Saying No to Prevent Sexual Abuse
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4 жыл бұрынAndrew and Laura are good friends and he wants to take it further. Abuse can come from a close friend but you never owe anyone sex, or even a change in relationship that you don't want.
@pyromaniaccc 3 жыл бұрын
This isn’t friendship, Save people who’ve been treated like this. Please.
@wael128 3 жыл бұрын
@@reddeadleisure socially awkward? that type to people tend to follow their instinct they probably already get out of the house
@notrayder3408 3 жыл бұрын
No kid stfu you little bastard
@vibes4123 3 жыл бұрын
@@notrayder3408 That was rude you shut up
@ilovememes3919 3 жыл бұрын
@@notrayder3408 do you want someone to treat you like that?
@ilovememes3919 3 жыл бұрын
@@notrayder3408 go buy some braincells kid
@firstnamelastname7595 3 жыл бұрын
This is so realistic. They on a discord server and everything
@JaeisJustJae 3 жыл бұрын
f a c t s
@firstnamelastname7595 3 жыл бұрын
@Zennimsss haha lol
@JustJoeyN 3 жыл бұрын
Disscork
@AzzyRiah 3 жыл бұрын
Forkknife 😀
@firstnamelastname7595 3 жыл бұрын
@@AzzyRiah 💀💀
@clovermoon3322 Жыл бұрын
"Can't friends be friendly?" Yes. They can be nice, friendly, without being CREEPY.
@Meowqueen344 Жыл бұрын
Agree
@wrenkosinski1 Жыл бұрын
@@Meowqueen344 apple awesome
@Portugalisbased Жыл бұрын
if we look at girls in a normal way we're considered creeps what are we supposed to do
@Meowqueen344 Жыл бұрын
@@Portugalisbased idk don’t make them uncomfortable 😣
@Portugalisbased Жыл бұрын
@@Meowqueen344 how? if we don't look we're bullies but if we look we're creeps. WHAT ARE WE SUPPOSED TO DO?!
@enzotakerian5488 11 ай бұрын
I asked a girl to senior prom and she said yes. We did not kiss or "cuddle." We only just went there as friends and danced.
@Emmie1223 10 ай бұрын
We need ppl like u
@Seven-Rules 8 ай бұрын
We need more clean minded people in this world
@randomplayer469 5 ай бұрын
Missed opportunity (This is a joke, to clarify and NOT write an angry reply)
@YorktownClass 5 ай бұрын
Lol, you think thats an achievement 🤣.
@chrisdawson1776 5 ай бұрын
Lol what a simp
@frog6327 3 жыл бұрын
Just because they’re your friend, doesn’t mean you owe them your body.
@wtfmel 3 жыл бұрын
BOOST
@justarandompeople3782 3 жыл бұрын
✨Facts✨
@br1dget 3 жыл бұрын
Frog wisdom
@tellmethesongoftherain6534 3 жыл бұрын
@@br1dget Phrog
@br1dget 3 жыл бұрын
@@tellmethesongoftherain6534 yus
@bysscanna 3 жыл бұрын
He didn’t respect her boundaries that’s why they couldn’t be friends anymore
@fayeduncan9842 3 жыл бұрын
exactly
@MoonRaven21 3 жыл бұрын
And then she accidentally got cancelled by twitter and tumblr for a lie that Andrew made, the end.
@ybn_alegend1843 3 жыл бұрын
She didn’t say anything
@Kast3rr 3 жыл бұрын
Mhm.
@stealthskater5674 3 жыл бұрын
I was born with autism and ADHD I'm not perfect but I can feel confident and I can sleep soundly at night knowing that I'm a proper gentleman enough to respect a lady's boundaries
@Venomwjsjwj 3 ай бұрын
I love how all of these videos are in the same timeline and are linked
@Venomwjsjwj 3 ай бұрын
Togther
@moonlight_grapefruit3797 2 ай бұрын
Literally like you can see the girl and the teacher from the other video behind them
@Ducky_Fox 2 ай бұрын
Yes like how some characters are in others stories it makes the series just that bit better
@mrtrollnator123 11 ай бұрын
Bro this hits hard. They play mind games on you, guilt-trip you, gaslight you, manipulation. You need to defend yourself, you dont owe them your body, respect yourself and call for help
@Supr_s1lly 18 күн бұрын
Womp Womp
@mrtrollnator123 18 күн бұрын
@@Supr_s1lly 💀
@HertaThe83thGenius 12 күн бұрын
Nigga shut up@@Supr_s1lly
@_gojira_and_fnaf_1964 3 жыл бұрын
Andrew aint a true gamer , he forgot what sonic the hedgehog once said "Kids, theres nothing more cool then being hugged by some one you like, but if someone trys to touch you in a place or in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, thats no good ,Its your body, no one has the right to touch you if you dont want them to. So what do you do? First, you say no! Then, you get outta there. Most important, you gotta tell someone you trust. Like your parent, your teacher, a police officer. "
@ssxxxss 3 жыл бұрын
True
@bit-te 3 жыл бұрын
Aye police officer
@arminsgirl6532 3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@shio9517 3 жыл бұрын
lol you just literally typed the whole script of a video I just watched XD
@costeniadavie1338 3 жыл бұрын
Jfmamjjasond
@lovelyheaft9900 3 жыл бұрын
His grin is making me uncomfortable-
@poisonshroomies6126 3 жыл бұрын
Same here (´；д；`)
@Galaxywolf-ts3rj 3 жыл бұрын
Me too :0
@maliza1691 3 жыл бұрын
Same it’s creepy
@guiden1954 3 жыл бұрын
It’s suppose to I tkink
@guiden1954 3 жыл бұрын
@Jayani Palli make you feel uncomfortable
@asteriskwashere Жыл бұрын
This really hits home because I've been recently harassed at school by someone who I considered a friend. I cut him out from my life and I will never forgive him.
@amask99 Жыл бұрын
Are you safe now? Have you told anybody?
