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I'm 42 got married when I was 25.....i married because everyone was doing it and then my career is ruined, my freedom is gone, no bank balance, i tried to make everyone happy but I am the one who didn't make her happy......life is looking like a punishment now.

I am 49 and not married. This is the best decision of my life.

Remember guys - society will take care of itself, you should take care of yourself first.

What he missed : Peace : sometimes marriage can be very disturbing Astrology and karma : few people are not destined to be married, even if they marry, it is not successful due to prarapdha. Cheating : extra martial affairs are at all time high Society : if you are rich, no one will point fingers at u. Friends : yes, friends will not identify with you after 35, he is right. Looser : depends upon your life situations, sometimes situation is so tough that people choose not to marry, so no one is looser Higher goal : mukti, moksha Uncertainty : what if spouse dies at the age of 50 Kids : kids don't care these days, they just give outside support Death : everyone has to die alone. After 42 : he is right, if you are not engaged in some activity and not mentally strong, things can be v bad. Conclusion, many people don't marry coz of reasons and not coz they want to live a easy life. So saying looser to someone who is not married is not right. All points he mentioned are correct though. PS : be married to life, have goals, be happy, be strong, don't care how society judge you and most importantly be highly spiritual If you are not getting married, don't indulge in one night stands and hookups.

Guruji.. I agree with u.. I got married at 32.i have seen below as well.Aapne isme ye points nhi btaye.. 1. Siblings aapke paise pe nazar rakhte h. 2. Aapke rishte taar aapko characterless declare kat dete h. 3. Aap dusare ke bache pe paisa karchte h.. 4. None of the relative let their kids be with u.. Be of child abuse doubt 5. Single people think their parents will live forever. When the parents are in actual need only married people can help.. As in case of hospitalization , we need support.

One major reason for not getting married is responsibilities and fear of partner's cheating

I am 55 and unmarried but i am happy

36 and unmarried and really proud of it. When I see my friends hiring lawyers for divorce cases and go to prison in false cases. Paying alimony every month for few months of marriage and no other benefit... I follow my hobbies, ride, travel and living my best life. When I show my travel pics to my married friends, reaction on their face is just priceless... 😊

Marriage is a trap, don't fall in this trap, I realized this hard way. After marriage all my relationship changed, my parents are no longer the same parents and my wife treats me like a ATM. Everyone wants a part in my salary like a group of vultures wants a dead animal flesh. My wife side and my parents continuously fight with each other over management of kitchen, cleanliness, food and spits poison in my ears against each other and advise me not to spend my salary on the other side and stay vigilant. For sometime I tried to bridge the gap but soon to realize that this gap can't be bridged and things gotten worse. I don't understand the usefulness of such a relationship that brings so much bitterness. It is better to stay single rather than living with misery throughout your life.

Sir, I am 40+ single woman and worked hard to be where I am now professionally. I agree with you when you say parents should not be troubled, therefore the moment I became independent at 28 started staying on my own.

We men are always treated like an ATM 🏧 machine we won't loose anything if we don't marry.

I am 20 college student 😂but your lecture so interesting rather than college lecture 🙏😂

Sir I am single women 41 Yr old professional decent, want to get married but did not get partner. So accepted and is inclined more spiritual, goals n purpose of life.

I'm not married and this has been the best decision in my life. I'm 7 years old.

Sir, family(siblings) bhi misuse krti h unmarried logo ka. Siblings do not want the working man or woman to get married because of their greed of money and property

Life is not fair to anyone be it single or married , people change and they do in any phase of life , its hard to believe anyone blindly, the only thing which i feel being married gives you is children . Else life is tough till end for anyone in the world

Exactly Marriage is a trap. Girls want money from husband always rather than anything. I have gone tough times by marrying. My mother and wife always fought bitterly and with my low salary and stress in Mumbai I had gone mad.

Sir aapne karli bahut achi baat hai ...aap "bahubali" ho...hum " looser" hi ache😂.

Im an Indian woman, got married at 37 (1st marriage). It is very difficult socially to live in India with dignity if a woman is not married by a certain age. Your family members will take you for granted, use you for all their personal/medical/social/financial reasons. The later the marriage, more the chances that you will have to deal with the partner's problems. Don't try to reinvent the wheel.

