Responding to Your Assumptions part II

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@jennaaustin2846 4 жыл бұрын

"I'd feel much better if you said I look like your great grandmother" 😂😂

@theliopleurodon 4 жыл бұрын

Best comment

@DearOldWorld 4 жыл бұрын

Literally the best line 😂

@mina0rahman 4 жыл бұрын

LMAO I cackled at that. She's clever.

@helenrubens6172 4 жыл бұрын

Such a good reaction😂😂😂 really cracked me up🤣

@omari9593 4 жыл бұрын

Literally Ruby is an icon

@MegaRangers2009 4 жыл бұрын

It made me so happy to hear you say that you don’t judge people on their efforts in school because you don’t know their circumstances. Through most of high school I didn’t try AT ALL. I skipped school, I didn’t do homework etc, and I got a lot of judgement about it. BUT when I went into foster care and finally got a good set of parents, I suddenly was trying SO HARD, managed to get university acceptance and a few scholarships. Turns out I was smart all along, just had a lot of trouble at home and no one cared if I worked hard!

@lavenderreads8915 4 жыл бұрын

So happy for you now 💕

@tanihehe 4 жыл бұрын

This makes me so happy to hear!! Hope you keep on pushing and working your best!!!❤❤

@MegaRangers2009 4 жыл бұрын

Tanisha Shriyan Dont worry!! It’s all going great now! I graduated top of my class at university and now have an amazing job!

@tanihehe 4 жыл бұрын

@@MegaRangers2009 Wow!!! Proud of you hun!!! Life gave you a chnace and you took it😊😊. That comment was inspiring!❤

@jessysmith7953 4 жыл бұрын

Love this, you’re a legend 🖤

@kme3894 4 жыл бұрын

being introverted doesn't equal to being shy or uninterested in others. I am 100% introverted yet most people don't even know because I am quite chatty and outgoing even with strangers. I just need to spend tons of quality time in my own company pursuing my endless interests :)

@Mehlsuppe 4 жыл бұрын

I am the same 🙂 Really chatty and quite open to others, but I need lots of time for myself.

@jazz_intown4723 4 жыл бұрын

I'm the same

@abhishiktachakraborty451 4 жыл бұрын

Totally get this thing!

@rajarshibarman334 4 жыл бұрын

The problem is the actual need to classify one as introvert or extrovert. That is really not required because personalities aren't something black and white which u can just categorise

@jazzphitaksombat877 4 жыл бұрын

I often have trouble talking to strangers or making new friends but my friends say that I’m very chatty except with strangers

@joemattmurphy5753 4 жыл бұрын

“In year 5 I hated revision”... I didn’t know what revision was in year 7

@nesrinisli6921 4 жыл бұрын

Joe Seppi same

@randomuser405 4 жыл бұрын

sameee

@somebody2116 4 жыл бұрын

Haha didn't know that until this year which is year 10 lmao

@nesrinisli6921 4 жыл бұрын

Baby Mochi it’s when you look at stuff you learnt at school/ uni and you either try to fully understand or just repeat it to better understand it. It’s also practice for exams.

@nesrinisli6921 4 жыл бұрын

Baby Mochi that is kinda it though memorising can also be revision it really depends on what works best for you and sometimes it depends on the subject. Unfortunately I don’t have a video but I can look it up ☺️.

@mrsdatabuzz8447 4 жыл бұрын

"Really, I'd much rather get comments I'm dressing like their GREAT-grandma than their grandma." omg, I love that! I adore the way you dress, Ruby :3

@lilyelvin2245 4 жыл бұрын

yesssss i love it too!!

@soumiliray1522 4 жыл бұрын

How can people even hate her 1%? She literally is the sweetest person ever.

@plainjanex9970 3 жыл бұрын

Probably jealousy tbhhhh....

@coffee8038 Жыл бұрын

Well it depends on different kinds of people and different opinions, not trying to be rude, just saying it out of the blue for no reason.

@catnipppz7390 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah you do dress like my great grandmother she was beautiful, and so are you.

