Sad reality of living in Bangalore

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7 ай бұрын

We took to the streets of Bangalore and asked locals, as well as those who moved here for work or college if they felt lonely in the city. The responses will give you a glimpse into Bangalore life if you are planning to move to Bangalore or provide a different perspective if you already live here.
If you're looking for things to do in Bangalore and ways to spend your weekend without feeling lonely, this is the video to watch. People have shared tips on finding communities in Bangalore, whether through offline clubs in Cubbon Park or online platforms like Playo.
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@threeamstories
@threeamstories 7 ай бұрын
well crafted. :’)
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 7 ай бұрын
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@ShriNidhi-zu2im
@ShriNidhi-zu2im 3 ай бұрын
*MOST OF US ARE LONELY.* What is loneliness? Most of us are lonely. Out of that loneliness, we want companionship. We escape from loneliness through every form of entertainment, religious as well as that which is most amusing. We escape in so many ways. But like a deep disease that must be cured, it is always there. So one must go into this very carefully because if we don’t understand it, our action, which is our daily relationship with each other, will distort that relationship. That relationship then becomes merely exploiting each other to escape from this deep abiding loneliness. Why are we so lonely? I don’t know if you have ever experienced the state of loneliness, isolation, having no relationship at all with others. Perhaps some of you have experienced this, or most of you. And if we don’t understand that loneliness, our actions will be distorted. So we are inquiring not only into action but also into loneliness, which destroys, disrupts, distorts all relationship in action. What is loneliness? Why are we so self-centred? Why are we in our own lives? We may have friends, be married and all the rest of it, but we are always concerned with ourselves. Our actions are self-centred: ambitious, greedy, envious, suffering, aggressive. That is fairly clear. Is that the root of this deep loneliness of man? And can that loneliness utterly disappear? When there is a hurt, psychological hurt, any action that takes place must inevitably be affected by the hurt. We get very hurt, not only about little things but deeply hurt in not being able to fulfil, not being able to achieve, not being able to become something. We get deeply hurt, and that hurt affects our actions. You cannot escape from distorting action if you are hurt. That is, as long as you have an image about yourself, you are going to be hurt. Inevitably. And when there is hurt, action will be destructive, will bring about conflict. Is it possible to be aware of this loneliness and not escape from it, but remain with it: not take a drink, not pick up a book, not rush off to some form of entertainment, but to completely, without any movement of thought, remain with that feeling of utter isolation? Then you will see, if you do, that feeling of isolation disappears entirely, because it is thought that creates the sense of isolation.
@revathinatesan9532
@revathinatesan9532 Ай бұрын
Totally agree
@bharathikoya2622
@bharathikoya2622 22 күн бұрын
​@@ShriNidhi-zu2im movement is necessary agreed 💯 total
@impandey67
@impandey67 10 күн бұрын
Not good content it's a personal lifestyle problem not a city problem
@fixerrr98
@fixerrr98 4 ай бұрын
We are the most connected generation and yet still the most loneliest.
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 4 ай бұрын
😥🙌
@mridulvij4528
@mridulvij4528 4 ай бұрын
connected socially only online but disconnected offline
@Leo-rd7dt
@Leo-rd7dt 4 ай бұрын
Ironic
@bgi384
@bgi384 4 ай бұрын
Omg what a profound truth
@ShriNidhi-zu2im
@ShriNidhi-zu2im 3 ай бұрын
SUPPOSE I AM VERY LONELY. Though I am married, have children, go to the office, go to the temple and all that nonsense that goes on, I am utterly, profoundly lonely. Being lonely, I escape because I don’t know how to tackle that loneliness. I don’t understand what loneliness is, but I am frightened: this sense of existence in which there is no relationship with another, no sense of communication with another, thoroughly enclosed. Don’t you know these feelings? Wake up! As my brain doesn’t know how to solve it, it escapes. It escapes through entertainment. Whether it is religious entertainment or football, they are both the same. Do you agree? Are you really agreeing that religious entertainment, going to the temple, the puja and all the things that go on there, and football are the same? They are entertainments because they do not alter your life. They are just an amusement. Do you agree to this? Is it only a verbal agreement or actually saying, ‘They are the same’? Therefore finished with it. So what is loneliness? Without escaping, without running away into illusory, imaginary ideals, the actual fact is that I am despairingly, anxiously lonely. I may be married, I may have sex, I may have children, but this thing is rotting. Most of us are deeply hurt from childhood, and we carry that hurt throughout life. You can say it doesn’t matter, that it will not affect your action, but it does affect action because unconsciously, deeply, your actions are guided by your hurt. You build a wall around yourself not to be hurt more, and the consequences of that hurt are bitterness and more loneliness. And why do human beings go through this loneliness? Ask yourself. As two friends we are talking about this. Why? It must exist because of your actions. Your daily actions are self-centred. Your daily thoughts and activities are concerned with yourself. You may be a social worker and give your life to that, but the ‘me’ is still going on, only you have identified yourself with something. Like the communist identifies with the State, with the ideal, you identify yourself with something else. So as long as there is self-centred activity, there must be loneliness. I don’t know if you see this. If your chief concern is ‘me’, then that ‘me’ must act in a very narrow circle. And that action must inevitably produce this exhausting, despairing loneliness. Do you understand all this, not verbally but actually?
@salmankhanhandsome
@salmankhanhandsome 4 ай бұрын
it is not only in bangalore it is seen in mumbai,delhi & almost in all the major cities in the world
@SDFNI3894YR
@SDFNI3894YR Ай бұрын
sahi baat
@salmankhanhandsome
@salmankhanhandsome Ай бұрын
@@SDFNI3894YR 🙂👍
@sanjayb4159
@sanjayb4159 25 күн бұрын
But Delhi and banglore are then worst Main reason People.from other states who settle but don't integrate into local culture, local scene
@salmankhanhandsome
@salmankhanhandsome 25 күн бұрын
@@sanjayb4159 City culture is totally different bro. It's almost the same in all the major cities bro. Diversity we can find in all the major cities bro. So almost the same culture of being lonely we can find in these major cities bro.🙂
@sanjayb4159
@sanjayb4159 25 күн бұрын
@@salmankhanhandsome yes I agree with your observations But I have highlighted specifically what ails bengaluru. And its causes Man is a social animal and development of city should be with an eye that it is centered around human beings Just blind development fo dake of commercial.gains and exploitation leads to humans beings and nature , arts, culture being ignored only leads to human isolation and loneliness.
@devanshudwivedi8411
@devanshudwivedi8411 4 ай бұрын
Congratulations everyone !! in search of material pleasures we're doomed as a generation , lonely , depressed , anxious , unwell with no place that seems home with no people you feel like calling your own . was this the world you slogged yourself for ; missing on gatherings social events and parties as a teenager and now regretting all that as an adult. No amount of Money will bring back those joyous moments we didnt live as kids because we were too occupied to build a career that would pay us well...
@dark_knight439
@dark_knight439 20 күн бұрын
@@devanshudwivedi8411 Well instead of this long lecture can you tell what went wrong? And what should be improved?
