This video can only be made by one who is a reformist...a brave ,yet compassionate...must watch for all women ..wish that they understand the true intention of message

My maternal grandmother was very vocal about this. She used to tell me that a women should not be totally dependent on husband. Even though she was uneducated she felt the importance of women empowerment.

My mom worked before her marriage. And until now, she has continued her job. It really benefits our family a lot.

my god.. main ek aurat hoon but aapki har baat se agree karti hoon..sach mein aapka har video aur har baat bilkul sahi hai.

Sir mummy se baat karna,WhatsApp par baat Karna,chugli chapati Karna..,...sooo true😂😂😂

Ur topic is good, now let me tell u reasons 1 boy's mother got insecure k kahin ab ladka usko like na karne lag jaye 2 boy's mother didn't allow her because agar ghar pe nahi hogi to main jhuthe ilzam kaise lagaungi or in mein jhagra kaise karungi 3 sasu got insecure k kaam pe jayegi to ghar ki naukarani kaise banaungi. 4 aap job ki baat karte ho yahan sanitary pad lene jana ho to sasur bolta hai jaldi aa jana mere liye chai banani hai. 4 inlaws allow nahi karte kyun ki unke hisaab se ladke ki shaadi k baad ladke ki maa koi kaam nahi karti, use pani ka glass bhi bed pe bahu degi 5 agar koi ladki zidd kare to saas achanak se bimaar ho jaati hai 6 agar koi zyada insist kare to sharte rakhi jaati hai k subah breakfast bana k saara kaam kar tiffin bana k jaugi or shaam ko aa k saara kaam dinner, kapde sab karogi 7 job se ghar pe jaldi aana hoga 8 koi official meeting ho, party ho training ho nahi ja sakti 9 koi rishtedaar bimar ho geya to tum chhuti karogi 10 bacha bimar ho geya to bahu chhuti karegi 11 bacho ko ladki ki maa palegi kyun ki ladke ki maa se wo nahi sambalte 12 saas pura din khali baithegi sabji tak nahi kaategi chahe bahu marne wali ho 13 saaa bete ko barkati hai k dekhna is ka office main koi chakar ho jayega 14 job kahi kar rahi shaadi kisi or shehar mein ho gayi 15 jis shehar mein shadi hui waha koi job ya hai nahi ta mili nahi, after all sifarish k bina kaha milti hai job chhote shehar mein 16 sab jaante hai married lady ko kabi bache k liye kabhi saas k liye kabhi husband k liye chhuti leni padti hai, koi rakhta hi nahi use job pe 17 married ladies extra kaam ya extra time kaam nahi kar sakti isliye use job pe nahi rakha jaata 17 married lady maternity leave pe kabhi bhi ja sakti hai isliye private job main u he avoid kiya jaata hai 18 sab jante hai kabhi bhi uske in-law ultimatum de sakte k job chhod do isliye unhe jobs k liye consider hi nahi kiya jaata 19saas barkati hai dekho jeans pehan k jaa rahi hai 20 or husband apni maa ka pura saath deta hai wo khud insecurity se bhara pada hai Abhi hazaar or reason hai appointment denge to tab bata dungi Ab app batao ladki shaadi k baad kaam kaise kare

Very correct. A problem which must be discussed more. Women have better marks than men. Government/Companies are supporting ladies more. But sometimes the problem is on the mindset of ladies and nonsensical mindset of men. With more women workforce our country will get more wealthy (GDP).

Sir, with due respect to this thought provoking information, one thing which can be added to this that while women start doing work, they need support in the household chores which is not limited to cleaning and food. Then it would make more sense. Just to mention, I am a working women in IT industry. Thanks for all the time you are taking to create this content.

Sir you are a true social reformer.I have recently started watching your videos.Being a working women i developed an inferiority complex that i am not giving enough time to my kid by neighbourer ladies and sometimes I realised that i am working in heat,cold and even in corona and every women around me is enjoying their life.But your videos have given a new meaning to my life.Now i am trying to do some side hustle along with my job and my son is far better in behaviour and academics than others.Thanks for making me feel proud on me because every person around us celebrates the homemakers

Working ladies bht kuuchh learn karti hai,organised ho jati hai,unke baccho mei bhi confidence aata hai, proud feel karte hai bachhe

