And they wonder why people are considering not having kids. I wouldn't raise a child in a country that does that.

very sad

Money money money

In my country people who sexually abuse children usually get two years for their crimes. Yet people who use or drug dealers go for years and years. (Remember , people don’t want to deal drugs, it’s ALWAYS a sociological problem when people either have to turn to dealing when they were trying to just feed their daughter , or they just end up dealing drugs. Unless, they’re a pharmaceutical company and therefore legal to overprescribe opiates to the point of a state of emergency in countries like the USA -basically a capitalistic induced genocide by certain companies. (Pharmaceutical companies aren’t immoral, they’re necessary , but there’s one company named Purdue which was essentially solely responsible and knowingly Started the opiate crisis

ONLY 2 YEARS??? Jesus Christ, the "Justice system" has failed us.. @@NickolaiPetrovitch

yeah exactly and it’s a higher chance to change a dogs behaviour than a fucking predator

@@Uchiha.Itachii often its because the dog was scared or reactionary, its never those reasons with a molestor

yeah and lets not mention poor cattle they literally did nothing wrong but live a whole inferno

@@Uchiha.Itachiiq

The justice system is awful, Jesus Christ

I feel like the "release on bond" wasn't getting him off lightly... it was letting real justice happen.

What country is it?

@@Sterlingix USA

@@Mamadun3 wow, nice

This isn't fair my docter in in jail for making my hand injured as a baby for 15 years but him dude 12 years

So does Australia. They all suck.

It's also a country with the highest plastic surgeries and highest suicide rates.

Japan isn't any better

​@@bviuns but u think Korea is better

literally your child would be unprotected by law and if you are as unlucky as to get to be a single mother they will fire you from your job

While in America more illegal immigrants coming to the US than children being born 😂

Exactly

The only thing women could do in that country is to not give birth to children (because i am pretty sure little boys aren't safe too). They just serve men and money.

You can't point at such a fragile topic with another fragile dude that is just wrong

but your ok with parents letting an 8 year old walk alone to school so something like this happens. Again no blame on parents shows how stupid our society is.

​@boomshakalaka8655 children should be safe no matter what. Is still not the parents' fault

In East Asian countries, children walk to school themselves. It's actually a rite of passage in Japan, something parents can't interfere with. They walk, take the bus, or take the train on their own or with a group of friends. @@boomshakalaka8655

@@susuyayIt does not matter at that point. Even if she’s victim. She stood by his side when a baby girl was tortured and almost murdered by him.

@@boomshakalaka8655Your statement is basically saying that law abiding citizens should adjust to the criminals lurking and prowling the community freely, instead of the society being able to function feeling safe and free from harm. Interestingly, there are children who are being abducted, harmed, and killed in the comfort of their own home, so yeah. Your logic is a very smart perspective. Congratulations.

I hate society that produces dumb comments.

That's horrible to hear but from what I can see of what you said you didn't seem to say you were the victim so even though sadly someone else got hurt and traumatized good thing you didn't.

it couldve been anyones. this monster was going to hurt anybody, mutilate anyone in his way.

@@johnnydied9563 uhh you do realize it does traumatize the community also? A child being violently assaulted? Please stop being so insensitive about things, they were both children at the time.

Be safe darling❤

I haven't heard this phrase before but very true

So v true

EXACTLY

@@Eckh4rt someone who disembowels an 8 year old girl is not human.

​@@Eckh4rt send him to Texas and let him cry about his rights there.

Yes. Korea hate women unfortunately… Being feminist there is very bad seen and this is not the first story I hear of victim blaming in Korea

no country is good@@KeanuReevolution

@@KeanuReevolutionStop deflecting. The OP wasn’t talking about other countries. South Korea has a serious problem. Deal with it

​@@anxnymous_bodiesIt does have a lot of problems, but America has lots of the same issues. We might be doing slightly better but then Roe v Wade was overturned and literally makes it difficult for a woman to not have to carry a pregnancy by her rapist to term..so yeah, we've gone backwards in our support for women.

I get what everyone is saying but I truly cannot imagine a guy like this with a record as extensive as his ever walking free in the U.S. our system is messed up and fails victims all the time, but my uncle with a dui charge got treated worse (rightfully so tho) than a man who is a repeat offender of violent crimes

I think he was enjoying her discomfort. 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢

⁠@@loganmorningstar9122I think so too, which is gut wrenching. 🤢

@@taliaa-444 It breaks my heart that this small kid was put through that.