@devanshudwivedi8411
@devanshudwivedi8411 20 күн бұрын
@@dark_knight439 listen to bairagi from aspirants you'll get an idea
@ritugupta8522
@ritugupta8522 18 күн бұрын
Very clearly you pinpointed the main problem of today's generation. And we all know the solution but everyone is waiting for social media to influence them
@HemanthSG
@HemanthSG 18 күн бұрын
True
@santos8146
@santos8146 18 күн бұрын
Sorry mister, Without money, even your shadow won’t mind you here. Loneliness is nothing before pennilessness 😢
@anumehainmelbourne
@anumehainmelbourne 21 күн бұрын
I stayed in Bangalore for 8 long years and man I never felt alone , there’s so many people , so much work . Yes but when i moved to Australia i knew what loneliness means
@user-ci1eh3ip7s
@user-ci1eh3ip7s 9 күн бұрын
I agree
@shazwaz87
@shazwaz87 8 күн бұрын
Loneliness in the US is 100x worse than the so called loneliness in India.
@jasmineabdulla5719
@jasmineabdulla5719 5 күн бұрын
Same here 🙌
@namratasoreng2922
@namratasoreng2922 Ай бұрын
People might hate me for this but I felt like I have felt the most lonely in this city. This city has a very weird culture. Too much of partying culture and materialism . It is really hard to make friends.
@mshrare8225
@mshrare8225 Ай бұрын
I second this
@sharonlima8913
@sharonlima8913 Ай бұрын
💯
@smugwise
@smugwise Ай бұрын
No wouldn't hate you for this infact what you're saying is true
@kittyind
@kittyind Ай бұрын
Maybe, at times I visit temples and meet new people. engage in a few activities, and help the needy ones. Almost a few years to retirement, lost a few friends along the way and gained new ones.
@GayathriK-re7wt
@GayathriK-re7wt Ай бұрын
​​@@kittyindAnd that doesn't sound cool for gen Z.
@SayantanChakraborty-ub7ei
@SayantanChakraborty-ub7ei Ай бұрын
If you can't enjoy your own company, you are gonna feel lonely everywhere, even in your hometown where everyone of your age-group is busy.
@nishantnimish7825
@nishantnimish7825 Ай бұрын
Can we stop this “love yourself” bullsh!t?
@SayantanChakraborty-ub7ei
@SayantanChakraborty-ub7ei Ай бұрын
honestly, this isn't bs at all. It's a process of giving yourself the respect and attention you'd always deserved.
@abhisheksharma4087
@abhisheksharma4087 Ай бұрын
Till when
@nazzalgrylls1403
@nazzalgrylls1403 Ай бұрын
@SayantanChakraborty-ub7ei Maybe for you...but not really...if someone likes themselves...they'll do what they wanna do...and what they want to do is leave bangalore...​like i am from ooty and love ooty...but I've worked in bangalore since 2013...fukin crap i hate bangalore man...we are wild people...i don't like to sit in front of a computer...i grew up with white people in ooty...i never stayed at bangalore for more then a few months a time...finally 2022 i said let's leave that's it i started becoming sick too shoulder pain i became lean and that place is racist too horrible...bangalore people dream about ooty..the bangalore tourists i met last year say wow i am lucky to live in ooty so clean newt so peaceful so cold and no pollution its like london for me...what bangalore has...???...prostitution yuck disgusting everyone getting drunk at nights...like do they do anything adventurous or do camping hiking trekking or just take a cold walk...nooo...they go and sit in front of a computer...and go home unhappy and get sick soon and die soon...not cool man not cool...
@phanindra40
@phanindra40 Ай бұрын
That’s true. I stay in a different country all alone. I don’t feel lonely. Sometimes I cannot understand why some ppl despite having so many ppl around keep feeling lonely. Some ppl out of loneliness keep talking hours in phone and then after the call again start to feel lonely. Loneliness is more of an internal thing. Just a bunch of friends and frequent meet ups will not help.
@sheetalyadav4219
@sheetalyadav4219 4 ай бұрын
People are lonely in rural areas and at home too.
@akashkumbhar1515
@akashkumbhar1515 18 күн бұрын
Going to pubs to unwind to escape loneliness is not the solution to it.
@aswincsekaran91
@aswincsekaran91 22 күн бұрын
Loneliness is a blessing. If you enjoy your own company. You don't need anyone. ❤
@gautamishruthi9857
@gautamishruthi9857 Ай бұрын
It's the people who loves the company of others feel lonely in a metro but the people who love their own company love to be alone. City isn't the problem but the mindset is..
@user-ly2oq8st2u
@user-ly2oq8st2u 29 күн бұрын
Bullshit talk with no base and no maturity
@elle7739
@elle7739 13 күн бұрын
That is 1 factor for sure, however, there are many people who are lonely despite being surrounded by family members. It's about connecting meaningfully and not just socialising without deeper connection.
@nabilahmedkhan8052
@nabilahmedkhan8052 Ай бұрын
To most people: Get married to a person you like and who is a good human being. Everything will be fine God willing!
@ln7487
@ln7487 21 күн бұрын
That is another discussion. Most youngsters do not value marriage and are not interested.
@brascoperryjoe6425
@brascoperryjoe6425 18 күн бұрын
​@@ln7487then stay lonely! What else
@Itisha_11111
@Itisha_11111 16 күн бұрын
Marriage are a kind of burden these days ...
@newbiekhyber
@newbiekhyber Ай бұрын
Learn to stay alone, but not feel lonely. The two are different things.
@sudhakarsm6927
@sudhakarsm6927 Ай бұрын
Same as u think bro 😇
@sunilkumar-iq2oq
@sunilkumar-iq2oq 27 күн бұрын
Living alone is the best thing people don't realize that
@Geetharao
@Geetharao 17 күн бұрын
Exactly, luv yourself and your own company otherwise we endup in a wrong friendship which give much more pain than being lonely I learnt the art of being alone infact if u don't luv yourself even if u are surrounded with 100s of ppl you still feel lonely...so pls learnt art of living buddies
@sunithastehly9943
@sunithastehly9943 Ай бұрын
I am born and bred in Bangalore and been away for 24+ years. Bangalore is always a home coming for me with nostalgia but the outsiders have taken all the thrill of it now. I mean everybody is lonely if they are not connected to their home town period. We Bengalurians feels home in our home town/city.
@nagratna793
@nagratna793 2 ай бұрын
I stayed lonely for 9 years..then relocated to my parents place . . I was in a renowned product MNC and also worked in a defence auxiliary contracting co. But loneliness is unavoidable..those days yt and all were not very popular..I used to spend money on myself..used to go to amoeba, malls..sometimes mg brigade commercial street..travelling solo.. do household chores..wash clothes cook...watch lots of movies ..on weekends specially. I had a habit of writing..i used to stay in bheema nagar..but I feel great that ..i was not really depressed..10 hours of job..really had no time to feel even depressed ..low ,but stress was the reason I left the job to Pursue law .and was preparing for clat.. hopefully I m studying now after few years of marriage .lots of hopes I had i. Bangalore but i couldn't really feel like Bangalore can offer me good for long run .
@salmankhanhandsome
@salmankhanhandsome Ай бұрын
Oh ok dear nagratna
@kspradeep8397
@kspradeep8397 4 ай бұрын
Not Bengaluru alone, all big cities. I lived with many people away from family but never felt alone as I had many friends, even in a new place you can make friends easily.