People always give you importance when you are financially secured and successful, irrespective of marital status.

I am 45....single.....By Gods grace life is meaningful

When a person (a boy or a girl) gets married, it opens a different world for them. You have to listen to your spouse's opinion which can be different from yours. Many habits get changed. You see your parents/ siblings from a different point of view. You taste different foods ( even from the same cast) you develop a lot of patience. No other institution can teach this. Marriage whether it is happy or sad, it gives you growth.

I married, had a husband who was very cruel. Now im single and very happy

Joh ladki hum mein chahiye usse hum nahi chahiye; aur jisse hum chahiye woh kisko chahiye Akshay Kumar ( Movie: Garam Masala ) 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I’m 40 years old and it was a conscious decision of mine to never marry .My parents had constant fights in their marriage which resulted in me feel bitter about such a relationship for myself so I banned the idea a long time ago . They were also unreasonably strict and controlling with me which made me get into depression in my teenage years which stayed for a very long time . I promised myself that I would focus on living a fulfilling life alone. I do sometimes feel lonely and out of place because none of my friends are unmarried and don’t hangout with me because they can’t relate with me anymore but even then , that doesn’t motivate me to marry someone because if it turns out to be bad , I’d be heart broken to a point where I’d not even want to live anymore . I focus on indulging in simple and fun activities with a lot of freedom and am not answerable to anyone . I do think sometimes that I could have become a great husband and father and an overall a good family man but I simply don’t want to risk getting into a wrong relationship. But all said , your video has somehow motivated me to not ditch the idea of marriage completely . I thank you for your perspective and it felt like you were talking directly to me .

जी हां में 50साल का हूं और चार साल पहले तलाक हुआ हे और में बहुत सुखी जीवन जी रहा हूं। और सोचता हु कि अगर में शादी के चक्र में ना फसा होता तो अच्छा होता। हर चीज के फायदे और नुकसान हे इसी प्रकार शादी करने और न करने के भी फायदे और नुकसान हे। ये आप पर निर्भर करता है कि आप कोन सा फायदा और नुकसान पसंद करते हो। जैसे कुछ लोग तलक होने पर टूट जाते हैं और कुछ लोग नया जीवन मेहसूस करते हैं

The institution of marriage is not natural and it can never be a happy feeling when your freedom is sacrificed sometimes 100% so i believe living in relationship is the best way to live your life since both the partners are under constant feeling that nobody gains from a fallen out relationship and life will go on without the courts and the police involved ! Hit like if you agree with me !

I am 92 and not married. Best decision of my life. 👨🏼‍🦳

Joblessness is the major problem of not getting married... poor economical situation not allowing us to get married...

Be a Brahmachari.

I am 169+ unmarried for life . Best decision of my life. ❣️💯🔥

i m 25 guruji and ur talk is very full of wisdom.🙌🙏

Sir enjoyment ke definition aur perception alag ho sakte hai... samaj ki mansikta badalni jaruri hai instead of advising people to adjust and fit their decisions as per society norms ... if something is going on for years it doesn't mean it is right ...

It's completely ur choice to enter the institution of marriage or not,just for social validity & security. In india it's outrated. Happiness doesn't at all depends upon marriage but only if u r spiritual.

I got married. Lived with husband for 21 years. Bittersweet relation. We used to fought too a lot but he passed away a month ago.. to avoid getting attached to people. I was thinking I will not marry in my next birth if I am born as a human. Too hard to cope up after losing a loved one

Commenting to make this up on algorithm. Hard hitting reality...and beautifully explained...🔥💯 Near ones are aware of this...bt sometimes cant articulate without hurting the person... and others dont care...so some 3rd party had to do break this...i glad u did this...BRAVE...👌👌

I’m a doctor and I want to share from my studies that when you live alone there is a significant increase in psychological issues as compared to when you have a partner baki apko jaisa theek lage kro

Sir ji, you're a reformer indeed! 🙂🙏We wish you get awards and more than that sooner. 😊

Full form of wife- worry invited for ever.