Wow. It never occurred to me that they don't have children's advocates everywhere. This is heart-wrenching😢

​@@loganmorningstar9122I think the prosecutor is a psychopath also. No one with even the tiniest amount of empathy could do this.

I am a CSA victim and my uncle's exact words when mentioning how our taxes went to keeping my abuser alive in jail were "the only tax money pedophiles deserve is to cover the bullet"

​@sleepysmartboy6287 I agree with that quote, why keep crimianls living a decent life? They are better off 6ft under

that's one of the many reasons why imprisoned predators are more likely to be finished off by other prisoners 😐

Maybe the higher-ups are protecting child predators because either they or one of their own are also child predators

​@@amaliaazufa5232prisoners don't pay taxes, I don't think that bothers them.

The comment I was looking for

I'm here thinking it's probably for the best the baby passed away as it would be a high chance he'd be SA by his dad, but now I'm starting wonder how he passed

Same

It was disgusting the way she was treated by the court. What an incompetence

Exactly. Satans world

Theyre stupid. They wont get it. I havent even watched the video and I get it.

Because alcohol cant turn you into anything you aren't already. He had those desires previously, but with slowed judgment from the depressing of the nervous system thought he could get away with it. Well, that's my guess.

in Brasil, the way that law sees the use of alcohol is that it takes away the vail of morality of a person, so if they commit a crime under the influence, it is because they already had the intention of committing that crime.

Yeah, especially since alcohol is an addictive substance -- it is a drug. If there is such harsh treatment for those who use drugs, why not just treat those who drink alcohol in such ways too? Might as well, if it's only going to be used as an excuse.

the man should of used he was drunk excuse.

Agreed. Any woman who stays or joins with a man who could do such harm to another human, adult or child, is gross and despicable. The man is an adult. And thinks people wanting to hurt him, are the issue, not what he did.

@@HarWatSin we are only objects to him put here to serve his whims.

If the wife shares guilt, isn't there a better way to serve justice annonymously?

​@@HarWatSinyou shouldn't be surprised, it's a fetish.

Just drink alcohol for a discount jail time

5 year got reduced to 2 cause he stated he was drunk the audacity

Yet actresses in Korea lose their careers for wearing a skimpy dress.

@@ewarrior9776 So? They knew the risks and still did it. That has nothing to do with this. That’s not even a legal issue.

The justice system in South Korea is a joke for defendants who victimize women.

Also, countless studies show that p*dophilia cannot be cured or fixed. The only thing they can do is choose to not act on their urges, and those people will never make that choice. An unfortunate consequence of the laws saying where offenders can live is that a lot of them end up homeless, which makes it impossible to keep track of them. We just had the most precious 5-year-old baby girl BRUTALLY assaulted and murdered because she and this monster were both living in the same homeless camp two blocks away from the elementary school I work at. It’s a big thing here because SO MUCH went wrong prior to the murder. I don’t think these predators should be allowed to have their own homes. I think they should have to live in highly supervised group homes and have some sort of intelligent gps monitors that make loud alarms if they get near schools, playgrounds, etc. So basically I’m saying they should just stay in jail.

Right

The prosecutor is supposed to be on the victims side.

I had the same thought. 😢

That thought did come in my mind

Korea is a safe country

@@manstein317 In general it is safe sure. Just don't be in the "small" raped or murdered statistics. Its your fault if you do and nothing will be done for you.

It sounds like so many men there are rape apologists and pedophiles. They have a thousand excuses to justify it and the justice system doesn't care about women and girls.

Absolutely 💯

Definitely

Also the prison system

EXACTLY like what is wrong with them 🤬😡😤

@@wowwoahwee First of all, suggesting that the justice system should avoid harsher rulings for repeat offenders is like saying we should hand out gold stars to those who continuously break the law. How about we take a moment to consider some actual data and real-world examples? In many countries, there are laws that mandate stricter sentences for repeat offenders. Take three-strikes laws in the United States, for instance. These laws impose harsher penalties on individuals convicted of three or more serious crimes. The idea is to deter habitual criminals and protect society from those who just can't seem to learn their lesson. Now, let's talk about recidivism rates. Studies have shown that repeat offenders often return to a life of crime. So, instead of coddling them with lenient sentences, maybe a more robust approach is needed to break the cycle. Harsher penalties can act as a deterrent, making individuals think twice before committing another offense. Your concern about unintended consequences is duly noted, but it's not about overcorrection; it's about finding a balanced and effective approach. The criminal justice system should be nuanced, but that doesn't mean we should tiptoe around repeat offenders. We're not handing out cookies; we're dealing with people who pose a threat to society. So, before you suggest handing out severance checks to repeat offenders, maybe take a closer look at how the legal systems of various countries address the issue. It's not about lacking humility; it's about protecting the public and ensuring that justice is served.

