What i learnt from heartbreak is that dont love someone so much that it become your weakness

"Time doesn't heal anything, it just teaches us how to live with pain" 🙂

Love is simultaneously one of the best and worst feelings ever.

Heart break during exam days literally kills

*True love isn't between two people.* *True love is within, true love is for life itself.*

To all the beautiful souls out there reading this if you are feeling the pain of heartbreak. I wish you healing and I want you to know that a great beauty lies in this pain. There was something you had to learn from this phase of your life , acknowledge it and then let go. My heart is completely healed and i have let go of them. It took some painful times but they taught me a lot. Love yourself unconditionally through it all and one day you will heal..trust me. Love you all.❤

I'm sorry if u have searched this😶🥺

"A tormented mind wants to forget, what a broken heart will always remember."

The break up, the separation doesnt hurt us, it is humiliation, degradation, and offense to our self esteem that hurts us. So, how to recover from sadness after a break up? Work on our self esteem, take a good care of ourself, and value ourself more.

If someone breaks your heart, betrays you, or suddenly disappears, don't be sad. Accept it. Life always brings you what you are. That person is not anymore in your "frequency of being". The wonderful and amazing thing is that you don't need anyone to feel completed because you are completed by yourself, and this is the perfect moment to finally realize that, forever. You have just to accept it, and stop living in the future or in the past. Live in the present and completely accept it, and you'll find an incredible sense of peace in that. Every second that passes, past is dead. No one is going to make you happy, no one is going to be yours, except you. May this be helpful for someone

My grandma ones told me (if you love him more than he loves you RUN!)

Love yourself is the real love, love someone else is an extension of love.

unloving someone isn’t as difficult as it is made out to be. you just need to love & respect yourself enough to walk away when the people you ‘love’ just don’t want to be with you anymore.

Who is scrolling through the comment in order to know whether he had properly addressed the question or not????😂😅🤣😀

It's my 5th day of breakup. We broke up after 5 years. It feels like I am all alone in this world. The first three days were tough. Then, I kept myself busy with my family, friends, and relatives. During the first month after the breakup don't be alone in the house or on your holiday. Go out with your friends, and spent time with family and relatives. Meet with the new person. Go home while you feel asleep. This way you will be able to cope up with your breakup. Just do anything that makes you feel happy. Update (After 3 months) I am doing great and i am focusing more in my health stuff and career. After 3 months she came with an apology and begged me for patchup and guess what that made me move on completely and I ignored her. I request you to just hold on and time will heal you automatically

The question should be How to stop loving someone one sidedly

This is the second video of him, I watch about heartbreak and both weren't satisfying... in both cases he doesn't address the question properly.

I have moved on, not with another person, but with myself and my dreams. If you want to be happy in life, let your happiness depend on a calling, a purpose, a dream and your vision not on people.

Pop a like please too if you're trying to let go of your ex ..🙏 Positive vibes to everyone! xx

You'll only unlove someone when you find someone you love more.

When you go through you realise actually what it is. Not a single idea or advice can work. Every experience for every individual is different.❤️

Tired of this pain in the chest. When will this end?? When?? Those memories, Those promises haunts me every single moment. The hardest thing I've ever had to do is to fight with my inner self.

Love yourselves enough that any other love just adds a cherry on the cake

"if you do what is being done in the movies Nobody is going to love you"

The thing I noticed is that Sadhguru never gives a direct answer to questions. He wants you to analyse it yourself and find the answer.

It's impossible to "un-love someone". Can you unring a bell? No! Once it's happened, the only thing you can do is be prepared for the next time it rings.Your perspective about that person and your experience with them, has to change, and then we will see it as the gift that it was. Wasn't the reality of that feeling amazing? Then cherish that, and keep it moving. The most intense loving experience I've ever had ended, however, I would NEVER want to undo that blissful experience, because some will never get to know that kind of love. The good and the bad about loving someone is, if it was true love, it will leave an impression on your heart forever-and that's the good part.

I have experienced, that building your ego while downgrading the person you love(d), can only temporarly help you with your hurt. But the real healing starts when you accept. It starts when you stop seeing yourself as a victim, when you start loving yourself and the other person. When you start to see things as for how they are. When you look into your own behaviour and how you can get better. I accepted that i will always have love for that person but sometimes things don't work out. As simple as that. But real love liberates you. Love the people around you and keep that attitude. The pain after a breakup is attachment, it's not love. Love doesn't hurt but your ego does.