What about people who got married to the wrong person and the marriage didn't work out? You talk about people feeling scared of getting caught up in legal cases after marriage, what if those fears were actually true? Would love to hear some thoughts on those.

I am unmarried right now. I agree that a woman will marry someone at her level or above. It is because she has to adapt to the boy's family instead of the opposite. Just as a man will do a job where he gets more money, a woman will marry somebody where fewer sacrifices are required.

good advice. Each and every boy or girl getting married to see your other videos to overcome the other problems that they anticipate will come up. Remember marriage is good as long as you as a young person take the responsibility of being an adult and look after each other.

AISA KUCHH NAHI SAHIB MAIN 52 HOON OR AAM AADMI SE YANI K SHADI SHUDA AAPKI ZUBANI MAIN KAHEEN ZIYADA ENJOY KARTA HOON, LEKIN AISA BHI NAHI K KARNA NAHI CHAHTA LEKIN ENJOYMENT K LIYE SHADI SHUDA HONA COMPULSION NAHI.

आप की बातें जँचती हैं पर किसी के समझाने या कहने से कोई भी कुछ नहीं करता। स्वय़ं अपने दिल की गहराई से जो प्रेरणा जिसे मिलनी होती है, मिलती है। और वही वो करेगा। बाकी सारी बातें, चाहे वे कितनी ही अच्छी हों, कितनी ही सच्ची लगें, लोग उसकाे जीवन में नहीं उतारते। स्वयं भगवान कृष्ण हार गये थे पर कौरवों को सन्मार्ग पर चलने की प्रेरणा नहीं होनी थी, नहीं हुई। महाभारत आखिर होकर ही रहा।

Post modern society ka ek result hai logoka shaadi se biswas uth jana.. iska koi kuch nhi karsakte. Developed economies me toh majority hi shaadi nhi karna chahte. even in asian countries like Japan, S Korea, China. Aaj ki duniya mein Shaadi ka practical utility bhot kam hochuka hai pehle ke comparison se yeh toh accept karna hi hoga. Societal status ke liye shaadi krna makes no sense at all. As a society we should be more accepting towards bachelors, aap toh bilkul ulta leke jaa rahe ho.😂😂😂

Mera bhi abhi tak yahi Manna tha k jab right partner milegi tabhi shadi karenge aj ye video dekhne k baad mera ye myth khatam ho gaya, thank you for this eye opening video🙏

Arre sir. Biwi aur bachhon ko dene ke liye na time aur na energy hai mere paas. Aur koi biwi akeli nahi aati hai. Poora khandan, dost bhai sab leke aati hai. Mujhe nahi lagta ki mai un sabko sambhal paunga. Ab bataiye shadi karni chahiye ya nahi.

This video is totally on practical reality based. Sir you gave us very eye opening advice, some bitter truths and tore the pieces of cloths. Ultimate advices beyond that no one can say anything practical too that extent.

Aapki batein sab bakwas hai, I'm 55 still unmarried and fully happy, having no any tention of any type of laddu. You r totaly wrong, I'm not agree with u. 🙏

So much of truth and reality revealed in a single video. These kind of facts are usually only said by parents , or close family friend's parents. Thank you sir for sharing .

Marriage is good if you want to give something to family and society without expecting rewards

The population of India has surpassed that of China. There is stress on the limited resources of the Earth. Climate Change is directly effecting the capacity of the Earth to produce food. Aur aap safed baal le kar jansankhya barane ka formula de rahe ho? Gajab.

Life is not based on rules its based on self experience and self realization

Sir, isn't the fact right - happiness is the only religion to be followed and whatever we do, being happy is important ...

