Literally the best mum in the world.

Love you Judy xx

I've came here from the documentary about KZfaqrs and I just want to say that I am so so sorry you all had to go through that! Massive respect and hugs to you all xxx

Hi Sam and Nic, and Mum! Thank you for this video. I felt it deeply as a Mum myself. You may not see this comment but I wanted to tell you that I became disabled in April 2008 from a medical mistake done in A&E (ER where I am in Canada). I discovered your Pixiwoo channel several years ago and it became a godsend to me. I cannot do anything, I lie flat everyday in the dark with ice all over my head for 6-8 hours. I can't read anymore or do activities with my children, even eating and sleeping are difficult. I've lost my friends because of it. (I wrote you a long letter about this in 2012 but I don't know if you ever read it). Anyway, once I found your videos, I had something to look forward to and something to do rather than just lie and stare at wall. I have watched as your success has taken off exponentially and I have seen how talented your whole family is. Watching you with your Mum is always a pleasure and in this video, your bond with her comes shining through. I like to think that though my story is different from your Mums, that I am still creating that bind with my children despite being knocked down in the prime of my life. Health is precious and not realized enough until it's gone I guess. A big thank you for sharing this personal story. It really touched me in so many ways. ((Hugs))

Thank you so much for all your comments. We have read every one of them. xx

This was such an amazing video, your mum is so strong for doing this, it needs to be talked about so much more than it has been in the past, its shocking how many people it happens to, much love to you all!

Your Mom is absolutely stunning, and truly inspirational. Thanks for sharing something very personal. You're a true inspiration.

Bless the whole family. You're all angels.

Thank you so much for all your lovely comments, I said to my girls I thought I would be going out wearing a disguise, but thanks to all your kind and positive comments........Im walking with my head held high. Thanks

Over six years ago I fleed an abusive marriage that was forced upon me when I was 17 and recently I started doubting my decision wondering whether I made the right choice. After watching this video it has reassured me that I did do the right thing. Thank you

Your mum is the strongest woman I have ever heard of. God bless her.

I just watched this because I saw it come up in Jim's BBC doco. Your Mum is amazing. To come out the other side of that so strong and to have such a close knit loving family is truly fantastic. Mummy Judy, you are an inspiration. Such a difficult thing to talk about but you handled it so well. What a beautiful lady you are. Your children are testament to what a fantastic mother you are. LOVE all the Chapmans and extended family. Well done Sam and Nic xox Love to you all

Thank you for this very open and candid talk, it has helped me to understand my mother and her abusive relationship with my father. She is such a smart and strong woman, yet dealt with abuse thinking she deserved it and now sees herself stronger and more confident. This has helped me to understand her pain, her scars and her journey!

Came here from Jim's documentary. . . didn't realise how much you'd been through. . . This topic needs more awareness and support. . . Good job ladies! x

Your mum is amazing, strong & brave! This video will definitely help so many others! Xx

As a family lawyer, I have so much respect for your mother for choosing not to denigrate your father to you (even though he deserved it). It is obvious to me that she truly loved you and your brothers and had your best interests at heart. She is a strong, beautiful, courageous woman. Thank you for sharing with us.

When Nic was talking about how she just never knew your family was different I just burst into tears. I was exactly the same! I thought everyone lived the way we did. My father was never, that I know of, physically abusive. However he was extremely emotionally abusive to my mother, brother and I. I can see so much of my mum in your beautiful mother, she gave us the choice to see him and be around him and never spoke a bad word of him. When you were referring to the 'atmosphere' and the tension that you felt being near him it just took me back to so many times my father would walk into the room and we'd all stiffen up a bit and feel sick in the stomach. Please hug your mum for me and thank her for sharing her story. Domestic violence comes in so many forms and only now as an adult I have realised just how it has shaped me as a person. I hope anyone out there who is going through this knows that they are not alone and that there is help for you

You darling girls and your beautiful mom. I'm in my early 50's now and my mother was in an abusive marriage for about 15 years. When you spoke of the tension running through your household, your journey through that time in your lives, it could have been my childhood you were describing. I want to thank your mom so much for giving some insight to what it was like as the adult in the abusive relationship. My mother passed away before she and I really talked about it. Who knew that you girls, a generation younger than me, your mom, a generation younger than mine, would live such similar lives. This topic is always close to my heart. Thank you, for sharing this part of your lives. It gives people knowledge and that, at the very least is what we should be doing.

