚩

@86boluda 2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha OMG that was my email! I'm so happy you replied in this form and so quickly! Woke up in the morning and saw this, made my day 🤣 God bless you always

@smcdade4577 2 жыл бұрын

Blessings to you! It was a great question which answer has benefited many!

@maudline 2 жыл бұрын

Agree, it was a great question of how to vet a man without playing games

@keepthechange1 2 жыл бұрын

The Queens are here. God bless each of you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@kheleecebrown1799 2 жыл бұрын

Hello Pastor you are a blessing to me as 22 yr old woman.

@sharhughes1086 2 жыл бұрын

I Love Your teachings Pastor Blake's, because you back it up with the scriptures from the Holy Bible!

@Realness4sho 2 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@jeanneniyigena8222 2 жыл бұрын

Very good teaching

@iamgoddessoflove 2 жыл бұрын

There should be no excuses for staying in a relationship with someone that puts you through more stress and pain over love and joy. 💙KZfaqr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

@marcia4415 2 жыл бұрын

This is going to be GOOD. I feel it in my soul.

@rechellebrown1Badd1 2 жыл бұрын

Me toooo

@LethalWeapon73 2 жыл бұрын

Me three

@QueenNile 2 жыл бұрын

I have been very wise when it comes to handle men. They like boys who love their toys and Selfish. You have to be catch me if you can. 1) Love yourself 2) Able to live with yourself 3) Set boundaries 4) Respect yourself as a woman 5) Be very wise 6) Don’t take things personal 7) Watch your words 8) Able to control your thoughts and your actions 9) Choose wisely 10)Take care yourself mentally physical 11) Don’t be the first 1 to say I love you 12) Travel with that person before you move in together 12) Don’t tell your business with your man to your family or friends 13) Keep yourself very busy

@esthernichols4451 29 күн бұрын

Don't move in at all till marriage. Cohabitation isn't Wise because it's puts you in a place of compromise and temps the flesh

@zellaward3520 9 ай бұрын

When a man treats you like God wants him to treat you, you will have no trouble submitting to your man! R,C Blake's is speaking truth!

@anjizignstudios500 2 жыл бұрын

This teaching is my “level up” Praise God Blakes ministry

@jenniferboldeau9313 2 жыл бұрын

Girl me too💯♥️

@tamiajackson Жыл бұрын

Blessings sisters

@noeleen743 2 жыл бұрын

These teachings are for generations to come. I pray Gods blessing over a man who has covered us as daughters of God.

@colleenemory3903 2 жыл бұрын

Amen!!! Bless Pastor Blake!!!🙏🙏🙏

@DayaTom 2 жыл бұрын

Years ago I dated a guy for a bit, then one day I told him about my dream.. my passion of photography. Mind you, I'm already one and I have some success behind my back. He told me my dream was too much and that I should pick something more down to earth. Dropped him that same conversation and told him why. Never done better cut in my love life! These people just weigh you down. Life is challenging enough without them.

@cindylu1226 2 жыл бұрын

Your wise words will work in any relationship. If you could include teachings for widows or those of us over 50 who are considering remarrying that’d be much appreciated. There are different dynamics in 2nd marriages, adult children, etc. Love your teaching.

@aprilsdavis4654 2 жыл бұрын

I agree!

@tafadzwamakamani4925 Жыл бұрын

I agree

@letzahjoduran4855 Жыл бұрын

Me too...I agree!

@latedesca5 2 жыл бұрын

Wow. Speechless. I never learned how to vet him. Now after heartbreak amd divorce I am understanding thanks to you. Keep teaching ⚘Thank you

@nursemelody45 2 жыл бұрын

Me either!!! 3 marriages down the drain!

@sandirichard5461 2 жыл бұрын

We got this ladies! Abusive marriage and dead end 10 year relationship later, I'm ready for this relationship to myself for myself. We're going to get our king's one day!