Sir aapki ye shaadi wali topic chodke saare topic wajib lagte .Shaadi me aapke logic ki court case se Darke ladke shaadi nhi kar rhe May be delhi ncr janta ke liye bada reason ho but pure country me koi Aisa nhi dochta

Many Indian marriages sustained due to fear and compromise. Many men feared about who would take care of their meals and other needs. Women worried for financial support and respect in the society. Post having kids many parents did not want their children to experience a broken home. Of late individuality outranks togetherness. No one wants to adjust and d cases of remaining unmarried or getting divorced have skyrockted. Men can do home chores and many women are financially independent. Incompatibility is leading to more divorces than infidelity. Duniya ka dastoor hai ki parivaar ki shuruaat hi mard aurat k milan se hoti hai shaadi ek legal aur social stamp hai...social isolation due to singl status can be traumatizing but life after marriage can gt lifeles or a paradise or can b a nightmare..dpnds a lot on the maturity of d couple and the circumstances..shaadi ka ladooo khaye tho pachtaye..na khaye tho bhi pachtaye...😅

17.00, they don't invite you to their marriage,but they definitely come to you to share their smallest issues in marriage. Be careful about those friends.

What an amazing personality he is... Reformer of today's society... Like Raja Ram Mohan's roy stood up for women education, this person will teach us to live with a different perspective👍👍 great respect for u sir🙏

I agree with most of your views in this video, but cheating by partner is also a dissuading factor in negating marriages

Jo kaha ekdum sahi kaha aapne sir....ek ek bat sahi hai...absolutely raw reality...

Hats off to your Sir, this kind of scolding we all need, lot of wisdom in your words keep it up for the betterment of society

Sir, basically you are pushing the young gen to again go the beaten path without exercising their own thought. Aisa nahi hai k log shaadi hi nahi kar rahe, some people are just trying to make their choices. What's wrong in it? Why are you painting a negative picture about people who are trying to take an independent and informed choice... ? I am sorry but thoughts in this videos are not convincing....

A yogi is never old

I got asked once if " i was ok " physically by a small minded relative !!!!

अचछे से समझाए है। धनयवाद। आदमी बहुत कमजोर होता है अकेले नही रह सकता । शादी एक बहुत खूबसूरत रिशता है पर सही ढग से जीने की समझ न होने से गडबड होती है ।अब समाज बदल रहा है बहुत हद तक महिलाए अब सक्षम होरही है उनमे बदलाव है पर समाज की सोच पुरानी है षुरुषो को अपनी सोच महिलाओ के लिए बदलनी होगी उनके काम को ,उननति को सवीकार करना चाहिए।

It's true that they don't gain anything by false case,so does rapists gain by doing it. Those who do it is not do for gain. It's just hate and anger. Even though there is a judiciary Its process is long and painful. Its something that should be discussed

I completely agree with you ... me and my bestie (we are friends from school) .. now ppl tease us asking if we are lesbians just cos we are single since a long time... moral of the story, they are just not happy with your lives hence they keep on gossiping about us

I guess the best approach to explain these situations is the trigunatmak way of thinking : saatvik, rajasic and tamasic gunas of humans.. every life decision is taken according to these three gunas only.. that would be a better way to elevate the masses into spiritual lifestyle/higher order thinking.. Of course people will also judge the 'responses' according to their gunas only.

I am 31 years old old single man . I have decided not to get married as I have been facing health and subsequently professional challenges since the age of 28 n it doesn't seem to stop. I don't want to get married as I am not able to handle my own health how will I handle family. I wish I had great health. I stay with family and it's a disgusting feeling seeing my parents take me to hospitals often n seeing mother cooking and doing the household chores as I barely have energy to help her after office hours 😭

Why being single is considered as outcast

If you don't marry as per your parent's wishes, they become "They" and are very happy if your marriage has problems. Because then they can say, "I told you so".

Times are changing.India is also changing .Will change even further. Old ideas don’t apply anymore.Will be obsolete soon. If you feel like doing it then do it. If you don’t then don’t do it.This person sounds a bit harsh.

I am kind of insecure about getting married because i have seen my mother become a widow at a very young age and all the struggles related to that,and i have this strange insecurity/fear thinking what if my husband dies before me,this has always been my fear😐

Sir...u r the best.....very affectionate even while people troll u. Plz continue doing it. Am watching ur advice..for future. Am 44 yo and still relevanr for me. Daar ke aagey jeet hai

I am single and when I talk to guys, the first thing they want to know if what is your net worth - by this they mean ke mere mummy papa ki Tarafdar se Kitna aayega ...? Jab ki I myself is working as an IT manager in a company earning a handsome salary

Why many married old people are living alone or in old age home.

