“Remember kids, if someone touches you somewhere or someway that makes you uncomfortable, that’s no good!” -Sonic

The fact that he said “ your no fun “ made me so MAD. He knows what he’s doing .

I'm a kid, and I'm glad I've found videos like this. I want to stay safe. Thank you, whoever created this channel.

The fact I started crying at the “no matter what the circumstance no matter how long it’s been happening it’s never to late to stop it.” I was abused and witnessed abuse by and from my father when I was still just a baby up to about 12 (I’m 13 now , don’t know how long this will go on for..) I don’t live with or visit him anymore and I never really opened up to anyone about it.. But , after being recently diagnosed with autism by this kind doctor who also listens to others with similar stories like mine and having a strong feeling that I can trust her…I might tell her what’s happened in my childhood. Wish me luck

It doesn't have to be an adult, it could be a sibling cousin, or peer.

"I didn't want to get him in trouble I just wanted things to be normal". That's exactly how an felt

To all the people who were sexually abused: Im sooooo sorry this happened to you and you are all in my prayers. You didn't deserve this horrible treatment. God bless! ❤

this entire video explains my experience except with my dad. my whole life my dad had been sexually assaulting me and i had no idea it was wrong since i was so use to it. until i got a little older and started puberty, i started to not see my dad as much anymore because of some drama and he was affecting my mental health, that’s when i started realised the things he would do to me wasn’t normal but i still let it happen and then i started seeing him more because he would manipulate me into seeing him and that’s when it started getting worse. recently i had finally opened up about it to my mum and she told me that was not okay and i we have to do something about it, my mum told me about how she was sexually assaulted her whole childhood as well and she knows how it feels and she wants to help me recover. i made the choice of blocking my dad and not seeing him, my mum wanted me to talk to my psychologist about all of this but at that time i couldn’t talk to her because she was away so that’s when i spoke to my school councillor and she called the police station and told them what i said so they called me and my mum and they are making it a case but it’s going to be a very long process since i have to remember everything which i physically can’t remember most of my childhood because of my dad so i’m going to get my mental health back on track and then i will talk to the cops about everything so i can get justice. and i feel much comfortable now but traumatised and guilty how i just let him do that to me and manipulate me my whole childhood. it’s been almost 2 months since i last saw him and it’s a whole heap of emotions.

Once she said, “I didn’t want to get him in trouble,” I started crying. That hit close to home.

I like how the Mom noticed by her tone that something was up. Respect.

I am so so sorry for anyone that has to go through this kind of stuff. Just remember that it's never your fault.

a strict parent is better than a creepy relative.

Sexual abuse is NEVER the victim’s fault. It is never, EVER your fault for being abused.

I LOVE HOW WHEN SHE REALIZED, SHE TOOK OFF THE GREEN BRACELET.

I’m pregnant with my first baby, definitely showing him these videos when he’s of age

I love that it shows that they don't always make you feel like you're nothing, sometimes they make you feel like _everything._

"He talked about sex a lot and my body." *ALARM SOUNDS*🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

I was sexually abused by my uncle and I told my family, my aunt wanted nothing to do with me and I wasn't allowed to see my cousins. My family didn't support me. About 5 years later I found out he was doing it to my sister. Now my parents finally wanna listen to me and now there is so much going on and I feel so alone.

As someone who never been treated nice, I feel better now, thanks therapist

I leterally love this channel, it teaches me everything about abuse. I'm a 6th grader, so I'm really young, and this channel teaches me how to protect myself from abuse. Thanks.

What schools SHOULD teach: What schools ACTUALLY teach: "If Billy had 763 apples and Nayoung had 980 lemons, what is Sofia's shoe size?"

When i told my mom how grandpa touched me, she was the one to break down because he did it to her as well and she thought that he would draw the line at his grandkids. I cant wait to see his funeral.

I don't know how society will judge because being a boy , society pictures you as a abuser not a victim. But , Back in few years - I was sexually abused by one of my female friend that I haven't share with the world. I JUST WANT TO FORGET THOSE HORRIFYING MEMORIES BUT they are not letting me do so.

I think the worst thing about this type of situation is how it's handled. Our system tends to do one of two things; either shrug it off and say "there's nothing we can do", or aggressively/maliciously go after the person in question. Anyone suffering from sexual or any abuse needs support first and foremost. The most important thing is to help them resolve the issue so they can regain confidence in themselves. It's not always a case of rape and thus lets crusify them, but it can be something as simple as making inappropriate sexual comments. In that case, a stern talking to might fix the problem. If not, then you take further action such as taking more precaution around that person.

