OMG kaha se late h aap ye topic sir.last week se aapko suna back to back dekhti gyi it's so helpful or bilkul extraordinary. Thank you sir.

no friend or relative help only parents and you yourself can help. Sango is correct

Bilkul sahi baat h sir.. mujhe to lagta h parents aur in laws bhi kaam ni aate wo bhi apni majboori dikha dete Hain .. kewal husband wife hi ek dusre ke kaam aate h but fir bhi husband ko wife pe bharosa nhi rehta

jab jarurat padi to mere to parents hi kaam hi nahi aaye tabse hi sikh gaye ...thanks

Well said , achieve anything in life without relative and friends otherwise you will keep suffering emotionally and they will exploit you throughout life 😊👍

Absolutely well expressed. Forget about your buddies, who will rush to your aid in times of need; even close family members like uncle Chacha and mama won't assist you when you're in need.

वाह सर मज़ा आ गया... ये सिखाने वाला कोई नहीं था... कोई इतना समझदार कैसे हो सकता हैं.... मे हैरान हूँ... जितनी तारीफ 🙏 करू कम हैं

This is very true, i always had a great relationship with my mothers relatives, i used to never relate to relative memes, but last year my mother passed away at age of 43, everyone showed their real face, only people who even care about you is only your parents and not even immediate relatives, even only some from immediate relatives. Learnt this in a very harsh way.

Wow! My father was also very straight forward in telling that he cannot help anyone get a job but people took it personally :( I am glad he always stood his ground despite everything❤️

I severely fell ill and was living all alone. I told my sister and hospitalised soon. Immediate family will work for you

The passport eg that sir gave is excellent. I got my passport within 3 weeks and the process was streamlined, simplified and easy filled the form on the website, went to PSK, police came for verification and got my passport mailed at my doorstep. Was incidentally having this discussion with one of my friends who is slightly orthodox and lives in rural and he too got his passport recently and was bragging how easy he got it because he has some connection in the Regional Passport office. I asked him how long it took and he said 4 weeks and it took only 2000 rs in cash 😂 And I thought to myself that would he be mad if I told him that I got it for cheaper and earlier with no Jugaad.

I think no friends no reletives only money is just like DETTOL it solves all problems

100% true ... vo bolte hai na sukh k sab sathi dukh mai na koi. If I look back today only my parents, my siblings, my husband and money helped me in need. Baaki sab time pass hai jab samay accha hota hai to jud jaate hai jarurat aane pe bhaag jaate hai. Networking is total time waste and people who are actually helping you in life have taken so much granted and not getting what they truly deserve. They are most ignored in the family.

Very true Sir , real life me only Family hi aayegi aakhir me..Even friends dont help without anythign in return only time makes us realise that !!

I am 40 now I experienced this.we have to lead our own race

I wish Aapke jaise bade sabke ghar me hote .

Bilkul sahi baat hai aapki. Its better to keep a low profile and hustle in silence. Rishtedaar is other name of Gaslighters/Crabs. They have a crab mentality, if you prosper or look to prosper they will bring you down (directly or by manipulation). One should be capable enough to fix things by itself.

Sirji aap bilkul great ho.... 😊 Dil se salute apko.... 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

more than 4 saal hogaye hain muje, ghar walo ko samja samja k ye cheez, amazing video, now sharing to all, thanks a ton!

Yes you are right it is my own experience in life no one help except father n mother . Father and mother help till their end if life.if you say any of your problem infront of you they sympathetic but in reality they will enjoy your bad time. Have courageous and help yourself. That's it

Perfect sir. You are absolutely correct. In the govt sector nobody have the absolute power. I am an govt officer and many people tell me to give employment but I am helpless. I can't do it. There is proper system through which recruitment is conducted wherein chances of corruption is very minimal. Even if any high level officer/minister do he takes a very big risk.

Very true sir! Itni transparency dekh kar bohot achcha laga.Pls bring more videos like this.

Very true, nobody is going to help ,, what ever sango says is true work on yourself 👍

सच कह रहे हैं । अपनी ज़िम्मेवारी ख़ुद ही लेना सही है …।

Very much true , Sir ji ......as always you explained all the key points in such a manner that everyone will understand....and why we humans are so....we have to change along with the changing times.....and also one point is that, if someone wants to help you, he will help you in any situation...