@ChipotleMasala
@ChipotleMasala 4 ай бұрын
Folks, being alone and feeling lonely are two different things. You have no idea how much gifted you are. Just spend few minutes to understand yourself. First the physical you and your physical aspects, then go deeply to Realize your inner self. Be thankful and greatful to wherever you are and how ever you are - slowly everything will change. It takes some time but don't give up.
@FunSorcerer
@FunSorcerer Ай бұрын
absolutely. major reasons being traffic and rains that make everyone stay at home
@vaishnavamohandas2601
@vaishnavamohandas2601 16 күн бұрын
I’m from a rural part from Karnataka and settled in Bangalore the best thing ever happened to me in life is having so many many friends thanks to the city ….. people coming from outside just need to remember that the city is have nothing to do with your lonelyness…. The reason for your lonelynesss is just you and it’s you to be blamed alone for this ….. friends are not your OTT platform when ever you are board to get entertainment
@dev_esh01
@dev_esh01 12 күн бұрын
How did you make new friends in Bangalore?
@No-Stack-Developer
@No-Stack-Developer 11 күн бұрын
@@dev_esh01 just start talking to people lol. If you are working, go talk with your collegues and meet their mutual friends. Making friends is not rocket science
@srihithaalle2935
@srihithaalle2935 7 күн бұрын
Environment obviously influences us ...
@user-mx8mp7xt8m
@user-mx8mp7xt8m 4 ай бұрын
Stop saying BENGALURU.. this is the story of every metropolitan city... Life...
@ShriNidhi-zu2im
@ShriNidhi-zu2im 3 ай бұрын
*MOST OF US ARE LONELY* What is loneliness? Most of us are lonely. Out of that loneliness, we want companionship. We escape from loneliness through every form of entertainment, religious as well as that which is most amusing. We escape in so many ways. But like a deep disease that must be cured, it is always there. So one must go into this very carefully because if we don’t understand it, our action, which is our daily relationship with each other, will distort that relationship. That relationship then becomes merely exploiting each other to escape from this deep abiding loneliness. Why are we so lonely? I don’t know if you have ever experienced the state of loneliness, isolation, having no relationship at all with others. Perhaps some of you have experienced this, or most of you. And if we don’t understand that loneliness, our actions will be distorted. So we are inquiring not only into action but also into loneliness, which destroys, disrupts, distorts all relationship in action. What is loneliness? Why are we so self-centred? Why are we in our own lives? We may have friends, be married and all the rest of it, but we are always concerned with ourselves. Our actions are self-centred: ambitious, greedy, envious, suffering, aggressive. That is fairly clear. Is that the root of this deep loneliness of man? And can that loneliness utterly disappear? When there is a hurt, psychological hurt, any action that takes place must inevitably be affected by the hurt. We get very hurt, not only about little things but deeply hurt in not being able to fulfil, not being able to achieve, not being able to become something. We get deeply hurt, and that hurt affects our actions. You cannot escape from distorting action if you are hurt. That is, as long as you have an image about yourself, you are going to be hurt. Inevitably. And when there is hurt, action will be destructive, will bring about conflict. Is it possible to be aware of this loneliness and not escape from it, but remain with it: not take a drink, not pick up a book, not rush off to some form of entertainment, but to completely, without any movement of thought, remain with that feeling of utter isolation? Then you will see, if you do, that feeling of isolation disappears entirely, because it is thought that creates the sense of isolation.
@sumantakolay1436
@sumantakolay1436 3 ай бұрын
Come to Kolkata...it's also a metropolitan city..but people are not lonely here... loneliness only happens in robot cities where people don't have emotions much...and Bangalore is a perfect example of robot city...
@ShriNidhi-zu2im
@ShriNidhi-zu2im 3 ай бұрын
@@sumantakolay1436 Bro make some sensible comment! Loneliness is caused by your bad lifestyle & personality disorder 👍
@user-mx8mp7xt8m
@user-mx8mp7xt8m 3 ай бұрын
@@sumantakolay1436 BENGALURU.. is only a City... Not whole karnataka state... Kolkatta is also a city.. Not a whole west bengal... LONLINESS.. is an Individual Emotion... Its nothing to do with.. States.. Nations... Even... Universe..
@user-mx8mp7xt8m
@user-mx8mp7xt8m 3 ай бұрын
@@ShriNidhi-zu2im.. Absolutely...100000000000000000000%%%... Correct❤️❤️❤️👌👌👍👍
@swastikasinghal89
@swastikasinghal89 Ай бұрын
Unfortunately, Bengaluru has just one big park - the Cubbon Park. The city doesn’t make any effort to create public resources like that in other parts of the city. Whitefield, Varthur, Sarjapur areas have been given to big builders. Imagine Prestige is building 2 communities across from each other. One is close to the lake. It was a huge opportunity to build a nice park.
@fizzybubblech2128
@fizzybubblech2128 6 күн бұрын
It's sadly the same across all indian cities.
@muralidharbarkur
@muralidharbarkur Ай бұрын
On the other hand original Bangaloreans are finding the place very crowded and leaving Bangalore😂😂😂
@TheMaverick_SR
@TheMaverick_SR 15 күн бұрын
This.😂
@kavyaviswanath9386
@kavyaviswanath9386 4 ай бұрын
Very true.. Thanks for the video. I thought it was just me. Trying to fit in every day is exhausting
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 4 ай бұрын
🫂🫂🫂
@kspradeep8397
@kspradeep8397 4 ай бұрын
You get exhausted when you try to please and appease people around you. You need to learn to live your way rather than always trying to meet people's expectations. Every one is unique on this planet though we might have many things in common. Thirst for knowledge removes loneliness, keep learning and studying that's the best solution. Some people feel lonely despite having too many friends. I have very few friends now, by choice.
@kavyaviswanath9386
@kavyaviswanath9386 3 ай бұрын
​@@kspradeep8397 Your advice is spot on.. Quality over quantity anytime. Thanks for the reminder!
@preetamkumarkg4817
@preetamkumarkg4817 4 ай бұрын
Loveliness is the state of mind that you create …. Say “hi” to a passerby, you still can connect . Reduce expectations about companionship. If I have to tell you on spirituality front , “you have god and yourself always “
@ytadltspv
@ytadltspv 4 ай бұрын
read books, volunteer in ngos - u'll never feel lonely. focus on advancing learning and career, u'll never feel bored . work out daily , eat properly and get enough rest, no matter how hard th e grind is, u'll find the energy for the next day. invest in people in our home towns that we all got out of looking for work and money, we'll have someplace to go back to when required that wouldve become a better place coz of our contributions.
@doncorleone3901
@doncorleone3901 4 ай бұрын
Nothing will compensate for lack of social interaction.
@ytadltspv
@ytadltspv 4 ай бұрын
​@@doncorleone3901 true - no one is really isolated - they go and work outside, etc. its beyond all 'usual' interation when the loneliness starts.