Having muscles doesn’t make you a better fighter.

It female pe do (towards boy) who truly often got lighter sentemces were u anti pe do also fastly forgive her. Roten mango Bias play victim.

Yes, and why would he be aloud to move so close to her and her family, its disgusting.

@@hadikoshyou say we have no problem with women pedos getting lighter sentences which isn’t even true, but in your second comment it seems like you think 12 years is justice for raping and almost killing an 8 year old girl? 99% of sexually motivated crimes are committed by men. 99% of rapists are men, 99% of pedophiles are men, and without acknowledging that we can’t tackle the problem accurately. Also stop creating conflicts in your head, no one is backing female pedos. You just want something to be mad about, more so you just want a reason to be able to insert yourself into the conversation of womens issues because you can’t stand womens issues being brought up without any attention being on you. Why is there always a man trying to insert mens issues into the conversation of womens issues? But they never bring it up unless they’re trying to silence women… which begs the question, do they really care about what they’re saying? Or do they just have to have a reason to insert themselves into the conversation any time it’s surrounding womens issues?

C'est terrifiant de se rendre compte qu'il existe des humains qui sont venus au monde pour accomplir des crimes inimaginables et qu'ils y prennent du plaisir à les commettre.

You’d think they’d make death a promise at some point!

Same thing in the United States. Only in Korea does being under the influence gets you a lighter sentence.

Exactly, it shows a level of recklessness for the criminal

@@melissalayson7275 Not in SA cases, most times. In fact, it gets watered down to, "It was just one dumb drunken mistake! Why ruin the whole future of the criminal?" Y'know, because it's not as if the criminal didn't just absolutely ruin the life(s) of the victim(s) - read this sentence with the amount of petty sarcasm that it's fully saturated and dripping with.

In Russia he would have been released from prison if he would have made a contract with ministry of defense to kill Ukrainians , your argument does not make sense if a criminal , brutal killer or rapist gets released just a year and a half after his crime and going to war

Even here in India. You're bound to get into more trouble if you commit a crime and are found drunk at the same time.

Exactly! 12 years aint enough!! this just infuriates me

The fact that he was able to get only 2 years for killing a man is probably worse as he never would have been able to commit this rape if he was still in prison.

HOW 👏🏻CAN 👏🏻WE 👏🏻HELP 👏🏻THIS GIRL AND HER FAMILY!??!!!!

He WaS dRuNk

Foreigners

And listening to the actual case takes it away simultaneously

really sure of that

💯‼️💯‼️SICKOS

Fr y’all like how could they not be?

I think the prosecutor was Mas tur bat ing during the trial . It's sickening

@@nussknacker9827 I bet he was if not definitely after

@@pokemata1035great advice training’s working!

@@Baka578 I have heard plenty of people say that assault/rape is okay is the perpetrator was drunk at the time, especially if it's a man. messed up world we live in.

​@@pokemata1035 Choose another career,there's no place for idealism in the mental health field

@@braken63 How is any of what I said "idealism" also yeah imma bouta go change my career path because of braken63's comment.

​@@pokemata1035 Do the world a favor. Please do not be a therapist.

Thank you for sharing your story 💙💙💙 your sister is an honorable woman. She's a diamond in the rough of a pathetically weak and useless justice system that fails victims and protects criminals.

What is a Stoma?

@johnnydied9563 Its when your digestive process isn't working properly. So when you eat something, you'll usually get rid of it a couple hours later from the backside. A Stoma is an opening on the side of your stomach that they pull part of your bowel through. They stitch it to the side of your stomach and you have to wear a bag thats designed to catch it instead. You gotta enpty it using a funnel at the bottom of the bag every hour or so depending. So I have my stoma because the muscles in my bowel were severed at birth, so i couldn't hold onto anything. Its basically your bowel reroutes where the poop comes out of. Because its close to skin that isn't built for it though, it can burn really easily and get infected.

@@lowbeats236Oof that sounds like a pain to live each day I'm sorry to hear that you and others with your medical issue are in pain God Bless you and hope you can still live a good life even with your medical issue.