Opening up, bringing awareness and showing that it is not shameful is the beauty in this video.

pixiwoo After watching the video yesterday and sleeping on it, I feel that I would like to add this… From the perspective of the ‘person’ who is the best friend of a victim, who day after day has to watch the abuse unfold, (frustrating and agonizing).... I knew that there was a strong person in Judy trying to escape but for all the reasons she stated, that person couldn’t get out because of all the years of brainwashing. I am a very feisty person and all I wanted to do was punch ‘him’ one, but I soon learn't that anything I said to him ended up with him taking out his hate for me on Judy. I had to tread very carefully indeed. I hated him but I never made it too obvious to him. He hated me too, but also didn't make it obvious. It was like a head on battle of strategy! I started with trying to build Judy’s confidence to counter act his dominance over her. Over a period of time, (about a year), she then began to see for herself that his behavior was totally unacceptable. Once her confidence grew, it reached a point where SHE said ‘stop’. It had to come from her, not me. That’s when I jumped in with her and we made a ‘wall’ and we stood our ground. This was when it became a war and got really nasty because he realized he was loosing control over her, which is what it is all about. It is not a quick process, so if you do have a friend who is suffering abuse, be patient and supportive and build on their confidence and wait until THEY are ready. Only then can you let the abuser ‘have it’. ‘Sometimes things have to get worse to get better’. Believe this…you Will be ok if you leave, it will be tough, but however tough it is, it is better than staying. Thank goodness things are easier now, there is help out there. Love xx

girls i came from a family where domestic violence was a daily thing. it fucked up my life until I had children. My mother never left, but I have to say I begged her from the ages of 6 to leave and she never did. They are still together and even though the violence has stopped because they are old now I still think if he was able to he would still do it. Your mother is amazing and putting videos out there allows women to see the other side. Thank you for sharing this.

Intellectual integrity: Defined as recognition of the need to be true to one's own thinking and to hold oneself to the same standards one expects others to meet. And after watching that video for the first time it is clear to see your mum is someone with incredible Intellectual integrity. Cheers to your brave brave Mum.

Awww your mum is so brave for being so open and honest. Tell her not to be embarrassed, there is no shame in protecting her family. It is the abuser who should be ashamed.

Your mum is a really wonderful person. My mum was in an abusive relationship as well. Before I was born with my brothers' dad, and with my father. She is the strongest person I know, never spoke ill of him because I was 3 when they seperated and she wanted me to have a father because her boys didn't have one. I never liked my father and never want to see him, he mentally abused me as well, but it always baffled me that my mum was so selfless. She didn't know I was being mentally abused, and when she first heard about it, she never made me go again unless I wanted to. Mothers (like yours and mine) are the strongest, most selfless and loving people that exist. I am so grateful for mine and I can imagine how grateful you are for yours. Maybe you can make a Tuesday Chat about fathers like ours and how it affected you two. I would find it very interesting. Thanks for this video. Best of luck to you and your wonderful mother and always make sure that she knows how proud you are of her, because the scars (especially mentally) remain. Thanks again.

I am just in awe of how your mother managed to endure what she did with such grace. Reminds me of the quote, "Strong women: may we know them, may we raise them, may we be them."

People don't realize the emotional abuse that accompanies physical abuse, she was so right when she said she had been brainwashed. Abusers are sneaky and start off slowly and get worse, it is so hard to realize when you are in the situation. It annoys me when it is portrayed in the media as being a normal happy relationship then suddenly someone hits you, it is rarely like that. I appreciate your mum & both of you choosing to open up about this subject. There needs to be more awareness and discussion about such topics.

