After marriage Bhai , behen rishteydar ban jatey hai , woh bhi kisi ke kaam ke nahi hote, woh bhi jalne aur competition karne lagte hai, trust yourself only
@AnkitKumar-kk3iw Жыл бұрын
Fact Meko bhi ye kuch din phle hi smajh aaya
@mad_in_2020 Жыл бұрын
It is true that once school life ends, you can't find true friends. But family relations are also over-rated. Majority of abuse and cheating is done by parents, siblings and relatives, NOT friends. Also the property disputes, domestic violence, child sexual abuse, dowry happens because of family relations.
@freedom4813 Жыл бұрын
So called school true friends also betray us when we face downfall or start prosperous in academics,financially, girls bhi main reasons hoti hai. Options are always available there for them
@ArreSidu Жыл бұрын
@@freedom4813 you haven't find true friends.
@freedom4813 Жыл бұрын
@@ArreSidu i had one childhood friend who lived in my street,we both gone same school nursery to 5th class & 2nd school 6th to 10th class those days i spend best time ever,kai our dost bhi Bane per jab academically+ financially may down hota gya toh usne bhi chod diya, 2nd friend was with me just because he didn't own had any identity he was using my name or live with me because i was nice guy many teachers & girls knew me, i was very good in science, SST, English, drawing just because of math fobiya i feel insecure it seems like i don't know anything in math,that silently killing me inside i change tution, but I don't know what happened with me and i downfall 👎 other subjects academically, they have car cycle bike, i used to go 2km by walk for tution math, English that time my so called true friends backside me and laugh at myself,start bulling me Now they are nothing I
@bhuvneshanand3931 Жыл бұрын
Bitter but 100 % Friendship is really over rated relationship and reason for suffering and Kalesh in personal relationship.This is an eye opener episode. Thank you so much Sir
@vijaygarad4248 Жыл бұрын
mulga bhetel
@vijaygarad4248 Жыл бұрын
bbknk
@takeiteasy534 Жыл бұрын
Make a video on this scenario : where husband and wife both work from home and social interaction is very less.
@ranivinod8265 Жыл бұрын
Sir ur 1000% correct my husband spent all his life outside home going on with friends and giving them first preference and use to spend hours ,on working days and all his awaking hr on holidays ,never use to help in the house thoughI was a working women, now he is 67 I and the children don’t have any love or respect for him. The day he is bedridden he will be lying down there looking up the walls
@aditeeboraste9177 Жыл бұрын
True 🤣
@user-kx4fh1iv4g Жыл бұрын
बहुत सही समझाते हो सर भगवान आपको खुश रखे
@anikasharma1189 Жыл бұрын
I agree but I have experienced my friends giving me strength when I was. Very down. My whole office took care of me when I was pregnant, even bringing food because I couldn't cook as I was puking with every smell. And my mother in law forget it.
@ektaupadhyay903 Жыл бұрын
Most of these friends who is take up spouse's time irrationally are the ones who themselves also have a bad married life... Don't know how many will agree but just my observation..
@Middleclassbeta Жыл бұрын
These are such difficult topics and you are covering them in such a humorous way.
@pushpaparker14127 ай бұрын
Absolutely, 100 Percentage Guruji. Thanks🙏 God Bless You, Me And The Whole World🕯😊People Amen🙌⭐🎉...
@vandana2705 Жыл бұрын
Agreed keep genuine 4-5 friends is more than enough networking is not freunds .Family first 👍
@sunitajain9215 Жыл бұрын
शादी के बाद पति को दोस्त माना ना तो दोस्त बना ना ही पति
@MrJagdish615 ай бұрын
गलत किया।पति ही मानना था,दोस्त नहीं।
@dranup1988 Жыл бұрын
Achieve great in life n 99.99% friends will get vanished in your life Sacchi baat Guruji🙏🏻
@proximab874 Жыл бұрын
Friendship is over-rated is probably an accurate statement. But friends also show their value in taking someone to the hospital or bringing someone from the station in one's absence. Such help is done without any financial expectation. The video is an eye-opener in the sense that we should be watchful of people who are agreeing to everything that we are saying. They can be a so called friend or a cunning family member.
@tanukalra5155 Жыл бұрын
Very true Same concern I am facing in my home too Thanks for picking this topic 🙏🙏
@coolaffableguy Жыл бұрын
Sir, you are a gem. You should have started to create such a Video long before... 🙂 but anyways ...just want to tell .... you are doing true service to Society .. Thankyou so much!