@jayenfrancis859 2 жыл бұрын

You describe a dance where a woman can trust the true course of the man and follow his lead, and so then can 'submit' to the beauty of the music and movement of two as one... Thankyou, beautiful

@AtmosphereShifterz 2 жыл бұрын

Can’t wait to hear the word; I have been watching u for months & caught up to ALL ur videos. The way the Lord uses you to minister is a blessing to my soul. 😇 - Minister Mari

@RCBlakesJr. 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I am honored. 😊🙏🏽

@novinehenry5650 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your words of wisdom. You are helping me rebuild the broken areas with… Completely, queen conscious! Thank you🙏🏾

@marytaylor9504 2 жыл бұрын

@@RCBlakesJr. God go with you! Lead and give you the words we need to hear that God gives you to share. With Us!!! Yes try the Spirits .watch how they operate in their lives.The words they speak when the man feels lax and comfortable around you. When they feel that they can be their real personality identity self!!! I

@joycewatt800 2 жыл бұрын

Ooooooooh Jesus How I wish I had this message in my young teens, twenties and thirties.

@nzingahoney 2 жыл бұрын

Hi everyone good to be here from Trinidad and Tobago

@TheTabbym 2 жыл бұрын

i married someone who was not supposed to go past being an acquaintance. we dint last past 3months in the marriage. i dint have this knowledge and wisdom, thanks so much for this pastor RC

@keneshawilliamson1574 2 жыл бұрын

Amen!!! That's why I have been Celibate for 4 years!!! God is Awesome! I pray that God continues to keep me until I get married.🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

@priscillaaharper4078 2 жыл бұрын

God is going to keep blessing you both and your ministry because you are helping so many.🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@sarala1jan 2 жыл бұрын

I love this man. He helps us to set our bar high, be able to look the finer side of a man where most times we women overlook . @RCBlakes, you also need to run a course or a channel for parents. Most times parents need to instill good values and be a good example when the child is growing up. Why I am suggesting this? Coz I believe most of us are built the way we see our parents interact and our environment. Our surroundings makes us who we are.

@never4saken165 2 жыл бұрын

Very valid point, I feel the same.

@Idkjustyet Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the prayer at the end 💯💖

@biblequeen4sure823 2 жыл бұрын

Watching for the 2nd time

@celiandimande8776 2 жыл бұрын

THIS IS GOLDEN! G O L D E N

@brendawest2650 2 жыл бұрын

There's a lot of people "Talking" but not "Truthing". Wise counsel.

@hellosunshine3647 2 жыл бұрын

I love your channel! Still grateful for your teachings! While I have been engaged, I'm so glad I did not go through with that wedding! He was a horrible man and I knew it. Now I'm glad that I purposely take the time to date these men and figure out what they want from me. I have learned that I am lusted after by alot of men. Smh🤦🏽‍♀️ When you said is it infatuation, that's exactly how I feel, they feel about me. Until they get into this hot seat! I asked a man yesterday is he ready for the hard questions because some men tend not to be, even when they think they are. He said I will answer your questions! 😆 I have also had the man who came to visit me in flashy cars. When I asked him to teach me about stocks, he gave me nothing. He was the most inconsistent man I have ever met. So I took heed and moved on. I love testing a man to see where his mind is. It is so vital to my life and my purpose as a feminine woman. It has taken some time to get here. But I am here!

@Michelle-mj8yq 2 жыл бұрын

I am excited to be apart of this evenings presentation 🙌

@lasugarbelle Жыл бұрын

Thank God for you. I’m so happy He led me here.

@Afterthehealing 2 жыл бұрын

Amen! God is so faithful that even when I try to back slide he steps in on my behalf and I'm able to be kept!!! I have the power and authority over my flesh to wait for my KING and hold myself and walk as a QUEEN

@angiebrown6524 2 жыл бұрын

I grew up with no father in the home, most of my relationships have been dysfunctional but I'm learning to love ME first. and to respect myself.

@anastasialayden2000 2 жыл бұрын

'The marriage it is not the death of me, it is the birth of we' ...Great! Thank you Pastor Blakes 💕

@praise3700 2 жыл бұрын

You just described everything I’ve been doing subconsciously. I ask any man that shows interest questions upon questions while guarding my heart. So far, none have been able to Elicit trust because my questions were not answered.

@feliciakelly-brookins6899 2 жыл бұрын

I think Submission is a natural thing when the man allows the woman to function in a state of security because of his actions and words. He has made her feel safe, comfortable and trusting of his wisdom and ability to lead.