Your mother is such a beautiful person and a much stronger woman because of what she went thru. What a lovely woman. Big hugs to her

TEARS OF JOY AND APPLAUSE!!!! Please let your very sweet and inside beautiful and outside stunning mommy know how much I am in awe of her bravery, her resilience, her dignity and her strength. Thank you Thank you so very much. I have had a very similar situation. Having nothing is so hard, but the best thing about having nothing is everything else is a blessing from ground zero. I feel blessed to have seen you three. I LOVE that you 3 women shared this and are so amazingly inspirational because of your trials and hardships. I believe that "we" have to realize that it is okay not to love someone that is your parent. You are an inspiration and a comfort.

Wow. I've just had a moment to watch the video and Judy immediately reminded me of my own mother's story. My mother was married for 19 years to my father and likewise... on the first instance believing she did something to anger him. Staying out of fear... not having a support system but a final incidence almost left her paralysed and a doctor explained that she must leave and leave now. That was it ...mum had a bit of money she had managed to hide which he hadn't found this time around and we flew across the country to our grandmother... all staying in the one bedroom. These women are amazing. Judy, my own and many out there are simply amazing.

Your father must feel like a right idiot, missing out on seeing his beautiful children flourish into amazing adults who all have hundred of thousands, going on millions of viewers all across the globe. you guys have such a strong, amazing family bonds x

It made me chuckle a little when Nic was describing the atmosphere and how it was strange going to someone elses house where people got on. I suppose it just reassured me that I'm not the only one. Thank you for filming this! Unfortunately I'm still in the situation but your story helped me cope

it's amazing how you never know whats going in someones life and judge them by their looks. I would never be able to tell that. Its such and eye opener that we should not judge by look, you never know what they are dealing with in life and how patient and strong they are. You all are amazing people and i am so glad she finally talked about it and came to terms with it. Because they say you are not over with something until you are not able to talk about it. You all are strong strong women :)

Ladies, you really do not know how much this video is appreciated...You will help more people than you know....Thank you...

I've just seen this video for the first time. It's hit home on so many different levels. I live in the house your describing, always an atmosphere can never fully relax because you don't know what mood my dad is going to be in. My mum is very much 'in it for the kids' even though me and my sister have both had our lives greatly impacted by my dad and my brother is starting to see him for the man he really is. Your mum is so right it has to be there choice you can never talk them into it. I hope one day my mum will find the strength yours has.

I am so PROUD of you three women. Your mother, especially, for being so strong and selfless to share her (& your) story on such a public platform. I went through the same for nearly 15 years, and found the strength to leave with my 3 children. It CAN be done. Thank you all, a million times over, for giving so many so much to look forward to....

So close to home ladies. Absolutely amazing video :) and Judy is so brave for telling her story. Thanks for this :) raising awareness is so important. AMAZING!

My dad was both physically and mentally abusive towards my mum, thankfully he is out of our life's now. Its so bizarre how much your mum reminds me of my own. Its not easy for a single parent to take complete control, risk financial insecurity and to raise a family alone especially when you have young children that dont always understand the sacrifices you have to make. I love my mum, shes my ultimate idol and i can only hope that when i raise a family i can do it with the same strength, love and guidance she has given me and my brother. thank you for posting the video!

First of all Mom looks beautiful....and she is very bave to tell that story! I lived in that time where there was no knowledge of abuse or anywhere to go for help! Domestic violence was no acknowledged and considered your own problem! Bravo to you all! And hugs too! Xoxo CAROL

Your mum is absolutely gorgeous. She is such a strong woman!

The only one ashamed of this should be your father. Keep your head high Mrs Chapman. A true inspiration to women allover! I've often wondered what the deal with your father was since you never spoke of him, but didn't want to ask as i sensed it wasn't something you wanted to talk about. See these fantastic kind and successful 4 children he's missing out on, not to speak of the wonderful grandchildren. I hope he's regretting his actions big time. Thank you for sharing this very private subject with us

I'm amazed that such a loving and beautiful family could have come out of such darkness. Every one of you is a credit to your mother and an obvious testament to her warmth and affection. My admiration for you all has increased tenfold.

I truly do have the utmost respect for both of you and particularly your amazing mother. What a strong and beautiful lady she is 🙌🏼💜

How the hell could you dislike this?! So heartfelt and raw, and speaking out about it-- that exhibits so much strength. Her resilience is so inspiring. Thank you for such a lovely video!