@CringeKATE 11 ай бұрын
Yk, a boy did that to me too in grade school,after i told on him,i never saw him again
@silvergust 9 ай бұрын
@@riqueman23Rlly bad advice in this context 💀💀
@riqueman23 4 ай бұрын
@@silvergustNvm
@zWordii 2 ай бұрын
Same, and the fact they manipulated me and gas lit me to make me feel like it was my fault just still triggers me till today. The so called "friend ship" is over anyway but I'm still quite frustrated that I didn't stop it before they went to far.
@meganthealligator3465 11 ай бұрын
My mom said no one can touch my body unless im okay with it. This goes for anyone.
@windfalls238 3 жыл бұрын
oh so he's one of those "nice guys" then.
@ProGaming-db6ln 3 жыл бұрын
Neckbeards but worse
@inkedrays7744 3 жыл бұрын
@ my ex best friend, the world’s largest “nice guy”. “Omg, you are so ungrateful to turn down the most perfect guy ever to be your boyfriend after I told you you were pretty to the point where you got uncomfortable”
@windfalls238 3 жыл бұрын
@@inkedrays7744 exactly! these are the guys who think people they like owe them shit bc they told them they were pretty, personally I'm grateful for never coming across one, but my heart aches for ppl who had to deal with them, especially the ones who can get violent with this sort of thing, seriously, f*ck you're ex best friend, you owe him nothing.
@yjanimations3418 3 жыл бұрын
Привет
@newfirerock2486 3 жыл бұрын
nice guys be like: "idk why girls only like awesome people and have their own feelings, instead of nice guys like me, i mean i smell and im a complete disaster but ill treat her right"
@Deletainiaa 3 жыл бұрын
There’s a long line between joking and sexual abuse, it’s you that has to finally find your line of uncomfortableness if your not sure, go to someone.
@iiheartaddyy 3 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this. Thanks.
@whattheflimflam 3 жыл бұрын
Very good advice. And remember. People will try to tell you "ITS JUST A JOKE, IM JOKING, YOU'RE TOO UPTIGHT" no. They're gaslighting you and a true friend would be like "Sorry, that was a dumb joke. I won't tell it again."
@polaryu 3 жыл бұрын
shut
@iiheartaddyy 3 жыл бұрын
@@polaryu no u
@love23music1 3 жыл бұрын
@@whattheflimflam right
@rofuentes8996 Жыл бұрын
And this is important because this touches many "why" people are forced to say "yes" or nothing even when they want to say no. People usually says after a sexual abuse "you should had to say no" "it's too easy to say no" BUT HELL NO, sometimes people feel like they owe something, or are manipulated to accept. I hope with this people understand that IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT IF YOU WEREN'T CAPABLE TO SAY "NO".
@cad168 Жыл бұрын
Yes agreed
@cad168 Жыл бұрын
Not if you want to…
@Starlit_Onion Жыл бұрын
"We can play a different game..." *"I don't like where this is going."*
@killerqueen1170 3 жыл бұрын
"virgin being desperate" -My gamer friends, who actually have morals
@astrobeans1807 3 жыл бұрын
Me who has a knife: You know the rules and do i, Say goodbye
@abcd18802 3 жыл бұрын
tru, if u have to manipulate or cross lines to score girls, that reeks loser lol
@wsgmayn 3 жыл бұрын
yes lmfao
@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198 3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@user-jo5bj5lt4u 3 жыл бұрын
@@astrobeans1807 and so do I *
@kristinamorales 3 жыл бұрын
“Andrew69” *oh*
@connectionterminated9740 3 жыл бұрын
Would it be werid if said *nice*
@kristinamorales 3 жыл бұрын
Mr Plague *69...*
@aestheticidiot3742 3 жыл бұрын
*69*
@Nekyomi 3 жыл бұрын
How generic
@Sage3356 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my
@maddiemccroskey Жыл бұрын
That’s why boundaries are very important in friendships including relationships. There always needs boundaries regardless to whom you’re close to.
@jaelhadas Жыл бұрын
at least his ass apologized in the end usually their ego is hurt and they get defensive
@lilo19951995 27 күн бұрын
i know that was surprising lmao
@azazellon 3 жыл бұрын
A good friend, a REAL friend, would notice you're uncomfortable. A REAL friend would understand when you say "we're just friends". Not get mad or angry when you say no. Edit: what the hell happened here
@VirginiaDowdy777821 3 жыл бұрын
My friend didn't notice... He groped me for two years straight and was encouraged to do so by some jerks he hung out with at the time... 😞 Edit: Okay, so I see some people questioning me, so I'll go more into detail: I did try to stand up for myself, multiple times, it all started in 5th grade and whenever he groped me, I would run after him and attack him. He thought it was funny to make me angry to the point I was violent because he thought it was 'cute.' I even started bullying him in an effort to make him stop. However, no matter what I did, the teachers always took his side and I got into trouble (FYI: they never witnessed him doing it). I even opened up to my friends about it, however they always excused his behavior because "groping people was a guy thing. It's just what guys do." I started to feel hopeless, like nobody could help me. Then, I finally opened up to my parents about it and they were PISSED, they didn't allow him to come over for a long, long time. Then, after he stopped doing it, he and his sister tried to gaslight me by trying to convince me it wasn't him who did it, it never happened, and my mind was just making me think it was him. They gaslit me about almost every single shitty thing I remember them doing. I questioned my own sanity for a very long time. He died last year and I recently dropped his sister. I finally found the strength to realize I don't need these toxic people in my life, even if it means loosing my friend group. Edit: I forgot to also mention I was forced to live with my religious grandma, who was emotionally abusive and if I didn't behave a certain way, she threatened to take me and my little brothers away from our parents or take our dad away. So, it was very hard opening up to her about anything and I'd get scared to tell her certain things because she'd go off. I was also being abused and bullied by other kids and I reported about what they were doing to me, however nothing came of it. They didn't do anything about it either. The principal also had stuff against my family because of something my great grandma did, so I suppose that played a role as to nothing was done about the bullying or my friend. So, when we entered middle school, I had the mindset that the adult school authorities just didn't care enough to do anything about it. My friend was a part of a gang (the boys encouraging him were part of that gang) and whenever I stood up for myself (verbally or physically) all they did was laugh and continued doing it. By the time we got into middle school, I was living with my parents, but I still had the mindset I did while living with my grandma, despite my parents being loving, kind and understanding, so it did take me a while to open up. He also stopped touching me once he left the gang he was a part of and actually became a better person, in the sense he no longer touched women without their consent, not in the sense that he gaslit me constantly.
