Q2. When you are young, you still have options. You can choose to work it out or to let go. The sooner the better.

Question 2: Don’t waste anymore time with each other while you’re still young. You 2 obviously don’t share the same religious. And time will not change her mind.

Questions 2 ..she will never change.

Q2: time for a NEW wife 😬! Better to move on early with only one kids than after many kids and old. She’s not going to change. But it’s your life.

Question 2… regardless of religion, family support is important. I am a Christian and my parents are shamanism. I still go help and support them. I just don’t do the religious stuff but I can help prep and cook. It’s better to leave. She is not even trying so she will never support you. When she gets older, it will be worst.

lol! the wrong house story is hilarious. especially when you smelled their baby, too! It wasn't your fault, but what a great story to share. lol

Omg 😅🤣🤣🤣😅 the Mexican story is hilarious!!!!

Baby shower😂 they think you mean baby take bath.

Q2. Sab laj rau koj niam koj txiv seb puas tsim nyog coj mus rau neej tsa hais, tsis li ces hais zoo2 ces nyias mus nyias xwb

Last story: Don't feel stupid, it was your idiot friend who gave you the wrong address. Just think of it as a funny story to tell as a cautionary tale about being careful when giving an address out to others. The funniest part was the confusion over the phrase "baby shower"----you were talking about the party while the Mexican lady was talking about having washed her baby.😂

Q1: If you still have young children, set up college funds for all of them so that they are taken care of. Maybe your late wife's spirit doesn't want you to remarry only for the second wife to waste the hard earned money your late wife helped accumulate. Maybe she wants her children taken cared of before you take care of your needs. Once this is done, she might finally move on and leave you to your life with another woman. Q2: Your wife, then girlfriend, promised she would adapt to what your family does once she's married to you. It sounds like she cannot AND will not keep that promise. Do you really want to have as a life partner someone who cannot keep their promises (especially important ones)?! I don't think she will ever change since she's not even trying now. If you can live with that and the issues that result from it, then stay married. If you cannot deal with the complications over this issue, then it's best to go your separate ways before too many children are involved. If you choose this path, just make sure you fight for 50/50 custody at least so you don't get stuck with child support.

Hmong church will never change let her go

Ruam tiag hahah mus rau Mev tsev es zaum 30 tawm nas this los tseem tsis paub 🤣🤣🤣 Solly, wrong house nkwv npais hahahhahaha...

Q1. Sib hlub npaum koj hais ko ces tsis tas mus nrhiav tus tshiab li os kwv tij, yuav kom pab tau koj yuav tau nrhiav ib tug txiv neeb kom nrog tau koj tus poj niam tham es muab nws xa mus rau pem ntuj mas koj thiaj yuav dim, tsis li ces kawg nyob li ko xwb

Q1: Why is it so hard for a widower to find love but it’s hard, if you really love the decease wife or husband, they won’t want you to move on! It maybe the problem of moving on Q2: My sister in law goes to church but she’s just lucky that my parents don’t do nothing but my brother don’t even take her around me & the brothers!! There’s some girls who they have people so they rather be with their family but if I was her I wouldn’t hesitate & your family hasn’t done nothing; why would but the question is why is she refusing to go!! I don’t think she ever will go hang out with your family!! But, if it was me; I wouldn’t go near his family & friends if I was a joke! Or don’t ever play games on me, EVER!! 😢❤😮

Q1: In life, its about helping others so later on others will help you. Yes, i do feel like Hmong people have too much gathering. But you dont have to attend every one of them. Atleast attend 1-2 events every month. I would have her family talk with her. If she continues to do that, best to let go now as ya still young. If she cant even attend to your family events to help but she attends to her family, it says a lot about her. Talk it out and divide things evenly with both agreeing and still communicate to do best for the kids. You both dont have to be together to still do best for the kids. I hope you figure it out.

#02 - to the husband/wife with two different religion beliefs. At this time, if your wife already doesnt want to show up when your parents so shaman things because its "too weird"/unfamiliar and she doesnt feel comfortable. She may never change. Its always hard when you two have two different views/beliefs. Yes, it makes you sad that she doesnt want to be involved.. if you two feel its not too early to let go, then let go. Or if you two love each other enough to not use your religions/beliefs with each other, you both may overcome this struddle. Best wishes! There are many married people in this situation. You are not the only one.

Q2: You and your wife should work things out. I'm sure you both love each other very much. You both are still young and still have more to learn from one other. Honestly, if you already have a safe household and love each others nothing really matters.

Q2: mixed religion relationships are hard and won't last unless you both work it out!

For the guy that your wife pass away and still control u I believed that it's true. Cause my mother pass for 1 year and 5 month now it happen the same for my dad too. So it depends on what ya promises each other be4 she passed.