Clearly a wonderful woman with a beautiful family. Much love to you all.

Message to the Mum: Just to clarify You did not leave the house with nothing, you left the house with you and your children alive and mostly intact. Seeing you on their channel with them brightens my day, especially for one reason -they (at least the pixiwoo's) have all inherited the way your personality turns into a star and a smile and comes from your eyes. It was an honor to hear your story, and thankyou for telling it.

Your mum is SO SO brave for coming on here and talking about it, even if it so many years after and all you beautiful children have grown up, it would still sting to talk about something like this. I personally admire her and your family for bringing this difficult topic up to the forefront, it should be talked about more often because this would NEVER be ok. xx

Your mum seems like a very selfless, kind and genuine person. you are very lucky to have her. Lovely lady xxx

I went through my share of domestic violence & I'm so glad I made it through that. I make videos on KZfaq & can't wait to cover up the scars on my face. After washing my makeup off, I look at them and always remind myself to never let anyone scar me again. It's a process to accept the fact that you were ever involved in something like that, but when you do, life gets so much better because knowing you made it and knowing you realized are stronger than you think, it's the most gratifying feeling ever! I'm so glad you posted this video, I would not have ever guessed you all went through that. Ps - your mother is a beautiful woman! Holy moly.

It was magnanimous of your mother to share her story.So many women suffer the same way around the world and draw strength from hearing from others.And what lovely children she raised,your sibling revelry is such a joy to watch.Love,from India.

This was so touching and what an amazing mom you have! She is beautiful! Thank you for sharing such a personal thing!

I am a man, I am a man, I am a man, I don't cry. *Grabbing box of tissues* oh bugger That was really inspirational which made me for the first ever time to leave a comment on your videos. You have an amazing mother like I do. My mother raised 5 of us and we have all graduated from University. My mum now lives abroad and seeing your mother and her story reminded me of my beautiful mother. Please give your mum the biggest of hugs from me and all of us watching the video xo

This had me in absolute tears, it's so sad that children are going through this everyday! Your mum and many women/men out there suffering abuse are so brave and like your mum will find their way out in the end, I suffered abuse from an ex partner when I was 17 (I'm 30 now) he was mentally and physically abusive to the point where he pushed me down the stairs and caused me to miscarry our baby (blessing in disguise) I knew from that moment that it couldn't carry on so I spoke out and the more people that knew the more I found the strength to tell him to piss off out of my life! I have never seen him since and don't ever wish too, it's all still quite fresh in my mind and I'm not sure anyone can get over it but it definitely makes us stronger, sorry if some of this makes no sense, I'm tapping away on my phone through teary eyes xx love you girls xx

who are the 49 persons who didn't liked this video? i don't understand why they didn't like a video about an amazing woman who carried her family no matter what and who was brave enought to get over an hard situation like this. I am not concerned about domestic abuse, but i hope that it will be the beginning of a light at the end of the tunnel for anyone who is suffering and think that no one is here for them. you are not alone, be strong.

Sounds just like my life even having four kids. my life has also turned around. I love my kids and all my grandchildren. Don't ever be afraid to go into a refuge. They help you so much and really look after the kids with activities and trips out! !

Your Mum is very brave for doing this video , kudos to her , it really hit home with me . I grew up in a home with domestic violence so I imagine a lot of the childhood memories I would rather not have would be similar to yours Sam & Nic . It's so hard , the feeling of helplessness , of not being able to stop what is going on , sometimes I would not only feel hatred towards my father but towards my Mum for not getting us out of it but as you say it was a different generation and a social stigma attached to anything like this . I do remember the day I stood up to him , he was having one of his usual meltdowns , I just had enough , I was ready to take whatever came at me , I wasn't afraid anymore because I just wanted it to stop so I stood up to the bully and he was so shocked he just backed off , didn't talk to me for 3 days but things started to change after that , he finally knew his children weren't going to be pushed about anymore . I was 17 and that was the first time I felt brave , proud and from then on I knew I would never allow anyone to treat me like that . I am now happily married to a wonderful kind man , 15 years this year & have a son and daughter and I'm so glad I had the deep rooted belief that no one should accept being treated like you are not loved or important . Thanks for the video I think it will help other women out there who need to find the courage to walk away .