"You're not fun" No, I'm just not comfortable with you.

i’m a boy and i have experienced the same thing. i was at 9th grade, when one of my uncle did the same thing to me and i felt really uncomfortable and insecure about myself. next day, i told to my mom about this and she was like so mad at me. telling that i shouldn’t walk like a girl, that’s why i’m getting attacked. and what made me feel so upset is that my mom said that she was embarrassed to have a son like me. if you’re a guy or girl and experienced these, it’s not your problem. i’m giving y’all love and strength. you’re not alone ❤️

it hurts the worst when the “adult you trust” don’t even listen or believe you😒 learned that the hard way and never told another soul after that until 3 years later.

I have never been sexually abused, thankfully. But I know people who have, and I am so proud of them for not only surviving, but overcoming it and becoming stronger people. No one and i mean no one has the right to touch you without your consent. It is your body and your life, defend it with your life. I know it is hard to stand up against this, but just know that the strength is in you and that you can do this. I and so many people believe in you even tho we do not know each other, and I hope this message at least can help one person.

Whe I told about my dad abusing me I was medicated for being “sick”

People who abuse others don’t deserve to live

This is such an important topic to talk about, I’m glad you guys post these videos! Hope some parents show this to their kids/teens

A well written and animated short film that deals with a sensitive subject in a clear and understandable way, this should be shown in every secondary school! 🙏

When she wanted to speak to her mother but started crying instead, i felt that. I do that too lol

literally most of the male figures in my family make me so uncomfy. i cant even wear a tank top or shorts without being uncomfortable i hate it here

Oh my god. This made me realize so many things. Thank you so much for this video.

It breaks my heart to know so many people go through this I hope you guys know its not your fault and you are truly very loved💗💗💗

This was hard to watch. This happened to me when I was just a child with a older cousin. He wanted to rape me but I got away and said something right away. My family brushed it off like nothing, and during holidays I was expected to pretend like it didn't happen. I forgave my cousin and actually feel sorry for him. Everyone shut him off because he got into drugs and steals and doesn't really have a home. But he made his own bed. Now he has to live with it.

When he said "a cute girl with curves", I said "bruh"

Thank you for making these videos for everyone it teaches us

It can come in a lot of ways and with any family member... It happened to me with my little brother (seven years younger) and I was 24... I was in denial at first. I was able to told my family a year later after asking my therapist to help me telling them what was happening... My two brothers believed me and didn't leave me alone I'm still haunted by the memories and even though I'm not in that house anymore I still have problems to sleep properly. It's never too late to ask for help, there's people out there who loves you and really cares about you ❤

“Age is just a number” *ah jeez. HERE WE GO AGIAN*

I mean this is a serious and important channel but unrelated, the art style for these cartoons is really pretty and fluid? Its just very visually appealing idk

I got sexually abused in foster care I’m glad I found a foster mom who really cares about me

This is productivity! This video will truly help me.

I’ve been told so many times it wasn’t sexual abuse because it was my mom doing it and not my dad. Women can also be sexual abusers, I don’t know why people can’t understand that. The point is I was a child and she was an adult. End of story.

The worst part is even if you tell, they sweep it under the rug and pretend everything's fine (I didn't mean to discourage any victims I was just sharing my experience with this)

Thanks for creating this kind of content. It will be so helpful!

This is so great and important! Love it! They need to show this stuff on TV and in schools, seriously! Can you guys make videos on emotional/psychological child abuse? That's what I survived, and I think it's just as important, if not more!

this NEEDS to be shown in schools. as someone who is a survivor of sexual harassment, i feel like this video would have helped me see it more easily edit: ok can people please stop taking pity on me? i already said im over it-

I work for a domestic violence agency and these videos have been very helpful to show clients. If you could make more videos about witnessing domestic violence I would greatly appreciate it.

it is also up to the adults to weed out the perverts in their family and keep them away from young girls and boys. my parents would tell me to stay away from certain uncles...especially if they were drunk, and they would literally create a barrier as well.