It's a relief to see you standing up to those outdated beliefs. My parents, both doctors, always encouraged me to excel in school. When I turned 20, I decided to pursue a PhD. But some people asked, "Tu kya padhti hi rahegi, shaadi nahi karni?" Thankfully, my dad helped me realize that education is important and marriage can wait. But my own relatives were critical. They wanted me to be more traditional, like wearing sarees and being a great cook, even though I wasn't interested. I cooked basic meals in my hostel room and thought that was good enough for me. After finishing my PhD and entering the marriage scene, I realized how tough the real world can be. I thought people would be impressed with my PhD, but many were scared off by it. Some thought professors don't make much money, so they didn't care about my income. Even though I was proud of studying at an IIT, it didn't seem to matter much when looking for a partner. People still thought it was more important for the man to have a good job. Some even rejected me because I was younger and more educated than their son. It was devastating, but now I'm thankful it happened. Teaching and research are my passions, and being in the classroom is the best part of my life. But it's tough for educated women because people often say hurtful things about our jobs. I still remember one of my seniors to leave her PhD because of the pressure from her in-laws but before leaving, she inspired me to complete mine. According to me, it is a big part of society that thinks that an educated lady can't take proper care of her families or kids. It hurts me. Because I prioritize my career over rushing into marriage and having kids, some people criticize me for delaying those things. In my own family, I've seen that women who don't work are more likely to get divorced. To cite, I have seen 4 such broken marriages. On the other hand, all my friends who are working are doing well. I also realize that people say hurtful things to us because of their own insecurities. One of my relatives who was not working wanted a nolakha haar from her husband. I feel that if she would have been earning, she wouldn't need that piece of jewel or even if she needed, she would know how hard would it be to earn that much. Our society really needs to change its thinking. I'm lucky to have married a friend who supports me in everything I do. He even says he'd be happy to stay home and take care of things so I can focus on my career. Even my in-laws value me for the income I bring home. My mother-in-law takes special care of me and brings me dry fruits while saying lovingly, "Beta, tumhara dimaag ka kaam hai na?" Although my husband doesn't accept this compliment, I feel fortunate to be married into a family like his. They truly believe in the power of women. From my 32 years of experience in India, I feel that such families are rare here. To be honest, as an educated earning female, it is a struggle to earn the approval of the society to be unapologetically myself. When my relatives call me, they don't ask me about my job, they ask me when will I give birth to a Devta. Who tells them that my kids will be devtaas, she can be devi, or even chandi maai and I will love her from the core of my heart.

I am from pakistan but i love your lecture sir.

Just like shark tank he said straight forward, great video, like ashneer he opened the eyes of society by saying truth things, this video should get views.

Netflix and Korean serials have replaced Ekta Kapoor serials and are more damaging home energy. Ladies are glued to Korean serials for 5 to 6 hrs in a day, making them couch potato and get irritated quickly

Lovely 😍 I totally agree with you 👍 We need to come out of our comfort zone to have an identity and thts very important 💫

Sir gale laga ke dhaynywad aapka, aapne jo bola hai woh kis level ka hai main bata nai sakta.... Bahut bahut dhanyawaad.... Aapka ..

Sir, main humesha se working hona chahti thi but husband bahar rahte hain aur sath me aur koi nahi hai bachon ko main hi dekhti hun.. Main bhi job karna chahti hun par kaise karun samjh nahi aata... Maine librarian ki job ki hai kuch salon tak but last 10 years se kuch nahi kar pa rahi..isliye gardening pe apne KZfaq channel pe kaam kar rahi hun...par main sath sath bahar ja kar bhi job try kar rahi hun.. I hope I will do 🙏🙏

Sir salute to you! You have the power to bring about a paradigm shift

Agar bahu exam aspirant hai to family walo ne support kare na ki uske raah me aur mushkil na laye , ispe video banaiye. I want only time till exam ni hua to firse private school join kar dungi , bus itna time mangti hu . Ye ni ki guest le ao bulake , tea banao tea banao ,

I salute u sir ji I definitely agree with u sir ji l am also a house wife and I am also searching for a job Everybody should have his own identity u are absolutely correct sir ji 🙏🙏🙏👌👌very nice.

pearls of wisdom, one of the best video, hats off sir

I m taking tuitions...... Per mere husband her time harassment kerte hain..... Bolte hain ki kaam mat ker.....bani firti hai padhi likhi.....etc etc.....pareshaan ho jaati hun

Charan Parnam GuruJi. I completely agree with your video. 🙏🏻 Aap ko sath sath Parnam. Aap ki videos ne mere mansik haalat thikh kar di.

Thanks!

Sir u explained wife should work. Pls also make video wife should also financially contribute and participate in home expenses with husband.

Mindblowing sir... I feel proud to have husband who pushed me and encouraged me to become a working women from a housewife.. Great thought...

Sir very nice video.. but please share your views what to do when wife wants to work but husband and inlaws says no.. there is no need of u working ..

Wow what a intelligent vedio.. thank you sir..Glad to subscribe this channel 👍👍

Excellent video. Very informative.

sir bahut bahut achcha aur sateek video hai..main 60 saal ki hoon .ab ghar mein kaam Kam ho gayaa mera..please mujhe bataiye main kya kaam kar sakti hoon...main willingly kuch karna chahti hoon..mujhe ye gossips pasand nahin..please please kuch kaam batayen 🙏

I totally agree with you sir, I laugh and realise on same time, this video totally made for me,

Extremely impactful

Wah ! Very practical tips, Sir !

Hello Sir.. I am already working but still would like to know to about some side income options. Looking forward for your women webinar. 👍

Living in the West where we get no help for housework, working more than full-time while managing all the housework, highly educated, and with my husband, I have raised a well-educated and very hardworking confident kid. Guess what the family members living in India judge me for? The quality of my housework! After my husband, you are probably the wisest person I have encountered.