Sir, you have at the very right time told me this precious message.. Thank you so much 🙏

बिल्कुल सही कह रहे हैं आप .. मेरा भी ऐसा ही अनुभव है एकदम सच है ये ।।

बढ़िया वीडियो है, सच है। 9,10,11,12 कक्षा के बच्चों को, डिग्री की बच्चों को बिजनेस के लिए, बडी नौकरी करने केलिए , practically kya सीखें, वे कैसे तैयार हो, कैसे स्टार्ट करें, पैसों का जुगाड कैसे करें... इस पर वीडियो करें।

Absolutely right Now it seems it is ultimate truth

Very true n practically explained Salute to u sir Keep these experiences and sutra endless...

Very true now days people r becoming fools in expecting nobody even people who r directly link with blood relation don't help only members who r living under single floor ie nuclear family helps each other rest even in blood relation uses u in prevailing free service

Even some parents don't help at all. Just be yourself. You can help you the best. No one else, not even blood relations.

Very practical and balanced. Thank you for the sound advice

Sir, I liked the way you deal with life. It's liberating from the copycat kind of bourgeois living. I had about 3 decades ago declared that if a wedding expense decides the fate of a whole family, we are not even educated, leave alone the wisdom part. In these times of materialism ruling, it is very important to understand and follow your advice. I'd also want to have a one to one discussion about decisions, if at all your time permits.. Thanks a lot

Guruji aapke jaisa wisdom kisi youtuber k pass nhi h.banki youtuber ne sirf Chand bestseller books padh k gyaan dete h but aapne zindagi ko padha h insideout...n thank you sir apne wisdom ko hamare sath share krne k liye...god bless you sir

The world today needs a strong/mean mentality to survive... Yahaan sabki haalat ek jaise hi hein.. Khudi ko ker buland... Baaki jo hona hein woh toh hoke rahenga.. with regards. Excellent topic.

Needs more such videos giving practical teachings 🙏

very empowering video for people who believe in their own deeds

Sir ji aapki videos ke liye ek new playlist banadi hai life lessons karke ekdum mast chize batate hi im 22 no friends and in college now i know what to focus my energy on thanks

Absolutely Correct Sir. You are always practical and have Realistic Approach

Sir depression se nikaal Dia aapke videos ne....bhot bhot aabhhaar...Pranaam..having tears in my eyes

Absolute truth.. very practical......

Yes sir, please do more videos of this type, I really wish we had a mentor like you in our life, I share my view point with you, but only one in my family of this type, I am odd one out. It can be frustrating, but I am sharing the videos hoping to see some change in them.

Very true sir.aap serious topic lekar bhi usme jo funny content ka tadka lagate hain,uske liye hats off.

Very well said! I have seen this buttering behavior everywhere and this must stop if people need to prosper!

Sir ji, bilkul sahi ....Lesson learnt. Thank U. I been thru such incidents so many times. But in my case it's role reversal. Me being of a helping nature PPL tk advantage of me then leave me like a used tissue.

Guru Ji 🙏🏼 Apne aap se hi umeed rakho .... every one for himself 😊

💯 % right GuruJi ✅️ 👌 कोई काम नहीं आता। और जरूरत भी क्या है किसी की? कोई काम रुकता नहीं है। फालतू लोगों को अपने जीवन से निकाल दोगे तो बहुत शांति मिलेगी सच में।

Thanks a lot Sir for uploading this & such type of videos. My understanding is increasing day by day by watching your videos.

I’m addicted to your videos ❤and learning great things about life 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 aapko koti koti pranam guru ji 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Just amazingly relatable and useful stuff

Finding this topic in itself is amazing not to mention the depth and amusing way in which you have covered it.

Wah... Kya Baat Hai... The Ultimate Gyan... ✨ 👍 👌 🙏

Such a good topic,really appreciated .

Excellent advice Sir. God help those who help themselves.

Very good and practical knowledge sir.. You provide a very actual and real things of today's world realities of people mind.

You are excellent sir.Always a sensible subject and very interesting and valuable talks.Nobody helps without any favours.I think almost all of us have that experience.😅 Thanks a lot.

You are my go to person for advice and solving life dilemmas.

Absolutely correct advice 👍

Excellent vdo. We both were in transferable job. Postings in different places. Only my parents and on laws helped to look after children when we were in different cities. No senior officer helped us to get transfer together. We never socialized or kisi ka chatogiri kabhi nahi kiya

4.30pm 4th July. You always speak my mind and thoughts......excelent observations and conclusions of the dynamics of life and living.