His treatment was revolting.. the amount of protection given to him and the ridiculous amount of people keeping him more safe than they did for her is disgusting. It took the villagers, her peers to come up with money enough for her to move. Her and her family. Where was he for 45 minutes because his ankle monitor wasn’t on?! There’s CCTV everywhere.

As a cop, of course we do that. We protect our own ❤

This reasoning doesn't apply here. There was plenty of evidence against Cho Doo Soon for Na-Young to successfully prosecute him. There was justice albeit flawed.

​@@ashintheblunt3292what 😀

@@ashintheblunt3292you’re disgusting

it's not judge fault, it's a government fault, they release laws and judge can give him max by the law government decided

the judge couldve gave him 50 years its his choice the laws say apply but are optinal@@angelwings7802

​@angelwings7802 the judge could still have given him a harsher punishment even with the government set laws

@@angelwings7802 The judge could have given a harsher sentence for sure

​@@angelwings7802did you not hear what Stephanie said, the judge gave him the minimum then played the victim, but the reality is that he could have gave him the maximum and gave him the minimum

I hope you're staying healthy and clean, sending love 💟

❤

Congratulations on getting clean

I want to say I'm glad you were able to manage to not kill,rape etc when on those hard drugs, I hope you're clean now, or if you're in recovery, keep it up and it's OKAY if you have hiccups along the way. I hope you're doing well though, wishing you all the best!

Sounds like you are a good person who had a hard time. I hope you blossom more everyday and never have to have that hard time again ❤

in the uk the vigilantes groups are constantly catching pedos and posting videos online, its good that in some places there are groups like this that go out of their way to do what law enforcement wont in order to keep the community safe from these people

United States too ! 😢

@@KeiranCounsellKC1994yeh the Uk don’t play about I remember one time a vid leaked of a man trying to kidnap a girl and they found a pic of his face and everyone was posting it next thing you know everyone in London was looking for him and they went to his mums house eventually he got arrested and there’s a gang in London called wood green who are known for beating up nonces(rapists and pedos) he ended up getting beaten up so badly with fractured bones and everything

Asian countries have always been backwards when it comes to womans rights. They don't follow rule of law like here in the west

People in the UK don't know how to fight tho. @@KeiranCounsellKC1994

same

Why get drunk?

to get a reduced sentence@@jo3158

​@@jo3158 in order to get his sentence reduced

@@jo3158 did you watch the video?

And the fact that he committed horrible crimes multiple times but continued to get incredibly light sentences. Insane.

If he was in American prison, he wouldn't make it out

@@BriEMcN exactly! I hate the fact his excuse was bc he was drunk

@@ALIVrchat10 no one takes this kinda stuff seriously and it’s so awful this poor little girl life is changed forever and he gets literal fame 😐

I don’t think the Chinese system well most systems are not made for the women or children it’s to protect most men and their perverted and sick ways and I feel they only gave him time because it became a story and noticed my the media . They didn’t have any mercury for that baby they let him out what if he came out and wanted to finish the job or kill again or do the same thing again and don’t get caught .

the hypocrisy of this defense is insane. So if you kill someone under influence, the alcohol is to blame, but if you get r*ped under influence, you are to blame. How does that make sense? I'm just gonna throw it out there, given how extremely misogynistic SK is, I even doubt the ''I was drunk'' defense would work if Mr. C was a woman.

yeah... stop selling alcohol then since many criminals are committing crime because of alcohol

alcohol should even add onto the sentence imo 🙄

It makes it sound like the whole country is alcoholic. Like between this the culture of being forced to go out drinking with your coworkers? smh. 😔

**EDIT** Since the troglodtyes want to mindlessly attack without ACTUALLY reading the words written. My comment is in response to THIS specific statement: "How he was able to get drunk, kill a man, and serve only two years is beyond me." Yet, despite my clarifiers, children LATCH on to the WRONG things. (caps are EMPHASIS words, and PARENTHSIS are for expanded thoughts {its ABSURD i have to clarifiy this, apparently necessary however}) **//TAKE HEED THE WORDS YOU ARE ABOUT TO READ BEFORE YOU MINDLESSLY ASSAULT\\** Your lense is not Asian (Korean, Chinese, whichever nationality this is). You are seeing from an English perspective (American, British, whichever nationality you are). I am NOT validating, but when you look from THEIR perspective, certain things start to make sense. It can be argued, your take is racist, because you lack the (seeming) capacitance to see from their view. I'm NOT going to say that, because it's not wholly racist. Could just be naivity, or lack of understanding. Try viewing the legal system from their side, and you see HOW this can happen. Still NOT a good thing to happen, but you can BEGIN to understand a perspective foreign to your own

I knooooo it made me so mad I started to cry I wish I could do something to help

The prosecutor needs to be held accountable for his actions as well, but as we can see in the system that will never happen, may he be miserable for the rest of his life!