I was already a massive fan of your Mum, bringing up 4 incredible humans. Now we know what she went through AND brought you all up on her own. What a proper, proper hero. Truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing your story ladies, I hope it helps some people see the light. :)

BIG THANKS AND MY HAT OFF TO YOUR MUM FOR SHARING HER STORY WITH ALL OF US!!! And you guys too!

I watched this Video today because Jim told "me" too. I have no clue this happened in your life, your childhood robbed because of this horrible man. I cried watching this, you're all so brave. Your mum, Judy I think, is brave and not to say a bad word about him to you guys is just amazing. I can't believe your family went through that and you still smile and act like nothing happened which I absolutely adore.

Much love to your family, especially your mom. It takes a lot of courage to be able to have a voice after experiencing such hardships, but I'm sure that just by speaking, she has touched so many lives.

This video took me by surprise. Your honesty and bravery is remarkable, and I'm sure there's someone watching you out there who will see this and maybe take the first step (or another in a long way) towards running away, or healing from past wounds.

Just watching this reminded me of a situation my aunt and her kids went through. I remember how during the summer my mom would take my younger brother and me over by our aunt's during the daytime when her ex-husband was at work, and she'd unload to my mom about her situation. My mom would tell her that whenever she would ready, she'd help her leave him. Her offer was said for years, so yes, it's so true that it takes a while to be ready to move on. It's been about 11 years for her now, which is a bit crazy to think. It really seems just like yesterday that my mom picked me up from school in a car loaded with my aunt's belongings. And also, with how you guys mentioned there being told there was an atmosphere. That is so true. I definitely noticed a difference when he wasn't around. I always felt a little uneasy around him.

Coming from someone who came from a broken home...this video is so important. You should NEVER ask someone why they don't just leave. It's so not as easy as that, and when you ask that you're partly shifting the blame onto them. BLAME THE ABUSER, NOT THE SURVIVOR. All of you are such beautiful people and I'm so happy you got away from your abuser. xx

This was such a brave thing to talk about Judy. Lots of love xx

You are both beautiful, inspirational women and I am happy that you could share your story with us. My mum, my older sister and I went through a similar situation with our father. Strange enough he to this day is still in touch with our step brother (they must have favoured boys in the 80’s!), whom he once put in our house and set alight along with our step mum. Since then, my mum has been married to my step dad for 20+ years who is the kindest, funniest man ever and they are a great team. I hope to find what they have one day x

Thank you so much for making this video. I have not experienced domestic violence first hand, but through the course of going through inpatient treatment for an eating disorder and self-harm I have met countless young ladies who’s lives have been altered by a loved one being abused or themselves directly begin abused and I appreciate you giving your mum a platform and a voice to share her story to help others get out of a toxic relationship. Thank you so, so much. Kelly xx

From makeup to this. Thank you girls! Everyone should have this conversation. You did a fine job- all of you. What a terrific thing to do with the platform that you have created with so many followers. Well done! As we sit at our mirrors doing up our face each day, we should all be reminded of the "brave face" many have to put on each day that foundation and concealer will just never cover adequately. Speaking truth in comfort and support is the best makeup remover ever to melt down that mask of shame and fear that domestic violence creates. Family, friendship and community support returns us to that bare face of confidence to begin again another day, but hopefully without the burden and stigma. You are all blessed to have each other and I hope your chat inspired your followers to "be there" for each other and reach out when they need help. Thank you.