@zoejaiattoh1243 2 жыл бұрын

Wow .. eye opening.. I’m just seeing it as I’m growing in a Queen consciousness

@PFPSocialMedia 2 жыл бұрын

Whew Praise the Lord Bishop!! I’m chuckling because I don’t know how to test 😂😂😂

@patriciagonzalesrealtor3483 2 жыл бұрын

How accomplished you are for all those you help to find true love. We all need love, we all want love, we all hope for love, we all hope for lasting love. You are on point with your direction. We just need to trust and follow your teachings. More importantly set our standards ,values and expectations and NEVER waiver. Ladies we are the power!

@tieonneyvonne1222 2 жыл бұрын

Good evening Bishop Blakes and First Lady Lisa Blakes🙏 I am so thankful for your ministry helping fatherless women like myself. ❤

@tnewsy7278 2 жыл бұрын

Str8 awesomeness

@catherinem4130 11 ай бұрын

You are doing EXACTLY WHAT GOD WANTS YOU TO DO......teach women (even me who at age 75, widowed aft. 53 yrs. in happy, good marriage....YET has been lacking in social skills because I never HAD to!!!...now I'm having to learn things I NEVER HAD A CLUE ABOUT!!!) So, that said....KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING PLEASE and I give GOD all the glory for it, which I can tell you are already doing. And thank you!

@cocojonestwin 2 жыл бұрын

I love this word. It reminds me of animals. Males have to fight and/or prove themselves before the female animal submits herself to him.

@terriwebb4425 2 жыл бұрын

My 1st time listening to u Pastor Blakes it was sooo very enlightening & refreshing i wish I had this knowledge b4 I got married & divorced....understanding a man and his intentions is key.....thank u for knowledge

@annabelletorres7147 2 жыл бұрын

Second time listening to this to make this go deeper into my subconscious, DNA and blood stream.

@mimip2704 3 ай бұрын

Although the videos that are helping me through this difficult time were made between 1-3 yrs ago, they are speaking to my heart and soul TODAY! The exact messages that I need to hear are being delivered through this amazing servant of GOD to help his Queens and KINGS improve themselves and each other. I thank GOD that he allowed me to find you on this platform. Much love and blessings to you and your beautiful wife Lisa. GOD bless! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@lizwanjirunyaga9582 2 жыл бұрын

God bless you sir. You are a spiritual guide to many. Thank you for your teachings

@dawannwilliams6301 2 жыл бұрын

Hello Bishop and everyone listening. Ready to enjoy and receive the message

@LethalWeapon73 2 жыл бұрын

Hello. Yes I am and shared it.

@msprettybee45 2 жыл бұрын

This sermon was everything 👏👏👏 I really needed to hear this.

@sheronobryant5058 2 жыл бұрын

Good evening from Texas ♥️

@HappinessWellnssLove 2 жыл бұрын

Hey Sharon!!! 🙏🏽 Welcome 🤩

@LethalWeapon73 2 жыл бұрын

Good evening

@alinacash786 2 жыл бұрын

At last, I am on time!!

@jenniferjones4113 2 жыл бұрын

This was powerful🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾!!!

@LolitaStClair 2 жыл бұрын

Powerful and Outstanding!

@Jassywazzy1 2 жыл бұрын

Wish I had this information in my early 20s, but learning it at 30 in this format/teaching is so refreshing. Tfs your knowledge with us Pastor Blakes! God bless you💫

@anncharles210 2 жыл бұрын

Amen thank you for these encouraging words.

@flygirl1942 2 жыл бұрын

This is real real good teaching Bishop!! Thank you so much!💕

@larendabrunson6923 2 жыл бұрын

My God 🙌🏾 Great teaching!

@renitaa7148 2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate you Bishop… Always sharing wisdom with us….

