I personally don’t like it

There's literally no point in a bridesmaid having a train! No one is going to be there fluffing out their train perfectly and a bunched up mess isn't cute. Like you want to deal with a bustle when the reception comes around too? Hell no.

I'm a hard no on a train for anyone but the bride

YoungOasis that dress sounds beautiful

Yes I think it's to much

Mackenzie D I did this 😳

Me too. I was like "wtf is you doing?"

"Dont rip it, ohhh nooo! :((((("

The any retail employee

Unclassy and cheap move from her... Those mannequins should be nailed to the base so this situation won't happen again

That's exactly what I was thinking

Hey what are trains?

@@yonder07 well except for the formal definition of the train, the train dress is the long material which is dragged on the floor, the part that make a normal dress a long dress of 118 inch

That's what I was thinking too it annoyed me so much.

@@angelakorodi5795 thanks, i was also wondering what it meant :D

Hopefully that same behavior won’t carry into her sister’s actual marriage.

Do you have a twin? When my twin got into a serious relationship, I struggled hard for quite a long time - because it was like a breakup between us after 28 years. We were a "pair" for all of our life, I was her number 1 and suddenly I wasn't anymore. I can understand the sister. It feels like she wants to rescue a little bit of their bond into the wedding because its a very happy day for a twin but can also be a sad day (when it becomes official that the two of you are not one any more) and it will never be like before any more. Not all twins are like that, but a lot are.

right! why you wanna have a moment in somebody else's moment? If it's such a struggle for you then go to therapyyyyy

Jhalmuriম্যাটার I’m going to assume you don’t have a twin but it is both of their moments but mainly the brides, it is a celebration of 2 things, one getting married, and them leaving each other, like them not being half and half anymore which is a big deal. I have a twin and if you had one you would understand, twins to everything together, like I mean EVERYTHING. Therefore it is just common behavior from the other twin because she will never be the other half of her ever again.

I don't think she's being gross exactly, just wants to feel more part of her sisters big day after all they are two halves of one whole genetically and have lived their entire lives side by side. But as an outside spectator in my opinion, and I'm obviously not them but I can imagine how it would be for a twin, (I had close friends growing up who were twins, but a boy and girl, so only fraternal but they were still close) I would say the sister getting married picks the best possible dress for her sister, something that she could see herself in as a maid of honour to her sister, and they agree that when the roles are reversed, the other will do the same for her... & she should stand out a little bit, it's not unusual for a maid of honour anyway, so I hear And... It's not like she is asking for a replica of the wedding dress !! Now that would be going nuts - imagine that and then compare... mind boggles, right?? Still don't like that dress she chose though I think the bridesmaids and maid of honour should still have similar dresses, something tieing them together, maybe the same fabric (a black like the bride's pick for bridesmaids) and her style is different to the rest; like a one shoulder with a tiny extra bit of skirt at the back, not quite a train... Or, say same colour but different dress... Or is that the same thing... ? Well I'm thinking say, purple, for example, and a totally different dress (to the rest) ((with chiffon, or tulle?? Tulip?? I dunno...)) while they, the others have on a simpler form fitting style, different fabrics altogether, just the colour matched...

I'm with you 100%. It's the bride's day. NO one else.

@@suewiseley2724 the groom?

I totally agree!!

It’s for her sister to decide

Sue Wiseley then why don’t you instruct everyone else to dress in rags

@@BillysFamily same here, twin bro

I mean she is not taking over her sisters spotlight, she just wants to feel special too, it’s going to be their last time together, before separating from each other. I don’t have a twin but I totally understand their emotions.

Girl i am twin and i can tell you i wanna standout on my wedding and she can stand out of braidmaids but not the train

As a twin too, i tend to wear different color /style when going out with twin ..she does the same too ...on a wedding day!!? If i could not attend her wedding , i would do it ..bcuz it is her day and i want her to have it all for once

Totally agree

I was thinking the same thing!

I was thinking the same thing too

And the fact that the CONSULTANT said that. I don’t like her

I actually (as a heavy person) took that comment like that, too. I thought, "how rude"

I went to the comment section after hearing that 😬

Hey I wish I had a twin sisters I do have a sister yes yes we are really close

I think it's that it'snot like a normal brother and sister relationship. There are twins that can speak in unison or finish each other's sentences. For the twin it's basically if your lifelong spouse dumped you for someone else

I don't know man...I have twins and they attempt to fight to the death...same face, but maniacal little brains 😲

@@amorrissey9264 😂😂😂

@@MsJubjubbird as a twin, I definitely agree.

😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

As he should!!!🤣🤣🤣

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Of course 😂

she is a twin, she deserves her own dress ,

@@annam6191 everyone has a twin these days. Special to me is quintuplets and more.