Shaadi-shuda is a legal status, its not a relationship status. Many people are married but are they genuinely in a positive healthy relationship with each other?

Very nice. Keep it up. Present society needs this type of videos.

Unmarried ppl continue to stay with their parents so less kharcha

Very nicely explained Sir…so true n an eye opener 👍..thank u so much for sharing 🙏🙏

If u feel the girls and court system are genuine. U need to move outside the house and see whats happening. Times have changed sirji.

Illuminati chahta hai ki hum marriage kare aur economy ko badhaye😂😂😂😂

Namaskaram sir. Atleast you are telling these things to this generation kids to get married at suitable age. For us, some elder in our rishtedari, used to tell these. You are doing a great reformation sir One point what you told is exactly correct. "When there is nothing great in doing shaadi, there is also nothing great in not doing shaadi." Super sir From parents ' point of view, you are 100% correct.

I was here with an open mind but he was all over the place. I have no idea finally what he's trying to say. Just a bunch of random points and random advice with no factual basis.

In our home parents do not want daughters to be married because they want to use daughters money.They always discuss marriage as dissatisfaction

Shut up , for marriage one needs money . One does not have money , then what’s the point of getting married and living a life with struggles and unwanted hardships .

Also Sir I respect you that you want society to not get disturbed and go peacefully..in short you tend to protect the structure of society handed by your generation to us.. but Sir..its very late now. People especially Men knows the repurcussions and pressure that comes with marriage.

Ahahahaaa i love how straightforward and blunt you are😀

Bhai sahab aap bahut suljhe hue insaan ho, Eshwar aapka bhala karey aur karta rahega Amen. Bahut achchey topic laatey hain aap. May God bless you.

सभी व्यक्तियों को भय चिंता होती की जीवन में कुछ ऊंच नीच हो गया तो कोन संभालेगा मात पिता के बाद. उत्तर जीवन को बोलो त्याग दूंगा तुझे. तू एक शरीर वस्तु ही तो है और त्यागने के बोहोत तरीके है बस जिगर पत्थर जैसे मजबूत और आंखों में बेखौफ सी चमक होनी चाइए! खेलो खेल बेखौफ. डर एक मौत ही है! चाहें सामाजिक हो या अंतरिक या अपनो से या जानकारों से ॐ

Great this is absolutely true about society. 😀

Very good. Exceptional cases people need financial independence.. other than that.. it's better to marry early than getting trapped in boyfriend, girlfriend path. Marry early, get kids early, complete the responsibility early and get into vanaprastha.. peace ✌️ no one can care you like the life partner.. most cases!

Ek dum sahi baat keh rahe ho sir.... Mughe apki baat bahut logic lagta hai.... Sir aap 5 number par numerology kab aaega... I m eagerly waiting

All people are not same. A very few people, atleast 2-3% people are not meant for companionship. Marriage demands adjustment, compromise and understanding. If one is not capable of giving these entities to marriage, one shall simply not marry. Marriage is a responsibility, though it has its own perks, still it demands a lot of attention and concious efforts. Some people are happy as they are, they are not lonely, but alone, and enjoy their solitude. And I am one among such people. So I would conclude, that one shall not decide to not marry, because they want to do such and such stuff, want to establish or some other milestones to achieve. Rather the decision shall be on the basis of the feeling of content that one comfortably enjoys in the current state.

Sir, I wish you could have taken this initiative few years ago! I am 32 & few years ago I met with an accident and now suffering from spine injury. I was surrounded with people who always gave me very negative side of marriage and that's what made me stay single.

Sir your videos are an eye opener. Thank you for making such content. Your videos have definitely helped changed my perspective about my marriage, and now I am seriously looking forward to getting married (age 37 yrs). Thank you very much 🙏

I can relate to most of your comments and examples, like your videos related to life, real estate, middle class. Following you since 5-6 months and have become a fan. Please keep going.

Bramhacharya is the way!

Marriage is indeed important provided both understand each other....caste wagera Gaya bhad main