ok!

Made me so sad to see his hesitancy, then her glowing smile turn into an apology 🥺 Like of course he is entitled to his own feelings, but it shouldn't be *that* shocking that she envisions her life with him. They are a wonderful pair, and I genuinely hope to see them get married down the line, provided they are both willing and ready.

@@megantotally1844 maybe they’ve like never talked about it before and ryan was caught off guard. i guarantee they’re getting married but not anytime soon. they’ve only been dating for 4 years which i feel like it’s a long time

@@saanvi8481lol

@@doki7242ooh that didn’t age well

what

@@cionm it's a friends reference

FRIENDS

They actually do have Monica and Chandler energy, at least a bit. Never noticed that before!

Yess it should be and it is okayy.. I'm only 16 and still have thoughts about this.. I don't see myself having kids in the future and for me to say that verbally means having to hear a lot of judgemental thoughts of various people.. And yes the sentence "u'll change ur mind" or u won't believe but I've also heard "well thats a waste of ur ability to reproduce".. Which is one of the reasons why I never say it anymore.. Like idk maybe I will change my mind but as u said it should be okay if if I don't because end of the day it's me who's gonna have to take care of that child not u and that gives me the right to choose if I want to or not.. Having kids is not something anyone should do out of peer pressure or if u have any kind of "oh I'm not sure if I'm ready but let's just do it what could go wrong" type of thoughts.. There's so much that goes into raising a child and I just know for a fact that it's not for me.. I don't wanna have kids and then have those kids go through half of the shit I'm going through coz of parenting issues.. Maybe if in the future somehow all of the things I'm paranoid about go away and I feel confident enough to know that I could raise a child well then maybe there's a chance I'll have a kid.. But I just don't see it and if that's how I choose to live life and it's hurting nobody then that's none of anyone's business. Just felt like ranting so there I go.. 😂😂

@@devanshitanna I am 16 as well and while I see myself possibly adopting or fostering teenagers, I never see myself having children. I think a lot of people are disappointed in that because my family placed all of their hope for grandchildren and great-grandchildren on me, and ultimately, it is my choice.

As someone who is twice your age, I didn't want kids at your age and I still don't. I still get the comments about "maybe you'll change your mind" sometimes, but not nearly as much. And they aren't as patronizing usually. They just literally don't understand it, whether because they really wanted kids or they've been brainwashed into believing kids are necessary. It's a lot easier for me to ignore them regardless, as I've gotten older. Now, some people do change their mind. Or they have a surprise that they chose to keep. That is valid, and does not mean they were wrong in the past, it just means they changed. Everyone changes, it's part of growing up. Some people change that way. And others don't. Don't worry about what others say or think, especially about something so important. Do what feels right to you.

The great thing is, if you somehow end up at sixty wishing you had children, there is always the opportunity to foster. There is no upper age limit to be a foster parent, and many continue to foster up into their seventies. A family does not have to expand in a traditional way, and a person should never feel pressured to have kids when it's not something they want.

The fact that people are even asking if you want kids when you're barely eighteen is deeply concerning to me. Not only because you might change your mind but also because eighteen is YOUNG! And of course no hate or shade to the people who DO have kids at eighteen, great for you, what I mean is, why are adults asking those questions when I'm pretty sure that if you told them that you're pregnant at this point in your life they would find you too young.

Or not greet us with "Hi Daddy". Imagine the chaos that would happen if Ryan doesn't greet us "Daddy" in a video.

@@lu9877 that would be scary

Omg they must do this

@@uploxy5341 It is it is

lmao i thought it was partook

I feel the same wya they're relationship just seems so chill and really healthy it honestly blows my mind a little

@@froggy7274 and It's refreshing to see, specially with the kind of iNFluEnCeRs we have today. They really set the standard.

@@lu9877 definitely, it really is refreshing to see such a good relationship between two people who are both so present in the media

PFTTT-

more like 11:58

You know her name isn’t really Veronica right

@@jessibearvlogs7749 vat do u mean

@@lilyt6075 Ryan was making a joke because it was a typical things that a Veronica might do. Her real name is Samantha

Agree! It's not wrong for a musical, show, movie, ect to have things like terrorism in it, but don't ignore that there is a message there about it. Since yes, school shootings do happen and it fine to be put into a musical, but acknowledge it and talk about it.

@@ekohw yes! People can't be afraid to talk about it and the truth behind it . I'm glad Ryan talks about the psychological aspects of jds mind . It is something that I've always struggled with coming to terms with after my shooting, is what caused that , mentally . And the fact that Ryan goes into that is unbelievable. I hope Ryan never stops having those hard conversations and that people hear him. You never think it could happen until it does and it is important to stop the person in there tracks . Movie and musicals like heathers can bring awareness in the weirdest of ways , and sometimes people say , no its not about school shootings or mass shootings, but you look at the big picture and it is . You just have to use that to then teach . So thank you 😊

Same

My parents were 13 years apart and it worked until 5 years ago wen they split

My grandparents are 10 years apart and they are still happy

Hmmm what does that have to do with the vid

@@tristaseiffert411 there was a question about how to make an age gap relationship work

It’s apart of Hi5 studios, so I assume they’re allowed to play, but I don’t think they played RIGHT after filming a video. They probably play those arcade machines during parties they used to have at Hi5, but given the current circumstances, I assume no one has played those arcade machines in a while.

​@@kylajin it looks so fun, I wanna see them have a little contest vlog playing the arcade machines.

I play pac man every time we go... I’m still not on the leaderboard... xR

@@samandryan We will be unpatiently waiting for the Pac-Man tournament, thank you so much. jkjk

It’s where Sam works

Well I don't want someone to be raising kids when they don't want kids. Like don't have them if you don't want them. And don't just shive them in the system because that's not any better.

Why did you tell me this, you have permanently distracted me

I'm sorry lmao they be jumping jumping in the back 😭

BAHAHA

Rampage is my fave arcade game

Look up Heathers OOBC Slime Tutorial

It makes me happy to know I'm not alone in this and someone whom is a good role model with alot of fans is the same way

I think it's probably just not something they're ready for so her saying it probably just took him by huge surprise.

there’s no expectation to get married ! it’s not a requirement and it doesn’t validate a relationship.

And Ryan. So thank you both

Same

You got this! You are amazing

You are going to do great!!! I believe in you!

You totally got this