Lol a broach

A broach? What age are you 90?

Damn you really missed the point of the whole of that video, it’s her day to and celebrating separating from her sister a bit

Too sweet and thoughtful, she should have taken more control over HER wedding. She just cared about “having her moment” she said nothing about celebrating separating until her sister said it then she took it and ran with it.

i feel like maybe the twin sister is just scared of like giving her best friend up like they have done everything together and when her sister gets married she’s leaving her twin to go with her husband idk

AMEN & until her sister finally puts her foot down and stands up for herself , it will Never change

The Bride is truly the kind & compassionate one - It was so devastating to see her dominated like this, but it’s was probably always tolerated

Crazy thing is they're not even getting "separated" one's just getting married and the other isn't 💀 the drama is real with these 2

This is what i am searching xD

👏

Right... like you'll get your moment later. Now is not the time

@Cherlock McFly 😂😂😂

@Cherlock McFly 😳

Lmao

Yes! Lol they are sisters and siblings. Almost all siblings are like this 😂

Lol

I bet she don't!

Julia Who said that?

And that's the point. You will no longer share everything. So it will be a spacial day for the not bride twin too.

I get the twin thing, they SHOULD have a 'moment' at the reception, symbolic to the separation of twin, to establish end of the childhood and beginning of wifehood. Or is she going on the honeymoon too?

@@kathimorrical9912 she apart of the honeymoon too. 🤣🤣🤣

@@behappy9591 She'll be in the next room!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@@geraldwarren6438 shoot more like same room and bed. 🤣🤣🤣 He might as well marry them both. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Lol

lololo oof

Who says she hasn't yet?

LMAO OOOOOF

Lol bet not😂

They do "literally everything together" so...

I honestly think Lori looks older with her hair longer, and I think the shorter hair suits her the best. Of course she'll still fabulous either way.

I agree

I said the same thing about the dresses

She does give a more vibrant appearance with this look.

I actually checked the release date to see if this was an old video, because she looks so much younger!

Exactly I don’t get that

Fr like it is the definition of not your day

I like how most of the people who complain ain't a twin and dont who. This And emotional bond

Year later: My twin is pregnant but we twins so im also pregnant 😂

Unless u marrying the same guy love it anit ur day

Wilma Knickersfit My cousin had all the bridesmaids wear the same thing, but they all had bouquets with wedding colors for the ribbons. The maid of honor had a separate color ribbon to set her apart, but she still looked amazing and it all blended together well. This bride could have done something like that

Right my Maid of honor wore a different dress same material.

My twin sister let me wear a knee length dress of the same dress as the other bridesmaids.

I was MOH for a friend in college and to be clear, if I was a generic BM I would have suffered in silence, but since I was going to be beside her in EVERY photo... We all got those Infiniti dresses where you wrap them differently? Super easy and affordable on etsy. Wedding colors were silver and navy, BM dresses were silver. When my dress came in I of course tried it on, and well... I'm really fair skinned. I legitimately looked like I had jaundice, it was horrible. My mother and I tried for about an hour to see if we could wrap it in a way that made my skin look LESS yellow, but there was nothing for it... I looked like a seasick lemon wrapped in tin foil. I sent my bride friend a picture of me in the dress, asking how she felt about me returning it for a navy, since it wouldn't be odd for the MOH to wear the complementary wedding color. She was an art major. Within about 30 seconds of receiving the photo she sent an urgent text to exchange it asap. HUGE relief! Everyone looked great, the other BMs looked like Greek goddesses in the silver, friend looked divine, and the photos focus on her and her husband, not a MOH who looked like she had good poisoning!

True, but she's pushing for it, when the bride wasn't going for it and that's completely out of line.

I actually paused the video so I could laugh out loud when she said that

I've literally, not once in nearly 5 years of working in bridal salons, heard any stylist say "I love working with bridesmaids".

There was one older episode where she said the same thing 🤣 i love her

The attitude though 😂

•Møødy lil kee-wee• IKR

The bride showed her love for her sister, but the sister just showed how selfish she is because if she loved her she would have understood it was her day.

That's what happens when multiples are not encouraged to be individuals.

@@eileenmcdonald1599 that wasn’t my experience. Our parents encouraged us to pursue our very different giftings . Even today, she is rocking it as a stay at home mom in America and I am working with refugees in Africa. We are very far apart, but there is no denying the twin bond. It is real and fierce.

No. This isn't about attention. It's about becoming the number two for someone when you have been number one for your whole life. Since before birth. For some twins it is no problem, but for others, it's hard. And the wedding is the moment when it gets official.

Nria Mond that made me get a pain in my chest and I’m not even a twin

@@nriamond8010 My identical twin sister just got married and you're completely right. It's a bond most people can't understand.