@jadex9733 4 жыл бұрын

Cat Nipppz no offence but ruby isn’t beautiful 😂 she’s bang on average But she is a lovely person

@camembertfanpage 4 жыл бұрын

@@jadex9733 Well since everbody is beautiful, Ruby clearly is, too. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and just because you don't like how she looks, there is no reason to be so rude. I personally think she's lovely outside and inside.

@angelapamelanavarretegonza8485 4 жыл бұрын

@@jadex9733 what are you saying? Ruby is very beautiful! In the external and internal way

@jadex9733 4 жыл бұрын

Jesse Ruth Valdehueza nah, I define beauty as Adriana Lima if you look her up

@amnanur7358 4 жыл бұрын

@@jadex9733 yes she is average

@daracroft5045 4 жыл бұрын

I'm amazed of how you have matured over time

@Alex-hb4ew 4 жыл бұрын

I assumed the "you believe people who don't succeed in school aren't intelligiant" and I agree with your response, I too believe that there are different types of intellignace

@charlotte-6589 4 жыл бұрын

I never thought that somebody doesn‘t believe in this lmao

@hxcknall_ 4 жыл бұрын

@@charlotte-6589 There's this super privileged girl in my university that always shit talks about other students just because they don't get good grades, don't study as much as her, look different than her, etc. She doesn't "believe" that people can be intelligent outside of the academic perspective or that people can't be good on certain areas of the course (I study law and we have a huge amount of areas that we can specialize on)

@ipsitaparida4471 3 жыл бұрын

*Intelligiant* genius

@Two_lights867 4 жыл бұрын

From your kindness and politeness I can tell that you were raised by loving and sportive parents. A lot of people are raised in a toxic home yet they are very kind, but they somehow lack motivation and self love. It’s just amazing how parents can influence our lives. My parents take advantage of me and my siblings, making me skip university so they can go on vacations, taking our salary, manipulating us and throwing their responsibilities on us. And me especially because I’m the oldest girl. Seeing you and how loving you’re parents are and how happy you are truly does make me happy. I hope one day to get married and leave this house, I imagine my home would be like your home, warm and cozy. I don’t understand people who are jealous from others who have everything that they don’t, you Ruby have everything that I wish for but I can’t but feel happy for you. So be happy for those of us that can’t! You have no idea how you’re videos have helped me, I watch your videos everyday, I even rewatch your old ones, that’s how much you’ve changed my life.🖤🖤🖤

@milacruz3970 4 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry you have to go through this. Is though and you have to be relly strong to get out of it. I hope and I know someday you can get out of that situation and your vision of a good healthy family is really nice. Try to work on yourself as much as you can.

@hardoffspeller8939 4 жыл бұрын

Asi es la vida .

@khadijafayyaz6184 4 жыл бұрын

Sending you all the love and courage in the world 💛💛💛

@zoopoo3854 4 жыл бұрын

Sorry u have to go through this but ur comment was kind of rude. U just assumed because she’s a good student that she had a good set of parents which may be true but u have no idea what people are going through. Also u can’t stress on what u can’t control only what u can do the money thing shouldn’t be a stress factor. My friend goes through horrible shit he is close to being homeless and me and him are in an advanced program and he’s getting almost straight A’s. I personally get annoyed with teenagers who complain about their parents being the problem because a lot of the time it isn’t the problem

@Two_lights867 4 жыл бұрын

Khadija Fayyaz Thanks a lot 🖤🖤

@LunasLifeToday 4 жыл бұрын

I was horrible in school. Failing, falling asleep in class getting bullied. No one asked why except one year in my zoology class. I explained my dads been sick for years and recently passed. She understood but I dropped out cause overall school didn’t understand. You have inspired me to try again at school and now I’m in school to be a veterinary technician and doing great

@Mani-pi3ou 4 жыл бұрын

Primary school is supposed to be easy. I don't even remember revising then.