I had that done to me by my parents, I had to show and tell how my uncle assaulted me. In front of the whole family. 10 years later, he went after my baby sister. That was 20 y ago. After maybe 10 y or less, my parents made up with my ab*ser. Thry just spent the NYE together. It turns my stomach

@@AlissaSss23 Love, I’m so sorry for you, that sounds fucking awful. I hope you are no contact with your “parents” (they don’t deserve the privilege of talking to you after making up with a pedophile that hurt their own child!!!) I hope your uncle rots in hell-and I’m sorry if I’m speaking out of term because they are your parents- but those parasites should join him there as well! I pray your healing journey has been helpful and that you seek therapy if you still struggle with the trauma he causes you. My heart goes out to you and your baby sister this is truly one of the saddest comments I’ve seen on this platform I’m at a loss for words honestly, I’m wishing you and your sister the best ❤❤❤

@@AlissaSss23I’m sorry for your pain and trauma. I hope you find peace even if that means separating yourself from negativity.

i didn't mean prosecutor i meant judge but the same still applies. It isn't really a far fetched accusation.

I was thinking the same thing. I watched the room case yesterday on this channel too... It wouldn't be a surprise if he was a watcher.

It truly is what a great man that father figure is.

I totally agree. Plus the mysoginism, the drinking culture, toxic work environment, etc.

South Korea needs a serious reform in their legal system, its so ridiculous it’s almost like a comedy special

It’s the same way here in the us. The SA laws here are lackluster and you’ll get more prison time for drugs than raping someone. And many times the perpetrator gets away with it.

​@@jazziedeeeethey still have the death penalty as an option for rape in the state of Georgia. I do think they would have used it in this case.

it's literally barbaric. korea's societal norms are strange as FUCK. some of the weirdest in the world for a country that likes to pride itself on advancement and keeping up with the west. their mindsets are largely stuck in the past.

Patriarchy at its most disgusting level

I think in a sick way it’s done on purpose -- because it’s proven a lot of people who were assaulted as children and later may struggle with addiction issues - which is the most persecuted area in the states are drug dealers and drug charges. It’s “ allow the damage, make mental health care so hard to peruse or afford, the turning of street drugs, then being caught with charges, maybe even bring down some large king pen”. It’s proven pedos can’t be fixed nor healed but people can stop selling - it’s proven that an attraction to minors at first may be assault/SA and after being caught - what happens - MURDER to not have a witness. It is absolutely baffling this issue seems to be global

its because the goverment is full of these sickos and they stick together

There's a Korean tv show about a junior cop so fed up with the justice system that he starts hunting down criminals on his own. After watching some of the Korean cases Stephanie covers, I'm starting to understand why they made that show...

Uh, no, they should be protecting him. If you have a problem with the law, change the law. He did the crime and did the time. You lost, get over it. The police shouldn’t just cede authority to mob justice.

Alchohol is one of the worst drugs. It's no excuse to abuse anyone,let alone a child.

Alcohol can do this. Add drugs and it might get worse.

This is such an oddly controversial statement because it’s such a huge part of so many people’s lives. You wouldn’t catch me on the streets saying this but I agree!

It's impossible to outlaw it, but a change might happen if it is seen as socially unacceptable to drink alcohol. It's literally one of the worst drug ever and probably indirectly caused as many victims as hard drugs. Just the amount from drunk driving and suicides must be insane.

America tried that with prohibition laws in the 1920s. It didn't work.

I don't know if it will. Too much corruption. I know someone who has done this sort of stuff, but who is not being prosecuted because even the reporting process is difficult when someone lives in another country.

Yup, this is very sad, theres alot of ppl like this in the world, but judgement day is soon, Jesus is returning, even if u dont believe, you'll see. We should spread the gospel, God bless❤

He was getting a thrill hearing her ordeal over and over. He's probably of the same ilk as the pedo.