@azazellon 3 жыл бұрын
@@VirginiaDowdy777821 that sounds like peer pressure to me, I could be wrong though. I'm so sorry that happened.
@tourmelion9221 3 жыл бұрын
@@VirginiaDowdy777821 ... Honey I don't think that's a close friend But just to be sure Tell them
@kinoky9685 3 жыл бұрын
A real friend would make you shut the fuck up [It's just a joke don't take it , I wanted to get it off my chest]
@saharasafari9 3 жыл бұрын
Red the Rose why’d you let it happen?🤨
@cklounge2096 3 жыл бұрын
“I honestly don’t see what you’re freaking out about” Ga... gaslight much?
@cklounge2096 3 жыл бұрын
@@702d02 it was mainly for comedic effect but yk, thanks for noticing
@french-ishtoast 3 жыл бұрын
@@702d02 that was unnecessarily rude, what the what It’s called a joke lol
@702d02 3 жыл бұрын
@@french-ishtoast well it was the unfunniest joke ever made
@1l9e9o4 3 жыл бұрын
@@702d02 you actually bothered to type all that out....what a loser
@papasscooperiaworker3649 3 жыл бұрын
@@702d02 It doesn't matter if it's unfunny to you. There's no reason to be a rude person over simply not having the same type of humour. How do you people not understand common sense? Seriously, It's fine if you don't find something funny, but don't start calling people "losers" just because they're not like you. You're bullying by calling people names, and that's not okay.
@xx_m-r-e_xx6333 10 ай бұрын
…rewatching this a few years later makes me wanna vomit. This is exactly word for word how my relationship with a best friend of mine was. Even the final hang out and him being weird. Only difference is I didn’t stand up for myself. I endured it until I went home and the next day talked to my counselor. Proud to say I blocked him right after sending a long text letting him know just how awful of a person he was and how he made me feel. Haven’t seen him since and I hope he’s somewhere rotting. Stay safe you guys💕 Feeling like this is not worth it for anybody at all.
@YellowCheese124 11 ай бұрын
I didn’t realize now but the game they were playing was called “betrayal” a nice touch of foreshadowing.
@Retrosteampunk 3 жыл бұрын
Bro should’ve confessed he liked her and when she hesitated or say no let it go and be friends. He ruined their friendship.
@JT5555 3 жыл бұрын
Bro Should Have Learned To Keep It In His Pants: He Did't Just Like Her,He Was A Flat Out Perv Trying To Hide His Creepiness With "Jokes". This Was't "I Like You More Than Just Friends",This Was "We've Known Each Other Long Enough That I Should Get Dibs On Fucking You".
@ciara7172 3 жыл бұрын
It wasn't like an innocent crush or whatever though. From what was shown it was a sexual desire and he was disrespectful creep.
@notluke9059 3 жыл бұрын
Just because you want to have sex with someone you can't confess them, love isn't just about sex that's not how love works
@theonpointheavy4401 3 жыл бұрын
@@notluke9059 I agree with that, but I don't think everyone will, some believe sex is the ultimate demonstration of love.
@subpoena. 3 жыл бұрын
issa fictional story homie
@deedssattle1251 3 жыл бұрын
69: exist Everyone: everything is coming together-
@meowforcats6694 3 жыл бұрын
Now erupting in terror, it’s glowing forever, the terrors rising!
@abandonedaccountlol2506 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats on 696 likes fam
@Notsofunnyman217 3 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah it's all coming together
@apsolutellynoone4705 3 жыл бұрын
He is 69 old ;0
@ligmanuts803 3 жыл бұрын
Glitchtrap wants to know your location
@purvisutrave3200 21 күн бұрын
This happened to me a few days ago. I am 13 years old and my guy best friend, made me uncomfortable and tried to touch and kiss me. I felt like crying because he wanted to take it too far. Thankfully, I told my mom about it, and she really supported me. He apologized to me, saying that he was a weirdo and feels bad about it. I forgave him, but I am not going to talk to him anymore. Girls who are in their teens should be extra careful and there is nothing wrong in voicing out your feelings and breaking friendship with someone who makes you feel unsafe and uncomfortable. Friends are supposed to respect your decisions, not take advantage of you. This video really helped me out!!
@_SuperProS_F.A 7 ай бұрын
you can never trust a guy that has a discord username ending with 69
@ZelinaPlayz 5 ай бұрын
😂
@milkshakedolly 28 күн бұрын
why?? sorry if this is a dumb question
@peenutsbr 16 күн бұрын
@@milkshakedolly becuase 69 is funny sex number and nothing else
@Skull_the_skellyton 10 күн бұрын
@@milkshakedolly intercourse implications
@bi-myself7628 3 жыл бұрын
They need to put this stuff in schools instead of the cringy stuff no one ever relates to
@twiw5207 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@lauriex8832 3 жыл бұрын
I sAw YoUr WiLlY
@surreal-riley 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah they could put this in schools but after maybe two years of showing this it’ll become cringy just like every other Video they show.
@lizcastaneda1047 3 жыл бұрын
thissss
@nymeria4623 3 жыл бұрын
@@lauriex8832 LMAO
@onionskin246 3 жыл бұрын
did anyone notice the game they were playing is called “betrayal”, and andrew literally betrayed her.
@mercedesladouceur3460 3 жыл бұрын
Which is quite ironic, if you think about it.
@purpleperson7514 3 жыл бұрын
And it said Game Over when she walked out
@williamkeeth9559 3 жыл бұрын
She even looked like the game mascot
@foridaparvin334 3 жыл бұрын
He literally has "Andrew" with "69"
@xyvgamer2411 3 жыл бұрын
REALLLLLY, THANKS GENIUS
@classicxlolita Жыл бұрын
This is important. Especially for survivors… As someone who said no and still got violated I need to see more examples of when it works because once you have an encounter like that… it makes you want to give up.