Hello sir, i am a housewife and i want to work and I never complaint about all the issues mentioned in your video, am not saying that I am perfect but, 90-95 percent things that u hv mentioned in ur video i do not complaint about but my husband always demotivates me about working, Jo kaam main karna chahti hun uske liye hamesha hatasha haat lagti hai, Ghar mein kalesh karke kaise kaam Karu, i really really want to work, but no support frm husband. He earns very well but he hardly gives some amount to me, like 1/10 bhi nahi, unki pocket mein se Lena mujhe acha nahi lagta, kaam wo mujhe karne nahi dete, main kya karoon. Sir 16 yrs ho gaye marriage ko, bohot kuch hua hai in 16 yrs mei, bohot compromise and adjust Kiya, ya karne ki koshish ki, lekin ab financial independence and freedom chahti hun, sir pls find me a way out, pls help

Revolutionary thought

Aap kaha the sir itne din... Kaash shadi ke time se apko suna hota, life much bttr handle kar pati. God bless you sir

I m big fan of u sir.. Thank you for raising such topics

Really the great video sir ji...

True story from many houses.....but sometimes atleast in my house....whenever my mom wants to work and tell that in my house to my father......all he said is...... why now??? Take care of the house ....it's enough. Isn't my income enough???? Why are u so money minded? Etc..... she studied law by the way....and now don't remember anything about it.

Please share video link of WFH options to keep house ladies engaged

Bahut acha hai bahut logo ke aak kule hi👍👍

Great clarity 😜😜😜😜😜❤

Yes sir i will do that i will support my husband

agar wife job kare to in laws ko samajhna chahiye. if couple is living then husband should also help her in household chores. if MIL is living with couple, MIL should help. society still expects DILs to do every household chores irrespective of what job she does

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yes..I want to do any work..please guide me .I am 60 years old .

This increases inflation eventually two jobs both persons will need like in usa and other advanced countries

Sir, कामकाजी महिलाओं को 7/8 साल तक के बच्चों को पालने का समय नहीं मिलता। अगर सास बहू के साथ नहीं रह रही है तो क्या उपाय है।

Most honest video

Thanks sir for this amazing video 🥰

Very very very very true

Absolutely truth sir most women are clever and wiser than their husband but they won't earn money by self-employed or small business or job they are just finding a reason rather than solution. They just follow their housewife's mother blindly.

I am public relation officr. Own house own car and rental property i have but need more

wisdom.

Ww Taiyaar hoooooonnnnn....❤🙏🌺

I most like ur great ideas Sir

50k is quite big money per month .. What are the ways we females can earn so much

Sir, after listening to this, I am starting my home cooked food business.

Good advice, thanks sir

How to join your webinar

WOMEN WEBINAR

V. True , sir.

Hats off to ur vision ..Ww

Sir India ka 18 percent b pakistan k 19 and bangladesh k 34 percent se ziyada h if you consider the percentage with respect to population. From Pakistan.

Thank u sir

please make a video on idea.

Sir salute to you... greatest video of KZfaq 🎉🎉🎉🎉

Great video

Yes sir

Amazing

Tussi great ho......

I chanced upon your video 'by chance' and have since then watched quite a few more back to back. I have been married for almost 3 decades. Personally speaking I think I was ahead of my times in my views on life. What you are advising this generation was what I thought then. I was working before I got married in a very reputed multi-national. After delivery I was forced to give up all in the name of womenhood - motherhood - sacrifice. As you have correctly mentioned in your various videos, I bacame bitter...irritable....unhappy which led to a very toxic atmosphere in my house because I never wanted to lead a life of a housewife or a homemaker. Once my children reached grade 10, I started taking up small assignments from family and friends (like doing some content writing for their social media accounts to Business Development and communication for some startups) and did it pro-bono just to keep my mind occupied. Now after a gap of 25 years I am working full time for an IT company and earning my 'pocket money'. It is very important to keep your mind occupied constructively as empty mind being a devil's workshop keeps dwelling on the past and does not let you to let go of things. As a human it does sadden me at times when I see my colleagues reach the level of department heads and I am working as a junior under a manager who is half my age!!

Very TRUE analysis Sir.

15:20 Aman Dhatarwal is not harmed in this video. 😂 Tu phodega!! 😂😂

Sahi kaha aapne Sir ladies ko bhi kaam karna chahiye

Please explain work for women

Sir definitely woman's ko kaam karna chahiye

I am looking for a work from home but nothing is going to materialize as yet

Great… WW 👍🏻

please make video for after retirement life

Women webinar

V true

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What does your wife do

If wife earns only 10 to 20 % of husband's salary , there is no point of her working. Its better for her and her husbnd to be a SAHM/housewife/homemaker

Naukri miltee ni

Aur mere parents tution nhi padhane dete😤😤😤😤

Sir, my wife know about your opinion, but she is unwilling

" Jo bahar kaam karti hai na unke ghar bhi nahi ujad rahe "

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Hum karenge naukri no to berojgaari 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😂😂

WW 🙏

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Beautiful video and mind opening video. Thank you so much...

TAX VIDEO N WW PLEASE

Kaan tatte Matlab garam.ho jayenge 😂

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