I'm assuming you're a twin, right? If not, step off and take that ugly judgmental personality with you.

@@dawniebug784 lmao youre salty becausr you feel attacked

She look beautiful 😍

Right? Definitely much better! The other haircut ages her quite a bit.

@@Angie-zk4ei exactly

Yup! She just had the classic Karen haircut before. She looks much better now!

That was the only reason why i watched this

I was angry at that point this is your sisters wedding! …but you want to stand out and look special

@@lamonicagoldwire7664FACTS

moa?

@@justatroll5314 yessssss

@@jypsimp1915 hiii goorrrll meee toooo

Dainna Sinclair agreed everything that the 3rd girl wore were good

The white one was beautiful, but what bride would want her bridemaids wearing white?

@@ana-maria8350 I'm pretty sure they have different colors, so it should be fine.

Yah the twin should have taken that as her dress. Not this one.

@@ana-maria8350 my cousin had her bridesmaids wear white and remember Pippa Middleton? May be ivory but still.

Or maybe some sort of pearl necklace

Because that’s not what the bride had in mind...it’s her wedding not her sisters

It was a little matron of honor but I think once they order it in her size it will look more tasteful.

I'm okay with it looking a little different from the bridesmaids', but I didn't like this particular one - at all. Also, unlike the bride's gown, the train on this one doesn't appear to have any way to bustle, so it will be a problem for dancing, etc.

I do too i mean that embellishment on the front is a no go😑😑😑😑😑

Get rid of the cheesy vegas inset & it would be a beautiful dress.

I'm glad it was ugly so people would just look at her and think her dress was ugly instead of thinking its good

the whole point of the dress with diamonds is to show everyone how special she is to the bride and vise versa and also represents how they are always going to reconnected through anything and everything so as long as they are both happy id doesn't matter if she looks trashy or not in my opinion take no offense in what i say please

It goes with her basic attitude

Well she is cheap and she wanna look cheap so there you go

@@nurikokazama8877 Why would you say a rude thing like that, just because you don't have the same taste doesn't mean you have to be rude about it.

She looked good. Stop hating

@@filtill its not. They could happy

Actually it is, too. It's a really beautiful, exciting, magical day for the bride and groom, but a incomprehensibly bittersweet day for this twin who is essentially losing her other half. I say the bride's reaction to her says how close they really are. If the bride sneered at her and rolled her eyes at the thought of her twin trying to feel special then I would agree with you but she didn't. She saw what was really going on underneath and saw what was really important and ultimately showed an extreme amount of love for her. That is why I disagree with you and most of the negative reactions towards the bridesmaid on this thread.

@@dawniebug784 I felt it too, made me teary eye. Her sister is starting a new chapter and they will also start a new chapter together except one will be married and possibly start a family , dynamics will def change.

@@dawniebug784 this is true I’m a twin but with a boy and I now have a son but I still feel like I’m not closer to anyone else but him literally the other half and my son is half of our hearts 😂😂😂

People like you make the best maids of honor, you genuinely care for your friend and want her day to be special.

If your best friend puts you in a sack for her wedding day you need a new friend. Best friends want you to look good on the wedding day, since you'll be representing them. If she puts you in something that makes you purposely look bad means she's insecure.

@@laylanazzal8639 um no it's called it's her day. She should be able to choose what she wants her bridesmaids in. If she finds a dress she wants for her bridesmaids dress ima wear it whether I think it's pretty or not🤷‍♀️

@@laylanazzal8639 you added *purposefully* and sinister-ish motivation to make your argument projecting something 🤔 you might not like it, or think it's making you look good but if anything this show can teach us (whoever didn't know already) it's that we can have very different ideas what _looks good_ on a person means. Brides choosing anything related to her wedding to look bad /and you do realize it's representing them! / just doesn't make sense. Of course, a sack is likely a hyperbole, OP used to make a point. But if you had a person who'd do some funny theme wedding where sack wearing would fit for a best friend - well, you knew who you were friend with, lol. That said, I don't think nobody should voice any complains, ever - for example I have sensory issues and sometimes wear clothes close to skin inside out, itchy turns to unbearably painful very fast. If that wasn't taken into consideration - then you'd be right about reevaluating friendship. So materials ichy, not breathable, or something like that... Bride might not realize such things as she's not trying those dresses, just being respectful and not forgetting who's day it is, is way to go.

@@clxud3dm1nd71 then everyone at the wedding are going to see you and see that it is ugly and laugh at you

Exactly 💯

They can't get one😂 That's why they are this way

Plz this is always my question

@@jadenonnel8528 Right!

I love it!

I'm okay with it looking a little different from the bridesmaids', but I didn't like this particular one - at all. Also, unlike the bride's gown, the train on this one doesn't appear to have any way to bustle, so it will be a problem for dancing, etc.