@Claycollar19 5 ай бұрын
I ABSOLUTELY love how all the stories are intertwined!❤
@Tipsy_Turby 3 жыл бұрын
This should be taught in schools. People get away with sexual abuse in school way to often, they need to teach things like this to students instead of being upset if your dress is to short.
@jennyisa_moa 3 жыл бұрын
My school actually taught about sexual abuse
@1sabe11a-N 3 жыл бұрын
If I was a health/sex ed teacher I would definitely show this
@comradedyatlov4143 3 жыл бұрын
A girl got raped in the bathroom last year and it sickens me how the school doesn't even mention it or talk about what to do
@Loaflie 3 жыл бұрын
@@comradedyatlov4143 Wow, that's awful, I hope she's okay
@glitch_extras3760 3 жыл бұрын
IKR!!
@rafputin4659 3 жыл бұрын
If you like the girl, you confess not sexually abuse 'em, Respekt to GIRLS
@Gigachad-kb1pp 3 жыл бұрын
Damn thats crazy bro But did I ask
@eatcheese7007 3 жыл бұрын
@@Gigachad-kb1pp This is a public comment section. You never had to
@quatreunhuit 3 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@noodlethedoodle6174 3 жыл бұрын
respect waman
@noodlethedoodle6174 3 жыл бұрын
@Binary Icon Chris gerls
@dulaniranasinghe2098 Жыл бұрын
remember that sometimes most trusted people can turn against you, to keep your distance and to remember that you do not owe ANYONE your body
@K0ira Жыл бұрын
3:35 Oh my, this is…this is exactly how it was for me. The only difference is that I was way younger and didn’t understand the meaning of what sex or consent even was. I just figured it was what friends did, I have to accept it to remain friends, and it meant we were really close. That behavior led to the same thing happening with two separate people later down my life.
@m00bami8 3 жыл бұрын
my face went "HELL NO" when he made that joke in beginning
@m00bami8 3 жыл бұрын
@@reeetawd k
@yami2114 3 жыл бұрын
@@reeetawd are you okay LMAO
@iimoonytoony7879 3 жыл бұрын
@@reeetawd What’s your damage?
@reeetawd 3 жыл бұрын
@@iimoonytoony7879 I'm based
@classified7619 3 жыл бұрын
It was a whole level of weird
@veronicalodgesawyer3099 4 жыл бұрын
Man that hit a lot too close to home So apparently I made this comment over a year ago. To explain, I was exposed by a guy who I thought was my friend when I was 16 going on 17, he was 19, knew him for about a year and a half. I was already going through crap, and we were video chatting. That Monday, my friends told me my pic (that I didn't even know he took) was going around in the period before. After that, I had a depressive episode for about two months. My main regret was not seeing the signs and not asking for help instead of just venting. There were times when we'd talk on the phone and he said or showed something that made me uncomfortable, with our mutual friends laughing the background because they thought I was fine with it. I wasn't. He got mad when I called him a creep, and I didn't want to lose a "friend", so I tried to joke along. Please, try to speak up for yourselves. And if your "friend" gets mad at you for having boundaries, they are not your friend. Cut them out however you can. Also, it can hurt, believe me. But with time and support, it can be easier to bear. Lean on those who love you.
@gewritez9906 3 жыл бұрын
This hits a little bit too close to home for me too
@victoire7974 3 жыл бұрын
Aw I’m sorry, I send you virtual hugs🥺 (⊃｡•́ ᴗ •̀｡)⊃💕💕
@OrionVaritasIrene 3 жыл бұрын
Kassy1023 Same.
@djtundra8011 3 жыл бұрын
It legit does. Granted I only knew them for a year. But after a night of drinking with friends I woke up to them groping my leg and then like trying to finger me....
@saltytae 3 жыл бұрын
are you doing okay? :(
@Melody____434 11 ай бұрын
I just realized I was in this exact situation and I’m so sorry for anyone else that also experienced this ❤
@An_idiotic_wanna_be_scene_fur Ай бұрын
As they always say, “never be afraid to say no and don’t always think everyone sees you the same”
@asdfghjkl7840 3 жыл бұрын
like that one quote from Coraline, “not everyone who’s nice to you will have good intentions towards you”
@Turboman-kx7cc 3 жыл бұрын
That’s nothing new
@comrad4621 3 жыл бұрын
Humans are unpredictable as fuck.
@lauriex8832 3 жыл бұрын
Amen to that, Coraline.
@rattlingduck8454 3 жыл бұрын
dam
@telmalemus5515 3 жыл бұрын
Then they are not nice
@sameolecreole 3 жыл бұрын
Just remember kids, if somebody touches you somewhere you don’t like. First, say “No.” Then, ya get outta there!
@sameolecreole 3 жыл бұрын
Olivia Blas-Gutierrez indeed.