I was wondering really hard in the beginning about this. And why it had to happen 4 times. After careful consideration, and if we exclude vile reasons such as "this prosecutor is just a sadist" and similar reasons there is the mildest form: too old to work with electric gadgets, hence also so strict with her posture (I don't know his age at the time, this is just what I would like to believe in his "defence") Or He made her repeat it on purpose to amp up his video recording. There is a possibility that "this recorder doesn't work" is a lie and that he knew the longer this little girl has to sit, the more she will look miserable on screen, making the whole case easier to win. This is still really really bad because it is torture on its own. But some people are so eager to win a case that they only see the victims as a tool, not as a client of theirs. 😢 Having that case must have boosted his credentials (at least he and maybe the judge thought like that)

I 100% Agree with u!

​@@sofitomy Don't use tragedy and time fear tactics to push your cult. I'm usually as respectful as possible to religious individuals but I can't stand those who use and abuse tragedy to spread their beliefs like this. There's literally over 2,000 religions in existence and the ability to not be religious at all, you're not special and have no real reason for others to spread your one religion. Also, by "soon" you probably mean you'll be dead and then your kids will say it will be "soon", and thrn their kids and so on. If it's so soon why do people who live and die keep saying "soon"??? Do you people really know what "soon" means????? If it's gonna happen just say that, stop saying "soon" because you clearly don't even know when.

And he kept asking her to start over again. By now, I wonder if he was a psychopath himself

korean men are like that, especially when in positions of power.

He was thoughtless and callous to say the very least.

The question should be "what the hell is wrong with this country"

Prosecutors and judges are not what the show in kdramas. Copaganda by omission.

Wow. Well said.

That’s such a good point. The judge should be sent to jail too he’s an enabler it’s so disgusting

In the old days, there was something called Mob Justice coz courts never did anything.

it's a difference in interpretation, unfortunately. the us follows the spirit of the law while some places follow the letter

well sokor laws are disgusting as shit ​@@Youngnrrwhtjwtjetk

Same! This case is so horrible, I can’t believe someone would do this.

Absolutely vile, and to think that man only received 12years?! 😤

Same. I knew this was going to be horrific but somehow this is far more vile than I anticipated. I am probably going to finish this episode later.

Same… I can’t even imagine the pain and horror that poor girl endured.

You should see 18

I’m so sorry that you had to go through such a horrible experience 🥺 I hope you are doing so much better and are getting every possible help you need 🫶🏻

I went through sa as a child too and only found out later on because I started having dreams. There’s so many things that happen while you grow up that you don’t even realize are part of trauma until your older 😔 the fact they didn’t even make him move cities

I'm reading your comment with tears in my eyes. I wish you live happy and healthy life. That monster will surely see his end someday

That's terrible. All blame is on behalf of the sick animal who did this. I hope that you get an amount of healthy love and appreciation you can handle❤

I am truly sorry this happened to you. My heart hurts for you!

There's nothing patriarchal about protecting predators

@@squizzyicetea patriarchal in the fact that most men are more valued and protected than women. Men in general are more revered and respected in Korea. As a developed nation, I would expect their women and men rights to be on par with other developed nations, but it is not

it's actually very on brand and even supportive of male domination/male supermacy to support violent men who target women and girls. It's built in protective system for male dominated institutions. Keeping the people you are subjucating or trying to exploit in fear and terror makes them easier to control. All men are not violent rapist, many have pure hatred for rapist or pedophiles and violence against women but all men do benefit from women and girls being afraid of them and "respecting" the potential danger they pose (even if men do not want this type of fear adn "respect" from women and girls they still will get it and will benefit from it wether they realise it or not). Keeping women and girls in fear and terror makes them more likely to obey any if not most men, they will do things to avoid angering or hurting men even if it comes to their own cost, They will be less likely to challenge male domination which is important for the patriarchy and why they even support, enable and protect violence against women and girls (or in general female presenting bodies, because men who are gay, or seem effeminate and trans women due to their asssociation with feminity get targeted as well)@@squizzyicetea This act of allowing women and girls to be stalked, harrassed, raped etc. is part of gender based terrroriz to keep women and girls in fear and under mens thumb to make women fear men and obey them and also need men (always say women need men to protect them, leaving out the fact the greatest danger to women and girls is men in the first place). and so women have to be subject and "submissive" to men for protection. Rape is also a means to torture people and show women their "place". Just like stephanie said the predator more then anything enjoyed the pain and chaos he created in her life and the families life. It's a means to show power and contorl. One of the many things they drill into boys head is to dominate to "prove" their manliness and worth and who and what are they expected to dominate? women and land as "resources" and also other men to put themselves above them. Pedophiles and predators are a side effect and consequence of the sick teachings of male supremacy. People dont understand what kind of sick minds you create when you teach peopel that they are superior beings to half the planet no matter who or what they are and that violence and specifially sexual-/violence against women and girls (who are not even presetned as living beings but lesser objects) is a means to show your power and exist to be be enjoyed and used because males are "superior". Yes patriarchy is not the only reasons for mentally twisted people exist who hurt others and yes there are female predators and male victims but there is trastically huge differnce in how many male to female predators exist for a reason. And before someone says i hate men or think this is who men are. I am even more angry and distrubed because I know this sick behaviour is NOT inherent in men or boys even though some people like to act like it is "boys will be boys" nonsense and "male urges" nonsense. This sick behaviour is taught and enabled by parents, , society and medial (kids learn from subteldy and unspoken rules as well).