Every broken relationship is meant to teach you something. I broke up with my girlfriend 2 years ago. It still hurts. But I only was with her cause I did not want to be alone. That taught me that it is better to be alone than in a toxic relationship.

Most simple way is Just keep breathing. Focus on career. (This will be most difficult)

The main key is to not give the power to someone else weather you are happy or not

He answered everything about love except how to forget someone you love, delightful!

No one literary no one can unlove someone whom they love so so much🙂

I loved the way he said.. *Idea behind building relationship is two people can do better than one *

"We're endangering everything ". How very sad and how very true.

Heartbreaks are cleansing and allow us to wake up and realize that there is no one out there, then unconditional love arises for all, and even if they leave you, you will still love them.

"In love is when your intelligence is hijacked by your hormones..":):) Sad h guru:)

How to unlove her- know her.

If I love someone...there is nothing that will cancel that love. There is always a place for the ones I loved. What can change is me showing that. The heart breaks are the failed expectations... If you want to love, love...and don't expect anything in return.

Thanks Sadguru. It's easy to break the heart by someone. It's a huge struggle to heal it alone. When we love we trust their words and promises. It's where we get wrong. But, they have their own plans in mind. What we should do is forgetting them and letting them go as they wanted. Never follow. Because we should have dignity and self confidence. Respect them. Never hate. Let them go. Smile and move on.

Love is the best feel when it succeed, and it is the worst feel when it failed!!! And fact is that most people coming in second one💔

Sadhguru is a gem which India and her youth badly needed in this era..

You don’t need to undo the love. It’s attachment that is bothersome and never love. Love is pure. At the human level it’s never without attachment.

To the all ,who came here to watch this I can understand your feelings even everyone of us can understand .be happy you all ❤️

Love yourself. Don't expect anything from anyone

You cant unlove someone whos been in ur life and touched ur heart their imprint will last forever. Therefore you can only change your mind and how you choose to percieve that love and how close you keep them to you, that is the only way.

NEVER BEG❌ TO BE LOVED BY SOMEONE.🖤

Once someone broke your heart it's hard to fixed again,

I feel broken.. And watching this video heal me a little.. thank you.

Got my heart broken 1 hr ago. Although I am a biotechnologist and I know that everything I am feeling are just hormones. Still I am not able to control my shivering and frustration. The person whom I used to love is a good person by nature and whatever she’s done was also a play of hormones. Its strange how love can transform one’s perspective about someone is just a blink of an eye. Your respect for someone is gone within seconds. I think its not love. Its the expectations that you have from the person that hurts you the most. Hence in the new year. The only person with whom I can have expectations are me, myself and I.

How do you fall in love ? When you get attracted toward someone you follow that person and think about them again and again so it becomes a habbit of someone.. If you stop yourself of thinking and following that person the very first day you saw the person it automatically gets erased from your mind... Mind never think about anything itself, It is you who just want to think about that attracted think.. You never like to think about a bad thing so you forget that bad thing very soon.. Love is just a habbit of someone.. Its never made only in one day, you repeat it again and again so that get a

We should love our parents the most who always support and never leave us ..❤

Relation have expiry date don't love someone 100% keep atleast a 10 % to yourself so that when they break your heart you can atleast heal.

To unlove, stop viewing people you love as your property. We lament the lost love because they were "ours". We say "my love" "love of my life" however if you accept their free will and fate, walk away, knowing it just wasn't meant to be and accept it.

A relationship is ment to be with two people that have the same Energie so that it will harmonize perfekt. But the most important relationship is the one you have with yourself ♥️🙏

I always like how sadhguru answers questions. He just say couple of things and makes u think for your self. He isn't trying to entice anyone by preaching perfection... much love from Nigeria 🇳🇬 ❤

You can’t ‘unlove’ anyone you love, if the love is real it stays even after you’ve moved on.

Loving and unloving becomes as easy as playing a game of life if one starts to see thing objectively. For a moment put aside emotions, feelings attached to the situation and you will come to know the actual reality. It will greatly help you understand the situation you are in.