@unknowndoowe 3 жыл бұрын
@Olivia Blas-Gutierrez that's no good
@reeetawd 3 жыл бұрын
And make sure you dont call yourself a victim for it. And especially dont tell anyone about it and ruin someone's life for no reason
@sofiapaiz5268 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t touch my no-no square
@mwakash2472 3 жыл бұрын
@@reeetawd Terrible advice you should always talk to someone
@onetuxedocat Жыл бұрын
Here's my story with a situation similar to this -- you are not alone guys!! There was this one male friend I knew in school. He was nice, extraverted, friendly, and we would always joke around in class. I felt especially more comfortable around him because I was a bit more introverted, and he knew how to make conversations flow and be funny. One day, we had that class after lunch, and I brought a banana with me to class. This day he was acting so weird, something I've never seen from him before. All of his jokes were really sexual and I was feeling uncomfortable, but I was laughing anyway because I felt I would make it weird if I didn't. He took my banana and put it in his lap and was fake masturbating with it under the classroom table while looking at me (in my school, the classroom had one oval table all the students would sit around). He kept asking me to look at him when he was doing it. Anytime I looked away, he would stop doing it, and would ask me to look again at his lap under the table to him fake jacking-off. I continued fake laughing because I felt uncomfortable. After him doing this multiple times, I said in a half-joking, half-serious way, "You are being weird". But he responded by saying, "Am I?" in an amusing tone and kept doing it. Then he look the banana and rubbed it against my upper thigh under the table. I immediately stopped him and put the banana on top of the table. Because I was really uncomfortable, I laughed even harder and buried my hands in my face. This caught the attention of the teacher (who by the way was teaching the entire time this was going on). She asked "what's going on over there?" and he just responded, "(my name)'s banana". At the time, I blamed myself for this happening because I was laughing at it like I was inviting him to do it. In reality, a man should know boundaries and you are NEVER to blame. You are not weird or a buzzkill for speaking up when you feel uncomfortable! Let's love ourselves and give ourselves the respect we deserve!!! love you guys
@jazlynestrella540 Жыл бұрын
Laura you did the right thing telling Andrew that you are best friends and that he should never abuse you if his parents found out what he was doing to you he would be grounded for a month ❤
@hihihi_813 3 жыл бұрын
Andrew69, how fitting for his personality
@aestheticidiot3742 3 жыл бұрын
*69* 😏
@exh_77 3 жыл бұрын
i would use that username lmfao.. elham69
@Xigisigalekh 3 жыл бұрын
*69*
@freiaoaks446 3 жыл бұрын
Yes,so fitting-
@egg_mc_muffins 3 жыл бұрын
Make it Gay stfu
@gardenoffaith_6983 3 жыл бұрын
He’s worth losing, girl. If someone like that can’t recognise their own wrongs, LET THEM GO!!
@aerianas 3 жыл бұрын
periodt
@gardenoffaith_6983 3 жыл бұрын
ggukz. Fellow Jungkooker I see😌
@aerianas 3 жыл бұрын
@@gardenoffaith_6983 yes 😼👍
@dtb__ 3 жыл бұрын
Stfu Bts fan girl.
@PokiDoki- 3 жыл бұрын
Ayaan Naseem shut up dude
@marilizediedericks6310 5 ай бұрын
I just discovered this channel, and I've already watched so many of the videos. I wish I had seen these when I was 18.. it would have spared me so much abuse. Thank you for making these, I'm sure they are changing other's lives
@juniorgates5762 Жыл бұрын
I'm 26 and I still go through abuse. Because of that, I keep people away from me at all times. I let my parents know as well. I keep my abuser far away from me
@user-wk1lw6mn1x 3 жыл бұрын
"Friends can't be friendly?" SIR YOU ARE TOUCHING HER AND SHE WAS VISUALLY UPSET-
@user-vk7kb9nr5m 2 жыл бұрын
This is disgusting to say that its true. Not your comment but how he is treating her. It’s disgusting
@ElFlores1984 2 жыл бұрын
Maam its just an animation
@dominique5631 2 жыл бұрын
@@ElFlores1984 Sir, it's to show that shit like this happens far too often
@crawlythespider2255 2 жыл бұрын
@@ElFlores1984 sir it's a serious problem that you stepped on
@taleseylad1249 2 жыл бұрын
there's a difference between intimacy and friendniless
@cheesestickhathreturned6875 3 жыл бұрын
“Andrew69” *of course*
@joshuarulezdawurld 3 жыл бұрын
*it's so obvious*
@gahyeonsupremacy 3 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@YourAverageNormalHumanBeing 3 жыл бұрын
*6 9*
@summeranderson2235 3 жыл бұрын
What does that mean?
@angiekawaii4747 3 жыл бұрын
@@summeranderson2235 You just don't wanna know it
@GODSAVETHEQUEENTHEFACISTREGIME 11 ай бұрын
his face in this scene makes me so uncomfortable. It gives me goosebumps. 4:11
@mochi_inu 18 күн бұрын
It's so sad how many people go through sexual abuse and can't ever speak up about it. It's a good thing that this channel helps people to speak up about it.
@21sara.o 3 жыл бұрын
he’s a typical “nice guy” who thinks because he is nice to a girl she owes him a relationship. just gross
@StudioUAC 3 жыл бұрын
Why didn't the guy try to you know start dating her and start a relationship first
@hakkonn8273 3 жыл бұрын
@@StudioUAC nah, he should have ask for a date and if she rejects him (cause she would play the "you are not my type" card or "I don't think of you in that way" card) he should vanish from he life as fast as possible.
@chairchior1745 3 жыл бұрын
@@hakkonn8273 why??
@lewisblakley8288 3 жыл бұрын
I really don't understand dudes now a days. All the nice ones are gay... Wait a second... I'm gay well good luck you guys.
@chairchior1745 3 жыл бұрын
@@lewisblakley8288 what does that have tp do with anything bro..?
@xsxxnx4026 3 жыл бұрын
Idk why these are so addictive to watch
@alph4stuff 3 жыл бұрын
It's because it's more realistic and well-done than most PSA animations
@thequeertelope7941 3 жыл бұрын
its really well done and ikr
@annechovy63 3 жыл бұрын
ikr i've watched almost every video
@Deeznutz-bx1pf 3 жыл бұрын
Ong
@tinyalternate 3 жыл бұрын
FR
@shroomcow 5 ай бұрын
I just love how they're all in the same universe like that one from that one video is still getting groomed by an adult in the background(because they never resolved that toxic relationship or this video was happening during that story) That's why I love this channel: they spread awareness and have several stories going at the same time.
@astroxies9487 2 ай бұрын
I love how all the stories and videos are connected with hints as well.
@khristinsingh4226 Күн бұрын
Like how clay is in the background
@JoshuaFishIndeed 3 жыл бұрын
As an animator, I clicked this expecting a cheesey, overly-dramatic PSA, but this was actually really well done. The storytelling (even the fourth-wall break) feels realistic/natural, and the animation and art style is pro-level. I hope teens get to watch stuff like this in schools. Great message executed in a professional and interesting way. 10/10
@YourBoiWhis 3 жыл бұрын
It’s as if they know what they are doing and strive to put out quality content
@JoshuaFishIndeed 3 жыл бұрын
@@YourBoiWhis I know, right! lol It's refreshing to see!!!