@doncorleone3901
@doncorleone3901 4 ай бұрын
@@ytadltspv loneliness is when there is a lack of "meaningful" social interaction. This is a bigger problem for people who crave deep, meaningful connections with people and don't really enjoy surface level hi, hello pleasantries. When you want to talk about life, ambitions, career issues, economy, deep dive into politics etc, that's when you realize there is practically no one in the immediate surrounding that is actually interested in all that. I don't blame anyone here. It's just that most normal people are happy with food, small jokes, tv and that's that. So someone that is not satisfied with just that tends to be lonely
@ShriNidhi-zu2im
@ShriNidhi-zu2im 3 ай бұрын
SUPPOSE I AM VERY LONELY. Though I am married, have children, go to the office, go to the temple and all that nonsense that goes on, I am utterly, profoundly lonely. Being lonely, I escape because I don’t know how to tackle that loneliness. I don’t understand what loneliness is, but I am frightened: this sense of existence in which there is no relationship with another, no sense of communication with another, thoroughly enclosed. Don’t you know these feelings? Wake up! As my brain doesn’t know how to solve it, it escapes. It escapes through entertainment. Whether it is religious entertainment or football, they are both the same. Do you agree? Are you really agreeing that religious entertainment, going to the temple, the puja and all the things that go on there, and football are the same? They are entertainments because they do not alter your life. They are just an amusement. Do you agree to this? Is it only a verbal agreement or actually saying, ‘They are the same’? Therefore finished with it. So what is loneliness? Without escaping, without running away into illusory, imaginary ideals, the actual fact is that I am despairingly, anxiously lonely. I may be married, I may have sex, I may have children, but this thing is rotting. Most of us are deeply hurt from childhood, and we carry that hurt throughout life. You can say it doesn’t matter, that it will not affect your action, but it does affect action because unconsciously, deeply, your actions are guided by your hurt. You build a wall around yourself not to be hurt more, and the consequences of that hurt are bitterness and more loneliness. And why do human beings go through this loneliness? Ask yourself. As two friends we are talking about this. Why? It must exist because of your actions. Your daily actions are self-centred. Your daily thoughts and activities are concerned with yourself. You may be a social worker and give your life to that, but the ‘me’ is still going on, only you have identified yourself with something. Like the communist identifies with the State, with the ideal, you identify yourself with something else. So as long as there is self-centred activity, there must be loneliness. I don’t know if you see this. If your chief concern is ‘me’, then that ‘me’ must act in a very narrow circle. And that action must inevitably produce this exhausting, despairing loneliness. Do you understand all this, not verbally but actually?
@shubhamsingh6774
@shubhamsingh6774 2 күн бұрын
Can I ask you the reason why you clicked on this video?
@thungdemotsanglao2449
@thungdemotsanglao2449 Ай бұрын
Silence shouldn't be misjudged with weakness. Stoicism shouldn't be misjudged with loneliness! Where there is passion there is happiness.✨ Keep juggling and hustling! JAI HIND
@RajathKRajeev
@RajathKRajeev 4 күн бұрын
Can someone share me links to Warehouse community that was mentioned in the video?
@SIBIRIAKcom
@SIBIRIAKcom 16 күн бұрын
I want to live in Bangalore for a few months and play my music in public places like restaurants and bars. Is it possible?
@Bhuv-
@Bhuv- Ай бұрын
Get Married by 30. I won't talk like a boomer uncle a tell get married by 24, but 30 should be about right. Have a child with in 2 years, and invite either your or in-laws once a month. My loneliness dissappeared after I got these things in life.
@kiranm6749
@kiranm6749 14 күн бұрын
People who are introverts will be lonley no matter where they are ... ..
@joelalexander1272
@joelalexander1272 Ай бұрын
Nice done highlighting a very important contemporary challenge. Thanks for sharing!
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 27 күн бұрын
Thank you 🙌
@meeexy116
@meeexy116 11 күн бұрын
Where can I find the warehouse community
@cedwin4
@cedwin4 19 күн бұрын
Great video sharing the experiences of people's lives. Loneliness can be overcome only when you make a 'connection' not just meeting random people and hanging out. Connection could be something like 'feeling home/safe when you are with someone', 'when you can you relate yourself with their lifestyle' etc!
@rimz7024
@rimz7024 15 күн бұрын
You need to be fortunate for that
@rajeevprasad5431
@rajeevprasad5431 23 күн бұрын
i stayed in mumbai and pune u will never feel alone , people are friendly and enjoy their life whatever their financial conditon is , but in bangalore i feel lonely , people talk less judge more, most of the people are busy 10-12 hour job and upset with daily traffic .
@ridammisra1299
@ridammisra1299 16 күн бұрын
O yes, mumbai pune is lot better. Local vibe is good and non flashy. Banglorr is all about money.
@do_ya_understand667
@do_ya_understand667 14 күн бұрын
Ye so true
@satishimca
@satishimca Ай бұрын
Where is the time to feel lonely?
@satyamjain610
@satyamjain610 4 ай бұрын
Is it just me or the natives sounded very oblivious and ignorant to the problem?
@ytadltspv
@ytadltspv 4 ай бұрын
not ignorant - 'natives' have our families here and get involved in each others' lives, our problem is lived thru alrdy - we also came from villages outside decades ago and all our people are elsewhere, some long gone, and those times were gentler even if we had much less money. now people that leave all their loved ones and roots behind just to find work and earn are in a much tougher life even with all the money and 'modern' facilities. it happens to every country and society that needs to earn money and loses its moorings - look at the us - detroit, etc. what were once thriving are all decadent now. people have to figure out their lives the way each can. i suspect the main reason for this loneliness is fear of the future looking at so many bad stories around - layoffs, failed relationships, etc. while the fix is right before us - learning from books and about ourselves and helping others in a structured way. hitting clubs and pizza huts for the weekend isnt the solution.
@ShriNidhi-zu2im
@ShriNidhi-zu2im 3 ай бұрын
SUPPOSE I AM VERY LONELY. Though I am married, have children, go to the office, go to the temple and all that nonsense that goes on, I am utterly, profoundly lonely. Being lonely, I escape because I don’t know how to tackle that loneliness. I don’t understand what loneliness is, but I am frightened: this sense of existence in which there is no relationship with another, no sense of communication with another, thoroughly enclosed. Don’t you know these feelings? Wake up! As my brain doesn’t know how to solve it, it escapes. It escapes through entertainment. Whether it is religious entertainment or football, they are both the same. Do you agree? Are you really agreeing that religious entertainment, going to the temple, the puja and all the things that go on there, and football are the same? They are entertainments because they do not alter your life. They are just an amusement. Do you agree to this? Is it only a verbal agreement or actually saying, ‘They are the same’? Therefore finished with it. So what is loneliness? Without escaping, without running away into illusory, imaginary ideals, the actual fact is that I am despairingly, anxiously lonely. I may be married, I may have sex, I may have children, but this thing is rotting. Most of us are deeply hurt from childhood, and we carry that hurt throughout life. You can say it doesn’t matter, that it will not affect your action, but it does affect action because unconsciously, deeply, your actions are guided by your hurt. You build a wall around yourself not to be hurt more, and the consequences of that hurt are bitterness and more loneliness. And why do human beings go through this loneliness? Ask yourself. As two friends we are talking about this. Why? It must exist because of your actions. Your daily actions are self-centred. Your daily thoughts and activities are concerned with yourself. You may be a social worker and give your life to that, but the ‘me’ is still going on, only you have identified yourself with something. Like the communist identifies with the State, with the ideal, you identify yourself with something else. So as long as there is self-centred activity, there must be loneliness. I don’t know if you see this. If your chief concern is ‘me’, then that ‘me’ must act in a very narrow circle. And that action must inevitably produce this exhausting, despairing loneliness. Do you understand all this, not verbally but actually?