True.. serial heart breaks and it's pain never allow you to trust anyone again. Because you are aware the expiry of the relationship. I am in a state where I built walls around my Mind so that I don't cross the limit of loving anyone more. Earlier it was a different case. Now your previous painful experiences stopping you from loving anyone new that deeply.

I heard this quote somewhere, "dil tootna bohot zaroori hai, kyunki zindagi wo hisaab hai jise peeche jaakar sahi nahi kar sakte, isiliye behetar hai ki yahin se sahi kare aur pichle ko experience ke taur par lete chale" we can just hope it was for the best because maybe if you were together, there might come a time when it won't feel the same and things change

The same love never comes twice

A person's true color can only be seen at Breakup 💯

he didn't address exactly on How to Unlove but told the basic thing, to avoid the situation by understanding why it happens and go beyond that. Been there, always one thing being in my head that costed me my sanity and trust on anyone. Sadhguru is really someone to look upon at any time for anything 🙏

Heart never breaks it's always the ego which is hurted always... Anger abought rejection etc.. And in love affair initially all is good good but when another aspect of coin comes the problem starts . That's why love needs one quality Patience,tolerance.. Then when u accept other as he or shei is with all negative,positive, Then miracle happens Possessive ,domination ,etc starts disappearing,and love changes into friendliness,where u care others space,individuality,

I am heartbroken and I saw sadgurus video come in front of my eyes. I feel healed . Thanks Sadguru🙏🏼

We can unlove someone when we can learn to love ourselves.

My grandpa once told me if you love her more than she loves you then it's better to run and stay away from her because for u she is the world but for her you are just an option

Serial heart break leads to paranoia spot on! The thing is it takes a while to move on I believe love is hard to find.

When you love completely, when the relationship ends you can walk away knowing you did everything you could and it's easy to walk away. So open up and love deeply and completely, get it all out so that when it ends you dont have unrequited love.

Not satisfied. Only lovers can feel the pain when the other person doesn't love

Relationship is two individuals accepting eachother as who they are and supporting eachothers emotional and physical well being. Most of all being kind to eachother and thats where love grows..🙏❤

To all those people finding ways to unlove someone darling there is no way to unlove someone except a sip of self love and motivation each day and yes wait for the right time. Time will heal☺have a good day🙋‍♀️

I love how he says "Hello"

the love of God ..is the highest deepest most enduring and sublime romance!!...all else, are but 'approximation's!..

*If you're thinking too much & your memories aren't going away* “A man is likely to mind his own business when it is worth minding. When it is not, he takes his mind off his own meaningless affairs by minding other people’s business.”

One should always refrain from possessiveness in love. Our parents are the beautiful ppl made on this earth..pray to god ..he will bestow his blessings and will definetely heal the pain of heartbreak. Indeed it leaves us devastated but time is the best teacher and it teaches us that they were not made for us because god didnt want anything bad to happen with us. (Toughest days)

If it has happened and you didn't decide it, try to open bout it, set your emotions free, i know its not easy but give your everything and then forget about it, if another person doesn't feel the same whatever is the reason stop there. That's it, don't ruin your time and emotions on that. We have to keep moving, you'll find someone else not him/her again but you can't control other's emotions so do that on yourself. I don't know what I'm saying but currently I'm in the situation so whatever coming straight I'm writing. Trust me you'll be alright.

Every 15 yr old should watch this video till it hits him/her...

THANKYOU EVERYONE FOR SUCH A GREAT RESPONSE TO MY QUESTION. 🙏❤️

All the broken hearts here 💔

Sadhguru is a knowledgeable man... who should've comically asked "Why would you want to forget about someone you Love ??"... then explain the idea of adolescent mentality and unrealistic perspectives which bring about this "pain in your heart" when you don't get something that you want. In this case... a person... and it's NOT LOVE !!! People feel these "pains" because they are playing with things that they are not ready for. Similar to falling off your bike while learning to ride it. Consequences follow all actions. So be patient and know that these things will come in time. Find God and Live His Word. Prepare yourself for the one who is worthy of sharing this Life with you. Be worthy yourself !! Amen !!!

Namaste Sadhguru. "two people can do better than one person - that is the idea" Thank you for sharing your wisdom. PEACE&LOVE

Namaste We can make end music little less loud . Thank you!