@bhagyashriverma6064 Жыл бұрын
On one side you are right that friends are just like time pass or time waste and never give us true happiness. Family is priority. But on the other side, truth is after marriage family equations get change Man is sandwiched between mother and wife and dont talk or communicate with his wife because of his parent's insecurity. Ladies makes their own kitty friends because there is no value of her at home and treated like a maid specially housewives. no one is their to listen them at home . Parents will either interfere because they have no work so either they will judge or interfere in home or they have to make their own social group. So friends are also important to keep peace at home. But as you said we should choose friends wisely and not like who ruin our relationships but work as a mentor and create more happiness and peace in our life and also they should be very minimum. Also we should not run away from our family's responsibility.
@swarnalatha9624 Жыл бұрын
Super sir What you are saying, I am following from long time. You are a real mentor for all
@funnlearnforkidshi5 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely correct right from the word go...as wife/husband, and Father will make you realise ground reality hence you keep them away and go into an imaginary world with friends....
@sanyahingoo5527 Жыл бұрын
Very well said. Very few people are true friends who stand by you in difficult times. Also there are always selfish interests of many people… so one must be wise making friends…
@Niha_M Жыл бұрын
Awesome topic sir.. Started agreeing on first sentence only
@mrAnuraghig68 Жыл бұрын
There is lot of jeaolosy in female friendship...this is not a case with male friends..but yeah exceptions are there
@Humanityaboveall Жыл бұрын
Actually men don’t show but they too are jealous. It’s human nature .
@ankitamishra040511 ай бұрын
Pehle toh aap female frndship pe statement na de toh behtar hoga rahi baat male frndship ki toh mera bada bhai 4th year iitian h usne apne saare frnds ko sideline krdiye apne mental peace ke liye. Male frnds just talk rubbish about opposite gender teach other member smoking and drinking which is why he distanced himself. Uppar se male frndship is all about money udhar lelete h aur waps tk nhi krte ye bolke bhai se bhi koi paise Mangta h yaar. Jis wajah se mere bhai ne papa se maar khaya tha and decided to distance himself and work hard to get a job with good package. And he already had a very good package job offer and all his frnds are jealous. Rahi baat female frndship toh woh log ladke bazi nhi sikhati na hi smoking drinking. Aur rahi baat paiso ki ladkiya equal contribution krti h ye nhi ki 4 logo ka bill ek ne bhara.
@guru6581 Жыл бұрын
दिल की बात बेहूदा होती है... Punch line. Jaago Mohan pyare....
@monadesai4021Ай бұрын
Friends are important in school and college to hang out with and have fun, go to movies, eat out etc. It's a phase. They are helpful to fill space when one is single. Once you are married priorities do change and family, spouse especially kids take over. And that is a good thing. To prioritize friendships over family is not practical and I agree with Sir 100%.
@tusharikajyoti Жыл бұрын
Amazing and realistic picture, well done sir
@vipulsaharan3463 Жыл бұрын
Sir, so true. U have been honest in ur expression. Thanks for being the guiding light. Warm Regards
@mswr3351 Жыл бұрын
Kuch frnds acche hote hai .. they open our eyes and pyar se samjate hai One of my frnd used to smoke .. I didn’t like it and uska adat break kar di because I cared ..
@dineshpratapupadhyay6583 Жыл бұрын
सही कहा आपने. जा रहा हूँ बीवी के साथ व्हिस्की की चुस्की लेने...
@mamtanagarkoti4050 Жыл бұрын
I can’t believe how I could relate to this video so accurately…
@DrShalviSinghVlogs Жыл бұрын
absolutely right sir…when one of the spouse starts giving more time to their friends…the other one initially feels neglected…and with time learns to live without them….this creates uneasiness and tension in their relationship…sad part is that people don’t realise where they are going wrong…
@dollyjhaom Жыл бұрын
आपके दिल की बात बहुत बेहूदि है जी 🤣🤣🤣🤣 it's splitting me🤣🤣🤣🤣
@icverma1695 Жыл бұрын
Great Sir Difficult topic, handled beautifully. Truly eye opener Thanks and regards
@divineconnectiontarot Жыл бұрын
Networking ko dosti ka maukhauta mt pehnaao 😂😂😂 i loved it😍😍😍😍😍
@santoshthakur5491 Жыл бұрын
Bilkul sach kah rahe hai sir, maine apne ghar main hi sb dekha hai.
@kiransharma7848 Жыл бұрын
Great Content with super cool messages. . Thanks so much
@saritabajaj953911 ай бұрын
No one ever dared that to tell . Such a beautiful n logical analysis
@ostrav24 Жыл бұрын
Where will be without friends if our partner dies ? Or we get divorced? In later life friends are our mainstay. Now a days so many people are single in older age. How do we live if we don’t have a support system of friends. You are too tightly ensconced in family. Families don’t last forever. After the “empty nest” where do we find support?