@ytadltspv
@ytadltspv 3 ай бұрын
@@ShriNidhi-zu2im people that feed demons in their minds and keep running around in their own small circles with no other useful interest in lift - reading, sports, social service, etc - will only be lonely. if every important stage in personal life is a milestone, the yearly events that lead to each one is a step to plan for and execute. beyond that there s a big wide world there with so much to learn about and so many people to help or try backup options - run small biz like social entrepreneur etc. why will someone every feel lonely if he/she gets out of their own personal hells???? our elders had so little and did so much, they werent lonely - they built relationships with others and did their best. we have so much but give and do so little. thats the problem.
@ankurgupta9106
@ankurgupta9106 2 күн бұрын
​@@ShriNidhi-zu2imThank you for spreading message of J Krishnamurthy
@raushansinha7826
@raushansinha7826 6 ай бұрын
Informative and helpful video. It will really help people who suffer with loneliness. Thank you team!
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 6 ай бұрын
❤️🙌
@ShriNidhi-zu2im
@ShriNidhi-zu2im 3 ай бұрын
Can One Go Beyond Loneliness? WHAT IS LONELINESS? Most of us know the feeling of being completely isolated. Though you are with your friends, in a group or with your family, you feel completely cut off, isolated. And that isolation, that loneliness is rather painful. Being aware of that pain we either escape from it, try to cover it up or rationalise it. But at the end of it, the loneliness still remains. Then what is one to do with it? What is this sense of loneliness? Is it the result of our daily life which is so self-centred, so egocentric, so selfish, which is all the time isolating, building a wall around oneself? That brings about a quality or feeling of utter loneliness, utter despair in that loneliness. If you do not escape from it and you see the absurdity of escaping, the fact that running away from it is part of that loneliness, then you have the energy to face loneliness. We are wasting that energy through verbal or actual escape, so when you realise the absurdity, the silliness of it, then you are facing loneliness.
@therawtraveller9593
@therawtraveller9593 10 күн бұрын
Who tf is lonely in Bangalore!!! I'm from North and I love it here. Apart from few assholes you'll anyway find anywhere in the world, people here are great and the weather itself is such a vibe. I've met more people in this city than anywhere. Anybody who says they can't connect with people because they can't speak Kannada is bullshitting. People are people first and north or south indian later. I found the love of my life in Bangalore and she's a proper Kannadiga. Even when I was new here, I was blown away by this city anyway. I came here in 2017 and the first thing I noticed were food joints every 50 meters. That's when I knew this was going to be fun. And then the first time I explored a pub here, I had a cultural shock and how chill people were in the crowds. Nobody was picking fights with some guy who accidentally brushed somebody's girlfriend because the crowd was packed and there was hardly any place to move. People were happy. That's the first time I saw so many happy people in one place. Man, Bangalore touched my soul.
@arundas2811
@arundas2811 Ай бұрын
As time passes, many individuals prioritize starting families and spending time with loved ones. Those without families may experience feelings of loneliness. Age often influences one's level of commitment, with younger people typically having fewer responsibilities. Additionally, some people prefer solitude, choosing to socialize only with a small circle who share similar traits, opinions, and values, seeking mutual respect in their interactions.
@naruto_uzumakhi5716
@naruto_uzumakhi5716 6 ай бұрын
Can someone tell about how to participate in that warehouse community?
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 5 ай бұрын
Hey! You can go to joinwarehouse website and fill out the form to join the community. URL: www.joinwarehouse.com/
@S9.S4
@S9.S4 4 ай бұрын
It's a sad reality of the whole world.
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 3 ай бұрын
🙌🤷‍♀️
@SerialCringeHunter
@SerialCringeHunter 4 ай бұрын
i guess this is a general problem now and not specific to bangalore...growing up and making friends is difficult
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 4 ай бұрын
💯🙌
@mister-Kayne
@mister-Kayne 4 ай бұрын
True that after a certain age, it's not easy to make friends. You have colleagues, relatives and aquaintences
@user-ci9nx5gk5u
@user-ci9nx5gk5u 4 ай бұрын
Yes very true all metropolitans have this problem
@ShriNidhi-zu2im
@ShriNidhi-zu2im 3 ай бұрын
SUPPOSE I AM VERY LONELY. Though I am married, have children, go to the office, go to the temple and all that nonsense that goes on, I am utterly, profoundly lonely. Being lonely, I escape because I don’t know how to tackle that loneliness. I don’t understand what loneliness is, but I am frightened: this sense of existence in which there is no relationship with another, no sense of communication with another, thoroughly enclosed. Don’t you know these feelings? Wake up! As my brain doesn’t know how to solve it, it escapes. It escapes through entertainment. Whether it is religious entertainment or football, they are both the same. Do you agree? Are you really agreeing that religious entertainment, going to the temple, the puja and all the things that go on there, and football are the same? They are entertainments because they do not alter your life. They are just an amusement. Do you agree to this? Is it only a verbal agreement or actually saying, ‘They are the same’? Therefore finished with it. So what is loneliness? Without escaping, without running away into illusory, imaginary ideals, the actual fact is that I am despairingly, anxiously lonely. I may be married, I may have sex, I may have children, but this thing is rotting. Most of us are deeply hurt from childhood, and we carry that hurt throughout life. You can say it doesn’t matter, that it will not affect your action, but it does affect action because unconsciously, deeply, your actions are guided by your hurt. You build a wall around yourself not to be hurt more, and the consequences of that hurt are bitterness and more loneliness. And why do human beings go through this loneliness? Ask yourself. As two friends we are talking about this. Why? It must exist because of your actions. Your daily actions are self-centred. Your daily thoughts and activities are concerned with yourself. You may be a social worker and give your life to that, but the ‘me’ is still going on, only you have identified yourself with something. Like the communist identifies with the State, with the ideal, you identify yourself with something else. So as long as there is self-centred activity, there must be loneliness. I don’t know if you see this. If your chief concern is ‘me’, then that ‘me’ must act in a very narrow circle. And that action must inevitably produce this exhausting, despairing loneliness. Do you understand all this, not verbally but actually?
@SerialCringeHunter
@SerialCringeHunter 3 ай бұрын
@@ShriNidhi-zu2im very well written!, I understand where you're coming from, to be honest I've never had problems till now to make new friends. This is also because I still am in my college and haven't stepped into the corporate world so have no experience regarding it, the bottom line that I truly believe in is that if you're truly there for a person, for no ulterior motive, you are bound to be friends, but in today's day and age, everyone does things for a reason, everything is a barter, plus life gets so hectic when you grow up, you have so much responsibilities to deal with, and they must be fulfilled. Ever wondered why the number of friends are highest in school? Because our hearts are in the purest forms, there are no judgements in schools, there is no "what you'll do in return if I'll do this for you", it's just you are at your purest heart with little to no bad experiences with people, and the number of friends decreases eventually from college to job to life. This also happens because the clean heart gets smart intrinsically and humans naturally have this instinct of not going to initiate new friendships due to their ego coming their ways hence making it difficult to form new bonds, Naval Ravikant once said "Love is always given" and sadly people want to be loved first only then they would want to give it back to others, but the fact is you have to give first then receive, and believe me once you start doing this selflessly, you'll start to notice the wonders of the world. I think we can be good friends too, and surely we should connect.. My insta username is the same mentioned here. Cheers to life you've got one new friend today hehehe :))) 🥂
@kumar-singh-qz6kl
@kumar-singh-qz6kl Ай бұрын
I want to know the address of that 8cat girl...