​@@squizzyicetea Yes there is. Men in patriarchal structures are allowed to get away with anything with little to no repercussions. Eg, A man is allowed to loudly catcall a woman but she is the one who has to be wary of him. Others will be like, "Well it's not a crime to compliment" thereby excusing the man's pathetic behaviour and what then? Well he does it again and again and eventually takes it up a notch.

@@dreamer9375 blame "the patriarchy" for everything. It's so much easier 🤪

That is an incredibly stupid system that you’re describing. Judges don’t have control over other people’s actions and to imply that they police should be allowed to simple kill people because they disagree with the outcome of a legal case is, to put it mildly, a bit deluded.

@@Adam-326why u mad. Rapist

The man has reoffended multiple times. Where is the delusion in that?

@@Adam-326 There bloing of steem man shut up

@@tigerlilliwilliams7231 No, it’s that kind of “bloing (sic) off steam” that leads people to take the law into their own hands. Did you even think about the implications of what he’s suggesting?

I’m so sorry about your husband having to serve so long when there are dangerous people who deserve life in Jail walking around in public. They could help out people like your husband, they need support..

the fact you married a drug offender just shows how stupid you are and you are protecting him its pure cringe.

This is one of the worst flaws in the law system in almost every country. The vast majority of drug charges of individuals didn't pose any danger to a person but the consenting "offenders" themselves. Rehab availability and a generally improved education on drugs is almost always the right way to deal with this topic, yet people get stolen years off of their lives being opput into a cell instead. Meanwhile the hypocrisy lives on with one of the, factually speaking, most dangerous drugs out there, Alcohol, still being socially accepted and even advertised. It's so backward and unfortunate to see e.g. CP offenders getting a slap on the wrist while (especially in east asian countries like japan and SK) getting caught with a tab of acid could possibly mean to face over a decade in prison. I'm just somewhat hopeful to see a change when looking at the drug policies of portugal or the netherlands, where in the latter legal drug testing has been established and drugs such as cannabis and psilocybin are legal with mainly positive results for the country's economical and social aspect

The governments care more about money than people so because drug money doesnt go to them drugs are dangerous to them

I feel like we as humans are going backwards 😔 hope your husband is okay darling

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Exactly my thoughts throughout the video!

My thoughts exactly😑

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best of luck to your wife 🩷🩷

Good luck!❤

I believe you meant to say 'Bisaya' instead of 'Bisia', a language of the Philippines. Nonetheless, best of luck to your wife po.

There’s a lot of unsolved cases and unjustice happening in the Philippines and I would like to learn more about these cases. I hope your wife's research is going well.

Good Luck Lindsay! Kaya mo yan!

Pretty sure alcohol doesn't make you do things you didn't already think about...

Korea has one of the most toxic drinking cultures in the world. I’m not surprised they protect drunks.

@sleeparalysisdemon1164 All alcohol really does it's lower someone's inhibitions and make them more likely to act out thoughts they were already having.

@@tomeeshahaller4226 he claimed to be blackout drunk the only thing you do on a toilet in that state is hold onto it for dear life and regret choices made in the past three hours, not rape little girls and walk away like nothing happened

u were prob SA'd while u were blacked out

Bless you for honoring Jessica's memory.