@dana-lc7uz 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr this is so satisfying to watch
@lapplandkun9273 3 жыл бұрын
I remember seeing my schools PSAs that were overly cringe and bad acting. One was based on suicide that a friend forced a student to get help instead of talking to them before actually attempt to get help. You don't force a suicidal person to get help. Dear lord, it was awful.
@jotahsbopas8569 3 жыл бұрын
It kinda still lol I mean she friends a kid in her school that has the Dis name Andrew69 🤦♂️.
@gwen8290 3 жыл бұрын
what r they even talking abt y’all 👀
@shxrks07 3 жыл бұрын
And Peggy yEs
@urfavcatlover69 3 жыл бұрын
Nah lets play Ourcraft
@slimyslimegod8576 3 жыл бұрын
Naawww im a prive g kinda guy
@lex6081 3 жыл бұрын
Lol I remember one time, I accidentally touch someone while dancing and she got really mad and I tried to explain but she just left and I just sat there like: 👁👄👁
@sciegion1040 3 жыл бұрын
Let's do histri
@robloxnoobz69 Жыл бұрын
"Best friends" don't do that to each other. If your "best friend" is doing this type of stuff to you, speak up!! Just because your friends does not mean they can touch you in any way that makes you uncomfortable!
@DrVectrex Жыл бұрын
I hate how close to home this actually hits. Haven't been on either side myself but i did have some close to me go through it. Definitely not my favorite conversation with them though i am still thankful we got to have it. Just remember, you don't owe anybody anything, honest communication with each other is important and when someone says no, it means no. No if, ands or buts. And never be afraid to reach out 💙
@vexthebest69 3 жыл бұрын
I’m not abused but these keep getting recommended to me
@rungyu 3 жыл бұрын
perhaps the world is giving you a sign
@kimoimoi 3 жыл бұрын
im asking the same thing-
@iluvmyscissorss 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@okcoemss 3 жыл бұрын
Same as well
@quack2255 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@Tenshii_Artii 3 жыл бұрын
Oh Damn, it's that creepy teacher at 2:25 that was trying to get with Emilia's friend.
@thequeertelope7941 3 жыл бұрын
omg youre right
@f0na279 3 жыл бұрын
we have lore
@_.ana._. 3 жыл бұрын
Omg easter egg
@shampooeater4111 3 жыл бұрын
lol i remember that
@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198 3 жыл бұрын
Ooooh I remember!
@jasonsandifer3250 Жыл бұрын
If a woman doesn’t want to If a woman doesn’t want to be in a relationship If a woman doesn’t want to be in a sexual relationship If a woman doesn’t want to be kissed If a woman doesn’t want to be touched wrongly If a woman doesn’t want to be bothered by anyone If a woman doesn’t want to She should not have too The Woman should NOT be forced or beaten or treated like trash, or killed just because she doesn’t want to. Author Advocate for Humanity, Jason Sandifer, 4/25/2022, 5/07/2022, 6/12/2023
@user-ei8yp2km5r 18 күн бұрын
Had the same situation with my ex. But instead of apologies there were accusations and gas lighting. So never hesitate to throw away such toxic people from your life
@mentalbreakdown4114 4 жыл бұрын
Stop! Don't touch me there! This is my no-no-sqare!
@nicestick3407 4 жыл бұрын
Ok
@salsadog1606 4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@azaleanelson5615 3 жыл бұрын
illymation?
@wolfiepiper4684 3 жыл бұрын
No no don’t touch me there this is my no no square!!
@cheesestickhathreturned6875 3 жыл бұрын
lmaoo
@THCdonuts 3 жыл бұрын
I always tell my grand children “don’t trust people who are to nice”
@finchfungus 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Mr Stan
@ohgodpleaseno7374 3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@latte431 3 жыл бұрын
I saw tell as well shoot
@sofiapaiz5268 3 жыл бұрын
Yup me too
@adriaunaa5745 3 жыл бұрын
so i’m supposed to be mean?
@millieandmason48264 3 ай бұрын
The name andrew69 is akready concerning at best and the sexual jokes Which is disgusting that people actually do this, this channel provides great animations and lessons About sexual abuse/assault, keep up the great work! This needs to be spreaded more and recognized.
@angieisadork Жыл бұрын
I love how all of these stories are intertwined.
@saritasavage6439 4 жыл бұрын
You owe him nothing just because you guys of been friends for years that doesn’t meanYou all him you owe him nothing
@razrdemonic 3 жыл бұрын
Its fake
@ThemanthelegendKenny 3 жыл бұрын
Razr ASMR yea but it can totally happen in real life
@othellobarker1291 3 жыл бұрын
with friends you should never owe each other just help each other because your friends. But if the call for help something that's a border you don't want to cross and is making you uncomfortable think about how it could effect you and if it can hurt you. To determine whether or not you want to or not.
@GoldFittyCal 3 жыл бұрын
Andrew69 lel
@kingdj2343 25 күн бұрын
@@othellobarker1291I really don't believe men and women should ever be buddies. Friend yes but not buddies. It never workout.
@Obi-Wan_Kenobi 3 жыл бұрын
Andrew actually felt guilty at the end there, I think there's hope for him yet. Changing his name to Andrew68 would be a pretty good start.
@Mimirules21 3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t have hope on him. If i were you. If he did feel guilty. He would have accepted her saying no from the start.
@grassblock7668 3 жыл бұрын
Hello There. It's the third time I find you under a YT video in a day,general
@valentiapauwels 2 жыл бұрын
PFFFF 🤣
@o-ruff1483 2 жыл бұрын
ahaha
@H0SANNA 2 жыл бұрын
Andrew68 😂
@polishane8837 5 ай бұрын
This is so much better than anything shown in schools
@Diisyplayzz Жыл бұрын
as a person who kind of went through this I can relate, but this is something that people definitely be careful with when it comes to close friends or even family.
@ikhotivus 4 жыл бұрын
“Jon-a-than” What a perfect username
@kiyotakaishimaru2620 4 жыл бұрын
*Trish with a mask*
@ikhotivus 4 жыл бұрын
kiyotaka ishimaru yes Trish with a mask
@leackbrick 3 жыл бұрын
KOCCHI WO MIRO
@arthana8127 3 жыл бұрын
JOJO?! WHERE?!