@doncorleone3901 Жыл бұрын
Move up in life and see how your friends disappear
@sanojanaik57463 ай бұрын
Correct @@doncorleone3901
@faceless_blogger2 ай бұрын
Seems like you are already preparing for their death or divorce. Make friends then when the situation arises or the situation may arise. Most of the friends these days want you to do well, but not better than themselves.
@ostrav24Ай бұрын
@@doncorleone3901I am upper class person and rich. But alone. What do I do?
@kobinsadvance Жыл бұрын
One of the Best Channels on KZfaq!
@kunalkumar06240 Жыл бұрын
हां में हां मिलाओ और शांति से सामने वाली की सभी बात सुनो इसी का नाम दोस्ती है।
@debjanidutta6925 Жыл бұрын
Sab se badi point hai - dost ko aap ka family emotion dimag me nahi rakhna parta
@preetisaldi9349 Жыл бұрын
Hats off ! You are a Blessing man !
@improvelivingandlearning Жыл бұрын
True said bivi ki trha dost ko treat kr k daikho👍
@rameswarnayak8297 Жыл бұрын
Most valuable topic..true fact of present scenario.facebook , Instagram Sab time le jate hai.. family ke liye kam hi time mil ta hai..
@positivethinking_3692 ай бұрын
निशब्द🙌🏻🙌🏻😊
@srishtijha3 Жыл бұрын
Wow, I so respect you to bring out this topic.I so understand this playing out in real lives of people around me
@shrutiasthana38395 ай бұрын
Self...Work...friends...family... The wife comes last.
@vikrantbaluniatgmaildotcom Жыл бұрын
Dil ki baat is one reason. Second one is "bahut purana pakka dost hai". All that Sango said also needs to be applied on old friendship boundation
@gunjansagare7633 Жыл бұрын
सत्य वचन गुरूजी ❤❤
@amitchandra2965 Жыл бұрын
This is really an eye opener. Liked your thought process from the bottom of my heart. You are doing an amazing work. Keep it up
@shakuntladevikataria2897 Жыл бұрын
Y true h mere ghar m y hi chl ra h m bol bi na sakti chup rhne ka order h khaya karusuch sun na sakta / sakti under man Mar k batee hu y video bhej dungi pta n dekha h ya n prebhej di m t maa hu bhut badiya samjha kar Bola h apne thank you
@manishpatiyal6000 Жыл бұрын
You should make a video on fake friends and real friends now that you have spoiled this relationship
@shrutiasthana38395 ай бұрын
Dil ki baat behudi...😂 very well said.
@divineconnectiontarot Жыл бұрын
Just love for this video…… i feel the same ab lga ki i m not wrong 😂 why can’t we change perspective❤️❤️ Huge respect sir Thank u sir❤️🙏🏻😇💕
@kaushikbiswas9556 Жыл бұрын
Wife is supposed to be a friend... But what happens when your spouse doesn't want to accompany your interests!!?
@ArreSidu Жыл бұрын
Sir I respectfully Disagree, Dost vaise hone chahiye jo apko apki galat harkato pe call out kare, time to time apka support kare. There are limitations to every relationships, kuch baate spouse ke saath nahi ho sakti you have to agree on that. instead of calling people to not be interested in friends, teach them to find better friends. Not having friends puts pressure on your spouse to fill a friends role, which is frankly impossible. Teach people a template on how to find better friends because there is one. friends that put you down when you succeed and even worse friends that downplay your loss or pain, get away from them. Don't surround yourself around yes men and have people that can call you out on your BS. Not all friends are bad. Some of my fathers friends treated us better than our own family.
@positivityclassicalmusic6680 Жыл бұрын
Yes I agree with you.. For instance in this video he has given example of friend forcing you to drink.. How can you call sick a friend your real friend?
@improvelivingandlearning Жыл бұрын
Dost hoon zarir but family comes first
@abhisheksinghbhadoriya192611 ай бұрын
rare h ese dost .
@JaiHind_SamruddhaBharat Жыл бұрын
Very amazing observations !😂 and still laughing at ur examples. Really liked d differences u stated between friend , business acquaintance , spouse , sibling and why everyones reaction is different to ur statements.. How much what matters to u matters to them , will matter what they will say about matters that will matter u most in ur life.🙏🙏😀💐 Great takeaway .. Teenagers should see thee videos so that they will be aved from trouble beforehand to certain extent.
@user-ux3zq8di5f Жыл бұрын
Wise advice in humourous way.