Holy SHIT. Powerful video. Probably one of the most important ones you've ever made. Massive kudos to your mom, this is the kind of thing that has a genuinely positive impact on viewers and for that you should all be proud. I have to be honest, since watching you guys (and Jim) for the last few years I've always wondered about your Dad, mainly because he was never mentioned. Regardless of the youtube creator/viewer curiosity, I always thought it was completely none of my business and therefore got a bit annoyed when I saw other commenters asking about him because of how inappropriate I thought it was. Saying that, the curiosity remained though I think it was mainly stemming from the questions that naturally arise when vloggers let people into specific sections of their lives.This was a great was to articulate the reasons for his absence and never have to explain it again. Inspirational story. Here mum, have a hug xx

Judy is so strong it must take guts to talk about a topic as serious as this. Well done Judy xx

This could not have come at a better time. I cried this whole entire video. I was in an abusive relationship for a year and a half and just recently got away from him. This video showed me that it does get better and that you truly can turn it around for yourself. You're mother is an absolute angel, and by her sitting down and telling her story, I feel so much better and less alone. Thank you so much. really.

I've had to learn a lot more about this than I'd ever want to know to help a friend. Its easy to say "why don't they leave," but on top of all the financial/housing/security stuff, there are the psychological chains - and they are chains; the abused partner has effectively been under such severe stress for so long its anazing they aren't shattered, let alone capable of proactive movement. The psychological conditioning is considered capable of breaking well-trained military officers within days, yet these people have lived with and often protected children from it for years - the irony is that they think they are weak, yet they are anything but. Your mother is an amazing lady, and thank you for telling your stories. The more we all talk about this, the easier it will be for the abused to take the first, hardest step and TELL SOMEBODY. There is help and you'll never know where it can come from - if someone offers a hand, take it. Please don't ever accept this, for yourself or anyone you know.

So very proud of your Mum - both for surviving DV but more foe the courage to tell her story. Without a doubt at least one person will be helped by this.

What an incredible family. Lots of love to you all x

Judy, you are insanely incredible and brave. I don't have the words to adequately express how incredible you are. It takes an immense amount of strength and love to pull through as you have. You are an idol and an inspiration.

I know this is from a few weeks ago but I just wanted to say your mum is amazing and so strong! I'm only 21 and suffered from domestic violence when I was just 16 and didn't feel brave enough to leave until a year later! It was the worst year of my life and it nearly ruined me completely but, I'm sitting writing this today in a completely different relationship with someone who couldn't treat me any better if he tried, extremely happy and studying to become a teacher.. Your mum is fantastic for coming out the other side a braver, stronger woman and rained 4 amazing children who are all extremely successful in what they do! Also, she's beautiful.. xoxox

So incredibly brave of your mum to do this. I am really gratefull for hearing her/your story! Lots of love!

Dear Judy and lovely daughters, thank you for putting such a painful part of your story out in such a dignified way in order to help others. I applaud all three of you as this must not have been an easy video to make. I would like to say that for those who had negative comments about this video, please understand its not your story nor was it your soul up there being bared in order to help others, therefore if you think you can do better and have something positive to say to help other ppl, then do so and perhaps you will understand how difficult it must have been for these three lovely women. Well done Judy well done pixiwoo. God bless xxxxx love you

You guys are amazing. Your mother is a beautiful and strong woman and she was so well composed while telling her story: there is no negativity or hatred in her; she is so peaceful and strong. Your mother and you are a great example for other women going thru the similar situations in their lives and how you can still come out of it in one piece and still be happy. Thank you for sharing your story.

Such a brave woman, couldn't help getting a bit teary watching it. My mom had a partner who physically and mentally abused her when I was 12/13 years old (I'm now nearly 25). Me, my big sis and younger brother (who is autistic) witnessed everything and even got hurt ourselves. We (except my sis who lived with our dad) ended up in a women's refuge with only the clothes on our backs. My mom still struggles with trusting men and relationships but she is such a strong woman and great mom. I don't know how your mom gathered the courage to do this video, she must be wonder woman! Great video ladies x x x

Your mum is very brave to talk about this, lots of respect for her and your family x

Your family has a tremendous amount of fortitude and determination. Your mother has a lot to be proud of and I applaud her or anyone who has removed themselves from such a horrible situation. I have always wondered why you never mentioned your father since your family is so present, but this certainly explains why. I never would have guessed that you've all been through such trials. You all seem so confident and self-assured which is a credit to your mother's strength of character. I've dealt with things like this (not on that scale) and I still feel the effects. I also think there's a level of embarrassment involved which prevents people from talking about it. I totally related to Nic realizing that other families are not like yours. I'm sure he wants something to do with you girls now though!

