I commend your sister for this interview. It takes a lot of courage to answer these questions in public especially since she is an introvert. I am impressed she is not playing the victim and she is taking responsibility for her actions. Very good interview. Thanks to you and your sister!!

How is it possible that all of these sisters are soooo gorgeous😳 they could hold their own beauty contests at family gatherings 🤗

You're sister is super cute. Love her personality, it's so rare to find someone genuine and shy like her these days.

I think rebellion against overbearing parents causes more upset then almost everything else! She is so honest and open though! WIsh her and her boy all the blessings 😘

I admire her courage and commend her for looking inside herself to self reflect. She is beautiful and wise.

your sister is a champion. she is beautiful and thoughtful and soo self-aware.

Your sister is stunning! I like how she admits to herself for past mistakes. It shows her maturity.

super cute sister! Any guy would be very lucky to have her as his partner. Her personality is similar to mine - introvert and dont make a fuss. just live and try to be happy the best way you can!

Someone who is truly in love will never ever think about cheating. Find the man that spends every day trying to make you and your son happy, the man you find must love your son like his own. Good luck, I hope you find your life partner! God bless!

I just want one of these sisters 🤗

Your sister is honest and seems naturally gorgeous, articulate. Theoretically she has her whole life in front of her

The sense of family is one of the most impressive things about PH

Your sister is amazing! Such a trooper! Totally knows where the mistakes were made in the relationship and fights hard to support her son. To bad she didn’t want to date anyone! I’m totally ❤️ her.

Your sister is a cutie, Rubeauti 😍 And you're a tough interviewer! I'm very similar to your sister. I'm also very much an introvert, and prefer to have a lot of solitude. I know how she feels. I was shy also, and did not work for quite a while after college. It was really hard to put myself out there even just to find a job. I know how it is. I think she's doing better now, and good for her :)

Nice interview. Your sister is well spoken and attractive. It was nice she had a support system to allow her to stay home and raise her child.

Wow, your sister is amazing, she comes across as very smart and articulate, she has had a tough life experience and in spite of the stress this may have caused her she looks so young and energised.

Jett is sooooo pretty! Thanks Miss Rubeauti for introducing us to your family, and to your life. Jett is very introspective and thats the first step in positive growth. I wish for her a wonderful life. Any man would be lucky to show off Jett as his own.

Wow! Such a lovely and pleasant person. Would love to see her more often on your channel. I wish her nothing but good luck

You are a great interviewer, and your sister has such grace and intelligence. She will go far in life.

Great interview with your sister, she kept it real and made a lot of sense. Single parents make it work out just like 2 parents.

good interview. Your sister is very brave to explain how her situation developed.

It is cute the way she talks with her hands. A good interview!

This was a great interview! One thing I like is how you didn't pull punches with your sister! You kept things real and at the same time offered comfort!

Thank you for the chat. Both sharing valid mature points which helps us understand the problems facing some Filipinas in today's confused world

Amazing video & interview. I was raised by a single mom and did not realized this as a kid. It wasn't until I hit my early 30s that I realized how amazing my mother did raising me. Like your sister, my mother never asked for or pursued any financial support from my father. Take it from a son raised by a single mom, your sister is doing fine. Bravo to her!

My gosh. She looks so much like you. Amazing. Thank you for interviewing her.

Great interview with your sister! It is good to see her perspective and what she is going through and why. She was very brave to take part in the interview, but I hope it makes her feel better that her story is out. I hope she takes advantage of the new law. It's about taking care of the kids regardless of the parent's relationship. It will make "him" more responsible and he will take relationships and having children more seriously.

This must have been very difficult to interview your sister and ask such challenging questions. Even though I'm late to the video, I really appreciate you filming something so personal and thoughtful.

Jab is back, about time! I'm watching with heart-eyes. Keep your head up Jab, you're awesome. Always pay attention to people who pause and process in while expressing or explaining. That's a tell tale sign of intelligence. Some people are just not thriving in relationships and is happier and better off going at it alone. I think the biggest issue for that group of people is not at all the feeling of loneliness but the social stigma; everyones elses expectations and to always having to explain yourself. "You don't have a partner in life, you must be miserable and lonely".