Absolutely correct you are.An eye opener also

Sir. I really follow u in my life...coz u r the only person in whom I can see what I feel about the society . Kindly make video on extra marital also.

Great practical life advice. Thanks for shedding some light on such topics. Much appreciated. These are not discussed anywhere!

Uncle apke saare videos mujhe samajh mein aate hai aur meri samjh badhaate hai. Aap sahi mein ekdam prectical hai.

Great Thoughts Sir, Please bring such more thoughts.

True sir🙏 khud hi ko kar buland... 👍💫

Yes you are absolutely right no one help without any reason

This video and gyan in it is absolutely correct word by word. My dog was critical in pet hospital last month, I had to literally stay there for 20 days, i couldnt even go to washroom sometimes for hours because i was all alone. I needed my friends especially people for whom i ve always been there to stand by me not for formality once or twice i expected them daily that was my expectation but god was i wrong. They didnt turn up even on r. It was my sister who slept with my at that pet hospital and consoled me when i cried not friends or any relative per say. Hats off to this video.

You are absolutely right Sir.

Amazing Content! Very much relatable! Those who have experienced life for 35-40 years can easily understand the concepts you have explained in the various videos on your channel are very practical and the bitter truth of life. The earlier one understands them, the better it is for them! Thank you for making such videos!

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT. ONE SHOULD NOT BE DEPENDENT ON ANYBODY FOR ANY THING. ONLY YOU HAVE TO FACE THE SITUATION AND COME OUT OF IT. BEST IS, DO NOT KEEP ANY EXPECTATION FROM ANYBODY.

Awesome. Well said. Quite intriguing.

Very correct. Even my husband says the same that one should become self reliant and do things by ones own efforts coz since everything is coming fully online its easier now. 100% agree with you. 👍🏻

Sir, I am commenting first time on your video even though I was watching you from quite beginning. Talking about this one, I am 36 year old and got a very different life experience. According to me I completely disagree with first 10mins of the video saying "we need to help our parents and wife along with wife's parents. When I was completely distressed, I got the support from somewhere else who are not my blood relations. I got my own association(selfless) where I worked for someone unknown and they are extremely happy. I feel we need to help someone in need which is possible from your end irrespective of blood relations. Rest of the video is fine and I agree.

Wonderful sir, please bring more videos on related topics

Sir aapke video k krn duniyadari jaise ghar baithe hi sikhne mil ja rha h Thank you sir

The video is very true and it applies more to indians( whether in India or living abroad). In other countries they know this and have always lived independently and not dependent much on anyone( relatives are pretty much non existent and even with friends the relationship is superficial and artificial). With Indians,there is a lot of emotional attachment to people and the tendency to cling to them .

To the point. ..bahut badiya

Outstanding content. So true, So Pragmatic Please keep it up

Thanks sir....good knowledge .....

True speech, self help n god blessing.

Bilkul sahi direction sir g

Well said.Fact of the matter

Thanks Sir a very logical things discussed in a very honest intention. I made a seperate folder for your video 's

You are doing great service to common people.

बहुत अच्छा video sir....propel to think clearly

You are doing fantastic. You are hard hitting reality teller

Sir, you are absolutely correct....noone helps you in times of need. If at all,only your immediate family does.

I am really enjoying listening your words. It is so practical and useful in life. Thanks you sir. Bilkul sahi.

Yes, the current way of getting things done is totally different from how it used to be 15-20 years back, Almost all services we want to consume are digitized now , many things are automated and self serving, it is no longer dependent on people rather it is System, Process and technology dependent, very transparent with digital records , so no one can influence or alter course of things as records and databases are fully digitized , Technology System cannot be corrupted, So, what ever you are saying is absolutely correct.

Sir, Aapka baat 100 percent sahi hai 🙏🙏

Very true Sirji, the way everything is digitalizing, soon the power will be COMPLETELY decentralized and nobody will hold it in upcoming 4 to 5 years. Also, Corruption would be very very less.

Great Sirji 200% truth

Really good. I also follow the same path.

Ur voice so soothing..thanku fr spreading awareness ...

Absolutely correct Sir... You videos are very useful.... Best Regards

Excellent sir as always...really helpful 🙏

Very true.. Extremely insightful 👌👌

Wah sir, you are really a clarity giver.