Secrets of Strong, Lasting Relationships

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4 ай бұрын

Is a good, strong, long-lasting marriage or relationship a shared fantasy?
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@jeannfav2921 4 ай бұрын

Professor Vaknin, I just had my husband listen to this video. It prompted a productive conversation afterwards. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!❤

@mfrance3834 4 ай бұрын

Love your videos. And your “evil laugh” kills me!

@Gheir-xe4mv 4 ай бұрын

I agree, a consistent intentional sexual relationship is very underrated for long term marriage success. By intentional i mean making it your goal to please your partner and constantly switch things up and be thoughtful and attentive. I try to be intimate daily, unless for some reason im feeling off. I like to think of it as a spiritual kind of practice as well, tantric Buddhism like. Married 9 years 2 kids.

@kayb947 4 ай бұрын

Relationships have changed. If you hit bumpy ground, a replacement is just an app away. If you're meeting someone new now for coffee just bring your Relationship C.V. saves loads of time.

@GrgAProduction 4 ай бұрын

So you are the only person in the world that doesn’t use it? 😂

@co5mo 4 ай бұрын

yay more healthy people content 😊

@talktometzger 4 ай бұрын

Excellent and much needed in our decaying culture. Thank you Sam.

@MaybrittHollstein 4 ай бұрын

Fantastic video - and so true everything you mentioned🍀lets work for more of these relationships in the world by educating ourselves 💪

@Kamau2012 4 ай бұрын

Dr Vaknin your summaries of relationship and marriage dynamics are great.

@alexpeppa1750 4 ай бұрын

An excellent life lesson. Thank you, once again, dear prof. Vaknin.

@l8fee. 4 ай бұрын

A great movie that highlights the rescue-type diode is Wong Kar Wai's In The Mood For Love.

@englishwithsanjuktadas 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! It is very helpful.

@viktordanilov4277 4 ай бұрын

Thank you VERY MUCH!!!

@carolconstantino1638 4 ай бұрын

The thumbnail is so cute.

@mandinamilosevic 4 ай бұрын

Thank you very much

@semperdecorus37 3 ай бұрын

You are the best ❤

@IrmaRoma68 4 ай бұрын

It sounds like way too much work for me personally. Plus most people are underdeveloped emotionally so I think being single brings me the most satisfaction

@enricomiceli8704 4 ай бұрын

Yes yes and also yes

@jamesmccaul2945 4 ай бұрын

In other words “I give up because I’m scared”.

@wi3771 4 ай бұрын

Sad, poor work ethic girl, aren't YOU worth it?!

@LiveAGoodLife-Athena 4 ай бұрын

@@jamesmccaul2945she’s choosing what gives her satisfaction. Plenty of absolutely shitty relationships out there, founded on lies and dysfunction. People cling on to dissatisfaction, afraid to be alone. I’m sure she’d change her mind if someone very worthwhile came along … she’s not desperate, basically.

@getreal9400 4 ай бұрын

Yeah who wants to have a purpose in life besides themselves 😂