Your sister seems virtuous even with the pregnancy. It is sad , but she has pride in not expecting the much from an inactive father. She shows courage.

Very nice video your sister is really awesome . I learn more about the Philippines every time i watch all the videos from you and other vloggers . I am moving there in May and still have so much to learn . thank you both for sharing.

This was a very genuine/real chat. Thanks for sharing 👍

Interesting interview. Your sister has a good mind. Seems like she has had some trauma concerning her life with the ex. Sounds like she’s working it out. Good luck to her. It sounds like she has good support from your family. That’s important.

Good interview and a open, honest sisters relationship. Your parents must be so proud of you 🍀

I think this is your best video. Very relatable and insightful. I think we all could see a little of ourselves in this topic.

Beautifully open interview. You have the great family tradition in PH of help from the family when needed. Jess has nothing to worry about regards her son I have seen your home vlogs when you have spent time with your nephew and he shows to be a well rounded young man, close to his family and hardly likely to stray from the path. Jess shows honesty in the interview, maturity in her views, even her worries for the future ❤

Introverts are rare compared to extroverts. The best definition of an introvert I've read is; "An extrovert gets mentally recharged when they find a group of people while an introvert recharges when they spend time alone." An introvert is actually spending a lot of mental energy in a social setting but many have learned how to do it. Being an introvert is viewed negatively sometimes but they are important to the world and should be appreciated. A lot of the time they are very intelligent, independent/aloof, and self motivated like scientists (famous introvert Albert Einstein), researchers, scholars, artists, poets, single business owners, etc etc. My first good friend was an older woman, named Maria, who was an introvert. Introverts remind me of tigers while extroverts remind me of pack animals like lions. Both are beautiful cats but they have different strengths.

I love this. I have learned so much. I am glad your father is involved in your sisters and Nefu. A boy needs a man in his life. Sounds like you have a really good father. Great podcast 👏

This is definitely one of your best videos I’ve ever seen and probably a better one than I’ve ever seen from anyone and yes I believe that you should definitely be getting child support from whoever abandons their children

Very good and honest interview. The law you mentioned is a big step. Allowing divorce when abandoned would be an other one.

Great insight to your family. You guys seem very close. Family values are important. Your sister has her priorities in the right places. Having a child is a big responsibility. Your sister seems know that she needs to take care of herself and child. I have never been to Philippines but Family seems to be important there. Hopefully both of you guys find some one special to share your life with.

For me, after watching this interview, my heart goes out to your sister's son who is growing up without his father in his life. A boy needs his dad to avoid developing a hole in his heart where a father's love should be. From what I heard, his mom isn't with him either, which can lead to the child developing a sense of feeling abandoned. Anyway, I wish your sister and her son all the best in life.

Wow! Great interview! Sometimes it's best to leave sleeping dogs lie! I think your sister understands her past relationship better than anyone. Any "small" contribution you could extract from her ex may come back to haunt you because of negative influences from the ex or his family on her son. The best for all concerned is to keep her with her son and let her go back to school. She should work on a degree that would allow her to find employment locally to help support everyone in the future. Don't be too quick to ship your sister off to a place where you have no control over her safety. Your current situation is working. While it may not be optimal, everyone is there for the other person.

Happy Valentine's Day!! You have a great podcast!!

Judging from all the conversations i had with filipinas about difficult phases in their lifes, I'd say your sister has a similar story to many of them. They get pregnant before they're truly adults, they might still lack the judgement and therefor the ability to take responsibility, and there's a general sense of being naive about the future (i.e. "it'll work out", "he's gonna take care of it", "the lord willl provide"). Then it's not a surprise she ends up in her situation with her boyfriend in her "in-laws" home where she does not feel welcomed and just keeps to herself in the end. In retrospect that's easy to see and maybe even to judge, but if you're in that moment i understand how you can feel like there's no better alternative. The part in us that's looking for better ways only really starts growing in our 20s haha But luckily she's still young and has her whole life and her sons whole life ahead of her. She can turn it around and she can learn to trust "a better half" again :) I can't speak for filipinos, but i know at least in the west there are a lot of men looking for love and they don't see a single mom as a negative necessarily. Sometimes they're in a place in life where they see a child as just another person in the relationship to love and adore because they want a family themselves. I can see it in my cousin, who's really dedicated to his single mom girlfriend (not filipina, happens here in europe too :)) and tries real hard to be there for her daughter too. When those things work out it is beautiful. In the end the "sins" of your youth shouldn't chase you forever, you have a right to be happy like everyone else, and that's what i wish for all of you (even though i can already hear the typing of snarky replies haha)