@choudhary4249 Жыл бұрын
Very practical
@By-Namita Жыл бұрын
Superb! Exceptionally Good Content Sir. True Enlightenment.. 👍
@poojapursani27612 ай бұрын
आपके वीडियो साझा करने का मन नहीं करता, बल्कि दिल चाहता है कि इस ख़ज़ाने को किसी से न बांटा जाए। 😍 लेकिन अब कोई आपको रोक नहीं सकता। आप जल्द ही यूट्यूब पर नंबर 1 बनेंगे। 🥰
@bhavyaagrawal4050 Жыл бұрын
Sir aapne Jo husband wife ke permanent relationship vaat ki h.. actually isiliye husbands apni wives ko for granted lete h....
@saritabajaj953911 ай бұрын
Aapki yeh video abhi tak ki sabse badiya n sacha content hain
@narendergoyal9166 Жыл бұрын
sar je jo batt kahi h door tak jaege blkul tek h ye bemari har jaghe fALL GEYI H
@anilkawade3674 Жыл бұрын
Excellent and new and never heard thoughts
@monadesai4021Ай бұрын
There is a lot of jealousy in girls. If you do better, some girl friends will do everything to pull you down I experienced this first hand. Very disappointed, Sir is 100% right. It takes guts to make such a bold statement that friendship is over rated.
@sanojanaik57463 ай бұрын
I agree with you sir
@bapipushilal7568 Жыл бұрын
Lord Krishna is our best friend 🙏
@daymah.l1840 Жыл бұрын
Great regards from dr Heera Lal dayma MBBS dausa raj 🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍👍
@saritabajaj953911 ай бұрын
Sir i respect u for that.
@dilbagsingh4857 Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right sir an eye opener video
@mohdwaliullah1703 Жыл бұрын
Amazing explanation ,
@pushpaparker14127 ай бұрын
🎉🎉 No Word. Husband=Cheat Me 40 Yea's. Cold Life journey. But Enough🙏. I Accept🏆💪 Spiritual Life Way👍 Live with🛡️ Peace ful Life. U. S. Se Bat Nahin Karti Beti. Because I don't Want Send Her U. S. Thanks🙏 Sir.
@rickyjha34937 ай бұрын
Sir, I sidelined everyone, my every friend from time to time just to give time to my other relatives But sometimes I feel lonely when they shy away from me
@romeshkirpalani848 Жыл бұрын
This is a wonderful video sir....
@nikitakhandelwal872 Жыл бұрын
9:37 "apke dil ki baat hi behudi hai Ji" 😂😂
@simranjitgill9338 Жыл бұрын
Really appreciate 🙏
@zshaikh9499 Жыл бұрын
Family first great understanding spouse bht jaruri h otherwise life is hell till grave
@iamarmysssvp7944 Жыл бұрын
Aapne dosti me darar daal diya!! 😄😄😄😄😄
@debjanidutta6925 Жыл бұрын
What a video sir ji !!!!👍
@preetikulkarni5722 Жыл бұрын
Superb Amitji👌👌
@ektaupadhyay903 Жыл бұрын
Shat pratishat sateek aur sach
@vishalpratap403 Жыл бұрын
Strongly Agree with each word.
@QueensCurryKitchen6 ай бұрын
Too good
@lifediscussionwitharfinakt942 Жыл бұрын
Excellent
@ajits9390 Жыл бұрын
great video Sir.
@mohammedkareem9375 Жыл бұрын
1000 percent correct sir
@iamkrishnaavtar Жыл бұрын
Very good analysis ❤️
@pushpaparker14127 ай бұрын
Yes, U. S. Rehne Vali Beti Love Her Dog more than Maa. Fault maine Rok ne Kaa Prayaas Kiya tha. No Content with Me. It's Ok, But Mein🙏 Sahi thi.
@payalgupta4953 Жыл бұрын
Very true
@bhartitya Жыл бұрын
Your topics are different and practical.
@tusharsachdeva36545 ай бұрын
Dil ki baat sunaane ke liye journaling karlo
@nehabhardwaj4573 Жыл бұрын
Awesome
@anitapanchloria3143 Жыл бұрын
Great 👍👌
@faceless_blogger2 ай бұрын
Left my husband so he can spend the rest of his life with his friends and mummy
@RB-yc8xr Жыл бұрын
Sir, kisi situation ko past life karma aur kisi situation reaction expected he ya nahi ye kese differentiate kare ?
@sarikapanjwani6497 Жыл бұрын
Aaj kaal Bhai log bhi sidhe nahi hai
@saumyapunekar8625 Жыл бұрын
Fantastic , i told my brother the same thing when he choose to spend time with friends more than spending time with his wife and child ❤️👌😇😃
@saumyapunekar8625 Жыл бұрын
@@arpanmadrecha3013 "Time is Hero".I did my job to tell him to do the right thing but if he chooses to be with friends over family he will regret throughout life as friendship is temporary but family is for lifetime . Right decision at the right time is very important to lead a happy life .😇👍💐🙏😊