The opposite of love is not unlove The opposite of love is apathy,when you don't care what is going on other person's life

I will never let myself fall in love ever again. I'm done and choose to be single for the rest of my life after this last relationship broke my heart forever. I know in time I'll heal and move on with my life, but I won't be trusting another soul at all. Not only am I deeply hurt, I'm very embarrassed.

finally i end up with the question how to undo love!!🙄

Breakup are necessary because, When you break up, you are in pain. When your are in lot of pain it converted in anger. Then your anger converted into motivation. And, When you become motivated you start working hard . And hard work is the only key to success.

Love those, knowing it may not workout. Our love will expire or we may want a break. Though love takes no breaks and we must understand nothing is forever. We enjoy our time in someones life, accept the time given, build memories and move on. Worst things we can do is stay with those who no longer love us or think of us as an OBLIGATION.

You make me smile and feel more worthy,big love from Africa, Nairobi Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

I will never allow myself to fall in love again! Loving someone is very difficult and it always seems like that the moment I start to care for them they stop loving me. Never fails!!!😢

Love❤️ is within Us!!! Not Outside !!!!

Everyone here will be after their heartbreak and will be again thinking to talk with the one who did it but try to leave them behind and show them attitude take the revenge and chase success which will make us a powerful person. But never break any true love because true love from both the side is more powerful.❤️😢🔥

Anyone who is here not because of a breakup...but because they fell for someone who doesn’t love them back...and you don’t have the confidence to confess but it hurts missing them so you just wanna unlove? Anyone like me? Edit- No likes since 2 hrs...which means I am the only one:(

Less commitment and less giving to the person will protect from a heartbreak when the brake up happened ! I will start practice for myself the wisdom!!!

Love isn't being hijacked by hormones, heart break is very real and yes I will never let myself cross that line again

From his speech I understood that love is not really difficult. Its the hormones, it's the obsession and the expectations that making us hate love. When you give your everything without expecting anything in return and can feel happy there is the beauty of love. And it will make us grow.

Never wrap your whole identity around another person. Love wholly and fully, but save some love for yourself.

Love is a waste of time...

There’s this boy who lives right across the street from me. His name was Adam. For more than 4 years I’ve loved this boy. We never went out, but we were really great friends. His friendship for me was enough because all I wanted to do was be around him. I wanted to make him laugh and smile because it made my heart swell just to see him happy. Like literally my heart felt something when he was happy. He would make fun of me a lot, but it was playful teasing. I acted like he was annoying me, when really I was eating it up. I loved the extra attention. There would be moments where he would stare at me like for several seconds, and at times it would feel like I was just seeing things, but there were other moments when it was obvious that he really was looking at me. And so I thought that he liked me too. But all that quickly changed when another girl came into the picture. He would make fun of the girl the way he would with me. He stopped staring at me as much and would talk to her more. I felt us growing distant and I didn’t know what to do about it. I wasn’t going to say anything because it wasn’t like we were close to the point where it warranted me to say anything. So I kept quiet. Finally, I had enough. I couldn’t stand him not feeling the same way I had obviously felt about him. So I distanced myself from him. It hurt to do so but the pain of being around him was much more than this. It literally hurt my heart and made me feel like I had to vomit anytime I saw him around her, because I knew he would never look at me the same. A year goes by and I thought I was over him officially, and for a while I thought I was. I started paying attention other guys, but it wasn’t the same. My mind always thought back to him. The boy that I really wanted. I tried to suppress my feelings and act like everything was okay, but then another year goes by and I still feel the same. He’s still living across the street from me. I still sometimes see him when he comes out of his house. He ignores me on purpose, I can tell. I followed him three times on Instagram and he never followed me back. I thought that maybe he just didn’t see that I followed him, but I dmd him and he still didn’t respond to me, twice. It’s not like he’s not active on Instagram because he posts on his story a lot. I know I should take that as a sign that he truly wants nothing to do with me, but I really don’t want to believe that. Deep down I know it’s true. Maybe I want this so badly because I’m 18 and still haven’t had my first kiss or first relationship. Maybe there’s something wrong with me. There probably is something wrong with me. I’m a mess. But I still love him. Any advice?

The challege of live and let live, regardless of our differences and focus on adressing the challenge of preserving a precious friendship as well, more importantly, then the pain you are experiencing.

'Conduct your needs in a dignified manner'. Profound use of words!