@munxlight4840 4 жыл бұрын

Yh it's weird my brothers revising now and I'm like whaaatt

@natxshap 4 жыл бұрын

Mani Smiles lol yeah I completely forgot I sat sats

@castwt 4 жыл бұрын

oh yeah i didn’t revise once in primary

@natashafisk 4 жыл бұрын

i never revised primary and i never revised gcses as there cancelled

@emilygwynneth1278 4 жыл бұрын

I revised every day in primary

@riyanna_lei 4 жыл бұрын

I love the “You are incredibly privileged” part. I love your explanation for that bit!!! Truly wonderful. All love from a Filipino enthusiast here!

@RubyGranger8 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@anncalvarez 3 жыл бұрын

filipinos represent 🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭

@goromajima2435 3 жыл бұрын

Yayyyy Filipino! I'm jealous with UK's school system

@missraredoesstuff 4 жыл бұрын

Just saying that if we had gone to the same school I’d have sold my arm to be your friend. I think you’re awesome and the exact type of person that I like to surround myself with. All of those bullies were CLEARLY very insecure and threatened by you. Keep doing what you’re doing and making the world a kinder place xx

@usamarafieck1715 4 жыл бұрын

She cute.

@mellomell7269 4 жыл бұрын

"We are very lucky in this country to have the access to education " you really surprised me with this idea and your way of thinking. In the 21st century, people are still dying and suffering because of wars and hate. Things seem at peace where we live but outside, around the world, humans are being tortured without reason, children are dying and working to have one meal a day... Thank you Ruby.

@maneskinnnnn7190 4 жыл бұрын

if you watched all of her videos you wouldn't be surprised to hear her say this, ruby has always acknowleged that and the fact she is privileged

@lore_nza 4 жыл бұрын

haven't you ever thought of that before? i thought pretty much everyone did, it's something that we all should acknowledge and it shouldn't be a surprising concept. in all respect for ruby, she is very clever herself.

@CH-bp6mc 4 жыл бұрын

Remember in the UK people are going to school without breakfast. We have our privileges but don't forget that 14 million kids are in poverty in this country. Ruby is right we don't know people's lives. For example, there is 800,000 young carers in the UK.820,000 children go to school without breakfast. Its nice this girl acknowledges her privileges I respect that fully.

@michv7333 4 жыл бұрын

“No... but also yes” such a mood 😂

@fellanefnaf3960 4 жыл бұрын

I spend the whole day on my phone everyday.

@jazz_intown4723 4 жыл бұрын

I found my soulmate

@Bella-bc3dx 4 жыл бұрын

Fella Nefnaf the painful truth-

@jigoku4676 4 жыл бұрын

@@Bella-bc3dx ruby izleyen türk :0

@goofballsara 3 жыл бұрын

@@NinoCristianini LMAO

@silvialima6894 4 жыл бұрын

the way you said “of course” when the assumption was “do you support lgbtq+” i legit teared up ugh my queen

@Jason-eo1rh 4 жыл бұрын

She doesn't want Antifa to come knocking

@silvialima6894 4 жыл бұрын

@xxpadmoondaze12 it's not surprising at all i just found the way she said it really adorable

@MrDrewbies 4 жыл бұрын

@@Jason-eo1rh loooool true

@klevelty611 4 жыл бұрын

I think she might be gay. She just gives off those vibes 👀

@Lost_In_Peace 4 жыл бұрын

Isn’t she Christian?

@jenng9899 4 жыл бұрын

This warms my heart when you were talking about academics. I went years of being told I wasn’t smart enough to be a nurse, and that I was better suited to other things. Turns out I had an undiagnosed learning difficulty the entire time! Now I’m getting the proper support, I’m exceeding in all of my modules and I’m nearly at the end of my first year in nursing. I absolutely love every minute of it, and I absolutely agreed with everything you said

@usamarafieck1715 4 жыл бұрын

Try lpn?

@jenng9899 4 жыл бұрын

Usama rafieck I’d rather be an RN tbh!

@user-sb8ks1ij7b 4 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy for you!

@faithbelvin9260 4 жыл бұрын

What is your learning difficulty? If you don’t mind me asking. I am in nursing school now and feel that way.

@jenng9899 4 жыл бұрын

Faith Belvin both dyspraxia and dyslexia!