As someone who has been through this, I could empathize with this…It’s never too late to say what happened, there will be a light to shine in the dark.

my brother sexually abused me multiple times when i was 7-9 years old. i didn't wanna tell my mother because my aunts ex boyfriend did the same thing to me around the same age. when i told my mom she just brushed it off. she told me to "hide behind the shed" whenever he visited our garden. the things that my brother did to me still plague me to this day as he visits us every other day of the week. i have to hear his voice and look at his face and it's hurting me. i'm lucky to have friends that distract me with phone calls and texts whenever he's around. i really love and cherish them

Why doesn’t school show this instead of I s a w y o u r w i l l y?

This is a very educational video and hit almost all the marks, on what sexual abuse can look like. I’m glad it tells people who suffered sexual abuse, it was not their fault. Nobody deserves to be sexually assaulted/raped or abused. Take care of yourselves everyone and stay safe, don’t be afraid to tell a trusted adult immediately. ❤

I’m so super duper glad that I have an actually nice uncle who isn’t weird. Most situations of sexual abuse in families come from fathers/uncles/etc.

The fact that the uncle was a well dressed man that seems kind and respectful was even more accurate. Sexual assault doesn’t have to be from the crackhead on the street or the obese and hairy 40 year old man who catcalls random teens. It can be from people who you care about and trust and love you and it doesn’t have to be hardcore penetration or ripping your clothes off and pushing you against the wall. It can be as simple as touching you in strange ways or saying/asking weird things from you and you might not know or even somewhat enjoy it until way later when you realize that it wasn’t normal and that you were taken advantage of.

This channel is better than that stupid channel over there which generate stupid story and moral message.

It's never, NEVER the victims fault.

Such videos are very necessary! Thank you for jog!❤️

It’s soo heartbreaking having to scroll down and see others stories of how they got sexually abused. 😭 To all those people, I hope you are doing alright. Remember to stand up for yourself and tell a trusted adult!! 🧡

This is actually a cinematic masterpiece lol

This made me feel better and know I’m not alone. But the sad thing is that I’m not. It isn’t rare for stuff like this to happen

Thanks Emilia I'm Glad we have this talk about skip Sexual abuse

so we gonna ignore the fact that he left the babies alone while he went on a drive with her

The only family member I trust are my parents and siblings

I'm a kid and this is EXACTLY what happened with me with my uncle, im glad this video speaks out about people like this.

This video hit hard. The comments here and the people who has seen, had it happen or has a relative that has it happening to them. It’s awful and I’m so sorry. You deserve way better than that. So do others. Fight Child Abuse and do what this video tells you. Speak to others like the police. Even if it’s a family member do this. It’s NOT ok. Again. I am so sorry that you or someone else is or has gone through this. With family doing this. It’s sickening, vomit came up when I saw him grab her butt. It was disgusted. My dad and dither relatives have never done this. My brother has. It was weird, but my grandpa stopped it. I love you pap if you’re here♥️ Love yourself and care for yourself. Don’t let others control that or do things to you that you aren’t comfortable with. Tell them or someone that it’s happening. And if they don’t care, speak to a friend or someone else you trust. You deserve care and support. Not sexual abuse from a relative, a friend.. anyone.

YES! She took that bracelet off by the time she’s narrating this! Cut free from that creep!

For me it is bullying and sexual abuse. And knowing that my step dad wants to keep the sexual abuse under wraps from the world. So what Happened me and my family went overseas to visit my step dad's family. It was fun, we went to the beach and went to a little carnival there. I was probably around 9 or 12 at the time if my memory serves me right. Some months later my mom and step dad left me at a friend's house. The lady that they left me with was supposed to stay to watch me but she left someplace and left me alone with my step dad's brother. His name is Ali. I was laying with my arms behind my head relaxing by a couch and watched TV. He sat next to me and that's when he started to touch my breasts. He even went as far as to put his hand under my shirt and would squeeze my nipples. I was so scared that I pretended that I was asleep. I felt so sick and shaky during this. After some time he stopped and his brother came to pick me up. I was so scared the whole drive back to my step dad's mom's place which was where me and my family were temporarily staying untill we found another place to stay. I didn't tell anyone what had happened because I felt like I had no rights and that I thought nobody would believe me. The sexual abuse didn't end there unfortunately. He would get in my face and kiss me on the lips. He even did it while I was standing behind my mom while she was on the computer. I wanted so bad to tell her what happened but I couldn't. On the last day when me and my family were at the airport my mom left me sitting next to him and when she was gone he forced me to kiss him. He grabbed my head and did it. When my mom came back from wherever he quickly pushed my head down to make it look like I was resting my head down on his lap. My mom asked if I needed to go to the restroom with her and I said yes. As we were there I told her what happened. She made me kiss her lips the same way he did to me. I felt so sick. We left and went to catch the plane and while we did that she gave him a look and left. My step dad wasn't with us during our second trip so it was only me my mom and two little brothers and that monster abusing me.