@sarayuneel
@sarayuneel 6 күн бұрын
I lived for 20 years in Bangalore and lived in less crowded locations like Goa, Palakkad, it was equally lonely in different ways. It doesn't get any better. Just grow the will to stay positive and stick to a group of people that you are comfortable with.
@prabhakar3725
@prabhakar3725 Ай бұрын
I was feeling same in Bengaluru, alon , how many times you will go out for eat ,if you're outsiders, some day you'll feel excited but slowly you will start feeling lonely
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 27 күн бұрын
🫂🫂🫂
@mister-Kayne
@mister-Kayne 4 ай бұрын
That is true, one can feel lonely in the city because of many reasons. It's like people don't have time to live anymore. Trying to keep up with inflation, traffic and the many commitments in the city kills one's creativity and social skills. I remember growing up, we had a close group of friends. Now everyone has disappeared, either abroad, in a different city, married or just too tired to be going out anywhere!
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 4 ай бұрын
🙌
@picnics3293
@picnics3293 Ай бұрын
It's common in Cities. I realized the people in my Village my age are having good social life than me. Their weekends are awesome as the villages are also rich now.. The problem in the City is that you should have enough money for a social life. Basically spending more and people are reluctant to do that because they came to cities for their life settlement.
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 27 күн бұрын
🙌
@anshuldwivedi1919
@anshuldwivedi1919 Ай бұрын
Saare bade sheher aise hi hain.... not good place to live one's life but most end up moving to these places because of unplanned job concentration in 6 cities - Delhi NCR, Bangalore, Mumbai, Hyderabad, Chennai and a place in Maha that I hate from the bottom of my heart
@rimz7024
@rimz7024 15 күн бұрын
Do you hate Pune?
@sapthagiris2277
@sapthagiris2277 4 ай бұрын
It's not only about Bangalore, it's abt the whole country, views ke liye kuch bhi 😒
@iamnoob7593
@iamnoob7593 4 ай бұрын
exactly
@user-mx8mp7xt8m
@user-mx8mp7xt8m 3 ай бұрын
Perfectly said... ❤️❤️👌👌👍👍
@Addy81995
@Addy81995 4 күн бұрын
And also someone Said in video those who indulge in smoking and drinking shouldn't be trusted.. what nonsense.. drinking is personal choice.and if someone is bad they anyway are😊
@justfortoday8086
@justfortoday8086 24 күн бұрын
I find solace within myself..I don’t feel lonely anywhere when I am with myself
@abhilashreddy9548
@abhilashreddy9548 Ай бұрын
I stay in gift city going from Bangalore, u won’t believe u will die missing Bangalore.
@shrikz
@shrikz 3 ай бұрын
It is a problem in every major city..ppl are busy with their phones and don’t want to talk to each other so this is bound to happen
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 3 ай бұрын
🙌
@hrishi-s
@hrishi-s Ай бұрын
I was in Bangalore for about 6 months, and I felt too lonely. Even though I was going out every single weekend, honestly the city goes quite after 9:30 pm, only the pubs are open
@hrishi-s
@hrishi-s Ай бұрын
@@sagarshetty3175 Come to Pune and Mumbai you will realise what I am saying. You can roam around easily till 12-1 am and still you will get food, icecream easily and many people, couples roming around without any problem. Night life does not only means Pubs
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 27 күн бұрын
🫂
@javedahmed1131
@javedahmed1131 Ай бұрын
People afraid to connect, inferiority complex always exists
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 27 күн бұрын
🙌
@kirank777
@kirank777 4 күн бұрын
In the past in 90s and 2000s, families used to visit each other houses frequently and even friends. At that time people also used to work 8 to 9 hrs per day only. Now people work 12 hrs per day, sometimes on weekends too, out of stress, they take rest at home. Hardly talk to friends on phone and meet them very less. On top of this bad habits like being too much on smartphones even in late nights after work. In our country, most people don't give value to mental health and if someone speaks about it, he will be ridiculed and looked down. The day we realise that our physical and mental health are also equally important along with our career, these type of things will vanish. Its important to go socialise with like minded people so that we support each other and stay through thick and thin of our lives.
@NaveenSiddareddy
@NaveenSiddareddy Ай бұрын
simple.. there are so called "third places". these are places like playgrounds where you act without obligations and free with orders whereas "first/second" are home/work-office work-office/home where you have obligations.. so please create those places urban planners or community leaders
@raghavponnathapurasomasund84
@raghavponnathapurasomasund84 Ай бұрын
People don't have ethics and basic values, they lie, lie, lie and make up some story, they don't respect who genuinely care for them, and surrounding themselves with assholes and not communicating with us, will result in loneliness. I am looking for a girl in Bengaluru to marry (intension of dating to marry), but damn, it is hard to come by such genuinely pure people who have basic values, respect for each others parents and they care for us. Tinder and other dating apps are like garage sale, thank god I have not signed up for it.
@vidyak5377
@vidyak5377 17 күн бұрын
Bangalore is definitely a lonlier than other cities like Delhi....because people lack the dept in bonding..speaking in English and having superfluous relations.
@naliniganesh7037
@naliniganesh7037 Ай бұрын
Single child, highly egoistic for the education and job u have. Want to be highly independent . Not having good rapport with cousins and friends is a major cause.
@Kairakairav23
@Kairakairav23 17 күн бұрын
I don’t feel lonely , I love my space.but yes it’s hard to make friends here .. I feel Bengaluru lacks warmth.. even people coming here from outside don’t mingle much .. people don’t have the idea of fun here unlike pubs and malls.
@dheerajp3109
@dheerajp3109 3 ай бұрын
" loneliness. Loneliness is a misunderstood aloneness. Once you misunderstand your aloneness as loneliness, the whole context changes. Aloneness has a beauty and grandeur, a positivity; loneliness is poor, negative, dark, dismal. “Everybody is running away from loneliness. It is like a wound; it hurts. To escape from it, the only way is to be in a crowd, to become part of a society, to have friends, to create a family, to have husbands and wives, to have children. In this crowd, the basic effort is that you will be able to forget your loneliness. “But nobody has ever succeeded in forgetting it. That which is natural to you, you can try to ignore - but you cannot forget it; it will assert again and again. And the problem becomes more complex because you have never seen it as it is; you have taken it for granted that you are born lonely." "loneliness is the absence of the other, Aloneness is the presence of your eternal being" OSHO
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 27 күн бұрын
🙌
@ShriNidhi-zu2im
@ShriNidhi-zu2im 3 ай бұрын
SUPPOSE I AM VERY LONELY. Though I am married, have children, go to the office, go to the temple and all that nonsense that goes on, I am utterly, profoundly lonely. Being lonely, I escape because I don’t know how to tackle that loneliness. I don’t understand what loneliness is, but I am frightened: this sense of existence in which there is no relationship with another, no sense of communication with another, thoroughly enclosed. Don’t you know these feelings? Wake up! As my brain doesn’t know how to solve it, it escapes. It escapes through entertainment. Whether it is religious entertainment or football, they are both the same. Do you agree? Are you really agreeing that religious entertainment, going to the temple, the puja and all the things that go on there, and football are the same? They are entertainments because they do not alter your life. They are just an amusement. Do you agree to this? Is it only a verbal agreement or actually saying, ‘They are the same’? Therefore finished with it. So what is loneliness? Without escaping, without running away into illusory, imaginary ideals, the actual fact is that I am despairingly, anxiously lonely. I may be married, I may have sex, I may have children, but this thing is rotting. Most of us are deeply hurt from childhood, and we carry that hurt throughout life. You can say it doesn’t matter, that it will not affect your action, but it does affect action because unconsciously, deeply, your actions are guided by your hurt. You build a wall around yourself not to be hurt more, and the consequences of that hurt are bitterness and more loneliness. And why do human beings go through this loneliness? Ask yourself. As two friends we are talking about this. Why? It must exist because of your actions. Your daily actions are self-centred. Your daily thoughts and activities are concerned with yourself. You may be a social worker and give your life to that, but the ‘me’ is still going on, only you have identified yourself with something. Like the communist identifies with the State, with the ideal, you identify yourself with something else. So as long as there is self-centred activity, there must be loneliness. I don’t know if you see this. If your chief concern is ‘me’, then that ‘me’ must act in a very narrow circle. And that action must inevitably produce this exhausting, despairing loneliness. Do you understand all this, not verbally but actually?