@ratata365 4 жыл бұрын

all the best for everything Ruby. I cant wait to read your book.

@jadelauren2269 4 жыл бұрын

I really liked your answer to "you believe people who don't succeed in school aren't intelligent" - the school system is definitely flawed and there are many different types of intelligence. Great video on the whole Ruby ❤️

@ameliarosee.x2904 4 жыл бұрын

i’m so so glad you addressed the fact that intelligence comes in more than just the academic form. i could be allot academically smarter if my mental health didn’t stop me going to school for 9 months, but i do think it’s made me more intelligent in other ways :) i’m trying so so so hard now i’m back at school! also i just finished the book ‘a good girls guide to murder’ and i LOVED it, does anyone have any book recommendations that are similar to this one 🥰 x

@imogenmunday3520 4 жыл бұрын

AmeliaRosee .x I LOVED THAT BOOK!! have you tried one of us is lying by Karen M McManus?xx

@louisee2506 4 жыл бұрын

Holly Jackson announced on her Instagram that there will be a second part called "good girl, bad blood" out in 2020 :)

@charlotte-6589 4 жыл бұрын

I literally went through the same as you holy- what?

@rainbowcake4771 4 жыл бұрын

AmeliaRosee .x I’ve been out of school for almost 4 years due to my depression and anxiety. I’m going back to public school this year and I’m very scared and stressed because I need to catch up on a lot. However taking such a big break from school really made me learn more about myself, the world, what I actually like and just general life skills that aren’t taught at school.

@ameliarosee.x2904 4 жыл бұрын

Rainbow Cake i only just saw this, sorry! aww i’m so sorry you had to go through that, i know it can be so horrible! i’m glad you’ve decided to give it another shot though, stay positive and try your best. i agree with you, taking a break from school is sometimes a good thing becuase you learn so much more than teachers can teach you :) good luck xx

@arielliu4809 4 жыл бұрын

“So last year I read 97” (books) I read 1... book

@sinzandie 4 жыл бұрын

Ariel Liu I read 6 books 😂

@skinni_the_P00hBear 4 жыл бұрын

Ariel Liu Damn I wish I had the down time to read as much a I used to

@sarah6246 3 жыл бұрын

Lol I read none 🤡

@lola3842 3 жыл бұрын

Gawd, Im so sorry for yall. Reading is such an AWESOME thing!!

@KriaEvana 3 жыл бұрын

I’m a beginner reader and I read 20 books.

@morwenna691 4 жыл бұрын

You shouldnt feel bad for your privilege, people who do not have appreciation or believe that they are better because of it are the ones who should feel bad, but you seem extremely grateful and its nothing to be ashamed of!

@melisac7414 4 жыл бұрын

Ruby, you’re such an inspiration to me. I’m a German law student and whenever I feel like I can’t do it anymore, I just watch one of your videos and I instantly get motivated again and actually finish the work I have to do. As weird as it may sound but you have such an impact on my life, so I just wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart!

@pleasedontkillspiders185 4 жыл бұрын

Hey, another fellow German law student! I do the same with Ruby's videos, she's a gem 💎 Viel Erfolg im Studium xx

@melisac7414 4 жыл бұрын

Vanessa s Danke! Dir auch 🌸

@thetea1302 4 жыл бұрын

i love the way you approach things, like even negative things, you’ve always got a smile on your face and it’s so inspirational ❤️❤️

@thenamescara64 4 жыл бұрын

‘I’d rather get comments saying I’m dressing like their great grandma’ Yes Ruby!😂

@lydialouise6081 4 жыл бұрын

Love how you mentioned, mental health effecting academic ability, which is something that’s hugely effected me and didn’t realise many others understood❤️

@mariapia4517 4 жыл бұрын

Every single thing you talked about resonates with me especially being bullied in the past for having diverse interests and ambitions in comparison to people surrounding me and constantly feeling the "odd one", always left out and criticized. In the end I'm proud of myself for pushing through the hardships and reaching my objectives in life. I find your videos incredibly interesting and relaxing💕

@kerttupeura6116 4 жыл бұрын

I love how you remembered to add the "plus" to LBTQ! Thanks for standing up for the equality of all minorities and overall talking about so many controversial issues so opently. Just keep doing the beautiful work!