@MTortillaKitt 2 жыл бұрын

Just powerful. Thank you Mr. Blakes 🌟

@whenthasmokeclears 2 жыл бұрын

This was an awesome presentation and I so needed it! Thank you! 🙏🏽

@flygirl1942 2 жыл бұрын

My God! We really need this and more like it Bishop! Thank you!!💕

@sharonoloya Жыл бұрын

Pastor your truly annoited and I'm thankful for your life. I love your sense of humour, you put a smile on my face when you say 'Clowns in Crowns 👑' I once had one! Your words touch my soul and bring me to tears, just what woman needs from a wise father figure. I start my day with your videos without fail! 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

@clmckinl 2 жыл бұрын

Bishop cracking faces yet again!!! A word indeed 👏🏾 🙌🏾

@lismith1852 2 жыл бұрын

GOD Bless you Bishop for speaking about this pertinent subject!! 🙏 ❤

@akuasalaam490 2 жыл бұрын

My goodness, my goodness... I cannot thank you enough Bishop ❤️!

@shannonwhite6591 2 жыл бұрын

Rev Blakes, you are speaking truth. I've learned all of this!!

@jlove5473 2 жыл бұрын

PREACH ON PASTOR!!! THIS IS THE TRUTH BE SAID!! AMEN, HALLELUJAH 👏👏👏🙌

@edithzulu5314 2 жыл бұрын

I wish I heard this 32 years ago.... all the same I thank GOD for his grace over my life and children

@mariereed916 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this message wish someone had taught me this earlier in life

@linni9160 2 жыл бұрын

Wow - this is deep. Thank you so much!

@SanctifiedLady 2 жыл бұрын

Perfect timing… I think I’ve bumped into the one. I have asked him tons of questions…he was patient. We are both in our God given purpose which is that we are both in the helping profession and we have the same lifestyle and hobbies. It’s been 2 weeks…. He is a bit reserved to ask me anything…I know men are hunters and prefer to peel back layers slowly and learn us on their own… I’m waiting for him to state his intentions, start asking and investing in me, he is smart not to just open up and make himself vulnerable to me just yet it’s still new. I’m waiting for it to flow naturally to the point I tell him I’m sacrificing my body to God until marriage. Thank you for the other good questions about asking him where to invest money… I plan on keeping the conversation light for him to continue to learn me. We are 5hrs apart…he’s mentioned me coming to visit but I need him to do his work and tell me on his own that he has self control without my asking and with out him just saying it. Pastor first time I have felt like I am talking to myself…we are already a reflection of each other…all we have to do is abstain, vet each other thoroughly, blend our lives in one place and get married. We don’t have to change anything about ourselves. However, I am a co dependent personality and past the test on my last narcissist attraction and he failed…because of listening to you and others I’ve learned how to spot them immediately. 1.) they mess with your boundaries 2.) they mess with your time 3.) they play with your mind and emotions. 4.) they never do things for you, your pleasure and that take, take, take! I’m cured 🙌🏾 and I’m doing some shadow work of my own to test out all other lingering childhood traumas. Keep me in prayer. This is exciting and I am definitely prepared to walk away. I’m loving myself and keeping my own life fun and exiting.

@thelookout5802 2 жыл бұрын

2 weeks? Slow down🙂 please...

@lisabowman877 2 жыл бұрын

Slow down and be careful. Be sure he’s not mirroring you. That’s what narcs do. Trust he’s not another you. Even if that’s the appearance. You have to be aware that his reactions to the same issues could be totally different than you expect. God bless you. If he’s for you, I’m sure God will show you in time. 2 weeks is just enough time for you to fantasize about what you want the relationship to be based on what you’ve begun to feel. Take you’re feelings out of your dating process until you’re sure there’s a real possibility, which should at least be 90 days or more! In two weeks you know nothing except what he wants you to know.

@Simply_Shalee 2 жыл бұрын

When u pray about this man. Ask God to show u his heart and his sprit.

@janiceparkerson4727 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Bishop Blakes for this great message. A very timely word 🙏💯❤️.

@messikubwimana5221 2 жыл бұрын

This was a timely and beautiful teaching. Thank you for always sharing your wisdom

@Kashmir-lt4cx 6 ай бұрын

"When you ask questions and they get offended!" That's your answer! "When you ask questions and you get no answers!" "That's your answer!" The male I been knowing for over 5 yrs told me that he hates questions cause questions lead to answer! He said that women trap men when they ask questions! "If a man really loves a woman he is alright with questions, real talks, long talks for hours! When a man really loves uou he opens up hie heart cause he wants a female to trust him. When a woman asks not accuses question after question for general understanding it's cause she wants to be able to trust you.