@shubhamsingh6774
@shubhamsingh6774 2 күн бұрын
@@ShriNidhi-zu2im This paragraph really helped me to understand the root cause of loneliness. However, there is still a basic human need to have a meaningful connection with people. It gives us a sense of safety that there is someone by my side. The need of this safety comes from evolutionary past when our ansistors had better probability to survive when they lived in groups. I wish I had someone like you in my real life with whom I could have deep talks about life.
@vpkapadia
@vpkapadia 4 ай бұрын
Life is to live fun. Family friends neighbours. Just drinking n smoking is what one get easily.. Ur desk should have timer..
@bashirjogee
@bashirjogee 7 ай бұрын
Interesting video Loneliness can be many factors not only loss of family or work environment. The covid pandemic has increased the issue l think
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 7 ай бұрын
That is true. Thank you for sharing 🧡
@ShriNidhi-zu2im
@ShriNidhi-zu2im 3 ай бұрын
SUPPOSE I AM VERY LONELY. Though I am married, have children, go to the office, go to the temple and all that nonsense that goes on, I am utterly, profoundly lonely. Being lonely, I escape because I don’t know how to tackle that loneliness. I don’t understand what loneliness is, but I am frightened: this sense of existence in which there is no relationship with another, no sense of communication with another, thoroughly enclosed. Don’t you know these feelings? Wake up! As my brain doesn’t know how to solve it, it escapes. It escapes through entertainment. Whether it is religious entertainment or football, they are both the same. Do you agree? Are you really agreeing that religious entertainment, going to the temple, the puja and all the things that go on there, and football are the same? They are entertainments because they do not alter your life. They are just an amusement. Do you agree to this? Is it only a verbal agreement or actually saying, ‘They are the same’? Therefore finished with it. So what is loneliness? Without escaping, without running away into illusory, imaginary ideals, the actual fact is that I am despairingly, anxiously lonely. I may be married, I may have sex, I may have children, but this thing is rotting. Most of us are deeply hurt from childhood, and we carry that hurt throughout life. You can say it doesn’t matter, that it will not affect your action, but it does affect action because unconsciously, deeply, your actions are guided by your hurt. You build a wall around yourself not to be hurt more, and the consequences of that hurt are bitterness and more loneliness. And why do human beings go through this loneliness? Ask yourself. As two friends we are talking about this. Why? It must exist because of your actions. Your daily actions are self-centred. Your daily thoughts and activities are concerned with yourself. You may be a social worker and give your life to that, but the ‘me’ is still going on, only you have identified yourself with something. Like the communist identifies with the State, with the ideal, you identify yourself with something else. So as long as there is self-centred activity, there must be loneliness. I don’t know if you see this. If your chief concern is ‘me’, then that ‘me’ must act in a very narrow circle. And that action must inevitably produce this exhausting, despairing loneliness. Do you understand all this, not verbally but actually?
@joevarghese1978
@joevarghese1978 Ай бұрын
To my opinion, if you are not drinking or smoking, you are likely to get into the lonely status in due course.anither issue would be overthinking.
@shivangimishra7441
@shivangimishra7441 12 күн бұрын
Ever since I came to this city, I have been feeling depressed. People here are very weird.. It is the culture of these people to humiliate people because of one language
@dinakaraghebbar6695
@dinakaraghebbar6695 4 ай бұрын
In life there are three sets of things. One, you can share with anyone anytime Two, you can share with only a few (be it a family or a frined) Three, you cant share with anyone and it is the one either make you or break you. If it breaks, that's where loneliness steps in (no matter how many hundreds / thousands of friends / welwishers are around you)
@gaganan030
@gaganan030 23 күн бұрын
It’s not only about Bangalore if you are living away from family and have no friends or partner in the city where you live away from home you will feel lonely
@crossplanev8
@crossplanev8 3 күн бұрын
This generation of kids don't wanna do anything except smoke, drink and eat
@Prashantparab93
@Prashantparab93 4 күн бұрын
I've been here for more than a year. Never ever felt lonely. It is the issue with these people specifically. Else it is one of the most beautiful places to live!
@SanoopAI
@SanoopAI Ай бұрын
I felt lonely in all y years working for TCS , i went for a wfh job and i became happy ever since
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 27 күн бұрын
🫂❤️
@sumantakolay1436
@sumantakolay1436 3 ай бұрын
Bangalore, a heartless city with zero emotions.. arrogant locals...loneliness can be quite common there...
@ShriNidhi-zu2im
@ShriNidhi-zu2im 3 ай бұрын
Bro make some sensible comment! Loneliness is caused by your bad lifestyle & personality disorder.
@sumantakolay1436
@sumantakolay1436 3 ай бұрын
@@ShriNidhi-zu2im check with other cities...u will get the picture...
@Michaelathomas2000
@Michaelathomas2000 Ай бұрын
Ikr
@SerialCringeHunter
@SerialCringeHunter 4 ай бұрын
this video is lovely, this channel will do well if consistent.
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 4 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@ShriNidhi-zu2im
@ShriNidhi-zu2im 3 ай бұрын
*Most of us are lonely.* What is loneliness? Most of us are lonely. Out of that loneliness, we want companionship. We escape from loneliness through every form of entertainment, religious as well as that which is most amusing. We escape in so many ways. But like a deep disease that must be cured, it is always there. So one must go into this very carefully because if we don’t understand it, our action, which is our daily relationship with each other, will distort that relationship. That relationship then becomes merely exploiting each other to escape from this deep abiding loneliness. Why are we so lonely? I don’t know if you have ever experienced the state of loneliness, isolation, having no relationship at all with others. Perhaps some of you have experienced this, or most of you. And if we don’t understand that loneliness, our actions will be distorted. So we are inquiring not only into action but also into loneliness, which destroys, disrupts, distorts all relationship in action. What is loneliness? Why are we so self-centred? Why are we in our own lives? We may have friends, be married and all the rest of it, but we are always concerned with ourselves. Our actions are self-centred: ambitious, greedy, envious, suffering, aggressive. That is fairly clear. Is that the root of this deep loneliness of man? And can that loneliness utterly disappear? When there is a hurt, psychological hurt, any action that takes place must inevitably be affected by the hurt. We get very hurt, not only about little things but deeply hurt in not being able to fulfil, not being able to achieve, not being able to become something. We get deeply hurt, and that hurt affects our actions. You cannot escape from distorting action if you are hurt. That is, as long as you have an image about yourself, you are going to be hurt. Inevitably. And when there is hurt, action will be destructive, will bring about conflict. Is it possible to be aware of this loneliness and not escape from it, but remain with it: not take a drink, not pick up a book, not rush off to some form of entertainment, but to completely, without any movement of thought, remain with that feeling of utter isolation? Then you will see, if you do, that feeling of isolation disappears entirely, because it is thought that creates the sense of isolation.