@Somebodyelse141 4 жыл бұрын

SMH remembered the + and forgot the G (I'm kidding I'm sure it was a typo)

@kerttupeura6116 4 жыл бұрын

@@Somebodyelse141 Oh true 😂😂 I only realised it now. Thanks for pointing it out though! :D

@cl4za 4 жыл бұрын

I love that you addressed the different types of intelligence and understand that the physical, mental and emotional health is so important when it comes to education. I love your mind and I love how mature and open minded you are 💕

@usamarafieck1715 4 жыл бұрын

What are the types of intelligence?

@issie.and.her.quills 4 жыл бұрын

Your videos are always so uplifting and beautifully thought out and I always feel so positive. You’re such a kind and generous person and look out for people so much and I just wanted to say thank you!

@emmaohdeary 4 жыл бұрын

I agree, you're totally socialising enough. I never socialised during school and now I try to do it more often, but now i prefer spending time with my family or reading in my room anyway. Having friends to go book shopping or to chill in the library with helps :))

@Bintaisha789 4 жыл бұрын

You’re just such a lovely human being! You’ve inspired me so much in a lot of things, I just wanted to thank you for that❤️.

@shivajikhatkar757 4 жыл бұрын

I really love your icon.. I love luna in harry potter series. she's one of my favorite character

@rebeccacp9460 4 жыл бұрын

Can i just say I think you're amazing. You're kind, caring,intelligent, honest. I'm currently in hospital and you're videos get me through alot. I look forward to watching them. Thank you Ruby. Keep being you because you're pretty amazing ❤️

@lilpinkbeananooshaullah786 4 жыл бұрын

I love how honest and open you are about this and how you explain your answers so well , I’m in year 11 now and I’m so scared for my GCSEs because I feel like I’m not gonna well as I know I can just because of the time period and how much there is and how much I’m doing but this video in a way motivated me to stop stressing

@oliviasmith4675 4 жыл бұрын

not a problem anymore ahaha

@clemence6027 4 жыл бұрын

Hello Ruby! I admire your courage to talk about your life in a sincere and less light-hearted way than usual. I really appreciate your honesty, remember please that you don't have to be perfect all the time!! Keep doing with your videos, they are always heart-warming 💛

@holliemarie5481 4 жыл бұрын

I think it’s great how you commented about you socialise enough for you, many people comment on how I’m not social enough especially with my college schedule and living further away from friends. I feel perfectly fine with my level of social interactions, but some people feel necessary to comment on it

@emilybird8317 4 жыл бұрын

you have the most amazing way of speaking, like I'm sure you plan out your answers beforehand but even so, you can tell you read a lot because the way you speak is so to the point and well said

@glensiesaing1175 Жыл бұрын

It's so nice that I found this vid of yours, I felt great that I kind of similar/ I have similarities with your personality, how you deal nicely with people around without getting bothered by them... And honestly I also dont get bored 😅 I just put in my mind that "Not all people around me will like me and care for me" its a pleasure that you share with us your life through this channel❣️💖

@michellexx2118 4 жыл бұрын

I really admire you, you're an incredibly great person. Never give up!

@elishevabarenbaum5319 3 жыл бұрын

You don't have to feel angst for your privilege. Remember your parents didn't create this lovely life for you only for you to feel bad, and also you have taken what has been given and made the most of it. You should be happy, and if you choose to help those less fortunate, do so but from a place of feeling good with yourself.

@little_lizzy_bennet 4 жыл бұрын

Oh my gosh! I relate to you on so many levels, I feel like it's hard to find young people around my age who enjoy dressing in old fashioned clothing, doesn't like clubbing or drinking and enjoys school, I wish we could be best friends 😊

@viktoriyaball6207 4 жыл бұрын

Saaame, so hard to find similar people to yourself

@bellac6311 4 жыл бұрын

I dress like a school girl from the 1890s....i also like to laugh internally at the faces pulled by those around me at my clothing...