My own bio parents sexually abused me for years and I didn't think I was safe anywhere near any of my family members besides my brother and he was abused but not in a sexual way and I thought I could tell my aunt but it turned out she was being sexually abused by my bio dad too (her own brother) but as soon as she found out it was happening to me she found all of us a way out and i'm so grateful for her but sadly my brother and I had been sent to live with foster parents so we couldn't see her anymore but my bio dad went to prison and my bio mom didn't get into any trouble at all so she is still out there somewhere and i'm always so scared she will find me and "make me pay" (she said that as the cops took her away)

I can so relate to this story because my grandfather did this to me when i was only 12 years old.... Its scary but if you feel uncomfortable and are experiencing abuse like thus. Tell someome you trust so it can stop and keep you safe

One of my fears is leaving my child with a babysitter because I don't know much about who they really are.

Some mothers trust their husbands more than their daughter 😢

these vids are so educational and they are catoons very good for kids to watch.

This important message must be spread across the internet. People literally joke about it, but it’s just so terrible. I have no personal experience, but I hope that those who have surpass it and transfer the message on.

my cousin would talk about sex, puberty and sexual things. i would always feel uncomfortable until he would ask me to show him my body. saying its "normal" and no one will know. But everytime he asks me that, I would always tell him no. he keeps asking but I would never accept his request. everyday when we would meet, id pretend everything is fine,but in the inside I feel so uncomfortable around him

They hit the nail on the head here. The way they depict the predators - with friendly, lovable faces is very accurate. You can’t always tell when someone is grooming you, because to you they always start off as a companion.

Dude I’ve always been scared of a family member or anybody doing this to me. I’m so glad I found this video.

0:38 of course, the creepy uncle 💀

Sexual abuse in a family really exist. I was once abused by my brother and I'm still carrying the trauma.

When she started crying I did too, I hate how people in positions of power (pastors, bosses, elder family members, etc.) can take advantage of people and get away with terrible things because they offer good things. Thank you guys for this

I…I have a similar situation with my uncle…this video made me realize that.

Well made and educative, good job!

i told my mom about me being touched inappropriately when i was a kid for years. i don’t remember most of what happened but i had flashbacks and visuals of someone pulling my private area since i was about seven years old. it’s like i could physically feel it happen to me. i felt like no one believed me. my mom told i had to get over it and that it “probably happened in a past life” (yea she actually said that). i’m doing a lot better now and reading these comments made me start crying. no one deserves any type of abuse and to anyone who’s reading this, you’re strong and you matter and you’ll get through this

I wish people would talk about not only the fact that some of us get sexually abused and have to go through therapy for it, but some of us get sexually assaulted and we actually orgasm because physically I guess our body likes it, but mentally we are hating it. My psychiatrist said this actually does happen but for some reason it's just making things even harder for me to move on and I can't even like have a serious relationship because it just messes me up so much. But nobody ever talks about that part of the abuse because I think it adds to the torment later on.

The exact same thing happened with my grandad from the time I was 12-almost 14. I didn’t realize until recent years that the grooming actually started when I was 10 or 11. He was a completely normal grandad my whole life before then, to my knowledge and memory anyway. Her story feels so much like mine, except I didn’t get help nearly as soon as she did. The thoughts, the feelings, the progression, everything. I didn’t realize he was grooming me or abusing me until things got to a certain point that I won’t describe. I thought things were weird but I figured he was just odd and didn’t mean his behavior “that way” until things got to that point. By the time I realized, it felt “too late” to get help. I thought it was my fault to some extent. Then, another family member around my age who he began abusing convinced me to go to some adults about the abuse. I’m a grown & married adult now in my 20s. My grandma stayed with him and has nothing to do with me. My extended family was kinda broken after that, which I feared would happen, but I don’t regret it. I’d do the same thing again.

they need to show these in schools for anyone struggling with this.

Yo who disliked this? A bunch of uncles?

