I really don't.understand why we/people-usually women- are always apologizing for crying ?!

Im so sorry🖤

Me too 22 weeks, a girl... I can't understand, nor did I know so many women go thru this ...

🖤how are you now?:(

I was in the same situation last year, I dont have a baby yet, praying for one 🥺

So sorry for your loss

The same kind of thing happened to me at 6 months. Back then they didn't do routine ultrasounds and my Dr was clearly an idiot and wouldn't listen to my concerns, saying that I worried too much. Then FINALLY did an ultrasound on a Sunday night when I started bleeding and had gone to ER. I could see there was no heartbeat, but instead of telling me the truth, they said "it's not that kind of ultrasound ". I'm an RN niw, and know full well there is only 1 kind of ultrasound. But at that time I didn't know. They sent me home telling me to stay in bed and everything would be ok. Thinking they were telling us the truth, my husband went to work as usual. I continued to kay in bed as the bleeding just hot worse and worse. Then on Friday a full 5 days later I began to really hemerage, and had a fever of 105, I couldn't reach my husband and the kadt thing I remember was crawling to the phone to call my mother. I came to with my mother and several paramedics and I could hear my husband screaming from the living room to let him in to see me, they refused. Because there was so much blood everywhere. When I reached the hospital the on call Dr told us that the baby had been dead at least 4 werks and had started to come apart. Requiring a D&C, AND the worst part was they couldn't find all the parts and sent my poor husband home to find as much as he could and bring it back to the hospital. He literally had to pick up parts of our baby. And when we found out how we had been lied to by our Dr, we immediately wanted to make him pay. But under the law, HE was protected by an insane law tgat says a Dr can withhold information if he thinks a patient can't handle the truth. (That law has since been modified, to not allow a Dr to withhold information that could be life threatening). The ONLY reason we know it was a son, was because pathology had to "reassemble him" to make certain they got everything. Sometimes I still get angry when I think about it. But it made me a better nurse in the long run, because I believe in honesty and patients rights OVER that of a Dr.

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I understand how hard to manage this feeling. Sending you big hugs and loves.

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Im so sorry🖤

You miss him???? You didn’t even meet him

Noora Queen are you kidding me? What do you mean you never met him? How about she had to birth him still? Jesus if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all. Have a heart.

@@ballerinaaub I've reported the comment. I just can't believe people still think like that. I lost my daughter at 19 w and 4 days

@@nooraqueen2716 you're a bitch! How dare you!!!! Disgusting person!!

Omg same thing just happened to me . I cant understand why they can't give us a full explanation as to why this happens ...

@@Curljunkie1 because they’re not doctors so they can’t tell us that news, some techs do, but not supposed to..

Please I'm going through this in a few hours how was the pain

Emily Williams I am so sorry to hear that you are experiencing this same loss. My heart aches for you. I think that you have chosen a beautiful way to honor your sweet boy 💙.

Emily Williams god is holding your baby in his arms. Your baby is with god.

Thank you both. Its been pretty rough but things are coming together a lit better than I thought they would. Thank you for your kind words.

He was born on my birthday sadly. My live and deepest condolences to you. Mom had 3 stillborn boys before I came along and I'm now the oldest. If they'd have lived I probably would have been the youngest and only girl. Now she had 4 girls who survived. I can only imagine what either you or mom had felt. May God comfort you. I pray you had a beautiful wedding. 🌹🏵💐🌸🌸💐🏵🌹

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It was a boy not a girl. Did you watch her video?

Help please....how painful was it currently going through this in a few hours

Sorry for your loss! lost my little Jennyfer at 22 weeks was hard 😢😢

So sorry.... i delivered 3 days ago at 18 weeks.... horrible experience to live through, hugs

Thank you so much for sharing

Olivia Cheyenne so happy for you! Prayers for a healthy baby!

My dr is exactly that , lazy and was very negligent. Considers himself a " cool hip dr " . We'll see if hes still trying to crack jokes and fist pumping in court. Just lost my daughter at 17 wks 5 days November 6th 2019 after telling him over , and over how I was bleeding heavy throughout my pregnancy suggested that I needed bed rest only but never insisted for me to see a specialist or to consider me high risk. To find out my pregnancy was created with an infection that I already had before conception that finally made my water brake soo early

jennie Gutierrez I’m so sorry love I know how you feel careless drs and they think they can get away with it go the whole way you can to get justice for you and your beautiful baby I wish u nothing but the best and send u my love xo 😘

@@LC-dy1js Thank youu, really means alot 🙏👼💕

🥺 faced similar situation last year Did you get any answers why this happened?

Depending on the age of the baby they will treat the body as medical waste and throw it out. That’s miscarriages. Same as elective abortion, the child’s body is just trash 😢 But stillbirth counts as a human person with legal rights, including cremation or burial. I personally tried to stay out of the hospital for my losses because I didn’t want my babies tossed aside like garbage. The one I had in hospital I begged for the body but they wouldn’t let me have it. I would rather bury them at home then throw them away.

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Carol Holmes I’m so sorry for your lost.. may I ask you, do you feel the symptoms before it happens?

@@borntobestrong9196 My sister lost her twins in week 21/22. Her belly got hard a few houres before the birth began& it stayed hard. Then she got a huge pain in her belly& contractions. the autopsy said the babys were allright.... she had an infection. :"(

Meow Meow oh I’m so sorry to hear that.. hope she is ok.. thank you for reply..

@@borntobestrong9196 it happend almost 5 years ago. shes a Psychotherpist for children& teens, so she wasnt able to wprk fpr a long time. it was hurting too much to work with them. now she has twins ?(1.5 years old)& a boy (3). Shes doing fine now... but the first year was hell. Are you pregnant? I wish you the best❤

Why do you keep going to miscarriage videos and posting this?

When a fetus is in distress, the heart rate is the last thing to go. It would do nothing but cause worry and stress

The person that posted this is a complete psychopath. Who in there right mind would post this?

How would that help? Idiot!

Our baby passed away over night at 32 weeks and 4 days. We went to bed with movement and woke up the next morning to go to a routine appointment where she was found without a heartbeat. There is nothing we could have done, and a Doppler wouldn't have alerted us to a problem. ALSO, no mother who has lost a child needs more guilt cultivated by your judgement. You are a very unkind person.

Kathryn Drury I’m very interested. Go away.

Dude why so negative dont even click on her video if your not interested is your life that horrible that you got to bring someone down even more than they are get a life and get right with God cause this is nothing he would approve of

Here we go again..... Another idiot who watches videos they aren’t interested in just to leave a negative comment. Karen, sorry I mean Kathryn.... There is a special place in hell for your sorry ass! You make me sick and if I could get my hands on you I’d make your trip to hell faster for ya! F outta here!

Kathryn you really suck as a person in general bye

Your a evil person

I am so sorry that you have had to feel this pain too. My heart is with you. ❤️