This was a good interview. I agree with rubeauti’s perception on western thoughts on cheating, cheating for me is when one decides to be with a woman, then another. Dating is a friendship thing with a potential. It’s the dating events that educates me about the woman i’m considering, and she learns who i am too. Personally, i slept around (in my younger days) with women only when i didn’t have a girlfriend. While many men are like me, there are many more who cheat as i believe is cheating. I believe if i cheat, my partner should be entitled to do the same, so i don’t. Trustworthiness is one of the characteristics i look for while dating. For me it’s a level of respect for my partner and myself. Best wishes for your sister on her journey, and her son finding a happy future. If i were your sister’s male suitor i wouldn’t mind her son having a relationship with his father if he wanted, but i would want to be comfortable knowing she had no feelings for her ex, 8 years could be enough time. I personally would prefer to raise your sister’s son as my own, providing he also chose me as did his mother. On age, 30 years is still young outside the phillipines. Low salaries, wow, an eye opener. I’m retiring this year, also seriously planning to become an USA expat. I did consider the phillipines until i learned if i bought a house, i couldn’t own the land it was on. That’s a vulnerability i wouldn’t want to risk. Strange, the men can’t afford to buy land and foreigners aren’t allowed to, i guess it’s a way for the rich filipino to stay rich via regulations. I understand preventing someone from buying far more than they need, but within reason, a foreigner should be able to buy a certain amount of land under his house. Other than that, i’m impressed with phillipines and it’s people.

These are very complicated issues. I think most of us have gone through some of them. Just know your sister will be glad she has her son as time goes by. She just needs to be strong and keep moving forward.

You guys had a very good discussion, and you covered so many key points concerning growing up and being mature, not just for your sister but for us all , as men we need to be more responsible for our actions and we need to hold one another accountable. I'm glad that they do have a new law in the Philippines that will hold irresponsible partners accountable for their actions. Your sister brought up another very good point about gender identity. I hope and pray that you will continue to have a close relationship with your sister. and I am glad that she is not in denial that it is a burden on your parents, but hopefully she will not stay condemned but will do something about it, she can still develop some skills to get a job .We do appreciate your videos and you're unfiltered conversation that you bring to us, thank you.

This is only the 3rd time I have watched your channel. I am blown away by the honest views presented by you and your sister. You are two very intelligent young ladies. I was confused at the end when you talked about your father raising the child. I thought that the child was with your sister the whole time. You are both extremely charming. Have a Magical Day.

IT IS BEAUTIFUL THAT THE FAMILY HELP EACH OTHER GOD BLESS EVERYONE GOOD LUCK TOO YOUR SISTER TO FIND A GOOD MAN FOR HER.

Your sister seems very nice and responsible. Raising her son is very important:)

Very nice 😊 interview. You both did a great job

Great.interview love your sister she beautiful, both good people

Wow Rubeauti very nice when is part two 🤔 thank you and your sister for sharing with us.

I have been alone since 2014. Parents are my dependents now. Life might begin again later but for now. Best to be single parent again.

THIS WAS THE “DEEPEST” VIDEO THAT I’VE WATCHED ON YOUR CHANNEL. I DIDN’T REALIZE THAT YOUR SISTER IS AN INTROVERT. THAT’S O.K. THOUGH. WE ALL HAVE OUR OWN PERSONALITIES. (I STILL LOVE “YOUR” PERSONALITY, THOUGH). ❤️❤️❤️

Great video girls. So grateful for sharing

Thanks for the interview. Sister, keep grinding!