I'm still a while away from getting married, but I've already decided I don't like satin lmao. I find it too shiny (which looks a bit cheap imo), and the material kind of looks stiff and heavy on dresses like this that have a fairly straight cut skirt.

Brides dress as satin looks good

I like it.

Its a less expensive fabric so it is a more affordable dress for some

Not the one who keep thinking it’s her day instead of the bride day

@@mewmew1026 they look the same.. her attitude was not cute but she really is pretty

They're so adorable 😍😊

Exactly! I'm a twin and I never understood why people said that.

Because other episodes were older this episode was from the newest season

300

I laughed so hard

yes I totally agree, this hairstyle looks so different yet so good on her!

@@saramlinaric1578 😊😊💯✌️

I agree with u👍👍

@@jayakumarsanthanakrishnan9540 😊

Ugg it looks fabulous on her!!!

Girl bye

You obviously didn’t watch the episode.

She's not

Love Button i did and still found her selfish and jealous on her sister.

Sabina Mihutoiu and I think you’re insensitive to their connection and maybe she wish she had someone to marry so that would fill the void of not being her sisters other half anymore. They’ve been each other’s favorite person their whole life. It’s an adjustment. Jealousy is normal feeling and it has levels. If she said I should be the one getting married then that’s envy. There is a difference.

Beautiful sentiment.

Well said!!! We are all human after all x

@@anima6035 Praise God.

@@keepinupwitAbby Hallelujah.

i find it pointless to have a maid of honour if they're just going to be treated the same as the rest of the bridal party.

She could be in a different dress but match the bridal party like different dress same color and with a broach or something like that doesn’t have to out show the bride and make a fuss about it

They do it for pictures mostly, so that all the focus is on the bride and groom. My maid of honor got special jewelry and a bigger boquet than my bridesmaids, but she actually wanted her dress to be the same. I offered to let her choose a fancier one, but she said no, because she didn't want to take any attention away from me. We also got our hair and make-up done by the same person, in a similar style, my bridesmaids decided to do theirs themselves. It made her stand out just enough from the other girls, but the pictures still look very nice. And all the focus was on me and my new hubby.

@@fallinangels congrats to you and your husband 🥳

At my mums wedding her sister, the maid of honor, wore the same dress but the colors were inverted

I agree.

What a load of garbage

It's definitely not unusual in the UK. It just has to be in keeping with the rest of the bridal party. I don't like her choice though, but that doesn't matter.

I’ve seen the made of honor wear I slightly different dress, as well; however, to demand the bride allow it is wrong, twin sister or not.

The Maid of Honor dress is usually slightly different from the bridesmaids.

Finally someone who thinks this

Whatever

I totally agree!

But not that dress

Girl me too!

they have all the seasons of SYTTD on TLCgo! i don’t have cable either lmao but need some dresses to see during this quarantine

Yea she doesn't really seem her spunky sparky self I hope she's ok

But this isn’t fair it’s the bride and groom day not the bride and the twin day

Exactly! Me and my twin understand that we sometimes feel like the same person and will always be close, but we NEVER TRY TO BE THE OTHER PERSON OR OUTSHINE EACH OTHER. Just because we’re twins doesn’t mean everything is shared equally.

For a lot of twins it's not like we're the same person, it just happens that we have a lot of the same interests and aspirations. My twin and I are completely different hobbies wise but we are both going into nursing and we like the same clothing brands. If we end up marrying people she'll have a completely different dress than my bridal party and I will too because she's not on their level and the relationship is so much more than a sister or friend. I completely understand this sister and I highly doubt she was actually acting this way - I feel like they edited the interaction to make her seem way more pushy than she actually was.

I married a twin thank God they never were this dysfunctional. They're guys though, so there's that...

@@mayawu9507 Just because you're a twin doesn't mean you can fully comprehend the type of bond other twins have.

Dawn Bloss I NEVER said that I could, but I understand how being a twin can sometimes be a little irritating to have to share or be expected to share things. Having a twin often comes with the problem of being compared to the other and can sometimes feel like a competition. I simply feel that if the bride wanted HER WEDDING to be a certain way, then the sister had no right to act as if she was the one getting married. Yes every one is allowed to speak their opinion, and feel they way they feel. However there is a certain time, a certain place, and a certain way a person should act. The bridesmaid should’ve spoke with her sister in private if she felt that strongly about it. doing it publicly, especially on the day of picking the dresses on TV with guests, is humiliating. I personally think that the bride was feeling like her sister was trying to outshine, or take part of more than what she was supposed to. There is only one bride, and a bridesmaid, no matter how close the bond whether it be a friend or family member should stay in their place.