@Gavironnie 4 жыл бұрын

Aww Ruby, I've never thought negatively about you ever! You've always been a sprinkle of positivity in my life 💓 I studied so hard since I subscribed and now I'm going to Australia(I'm from Malaysia) to further my studies. Utterly grateful to you and JK Rowling for showing me how beautiful and precious life actually is ❤️ Loved knowing more about you in this video 👍🏻

@drewd4801 4 жыл бұрын

omg i love you also my heart kinda burst when you added the lil "plus" after lgbtq cause i'm part of that community and that just was so adorable idk it was just Very Good

@israelabd1001 3 жыл бұрын

"Remember that we can be kind" ~Ruby Granger

@JessicaRodrigues-ff6gj 4 жыл бұрын

I love your positivity and your attitude toward literally everything. You always help me remind myself the importance of positivity and being yourself. Your the best

@emmaohdeary 4 жыл бұрын

You inspire me so much, I love watching your videos just because they always make me feel like i can just be myself. You're honestly a complete inspiration :)

@readbymarta2781 4 жыл бұрын

i relate so much to you! i've always loved school and learning, and being cozy with my family! absolutely love your videos Ruby

@TheHollyChronicle 4 жыл бұрын

I literally wish I had your wardrobe and fashion style!

@kingscross4549 4 жыл бұрын

me too!

@nataliestone7538 4 жыл бұрын

i know it’s so cute to me! i feel like i couldn’t pull it off as well but i love it

@pinkcherry9695 4 жыл бұрын

Sameee

@lid-xp8ji 3 жыл бұрын

I'm beyond grateful I found your channel Ruby!! I can relate to you on literally every response you gave, and I'm so happy to have found someone who thinks similarly to me

@aimeejane_writings 4 жыл бұрын

Honestly, I personally love your clothing style and how you portray yourself. You're unique, and that is NEVER a bad thing. I love it when people experiment with their styles because it means they are trying to be their own person and not follow a crowd. Never feel bad for being you or for standing out ❤️

@maryhazelevelynx2101 4 жыл бұрын

I love your clothing style ! It suits your character and I love how unique you are and not a crowd follower

@Anna-yo8fw 4 жыл бұрын

Actually your style inspired me so much! I really like to dress classic now, when everyone is wearing sporty style

@XX-dm4wn 4 жыл бұрын

Awe Ruby, you’re such an inspiration to me. I live in the Netherlands and I am almost 17 so you’re a little bit older but I really look up to you. Your video’s always motivate me to do my homework or study even when I don’t want to. So thank you Ruby, for just being you. xx

@carolinek3031 4 жыл бұрын

I really love how you addressed the assumptions about your socialising patterns and initiating conversations. It bothers me that some people seem to think that introverts have less of a social life just because we don’t become friends with EVERYONE we meet. Seeing a few close friends frequently is a just as exciting, if not much better, social life than going clubbing every weekend with a big group of people

@mixibo 4 жыл бұрын

I find vintage pretty and cute, Jessica Kellgen-fozard for example rocks it!!

@RubyGranger8 4 жыл бұрын

Jessica has the best style on KZfaq!!

@soilgrasswaterair 4 жыл бұрын

Many times the bullying isn’t about the person it’s directed at, but is due to pain within the bully caused by something (often unmet needs or some type of dilemma rooted in the upbringing etc). But sometimes it is as you say, Ruby, about assumptions. Only thing that is certain is that someone who bully others is not in a good place emotionally or they wouldn’t feel the need to hurt others. To not stay silent when you see things that are off can help so much, and for all you know it might be the catalyst to end such behavior. You’re always allowed to say something even if you think it will make you feel great discomfort. To stay silent is in a way to agree with such behavior instead of calling it out.

@bellac6311 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, but the bully isnt the victim of the situation. Ive had friends that were bullied, but their problems were ignored because the person bullying them apparently had "anger issues". Like, no you hold rhe person accountable no matter what, and you treat the actual victim as the victim, not the bully as the victim.

@livebreezybreatheasy 3 жыл бұрын

Seeing friends 3-4 times a week is more than enough! I think you’re balancing your time beautifully.