Nice to see you and your sister❤

I'd like to say I love your channel very much. I watch it all the time... I think your sister is very beautiful And that she's just going through a phase in life that we all go through... There are a lot of men out there that would love to be with your sister .. and have a meaningful long-term relationship with her it's good that she is not in a rush and meets the right person... I've been in a situation where I was a single dad and raised my son by myself He was two and a half years old He is now 23... I am now looking to move to the Philippines and and retire and meet a beautiful woman and enjoy life together..

This was one of the most down to earth, and honest interviews ever. It should gives men in the west something to think about. One important point is that the basic nature of men and women is the same all over the world. Women seem to be the ones who leave the relationship most often. Women cheating is more a matter of the heart . Men cheating seems to be more for physical gratification.

Good luck to your Sister. I pray God will bless her life and everything will be alright :)

@Rubeauti thank you for these videos. I truly appreciate you doing them. After everything you have shared I reached out and started dating a Filipina lady recently. It has been nothing but great (except the time difference). As of now I am planning my first trip to the Philippines.

My feelings on relationships is both of people In the relationship have to give 100% if only one is really trying it will never work. And both have to have enough maturity to be able to sit down and talk about what it's going to take to make things better without getting into a big argument and yelling at each other. A relationship (marriage) is two different people that become one and should act and behave as one. When children are evolved it's even more important to communicate with each other so that they can see this and learn how important it is to keep the relationship going. I've seen people in my life that had very little and still had a wonderful life together because of love and dedication to there partner and children, and I've also seen couples that had everything, money, homes, cars ect... that were miserable for lack of communication and growing together ❤️ I honestly hope you and your sister have a wonderful life and many blessings, God bless and keep the faith 🙏 As far as cheating goes a lot of times it's for same reason, the couples quit communicating and they search for someone else that can fill in the empty space in their relationship. In the US I can only speak for myself, I'm 59 years old next month 60 and I've never cheated on my partner, if it would come to that point I would sit down and discuss with my partner why it isn't working and we need to separate and go our own way. And even then it would be a long time before I could date or start a relationship with someone else. Again God bless and take care, 🙏 and I wish you both the very best. And I thank your sister for doing this interview, even though I'm almost 60 I'm always learning and growing every day, I'm very serious looking to retire in the Philippines 🇵🇭 and I want to learn about life and culture there as much as possible.

That wad a fantastic interview your sister is a brave young lady for doing that interview and I must say she is also very very beautiful I wish her all the best 🙏💋💗

Wow very pretty girl! It’s very possible he just didn’t help you or show you the love and support you deserve!!!

Wow, she's very cute, intelligent and owns the mistakes she's made in life. :)

Shes very beautiful also like you what a gorgeous pair of sisters. Im shy and a little introverted but not real bad I hope when I move therd in about a year I can meet a lady like your sister that is serious about a real relationship. Best of luck to her.

Your sister is Gorgeous!😘🌻

Great interview, you managed to get your sister to come out of her shell a bit. I'm struggling to tell who is the older sister.....both of you have youthful radiance.

Great interview. Tell your sister there are some beautiful relationships out there. She needs to find someone that believes in give and take. It's not all about me me me. If she finds someone that it's all about him then she needs to find someone better. She is beautiful and seems smart. Everyone does wrong things but it's called learning.

Your Sister is Beautiful She just needs to meet the right person that will take care of Her and Her Son . Hopefully the new law will help the single parents with their financial needs.

You are both lovely sisters ! ( really )

I recognize so much about your sisters personality in myself, I totally get it and sometimes hard to explain to others. Before we know it and being so contented being alone, we lost a huge portion of progress in life when we look back. Sometimes worried when we realize but also very content with the situation. Avoiding drama as the world has already enough drama on the shelves. Yet, at some point we realize 2 are stronger than being just one. At some point we realize a compatible partner makes life easier and more joyful 🙏🏼👍🏼 Listening to your sister is like listening to myself apx 10 to 15 years ago.

You 2 are so beautiful. She seems so sweet just like you. Thank you for interviewing your sister.