Q2: yog koj tus poj niam hlub koj tiag. Nws yeej yuav txhawb koj lub zog thiab lub neej. Tej tug mam vim nws tub nkeeg heev es tsis xav mus pab. Tej tug mam vim nws tsis nyiam koj tsev neeg los sis kev ua noj ua haus. Yog ua tau, nrog nws tham txog koj txoj kev ntshaw thiab seb neb puas yuav sis tau taub. Yog tsis tsis tau taub lawm ces tsis txhob nkim yus lub neej.

2nd question: You should communicate this with your wife. And let her know how her not willing to go affects you. See if she is willing to make the change and accommodate before suddenly asking for a divorce. Sometimes she might just think you don’t mind. You should express to her how you feel and see if she is willing to change first.

Q2: The church wife. Brother, the sooner letting go the better. People like that will never change. The older you get the worst it will gets and more problems down the road and will be harder to deal with. No ifs and buts about it. 1st, she lied to you. 2nd no respect to you and your family clan. Your future will not be cleared, brighten, flowered and blossomed as you wish. There will always be regrets in your life. They are lots of better women out there. Have to filter out bad seeds and only keep good one. Peace!

Q1 pass half of your money to your kids and ask her to let you go again lol

Q2: As a man of old culture, I'll sit down and talk to her and hopefully she understands, but if she continues with her behavior, I'll open the door wide open. People will never change.

Ua siab ntev o. Tsis txhob muab kev Cai hmoob lo yog kev Cai ntsheeg lo cuam tshuam rau neb txoj kev sib hlub.

Q1. You need spiritual help. Whatever you believe seek help.

Question 2: don’t immediately jump to divorce. Have you talk to your wife yet? Ask if she can change.

Ohyo kv mam muab ov ib zaj rau mab hais nawj

2nd question, when two people have that big of differences in religion between you both its a big problem. Especially when neither is willing to give. Remember marriage is base on two soul merging together to build a life together. Ask yourself if you can live your life in isolation from your families and relatives. Are you willing to adhered to your wifes beliefs. Given i don't know if she is an active church goer and deeply rooted in the church.

Q1: Your wife is keeping eyes on you to make sure you don’t fall for a gold digger. When you fall for the wrong g person and use you until you go dry then dump you. (Quaj tsis los muag). I’m sure when the right person comes along, not for your money but to love and take care of you, she leave you alone. But as long as you’re being careless, your wife will not leave you. She worked hard to earn $$$$$, and make sure you’re in good hand when she’s not here to take care of you. So, brother, choose well. Q2: It’s not that she doesn’t like your family, it’s because she a lazy person. It’s time for a new wife.

Q2: Txoj kev nyias muaj nyias kev ntseeg yog ib txoj kev nyuaj lwj siab kawg li yog tias tseem sib hlub ces sib uv sib kho hos yog tsis sib hlub lawm es koj coj dab nws mus church ces sib nrauj nyias mus nyias zoo dua. Cov neeg mus ntseeg vaj tswv lawm ces lawv tsis yuav neeg hais. Lawv yuav lawv siab xwb. Kuv paub ib thaub nws mus church nws poj niam me nyuam tsis kam mus church. Tag nrho nws pab kwv tij tsev neeg tsis mus church nws ib leeg mus xwb niam no kwv tij muaj noj lawv tsis hu nws li....muaj dabtsi lawv tsis quav ntseg qhia nws. Txoj kev mus church es pab pawg tsis mus ces zoo li no. Muaj 3 txoj kev rau koj....1: koj ua li nws es neb mus church. 2. Nws ua li koj...nrog koj coj dab 3. Sib kho tsis tau ces nrauj ma nrhiav dua tus tshiab.

Q2: Before you even consider divorce, please understand that coming from a Christian family marrying into a family that practices shamanism is a big change for your wife. A lot of things are different than what she is used to that is why she feels uncomfortable and would rather stay at home even if it is your immediate family’s functions. I was once in her shoes and honestly it’s just not knowing what is going on and what is being done at those functions that makes it so uncomfortable. Definitely sit down and have a conversation so you both understand each other. She will definitely have to step out of her comfort zone; that’s the first step and the hardest but the rest will fall in place. Best of luck to you both.

Question 2: if you really love your wife then just stay in the marriage and forget your family members, your wife is your life, don’t force your wife to do things she is not comfortable doing. Focus on your wife and your own family.

Q:2. Bye bye fast and start a new life with a new wife who believes in the same religion.

Question 1: give all your money to your kids now and you will be free from your dead wife. Give all your money away to your kids and start with zero money when you date and you will be free from the dead to live a better life. Put your cars and homes and business in your children’s name too. Transfer everything to your children’s names. This will set you free. Your wife will leave you alone.