@rajashekarr.g.n.k3212
@rajashekarr.g.n.k3212 18 күн бұрын
First learn kannada, then mingle with locals. But many people won't even respect local language, culture.
@user-mx8mp7xt8m
@user-mx8mp7xt8m 4 ай бұрын
The Reason is individual.. Depends on their own lifestyle and individual circumstances..
@aditikhandelwal446
@aditikhandelwal446 21 күн бұрын
Such a good video 🔥
@2701mohit
@2701mohit 14 күн бұрын
You loose 90% percent of these "opportunities" if you don't drink or smoke and based on your tolerance of the same in your circle
@sneha09341
@sneha09341 3 күн бұрын
When we consider all relatives as toxic and stop having communities , this issues come.. We need to have communities were people bond on things
@jasmineabdulla5719
@jasmineabdulla5719 5 күн бұрын
I was never lonely in Bangalore always my friends and cousins were there around we go to parties, disco, pub, movies ,trips and almost every weekend in malls ,brigade and MG road etc but once I moved to UAE I felt the real loneliness 🙃😢😢😢
@do_ya_understand667
@do_ya_understand667 14 күн бұрын
I feel lonely here i am from Karnataka i am myself surprised as well i still dont feel connected to this city everytime i plan to leave this city, i didnt feel same in mumbai everyone even a bus driver interacted with me auto drivers and people in shared auto gave me knowledge about the city in only 2 days.
@bharathgopalakrishnan3739
@bharathgopalakrishnan3739 15 күн бұрын
i guess it has more to do with the fact that people in Bangalore keep moving. It is a sort of bubble. These community building setups rarely work and same goes for co-living spaces or meeting people through apps. Most of them are one-off events. For friendship to work, in the sense of what you had up to college, is very tough as it requires some sort of repeated meet ups. Even staying in a coliving pg, I have observed that majority of the interactions are merely courteous and even once you feel you know someone, they vacate. Doesn't help that most people only want to put their best foot forward and hide any possible vulnerabilities. So all interactions end up being a sort of a mask. If you are lucky, you might end up getting a gf or bf. If you bring in different work schedules, a sort of personal boundary on things, initiations the equation just becomes too complicated. Most of the time, it is either friends you bring in from your hometown, workplace who are of the same age group who stay. Rest are just fleeting interactions.
@aravndhanr7241
@aravndhanr7241 13 күн бұрын
The solution is very simple. Join social dancing like salsa , bachata ,Kizomba or tango. Bangalore has one of the best Latin dance community. You will never be lonely in your life. you are surrounded by the community which focuses on learning and growing.
@wheelsoncrisis
@wheelsoncrisis Ай бұрын
I talk to people in my job, ie 8hrs, i sleep for 10 hrs, rest of the time i am on youtube and instagram or playing video games, figures...
@apachetamizha
@apachetamizha 27 күн бұрын
God is with everyone 😊
@thilakp.t6375
@thilakp.t6375 6 күн бұрын
Me a Banglorean kannadiga...watching PPL saying there s lot of pub culture n me not even been a part of it from v long time........!!!
@sathyanarayana887
@sathyanarayana887 4 ай бұрын
Our parents are our living God...just live with them then Yoga & meditations...connect to cosmic power...i am 56 yrs never ever feeling such stuffs...
@vaibhavkumar8136
@vaibhavkumar8136 18 күн бұрын
I am going a bit deep and offtopic here but until and unless one is internally happy and joyus no amount of socializing will bring one out of loneliness. Loneliness cannot be cured until one is internally connected with their emotions and have confidence enough to express it.
@thewierd_thewonderful996
@thewierd_thewonderful996 15 күн бұрын
Well I think it depends on if you can make friends and have a social circle...
@onecuriousmuggle
@onecuriousmuggle 3 күн бұрын
Okay, tell me how did you make friends as a kid? You probably plyaed with them as a child. You prob went to the same school. Same tution. The thing is you showed up everyday to a place, where you did some activity together and eventually started being friends. That’s what you gotta do to make friends. Show up to places like book clubs, gyms, music classes, sports activity. Eyc, whatever you like. That’s how you are going to make new friends. That’s how we make friends in office too. The concepts are the same. We just bound ourselves and judge others more now as an adult.
@debashismishra347
@debashismishra347 8 күн бұрын
Bangalore is the place I felt I feel nice n I felt lonely in other cities if nothing to do I can do off-roading n drive in and around Bangalore
@durga813
@durga813 4 ай бұрын
Dear rocket health- nobody is alone in this world. Due to the fact that every human being on earth being a 3-dimension living being- people tend to being alone some times. But we have built-in faculty to progress to 4the dimension and beyond -were the actual world lies. Ramalingam vallalr of tamil nadu is one among the many people who achieved 4th dimension and beyond. There are countless souls from India who have achieved this progression. For ordinary beings yoga will show the way . A good guru is a bonus. most of all Patience and perseverance will make one reach the target. All the best -no more loneliness. Loneliness is the antics of our own mind. Mind should not control us. It is the other way .That is why yoga comes into prominence.
@devadattaindia5989
@devadattaindia5989 14 күн бұрын
Social media, Smart phones and lastly Covid has sounded the death knell of socialising, every person has become an island unto themselves,not only in cities but in villages too across India!
@muradali1231
@muradali1231 4 ай бұрын
What are the symptoms of loneliness? A lot of us may not even realize we are lonely.
@arunc2944
@arunc2944 Ай бұрын
People are lonely everywhere. We are living in fake social media life and era. In 90 s before social media it was so good.
@SanjayKumar-es5ch
@SanjayKumar-es5ch 24 күн бұрын
Yeah Mumbai Delhi is very social and live in tribes.
@666Kudos
@666Kudos Ай бұрын
Looks like i am late to this video. But, Making friends is easy in Bangalore... Not holding on is the issue...
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 27 күн бұрын
🙌
@uraichur
@uraichur Ай бұрын
“Everyone needs a hobby” - Iron man
@aditya87913
@aditya87913 9 күн бұрын
loneliness is a problem till you are jealous of others, if you have great discipline constructive habits and enjoy hobbies you will either become desirable by people or else you will love yourself alone
@AbhineetKumar1
@AbhineetKumar1 7 ай бұрын
50% intersection - interesting concept 🚀
@rockethealth
@rockethealth 7 ай бұрын
💯🙌
@twentyfirst_21
@twentyfirst_21 19 күн бұрын
Really I used cry, when I hear my mom voice in mobile but nothing to do 😭😔
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