My what beautiful ladies! I love and look forward to all your videos ❤Happy Valentine’s Day. To both

Jett it's nice to see you again ☺️ You look a lot different from the last time we saw you 😁 still as beautiful as ever.

Great interview as always ❤

Great interview your sister is beautiful and insightful. I find you have to try to find whatever you can do to improve your relationship. Compromising often helps if you really listen to your partner without condemation.

Wow she is a stunner.

WOW RUBEAUTI ❤️ SEEING THE TWO OF YOU TOGETHER IS SO AWESOME TWO BEAUTIFUL WOMEN BOTH SHARING SO MUCH IDENTICAL BEAUTY ❤

In the heat of the moment we lost our heads and lost our minds 🤣 and the next day we wondered why it happened after the good feeling is satisfied. I hope everybody can understand that it's more like a riddle. I just want to say we bring kids into this world depending on the other partner to be present! But find later on only family is going to be there to help. I lived in the Philippines for about 9 months, all I saw was a happy kid even if they didn't have the mom and dad were just as happy as kids with mom and dad. It's so amazing in the Philippines how the family knits together to help that fatherless or motherless kid. That's why I can't wait to move back to the Philippines this year. To all the amazing people in the Philippines you are very resilient. And I always tell Filipinos you are not poor until you go to America and miss your culture and family. There's so much land in potential in the Philippines no way is it a poor country you guys got the best buko and land, natural food nice malls. America has nice beautiful homes a lot of money and a lot of fake artificial food also and lots of people on medication,I been on both sides and I want real food 100% everything so never say you are poor, because I saw many super Rich die hard and the money couldn't save them.

Yes

Interesting dynamic between you too. Coming from America I personally wouldn’t like my sibling consistently telling me I was irresponsible on social media but maybe the implication of the word is different in your country. You two are nice and this was interesting. Thank you for the video!

love you both

Great interview Rubeauti, very interesting. I wish your sister the best in her future.

This was a very interesting interview. I think Filipinas say they are single moms because of the man’s cheated so they don’t have to give the real reasons. You are 100% correct, women end most relationships because they want someone better.

Sex is natural, the resulting child is not someone's "fault". She adjusted, and has done right by her child . Good woman

Two beautiful girls❤️❤️❤️

Jet shouldn´t let one bad experience put her off guys. I am a little shy / cautious at first, but she comes through, with a great smile. Maybe a less needy husband, or someone that appreciates some personal / space. I am an older (53), professional guy, easy going, so busy with my career / interests some times... ;-)

I suspect that children of single moms maintain some sense of normalcy because of the support and closeness of the entire family

She is beautiful 😍

Wonderful video 👏 and I believe you an your sister Jet are very insightful. Wishing you both the best always and wishing all those alone without the special person or an alone parent the best and strength an inspiration to never give up on love but be smart when seeking it.✌🌻

Girls.... you're doing a great job

Unfortunately, I was that little boy once. I always wanted my mom to be happy. She experienced many hardships and suffered thorough many trials. She was hurt very badly as a child, and she allowed it to influence her life again and again. She was so afraid of being hurt again or letting someone in and then them hurting me. What I'm trying to say, is you don't have to punish yourself for the rest of your life. Forgive yourself, allow yourself to love again. Please, for your son. You both deserve love, it's worth fighting for.

Wow I would love to meet your sister.❤

The statistics on children of single mothers are very grim here in the US. Family is so vital in their development. Hopefully her child will have a strong male role-model prominent in his life, and perhaps she will find a man who will love her child as his own.

All children need to know and feel loved by there parents:) Parents should always want there children to have a better life then they have:)

Very interesting points were made. Although it is noble that Filipino families are so close, the example shown by your sister shows that a big family all living in the same kubo can be toxic. This is why in the western Anglo culture the young people are expected to move out on their own and be responsible before getting married or living with your partner. It's just supposed to be the two parents and child in the same house, with no grandparents, uncles, aunts, or other people to interfere with your personal issues. In our culture if you have to move back in with your parents or extended family that is looked upon as a failure.

You talk about real important stuff ☺️.