I was sexually abused by my biological father. he and my mom divorced when I was about five or so, but he used to touch me in inappropriate ways and would lock me up in a closet for hours if I ever did something to annoy him. I was only a small child so ofc I didn't know any better, didn't know that was wrong and couldn't ask for help. for all I know, he was like this for much longer and I can't even remember it. I finally broke my silence when I was around 13, not long after one of my best friends took his own life. everything just kind of broke out of me at that time, I ended up in a mental hospital where I was able to be diagnosed with depression and PTSD. I received the help I needed, I know I would've killed myself that day hadn't my school counselor called the police to Baker Act me. now I'm 18 years old, turning 19 this year, an out transman and am about to start college. I'm majoring in psychology to hopefully help others the way I've been helped. I sincerely hope that anyone out there who may be going through anything similar to what I've been through, those who have been hurt by a family member or groomed over the internet (don't trust people on discord, found out the hard way as a kid that love doesn't equal nudes), may be able to find their own peace. just know that help is out there and you are not alone

Great work as always

The “he talked about sex a lot” really fucked with me. There was this guy I was talking to very briefly, for a day to be exact, but it all went too far too fast. I was 13 he was 16. We were in an online game. We started talking because I really liked his voice and he started complimenting me. But it escalated to him randomly sounding….. aroused by random stuff I’d say. He’d say I was “mature for my age” yknow, classic predator stuff. We exchanged discords so we could talk better and we went to play more games together but it kept getting more and more uncomfortable. He starting talking about morning wood and other sexual stuff. He was implying he had very sexual feelings towards me and I thought I felt the same. What I actually liked was the attention. I liked being noticed by someone for once in my life. He made me feel special. But then we finally went to sleep after talking from 11 pm to 7 am and once he woke up we started messaging on discord and then he started to beg for me to reveal my face. I said I didn’t want to a ton of times but then I finally sent him a half picture of my face. He disappeared for about 30 minutes doing god knows what but then he came back and said he would send me pictures of him so I would fully reveal my face. He sent multiple pictures of his face and that’s when all the uncomfortableness fully hit me. He was…… really ugly. I realized none of this was ok or what I wanted. I told him that my mom said I wasn’t allowed to exchange discords with people (which was half true) and blocked him. It took me a while to realize what was happening. I was 13 and he was 16……… I knew that if I saw someone else in the same situation that it would be gross. But I just wanted validation. I was just a lonely kid looking for someone who cared but it didn’t go how I wanted it to. I haven’t told my parents. I was stupid and naive and I blame myself. I feel like deep down I know I’m the victim but even deeper down I still feel like it’s my fault. I don’t know. I’m shaking writing this. This is the most I’ve ever said about that situation.

The worst part being abused is not the abuses itself, but the sense of "betrayal" from those who We Trust and comfort the most. 😔😔

I told my mother and she doesn't take me seriously and gets mad when I'm "too dramatic". Luckily I'm in my twenties, and can take measures myself. It just sucks to feel so invalidated.

When this happened to me, I was around 11 years old. Its crazy how the people who are supposed to protect you and care for you can be the most likely to hurt you. Things will never be the same and it hurts to know that your later experiences in life are tainted by the people who decided to prey on you. No ones deserves to be treated like this and everyone needs to speak up more about things like this or else itll never be fixed. It can be hard, but its better than being stuck in a situation where you're hurting. I know from experience

ohhh ! ITS NOT YOUR FAULT BE STRONG💪💪

My mom was abused by her uncle and she told her mom and her mom didn’t believe her. Now, my uncle sometimes makes me uncomfortable and the way he handles my nieces is off so I told her and she was like nah hes your uncle that’s different 😀😀

I was abused by my own biological father at the age of 12. It took me roughly two years to work up enough courage to tell my mother about the abuse because I didn't know how to express what was happening to me.

I'm glad i found this video...

This might be a bit sick so no one has to read.. When I was around 7 or 8, I was too scared to sleep in my bedroom with my sister. And I didn’t want to sleep with my mum either because she snored so loud. So my only option was to sleep in the double bed with my grandfather. He was 73. At first it was normal and fine. But eventually after everyone would be asleep, he’d tell me to take off my undies. And we’d..do things. Things I didn’t like. But I never said anything to him. He would tell me it’s a special cuddle, and that I could never tell my mum about it, so I didn’t. Once I was about 10 or 11 I figured what he was he was doing. By then, I was sleeping in my own room again. I felt sick and scared. But still, every month we travel up to his house. And still, I haven’t told anyone. And I’m 13 turning 14 now.. I just want to feel safer.