@howtobehumon2606 4 жыл бұрын

You are so well spoken and great at articulating yourself with great reasoning, especially when talking about disproving of people who don’t try hard at school

@halloween42 4 жыл бұрын

"I've never been clubbing. Ever." ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@BlossomBunny101 4 жыл бұрын

I love your style. (Mainly because I dress like that) You remind me so much of me because I love the old fashioned era and I love books and literature. I’m also an introvert and love to do well I’m my education. Well done and keep up with your amazing videos❤️

@TheHollyChronicle 4 жыл бұрын

It’s so amazing that you use your channel for good - your anti bullying videos are always so interesting and well thought out

@katarinarikic4519 4 жыл бұрын

I’ve just started watching videos from your channel! I am trying to be more organized and focus on my studies and your tips and routines are really helpful! Thank you

@whiteaesthetic4680 4 жыл бұрын

Yess I can relate to being introverted but love spontaneous conversations. I love just chatting to people but i find it hard to start conversations or to have conversations with certain people.

@filmsbynix 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Ruby for acknowledging your privilege and addressing it in such a mature and appropriate manner

@lou-by8uj 4 жыл бұрын

thank goodness you have loving and supportive parents you were so polite even if people be kind of rude to you! that's really refreshing to see

@AsenathWaiteDerby 4 жыл бұрын

What you said at 7:43 made me reflect. I don't know how it is in UK, but in my country you are basically forced to go to school, you are forced to learn things that sometimes are not even interesting for you and for the person you are/want to be. It's not even a free choice. I've never thought about it as a privilege, and now I try imagine what would I be today if I've never had the opportunity to study. I would certainly be more ignorant and I couldn't appreciate some of the great things that this humanity has made, like art. In that moment I realize that studying and learning are the most beautiful things ever, but it's just people who ruin them and make them awful. So young people give up, they are not even attracted to those things, they don't see the greatness in them and they can't find a reason to learn them.

@safinezhamza4503 4 жыл бұрын

People: you never feel bored Ruby : yeah...somet...No... Actually ,I never feel bored Bless u Rube ..love youuu a bunch 🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️

@RubyGranger8 4 жыл бұрын

Safinez Hamza 😂🙌

@Jason-eo1rh 4 жыл бұрын

That means she's too dumb to experience first hand an existential crisis. Peasants never get those.

@sruthiranjani5364 4 жыл бұрын

Have you read Virginia Woolf's A Room of One's Own? There's a bit on how the Brontes wrote passionately, being inspired by their emotions and feelings while Austen was composed and never went "astray" with her writing. I really think you might find that interesting

@paulinar505 4 жыл бұрын

It's been amazing seeing you mature and grow into the person you are today. Thanks for sharing bits of your life with us! xx

@AleMaia 4 жыл бұрын

You must be such a kind person! I would love to have a friend like you! The majority of girls that I “know” are so different from me. That’s why I don’t have many friends 🤷🏻‍♀️

@rubberduck302 4 жыл бұрын

First vid I haven’t clicked off immediately and I’m hooked 😂😂😂🥰

@veronicag1057 4 жыл бұрын

I don't particularly see the problem in "dressing like a grandma/great-grandma"...but I love to see your outfits because I feel that they represent you so well! Plus, if that style makes you feel comfortable/beautiful/confident then we should celebrate it! Also, I wanted to recommend Carolina Zebrowska's YT channel (her channel name is simply her name) because I think you'd love it. Her channel is a wonderful world of vintage style and well-researched information about it all :)

@MC-ko2mx 4 жыл бұрын

Yas, I am a fellow subscriber to Meme Mom!

@veronicag1057 4 жыл бұрын

@@MC-ko2mx I love her so much! I never expected her to be as hilarious as she is, haha!