I just came from Jim's documentary and I want to say you guys and your mum are all so brave to talk about this. Lots of hugs and respect to you all!! xxx

I grew up in a home like that, so I know exactly how it feels. I'm so proud of your Mom for leaving and making a safe place for her babies. Give her a hug from me. ;)

HUGE THANKS to you both and to your wonderfully brave mum for posting this video. This is such an important topic to me and I am so grateful when people like you use your influence to spread awareness about how frightening it is, but how there is still hope and help if you look for it. My love to you all.

This must have been a hard video to make for your Mum but you as a family as well. My deepest respect for letting us into your heart and sharing something so private. I know your message will reach many hearts who went through it or are still fighting. After all these years on KZfaq I feel like you are family and it hurts to see you all emotional. Big hugs xxxx Merel

This was such a touching video for me, hearing about it not only from your mums point of view but also yours. My mum and dad got divorced in 2014 because my mum stuck with him for me and my brother. I also grew up not realising my family was different to others and until a few years ago I never fully completely grasped that it was domestic violence going on in our family. There were so many similarities between your story and ours in the fact that we were always on edge as well and many many times whilst only being 8 years old I would feel unsafe leaving my dad alone in the house or leaving my mum with him incase he broke all her things or hurt her. He used to say things to me and my brother just to get at my mum and although he did stop(as far as I'm aware of) physically abusing her years and years ago he would still use words and actions that weren't directly to her but that would still affect her. The only time I really realised that there was friction in our house was probably the

What a wonderful lady your mum is to talk about this. It's so important to hear stories like these. Domestic abuse is so common, it's awful. Really, props to your mum x

So strong, she has brought up 4 brilliant, successful children. She should be so proud x

This video was so emotional but so eye opening! I love KZfaqrs who do this its so amazing to see people speaking out and giving someone somewhere to start if this has happened/ happening to them. If you see this can you tell your mum I think she's super brave! And you girls too and obviously Jim and John it must of been so hard for you all. x

This is brilliant. I've seen some comments from people who feel that they do not like the channel anymore because it isn't a strictly a beauty channel anymore. I've been watching your channel for the past 2 years and you two have provided so many makeup tutorials that I don't think I could ever have the time to try them all out. I've loved every single tutorial but I do love that you're changing it up a bit with new material. Keep up the good work ladies. This video is beautiful. God bless your mum for having the courage to talk about this issue.

What an inspirational lady. Just goes to show that everyone fights their own battles that you know nothing about, I never would have thought that you girls and jim (and his twin!) would have gone through that. Well done all of you for turning out such lovely well rounded people, and your mum for being such an inspiring lady.

My love goes out to the Chapman family your so strong and connected.

your mum is a fighter! I truly admire her! Best wishes, love form Mexico xx

So brave, all of you, for telling your story. I would have never, ever guessed that you had any abuse in your personal history. It speaks to the fact that you can have "skeletons in your closet" or "baggage" or whatever from your past that it doesn't have to make you jaded or guarded or anything that you don't choose to be. You're such beautiful people - both of you girl and your "Mum" too. Beauty comes from adversity. I love your message and I dearly hope that someone who needs it will see it. Thank you again for your bravery and your story.

That's precisely the kind of Mum I aspire to be. It's an amazing example of the fact that children only need unconditional love, the materialistic things are not relevant. High praise to your Mother, she's super strong and incredibly unbreakable.

You're mum is an absolute legend and so strong! X

Your mom is one hell of a strong woman putting up with all she had to . Y'all have turned out to be such a tighter nit family.

I think the reason I got a little teary in this video was because your mum is so inspiring and brave and I just can't believe she could be so brave as to let her story be there for everyone to see. It's so amazing.xx

Perfection... the human soul is so beautiful! I ran away at 16 from parents selling and using drugs and was homeless for two years. My mom never changed and I loved hearing your mom's breakthrough story. Inspiring!

You're Mom is all kinds of amazing and brave! Please thank her for sharing her story.