@ikhotivus 3 жыл бұрын
Kono DIO XD JOJO IS NOT HERE!
@garfielffan6954 3 жыл бұрын
This video sends a really great message, but there’s another thing it needs to talk about. Sometimes the abusers won’t say sorry. They’ll get more aggressive and might hurt/force something onto you. If you’re feeling unsafe, bring something you can defend yourself with just in case. Please stay safe everyone
@ace6798 3 жыл бұрын
Lettuce Bouquet omg thye should talk about it
@MarialaSophia 3 жыл бұрын
angel they really should. It doesn’t always end up the same way as the clip
@SDALLE99 3 жыл бұрын
Andrew is probably one of those fat ugly incel. Because if he wasn’t she would’ve jump into his arms. And so would I. And so would you. Let’s be honest, if the guy was hot enough, it’s not assault, it’s rough foreplay ;)
@xxsophixezxx4064 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you u too! I'm a girl and is 9 please stay safe from this and if it happens tell an adult friend or ANYBODY DONT be afraid of those sick people and help other that is happening to them too
@izzybzzydorkp568 3 жыл бұрын
@@SDALLE99 she sees him only as a friend and he wants more his looks doesn't change anything
@justnem5981 Жыл бұрын
I love how well made these are. You can even see other sa stories in the background, love that:)
@stephenrose8300 10 ай бұрын
I used to feel troubled when I thought I was a nice guy but that term has a negative response. I decided that I am not a nice guy but trying to be a good guy. A nice guy does something in hopes of getting something in return. A Good guy tries to do something nice because it is the right thing to do.
@peterpumpkineater6979 3 жыл бұрын
They should show this in schools instead of *I SAW YA WILLY* Edit: stop liking this comment One more like and i will commit half life 2
@ainulizzsyahmi969 3 жыл бұрын
Bro that video didnt teach us much
@peterpumpkineater6979 3 жыл бұрын
@@ainulizzsyahmi969 adfgs
@snowleopard3532 3 жыл бұрын
Omg I saw that one too 💀 poor kid
@earthwormplayz330 3 жыл бұрын
Omg that was shown at are school so many times I couldn’t help but laugh 💀💀
@hedgy5129 3 жыл бұрын
Lol if I was a teacher and they tell me to show that I would show this instead
@meaux7274 3 жыл бұрын
I like how you teach people to say “no” instead of victim blaming.
@heavyweaponsguy6284 3 жыл бұрын
Isint this video kind of blaming males for every instance of abuse though?
@Luna-nw4tk 3 жыл бұрын
@@heavyweaponsguy6284 They are using the most common example of a Man abusing (or attempting to) a Woman. You can still identify the signs shown in the video though and it applies for everyone.
@bubblvapor5783 3 жыл бұрын
@@heavyweaponsguy6284 no there’s literally one with a female abuser
@nat-oi2fh 3 жыл бұрын
@@heavyweaponsguy6284 they have a video of a woman being a groomer
@heavyweaponsguy6284 3 жыл бұрын
@@nat-oi2fh Link?
@Itsss.Not.Laylah4829 Жыл бұрын
dude, I love how you can see other stories intertwine with each other like you
@mr.sophistication2461 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. I owe no one any affection. I owe no one any empathy, feelings, or care. So why is it expected of me and everyone else? It thoroughly disgusts me.
@alecryankevinbryanrjdelila7334 3 жыл бұрын
lol i blame tiktok for those kissing best friend challenges.
@majora_03 3 жыл бұрын
Lel yea
@zarrowthehorse 3 жыл бұрын
nobody cares that you hate tik tok
@majora_03 3 жыл бұрын
zarrowthenorse nobody said they hate tiktok now did they?
@cinemactsvr1416 3 жыл бұрын
I don't agree, but I respect your opinion
@Anquevious 3 жыл бұрын
zarrowthenorse ok pokimaine simp
@jeejung9818 3 жыл бұрын
the type of guys who always leave a 'you can't take a joke' vibe
@oneandonlycad 2 жыл бұрын
AND HE LOOKS LIKE A 47 YEAR CHILD (meaning he’s the oldest 11 year old I’ve ever seen)
@yourcrush4889 2 жыл бұрын
And probably call someone who got offended a "snowflake"
@birdhousewatch3322 2 жыл бұрын
@@yourcrush4889 Terms like snowflake and Karen are so overused
@ashleypisarts 2 жыл бұрын
@@birdhousewatch3322 It’s a nice way to describe him tho
@agnus_sunga 2 жыл бұрын
@@oneandonlycad I don’t think he’s supposed to be 11
@brichumlb 7 ай бұрын
1:04 OMG, SO RELIABLE. I've never been sexually abused, but my last year stalker , who used to be my friend, used to say lots of sexual jokes of him and me involved. I'm so happy that I was able to quit him out of my life before something like SH happened.
@Mal2008 Жыл бұрын
I wish I had seen this before my assault. Thank you so much for creating this. PLEASE get this out there to kids who are told no is not a choice.
@MisterLiker 3 жыл бұрын
KZfaqrs: Sexual abuse, Beef, Drama, etc. KZfaq: "It is dangerous to go alone. Take this!"
@astrobeans1807 3 жыл бұрын
*pull out semi automatic glock with Acogg shotgun grip and flash hider*
@slowkape 3 жыл бұрын
@@astrobeans1807 tbh i would do that
@astrobeans1807 3 жыл бұрын
@@slowkape Snubbed nose semi automatic glock with Acog shotgun grip 100 round magazine aheago camo knife attached and a flash hider
@sm1purplmurderedme583 3 жыл бұрын
what?
@justamberish 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks KZfaq
@ESCL2004 2 жыл бұрын
Andrew is the classic example of a "nice guy". Shows kindness and expects sex in return, is "being friendly", thinks you owe him your body without regards of *your* feelings.