@SeerOfTime577 Жыл бұрын

You're such a beautiful soul, Ruby. I'm so grateful to have found your channel this year. ❤

@rachaelwhite1525 4 жыл бұрын

It’s really refreshing to see someone so open about being themselves and not liking clubbing, etc. ☺️

@annie-4984 4 жыл бұрын

You really are the daughter my parents always wanted. 😞 Love you tho Ruby, you're amazing! Xx ❤️❤️

@questioning4340 4 жыл бұрын

This camera makes such an amazing picture! You look so gorgeous :)

@zoeasquith 4 жыл бұрын

I love how unique you are! Don't let anyone stop you being you xx

@everlark4ever 4 жыл бұрын

Such a lovely and nice video where we get to know more about you and how you feel. Always love to see this side of you. Lots of love.

@MC-ko2mx 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for acknowledging there are different types of intelligence, and reminding your viewers that we should always be ourselves, even if it means being different or "other". Ps: I also prefer the Brontes to Austen :)

@charlotteh2280 4 жыл бұрын

It's so refreshing to see how genuine you are

@PrernaSingh-kb8sy 4 жыл бұрын

Your voice is so soothing, I could literally listen to you all day long and wouldn't even complaint

@haleygreen8826 4 жыл бұрын

I absolutely adore your channel, and I'm glad I'm getting back into it. You're such a genuine person, and it's very nice watching this side of your videos. I loved reading when I was younger, a lot. I'm an average student, A's and B's, and you inspire me. I always put my self worth on grades, but I am learning to love learning for learning's sake. Thank you for all your hard work on this channel. Will stay a subscriber, and feel very happy I found you. Thank you, Ruby. ♥️

@pratyasharoy8200 4 жыл бұрын

I love your dressing sense....I'm personally trying to dress like you ....

@kitkatkitten1338 4 жыл бұрын

Omg, I love how much you are yourself and don't make any apologies for it. You're amazing! ❤️❤️❤️

@Little_book_pumpkin 4 жыл бұрын

Honestly, I love your dress style, Ruby. It isn't something that would ever suit me but whenever I see you wearing it, you always completely rock it! It makes me wish I could pull it off 😍😍

@scubin9777 4 жыл бұрын

Every video you film is just so wholesome❤️🌼

@vevosweety 4 жыл бұрын

Finally someone who is not obsessed with Jane Austen! I neither like her writing stile very much, although I can see what people like her for. But I usually get odd looks when saying I don!t like Jane Austen's books much as a literature student, just as you said.

@nurulsyafiqah489 4 жыл бұрын

I actually like and happy with the way you balance your social life and studying because I'm also an introvert and I don't really enjoy socialising for a long time. I prefer my me time more. Its when I could rest and do other things that I like.

@sarahmcd7529 4 жыл бұрын

okay i dont even begin to understand how someone could not enjoy your style. it not only matches your personality but your overall body. i think your style is absolutely lovely and envy how well you pull it off!! :)

@lpsmorningdew5661 4 жыл бұрын

I've heard this before and thought it was funny, "introverts don't make friends, extraverts just adopt them."

@viki1604 4 жыл бұрын

About the Jane Austen assumption. Although Austen is one of my favourite authors, I can understand why you don’t like her works. Everybody has their own opinions and likings! You said that you would like to like her books. For that matter I can recommend Emma and Northanger Abbey, just because I think that they portray more emotions than her other works.

@MusicalPixie 4 жыл бұрын

That's what I thought the second Ruby mentioned her likings. Emma and especially Northanger. 😊

@steveebbage808 4 жыл бұрын

You are an amazing soul ....lots of integrity and self belief and not scared to be yourself. All the very best for your future.

@mirayounn 4 жыл бұрын

i absolutely love this video also i love the way you dress

@jean_the_bean 4 жыл бұрын

You're like the only person I've ever seen that is a little bit like me. You could put all these assumptions against me and they'd all be true. I'm an introvert and autistic. I'm scared for the future because I've never drunk or had a boyfriend etc. but this reassures me.

@IamBexxi 4 жыл бұрын

The camera quality 😍

@daniaawni5180 2 жыл бұрын

omg I actually really love your clothing style, but every time i want to comment about it i feel like I'm being a weird fan lol. but really I love your knitted sweaters and especially when it's a turtleneck !! you're style is unique and just very calm and soothing i love it!