Q1 koj poj niam caj ceg muaj dab xwb. Q2 yus yuav tsum paub yys yog leej twg. Nyuj yuav nrog nyuj nyob nee nrog nee nyob xwb thiaj haum.

Q2 Tus pojdab coj li koj tus ko ces yuav tau muab nws tso plig es nyias mus nyias os nawb. Kev ua niam txiv yog tsis nyob sibhaum ces laj nyob laus es twb tsis muaj txoj kev hlub kajsiab li. Koj yuav tau muab tus pojdab ko tso mus os nawb.

Q1: There are 2 reason why...its cuz maybe you didn't love her when she was still alive es nws thiaj tsim koj thawm koj mus ua zoo rau luag mus hlub luag. Tej zaum thawm nws nyob koj tsis hlub koj tau tsim nws lub siab nws tuag nws thiaj li los ua li rau koj. Reason #2 tej zaum neb sib sib hlub es nws thiaj li tsis pub koj mus tham hluas nkauj.

Q2: koj poj niam tsis yog cov lawb dab, nws yog cov lawb neej. If you have a big family it’s not good for you. Time to lay down the line for her to change or you change.

#2 Kuv ntseeg tias xyov koj tus poj niam puas muaj hnub los nrog koj Nws yeej yuav rov mus church thaum nws laus zog tsis yog nws tab sis koj los yuav tau mus thiab. Kuv tus niam ntxawm mas nws yeej tsis kam los ua kev cia li. Thaum kawg ces nws tus txiv cia li mus church lawm thiab. Koj xav tias koj yeej tsis nyiam mus church ces kawg ua lub good bye xwb.

Q2: I don't think religion is the issue. I am a Christian who married a shaman family. And I accepted their tradition. Your wife probably just don't want to do anything with your side of the family. She don't even want to go to the store with you. I like to go wherever my husband goes.

Question 2 koj poj niam xav yuav koj xwb tsis xav yuav koj tsev neeg nrog nws tham muab choice rau nws yog tuav koj ces yuav niam txiv kwv tij tib si tsis li ces koj tuav mus nrhiav dua tus tshiab ntag no hos... seb nws xaiv qhov twg xwb mas

nej cov muam tuaj 6 lub teb chaw lom zem no es nej lom22 zem heev zoo nkj zoo nraug ta li xwb yom

Q2- what every one is saying is right, also she doesn’t love you enough or as much as she thought she did.

Q1: Go to church, ur dead wife doesnt want u to date/marry anyone. Q2: If u have to ask here, u r not ready to let her go. If her priority is not aligned with urs, u need to elavuate ur life & go from there. She's not going to change.

2nd question, brother, it's not like you or your wife didn't know about your religious preferences before you chose to marry. She told you she was willing to compromise. You've only married a couple of years, and she's already acting out and isolating herself from your beliefs and families. Either you sit down and have a deep heart to heart discussion with her and rethink your marriage. It you can not meet in the middle and she's unwilling to hold to her compromising, then it would be best to divorce and separate ways. You need to ask yourself if religion is really important in your life. Doesn't sound like she even attends church either.

Cas tus pog mev yuav ua tau tas lauv ua luaj li thiab. Kuv nim luag luag neb ob niag poj hmoob thiab poj mev ko ua tau sib phim kawg tiag.

Brother koj thiab koj tus poj niam neb khwv li cas neb yuav muaj nyiaj ua luaj li nas

Teb question #2 A jingle bell marry to a Christian or a Christian marry to a jingle bell yeej los yoog tsi tau ua kev..at least 30% thiaj sib yoog tau xwb. Believe it or not, but yeej yog tiag. So to begin txhob sib yuav sib tham at the 1st place xwb..

Mua Vaj Tsus os!

Story 1 - Tus tuag lawm tsis paub los yog tsis txawj tswj tsav tus tseem ua neej nyob, tab sis tus tswj tsav koj yog koj txoj kev ntseeg nkaus xwb. Story 2 - Tsuas muaj tus vauv coj kev cai tshiab thiaj tseem yoog tau niam tais yawm txiv coj kev cai qub. Tus nyab coj kev cai tshiab tsis lam yeem yoog niam pog txiv yawg coj kev cai qub ib zaug. Nov apply rau txhua pawg kwv tij Hmoob. Tsis yog cai rau ib tug twg nrog neb sib txiav txim rau txoj kev nej sib yuav los yog sib nrauj.