@ellie8784 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@babygirleriss_ Жыл бұрын
💯💯
@cosmicreef5858 Жыл бұрын
That is just some straight up psycho stuff.
@Portugalisbased Жыл бұрын
well i respect your opinion but in my opinion andrew tate doesn't care about sex or kindness, he just wants to stop the rising growth of the power of women and reach total stability.
@elijahlmaooo222 Жыл бұрын
@@Portugalisbased where the hell did Andrew Tate come from? the guy in the video is named Andrew 😭
@SahraMinaYTB 11 ай бұрын
You Teaching People So Much Things ! ❤
@fridge.2785 Ай бұрын
Knowing that there’s situations like this that happen and don’t get a happy ending like this breaks my heart. Im a guy, and I have more female friends than male friends. And it’s people like Andrew in this video that make me second guess myself when wanting to comfort them. People like that are the reason why when someone’s said I try to comfort them without touching them because I don’t want to be called or even related to that. I always ask if they want or need a hug before I do that. Boys be nice to your female friends and don’t do that crap where you make sexual jokes about them
@yespapa8102 3 жыл бұрын
“Just say no” Guys I think we solved all crime
@SPARKLYDEATHCAT 3 жыл бұрын
finally c crime is defeated
@bubblegumgun3292 3 жыл бұрын
just say no to taxes bois , taxation is theft, which is just as immoral as r*pe
@usersnoone 3 жыл бұрын
no be soundin like yes to animals tho
@kamattori 3 жыл бұрын
we did it boys, crime is no more
@thefourchaoticidiots9737 3 жыл бұрын
yes
@BearFingerz 3 жыл бұрын
Let's be honest Their usernames are a red flag itself
@Amelia__emo 3 жыл бұрын
True dat
@Sharkpop0 3 жыл бұрын
from experience with a creepy fella i can say that the name andrew chose was weird nobody i know who aint creepo has a user like that
@giganfan1everyoneelse451 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah...
@scp049leplaguedocter3 3 жыл бұрын
I dod
@OsirisFromScandinavia 3 жыл бұрын
u just said every 7yo edge lord on cod name is a red flag
@anondeilvers91 2 ай бұрын
Oh god theses videos make my stomach knot up really bad. I'm really glad they exist though. Wish theses were in school when I was in.
@cheeseandswissproductions.5234 Жыл бұрын
Showed this to my uncle Larry, he said we should demonstrate this so if I do experience it in the future, I would know. Thanks uncle Larry!
@xquenda275 3 жыл бұрын
Can we appreciate that the characters all live in the same universe
@ecoagito7242 2 жыл бұрын
These animations are genius and the scripts are perfect.
@Nat-fz4yv 2 жыл бұрын
@@ecoagito7242 DUDE ITS SO REALISTIC TOO
@funisinfinite. 2 жыл бұрын
Really shows how our world is like. All this... It happens way to often.
@spydersoup8447 Жыл бұрын
Or rather, they all live in the same suburb town and go to the same school.
@ridleyplays766 Жыл бұрын
Fcacu (Fight Child Abuse Cinematic Universe)
@bodaciousdoggo8971 3 жыл бұрын
Kinda sad behavior like this is kinda normalized especially on the internet and the idea of “becoming a woman’s friend=sex” is horrible
@ZackSantiago 3 жыл бұрын
I am insanely sorry, but the out of context “becoming a womans friend=sex” made me chuckle
@nobodyv9983 3 жыл бұрын
@JHeints - bro wtf, it's like you are saying women have nothing more than sex on them
@user-gz5qc7oh2s 3 жыл бұрын
@@nobodyv9983 he is just trolling. But he told little bit true. It's almost impossible to have good friendship with girl if you're boy. One day you or she will crush. What you gonna do? Right, this is when friend zone starts.
@nobodyv9983 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-gz5qc7oh2s i have had plenty of friends of the other gender, some ended as you said. But a lot of them stayed as just friends with no attraction whatsoever. The point is that people doesn't draw the line or comunicate on time their desires. You cannot avoid you liking them but dont pretend like theres no way to have friends of the opposite gender.
@user-gz5qc7oh2s 3 жыл бұрын
@@fionar9468 lol, so aggressive, I won't tolerant such aggression. So, fuck you
@-AngelKiity- Жыл бұрын
Touching somebody without their permission is like stealing something, You are not allowed to lay a finger on something you don't own. And nobody owns anybody.
@nesswhopees Жыл бұрын
I'm so in love with the animation art style of this series.
@cheesegur 3 жыл бұрын
If you ever feel uncomfortable in a situation, _NEVER_ ignore that feeling. *TRY* to get out of there quickly.
@mzflighter6905 3 жыл бұрын
I'd kinda disagree. You don't fell awkward only when it somes to being abused. You sometimes can feel uncomfortable becouse someone smells bad, says some cringy shit or something. It doesn't mean you have to get the fuck out.
@cheesegur 3 жыл бұрын
@@mzflighter6905 when I mean uncomfortable, I mean if someone is touching you or saying curd things to you. That kind of situation, you should either tell them to stop or try to get out the situation quickly.
@cheesegur 3 жыл бұрын
@@mzflighter6905 that's what I'm talking about lol ;/
@joltyflare Жыл бұрын
@@mzflighter6905 I have social anxiety and general anxiety. Lmao I'm ALWAYS uncomfortable
@djtundra8011 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t be the only one thinking that I like the animation art right?
@anastasiacook5768 3 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing
@ohmygod5677 3 жыл бұрын
It's definitely professional
@IHateMyChanneI 3 жыл бұрын
I love the animation, That's why I'm watching these again. They should show these in schools.
@inkedrays7744 3 жыл бұрын
3DEMON AGREED!!!!! The animation is beautiful, this would be perfect to be shown in a health/personal development class when they talk about domestic and dating violence
@angelofchaos8233 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly I agree I'm 2 old 2 be watching these. but the animator in me is impressed on how these videos look.
@MARSHY4 2 ай бұрын
I proud how she stood up for her self and stopped him I wish in the future people will tech kids this
@bubbles7027 Жыл бұрын
My smile went ear to ear when she stood up for herself 🥲