​@@compassioncampaigner728Be careful with who you meet on the internet ive met a female pedophile and seen crazy shit that could scar you for life

Sadly that law means nothing now… :/

@@zerotodona1495 with how much American conservatives love rapist? You bet that law means nothing

Have you heard of the case of Marianne Bachmeier? It’s a West German case of a mother who shot her daughter’s rapist/murderer in court during the trial. There’s actually video of it. It’s worth looking into!

HOW 👏🏻CAN 👏🏻WE 👏🏻HELP 👏🏻THIS GIRL AND HER FAMILY!??!!!! They deserve to be able to live comfortably and move out of that god forsaken place

@@decimusvitae Im surprised that it hasnt happened to judges lately

I assume they had to stay away from drinking just to avoid doing exactly that

​@@Noa-g1exwe can't, she wants to remain anonymous, but there are many charities that help survivors

I feel he assumed she was dead tbn

YEAH. this is so messed up, I hope the kid is okay, he deserves hell

@@randomspaghotti9375 RIGHT!!! Like I bet if the creep ass rapist asked the gov’t for a million dollars they would give it to him without any hesitation. But when it comes to Nayeon she doesn’t get shit even though she’s the only one that deserves the money.

Exactly..🤮

extreme misoginy rules in that country...

Korea is consistently three generations behind western social standards and judicial standards. It’s better than what it was but the country has a long way to go on many fronts. Hell, even western countries have a long way to go on many of the same issues.

S. Korea and N. Korea are full of smart and civilized citizens. The problem is their government.

i really didnt think of that since frog boys, disabled slaves on islands, and lot more..... they just turn blind eye

@@fxxxxck How is it racist when the one talked about is an incomprehensible law? Yeah, men can do those crimes in any country, so what? The law itself still doesn't make sense. Maybe law doesn't protect you since it would possibly mean that you got assaulted first for it to act, though it does repress people with more sensible mind to not commit crimes due to the consequences. "You are just lucky that you haven't crossed paths with a violent sadist" and wtf is this response?

That’s truly gross. Justice fell and I feel that people should defend themselves, because no one else will, even those who are supposed to

Unfortunately Asian countries, at least when it comes to law, are not friendly to us women. I don't care what anyone says, I don't care how many good times you've had there, I don't care if you find anime and kpop inspiring, most of the most horryfing, gut-wrenching stories are from South Korea and Japan, that including sentences in court. And in my opinion their culture allows a lot of abuse too with their forced politeness, proper manners and other bullshit.

@@p0lyblank atleast in less developed countries families can take justice into their hands and they’ll have enough friends to help them but SK and JP? Fuck they might as-well be Jehovah’s witnesses they protect rap*st and assaulters

North and south korea are both bad because north korea doent feed the north korean people and South korea doesnt even let CHO let to jail A LONGER ONE

Why don't you tell your family

@@Sahil24980 it’s okay read it again, think a little harder this time.

​​@@Sahil24980I don't think you understand how scary these situations can feel for SA survivors. This one, especially. The assaulter has maintained a good relationship with OP's family even AFTER OP told them what they did. Speaking up once could very well make any SA survivor feel more vulnerable, and lead to further psychological and emotional anguish. To think of trying to speak up a second time after the way it went the first time in OP's experience is an extremely stressful thought to say the least. They could be afraid to lose the remaining support they have in their life. Unfortunately, the people who should be supportive don't always play their role well in the lives of others.

The patriarchy/misogyny essentially. People pretend men who do this are unimaginable monsters, when in reality, it can be ANYONE. Men are taught from birth to constantly take what they want from women/young girls

@@Sahil24980 I have, thus the shunned and gaslighting.

It's a sad reality. I know victims that received letters from their abusers from prison and noone thought to intercept them or put a stop to them when the victim expressed outrage. The justice system is really broken all over the world

@@azkadeelia oh my gosh, why are criminals even allowed to mail letters to their victims? this is what I can't wrap my head around

@@dw-yx9or They're supposed to screen all of them but somehow a good number slip through the cracks. Im sure there are sickos working for the criminal system against the victims that contribute to this

​​@@azkadeelia laziness. So many people are just working a 9-5 when they have more responsibilities to worry about. "We don't get paid enough to think." is something I heard a lot while doing training with the military. Wouldn't be surprised if it's the same excuses with the police.

Yea. Korea seems like a pretty cold place.

I'm pretty sure stephanie did an episode on this one already, no?

@@JDsayslolyes it’s deleted now

Korea has one of the most disgusting inhumane justice ive ever heard.

It's not the police, police usually hate criminals with a passion. Those were prosecutors and judges making decisions