Hello Brother. Answer to question #2. My husband's family is shaman, and my family is Christian, so I understand exactly how you felt. I have the same issue, my husband promises he will accept my religion so I accepted his. I attended all his shaman events and funeral, but after a few years, I realized he lied to me and never once showed any support to my events, so I stop attending his family events. My husband said the same things you say too, that it's all my fault that I hate his family. I have to explain to him that I give back the respect and support that i received from him which is none. My advice is before you blame her, check to see if you are also supportive of her. You don't have to like everything they do but do you attend her events and get to know her people. I don't understand a lot of things my husband family does, but I go because I love him and his family. If theres things I can't or can't do or eat, theres no need to complain. Be there and show up. We all love food anyway. Knowing this we both compromise and make it work. It's not about the religion but the love between the two of you.

Q1-ua neeb cais. Q2-nws twb lawv dab lawm ces muab nws lawv qhua nrog. "Lawv dab, lawv qhua" and keep your family.

?2. You are a college graduate and you still say “koj los yuav kuv” that means you’re not well educated. Well educated people say “wb los sib yuav” and focus on your own family first then others people last. The people ua noj every weekend are the uneducated and unsuccessful people, they never get out of that circle in their whole life. If you love your wife then focus more on her. Lady first and happy wife happy life is the key in life.

Q2: neb ob leeg tso neb ob txoj kev ntseeg pov tseg ces neb kawg rov sib hlub xwb tiag vim yog neb txoj kev ntseeg cais neb. Neb xum yuav kev ntseeg los xum yuav kev hlub ? Kuv yog tibneeg atheist kuv nyob kaj siab lug tsis muaj teebmeem txog dabtsi li as

Question #1 cov neeg uas tuag lawm es pheej los khoos los ua mob ua nkeeg li koj kom nws Cia li sawv kom ciaj ciaj rov los nrog koj nyob no nawb. Neeg ruam tuag los tseem lim hiam

Question 1 koj yuav tau ua neeb quas.. ua neeb tuas tsis tau ces nus lawv dab xwb muaj 2 txoj kev no rau koj lawm xwb os...

Tus poj niam zoo li koj ces tso thaum ntxov es tsis tau muaj me nyuam mas zoo dua

Es nws twb nrog koj khwv khwv muaj nyiaj ces nws tsis puab koj nqa neb tej nyiaj mus siv rau lwm tus xwb mas mi tub aw...

Question two: have you ever sat your wife down and tell her how you feel? let her know that she needs to be involved in your family as much as she would like you involved in her family tell her that unless she changed you don’t see a long-term marriage.

Q1 Koj tuaj khav koj nyiaj teb xas es thiaj muaj nyiaj txog lab million xwb sav. Qhov koj pojniam tau ncaim lawm es los tsim koj ces nws paub koj yuav npaj mus tim nplog cuag nkauj mos ab es nyob zoo zoo tsam ces nws muab koj zawm caj pas pais kaws laws os nawb. hahaha

Question #1. Uag koj thiab koj tus poj niam neb ua hauj lwm los ua hom lag luag dabtsi es neb nim nplua nuj muaj txog lab nyiaj xwb os

The guy with a wife that dot love his family. Divorce!

Q1: stopped trying to date bc your dead wife still loves you from the dead too much. Q2: Means she’s only lying to you so u married her. Give her an ultimatum now while you’re still young otherwise you’ll be her buffalo for life. Did she married you or you married her? Sounds like she married/ pay dowery for you since you’re still asking this ?

Question #1 if your wife kept doing that to you than you should go to her grave tell her that she have to wake up be human be your wife again.

Q2: you shouldn't think like that - it feels like you're making a martial decision because of face/reputation. I can't believe the people in the comments too. This man have kids and no mom or dad out there will love them the same and you guys think he should look for a new wife? Separate the kids home? Break the kids hearts? Shame on ya! For the man who ask this question, as long as your wife is going to your immediate family then thats good enough. If shes not, you need to wear your husband pants and talk with her. You need to guide her to transitioning to the family. You cant say it and expect it! You need to do your role too. Also maybe other women in the family make her uncomfortable and she doesn't want to worry you and skip out for a reason. I say this because im a woman, and 99% of these events, there's always that one woman or group that wants to dominated and shame others. You as a husband need to be more realistic and do whats best for your little family.

Txoj 1 A) Yog koj tseem xav mus yuav ib tug poj niam los pib lub neej ces kawg ua neeb quas xwb. B) mus kev cai tshiab kuj pab kawg thiab mas. Txoj 2 Tus poj niam nyiam mus tshawj ces yeej tsis haum nrog koj tsev neeg, qhov zoo ces koj nrog nws mus tshawj kiag xwb.🤣🤣🤣 tsis li ntawv ces kawg nrhiav dua tus tshiab xwb.🥰🥰🥰